#it's like...mom...dad...stop fighting!
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#tfw mom and dad are fighting
#the acolyte#theacolyteedit#star wars#starwarsedit#swedit#cinemapix#dixonscarol#filmtvcentral#televisiongifs#tuserjyn#tuserlyn#tvedit#userbarrow#userdiana#userelio#usersugar#usertina#*edits#master indara#master sol#torbin#the acolyte spoilers#i know this was supposed to be a serious moment#but i couldn't help laugh at torbin#it's like...mom...dad...stop fighting!
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Originally, Bruce and Dick slept in the same bed.
I like to twist this around: Bruce, being a young parent, was VERY protective and worried about his boy who wants to go fight criminals with him, and it translated into him refusing to let Dick leave his side after difficult nights. Dick is hurt? He is sleeping in Bruce's bed. Dick isn't hurt but it was a close call? He is sleeping in Bruce's bed. Bruce just got scared but Dick was fine? He is sleeping in Bruce's bed. Dick is scared? He is sleeping in Bruce's bed. Of course, this led to Dick also refusing to leave Bruce's side when Bruce gets hurt or could have been hurt, so he also sleeps in Bruce's bed on these nights. And, as he grew up in a circus, always moving around, he is used to sleeping in his parents' arms or very close by, so it's normal for him.
So, Dick is often sleeping in Bruce's bed, cuddled up to Bruce. And as he grows up, he sleeps less and less in Bruce's arms, and he supports less and less Bruce's suffocating anxiety. Finally, he stops completely.
Some events make him wants to crawl back in his dad's bed (his multiple SA, the destruction of Bludhaven, the multiple times he thought Bruce died, etc...), but he never dares to. He is an adult now, and he fears Bruce would have a problem with it. Bruce is also not that welcoming toward physical affection since Jason's death (something Cass fixes, but that's another story). So, Dick doesn’t, even when he craves to.
Until Bruce is send back in time and believed dead. When he comes back, Dick just cannot stop himself, he needs to hold his dad, and he is so afraid Bruce will dissappear if he isn't touching him. He is holding him all evening long, and when it's time for bed, Bruce wordlessly goes to sleep holding Dick with one arm, the other around Tim. (Damian isn't close enough to Bruce yet to dare come sleep with them, Cass is in Hong-Kong, but she is jumping on a plane and will join the sleep-cuddle pile, Jason isn't back in the batfam yet but the possibility of losing Bruce scared him so bad, he is going to start to make efforts to not be on bad terms with them)
#bruce wayne#batman#dick grayson#robin#nightwing#batfam#dc comics#my ramblings#Jason also needed to sleep with Bruce anytime Bruce got hurt because it reminded him of his mom#and he was scared Bruce would die if he looked away#but Bruce had calmed down after his fight with Dick and wasn't making Jason sleep with him anytime he got scared#Bruce is a good dad but that doesn't mean he is perfect he is flawed#and I believed his fight with Dick is inevitable and important for both their character development#anyway about Cass she is very touch starve in Batgirl and JUST WANT A HUG FROM HER DAD like all her life she just wanted to be hugged#but only ever got training and violence growing up#so the moment Bruce shows her he will give her affection and hugs? she is hugging that man so much#and because she reads people so easily she knows he loves it and never hesitates to just jump on him for a hug#Let's go back to Jason he has a breakdown after battle for the cowl because he realizes his dad is GONE#when he sees Bruce again he is ugly crying behind the hood and he punches him to see if he's real#then he runs away because he isn’t ready to face his feelings#okay I need to stop talking about my batman canon#Dick as a kid: *scraps his knee* Bruce: *refusing to let go of him* What if it gets infected and HE DIES?!
