#kind of being forcefemmed right now

[hero-dualies-3]

Sorry to come into your asks, but regarding the user isuggestforcefem she did write it because there were asks she replied to that were about this whole thing

oh damn. that is crazy then. what is she on

[velvetvexations]

Honestly the whole "cringe queer identity VS Cool Real Edgy queer identity" has been going on for a while and it's extremely annoying. It's always the same concept too.

It was the same during ace discourse. It's now seen as somewhat tasteless to openly and proudly make random hateful comments about ace people, but you can still frequently see people make these kind of "jokes" where ace people are the stand-in for some sort of "annoying", naive person unlike the real queers who go to the club and take drugs and fuck and have real problems in the real world. The whole "Steven Universe queer VS Ketamine queer" type of comments.

There seems to be a whole subset of the queer community who clearly has a superiority complex and feels the need to see themselves as the edgy, cool queer people, mocking some other group that they see as childish, whiny losers who don't truly understand queerness (unlike them, the True Enlightened scoffing at these pathetic pale imitations).

Transmascs and nonbinary people AFAB (or those perceived to be) are often a target of this. This is how you get all the "trender" discourse. This is how you get a million different frameworks trying to define a subgroup of trans people as The Real Oppressed and stereotype another group as the Whiny Annoying Ones Who Don't Understand Oppression. It's also how, for example, you get people complaining that forcemasc is a cringy copy of forcefem (with forcefem being positioned as a kink for the Enlightened), that transmascs make cringy music unlike transfems who make cool music, and so on.

It's not even just within the trans community either. Another example of this mentality : the stereotype of the "toothpaste flag" or the achillean flag (or even using words like "achillean" or "MLM") as markers of being some sort of naive, childish UwU blue haired transmasc (the stereotypical "cringe person") who doesn't Truly Understand the gay label and probably spends all their time squealing about their cartoon character ships, unlike Real Gay Men, who would never behave like that as they are busy hooking up, doing drugs and being hatecrimed IRL (the Cool Person faces real oppression and does Cool Adult Things that would surely shock the innocent sheltered cringe person naively trying to imitate the Real Queers).

[I'm not mentioning stuff about hookups and drugs because I have a problem with these (perfectly fine things to do lmao), but because the queers with a superiority complex will definitely judge others based on their expression of sexuality for not being "subversive enough" (see: the forcemasc complaints, ace discourse, anything about "bi women with a boyfriend / who only date men"...) and pride themselves because their own sexuality is more "cool", "real", "truly queer" than the one of Cringy Losers. And they will often bring up that stuff to more or less subtly imply they're the Real Queers, because apparently the Cringe Identities wouldn't do these things (and if the Cringe People did, they wouldn't do it the Right Way so it wouldn't be as cool, edgy or morally right as when they do it, of course).]

It's hilarious when you can tell how insecure they are in their position as the Real Queers, e.g. "no trans woman is binary in a way that counts."

[sanderssidesthehouse]

Sanders Sides Ranked: Flirting???

Why do I have “For Legal Reasons This is a Joke” stamped on the front here? Because I get to saying some shit later that is NOT meant to be taken seriously. I enjoy saying words recreationally and making bits, not everything I say all the time is an accurate representation of my thoughts or beliefs and I just want to make that clear when posting on the piss on the poor webbed site.

Sorry, Logan. I don’t think he cares actually, but just in case. I would [verb] you. I also don’t think he cares about that, but just in case.

Also after adding the text on Logan's picture I decided I should add a little blurb to every slide so you can tell exactly how not biased I am.

When trying to decide on widespread appeal I had to acknowledge that most people would probably find him kind of annoying, which is his right, for sure, but then I had to gauge how annoying and how much that mattered and it took me a while.

For niche appeal, I just think that most theater kids™ don’t want to [verb] other theater kids™. They do [verb] for sure, but mostly because they can’t get anyone else because they’re theater kids™ and I think other insecure people mostly want to give him a hug.

(I was a theater kid but not a theater kid™, though I knew some. I just want theater kids™ to know it is their right to be insufferable.)

He's really kind of got two tricks, one is being dad and the other is being sad. I think I'd like to give him a Patt-on the head. If you're into that, though, hopefully you're also into frogs.

Look I was at one point part of all four niche appeal groups and I’m still part of two, this may be a targeted attack, but I caught myself in the crossfire.

Putting Roman in there was a joke bc you cannot tell me you don't classify what Janus was doing as flirting and it worked very well on our prince.

And unrelated to the ranking, I just get jump scared every time I see what Janus actually looks like bc he has long hair to me now. Where are his beautiful locks? Who cut my wife's hair?

Ok look. Quality of banter. We ALL saw his episode, ok? That was NOT top tier creative work. Granted he’s been locked in the basement for a long time so it’s understandable, but that doesn’t change the facts. 

For his blurb I was between what I wrote and something along the lines of "I would forcefem him" and I don't think either of those convey to you how not biased I am but just know that I adore him.

I had a blast making this, I kept cracking myself up, which means probably zero other people think it’s funny but here we are.

I actually went into this thinking I would have Logan as the worst and I thought Roman and Janus would tie for best so I’m glad to see we all have the same general consensus. It looks like this list would go Roman, Janus, Patton, Remus, Virgil, Logan.

I did my best to cut out any egregious swearing and anything explicit so I hope everyone can appreciate my sacrifice /j. Thanks for joining me, argue about it in the comments and reblogs. (<- Also a joke, please be nice.)

