#like does that not extend to trans people!!!!!!!!

[rh1ncodontypus]

Actually, I'm still going.

TL;DR

Two days is nothing in real life time.

Content creators are human. We should treat them as such.

Equating morality to the content people consume is not a "one-size-fits-all" strategy.

This is in no way equivalent to what happened with Iskall.

Do I agree with Skizz having mods that support MAGA? No, not at all. I think he deserves the benefit of the doubt, at the very least.

Two days is nothing in real life time.

I think people are jumping the gun with the current information we have. I think Skizz hasn't had the chance to really do anything yet. Hell, I don't think ANY of the Hermits have had the chance to do anything yet, let alone think. I feel like we've been spoiled with in-real time updates. I don't think it's fair to expect Skizz, or anyone for that matter, to reply or act right this second or else.

Content creators are human. We should treat them as such.

TL;DR: This man has just bumped headfirst into the Paradox of Tolerance. Give him a second.

Generally the definition of tolerance has been maintaining a neutral opinion. This was especially the case with Gen X/Millennials. We have different opinions and we work together anyway. I probably don't have to inform you that's much harder to do in the present, if I'm putting it lightly.

I don't think Skizz is transphobic. I don't think he looked at his mods and decided to hire two of them because they're MAGA. Don't get me wrong; I am not defending having mods that are MAGA. I think that five years ago, he needed people to moderate his chat and he thought those mods did fine. This circles back to the definition of tolerance.

Right now, Skizz is facing the paradox of tolerance. It's up to him what he does with it. And honestly, this might be the first time he's having to think about this. He's a white cis man, which means he occupies a position of incredible privilege (that is not a moral judgment).

And you know what? Trans rights are divisive and the fact they're divisive sucks. I'm saying this as a trans person. You post something about trans rights and you have people fighting on your post in 0.2 seconds with increasing levels of hostility. I don't blame anyone for not knowing how to deal with that on livestream, or wanting to maintain neutrality, as much as it disappoints me.

In the wider scheme of things, Skizz is new to being a full-time content creator. He's probably never dealt with a situation like this before.

I feel like people were quick to assume malice or hostility. So I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt and I hope other people are, too. I also don't think this is the cardinal sin that some people are treating it as.

Equating morality to the content people consume is not a "one-size-fits-all" strategy.

I'm already seeing posts encouraging people to boycott his content and heavily implying that someone is a bad person if they don't. You've probably heard of the situation with J.K. Rowling. The reason people are calling for a complete boycott is because any support or money actively enables her transphobic actions and platform.

Separating content from content creator is complicated. I acknowledge that. But applying the morality = content consumption runs the danger of turning into "I am a good person because I only consume pure content™ and this person is bad because they consume the bad content." I don't think that's the way we should be judging people.

This is in no way equivalent to what happened with Iskall.

If this situation is a 10, then what happened with Iskall is a 120. Iskall's situation had tangible victims and was happening over an extended period of time.

Do I agree with Skizz having mods that support MAGA? No, not at all. I think he deserves the benefit of the doubt, at the very least.

[adiodont]

salmon egg prototype

(the first lines are lines from catadromously‘s salmon comic)

[skrunksthatwunk]

if you're reading this ask yourself whether you would accept a genderfluid or multigender person's lesbian identity. now consider whether or not you would accept a trans man's lesbian identity. now consider whether you would accept a cis man's lesbian identity.

because i think there are many people who would accept the first, but not the second two, and others who would accept the first two, but not the last one. but from where i'm standing, these are all inseparable questions.

the acceptance for multigender, genderfluid, and other similar gender-ID lesbians as valid forms of lesbians is often subtextually qualified by the fact that they are not only men. so men are allowed within lesbian spaces, but only if they are a) only men sometimes or b) not exclusively men. but i think this goes back to the idea that lesbians are "non-men who love non-men," an idea that assumes a mutual exclusivity between men and other genders, as well as men and lesbians/lesbianism. this is a concept of sapphicism that excludes many people, myself included.

i have seen people present the idea of trans men and lesbians having a historic connection and community/experiential overlap, and thus the idea of a trans man who is also a lesbian often sits within that historical (i.e. bygone) context, as well as that shared experience. i think two things happen here. first, there is a belief that this is an old phenomenon, one that no longer occurs due to the greater number of more highly proliferated labels. the thought is that this overlap would not have occured if they'd had the proper language available—that people would slot into their boxes neatly, essentially. this is not true, as evidenced by the modern existence of trans men who are/were/once ID'd as lesbians, and lesbians who are/were/once ID'd as trans men. the second is the idea that that confusion or overlap essentially gives them a pass to call themselves lesbians, due to attachment to the title; or the suggestion that a shared experience gives them the right, even as men, to identify as lesbians anyway, a right that is not extended to cis men. but i ask what that shared experience might be, and whether that should be the qualification? is it a queer afab upbringing? that could mean a lot of things. aroace women would also have such an upbringing, and many of them would not view themselves as lesbians. there are plenty of lesbians who are not afab as well, and do not have whatever externally-perceived girlhood is imagined within that. plenty of trans men (and other afab trans people) do not view themselves as having ever been little girls, and plenty of trans women (and other non-afab trans people) view themselves as having been, at some point, boys. there are many others still whose "shared experience" will not be so neatly defined. intersex people of all genders often have very different experiences with perceived and experienced sex and gender, particularly if their puberty is blatantly not typical girl-puberty or boy-puberty. even things like racial or class dynamics could skew that experience, of who is allowed to be a girl (i.e. black women in america being barred from the social roles of "woman" because the concept is associated with/necessitates whiteness), or similar questions. my point is that, while perhaps a stronger link, shared experience is an undefinable and non-comprehensive concept here, as with, frankly, most/all gender/sexuality concepts. any box will lead to exclusion; every rule has exceptions.

