#let's talk kink

[theharrowing]

I think it is safe to say nobody has kinks to offer you because you feed us so incredibly well!!

I didn't know what sounding was! Or anal hooks?? Or sensory depravation! (Aside from using a blindfold or something like that, but I never considered having vision completely taken away along with most sound.)

Each time you include kink in your fics it is an eye-opening experience that teaches me so many things about people (and about myself?) that I never knew before.

haaaaa!!! i mean...that's fair. off the top of my head, i can't think of anything fun that i haven't already been writing. it would be nice to get some more input on what people specifically want more of, buuutttttttt i can't force it. 🥰

i'm thrilled that my fics have been a gateway drug for you!!! that's so exciting!!! 🥺💜💜

(sensory play is FUN. i highly recommend it with a trusted partner.)

what are kinks/types of play that you want to see more of in fic? let me know! 💌

[soldiersgirl]

im severely lacking in vitamin j .... vitamin JENSEN IN GLASSES

he looks like the mean college professor/TA, who would bump up your grade if he could fuck you against his desk

[emiliagrant]

Buck and Tommy ♡ flirty, kinky and in love

[psymachine]

Thoughts on Mac with a daddy kink? <3

oh, canon.

between his relationship with god and his relationship with his actual father? hm~ 💅

i maintain that an experienced older bear could fix him -- make him feel so safe and secure for the first time in his life.

but instead he has dennis lmfao.

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Fellas, is it gay to keep your homoerotic reading material right next to the things that remind you of another man?

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[cringeworms]

I'm writing an analysis of gender performativity in The Silence of the Lambs for my gender and sexuality class and in the course of my research I have encountered so many bad takes!! I can't not say anything so I've come to Tumblr to rant.

The most common criticism I see is that the ending of "Hannibal" discredits, undoes, or diminishes Clarice's feminism, autonomy, or power, or that it ruins the message of SOTL. That indicates a complete misunderstanding of Clarice and the point of the books! The point of "Hannibal" is to show that it does not matter how amazing, powerful, or how much of a feminist you are: if you are a woman in a career, especially a federal career, the system is designed to put you down and keep you quiet. I think there is nothing more she could have done and nothing she could have done differently to prevent her disgrace. When the system is set up to put men in power and keep them in power, your talent and integrity do not matter if they decide they don't want/need you anymore. There is nothing she can do to prevent the label of "female officer" from haunting her credibility. Even Crawford, who respects her and fights for her, sees her with the caveat of "woman." The one man who does not consider her gender any sort of detriment or a reason to treat her differently is Hannibal Lecter. They have genuine mutual respect. When she chose to be with him, she chose respect, love, and comfort over a life of fighting to be recognized, respected, or listened to. Just as much as it is respectable for women to fight for their right to be recognized in their careers, we must also recognize that that fight should not need to exist in the first place. So, why should there be any shame about choosing not to fight that fight anymore? She spent years in an uphill battle, and she probably never would have escaped it (to no fault of her own!). The ending of "Hannibal" is Clarice raising a middle finger to the system, the FBI, misogyny, and the patriarchy by recognizing that she deserves unconditional love and respect and that the system she fought so hard for was, in fact, completely undeserving of her talent or presence. Her decision is powerful and empowered!

"She was brainwashed!" she literally wasn't. Hannibal tried that (I believe because he was so unfamiliar with the idea of love or family that he didn't know how to understand Clarice outside of the lens of Mischa) but he was unsuccessful. If she was able to resist his efforts of brainwashing while in an altered state she certainly had the strength of mind to make her own decisions. Her decision was not impulsive. Also, I think it serves as a testament to her influence and power over him. She gained control of the situation and he didn't resist that. Ultimately, Clarice chose to spend the rest of her life with the one man who ever truly saw her as more than just a woman, who admired her intellect, and who respected her enough to challenge her. That is not weak, submissive, or misogynistic. Quite the opposite. She chose to leave behind the life she put years of effort into building (because she knew it would be fruitless) in favor of being finally honored and appreciated. That takes courage! She knew her worth, and she knew the FBI didn't deserve her.

Also, anyone who paid any attention to the books saw the romantic tension throughout the story. It didn't come out of nowhere. She really just needed an opportunity or an excuse to be with him, and she was finally presented with it.

I think reading the ending to "Hannibal" as anything other than empowering is a mischaracterization of both Clarice and Hannibal and shows a lack of understanding of the message of the books. I think it reflects a shallow understanding of not only the books, but of how feminism operates IRL (especially during the 80s/90s).

I also must give the disclaimer that I do not think these books are epitomes of feminism or representation. The transmisogyny, racism, queerphobia, etc., are obviously inexcusable. Just because I interpret their message as a story of caution about how misogyny operates, and how it is respectable to choose a path that does not work within that system, does not mean I agree with everything presented in them or any of their harmful rhetorics or stereotypes. I have a STRONG love/hate relationship with these stories and I don't ever mean to undersell the "hate" part of that lol.

[theharrowing]

Waaaaaaaiiiiitttttttt waitwaitwait. Mother.

"i feel like tumblr is more of a tame environment, and i am more likely to see piss play, enema play, and sounding over on twitter and ao3."

PLEASE TELL ME YOU HAVE NOT WRITTEN THESE?! I mean.........I wouldn't judge you, but..........................I just don't know what I would say.

😅😅😅

i haven't written piss play!!! (...yet???)