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can someone please tell me if theres been any mention of theseus at all in hades 2 so far pleaseeee spare a tidbit of information to a sorry soul with a broken computer have they mentioned my boy 😭😭😭😭
#like all the shades got out of the underworld right#and hes a warrior he loves to fight he wouldnt even stop fighting in death#and shades are siding with either the titans or the olympians#so you know damn well he's definitely fighting in the war#BUT WHEREEEEE WHERE IS HE#he's probably aiding olympus up top tbh if he hasnt been mentioned yet#cause i dont see him siding with the titans#hades did him the solid of letting asterius out of erebus#and lets him have his fun in the elysium arena#and poseidon is his dad- but also kinda more his mom because yk#but#lmao#and he's clearly still beloved by the olympians#as they still give him power ups in the damn UNDERWORLD#where they are no longer supposed to be able to HELP YOU#hades game#hades supergiant#hades 2#hades ii#tagamemnon#hades 2 spoilers
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i love these two dorks so much
#mass effect#garrus vakarian#tali’zorah vas normandy#mass effect garrus#mass effect tali#they bicker like an old married couple#mom. dad. stop fighting while i try to buy a fish at the citadel that will be kept alive by the hr lady i’m banging
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had another anxiety nightmare. thank god i have two days off.
#i was at work but not my store and i tried to head home. i kept getting either stopped by stuff outside or got turned around and losy#i wound up back at work but was trapped by a crowd of trump supporters with protest signs or something#and then i tried leaving the building another way and made it to a basement. it housed a paramilitary base and they shoot on sight.#so i made my way higher up to like an attic and there was a *separate* paramilitary group and the two groups ended up fighting#i escaped but it was dark out and i tried finding home again#this time i kept winding up in weird shopping centers while trying to use a nearby building irl to my home as a waypoint#but no matter what i couldn't find it and then i woke up#there was also a point where i wound up at a metro station and another point where my dad was somewhere trying to help#i also saw someone with a miniature pony and i tried calling my mom on a tamagotchi#my brain is fucking weird and i wish it would calm the fuck down
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resignation letter is the most potent painkiller. i love you resignation letter i love you one month notice <3
#tmi but im regular again and literally the only change is because i've been eating enough to shit daily#i was in such a bad headspace these past few months that i could barely bring myself to eat#i'd go to sleep with my work uniform still on and wake up willing myself to get up for 30 mins and then brushing my teeth and going to work#with the same clothes i slept in#i stopped hanging out with my friends. i had nightmares abt my job.#i can only take care of myself on my days' off and i cant grok anything other than shallow entertainment like wrestling#everything else is too much for my brain to handle. i'd simply forget everything i read or play or even listen to#those three months are miserable lmao#its not just my job... its also the family issues i've been dealing with#yknow remember when i said i could have died? yeah that shit was real. fuckin love it when my mom admit my dad have the capacity to be a#family annihilator. but... since my dad have a job to keep him busy and we moved to a house where me and my sister and#my mom and dad get to have our own rooms... and my dad get to live near his old friends and family...#things have been getting better. usually we had a physical fight every two months but it hasnt happened yet and i seem to get on with him#better now. so... i guess im gonna be okay. i've been so tired and trapped#stuck between two places that are both physically and emotionally draining with no reprieve#things are changing. and i find that to be comforting despite how up in the air the future might be. i might be screwed but also? what if#i'll be fine? im at a point where im accepting any drastic changes even if its for the worse#funny how i used to like my job a lot. i guess im not to be comfortable with anything long term#posts about my life
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i feel like reading/watching mbf immediately means knowing who i am as a person and... i cannot allow this
#you all know that i can't stand gatekeeping and how that's why i bring up what i like all the time in various contexts#but the surprising thing with mbf for me is that i can't talk about it as freely to people who don't know me#because i can't find a way to translate it without having to offer some crucial segment of myself#i enjoy sharing ideas and thoughts more than anything else but i don't like sharing me the person behind them#because i really cherish my individuality as something important in spite of where it takes me sometimes#i don't want to tarnish it!!!! i don't want even the smallest piece of it to be missing because i wouldn't know what to do anymore#i'll stick to typing out thoughts here and to my mom and to my med textbooks#but i must say it feels strangely refreshing to have something that is only my own this way because i always have to put myself out there#and this way i am not giving anyone the opportunity to twist it into something terrible about me#my spontaneous outbursts might ruin this for me though#letters from stephanie*#i dislike that i can't step outside of my own experiences with this like i usually do because art should be shared#this is suchhh a crazy person post#i think i finally get what my dad means when we fight about how i shouldn't say everything i think all the time#he doesn't want me to filter myself he wants me to preserve who i am from harm because stepping up sometimes won't help#who i'm trying to help but it will ruin me in some way even if it just makes me upset#i think that's how he manages to be calm without betraying himself?#he isn't lying he's just saying what he thinks when it matters and to those that matter#like most of the time i am right to single myself out but there is a particular shade of grey when i shouldn't do it#idk this is literally donna telling the dr YOU CAN STOP NOW.#realistically i just need someone to calm me down when my passions turn against me#overly personal post once again i am sooo sorryyyy look away
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in the trenches but we get the scraps were we can okay
[ID: Text chat meme with Transformers Energon characters edited next to the text.