[hiskillingjar]

Heeeyy do you think you could do some headcanons for strade and ren with a femenine transmasc mc?

trans rights! yeah! trans rights!!!

ren 🦊

ren's a super open-minded and progressive guy so he wouldn't have like. anything to say about it

if you corrected him on your pronouns even once, he'd take it on and wouldn't slip up again.

he's super plugged into like. queer + trans stuff online too so he wouldn't need to be schooled on much either

if you were more fem presenting, he'd be thrilled! best of both worlds (he likes feminine aesthetics and presentation while being pan)

might want to dabble in forcefem. because. horny

he'd also be super comfortable dating a trans person, fem or masc. pan privilege!

he'd have reminders of your t-shots on his phone and he'd be really attentive to keeping you stocked with testosterone and meds (even in the captive scenario <3)

genuinely, ask him to do anything and he'd do it. as long as you kept sweet on him ^_^

law 🥀

law wouldn't. really understand at first

especially if you were more feminine presenting. they would assume stuff and be presumptuous off the bat.

that's purely down to ignorance and not being exposed to it though, not out of genuine malice

if you sat them down and like. spoke through things, they'd be like "ah...okay...i think i understand better now"

and like. if you actually talked them through queer resources and that kind of thing, maybe even gave them some books or showed them trans art or literature, they might even be like "oh...this feels right, actually."

congratulations! you cracked the egg and you're t4t now!!

strade 🔨

does not care

way more plugged into the discourse than law is but he's a bisexual cis man in his thirties. he doesn't care

he'll use the right words in regular day-to-day life, regardless of the presentation. he's observant in that respect

but like. come on

he's a sadistic asshole lol

he'll cut off your binder and call you a 'good girl' if it makes you uncomfortable and scared

i think he'd also take the opportunity to play around with gender in the sexy way too, ala forcemasc and forcefem, as long as it got the reaction he wanted.

if you were boring, it would get dropped for something else though.

he'd be casually transphobic to get on your nerves while supplying you readily with testosterone and using the right pronouns. he's genuinely just an asshole, not bigoted in the slightest lol

[re--feminize-me]

hey yall, i was @re-feminizeme and unfortunately i cant log into my old acct on my new phone so i made a new one!!!

Mandatory disclaimer that transphobia in real life sucks and so does misogyny etc and i dont condone pretty much anything on this blog if its not in a consensual kink context, obviously. If this content triggers you pls block me.

loves

forcefem/feminization!!!!!!!

bondage esp shibari

brainwashing/conditioning/mind control

hypnosis!!!!!

breathplay

double penetration

edging & denial

being choked

likes

cnc (if in the mood)

breeding

bimbofication/dumbification

gaslighting/manipulation

spirals

being drugged (consensually and for the right person), esp. aphrodisiacs

degradation in very specific like, um, ways??? like um, i like sweet degradation.

exhibitionism but like um, im not like, TOOOOO into this its a minor kink for me

misogyny kink (which like, seems 2 be getting stronger lately fsr????)

curious about

lactation

hucow

consensual blackmailing

will update as i like, think of more???? if u think of anything not on this list ask me about it n like, it just may get added hahahahahaha

hard limits

findom/me

vomit

watersports/scat

cgl/ddlg/daddy dom anything

age regression

alternate personality stuff/anything related to that

feet

body shaming, esp weight related

weight control

racism/racist slurs/etc

any kind of incest including daddy/mommy as a title

ass to mouth in any capacity

rimming (giving)

I'm picky about who i like, chat with, um, but playing is a possibility if i like u 😳 feel free to send me asks/anons tho i always luv getting those ♡♡♡♡

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some of my hypnotic triggers im like, willing 2 share publicly

dr*p and sle*p - some obvious ones, put me into a trance

deeper and deeper - makes me go deep real fast if used after dr*p and/or sle*p

throb - makes me really horny and makes my cunt, well, throb

edge esp in all caps/bolded - makes me immediately reach an edge and if im touching i HAVE 2 stop until the edge has passed

like a good girl - makes me want to obey whatever precedes it

submit/surrender - makes me feel very obedient n like, submissive

tr*th - makes my subconscious answer a question without my conscious mind being aware of it and i will immediately forget answering the question after

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i occasionally make detrans/misgendering/bimbofication files (you can find them here!!) but im primarily a sub.

I've been listening to hypnosis for like 3-4 years and this is like, how ive turned out bc of it???? I really am detransitioning n becoming the best bimbo i CAN be irl this is not like, ENTIRELY a fantasy for me. ask me abt it??

my tits are like,,,, soooo big omg. last i posted abt them on my old blog they were a DDD/F cup and now theyre an i cup??????? i like, hope they keep getting bigger 😳😳

[flexbringer]

hey. care to explain how trans women making forcefem jokes made trump win.

yess, thanks for asking. I said "people taking this at face value is the reason trump won", not "trans people making jokes are at fault" i might respond on the original post due to popular demand. its a sensitive and complex topic and I definitely dont intend to offend or be the expert, but to state what ive experienced as someone who likes to mediate. Of course this isnt the only factor of the election but a big one when it comes to the anti-queer backlash we have been wittnessing recently.

The joke you're referring to - i didnt know when I made the comment - was satire of a bad alt-right take, which kind of proves my point.

The gist of it though: I assumed it was a tongue-in-cheek joke, but a lot of people (who aren't familiar with the queer-feminist bubble) don't, and think this is an actual serious stance and it is a point of contention for them, because these are the only types of things that leak from that bubble into theirs, not actual issues. I've heard from a lot of uninvolved people that they think this is what trans activism is actually about and then refuse to look into the topic further because of it.

Phrasings like in this joke literally have been weaponized (thank alex jones et al.) and allow people to believe that according to queerfeminism, "men" are solely defined as irredeemable, patriarchal people who adhere to toxic masculinity, and that men/males who don't display that behaviour aren't actual men anymore but eggs or non-men or whatever (just as the alt-right would). The unclear distinction between gender roles, gender and sex and it's interchangeable use aren't helping at all. Im still not sure how many queer activists on this website actually believe this as well.

Remember, this is the piss on the poor website. How did the saying go about satire being indistinguishable from real opinions these days? Also how easy is it to take an online post out of context?

Never thought I'd be the peetah/nancy under a joke that satirized a bad take, but here I am, since you asked.

In the end my vision and intention is to bring people to be better allies to each other and I am open to criticism, because who am I? Just another person on the internet. The time for community building and making as many friends as possible is now.

Stay strong, stay safe!

[chiisana-sukima]

Happy Wincest Wednesday! I have my first appointment for HRT today (eeeee) so everyone's getting the same question: thoughts on trans wincest? Is it something you like to think about? How do you trans the Winchesters? Which one(s) and which way(s)? And of course, most importantly: how does that impact the sex?

- schizosamwincester

Happy Wincest Wednesday and congratulations!! I'm so happy for you!!