this leads me to the third concept. though it may be hard for some to imagine a cis man who is also (genuinely, unironically) a lesbian, i think it is safe to assume that at least one exists, and likely many more. (in discussions of gender/sexuality theory, i think it is best practice to assume that is the case.) my challenge to you, especially if you said yes to the prior two and no to this one, is to consider what makes a cis man different from these prior examples. if you believe that some men may be allowed into lesbianism, why not cis men? what makes them different? why should men need additional genders to be lesbians? why should they need to have the community-approved gender path/understanding to be lesbians? who dictates the life or experience that allows one to be a lesbian, and is it anyone's right to decide that?

i just think it's good to ask yourself these things. i am very happy to see an increase in acceptance of the first two categories of lesbians on here, but i think (and i say this with love) that a lot of these people don't really consider why they are accepted, and whether those rules apply to other groups. they begin to accept others, but don't question the broader framework. it's just a suggestion. as a genderfluid + multigender lesbian myself, i have to confront the "no boys allowed/men dni" stuff a lot, and i think the ways i'm affected by it and my experience trying to encourage the letting go of such sentiments has given me some perspective on the issue. and although im not cis anything, much less a cis man, i guess i wanted to like,, prompt some reflection in people? because i think there's a lot of well-meaning and genuinely very progressive people who may think "you're a lesbian if you say you are" but don't apply that to situations where they're confronted with a type of lesbian they don't understand/that doesn't fit their definitions. like if self-id is what matters then anyone could be a lesbian. my point is that that's true, and that's okay. you don't need to keep anyone out. lesbianism is in your heart, basically.

[pagesofkenna]

wish there was some way i could just hold a press conference and everyone in the world who might want to know my pronouns someday could attend, and ask all their question, and i could explain it once to everyone at one time

the problem isn't that people are constantly asking me questions; the problem is i'm too nervous to talk about myself ever so i never even tell anyone my pronouns unless they specifically ask, which everyone's too polite or nervous themselves to do, and i get really well-meaning people trying to remember to call me 'them' on days i really wouldn't mind hearing a 'she'

[catboybiologist]

half baked morning rant

I do want to make it clear that the reason I talk about HRT and its biological effects so much is not because HRT or medicalization defines your gender.

Its because, for me personally, the interface of my biology education and my transition was mostly centered around figuring out what sex hormones do. I learned about basic biology principles like DNA organization, gene regulation, cell biology, and physiology in high school and undergrad. Taking that understanding and extending it to the mechanisms that hormones use to change gene regulation, and by extension, the rest of your body broadly, was something I did as my understanding became more complete in later undergrad and grad school. It was the key to me starting my own transition.

Why?

Because it was the first time I realized that the "basic biology" arguments of transphobes were complete and utter bullshit. From that point, it was a cascade. As in, wait, if dynamic changes in gene expression aren't considered "biological" to them, then why am I believing anything they say about anything else? When they talk about gametes, and try to include infertile cis people in their definitions of biological sex by talking about what gamete you're "intended" to make, what do they even mean? Why does my current gene expression not define that "intent"? And wait, back up, why is the brain suddenly not considered part of our biology? Why are neurological differences suddenly not "biological"? Why can we say someone's thinking patterns aren't "biological"?

Backing up even further, why does any of this matter more than psychological gender, or sociological gender? If the way we navigate society is gendered, that affects a lot of our lives, and we're just throwing that away?

Basically, being educated about how deep the biological changes of HRT really go was the first domino to fall when I worked through my internalized transphobia.

This is one of many reasons why I hate, hate HATE the concession that uninformed allies and even many trans people themselves give: "well NO ONE is saying that you can change your biological sex, sex and gender are completely unrelated, sex is binary and gender isn't!!!!!"

Well. I am saying that you can change your "biological" sex, I am saying that biological sex isn't binary, and I am saying that misunderstanding of those points has set back transgender advocacy. It makes medical decisions surrounding us less informed, it poisons conversations about how we interact with society, and it makes trans people feel like their gender and sex are less "real" than cis people's.

Not to mention the horrific way it discards intersex people from the conversation entirely.

Recently, I've seen this point enter the mainstream a little, by using intersex people and variation of sex in other species as a "counterargument" to "binary biological sex" thinking. It still doesn't sit right with me. One, because it uses intersex people as a prop for trans advocacy while not actually addressing the needs of either group. And two, because it completely disregards that your current biology and physiology is not 100% predestined from birth, and using people who were "born this way" as a prop does absolutely nothing to increase people's acceptance of trans people who change their biology later in life.

Ugh. This got away from me but yeah. That's my sipping coffee ramble for this morning. If anyone wants to add comment or correct me on discourse here, please do. Especially if you're intersex- this is all the observations of a perisex trans woman.