Shockblast: Can I borrow this shirt Dad?
[an image of Unicron]
Megatron: Do NOT fucking touch. Taking your moter to Chili's tonight [semi-transparent image of Optimus indicating he is who Megatron's refering to]
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#some shit#its not called cisformers#made this on my phone while watching the recap ep 👍🏻#this what happening in [squinting] ep 25? right?#transformers#transformers energon#[explaining for the buds] okay so megatron was tryina get his one on one duel with prime in right#IN UNICRON.... awwww the sight the there last [gay ass duel to the death]#and EVERYONE was tryna stop them it was SO homophobic.... U_U to me cause what the FUCK else am i here for......#please. please let these voice actors just say some suggestive shit at each other#anyway shockblast tried to take over unicron from megatron and its like. ABSOLUTELY NOT im gonna fight prime#he ruined their MOMENT.. TWICE.... rude ass.#anyway is the text of dad mom and chilis have any meaning? no im just too lazy to edit it. hope that helps.
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GODDD.
#marzivents#to preface. i am SLIGHTLY buzzed. as in i have had a single mimosa almost an hour ago#today there has been a… weird??? energy with the family??#my mom and dad are on two different frequencies today but like they’re managing so whatever#my brother and i have been normal i suppose#but we’ve been all together for a little bit to celebrate the new uear and such#clock hits 12. we celebrate. everybody has One mimosa. not a lot at all#that buzz hits me and i’m hanging out. i’m feeling good!#my brother says something or other and we start the motions of one of our go-to sibling disagreements you know the type#and my mother cuts me off says like ‘let’s all relax’ or whatever. i didn’t feel that angry but like?? sure? fine whatever#we stop and i move on. once again not a huge deal to me#then my dad does smth or other. my mom’s been razzing him all day so i decide alright i will also razz him. a little lighthearted teasing#it is NOTHING different from what i normally do. just slightly more frequent#and my dad goes ‘i can’t have an opinion on anything huh?’ and i- committed to the bit- go ‘no <3’ with a smile on my face#like i am simply wanting to fuck around!! the way you do with friends! that is all i am doing!#i get in some other thing with my brother for like .2 seconds before my mom tells us to ‘stop fighting’ again. alright cool#this sort of thing continues. and the air in the room becomes super tense for some goddamn reason???#eventually my dad heads to the garage and my brother follows. while they’re gone my mom tells me i need to cool it and i’m being aggressive#i???? huh???? what???#i was gonna turn to HER and crack a joke like ‘how do you get them to understand that loud doesn’t mean angry?’#because that’s an issue SHE has all the damn time! i was gonna turn to her and bond! but she says that before i can even start to#so my attempt to ease the remaining tension in the room is dead on arrival. in fact the room is even TENSER#maybe it was the champagne or smth but it just fucking got to me. i shut up and turn away and start trying to collect myself#i’m realizing two things. 1- my emotions are less in my control right now and i cannot collect myself here. 2- I Need To Fucking Scream#so i silently pack up and head to my room. my mom knows better and asks no questions#as i was typing this post my brother walks in. i shoo him out without words but he tries to ask questions so i just repeat until he gets it#i feel fucking insane. what the fuck did i DO???? i literally was just fucking razzing. i do that all the time#and sure. i was louder. and yeah it was probably slightly more razzing than i normally would. but i DO NOT FUCKING GET how those two things#would cause as MUCH of a reaction as they did!!! like. i . hello???#the rest is in the replies bc i am out of tags but i am not out of feelings
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"Stahp it."
#He looks like such a mom here#a mom with her cute mini van that she packs all her kids in#love how he literally asked google how to stop your teenage boys from fighting#but also your kinda gay dad too I guess#johnny lawrence#cobra kai#robby keene#miguel diaz#this episode was amusing
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This is a personal post.
so many people I know are burned out I am burned out and I want to fix that but can't
why must everything be so stressful. for everyone.
