#last time i took mbti was a year ago.. i was enfj !

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230622 Seoul Subway & Travels As Seen Through the Eyes of SUHO

Many cities around the world have their own metro systems, but the one in Seoul is exceptional. The subway system in Seoul is the most tourist-friendly means of transportation. The Seoul Metropolitan Subway system, which helps tourists save time and energy, will be explored in the company of SUHO, the leader of boy band favorite, EXO.

SUHO, known for his meticulous planning, has curated a special travel course called the SUHO Line for those exploring Seoul. The SUHO Line encompasses various popular destinations in Seoul that SUHO frequents or aspires to visit, all easily accessible via the subway system. Before revealing the SUHO Line, let’s learn more about his typical day in Seoul and what he loves to do in this city.

Q. Where have you traveled to lately?

A. I went to the States for work a few days last year. I was there for about five days after shooting a TV show. I also went to Australia to shoot Besties in Wonderland.

* SUHO gave a presentation at the Korean Studies conference at Stanford University.

Q. Before we get started, what’s your MBTI personality type?

A. I'm ENFJ. I'm extroverted, and I like meeting people. And I love planning (laughter). I like talking to strangers, too. I’m a typical ENFJ.

Q. What are your latest hobbies or interests?

A. I really got into wines about two years ago. I don’t drink wine to get drunk. I guess I'm more of an avid learner. I try to write tasting notes whenever I drink wine, and I like to find new wines that I have never tried before. I'm still learning a lot about wines and enjoy drinking at places with a great atmosphere.

Q. It seems you like to experience new things.

A. I love discovering and learning new things. That’s why I got into wine. Oh, the weather has warmed up now. So, I promised Kai I’d go on a bike ride at Hangang Park soon.

Q. Do you like being active?

A. Yes, I like to stay active. But I'm not really into vigorous sports. I like roaming around to experience things myself.

Q. If you’re into wine, do you sometimes drink alone?

A. I rarely drink by myself. Instead, I watch YouTube videos on wine. Sometimes, I find some wines that look interesting in some of the videos. Then, I try to find places where I can taste those wines. I don’t tend to drink alone, so I call my friends to come and drink with me.

Q. You’re particularly known for the "J" of your MBTI type. To what extent do you plan ahead?

A. I mostly use Instagram to communicate with my fans and post images to become my photo diary later. I pick a few places I’d like to visit whenever I travel. Then, I search hashtags related to those places and see so many pictures uploaded by others. I capture some images that I think have good composition, and I pick the outfit I will wear when I go there. That’s how much I plan ahead (laughter).

Q. Is there a favorite shop of yours?

A. I usually shop online, or I go to select shops in Cheongdam-dong. I want to try out some of the vintage shops as well. I want to visit the vintage shop, Opal, that Chan-hyuk visited on the show, I Live Alone. I’ll pay a visit one day.

Q. Which one do you prefer more, dining or street bar?

A. It depends on my mood, but I prefer street bars when I’m in Korea.

Q. Would you visit street bars when you’re traveling?

A. Definitely. But it isn’t easy to be in public when I’m in Korea.

Q. You will be in public with us though (laughter).

A. It’s certainly easier if I’m shooting.

Q. When was the last time you took the subway?

A. I ride buses sometimes, but the last time I took the subway was three or four years ago in Japan. In Korea, the winter of 2012 was the last time I took the subway.

Q. Is there a part of Seoul you visit often or particularly like?

A. I often go to Cheongdam-dong or Sinsa-dong. I’ve been going to Seongsu-dong a lot lately. Samcheong-dong is a place I’d go for exhibitions and cafes.

Q. What is your favorite food?

A. Burgers. Specially handcrafted burgers. A burger can actually be a healthy food. There are carbs, protein, and veggies. You can ask them to custom make your burger to be less salty and whatnot. I really like this place called Zesty Saloon in Seongsu-dong.

Q. Do you enjoy taking pictures?

A. I can guarantee I’ll take the best picture of someone in less than a minute. Some people take good pictures of you without you actually posing or noticing. And I'm certainly that person. I wish my friends would take good pictures of me when I'm sitting at a bus stop or something, but they don’t (laughter). I have to ask them to take pictures for me, and I pretend I don’t notice them. When I share the pictures I took with my friends, most of them get surprised because they like how they look.

Q. How about you taking pictures of other tourists this time?

A. That’s actually a good idea. I really do take good pictures. I took pictures of Jiyeon Lim when we were in Australia shooting Besties in Wonderland, and she loved them. She posted a lot of them on her social media. Everyone likes pictures where they look good in them (laughter). I can quickly fill anyone’s Instagram feed with my pictures.

Q. Are there any parts of Seoul you’d like to discover?

A. Oh! I was always curious about those people who ride skateboards at Hangang Park. It looks really interesting. I'm quite good at inline skating, but I’ve never tried skateboarding. I want to try those outdoor rock-climbing walls, too.

Q. So, the keywords of SUHO Line will be “pictures, Hangang, shopping, and must-eat places.”

A. I guess so. I can’t wait to find out (laughter).

Everyone has different tastes when traveling, but we all like encountering something new. Starting from June 22 until July 13, the Seoul Tourism Organization's official YouTube channel, VisitSeoul TV. will release a new episode every Thursday of the SUHO Line series that features a special travel course curated by SUHO, with the theme focused on unveiling hidden gems. Spot the undiscovered charms of Seoul through the SUHO Line series.