I do have trans Winchester headcanons! My favorite are trans girl Sam and transfemme genderfluid Dean.

For Sam, I like to imagine she's known vaguely that she's trans forever and feels like it's something wrong with her, exactly like the demon blood feels like something has always been wrong with her. I think she's deep in the closet (is that still what the kids call it these days or is it "stealth"? or is "stealth" only when you present as your real gender but you pass as cis so well no one knows you're trans, not if you're presenting as your AGAB to keep being trans a secret? terminology changes so fast and I am so old and slow lol). Anyway, I think Sam is deeply ashamed of being secretly a girl on the inside until she goes to college and meets Jess. Even after Jess encourages her and tells her its alright and then dies, she still has deeply complicated feelings and presents as male to everyone except Dean, and later Ruby. (And later still of course Lucifer finds out while they're in the Cage and uses it against her to make her feel even worse).

I love that in this scenario, Dean calling Sam bitch and teasing her about her soft girly hair and skin etc is secretly gender-affirming. It looks to outsiders like just brotherly teasing, but to them it's a sign that Dean loves and accepts her as his sister.

Jess, Dean, and Ruby all top her because that's what Sam likes. Jess and Dean are both slow and gentle and say what a good girl she is, how pretty she is, etc. Ruby is more the forcefem type, but also gives Sam lots of the same kind of praise she did in canon, but for being femme and compliant during sex as well as drinking her blood. This is both deeply satisfying and gender-affirming for Sam and also makes her more ashamed and fucked up about it even than she was before, because it links the dysphoria and the demon blood even more tightly. (Poor Sam, nothing is ever easy for her).

For Dean headcanons, I see him more as the type of person that in my generation used to conceptualize themselves as a "man with a crossdressing fetish" but who now would be more likely to say they are genderfluid. Maybe he secretly tried on Mary's high heels as a little boy and then later as we know he loved it when the infamous Rhonda Hurley "made" him wear the lacy pink panties. I think he loves for Sam to "make" him dress femme for sex too or wear panties under his FBI suit etc.

Unlike my Sam headcanon though, Dean isn't actually ashamed of who he is in this scenario, it's just more of that paper thin veneer he layers over so much of his interior life but that people who are close to him are allowed/encouraged to push right past and share in his joie de vivre. He loves cosplay, and his everyday macho masc hunter presentation is just as much cosplay to him as his/her femme presentation for kink or relaxing around the bunker purposes is. Unlike the Ruby/Sam scenario, the amount of ordering and convincing Sam needs to actually do is zero. It's more like, Sam and Dean will get back to the bunker after a case and rather than watch a horror flick in the Dean cave on some nights, Dean'll be like

[tanadrin]

Also FtM detrans porn guy again - yes there are forced masc fics on AO3 and other places, no it is not a common kink at all. Shame.

I think part of the lack of symmetry between forcefem for MtFs and forced masc for FtMs is the way HRT works for each transition and how society treats trans people mid transition. Testosterone works much faster and (in some respects) more permanently than estrogen. Standard disclaimer, YMMV, but many FtMs on T report passing as cis much sooner than MtFs on E. On T, the voice drops, body and facial hair and acne start, and genital changes occur often within the first few months. FtMs are often assumed to be younger than they are, because they're going through male puberty late, but generally assumed to be teen boys, not women. Cis boys start puberty smooth faced and high voiced - cis girls do not start puberty deep voiced and with stubble.

On the social side, trans men who mostly pass but are read as effeminate or gay or trans are not necessarily treated well, but mostly are mistreated as failed men, if that makes sense. I would say that the bar for passing is often lower in some respects for trans men than for trans women. A short, effeminate, chubby man will likely be read as a gay guy, rather than explicitly trans, for example. On the other hand, trans women who mostly pass but are read as masculine are much more likely to be read as male, full stop. You're probably aware of the whole Man In Dress In Woman's Safe Space political focus right now. There is a strong pressure on MtFs to pass perfectly as early as possible, because a girly man in the men's locker room or a mannish woman in the women's locker room is going to be scrutinized, shamed, and shunned (in many places). It's also more likely to be harder for an MtF to pass, because the effects of testosterone are fast and permanent. There's facial feminization surgery, but much less masculinization surgery. There's MtF voice training, not so much FtM.

Connecting the social pressure to pass and the physical limitations for trans people to do so, forcefem seems like a much more immediately desirable thing for MtFs. Wave a magic wand, don't worry about stares in restrooms because you look in all ways like a cis woman. Can't argue with you about transition choices because whoops, someone else feminized you and it's not your fault at all. Reference the romance novel trope that the noncon and dubcon and men behaving manipulatively are ways to get around the inherent mortification of the woman explicitly asking for kinky sex or gifts. Contrast than with forced masc for FtMs - it's often easier to pass earlier on during medical transition, so less time spent on e.g. the bathroom dilemma. Less pressure and more wiggle room with what's accepted as Standard Gendered Presentation And Demeanor. Why fantasize when the reality is not far off anyhow?

Also side note: the ways in which cis men treat trans women as failed men or objects of sexual desire are often mirrored by the way some sections of radfems talk about or treat trans men, but I've seen almost no fetish around the latter as I have the former. I don't know why this is, but I highly suspect that the incredible number of very dedicated radfem posters on Tumblr would make it awkward. Imagine trying to run a sex scene with a humiliation kink and someone busts in off the street and starts trying to convince you it's emotional self harm and you're actually disgusting for real for being into it. Kind of ruins the whole vibe even if you kick them out mid lecture.

Anyway thanks for the post and I promise this is the last ask lol

Yeah, I think the intuition for forced feminization porn is a lot clearer to me, just because our society has for so long treated male-assigned people transgressing gender boundaries as shameful and disgusting (or even an explicit punishment), while the reverse dynamic is much less charged. Thus trans women get treated as perverts and predators while trans men get treated mostly as poor deluded self mutilating women. Both are miserable, but the sense of threat and the desire for plausible deniability of sorts in the erotic imagination seems higher in the first instance.