[windwardstar]

so idk if this is just something i run into or other people get it too because i don't really see it mentioned or talked about, but there's a degree of "yeah #girl power #feminism" when people perceive me to be a gender nonconforming girl and that enthusiasm evaporates the moment they find out i'm trans and not a girl.

like. i wear a tux for concerts. people who think i'm a girl give me so many compliments and say i'm so brave for wearing it and good for me for making the choice and all that. and then, when I say that I'm trans and my pronouns are they/them and I'm not a girl, they just completely 180 in the enthusiastic support and turn into the fake smile required civil "that's nice," and find the nearest way to exit the conversation.

because there has been a push to expand what girls and women can do. however that support does not extend to saying you're NOT one when they think you should be.

[beemovieerotica]

i haven't seen this recommended yet for queer people fleeing certain states - and take it with a grain of salt, there's physical labor involved (organic farming / animal care / hands-on teaching) and i'll have to look into other opportunities for disable folks - but a couple of my friends have had good experiences with WWOOF.

your housing and food is covered, stays can be for whole growing seasons from april to october or you can negotiate to stay on longer if you vibe with your hosts (or if animal care extends year round)- it's a decent way to make connections in a new community and find roommates + paid work opportunities for the future while gaining experience and building your resume.

it's a good alternative to other volunteer programs like americorps / peace corps which have insanely drawn out application processes + require high up-front costs on the medical side + you're beholden to admin (and peace corps...does not have a great track record with trans folks). WWOOF terms are negotiated privately between the host farm and applicant, and you basically just have to front the cost of getting out to the host site.

disclaimer that any program like this can be a mixed bag - absolutely do your research on hosts, choose a liberal state, liberal area - if you're in an absolute bind and need to get somewhere ASAP it's an option you can weigh among others.

[dreadfulman]

Getting mad, as a trans man, that a woman sees you as a man is. Really really funny I'm so sorry. Like yeah she was saying some transphobic garbage but if you're so mad about being perceived as a man after apparently being frustrated that you're never seen as a man, ever, for your whole life, then maybe you've got some stuff to work on LOL...

I am not mad at a Cis Woman for gendering me correctly I am mad at a Cis Woman for refusing to acknowledge how a Trans man, especially a very much non passing Trans man, might have different experiences to Cis men in terms of how they are treated.

I was frustrated at being spoken to like I was de-facto ignorant of misogyny existing despite being subject to it daily because this Cis woman was so deeply fixated on gender essentialism she couldn't process how any man could possibly experience what she had decided were exclusively woman-issues. Including a man who she took 40 fucking minutes to stop calling a woman.

Shockingly, random people "affirming my gender" is not the soul point of my existence and does not magically erase either the years of often violent misogyny I faced for being perceived as an "incorrect woman", or the continued threat of violent misogyny I face from still being perceived as an "incorrect woman." Sure it's nice when cis people bother to remember that I'm not just a delusional freak girl that thinks it's male, but that doesn't give me a 1:1 identical life to a Cis Man.

Cis allyship that extends only as far as saying trans people are who they say they are and does not make room in its thinking for actual trans experiences because they are not 1:1 with cis experiences does not actually, materially, help trans people.

There. Does that explain it? I highlighted the words I think you're struggling with, anon.

[worlds-worst-ships]

Do you seriously, actually ship it?

Okay. Lets talk. Because apparently some of you are defending... well... "that" (under the cut)

"He's autistic! It was a stim!"

If you genuinely think that this has ANYTHING to do with autism, you are an objectively stupid person. Like, your brain is so fucking smooth, it puts the surface of freshly tempered glass to shame. You're a barely functional reprobate with subhuman intelligence who has no idea how to form thoughts so you let a 50 year old billionaire who spends too much time on his phone decide your thought process for you.

"He was throwing his heart out to the crowd!"

Now, I don't really play baseball, basketball, netball, or any sport where you throw anything other than sometimes darts, but... is that how you throw? You perfectly extend your arm at that angle? Twice? After spending years posting tweets that very much align with Nazi viewpoints? Do you throw a pitch in baseball and scream SIEG HEIL as the ball hurtles towards your opponent? No. Stop being a fucking idiot. This was deliberate. He did it twice.

"He's autistic! He doesn't know better!"

Please comment if you actually think this so I can personally call you a stupid cunt and block you. We absolutely do know better. Autism and Nazism aren't mutually exclusive.

"You're inhibiting his free speech!"

1st amendment only applies to censorship from government positions of power, which I am not, as should be obvious from the fact that I have no power to censor him. Though I shouldn't have to explain that.

"Well, he's gonna get away with it so stop being so sensitive!"

Yes. He is. But that's not a flex, that's A FUCKING MASSIVE PROBLEM. Call me sensitive if you want, but absolutely every single one of you should be offended by this. Did you pay attention in history class, or were you too tired after a long night of being fucking railed raw and bone dry by propaganda on Twitter? Moron.

"Well, he's rich and you're not, so there!"

Yep. Got me there. He's rich, and I'm not. Yknow, Hitler and a lot of Nazi officers were pretty minted too. So was Epstein, King Leopold, Stalin, Jimmy Saville, every MP currently serving in parliament... but sure, they're great people because they're rich, right?

"You're just a stupid offended libtard!"

Google "The Holocaust".

"Well, you're still using his app!"

His app? You mean the one he bought, then fucking ruined because he has no idea how to run it, right? And you because its basically impossible to find mutuals as a vtuber without it, you knew that, right? "His" app, please, you probably think Ronald McDonald makes your burger when you order McDonalds, you moron.

"If we punish Elon for this, then that's a violation of the first amendment!"