[capricores]

Hi do you find a correlation between mbti personalities and astrology? Because if a person is honest in answering the questions there should be a similarity between his chart and his result right? But I’m starting to doubt astrology because I’m an air dominant but I’m an infp. My moon is air and I think my chart does not represent me at all? Do you doubt your chart sometimes?

i don’t rly doubt my chart, but i doubt mbti all the time eiufdjlfkdj i get a different result every year i take it 💀 (not that it’s not valid! i imagine it’s just.. we all change so much in a years time it would make sense to flip between different mbtis! esp since i’m an ambivert it explains why i flip between e/i depending on the day i take the test)

idk here’s my lil take (keep in mind i am Not educated on mbti so !!!! i’m using what i gathered from the mbti site on the meanings of the mbti letters, i could be interpreting them totally wrong tho and i apologize!). for reference, i’m going off of the information from this page:

Where you focus your attention – Extraversion (E) or Introversion (I) / The way you take in information – Sensing (S) or INtuition (N) / How you make decisions – Thinking (T) or Feeling (F) / How you deal with the world – Judging (J) or Perceiving (P) - credit themyersbriggs

☆ introverted vs extroverted - look mainly at 1st house & sun (but also possibly 10h, mars, venus, stelliums/dominants)

introverted/I: taurus, cancer, capricorn, virgo // pluto, saturn

extroverted/E: gemini, aries, leo, sagittarius, libra // jupiter, mars, venus, sun

most likely to be ambiverts: scorpio, pisces, aquarius // mercury, moon, uranus, neptune

↳ some aspects leading to being extroverted: sun-jupiter, sun-neptune, sun-uranus, ascendant-jupiter, ascendant-neptune, ascendant-sun, ascendant-uranus, venus-jupiter, venus-neptune, venus-uranus, mars-uranus (moreso makes someone outspoken though but could be taken as extroverted imo)

↳ some aspects leading to being introverted: sun-saturn, sun-moon square, sun-pluto harsh (square/opposition), venus and/or mars squaring or opposing saturn, mercury-saturn harsh (square/opposition - leads to biting tongue/holding back thoughts which i think could lead to someone being introverted)

★ sensing vs intuition - look to mercury mainly (but check your 12h/9h/3h, dominants/stelliums, moon)

sensing/S: virgo, capricorn, leo, aries // mercury, saturn, mars, sun

intuition/N: sagittarius, pisces, libra, cancer // jupiter, neptune, venus, moon

mix of both/dependent on other strong influences of chart: aquarius, gemini, taurus, scorpio // mercury, uranus, pluto

↳ some aspects leading to sensing: mercury-saturn, sun-saturn, moon-saturn, jupiter-saturn (this might create a good balance between intuition and sensing though, actually),

↳ some aspects leading to intuition: mercury-neptune, mercury-jupiter, moon-mercury, sun-moon (conjunct/trine/sextile), neptune-uranus, mercury-pluto, sun-pluto

☆ thinking vs feeling - look to moon and mercury mainly (sun, mars, 1st house i think could potentially influence this quite a bit as well...possibly a couple other houses too but i’m rambling too much and making things complicated)

thinking/T: capricorn, virgo, gemini, aries, scorpio, taurus, aquarius

feeling/F: pisces, cancer, libra, sagittarius, leo

(signs i think could also be both tho lol: scorpio, gemini, leo, sagittarius)

↳ some aspects leading to thinking: mercury-saturn, sun-mercury (conjunction especially; possibly trine/sextile as well), mercury-uranus, uranus-saturn

↳ some aspects leading to feeling: sun-moon (square & opposition mainly, i believe), moon-mercury, mercury-mars, mercury-venus, mercury-jupiter, mercury-neptune

★ judging vs perceiving - look to 1st house & sun mainly (i think mars, mercury, venus can also strongly influence this.. 10th, 11th houses too..)

judging/J: virgo, aries, capricorn, leo, cancer

perceiving/P: gemini, sagittarius, pisces, taurus, libra

mix of both i can’t decide: aquarius & scorpio

↳ some aspects leading to judging: sun/ascendant/mars/mercury-saturn, sun/ascendant/mars/mercury-pluto (especially conjunctions i think), sun/ascendant-mars 

↳ some aspects leading to perceiving: sun/ascendant/mars/mercury-neptune, sun/ascendant/mars/mercury-jupiter

💌 it’s kinda difficult to associate mbti with astrology because the natal chart is so complicated. an aspect to one of your planets can totally change it’s expression. if someone had sun in 1st, i’d assume them to be more an extrovert, but if their sun was in cancer and had a harsh aspect to saturn, they’re likely going to be an introvert. so it’s kind of tricky for me to connect astrology to mbti, it’s too complex. (not that mbti isn’t!!!)

[funkymbtifiction]

Hi! Hope you're doing well :) just saw your post that your cat is healing up, yay! On to some happier days for you both :)

I have two MBTI/enneagram questions. Feel free to answer either/both/none, whatever.

Question 1

This is a tritype + MBTI question. I've been ruminating a lot this summer about tritype, and have found it to be super illuminating for me to use in conjunction with MBTI. It blows my mind that these theories can build on and work with one another and that consistent patterns can be determined to help us understand ourselves and others better! (ok, getting off the little soapbox now.) I've had some frustrations deciding how to distinguish functions from enneatypes though.

How does one know whether they're a 5 because they are (maybe they're a Ti-dom, etc.) or because they're in a Ti-grip or some Ti-loop when they take the test? Same idea with 7s and Se, or other enneagram + function combinations that are really common?