#random personal stuff#I'm trying to be therapy for my mom & I'm concerned about my dad who probably wouldn't accept the help he needs even if you handed it to hi#so many issues but somehow my family is perpetually stuck in circles where people care more about their delicate little egos and preserving#the status quo than solving problems and caring about others as fellow human beings#not to mention the unhealthy relationship with work and constantly doing things in order to earn worth#my parents are run ragged and I don't know if anyone around them cares or if they themselves even know how to stop#I live six or seven hours away and can't be there often#but I'm not even sure how much help I could be even if I were there#on the other hand there's another part of me that wishes I could Fight people about The Nonsense#and drop a truth bomb on them like: You All Care More About [Trivial Thing] Than How You Treat Your Brothers & Sisters in Christ#(not that I would but it is tempting)
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ANOTHER DEATH BY INMOLATION???? ENOUGH!!!!
#really happy about being wrong about oden. normally when you see something is badly written it is true but here oden being alive being bad#writing was a trally a gotcha moment.... well unlike with pell and laki and wiper..... and conis' dad....#ashura....... and kanjuro is still alive...... this man deserves an execution#is this orichi??? the beheaded one was a kanjuro drawing too???? jesus#orichis fruit is a dragon with a lot of heads.... maybe he can regrow them lmao....#omg double hakai.... goodbye my brave soldiers.... ZORO?? ENMA IS A GODSEND YOU OWN ALL YOUR LIVES TO HIYORI....#zoro got hurt and luffy is on the offensive again..... exactly..... YES RED ROCK!!! BUT DON'T MISS!!!#talking tag#watching one piece#episode 1025#oden and kin on a flower field..... okay......#luffy stopping the attack meant for zoro.... oof#kaido's face knowing this was gonna hurt....#kid and traffy catching luffy too..... everybody loves luffy.....#how can luffy just stop kaido's attack like that's insane....#the others attacking big mom... that was such a big brain move.... they made teams here... luffy and then the brains (everyone elseÑ#jesus. that was something else#luffys giggle and smile when kid and tragfy catch him... he is so happy when people are there for him..... he loves fighting with friends :)#episode 1026#OMG GOODBYE BIG MOM!!!! SHE IS IN THE SEA I CANT BELIEVE THIS!!!!!#TRAFFY RATHER LET THE MISSION FAIL THAN ONE OF THEM DIE??? OMG#HOW IS PROMETHEUS IN THE WATER?????? FUCK OFF!!!!#they are bullying zeus lmaooo INTERNAL FIGHTING!! INTERNAL FIGHTING!!!#luffy knocked out and atill looking at kaido again.... ooff#this is insane. luffy just saved zoro and told him he wont need to die and here he goes again. oh this time i migh fr die. take care goodbye#the bleeding... oof THE SCAR JUST AS THE ONE HE HAS.... goodbye zolo..... rip bozo... don't fall like that man..... ass up like sanji...#he got a 2x1 hit..... goodbye law too.... kaido's eye when he notices luffy is up again.... also haoshoku..... i dont wanna look it up.....#nvm is the conqueror's haki.... i do not remember the og names AT ALL#episode 1027
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Next time I’m dealing with an upset kid, I’m going to remember my aunt saying to me, “That fight was the beginning of the end for you and [cousin who a whole airport staff couldn’t unload all my baggage with]” when I was jokingly recounting a spat we had when we were twelve and I called her a ‘motherucking bitch’
Because that flabbergasted me so much I legitimately laughed and I’m still thinking about it.
‘Cause no. Oh my god no. That was the end of the end. That was when I finally said, “I can’t do this anymore.” That was it.
But my aunt couldn’t see that because to her we were just two twelve year olds calling each other names, /oh those two, so ‘close’ (in truth, we were just two girls who were the same age, our moms said we had to be close) but always bickering/ not the continued saga of pain and harassment that had been our shared childhood, twelve years worth, and the moment I was finally old enough to realize, “I should stop trying to be friends and instead never talk to her again.”
‘The beginning of the end’. As if those years when we were younger didn’t count and weren’t informative. They were. As if we didn’t have interiority and a complicated, broken relationship before that. We did. As if it was all petty before we were teenagers. It wasn’t.
It had ended a long time ago.