You mean like banning tiktok, removing any and all talk of election rigging, then putting it back up the next day? Or maybe like deleting any criticisms of you and your nazi salutes under your recent tweets despite it blowing up everywhere else? Or does that not count because its something you agree with? Yeah. You've been cucked harder than Sneako and you don't even realize it. Elon and his government buddies are leaving your free speech rights looking like this

Aaaaanyway

I find it well and truly laughable that so many people like Elon will say all this insane shit and do all these fucking heinous things and people will defend them. Like how that gun woman who shit herself says stuff like "I'm not homophobic, I just think gay people are disgusting and that they should die" or that comedian nobody finds funny anymore spends hours whining about trans people but says he's not transphobic.

Lets all be on the same page for once and have the balls to say what we actually think. Elon got so close, but being a spineless edgelord who doesn't have the balls to just say what he thinks out loud is quite the weakness.

[genderqueerdykes]

"just because you've been affected by transmisogyny a few times doesn't mean you're TMA!"

then what the everloving fuck does TMA exactly mean here because i don't think people are thinking this one through at all. if you're affected by transmisogyny, you're affected by transmisogyny. you can't shift the goal posts like that. oh so only certain people who are affected by transmisogyny "count"? does this not defeat the entire purpose of this label. i've literally seen people say, verbatim, "just because you're affected by transmisogyny doesn't mean you're TMA!"

what the actual fuck are you saying? then what the HELL does the "A" stand for if not "affected?"

affected means AFFECTED, there's no requirements to be affected by something. you don't have to be affected by it but Only In The Right Way in order to be. affected. by bigotry. that's NOT how bigots work. think through these things before saying them out loud or typing them up and hitting "post".

i've seen arguments where people just straight up say that "TMA" just means "transfem/trans woman" and literally nothing else at all whatsoever. like i see so many people say "well, you're not transfem so you can't be TMA, TMA means transfem/trans woman. if we extended the definition of TMA to include other people who face transmisogyny, then that would mean that we're calling those people transfem/trans women." like deadass this a real argument i've seen on this hellhole. i've heard people say "we'll have to extend the meaning of the word transfem to include people who don't belong if we allow non transfems to say they're affected by transmisogyny."

why the hell do you need an entire other ass term to say that you're transfem or a trans woman then? just call yourself transfem or a trans woman. the term is literally right fucking there. the implication that you're affected by transmisogyny is literally right there when identifying as a trans woman/transfem. we don't need to invent hostile quirky little terms that are designed to create a divide between trans people to say what we mean. if you're transfem or a trans woman, just fucking say that. you don't have to say "Transmisogyny affected". that's a no goddamn brainer.

no fucking shit trans women and fems are affected by transmisogyny. you're not some genius for pointing that out. that is queer basics 101. other people are affected by it too, though, and it's important that we discuss how transmisogyny can and does affect more than trans women and fems. acting like this belittles the real world impact that transmisogyny has. the various forms of transphobia we can face have to do with how someone else is perceiving you, NOT how YOU identify.

you can keep defending this shit all you want, but TME/TMA were created literally to shut masc nonbinary people, transmascs, trans men and AFAB and intersex trans people up to force them to stop talking about how they are affected by more than just cis misogyny. there's nothing constructive to be found in these terms. you're not some super genius for denying that other people are affected by transmisogyny. you're ignorant and lashing out at people who haven't hurt you.

if you take the time to listen to other queer people, you will understand that transphobia is not black and white. also, where exactly does transmisogyny end and other forms of transphobia begin? this is not something that's a binary. i don't know how to break it to people that NO binaries work when it comes to identity. you can't quantify when transmisogyny ends and other forms of transphobia begin. it's not a hard line. it's not a barrier.

if you defend TME/TMA, you're either misguided at best, or intentionally doing this to drive a wedge between transmascs and transfems and it's plain as day. if you want to say you're transfem or a trans woman, literally just say that. you don't have to alienate intersex people and other trans people to talk about what you go through. that's literally not necessary. bonding over people of other identities who are also affected by transmisogyny is the way to move forward and liberate trans women and transfems from this pain.

driving a wedge between transmascs and transfems will not help people understand transfemininity any better. binaries don't work. this one is not special. this too is a binary and it doesn't work. move past your desire to categorize everyone into "friend" and "enemy". stop trying to categorize people into this-or-that. it's not progressive no matter WHO is doing it. you people will say "smash the gender binary!!!!!!" and then reinvent it for the 8239408239082095th time. stop this. you're not practicing what you preach. you're expecting to be treated like you're special and that's not how any of this goes.

you don't get to recreate the gender binary with even more hostile intents just because you're a trans person. trans people can be transphobic. the quicker you learn this the better life will become for you and everyone around you. you're not doing the queer community ANY favors by encouraging bitter, petty infighting and treating trans men and mascs like shit for no reason other than you have internalized transphobia to deal with.

[kisakis-boyfriend]

trans mikey truther here! i would love to see his alphabet

Author's Note: Ofc <3 Trans Mikey comin' at ya hot and heavy!!

For our 3000 follower celebration! (CLOSED NOW)

A = Aftercare (What they’re like after sex)

Mikey is someone who needs to be held as a part of aftercare for sure. And he's rather touchy afterwards — both physically; needing to be touched and touch you back, and emotionally; he needs some time to calm down and let his emotions balance out again.

B = Body part (Their favourite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)

Mikey is very proud of his thighs. And if we're counting hair as a body part, I think he'd also take pride in his hair, since he does take good care of it and you're always complimenting it.

His favorite part of you is your shoulders/biceps.