Does the person in question (you) have problems with minimizing their life rather than expanding it? 5s shrink their world. Make it smaller. Do without more things. Deny themselves experiences. Pull away from people. Remain hidden. Observers, not participants. If you have 5 in your tritype, that will show up. It's not the same as low Ti nitpicking or tearing people's words to shreds to humiliate them. Ti breaks things apart to understand them; strong Ti knows how to then put them together again, with a strong understanding of how the object, system, belief, principle, etc., functions. Inferior Ti can pull things apart, but can't always put them back together again.

You need to know functions and Enneagarm types enough to know the difference; 5 is not analytical, and Ti is not analytical. 5 is minimization of needing anyone, anything, of shrinkage and distance; Ti is deconstruct, study it to learn it, and rebuild it through an inner framework of comprehensive understanding. It's not just driving a car, but knowing how the engine functions.

[...] How would someone know whether their answers to these tests are indicative of enneagram or MBTI, in your opinion?

The tests aren't reliable. You have to do inner studying to determine your type structure. To be able to see each number's mechanisms operating in you, when you are using them. (EG, being fully aware that I'm using 2 mechanisms right now... that my 7 really wants to cut and run and not stick around to face the hard stuff... that my 5 just said no to an experience for no reason other than fear... that 9 is overreacting to someone raising their voice, and I'm interpreting that as Threat Level 6...) Enneagram is meant to give you a window into your own default mechanisms, so you can be aware of them, and choose whether to surrender to instinct or choose a different path. A test can start you on a path, but you really need to focus inward to know for sure.

Regarding INFJ or ENFJ... are people your entire universe or secondary to your inner musings? Fe-doms can't shut off Fe. People are their world. Emotions are their world. Human dynamics are their world. INFJs can shut off Fe. They often do so, and become too lost in their heads, inert in the outer world, and fearful of Fe connections, because they may lose themselves in other people and that would pull them away from their thoughts.

If you have any input on parenting effects, or whether being around lots of Fe-users impacts Fe-usage (especially since Fe is all about mirroring and blending in to fit what others need/norms), I'd love to hear it. Thank you thank you thank you!!

Your environment does impact you somewhat, but you are "you" when you are alone. What do you choose to do? Where does your focus go? How well can you dwell "inside myself" for long periods of time? The longer extroverts do this, the more uncomfortable, depressed, or imbalanced they become, because their natural focus is on the world and its potentials. Introverts do this easily, because their natural focus is on their "me" filter (the world passes through me / my dominant function, I'm not a fish swimming in it).

[fandomsnfluff]

10 random facts about me!

i stole this idea from aceoftrashies and i wrote most of these on my 16+ hour drive home from florida. CW FOR MENTIONS OF SELF-HARM, MENTAL ILLNESS, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, & EATING DISORDERS

im from new england and i was born there, but i did live in the south for around 7 years. im an NE baby to the core and i love being up here, as beautiful as the south can be in the summer.

im learning japanese! im around the beginner to intermediate level threshold, and while i can’t understand it very well when i listen to it, i like to listen to videos where people speak it so i can learn how it sounds.

im a music student who is majoring in viola performance and education. i also played piano when i was in 1st-2nd grade but only for a year since one of the parents at the recital took my music away and i was kinda traumatized by that so i didn’t want to go through that again. i’m kind of an intermediate level piano player right now and i’m not great at sight-reading, but if i really commit to learning a piece i can get it under my belt within a few weeks depending on how much i practice. i also enjoy singing from time to time and i have a pretty wide vocal range (spinto soprano all the way down to baritone). it’s approximately from E3-E6, but ive gone as low as an A2 and as high as an E7.

(CW START!!!) ive been dealing with a plethora of mental illnesses for most of my life, the earliest signs of anxiety and depression presenting themselves around when I was 5-6 years of age. i was formally diagnosed at 16, and through a couple more years of therapy i found out i also had ADHD (runs in my family and it’s rather severe, symptoms have been around since middle/high school so it’s strange that i didn’t decide to get it treated until this spring), dyslexia, PTSD (triggered by a car accident in 2019 and is set off by any mentions or details of vehicle trauma), body dysmorphia (set in when i was old enough to be conscious of my body and its shape which was around age 5), gender dysphoria, and i was diagnosed with an eating disorder last summer that‘s characteristic of periods of bingeing and severe intake restriction. it got better with therapy but i still struggle with it from time to time, and the symptoms have been around since elementary/middle school. i also went through a rough period in high school where i went through periods of self injurious behavior, i didn’t get the proper therapy for it though so i still have really strong urges. (CW END)

im adopted! my twin brother and i were when we were only 6 months old and we don’t have much of a memory of what it was like before or who we were around. we still have connections with the family despite it being a bit dysfunctional and kind of abusive, but my birth mother is a really kind person and someone i feel like i would be able to connect with. a bunch of physical disorders and disabilities do run though, like heart disease, diabetes, chronic bronchitis, and a shit ton of other things which sucks.

i really love driving! ive had my license for about 2 and a half years and im a very safe and observant driver (likely attributed to the fact that i got it in a state where it’s difficult to get a license anyway). i just got my first car last month which ill be sharing with my brother until we have to get a fourth car so i can take one to school my senior year of college. funny how much i love it when i have so much trauma attached to it 😅

ive traveled internationally twice, and my parents weren’t with me for either. in 2018 i flew to germany with a friend to perform at a music festival, and less than a year later in the spring i went to italy with my high school latin class.

im really into personality tests! i find the myers-briggs test to be rather interesting, but ive also studied enneagram, temperaments, and aspects of my own astrology. for example, im an ENFJ (mbti), 2w3 with a 295 tri type (enneagram), phlegmatic-sanguine (temperament), and taurus sun, capricorn rising, and taurus moon (astrology).

i like to make drinks and bake in my free time! i make a lot of coffee drinks and i can make an iced matcha latte from scratch, and i like to follow recipes for desserts and other carby snacks. i also like to make breakfast foods like eggs, omelettes, and pancakes. trust me, ya boy can make a mean cheese omelette 😉 

i sometimes like to paint and draw, and with the watercolor set i use i like to use reference images. i’ve been drawing since before i could walk, and right now writing and reading are taking over as my main passion, but i had an art phase that began in my pre-teen years all the way to my mid-teen years. i still have all the skills but i don’t dabble in drawing as much as i did five or so years ago.