[threadsun]

THE 🧸 TEDDY BEAR 🧸 IS HERE TO INFODUMP THE DoL PCs!!! I have four main ones for different playstyles/romancing our four favourite beans; in order of most to least likely to make friends with Izzy we have Zoe, Max, Faith and Natalie. I also cheat the stats around because I am a weenie and don't want them to get hurt outside of my control lmao call that CNC

Zoe is my transfem black-and-purple-aesthetic babygirl and local Whitney slut. She's kind of a reactive bully, Whitney's a bad influence on her, but she has a soft spot for the fellow orphans and will generally redirect her 'boyfriend's ire away from them where she can. While they started dating with him at high dom, over time and Drama I figured he'd soften up a little (touch-starved, affection-deprived bully finds love, gets clingy). They have tattoos of each other's names, they have matching collars (Whitney's is spiky), and they absolutely fuck nasty on Leighton's desk while he takes photos. You'd think Whitney's forcefem kink would be wasted on a gf who's already transfem, but she plays along and wears a lil chastity cage and everything. She'd be the most likely to be friends with Izzy, both being cheer-outfit transfems who are too busy flirting to study properly. T4T makeouts ensue, Whitney can watch idc lmao

Max is a big fuckin boy, just a beefy big wolfman badboy with a heart of gold. Real German Shepherd energy. He works really hard at the docks and comes home late, so his grades aren't the best, but he's no delinquent. He shows up to every class, just kinda… daydreams through them. He's very protective of Robin and takes on their debt after saving them at the docks (with the help of his coworkers), becoming their personal guard dog. He also sticks up for Robin when they come out as genderfluid (NB!Robin from the crossdressing scenes gives me so much joy!) Would probably make friends with Izzy since she's nice, but he's very much Robin-sexual so they'd just be broskis.

Faith is my poor innocent baby who did no wrong and has the most, uh, non-mechanics-compliant story shiz. She and Sydney were all sweet and cute lil hetero-romantic celibate temple initiates holding hands and being innocent… until she had her halo broken and her wings blackened in the very temple she thought she'd be safe in. Sydney and Sirris took her home, and none of them ever went back to the temple again gdi LET ME RESCUE SYDNEY FROM THAT PLACE! They both end up disillusioned by the whole scenario and fall to corruption and demonhood pretty easily (demon!Sydney my beloved), but they're happy now and fucking in the change room as we speak. Faith probably wouldn't have been very good friends with Izzy before she fell, but afterwards? As long as Sydney's involved, the more the merrier! She's got three holes.

Finally, Natalie, poor dear Natalie… She's my Kylarmance. She used to be a really popular kid, a bit of a delinquent thanks to having a short temper about being harassed and groped all the time. But it was nice to have a friend who seemed genuinely interested in talking to her, even if people thought he was a creep. Sure, he had a shrine to her in his locker, but that was… kinda sweet? He hadn't hurt her or touched her or called her horrible things like most guys she knew. He was endearing, and such a talented artist, and she cuddled up to that owl plushie he gave her every night. So when Whitney threatened to lie about her if she wouldn't fuck him, she rejected him. She'd be able to tell Kylar it was a lie, right? That she didn't sleep around, she was waiting for Kyl- for the right person, you know? Well… a mild kidnapping later, he proved that she was telling the truth by taking her virginity himself, and slowly molding her into his ideal goth gf. They're totally 'married' now, trust me! And sure, she's become a total social outcast and basically never speaks to anyone else, she'd never really have the opportunity to make friends with Izzy, but she's HAPPY now. She has KYLAR. That's all she's ever needed.

(sorry this wound up so long I fuckin love this game I am kissing you on the mouth aaaAAAA 🧸💋🌞)

SHAKING HANDS WITH YOU SO HARD OVER PLAYING WITH CHEATS!!!!! Look, sometimes you get stuck in an infinite assault loop and you really just gotta teleport yourself home 😔 Also sometimes you wanna lose your handholding virginity to literally anyone other than someone's pet dog who you taught to shake paws.

Whitney would absolutely love to watch Zoe and Izzy go at it and he's valid!! These ladies deserve some hot t4t action >:3c

Max sounds sooooo sweet and Izzy would adore him, she'd just be so happy someone else cares about Robin too!!

You're so valid on non-mechanics-compliant stuff, I ignore the actual game canon all the time for the sake of what I think would be more realistic (and fun) for Izzy!! Including getting Sydney away from the goddamn temple!!! Gotta save that boy!!! And then Faith, Izzy, and Sydney can have a threesome about it :3c

God Natalie is soooooo valid and relatable, Kylar is simply so !!!!! How can you not love him? Especially once he kidnaps you and you develop stockholm syndrome 🥰

I'm so happy to hear about all of them, they all sound super fun!!!! Mwah mwah I am kissing you on the mouth too!!!!

[calledbyflowers]

shit i should write an essay called "i can wag my tail." cuz i can. im a dog and i can wag my tail. this is realized contextually. i am a dog that is an aspect of what i am that colors and contextualizes everything else i am and it is not a purely virtual aspect a phantom of life but is realized practically and evolved and is genuinely a way that i am instead of merely a way that i imagine i am

like i think if u can take kinda the kernel of radical feminism. which id say is the understanding that patriarchy does not interact with a pre-given sex but that sex itself is produced through various everyday acts and everyday styles of action and the power dynamics thereof. it is part of the way we live and derivatively how we speak. but the power dynamics and imbalances therein is constitutive of patriarchy, patriarchy is an inequality of life. so that sex appears side by side with patriarchy and the two intermingle, not identical but inseparable from each other

this at least in the case of sex as currently constituted. one must think seriously about transhumanism as a kind of transitioning humanism

this need not be a departure from humanity entirely a cradles graces (tho i think thatd b more cestial mechsnics? im a dumb mf dog). for exapmpl, i still consider myself a humanoid though not quite a person, as human-like and as in community and intimate with humanity. it is my blood

and so like thinking about how the evolution of the economic organization of humanity and the slaying of devils death to rich men and tyrants Christ with blade be upon ye!!!! and umm like how this creates potentialities for remaking what sex means which is to say in semantic terms another way of describing the correlative and explanetorily primary the remaking of how sex is lived and what we do as sexed beings, how we labour, etc. or loke that is to say changing what it means to br q human. a capitalost anf a communist soxiety disagree about what it is to be human and what the good life for humans is they r opposing ways of life.