C = Cum (Anything to do with cum basically)

Mikey can cum quite easily. It takes very little to build up an orgasm, which makes denying him that orgasm extra fun ;)

I also think he would get dehydrated easily after cumming. You always have to keep water or some other drink close by, or be prepared for a trip to the kitchen after you're done.

D = Dirty Secret (Pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

Mikey really wants to try double penetration… he's not too sure if his body could even handle that, considering that your cock is too much sometimes, but he fantasizes about it often 😳

E = Experience (How experienced are they? Do they know what they’re doing?)

I mean, he's not completely clueless about sex, but he has zero practical experience before you two get together. His knowledge mainly extends to simple masturbation.

F = Favourite Position (This goes without saying. May include a visual)

Mikey likes being held; so fucking him against the wall while his legs are locked behind your torso, or holding him up in general is lovely 🤤

He can also appreciate a good mating press, when he's in the mood.

G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc)

I'd say he's somewhere in the middle? He's not stone-faced during sex, but y'all aren't doing a stand-up routine during it either, ya know?

H = Hair (How well groomed are they, does the carpet match the drapes, etc.)

Very well groomed/taken care of. But he doesn't shave himself bald or wax any of his body hair. Mikey's hair is slightly finer than most people's, so he doesn't have to trim too often, and he will dye it to match the hair on his head. So, his pubes are blond when he's blond, white if his hair is white, and black if it's black. And any other colours too.

I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect)

Manjiro is incredibly affectionate, intimacy is a requirement no matter how long you're having sex.

J = Jack Off (Masturbation headcanon)

Masturbation was all Mikey knew before you started dating. His fingers helped him through a lot of stressful times, but he never used toys or anything.

Now, while you're together, Mikey will still masturbate, and quite a lot too. Between your handsome self (and handsome cock) and the effects of T, this poor guy is hornier than ever!

K = Kink (One or more of their kinks)

SIZE 📢 KINK 📢 BABYYYYYYY 📢

And breeding, hair pulling, a tiny free use kink, and probably roleplay too.

L = Location (Favourite places to do the do)

I feel like he would enjoy car sex a lot? There's the risk of passersby looking through the glass and seeing Mikey's cunt gush around your cock, but the benefit of it being close quarters is nice for him too. That way you'll have to hold him close 😚

M = Motivation (What turns them on, gets them going)

Anything that shines a light on your difference in size; measuring hands, standing next to him and looking down at him, measuring your dick with his bottom growth 🥴

N = NO (Something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

Sharing you with any of his siblings. Mikey isn't opposed to polyamory, but if you're dating him then you cannot date his siblings at the same time, sorry ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Or mentioning someone else during sexy times.

O = Oral (Preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc)

He likes giving and receiving equally 💛

Oh, to be on his knees, sucking your cock until his jaw hurts. His darkening cheeks stretched by your pretty length, and your hand firmly tangled in his hair. Or, to be spoiled by your head in between his legs, working your magic on his pretty cunt until Mikey's thighs quiver endlessly~

P = Pace (Are they fast and rough? Slow and sensual? etc.)

Any pace is a good pace tbh. Although, if you really want to punish him, keep the pace horribly slow, and hold him down so that he can't move away or increase the pleasure.

Q = Quickie (Their opinions on quickies rather than proper sex, how often, etc.)

One quickie every blue moon is not a problem, but don't make them a regular thing. Manjiro needs proper, affection sex.

R = Risk (Are they game to experiment, do they take risks, etc.)

Sometimes, yes. He has to be in the right headspace if you want to try riskier kinks though. Now, having sex when you only have a few minutes before you need to be somewhere/get something done? That's more of the kind of risk that Mikey will take.

S = Stamina (How many rounds can they go for, how long do they last…)

Just 2, usually. You'd think his stamina would be better given his strength in fights, but the emotional aspect of sex tires him out more quickly.

T = Toy (Do they own toys? Do they use them? On a partner or themselves?)

Mikey doesn't own any himself, but he is a little curious if he knows you have some. As long as you promise to make him feel extra good, I think he'd enjoy a vibe or pet play accessories. :)

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

Not much of a tease. The most Manjiro will do to tease you is mention/show how wet he is.

V = Volume (How loud they are, what sounds they make)

Whiny little man, and his moans are like the cries of an angel. The closer to an orgasm Mikey is, the louder and more frequently he moans.

W = Wild Card (Get a random headcanon for the character of your choice)

TW watersports, sort of

(This is definitely not influenced by someone else's fic…nope, not at all) Mikey will occasionally pee if he's too overstimulated. If you truly push him to his limit and keep fucking him, he's unable to control his bladder. He is slightly ashamed of this, but if you're reassuring (or actually think it's hot) then he's extremely thankful <3

X = X-Ray (Let’s see what’s going on in those pants, picture or words)

Thanks to T, Mikey has a decent amount of bottom growth. His tcock is still proportionate to his body. I also think that Mikey's labia wouldn't be as pronounced as some people's are.

As he gets older, I can definitely see him pursuing bottom surgery, and before that, his bottom growth gets even bigger the longer he's on HRT.

Y = Yearning (How high is their sex drive?)

Relatively average, although he definitely gets more needy when he's on his period. Even after hormones stop his period, Mikey will randomly get super horny every few months.

Z = ZZZ (How quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

As mentioned in the Stamina section, Mikey conks right out afterwards, usually. At the very least, he needs to lie down and rest before he can go about his day again.