[voyage-in-the-dark]

TGCF mbti typings

I typed Xielian, Huacheng and Junwu before here but I am adding on to my typings for all three of them.

Xielian - ENFJ

Fe: I think most people can agree that he is an FJ. His narration is dominated and permeated by an awareness and concern for others’ well-being and their feelings, with little to no focus, awareness or reflection on his own feelings --> Fe, lack of Fi. He shows signs of feeling responsible for people’s well-being.

Ni: He is NFJ rather than SFJ: when he was young, he was arrogant because of the conviction he had in his beliefs, which I think is because he took his belief as more real than even reality itself (Ni). He was confident because he was confident in the ‘truth’ of his ideals, and his ideals are distinctly NF: he wanted to save all the people. 800 years later, his idealism is still very clear. When he explains what happened in the Yongan war, he said that he would rather Lang Qianqiu think that he had died than that his ideals were wrong or flawed. Ideals were important to him over all else, even how people saw him --> Ni. The scene at the end of the book in the mountain where he would rather Junwu harm him than to admit that his ideals were wrong again shows how heavily he prioritizes his ideals over all else.

Introversion or extroversion?: I used to think he was an extrovert because he was often involved in many events and actions in TGCF, but most of his ‘extroversion’ is because he is responding to the roller-coaster of events and crises happening. He is pushed into action rather than initiating action. So, perhaps an introvert?

Extroversion, tertiary Se: However, he is very forgiving and very patient, even towards others who have harmed him, or people who are bad, cruel or hurtful (Fe-doms tend to forgive much easier than Fe-auxes) and his flaws seem to be more directly related to inferior Ti (not advocating sufficiently for himself and his needs, periods of intense self-doubt)... In Book 4, he was quick to regain faith in people if only ONE person would be kind to him, which to me spoke more of dominant Fe’s forgiveness and ability to trust in others. His low self-awareness of his feelings --> dominant Fe. When he is under stress, it is mostly expressed through tertiary Se: anger towards others, hot-headed, rather than Ti: criticism of others. His Se is too strong for inferior Se: he actually adapts very well to the rapid changes and crisis, and he is very quick on his feet. 

I had thought that when compared to Shi Qingxuan, he seems like an introvert, but I think Chinese society does not reward overly extroverted behavior, but rewards fitting social expectations. So, one is usually less expressive and minds one’s business. It means that in Chinese society, Fe-doms come off almost like introverts.

Huacheng also compensates for his low Se-Ti. Huacheng simplifies his overthinking/overworrying, helps him cut through things when it’s complicated, helps him look at things in a more realistic way because he helps XL understand what he can/can’t control, and helps him find contentment/happiness in the present moment.

Given that Xielian is ENFJ, Junwu is likely ENFJ as well.

Huacheng - ISTP or ISFP depending on what MXTX needs him to be for the narration

Ti-dom v Fi-dom: Huacheng is very hard to type because MXTX projects onto him quite heavily, lol. 800 years ago, Huacheng is that ISFP stereotype: intense and emotional, angsty and angry, devoted and fierce. Most of time, when it’s a scene related to the past, or it’s a Tonglu scene, Huacheng will be ISFP, lol. For instance, in Book 3/4, when Xielian and Fengxin/Muqing enter Mt Tonglu, every character commented on how different Huacheng seemed, and I can only conclude that it was because they were reacting to the ISFP Huacheng, lol.

Aux-Se: I think the only thing that doesn’t change about him is the aux-Se. In the past, it was seen in how his pent-up feelings expressed themselves physically, through shouting or anger. In the present, it’s seen in his extravagant, ‘just coz’ gestures of love towards Xielian (the temple with the lanterns, the carriage, etc). Even when he kept changing his clothes during the Black Water arc was a sign of him using Se to entertain himself through his boredom. Xielian also describes him as playful, and not taking things seriously and he likes to tease Xielian to watch him get flustered.

Ti-dom: Dominant Ti is obvious in present Hualian. He is very detached and is quite hard to know unless he cares about you. He has a very small number of people he cares about (literally only Xielian, lol). During the Black Water arc, he stood by the sidelines despite other characters being in danger, and he was perfectly comfortable with ignoring the danger/distress of everyone involved, because he didn’t feel morally/emotionally affected nor personally involved in the slightest, showing amorality --> high Ti. Ti-doms generally prefer watching how things will play out before intervening, especially if messy emotions are on display.

The arrogance towards others, the superiority/dismissive attitude towards people is a classic example of immature and reductive dominant Ti. He is also strongly characterized as being very sharp, analytical and investigative. The way he understands people is very simplistic and reductive, none of the nuance of an F, more like a T with F issues: he generally seems to see people as useless and not worth his attention unless they are useful or they are dangerous (powerful).