and so like unmm so like sex is produced thru scts (hehe sex acts lmao) and like so forcefemming might actually make u a girl at least contextually on that scenerio u r being a girl just doing an identifiable characteristic of girl and maybe reinforce it and let it spread and like consciousness rewrites itself to meet its own needs and maybe i am suggesting that sissy hypno can make u trans and like thats to say it can be the materialization of a potentiality that i umm descriptive psychology eidetic inquiry retreating up my tower that like yknow sissy hypno can only make u trans if u were already potentially trans in a loaded sense that allows itself to shift thru reinterpretion.

which is to say the (rhyming with peirce but not saying thr same thng as him) the future changing the context of the past changing not what happrmedbut what it meant the overall more or less coherent narrative of a community (whoever shares in the transition journey and like gets to see all the different genders like my parents have seen 3 or arguably 4 outta me?

cuz like since baby me definitely felt nonbinary at the timr but in a way that's i can recomtectialize as always having veen a girl so i make more sense and am simpler and like sinplifying myself so that i may have greaterastery oher myselh eraltming weakening myself so i may strugglr with myself and best myself more easily by making myself more predictable subjecting myself to routine so i may tune my needs to a schedule and ensure i will be able to meet then planning aheas aboit wjat i might like in th future

by subjectkng myself to law i render myself more intelligible to myself so i do not get hungry and then be very scared since then i might feel very afraid when i am hungry like "oh no! i need the food right now!"

and thats dilly but i got a got a lotta complex needd as an organism interacting with and forming a part of a very conceptually dense sociel environment our society is so big and complicated! and that makes it possible for our needs to be so multivariant branching out like hedgehog spikes as the way we live becomes more like fucked cuz like i do genuinely think history has been speeding up or maybe im just very fucking high right now and a kind of ant-whig wanna be devo nihilists riding down into the depths...

is that what i believe? i do genuinely maintain a sorta kinda distance from what i write especially whule high off my tits and maybe its a kind of performance arts? or maybe its jusy demonstrating the forme of arguments a kimd of exercise in the structure of phenomenological arguments but ultimately its all stiff that yknow eidetic variation isnt exactly scientific in the end or yknow umm doggy....

im a doggy.....

i wag ny tail ..

.wood wikfeoof wikf eoof diggy

doggy

[velvetvexations]

(seems like the ask i sent last time about this didnt go through but apologies if it did) kink confession. i finally found a fetish i am into that is embarrassing to admit for non-"problematic" reasons and its fucking. wedgies. whyyyyy. in hindsight i should have seen this coming because i have vague memories of making shitty wedgie art as a kid because of that signature funny feeling about it but apparently i fully locked away those memories lol. its even funnier because i usually get squicked out by regular degradation/humiliation/pain stuff but i guess this specifically is fine for some reason? its also one of those ones where i prefer it completely removed from any fantasy where i am actually involved so maybe thats why (ace and not particularly interested in actual sex. you might remember me from one or more of the forcemasc anons a while back lol)

I've gotten a few wedgie anons before so you're definitely not alone. It's one of my earliest kinks tbh even though it's not something I think about much now. But like, when I was a kid, and I watched the episode of The Amanda Show where the lady doctor gets a wedgie? That had an impact on me.

Checking in on someone who used to draw a lot of forcefem and seeing a brand new "Pronouns: She/Her" on her page made me unexpectedly happy. Not because becoming a woman is necessarily an improvement, but finding out a part of yourself through artistic expression is always wonderful. Happy for her :) (idk why I wanted to share with you specifically but I think you're super cool so it was probably that)

Yeah, that's awesome!

Cleaning dream anon here: what’s your fee for a cleaner? By which I obviously mean how much do I need to pay you to be allowed to scrub your floors with my tits shaking and lick your toilet clean and only be allowed a break when you have gas or need a punching bag?

As much as you can pay, obviously.

Im the non sexual doscomfort anon and i need you to know that you calling me ‘the mark’ made me loterally whimper, out loud, very pathetixally. And then let my sinner go cold before eating it because it seemes like you would apprectaite that.

lmao sometimes "the sub" just doesn't sound right you know

i "discovered" a new kink of mine thanks to some anons a while back: forcefamily. being lured into a couples car because they asked you to help load their groceries but, oh no, looks like they left their keys up front and the only way in is through the trunk. so you crawl in and... click! welcome to the family, kiddo!

that sounds like it'd be a horror movie from the past ten years that I hate but everyone else calls groundbreaking

to the anon who sent a message about not being into bimbofication but into being a creepy loser girl: I hope you know that bimbo x loser as you described is gonna be my warm up project for when I buckle down to write soon

content!

Forcefem was very unpopular and considered transmisogynistic just years ago by popular tumblr. It's even considered that way now if it's called 'sissy' or 'sissification' kink. That it's now being considered woke is very silly to me, but at least people aren't getting into fights over it anymore (<- irony)

If I were a pretentious fuckwit like some of the forcefem girlies on this site I'd say sissification is the good kind and everyone else is into some real poser ass lame bullshit but since I'm Cool and Nice I'm just like yeah everyone can enjoy what they like.

Whenever life gets hard I remind myself that I have beatable udders and no self esteem and therefore Velvet would find a use for me

I sure would anon.

every now and then (though, admittedly, it happens rarely), i see transmasc transformation comics/sequences being reposted with the posters jumbling up the pictures in reverse order or just claiming it's read from right to left so it's a male to female TF comic instead and also denying that it's female to male and i'm like ??? there's twenty male to female TF comics for every female to male TF, like, you (in general, not you as a person) don't have to do that, there's so much content for you :/ it also happens with a bunch of kinks that have a bit more of a female character focus, but i just noticed it here again

that reminds me when my favorite kink artist (Octoboy) was objecting to having art he made edited to be about girls since he made content specifically intending to fill niches for people who liked boys

Octoboy's art is actually responsible for about 80% of me liking boys lmao I was so so lucky to get a commission from him a decade or more ago when he was still fairly cheap because he deservedly charges way more now

[offbeat-manga-ships]

Question: would you know any manga featuring an effeminate short male protagonist, with a taller and dom M and F love interests?