[exeggcute]

this isn't the first time we've seen evidence that the current climate of anti-trans panic in the US has largely been manufactured by (or at the very least, stoked by) a small number of conservative interest groups, but the leaked materials from this group do make it pretty clear that trans people are being used a wedge issue to increase republican turnout:

In a member briefing video, one of Ziklag’s spiritual advisers outlined a plan to “deliver swing states” by using an anti-transgender message to motivate conservative voters who are exhausted with Trump.

although it does seem like they believe their own rhetoric and aren't "just" willing to turn trans people into collateral damange:

Other internal Ziklag documents voice strong opposition to same-sex marriage and transgender rights. One reads: “transgender acceptance = Final sign before imminent collapse.”

and somehow this is only the tip of the iceberg here:

a charity funded by mega-wealthy christian donors who think that secular mega-wealthy donors are more generous than christians (much to unpack there lol) and want to close that gap

the fact that it's set up a tax-exempt 5013c org but 100% operating as a PAC, which according to a little group called the IRS is super duper illegal

general christian nationalist shit, including a belief that “the biblical role of government is to promote good and punish evil” and that “the word of god and prayer play a significant role in policy decisions"

using a tool called eagleAI that "claim[s] to use artificial intelligence to automate and speed up the process of challenging ineligible voters" in a bid to kick 100k+ voters off the rolls in swing states

a seven-pronged plan that extends into non-political avenues like the entertainment industry, like a goal to make 80% of movies produced either have a G or PG rating and offer a tidy moral

the hobby lobby family is here because of course they are

[heaven-s-black-box]

Notes- Blabber Mouth; Anemo Men x gn!Reader

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Recovery date: February 9th, 2025

Description: Anemo version of Blabber Mouth

Notes: CW a few suprise pregnancies I put Wanderer in here, but I personally subscribe to trans-man Wanderer because why would Raiden give him a male body? Also, this series is slowly separating from the original prompt and I feel like I'm just making these kids psychic but shhh, babies

Hydro Dendro Cryo Pyro Anemo Electro Geo

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Aether

Kids , he likes them but never really thought they were in his future

I mean, he’s always traveling with his sister, it’s not until Teyvat that he kind of settles down

Abyss!Aether or Traveler!Aether, they meet you and staying here doesn’t sound too bad

Your first is an accident, they make the decision for him

Not that he wanted to leave you anyways

Your second is planned, but your first born beats you to tell him

Aether comes back from wherever he was, helping Khaenri’ah, a commission, ruling the Abyssal Khaeri’ans, and your kid tackles him in a hug

Then, without you saying anything, they talk about reading a story to the baby

And you play mock offense thinking they were reading to you and Aether is trying to figure out what baby

You send your kid off to clean up their toys so you can talk

Aether drops to his knees and hugs your waist

Xiao

It’s not that he doesn’t want kids, he just doesn’t think about it because he doesn’t want another thing he can’t have

He can’t be around people normally, being around an infant? Bad idea

So, you’d have to be anything but a mortal, someone who can be around him despite his debt

Then, he gives it some thought and he’s still really not sure

It takes many conversations for him to see your side of things

Cries the first time he holds your baby

As your first grows up, he tries to figure out how to broach the subject of having another

You laugh when he finally gets it out, face red, and quickly apologize before saying another sounds nice

Your kid is very defensive, and they try defending you from one of the dogs around Wangshuu inn one day

When you ask what’s wrong, because normally the dogs aren't a problem, your kid says they saw the dog scare a baby the other day

Takes you both a second to figure out how that correlates and then it’s a trip to Baizhu

He cries, the first time it wasn’t real to him until he held the baby but this time it’s real from the start

Venti

You guys start talking about having kids, and he’s not even sure he can have them

Like, he’s a windspirit and sure he’s in human form but how far does that extend

So your first born is a bit of a surprise

But he’s so happy, sings to them all the time while your pregnant

He drinks less too, can’t be drinking at Angel’s share when he’s trying to wrangle the little whirlwind into bed

It’s one such night when your little one runs out of their room and into yours

They curl up with you in your bed, and Venti’s trying to convince them to sleep in their bed

They declare they want to sleep with their sibling

You stop reading/pretending to sleep, confused, and Venti just gives in

They make a good point, how could he pull such a protective big sibling away from their little sibling

Venti’s been around enough to know that children can just tell these things

So he just wraps you all up in his wings and you go to Barbara in the morning

If either of your kids are boys, he’s naming him after the nameless bard

Kazuha

Kids… he wants them, he doesn’t want his family line to end with him

But, it’s not really an option when he’s on the run

Once he returns to Inazuma though, he gives it more serious thought

Spending time in the forge, he sees kids run by a lot and watches their awe as they watch him

He brings it up to you, and you have your first born

We don’t know what his friend’s name is, but your first born is getting named after him

Even if he has to alter it a little bit

He likes to write poetry with your kid, it helps their vocabulary, creativity, and fine motor skills

You two also use it to encourage their self expression

So they express their excitement about the friend in your belly

That poem is getting framed, it makes you both laugh

Heizou

Likes playing with the kids in the city and around Ritou

Hasn’t really considered kids of his own

It’s not until he sees you with the kids that he starts thinking about it

I think your first is an accident, but his excitement even surprises him a bit

Not that he thought he wouldn’t be happy/excited

And your kid takes after their father’s investigative curiosity

So you start acting off and they’re running their own investigation

This one is less of a “little kid sixth sense” and more like “mini detective”