Inferior Te or inferior Fe: His inferiority complex and his desperation with feeling so powerless puzzled me for a long time. It sounded like a Feeler using their lower Thinking function to deal with pain, and it sounds specifically like lower Te trying to compensate for higher Fi wounds. In other words, trying to be powerful in the external world to feel less powerless when the wound is actually inside, not outside. It was not consistent with the way a Thinker might relate to issues of powerlessness. I entertained the possibility that the confident and arrogant Huacheng was a facade that was put up (a Feeler using their lower Thinking function to pretend to be powerful, capable and competent), but it doesn’t make sense, because as an ISFP, this would mean he was using inferior Te for prolonged periods of time (800 years, give or take?) and who is able to sustain that? It would mean his personality is gripping most of the time and he would actually be very psychologically unstable, but the confident and competent Huacheng seems quite at ease being confident and competent, not like he’s putting on a facade, and it seems more like there are two totally different Huachengs. ISFP Huacheng struggles with powerlessness and having absolutely NO self-worth whatsoever. ISTP Huacheng, if MXTX had ever developed him, likely would have struggled with seeing people valuable in and of themselves, rather than waste-of-spaces. (Ti integrating Fe)

Conclusion: Xielian is attracted to the ISTP Huacheng - he finds Huacheng’s confidence and easy way of carrying himself very attractive (lower function envy), and I think the strength of Hualian lies in the ENFJ/ISTP attraction and dynamic. MXTX said in the notes at the end of book two that she wrote this book because of seeing the image of an abandoned temple with the a soon-to-be forgotten god and his last believer. It seems that her original plan for the devoted follower/love interest was for him to be an ISFP (and the nature of dominant Fi would make for a very good devoted love interest), but when it came to the actual ship, she herself quite liked powerful badass T types (see Lan Wangji and Huacheng’s almost ridiculous badass competence), and she made him a Ti-dom instead.

[astrologicallygracie]

Lmfao.. I’m like so bias when taking the mbti test , every time I take it I get a new result, it’s like it depends what mood I am in that day and it effects my results so I can’t be trusted 😂😂😂

Ugh same! As the wonderful @venusian5 so wonderfully put, “One of the greatest things about astrology is that there are no retests.”

I definitely love the concept of the mbti personality test but I think the only flaw in it is that people aren’t always going to have the same personality “type” for their entire life. People are always changing, evolving, and discovering new bits of themselves and what they like and what they don’t. I think the test is fun and I love seeing what celebrities have the same personality type as me. I can’t remember my type exactly but I took it again a week ago for the first time in 2 years which was when I last took it (which is funny that you mention it lol). When I first took it 2 years ago I was an INFP and now I believe I’m either an ENFJ/INFJ (it’s whichever one Obama and Oprah are because they came up as matching celebrities in my results). I feel like that can be an interesting thing about personality types is seeing how you’ve changed or what you’re more like that day or whatever but I wouldn’t consider it as reliable because of the reasons you state. We can be biased with ourselves sometimes like some days we might feel more introverted or extroverted and it can alter our results. It’s definitely interesting and fun though!

💞🌿

[lovenfj]

update

first of all: wow, i've missed this blog. a lot has changed since i last came on here! first of all, my relationship with INTP came to an end a bit less than a year ago. long story short, some things took the wrong turn and we decided that we were both better off. i hope we can be friends again in the future. that was also quite a difficult time of my life to manage so I kind of drifted from Tumblr. i'm keeping all my INTP x ENFJ posts of course and still think it's one hell of a powerful pairing. ^-^ secondly, i've changed my work place recently and have got a whole bunch of new awesome colleagues to have MBTI fun with. the company also uses MBTI as a methodology to understand each other better, i love it. and i'm also dating again! i'm proud of myself for taking the step. my world was turned upside down by an ENFP... looks like i love me some intuitive perceivers, lol. it's crazily fun, romantic, loving, supportive and spontaneous! every day of my life since meeting the ENFP has been an adventure. i can't wait to tell you all more about how it works out. see you all around soon <3

[staysuki]

You know now that 🌺 anon has mentioned it I might as well out myself lol

Nice guess about me being Capricorn. I’m in actual fact a cancer… yeah, I honestly don’t give off cancer vibes at all. 🤡 Maybe I'm like that rouge cancer that people forget exists, but there are def some points that add up like compassion and emotion.

My dominant sign is Gemini which kinda works but I wish I was a Scorpio lol. Like scorpios are just so hot. Or Leo, they have a sexy brain too.

I mean cancers are cute tho, usually Dow eyed and bubbly. Were often care givers. Major mommy vibes ✋🏼

A lot of people alway jump the gun when it comes to Aquarius and I never understood why. You guys are so fun and relaxing to be around.

Do you guys have an mbti? Mines INFJ / ENFJ. My personality Is so indecisive it can’t work out if I’m an introvert or extrovert lmao

~ Lovegame anon

cancer sistersss eyyooo ♋️💜

idk what dominant signs are, how do you know those 🤧😭. i honestly don’t know a lot about astrology

ooohh i love mbti. i always retake it cuz like, i believe that we’re everchanging and that it’s impossible to always stay static.

back when i was 13-14ish was the first time i took it, i was an INTJ THEN i retook it in like, junior year high school and i was an INTP. then last year, i took it again and i was an INFP (the one i put in my about me), then just a few days ago, i retook it and i got ENFP :,)))))

[goldenpctals]