Tried looking, but no luck.

other than a shorter male character, both effeminate and sub/dom are terms that can have different interpretations, so i apologize if the recs are useless.

first thing that comes to mind is ikemen joshi to josou danshi [MAL / AL / MU]. as the premise lets you know, the male character starts cross-dressing, so he is feminine in that way (and definitely submissive), but i suppose he isn't effeminate in the "classic" way. the taller female lead is also a cross-dresser because she wants to (one of the few female cross-dressers in manga who actually enjoy it..). i can also guarantee she is dominant. i really enjoyed this manga.

another one, now with the more usual type of effeminate male character, is yeonwoo's innocence [MAL / AL / MU]. i'm not up to date with this one. i read a bunch of chapters a long time ago and didn't keep up with it (and it's still going. good lord.) i remember he is very shy and feminine and she is very princely, but their interactions were still kind of shallow instead of the actual throes of love, so i don't know exactly how their dynamic looks like when the real romance begins.

i've been following a "manga" (published in english but like. still seems like a manga) called so shine!! [mangadex] that meets all the requirements, except i'm not sure if the guy could be considered feminine enough for you haha i think he's pretty adorable.

kawaii hito [MAL / AL / MU] also fits. i have a lot of affection for this one 🫶

from what i've read of lady crystal is a man [MAL / AL / MU] (also paused this one), even though both characters are cross-dressing (for historical fantasy world reasons this time), i can tell the guy is definitely big-innocent-eyes / blushing-a-lot feminine and the girl seems to be naturally handsome and a charmer. problem is, i don't know if he actually stays shorter than her because of the whole "his development was stunted to keep his gender hidden" thing (i have one bone or two to pick w this manwha bc of how it portrays genderbender. but i digress). if i know a thing or two about korean manwha i would say luck is not on our favor. (btw, for this same reason i can't list let's hide my little brother as an example because manwha is addicted to undoing every single little deviation from the norm the characters could ever have).

aki sora [MAL / AL / MU] also fits what you ask... it's in/cest though. and borderline H.

miageru to kimi wa [MAL / AL / MU] kinda fits too... again, depends on how effeminate you want him to be. and their little romance stays very much kinda static, innocent schoolkids thing. not much of a breeding ground for dominance and submission, though maybe the roots of it are there a little bit.

i liked the characters in pump up! [MAL / AL / MU] but not so much how the romance story unfolds. still, it's a short read and they're cute.

i would also like to mention princess-kun to knight-san [MAL / AL / MU]. there are not many chapters yet, and i guess it's foolish to hope she might be dominant, but the story didn't disappoint me by making her straight up submissive... yet. but since he is a feminine shorter guy and she's a knight in shining armor kind of lady, maybe it's worth checking out. i do like them as characters in their own right so far.

the boy in a princely girlfriend's bad habits [mangadex / MU] is not exactly effeminate, but he is feminine not only in appearance, i would say. he could pass as a grumpy female lead if you ask me. he's cute, but a bit stubborn, with a chip on his shoulder.

elf ga joou-sama! [AL / MU] ... borderline H again

if you don't mind the boy being much younger (sho/ta), there's also boku no chi de yokereba [MAL / AL / MU] and novels, boy and a sailor uniform [MAL / AL / MU] (oneshot for the people who like forcefem)

oh and honorable mention to kawaisugiru danshi ga ouchi de matteimasu [MAL / AL / MU] (not a sho/ta manga). she probably isn't straight up Dominant but i sure as hell wish i had the rest of the scanlated manga for the chance to find out 😭

sorry i can't help you with the yaoi version of this, not my thing etc. but i'm pretty sure an effeminate smaller uke and a taller dominant seme is the classic of the classic of yaoi manga and you wouldn't have any trouble finding it after spending some time on the tags of MU. also there must be some BL manga blog around here to help...

btw if you actually meant an effeminate guy with both a taller dom boyfriend and a taller dom girlfriend.... brother i havent found even a straight up poly manga that isn't just some form of harem or sm/ut set up instead of an actual relationship trio :/ good luck and let me know of you do lol

[hiskillingjar]

can i get a fem ren forcefemming a transmasc reader 😭 for legal reason i am a transmasc with *that* kink but if you don't wanna do it then i understand cause most people would frown upon on me with this 😭😭😭😭

no shame!! forcefem is hot and there's nothing wrong with finding it hot <3

1000+ words, cw for light misgendering (it's for kinky reasons). this too is toxic yuri

"This doesn't really feel right," 

Your voice was a soft murmur as Ren brushed your hair in the bathroom mirror, her tail swiftly wagging to and fro behind her as she did so.

There was an eager little smile on her pixie-sweet face, and you knew she was absolutely revelling in how much your hair had grown while you were in her captivity, long enough that it was beginning to curl around your neck and drag over your shoulders

She had a preference for a more...feminine presentation, and she didn't make it a secret in the slightest. 

"You don't like it? Really? But your hair is gorgeous~!" Ren cooed playfully, moving the brush away from your hair and turning you around to face her, that dumb smirk still on her face. “I would seriously kill to have hair like yours, so long and thick, ugh! I’m so jealous.”

"I'd…really prefer it if I could cut my hair," You mumbled when you peered towards her shyly, ducking your head down and brushing a long lock of hair behind your ear. 

You had known girls back in college like you, growing their hair out awkwardly, heavy bangs, hiding their faces, not yet soft enough to pass as well as you had back then. You had felt a sense of kinship with those girls before, but even more so now. 

"Like, the length of it…” You continued, reaching up to tug where it was longest. “It makes me kind of…dysphoric, you know..."

Ren frowned a little as you spoke, her ears tipping back and her tail stopping its wags. 

Your request was reasonable, you thought so anyway, and you knew that she was suitably plugged into “the discourse” regarding your transmasculinity and gender dysphoria and things like that to understand why it make you feel so uncomfortable.

She had bought you testosterone off the dark web, for God’s sake. She must have seen you as-

"...but I like your hair the way it is." Ren replied in a small voice with a childish pout to her full lips, seeming almost... offended that you had even asked. “It looks pretty.

