#like if a qpr breaks up then thats it theyve broken up
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its so funny what my standards for relationships are cause id call devotions secret third things but not qprs while id call swagdoons qprs but not secret third things but id call gildeds as both
#mine.txt#these are the default ways i view their relationships and i may switch it up whenever i feel like it#but yeah like. ik qprs are meant to be vague and moldable but thats exactly why i think secret third thing is its own definition#its more like. devotion so intense that the relationship status doesnt matter i suppose??#which i suppose would be qpr to other ppl which is fair#but to me despite the vagueness i do think the relationship status of qprs is important#like if a qpr breaks up then thats it theyve broken up#meanwhile for secret third things it really doesnt matter even the slightest bit#they can love each other; hate each other; have nothing to do with each other; whatever it is they are for the day#but theyll never stop being devoted to one another in some way shape or form#the only way for secret third things to break up is if they stopped being devoted to each other in that unconditional way#regardless of their relationship status#theres a thin line between secret third things and just straight up obsession#and things could very easily become unhealthy#but goddamn when its done well does it go so hard#the main difference between obsession (the relationship not the feeling) and secret third things i think is the sense of mutual respect#which is important in any relationship but is especially important for lining the sand between obsession and secret third things#at least to me#again this is my definition and others may feel that this can apply to qprs still lol
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