TRUTH BOOTH, seo-jun edition

GENERAL QUESTIONS

1. Please state your full name: Seo-Jun Park 2. Does your name(s) have any kind of meaning? If so, what is it? Not to brag but Seo means ‘comfortable, easy’ and Jun means ‘handsome, talented’ 3. Do you have any nicknames? I don’t really like people giving me nicknames, so no 4. Where were you born? And in which country? Born and raised in Busan, South-Korea 5. What is your date of birth? February 14. Special, right? 6. Of course, the following question; what is your Zodiac sign? Aquarius 7. Do you believe in Zodiac signs? No 8. Where do you live? Violet Springs 9. What is your home situation like? (ex. do you live with your family? Your partner etc.?) I still live with my parents. We have a house in Violet Heights 10. Do you have any siblings? No 11. Do you have any kind of allergies? I’m allergic to cat hairs 12. Do you own any pets? If so, what kind of pets are they? No 13. Why did you apply to St Jude’s? To persue a career with NCT 14. Did you had to go through a lot audition rounds? No, they were pretty quick to accept me. I did only one dance and I was accepted 15. What is the current course you’re following? Music 16. If you can switch courses, which one would you switch to and why? Maybe modelling, not sure 17. What is your proudest project you’ve done? Anything with NCT 18. What is the proudest project that someone’s else has done? I’m not here long enough to answer this so 19. Do you like FanCons? Yeah, they’re cool 20. What do you like about FanCons? Meeting fans, especially when a lot of the NCT members are here. It’s chaotic and fun 21. What don’t you like about FanCons? We (NCT) deal with severe stalkers that somehow got our phonenumbers and stuff, we rather not want to meet them. We call them sasaengs 22. A fan memory that always stuck with you? Can be positive or negative. Anything the fans give me is nice 23. Your favorite event so far? Haven’t been here long enough yet so I don’t know 24. What kind of event would you like to see in the future? FanCon in Seoul 25. Would you recommend St Jude’s to friends, family. etc? Yeah, why not?

PERSONALITY QUESTIONS

26. What are your positive traits? I’d consider myself compassionate, motivated and very driven 27. What are you negative traits? Probably that I’m closed off or mysterious 28. What would other people describe you as? @ nctzens (our fans) 29. What are your pet peeves? Anything that has to do with not working hard for your goal. Moaning about something, and not working hard enough, is not going to get you anywhere 30. What makes you happy? Performing with my members, touring 31. What makes you upset? Not a lot of things make me upset, but probably if I over-work 32. What is something you love? Art in forms of dance and performances 33. What is something you dislike? I hate being lazy. I’m adventurous and I want to out there 34. What are you strengths? I’m very well-driven and career focused. Career above anything else to be honest 35. What are you weaknesses? That my career is my number one priority 36. A misconception people often think of you? Probably that I’m some kind of douchebag who lives in his own little world? I don’t, I’m quite social 37. Do you have any fears? No, not really 38. What scares you the most? Failing 39. What do you do to entertain yourself? I go to the dance studio and practice dance 40. What is your MBTI? ENFJ. I took the test years ago so 41. How do you deal with stress? I dance 42. Are you a determined person? Are you a stubborn person? Both, pretty much 43. Do you consider yourself selfish? Yeah. Who says selfish was a bad thing, though? 44. Would you like to be different? Nope 45. Are you more introverted (focused on your inner world) or more extraverted (focused on other people and the outer world)? Extroverted

ROMANCE QUESTIONS

46. What is your sexual orientation? Heterosexual 47. Current relationship status? Single 48. When was your first kiss? It was with Ahreum when we were still dating 49. Do you remember your first date? If so, with who was it? What did you do? Also with Ahreum, we went to get some food. I believe Korean barbeque 50. Have you ever experienced heart-break? No, I have not 51. Have you ever been in love? (If yes, skip to question 53) No 52. If no, how so? My career is very important to me, I tend to suck at keeping my career and my love-life in one line 53. How do you know when you’re in love? n/a 54. What would be your ideal date? I’m adventurous so let’s go explore, go hiking, bungeejumping, something different. Hate being regular 55. What is your perspective on marriage? My parents are strict and they are all up for setting me up with someone else because of history and to gain their legacy. However, I’ll see how it goes 56. (only for non-virgins) Are you a sub, dom or switch? n/a 57. What do you think of relationships? It’s not like, I’m not open to them. Of course I’m open to them but I just don’t think I can 58. What do you think of one-night stands? Not for me 59. Are you still a virgin? I am 60. Most attractive trait in a different person? Humour 61. What matters most to you when it comes to a relationship? Understanding. If someone would not understand how important my career is, then it won’t work 62. Are you comfortable with PDA? Or would you be comfortable with PDA? It’s more for private / alone time 63. Are you more of a type to be asked out or the type to ask the other out? Both 64. How do you express love to the other? No idea? Never really dated well enough. Ask Ahreum, LOL 65. Who is your celebrity crush? Probably Lee Ji-Eun

GETTING DEEP QUESTIONS

66. Do you regret anything? No, life would be boring if you did 67. Is there something you woule like to re-do? So, start all over again? No, not really 68. What is something you would never share with anyone? That I made my family rich by blackmailing their company 69. When was the last time you cried? Why did you cry? Probably a few years back? 70. Most memorable event that happened in your time in St Judes? This could be anything: Again, can’t really answer because my time here isn’t long 71. One thing you wish you could do all over? Nothing 72. Someone you miss? Duyi. He leaves me on read a lot and it hurts my feelings. One time, I had a pretty decent pick-up line and he left me on read for weeks 73. Something you wish you could forget? Nothing 74. Who has the biggest impact on you? All of the NCT members 75. What is your perspective on love? Is it beautiful? Does it scare you? When the time comes, I’d probably know. For now, however, it’s --- I don’t know 76. What has hurt you in the past that you don’t want others to go through? Being seen as such a failure in high school. Look at me now, though 77. What is something you have gained, something you have lost and something you let go of during the past year? Gained: Probably some recognition? Lost: Nothing. Something I let go of: To no worry about being a failure and just give it 100% 78. Have you ever lost a friend? do you wish you would still be friends? Duyi stop leaving me on read and be my friend 79. Do you have any triggers? What is the history behind these triggers and are they related to any disorders or mental illnesses? I don’t. I was bullied in high school however, but I came stronger from it 80. If you could meet your 16 year old self, what would tell them? You’re going be OK. It may seem hard because people see you as ‘the poor kid’ but one day, someone will recognise you for your talent and take you on one hell of a journey