"I know that," You said with a sigh, rolling your eyes. You knew she was very particular about what she liked (how you looked), and probably didn't appreciate you not catering to her every desire. She was so...needy sometimes. And so demanding too. "But...you get it, right? You know why I want to do it.” You looked back into the mirror with a frown. “It makes me look so...girly."

"But that's exactly what's so adorable about you."

Ren's eyes narrowed when you looked away, her face morphing back into a smile as she peered at you over your shoulder.

"You're a femboy. Of course, you’re going to look girly~"

"Don't call me that," You replied curtly, quickly looking back towards her, your face flushed and your expression angry. "That's...like, super fucking demeaning and offensive, Ren, whatever it is you’re trying to say-"

“Huh.” Ren cut you off and stood back, considering you for a moment with a wry tilt of her head. "You get…pretty upset when I call you a femboy, don't you?"

"Obviously," You rolled your eyes and crossed your arms with a huff. "It’s like…if you were offended at being called a…jail bait or a ‘legal loli’, or something.” She snorted with amusement and let out a high cackle of a laugh, obviously not taking the insult to heart like you did. Lucky her. “It's like you see me as a porno category or something...it's insulting."

“Well, sure, maybe it’s insulting if you take it that way,” She replied airily, both her hands behind her back as she took a few steps closer to you, her tail wagging again. “But you are a femboy. Just don’t take it so personally.” She grinned, showing off wet fangs. “You’re a feminine boy, hence, ‘femboy’. I’m just calling you what you are~”

“Yeah, well, it’s not my choice to look feminine, okay?” You bit back, pushing past her to sit on the rim of the bathtub, your head in your hands, long hair covering your face "If you let me cut my fucking hair again, maybe I wouldn’t-"

"You mean, if I allowed you the privilege of making yourself ugly for me?

You flinched as you felt Ren push a hand into your hair, pulling a grip of it hard and forcing your eyes up to hers, golden and shining with malicious intent.

"And why would I do that?” Her grin broadened. “I don’t know about you, but I'm very much enjoying looking at a pretty girl right now~"

Your face flushed a little darker and you bit down hard on your lip, trying your best to look away, so she didn’t see how much she was getting to you.

"I'm not a girl, Ren..." You murmured hotly.

"Are you sure?" Ren smirked, her fingers (her painted claws) running through strands of hair as she pulled your head up slightly, her curled fist at the base of your skull. “You know…you say you feel like a boy inside, but you definitely don't act like it.”

"Well...what would a boy act like?" You asked with a defensive glare. "If I'm not acting like one..."

"Maybe you'd put up more of a fight~" Ren teased, as she moved her free hand to your chin so she could tilt your head up slightly and meet your gaze more directly. "...You're not fighting me very hard right now. And I’m, like, way weaker and shorter than you. Maybe you secretly like being called a girl?"

"No…" You murmued, trying to pulls back from her grip.

“It’s easier though, isn’t it?” She asked, with a thoughtful tilt of her head, not letting you pull away, even an inch. She was stronger than she looked, no matter what she said to the contrary. “To not have to work so hard, to give in, to let everything just…happen to you, right? That’s kind of, like,” She paused with a thoughtful expression before laughing again. “The only perk to being a girl, you know.”

You were quiet as she pressed closer, the wisps of her short hair (because she was allowed to have short hair and you weren’t) caressing your cheek as her pixie-pointed nose pressed lightly against yours.

“You should try it…or, well, go back to it.” She tittered, rubbing her thumb over your stubbly chin. At least she let you keep your stubble (but for how long?) "Because you look like a girl. You act like a girl. You take everything way too fucking seriously like a girl.” 

She brought her face close to yours, her breath warm on your flushed skin.

Her lips barely grazed yours, menacing, taunting.

"I bet you’d taste like a girl, too, if I kissed you."

“I-If?”

"If." 

[gigglinggoblin]

Getting a Little Familiar

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[pov: any, nsfw, 2nd person, reverse corruption, (initially) evil POV, hypnosis, magical mind control, mutual nonconsent (heavy), dolly, gender-neutral forcefem, pet play, breast fixation, kitten play, dressup, witch, femdom, praise, syrup mention, intelligence reduction]

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Oh, you poor, hopeless little thing. This didn’t go quite how you’d planned, did it?

Don’t feel bad. It was a really very lovely plan to try and hypnotize me! And really, even if it’s not working out quite as you’d hoped, I think you’ll be much happier this way, don’t you?

Aww. Look at you. Trying to put words together when all you really wanna do is stare at my lovely breasts like a helpless, needy little toy.

So cute.

So helpless.

And so adorable, thinking you’ll be able to put any words together at all that aren’t “yes, Mistress” and “yes, please, Mistress” when I’m through with you. Maybe some soft mewing. Mm, yes, that sounds just lovely, doesn’t it, sweetie?

I can already see all those silly thoughts glimmering in your eyes, rising to the forefront, rising to the top of the waves like soft, pretty pink jellyfish. All those plans for posing as a sweet, obedient little apprentice, pretending to be all silly and dumb and pliant, all eager to please while you worked your little schemes.

Now, now! No need to speak, kitten. Those pretty lips of yours look so much cuter half-parted like that, breathing in nice and slow. Nice and slow. Matching my breathing. In and out. In… and out.

Watch... my breasts… rise… and fall~

Good pet!

And doesn’t that feel nice? That’s right. Just keep watching my tits and listening to my words. They look so soft, don’t they? So smooth. So easy to get lost in.

And it feels so good to listen to Mistress and let her words fill your pretty empty head, trickling in heavier and heavier by the second, like sweet syrup, just... drowning all those thoughts in pleasure.

Isn’t that right? Hush-hush, kitten. Of course it is.

Good pets love to listen to Mistress. Mistress has such a pretty voice, doesn’t she? So nice to listen to and sink down-down-down-down-down, so deep, all those thoughts tugging you deeper, and deeper, and deeper, so heavy and cumbersome, getting heavier with every deeeep breath you take in, and out, and in, and out, and...