They even get Heizou to join in the investigation

But there’s definitely a bit of weird sibling psychic-ness, your first born predicts baby's gender later on

Everyone’s excited, you first born is already planning investigations to do with them

Extra note, but Heizou definitely takes your infants on easy investigations strapped to his chest in a baby harness

Wanderer

I… don’t think he can have kids, I personally think he was not modeled with the required hardware (fully believe his original model was at least a ken doll and and at most fem)

But, between handling the electro gnosis and being around Dottore, I could see him getting the hardware and systems

I do not think he knows he has these systems, mostly because he’s never tried

So your kid is an accident

And Wanderer has a lot of thoughts but, I think he holds the baby and decides that he can do this

First baby’s name is Niwa

This kid has him wrapped around their finger, and he’s happy with one

And now that you two know he can get you pregnant you two are more careful

Your kid asks for a sibling and he’s not one to deny them if you’re okay with it

They’re also the one to tell you, one day they just press a kiss to your tummy before Wanderer puts them to bed for the night

Tighnari’s in the city, so you check in with him before he leaves

I think Wanderer surprises himself with the love he feels for his kids

[enarei]

i was banned late in 2022 for what the moderators told me was "hate speech". in my last post before the ban took place i'd called myself a tranny (i had been doing for months admittedly). i guess self-referential use of a slur could be framed as "hate speech" if you really wanted to police a group's speech. besides that i'd very recently expressed my dislike of all the associations centered around venerating american veterans and the conspirational origins of the "MIA" flag. "veteran status" is a protected identity under tumblr's community guidelines, which i think is as patently ridiculous as it sounds to anyone who is not from the US.

but those are just guesses. for all i know it could've been something else. i can't know for certain because i didn't receive any warnings or strikes prior to the ban. they refused to cite the offending post when i pressed them on it, and they didn't follow-up on my emails when i asked them again. they just said my whole blog violated the community guidelines. how? that's the kinda absurd part about using this website for an extended period of time (i had had that account for almost 5 years). any trans woman who is mildly public or vocal about their opinions when those opinions relate to her personhood is subjected to a torrent of hate speech. radfems were much more prominent back then, which gave the impression that this site's moderation was very lax. but when i was banned my account was deleted in one swift stroke, with no reference to what the offending content was, no previous warnings, and thus no means to reasonably try to contest it. i still don't know if I actually violated the community guidelines or not. no other social media does this. and one can argue tumblr is *relatively* more stringent about hate speech which impacts trans people than it was in 2022, but it's still a terrible practice. because people who might've been falsely banned due to an antagonistic moderator targeting a popular blog for personal reasons, something we know to have occurred with transmisoginistic actors in the past, that staff themselves have admitted happened, however briefly, have no means to prove it happened to them and end up just sounding like conspiracy theorists.

even if they claim they've rooted out the problem and their moderation team is "better" the complete lack of transparency makes it impossible to prove trans women aren't being targeted

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[ravens-two]

PAC: What Does Your Future Spouse Look Like?

This reading includes:

your FS's general physical traits

your FS's vibes & celebrities with similar vibes

The extended reading includes:

your FS's fashion style

your first impression of your FS 

Disclaimer: this is just for entertainment purposes, and as a pick-a-card reading it may not resonate for everyone.

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Pile 1

Houdini - Dua Lipa

Five of Cups, Ten of Pentacles, Two of Pentacles

Pile 1, the first thing I notice in your person is their eyes. It's not necessarily about the color - although it could be that they're a particularly pretty color - but more that they are very expressive. It also seems that for most of you, this person has really big eyes. Perhaps round or almond shaped too. Think something like Al Pacino, Cate Blanchett, Liv Tyler, Kurt Cobain or Adrien Brody for example. They can convey a lot of emotion with just their eyes. I also see that some of them have crow's feet when they smile too, which is really endearing honestly.

Another thing that I pick up from your person is that they seem to have a vaguely sad vibe to them. Do you know that meme "my poor little meow meow"? Their vibe is a bit similar in a way. They just look like they're sad and you have the urge to take care of them. Again, think a bit about someone like Kurt Cobain or Adrien Brody.

When it comes to their body they're tall or, at least, they give the impression of being tall and broad. Especially for men, they have broad shoulders even if they aren't muscled or chubby. For the women I also think that they tend to have broad shoulders and a narrower waist, but their most prominent feature seems to be their chest. They may have big boobs or they tend to use clothes that emphasize their boobs. I think that even for the men, their chest is quite prominent.

When it comes to vibes it's mostly what I've already said your person has this "please love me" vibe. Despite this, they're capable of commanding attention and they tend to look quite elegant. It may be that they have a lot of pisces placements or a pisces rising. In general, I think that they're attractive, but not like conventionally attractive or Hollywood attractive if that makes sense.

I also think that your person shows themself differently to different people. With you they may feel more comfortable to be a "poor little meow meow" while with others they're more closed off and may even appear a bit cold. I just heard that they have a poker face, so with other people they may completely close off and be hard to read.

(extended reading here)

Pile 2

Kiss Me More - Doja Cat ft. SZA

Six of Wands, Page of Wands, Eight of Swords

Hi, pile 2, your FS is the type of person that gets other people's attention. They are very conventionally attractive (I feel like especially when it comes to their face), but they don't really see themselves life this. In fact, I think that they're quite insecure about their appearance. This almost feels like body dysmorphia honestly (and for some of you it could be related to them being trans, while for others it could be related to an eating disorder). The reality is that they can't see themselves the way other people see them.