RANDOM QUESTION ROUND

81. Summer or Winter? Winter 82. Cats or dogs? None, not really an animal person 83. Beach or mountains? Beaches 84. Phone calls or texting? Texting 85. Have you ever skipped class? No

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92 Questions

I was tagged by @teaandcookiesstudy. Sorry this took me so long! It was in my drafts for weeks!

WHAT WAS YOUR:

1. Last beverage: water (I’m a water and root beer exclusive girl)

2. Last phone call: to my best friend

3. Last text message: "no, not yet” (when answering as to whether or not I had bought my Halloween costume materials yet)

5. Last time you cried: It’s been months haha. I’m not really sure.

6. Dated someone twice: err... sort of?

7. Been cheated on: not to my knowledge

8. Kissed someone and regretted it: no

9. Lost someone special: yes

10. Been depressed: yes

11. Been drunk and threw up: EW no

LIST THREE FAVORITE COLORS

12. sky blue

13. light pink

14. white

LAST YEAR, HAVE YOU:

15. Made a new friend: yes, haha, so many

16. Fallen out of love: I did actually(:

17. Laughed until you cried: Yes! My stomach was sore afterwards.

18. Met someone who changed you: I haven’t met anyone new, but I’ve been changed by people I knew but got to know better

19. Found out who your true friends are: yes, and they’re awesome

20. Found out someone was talking about you: yes, but in a good way (apparently I got high praise, lol, I nearly hyperventilated)

21. Kissed any of your followers: WHAT? NO

GENERAL:

22. How many followers do you know in real life: I have Skyped and become Facebook friends with several of my followers... maybe like 10 or so?

23. Blood type: IDK but I think it’s O because I once read mosquitoes were most attracted to O blood and boiiiii they adore me

24. Do you have any pets: yes; 3 cats, a dog, and 4 chickens

25. Do you want to change your name: not really

26. What did you do for your last birthday: I didn’t do anything lol. Most people forgot about it. :(

27. What time did you wake up today: 7:00am

28. What were you doing at midnight last night: watching YouTube ;D

29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: THE NEW STAR WARS MOVIE

30.  Last time you saw your mom: like an hour ago

31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: what a terrible person I was when I was a kid

32. What are you listening to right now: Dear No One by Tori Kelly

33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: I think so.

34. What’s getting on your nerves right now: how messy my room is

36. Moles/marks: I have a scar on my knee from a scooter accident when I was eleven lol and a birthmark on my shin

35. Most visited webpage: My college’s homepage so I can get to Canvas HAHA. (2nd place is probably Wattpad though.)

37. Nickname: Han, Handa Bear, Banana, I have so many nicknames honestly

38. Favorite Movie: Oh man. I don’t know. Anything with that gorgeous hunka hero of a justice-lovin man Captain America and his precious plum-picking sinnamon roll bestie, Bucky Barnes.

39. Zodiac sign: Gemini

40. Pronouns: she/her

41. Elementary: I went to public school into 5th grade when I was homeschooled. Weirdly, I am now reconnecting with a bunch of friends from that time.

42. High school: My high school experience was lonely lol. College is much better.

43. Hair color: black

44. Hair length: midway down my back

45. Eye color: black

46. Height: 5′6″

47. Do you have a crush on someone: oh heck to the yes yes yes (honestly I am pretty past the crush stage)

48. What do you like about yourself: I have a reliable immune system and I work hard.

49. Piercings: in my ears

50. Tattoos: nope

51. Righty or lefty: righty

FIRSTS

52. First surgery: two years ago, I got 8 teeth removed (4 wisdom teeth + 4 others). It was insane, man, the dude cut them all out in 20 minutes.

53. First piercing: I was eleven, I believe, when I got my ears pierced.

54. First best friend: I was in kindergarten and her name was Kiera. I haven’t spoken to her since kindergarten ended.

55. First sport you joined: gymnastics

56. First vacation: No idea! Probably the beach in Florida.

57. Favorite pair of trainers: they’re black and they have rainbow colors on the side LIKE A BAWSE (they are also my only trainers)

58. First pair of shoes you bought on your own: I have no idea. I buy a lot of shoes hehe.

RIGHT NOW

59. Eating: I am digesting a cheese enchilada

60. Drinking: water

61. I’m about to: prepare for bed and mess around on social media :)

62. Wishing to: have more time so I can clean this mess of a room

63. Waiting for: Jesus

YOUR FUTURE:

64. Want kids: Haha not sure. Sometimes I think yes, especially with the right person, but then I babysit turds and I’m like “errr... maybe not.”