*giggle* That’s right! You’re doing so well! Goodness, you’re so adorably suggestible. So pliable. I’ve barely had to work any magic; I just suggested you’d like to look at my tits and let my sweet voice do the rest... and down-down-down you went. I just told you to listen like a good pet, and you nodded along with every single word…

… and happily allowed aaaaall that sweet, slow, heavy syrup to flow into your silly open mind.

Isn’t that right, pet?

Aw, hush, kitten. Of course it is~

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“Salamander folk” are a curiosity largely unique to witchcraft, homunculi created when a willing (or “willing enough”) mortal entices a witch into transmuting their being into something else. In this way, a witch can make a human something like a fey, and can change just about anything else she likes about the human in the process. Many witches favor catfolk and other beast-like features, but the witches have many options. Many, many options.

They just... they just really like catgirls, okay?

And in fairness, so do a lot of the girls who go to witches seeking transmutation. The transformation does not change gender, obviously, but it can be used to change certain physical aspects to be more within a person’s preferences, or, say, to make a cisgender boy look more feminine for the witch’s amusement.

(When a demon does this to a mortal, they are usually called cambions—true cambions, not the mock cambions arising from demon-mortal partnerings. It’s a much more... consuming process.)

Why are they called “salamander folk”? Not all labels make perfect sense. In this case, a “salamander” is old-fashioned magic slang for a partially-finished spell, implying a malleable sort of magic that has yet to be fully shaped. It’s almost never used in that sense anymore, though. It might be distantly related to the famous total immunity newts have to magic.

Many mortals deliberately seek witches out for this reason, desiring some manner of change to their form beyond mortal means, or else to become apprentices. Or, often, both. Many witches charge apprenticeship for a certain number of years in exchange, which isn’t always as mercenary as it seems. Apprenticeship allows a witch to guide and protect the salamander person through their transition, as well as to make sure that the transformation really is what they want. It can also make the transformation itself easier to effect—it’s not easy to change someone’s true form, and it often takes time and a mutual familiarity.

Notably, the reverse dynamic is quite common as well: Many would-be apprentices are expected to allow the witch to transmute them into different forms as a condition of being taught. This is ostensibly because the process of being transmuted involves tying spirits to the subject’s soul, and tends to make their overall form and connection with magic very malleable and easy to work with. These kinds of apprentices are called familiars.

Of course, some witches just want cute catboys and ravenpeople and dollygirls to toy with as they please.

Katrina of the Thousand Names is a particularly skilled witch, known less so for her raw power so much as her cunning, vast arrays of knowledge, and general good-naturedness. She knows hundreds and hundreds of spirits well, and is one of the most famously easy-going when it comes to transformations. If you know what you want, she’ll see it done for as small a price as cooking her meals for a few nights while she works the spell.

Of course, many seek to be her apprentices even if they aren’t looking for transformation, and she’s quite reasonable about this—as long as the apprentice acts in good faith. Many seek to steal her repository of powers to use for wickedness, even trying to hypnotize the witch into yielding them. These ill-behaved apprentices tend to find themselves serving a very different role indeed.

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My, my. Such an adorable, hopelessly malleable plaything you turned out to be!

I think this is all for the best, don’t you? You’re much better at being my pliant little doll than you ever were at being my apprentice. You’ll be so much cuter as my obedient, mewling, empty-headed kitten. And so much happier, too!

Oh, come now, kitten, none of that fussing. Kittens don’t need words, and neither do helplessly adoring little dolls. Doesn’t it feel so good to be nice and sweet and good for me?

No more schemes. No more plotting to steal all my secrets. Those all required thinking, and thinking is hard, and listening like a good pet is easy.

So... so... sooooo easy~

And listening feels so, so lovely, doesn’t it? Just letting my words take over. Breathing in and out so steadily, so hopelessly enthralled by the soft, gentle motion of my soft breasts rising… and falling...

All those plans required so many confusing thoughts, all swirling around in that silly head of yours. But all those wicked thoughts are being drowned in the sweet, wonderful syrup of my words now, aren’t they?

Can’t you just feel all that syrup flooding your mind, submerging every thought in a heavy, heavy sugary brainless docile trance?

All those thoughts about betraying me? All submerged, and so, so hard to pull up to the surface now, so deep, deep down as my breasts bounce slowly, softly, so, so softly...

All those thoughts about using my powers to make trouble? All drowned in warm, gentle waves of delicious syrup, caught like butterflies in amber, deeper and deeper and deeper and deeper as my voice goes on, and on, filling you with sweet, sugary obedient pleasure the longer it goes on, getting so, so hard to even remember anything else...

And oh... doesn’t it feel so much better to be sweet, kitten?

So much easier to be sweet.

So much easier to be a nice, happy, obedient bubbly helpful kitten for me.

And it feels so good to please me, doesn’t it, sweet thing?

So good to nod passively. So good to take my hand, so deeply hypnotized now, so deep-deep-deep under the honeyed waves and not even trying to resist anymore. So happy and dumb and heavy-headed now, just staring at my tits like a mewling, helpless kitten.

Aww, look at you squirming. So cute! Such a sweet little plaything I’ve found. Would you like to be a good pet for me?

Good pet!

Such a good, happy, obedient, needy, sweet little pliant kitten.

Aww, and don’t worry, sweetie.

I know how excited you were to use all my magic, to dress yourself up in my glamors, to bewitch and ensnare whoever gazed upon you. Of course I’ll be happy to let you! Oh, hush-hush, I insist!

Let me lead you into the dressing room, now, pet. There’s a good plaything.

I’m going to dress you up to look so pretty. I’m going to make you so gorgeous and adorable and eager to please. You’ll just be my cute, obedient, sweet dolled-up kitten. Just a happy little maid for me, isn’t that right? Hopelessly eager to help anyone who comes by. Helping others is going to feel so good for my good, obedient kitty.

I promise you’ll be every bit as spellbinding as you planned, sweetie. A pretty spellbound doll for everyone’s amusement. Everyone’s going to love you, and that’s going to feel soooo good.

Let’s go get you all dressed up and pretty, sweetie. There’s a good pet.

And maybe, once you’ve learned your lesson in a year or so…

… I’ll let you decide whether or not you want to stay that way forever~

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