#this aunt is not the mom of this cousin btw#I just- it stunned me#made me realize that the border line abuse my cousin put me through still has never clicked for my extended family#and I do understand why#it’s cause my cousin had a super fucked up childhood and abusive dad and ill equipped mom to deal with the very obvious mental illness#that my cousin had#but like… she hurt me#yes she was hurting but she hurt me and I was a kid#it wasn’t normal kid fighting it wasn’t#but in order for the adults to try to be kind to and provide stability for my poor fucked up cousin I had to take her lashing out#my dad was really good about telling me I didn’t have to put up with her#and my mom got much better as we got older and it stopped being ‘kid stuff’ and even before she never really punished me#for our fights because she knew who the real problems was#but still#sucks to remember that the thing that actually made my mom wake up about my cousin was the fight she and my sister had In college#not me#(my mom is great this whole thing was just bad)#nothing I have ever said about my cousin has ever been taken as anything more than petty kid stuff apparently#‘oh those two. always fighting’#god#anyway yeah this childhood experience has in no way informed how I write Curufin and Joffrey haha. ha ha.#Tribble post
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Sure, Nere is annoying and tossed a gnome in the lava like a dick and yes, he also has two seperate bounties on his head Ronan aims to collect with prejudice, but, honestly, Ronan just wants to get into this fight because he knows the bitchy dandy he keeps around by feeding like a stray cat is Upset about stopping Gnome Murder and he doesn't want to hear about it.
#a few rounds of stabbing and he'll shut right the fuck up about it#as will Karlach who got upset we said yes to help from the shithead dwarfs#its fine the gnomes have been let go and astarion kill stole nere from everyone else so i assume he's happy#also this fight allowed me to do my favorite thing with a wizard for the first time this game. and that is casting No#otherwise known as counterspell#nere tried some shit and Gale said Absolutely Not. get counterspelled idiot.#and thats why he cant leave the party because he is a d.a.r.e. graduate.#he just says no#also ronan looked real cool with all the magma around#though here he looks like an annoyed dad addressing a soccor mom who wouldnt stop screaming at a kids game#bg3
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lara croft is such a funny character like this girl has never had a fucking break in her life
#survivor timeline at the very least idk much about the earlier games#but like. be born. have absentee work-centered dad. mom dies. dad gets Worse. find dad dead with a gun in his hand at age like 8 or sthg.#grow up presumably in a not well adjusted way raised by dad's new girlfriend he'd found. go on an adventure to restore dad's reputation.#get stranded on cursed island. All Of Your Friends Fucking Die. except like 3. fight to survive and dismantle a death cult#that's trying to resurrect an old goddess/empress by putting her soul in your bff(gf?). Survive and get off the island.#go on ANOTHER adventure because now you know magic is real and your dad wasn't crazy. find out the woman who raised you was a traitor#working for an organization that tried to steal/stop your dad's work. meet a prophet who possesses the source of immortality.#have to fight evil organization trying to take that for themselves so your step-mom dying of possibly cancer can live. Win.#destroy the source meaning no human will ever be immortal therefore continuing the cycle of birth and death. your friend almost died again#GIRL GO ON ANOTHER ADVENTURE. ACCIDENTALLY TRIGGER THE APOCALYPSE#and the whole time you Know she had to keep retying her ponytail every 30 minutes. god damn
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being the eldest daughter really is just how do i shield my sibling from everything bad in the world and also how do i gentle parent my own parents
#being home makes me realise how much i had to self teach emotional regulation and communication skills#i am truly the glue holding this family together no one talks to each other just immediate defensiveness and yelling and being mean#like i truly just sit here in shock listening to my sister and my parents interact with one another and how easily fights break out#little by little i’m starting to feel like a guest in this home again despite this being the place i grew up in#family tw#parents tw#going back to the city tomorrow and I’m sad leaving again but i’m also like.#this environment is so bad for me mentally and emotionally#and i try and fix it but i’ll never be able to bc no one else wants to put in the effort to fix it#so i need to just stop trying to hold everyone together bc my parents are grown fucking adults#my sister is my baby so she’s a lil different but seriously this is too much#why is mom yelling at my dad before he even shows any sign of frustration/anger…#not that THAT is even an excuse to start yelling but like she’ll get mad at him for being mad when he’s NOT even mad??#please make this make sense bc rn i cannot comprehend it#everyone please get therapy!! god#talk time
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