65. Get married: It’s one of my wishes in life :D

66. Career: Librarian maybe. Or social worker. My dream career is to be a writer. :)

WHICH IS BETTER

67. Lips or eyes: eyes

68. Hugs or kisses: I like hugs from everyone

69. Shorter or taller: taller

70. Older or younger: older

71. Romantic or spontaneous: romantic

72. Nice stomach or nice arms: stomach lol (”there were abs so I couldn’t brush my teeth”)

73. Sensitive or loud: sensitive

74. Hook-up or relationship: relationship

75. Trouble maker or hesitant: hesitant (I like sweet people)

HAVE YOU EVER:

76. Kissed a stranger: no

77. Drank hard liquor: no

78. Lost glasses/contacts: oh, on the daily

79. Sex on first date: how about no

80. Broke someone’s heart: Um, yes. It was my best friend too... He asked me out and I had feelings for someone else. I gave it a try, but honestly I didn’t anything but friendly love for him, even though he was amazing and perfect and I love him so much. I think that’s why he won’t talk to me now...

81. Had your own heart broken: yes, by the person I had feelings for when I broke my best friend’s heart

82. Been arrested: only pretend arrested

83. Turned someone down: yeah, I turn down everyone these days. I’m still held up on the person I STILL have feelings for

84. Cried when someone died: yes

85. Fallen for a friend: yes, and it’s the same dang dude I keep referencing!! He doesn’t know it yet. He thinks we’re close friends and says we’re going to “do life together”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:

86. Yourself: yes, I do :)

87. Miracles: YESS

88. Love at first sight: maybe connection at first sight?

89. Heaven/Afterlife: yes, I’m patiently waiting for it :)

90. Santa Claus: IN MY HEART I BELIEVE

91. MBTI: ENFJ

92. Current best friend’s name: Dana or Connor or Collin or Nathan or Mercy or Zachary or Emily or Adrienne or Rony or idk man I love ppl 

Gonna tag @acrasium @itscandyeyes @ohhstudies @bringings @mermaiid-studies @sciencescholar @singingwhileistudy 

[unfortunatelyimaginary]

Tagged by @acommonanomaly, thank you friend!

Nicknames: My real name is quite short, so in real life I don’t have any nicknames. On the internet, I’ve been called Muriel for a lon while, but Kay also works  Gender: I’m a girl Star Sign: Scorpio  MBTI Type: ENFJ Height: 5′ 6.5″ Time: 7:28pm Birthday: November 20th Fav Band: I really like movie soundtracks though? Hans Zimmer is amazing? Song stuck in my mind: The Assassin’s Creed soundtrack which I am 150% blaming @postcardfromapessimist for Last movie watched: Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them Last show watched: Also Doctor Who!  When did I create my blog:  Er… a year ago? It’s hard to pin down because it took me a while to figure out how to tumblr. What do I post about:  Funny things, interesting things, half a million fandoms

Last thing I googled:  Hmmm probably an address to see whether it was in walking distance from my college campus Do you have other blogs: Three - @wrongshallfail for history memes and stuff, @amusing-and-time-wasting for long useful posts, and @nonhuman-college-student which was originally intended to be a home for all the sad depressing stuff about me that I didn’t want to put on my main blog but has since been overwhelmed by a great quantity of ace/aro puns. Oh, wait, I forgot my tolkien blog. Oops. @tolkientolkientolkien mainly consists of artwork and funny stuff. Why did you choose your url: I like the idea of not existing? plus it kinda rung imaginary friend to me which made me happy Following: 282

Followers: 106 Fav Colour: Purple, Silver, Black Average hours of sleep:  7-8 ish Lucky number: Hmmm not sure? Instruments: Piano What I’m wearing: A floral…. er…. i’m not sure what it’s called exactly but it’s like a sundress but with short shorts instead of a skirt? and an awesome dark blue Assassin’s Creed sweater that’s mostly knitted with leather panels How many blankets do I sleep with:  As many as I can find, usually like 3 ish? and just sort of in a pile not tucked in or anything because it’s really warm where I live and three blankets is not really a smart choice for the temperature Dream job: Dunno, something where I can learn all the things and get paid for it Dream trip: Going somewhere with a lot of interesting history Fav food: Any sort of sugary dessert and pasta. Nationality: I was born in the US but my mom’s Canadian so I believe I have dual citizenship

Tagging (only do this if you’d like to, if you don’t want to do this thing just know that I thought of you and hope you have a wonderful day!)  - @someonebeatmetotheurl @emotionally-compromised-idiot @fetacheeseandsoup @fandom-in-abyss @antisocialpesimisticfangirl @bookdragonsruletheworld @againsquared @the-tardis-so-far @i-lost-my-shoe26

[arvale]

Tagged by @subliminalmusings Rules: Answer the questions on a new post and then tag some peeps you want to get to know better. Nickname: Marty, Martini Star sign: Scorpio Height: 190 cm Time right now: 14:51 Last thing googled: why does cum sometimes smell like bleach Favorite Music Artist: shrek Last movie watched: ex machina Last Tv show watched: broadchurch season 2 What are you wearing? tshirt, jeans,  When did you create your blog? 8 years ago What kind of stuff do you post on your blog? whatever i feel like Do you have any other blogs? si gender: male Hogwarts house: ravenclaw? i think so Pokemon Team: right now it’s alolan golem, alolan muk, slowpoke (to be slowking), growlithe, umbreon and rufflet Mbti: enfj moral alignment: i took a test and it said lawful good? idk what that means Favorite color: blue and orange Average hours of sleep: 7 or 8

Lucky number: 4

Favorite character(s): Red

How many blankets do you sleep with? 2

Dream Job(s): restoring old furniture 

Following: 1294

i tag: @gaybravo @nopisteuo @ccaesarsalad @pyrochasms 

[tenpercentsugar]

every time i take the test to find out my mbti it’s different than it was the last time. i think i took it two years ago and it said i was an enfj but now i’m an estp-t???