They have really thick and luscious hair - it reminds me a bit of Carlos Sainz or Ben Barnes for the men - and most likely it's either wavy or straight. For most of you they have rather long hair, the men tend to have up to shoulder length hair, while for the women it can come down to their waist. When it comes to color, most likely it's dark, but for some of you it could be bleached.

Most of them seem to have tanned or dark skin, this isn't really about skin color, if they have black skin for example, it's really dark. For the people with lighter-skin they have a tendency to blush a lot or get flushed (especially after drinking). They also have really pretty teeth, probably very straight or they just look endearing, and a pretty mouth too. Despite having a pretty mouth not all of them have thick lips, it's more about the shape of their mouth. I feel like they tend to smile a lot. It kind of reminds me of Julia Roberts a bit who is known for her smile.

Some celebrities that have similar vibes to them are Carlos Sainz, Julia Roberts, Anok Yai, Adut Akech, Dominik Szoboszlai and Michael B. Jordan. 

When it comes to their vibes they seem to be youthful and always in their own world. It's almost like they aren't really paying attention to what's going on around them. They also seem to be a bit introverted or closed-off in public, despite all the eyes that they attract. If surrounded by friends they may be a bit more open and might be cracking up jokes with them. No matter what they seem to be really nice and will always give a small smile to other people, like the waiter at the restaurant for example.

(extended reading here)

Pile 3

The Shadow of Your Smile - Nancy Sinatra

Four of Pentacles, King of Swords rx, Ace of Pentacles

Pile 3, your person doesn't seem to be very tall. They're either medium height or actually small. It may also be that their vertical line is short even if they are in fact on the taller side they seem shorter than they really are. But, the most noticeable thing about them is that they seem to always have a serious expression on their face - some of them even have a resting bitch face. I think that they have very expressive eyebrows, they may even move them without meaning to. You'll be able to tell what they think by their eyebrows. Like, they may have look super serious almost as if they're upset but by their eyebrows you can actually tell that they're just relaxed. Speaking of their eyebrows they also seem to be very full or bushy. I don't think that there's a monobrow here, but it could also be the case.

When it comes to their face your FS has really strong facial features, especially their jaw and nose. The jaw reminds me a bit of Angelina Jolie for the women and for the men it seems to be a bit of a mix between Timothée Chalamet and Henry Cavill. For some it's more square while for others it's sharper. The noses here tend to be either aquiline or roman, but either way they're also quite prominent. Think a bit Gisele Bundchen, Jenny Slate or Alba Flores for example, or Hrithik Roshan and Dev Patel.

I don't know how to explain it but they also have a very earthy vibe, like tanned skin, freckles, calloused hands, it's like they just came back from working in the garden, if that makes sense. They also have brown or black hair, and the men tend to have beards (nothing too big though). They also have super clear and healthy looking skin.

Besides the eyebrows I also think that they have really noticeable hands. Their hands may be big or just very pretty in general, they may be veiny too. Their nails are healthy and well kept, and they probably have long and thick fingers. The way they move their hands may also be very attractive, like their gestures or just by being very dextrous with their hands. When it comes to their body they tend to be thicker or chubbier, I'm seeing like amazing and really thick thighs for both men and women. I also feel like your FS exercises a lot or they move a lot because of their work and so they tend to be chubby with a lot of muscle underneath.

In general, I think that their vibe is just very chill. They have a "don't fuck with me" vibe, but they're just doing their own thing and don't really want anyone to bother them. They also seem to be very hard-workers and earthy as I said, like down-to-earth too. These aren't people with delusions of grandeur.

(extended reading here)

Pile 4

Crazy - Aerosmith

Lovers rx, Empress rx, Knight of Cups

Pile 4, this is my androgynous and gender non-conforming pile. If you're familiar with the Kibbe body types or essences, these people would be the Ethereal or Angelic essence. Do you know the Lord of the Rings elves? Yeah, basically that's the vibe. Their features are delicate and they can look a bit otherworldly. Think of Tilda Swinton, Willow Smith, Halle Bailey or Lisa Bonnet. For the men you have again Lee Pace and Orlando Bloom as elves, but also Eddie Redmayne, Cillian Murphy, Jared Leto and Ethan Torchio. For me, Ethan Torchio from Maneskin is the best example for men here. He embodies the facial features and hair that makes him look quite androgynous, and also a bold and avant-garde style.

In general, your person tends to look a bit flirty or mischievous. Again, they have this elf or fairy vibe to them. They tend to look playful and approachable. This isn't the type of person you'd be afraid of talking to, they just seem super nice and open. 

No matter the skin color your person also tends to be pale, this is more their complexion really. Some of them may look a bit like vampires think Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt in Interview with a Vampire. They also have clear skin and the men tend not to have beards. When it comes to hair it tends to be long, especially for the men. For the women, I actually think that they may tend to have shorter hair or even a shaved head.

Their faces are beautiful, but not really conventionally attractive. They have something otherworldly about them that just pulls you to them. They may also have asymmetrical faces, especially when it comes to the eyes or jaw. Also, speaking of eyes they have really intense eyes. The type that seems that they can look right through you. Besides pile 1, this is the pile that seems like they may have light eyes.

When it comes to their body shape they are leaner instead of muscly or thick. They may have muscle definition, but they're just lean and maybe a bit lanky. They seem like they have a high vertical line or they're tall. In general though, they're just long. They have long legs, long arms, even long fingers.

(extended reading here)