#lesbephobia mentio

[bma-2020]

Do not r/eb/log.

before we even get started. Nobody I follow at this time, as far as I’m aware, has exhibited this behavior. This is not a vague, this is information. This is behaviours i have witnessed and dealt with on multiple occasions since, technically 2011 when i started writing on tumbs vaguely, but more specifically from 2015-2018 online. All my life Offline. These are behaviors i have witnessed, been victim to, etc. I have most likely not witnessed any of it from whoever is reading this if i follow you. Again, not a vague, not to start ‘drama.’ not a callout. Its the time of year this relates to, and i think its important for people to be aware.

I’m probably gonna delete this later bc i already know some dick is gonna start yelling at me for it later but honestly like, it’s april, yall know what the douchebags state it is for a/ustistics, you know what we prefer it’s called, honestly when are people, including self hating a/utistics, gonna stop insulting and villifying every single au/tistic who points out character traits in popular characters that are very much so our traits? Like, I’ve seen all the excuses like “theyre a mutant its offensive’ ‘theyre an alien its the wrong genetics’ ‘theyre not fucked up enough’ which is one of the most insulting ones ive seen and like??? the people are pointing out similar traits and characteristics, theyre pointing out things they see in themselves in their favorite characters and youre sat there telling them so and so cant be a/utistic because this character, in fiction, is not a ‘proper human?’ like, yall have no problems imagining a proper human boinking a fucking fish and a whole lot of people love doing extremely gross crap while using the guise of ‘its fiction i can do whatever i want’ but that only seems to apply to shitty things and almost never important things? like for fucks sake almost every piece of media ive ever had that represents my a/utism has either actively removed it because of the fanbase, villified the character eventually until they ‘cure’ them (again, fucking offensive), been canceled because viewers love everything but the a/utism, and fuck neu/rotypicals and even non-autistic n/eurodivergents just, ive seen people make up false accusations and defame actors for stating they portray a character as a/utistic when it wasnt confirmed because they did the research and believe the traits coincide. because they want to give that representation. And god this website loves taking part in b/iphobia and l/esbephobia, they erase poc from a narrative to force a believe that a bi char is strictly h/omosexual or h/eterosexual, they erase me tal disorders and disabilities to ‘relate better’, but for goddess sake there are so few a/utistic characters. there are so few. most of the time they make them villains. its the same w b/ipolar and m/pd they villify us ad when we place similar traits with characters to what we have and what we experience firsthand, we’re villified and insulted and ignored and goddess it is just, its offensive and its rude and im tired of all of it, ive been tired of lying about my a/utism to people because theyd fire me if they knew or they’d purpose treat me badly trying to make me quit, of people saying bullshit like ‘well a/utistics are prone to violence so obviously everyone who is one is a bad person’ because its not true, and especially of people who still go off on how wonderful and great organizations set on ‘curing’ us are when they think we’re a god damn disease just like the rest of the world apparently and treat us like shit. like this didnt happen today, but it happens a lot. the amount of times i used to reblog posts about characters w a/utistic traits went to the negative because of people bitching and moaning at me for reblogging it, vaguely at the dash for ‘daring to assume shit’ all of it just, im not supposed to experience stress right now because my histamine levels are actually physically attacking and killing me but goddess its hard not to get stressed out when everywhere, online and offline, people just talk out of their ass on shit and act like we should bow to their feet for actively trying to erase us from existence and take us out of the narrative, because ‘its not possible thats not how it works’. maybe get more educated than one to three psych classes before opening your mouth cause all youre doing when basically telling us we shouldnt exist is increasing the stigma against us thats getting most of us killed.