...but i have written sounding in Forever in His Shadow & the Jimin POV Collateral scene (in the full version.) and i have done enema play in the Seokjin POV Collateral scene (in the full version.)

tbh, i find these types of acts fun to write, and i will likely do more soon!!! (FiHS will have more sounding in chapter 2!)

what are kinks/types of play that you want to see more of in fic? let me know! 💌

[harbingersglory]

i know i said more dom!reader blah blah blah sorry arlecchino rotted my brain severely. tmasc bunny!arle giving me severe brain damage /pos

(he/him prns used for arle)

at a glance, the big ears and small puffball of a tail might temporarily make you think Arlecchino is far sweeter then he actually is. how could anyone who looked so cute be anything but, right?

but you know better. you serve under Lord Arlecchino - literally. tucked under his desk while he makes you slobber and choke all over his strap. you barely get to breathe with his hand fisted in your hair, keeping you right where he wants you. if you've been particularly exemplary on your little missions, he might even let you sit on his lap. though whether thats worse or not is debatable, making you cockwarm him as he works. and you'd better keep quiet, too. he's not above muzzling you or just straight up shoving his fingers into your mouth to silence you while you squirm on his lap.

maybe if you last until he's done he'll fuck you properly. bend you over his desk and pound your pretty little holes until you're unable to stand. he'll still make you clean up his strap afterwards, of course.

it's when he's in a bad mood that he really gets going. sheds the act of polite, dignified little bunny. no, he's here to break you in and use you like the little toy you are. and you'll let him, won't you? drooling all over his strap when he fucks your throat raw, drags you into the nearest room the moment he sees you to watch your eyes roll back into your head as his cock stretches you out..

he's just as much of a mess as you are when he's this pent up, though. he doesn't bother keeping up appearances when he just has some pent up stress to get out. if you could even think straight you'd notice his puffball of a tail wagging and his ears drooping as he ruts into you, panting and grunting against your ear when you cum around his strap for the tenth time. you could almost swear you heard him whimper, but you'll be in a world of punishment if you mention it the next day (he absolutely did).

[boytumms]

A sweet boy, innocent, undeserving of what is about to transpire. All of a sudden, he feels a pain in his stomach as it starts to swell rapidly. The growth is constant, punctuated with erratic spurts, as something(s) grow inside him. In less than a minute, he has a torpedo gut that requires both of his hands to heft. Tears running down his face, he cries out for help as his belly gurgles ominously before it lurches from something within. The weight becomes too much for his frail legs, and he falls to the ground, screaming as his belly grows ever larger, begins to writhe violently and undulate from the fetal stirrings of a monstrous brood. He falls completely unto his back, his belly rising above him like a dire monolith, creaking and groaning, until his water breaks in self preservation; his body needs to push them out now, before it's too late.

AAA THIS IS SOOO SO GOOD <3 The rapid swelling, the pain, the huge writhing creature, this is literally everything I loveeee. His belly becoming so big it towers over him, all he can see is the enormous undulating mass as he writhes and screams beneath it. Also going into labor as the body's form of self preservation is so hot, his belly grows so big so fast it pushes his body into overdrive, doing everything it can for survival. He can't help but desperately push and scream for it to come out as he tries to give birth, but the creature is so big there's nothing he can do no matter how hard he tries

[m--rtyr]

I disagree that the daddy kink convo should've been replaced with a heartfelt meaningful conversation about their mutual issues with their fathers because as much as you complain that the relationship isn't developed for Buck, it isn't developed for Tommy either, and it would be a disservice to the reserved guy that Lou says that Tommy is to make him immediately open up to someone without showing the proper progression and storyline leading up to that

the kink convo worked for both characters (both are just dawgs i guess), it was very mutual, and i still don't understand the perspective that Tommy's comment came out of nowhere, i run based off of the assumption that all flirty buck convos are... flirty...????

I understand why people want this, because the acknowledgement of Buck's parental issues comes with a burning desire to have a genuine conversation about it, but something that fits his character should not come at the cost of another character.

A scene should fit to everyone involved, and at most, it should've been a kind of... maybe a conversation of buck going 'yeahh... i got issues with my dad, that's why Bobby means so much to me, he's kinda like the dad i never had.' and Tommy's response being 'Yeah, i see that... my dad sucked but i had Gerrard who sucked too, so... yeah... he's the dad i already did have lol.'

OH...

OH WAIT...

ITS ALMOST LIKE THEY DID.

this conversation should happen eventually, but when it actually has meaning. At a point where Tommy is actually going to be willing to open up a little more (since we kinda see that he is a little bit more reserved with Buck still in this season), and maybe it's in favour of servicing Buck as a character, or Tommy, or BOTH. But you cannot put a character on the line bc you pearl clutch over the fact that your 'baby' pretty boy fucks severely.

[i-like-forcefem]

Hey so the only costume I have for halloween is a milkman outfit, any chance I could borrow a costume instead of that one though?

Sure cutie! Since you like milk how about one that lets you be milked?

A cute little Cow Print bikini with exapoed nipples and cute matching horns and a little tail, finished off by some black and white heels

I’m sure you’ll be the centre of attention at the party!

[theharrowing]

I think wax play would be interesting to see in fics. I don’t think I’ve ever seen it

oooh, wax play is a fun one!!! i agree that this is one that i have never seen in a fic before.

but i have somewhat written it once! idk if you read mxm, but there is a little self wax play in my fic Forever in His Shadow, and there will be some between sope in chapter 2! (pretty much everything Hoseok does to himself in part 1, he will do to Yoongi in part 2, and then some.)

what are kinks/types of play that you want to see more of in fic? let me know! 💌

[redfoxv]

Primal play

What to do with this pretty little prey animal not that I've caught them ?

[grey-streetlight]

what’s my kink?????

uuuuuhhhh open, honest, clear communication

[celestialrealms]

barbatos letting himself be loved and cared for. barbatos letting himself be loved and cared for!!!

[lovebugmusings]

I dont want to be pregnant however I do want to give johnny his own football team. maybe not reserves but. a team for sure