#it's demoralising
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everybody claims to be a kashiwagi enjoyer but the only time anyone ever talks about him is to say he's the hottest piece of meat in the series
#this goes for a lot of characters but he's the one i pay the most attention to#this probably isn't even remotely profound to most people who follow me but it really feels like a massive proportion of fandom nowadays#only cares about fanwriting if it's within 1500 words and rated E#there are some notable exceptions of course but fuck there just doesn't seem to be any real feedback on anything anymore#unless it comes from people i share small discord servers with and chat to every day#the number of times i've linked my textual analysis pieces to people who say they're fans of the character it's about#only to get brushed off in favour of the next off-model drawing of him with his balls swanging#it's demoralising#i don't want to be the elitist ''nobody likes him the way i do'' jerk but this is a lot of the reason i haven't been as active on tumblr#on top of me (mostly) running out of games to play then going on holiday and coming back to my steam deck's display not working#(it's still in for repairs)#maybe when i get it back i'll liveblog yakuza 4 but i'm starting to wonder if there's a point in using tumblr#when the only people who engage are people i speak to directly on discord anyway#like why not just cut out the middleman at this point yknow?#well. guess i'll get back to my sawamura ikki rabbit hole#expect arai posting when i get my steam deck back#me#text#kashiwagi osamu#idk lol i don't want to put negative fandom commentary into the character tag but i DO want this to be in the tag on my blog itself#i don't think there's a way to do that anymore
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i'll let phie-san say it:
#the vids i've seen on tiktok picking at her immediately get a block...#bitter otaku sitting in their socks in their mom's basement feeling threatened/enraged by a hot successful black woman outnerding them-core#also this kind of criticism is so demoralising and damaging to people who are trying to learn another language#also. accents are NORMAL and not a bad thing#i don't think that the end goal of picking up a new language necessarily has to be sounding native#and i know sometimes the way japanese people react like SUGOIII? *W* when a foreigner says like one (1) word in japanese is joked about#but like... genuinely... i always love when someone clearly has made an effort and took the time to learn some of the language#anyway she can step on those haters <3#also like. it’s just some lines in a song people need to relax…#megan thee stallion#autoplay warning#japan#japanese#language#mamushi
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I find that the recent rise of black and white thinking on the internet has led to an interesting phenomenon in F1 fandom spaces.
Nowadays a famous person needs to unsullied in all respects (morally, ethically, performatively) in order to be deemed unproblematic and worthy of support. It’s become impossible to be a fan of a driver and to recognise faults them in any way, because surely if you’re a fan of a driver and they mess up, then their mess up taints you in the same way it taints them (morally, ethically, performatively).
Putting drivers’ ethical ��bad takes” aside, this has impacted even how fans respond to their driver simply having a bad weekend. It’s odd when a driver makes a human error or has a (even slightly) less successful weekend, and a significant proportion of their fans go into a panic and start finger pointing at anyone and everyone - the track, the team, the teammate, the stewards.
The false dichotomy here seems to be that either the driver has “lost his touch” or the driver was unfairly sabotaged or disadvantaged in some way.
It’s so strange. In the guise of supporting their favourite driver, these fans hold them up to an impossible standard where they are either bullied or washed.
In reality, their favourite driver is a human being and he’s going to pick himself up and go again next week.
#this is not only about a section of Charles fans but in fact a section of many drivers fans#it’s a really toxic trend arising in f1 fandom spaces#can you imagine for a second being a f1 driver and reading comments telling you that you must have been sabotaged by your team#because no way you’d have driven so badly on your own merit?#how demoralising and painful would it be to read that#everyone can’t be at 100% all the time and holding drivers to that standard and accusing others to ‘defend’ them is so counterproductive#f1#mexican gp 2024
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I bought a cushion for my fireside chair with a mouse from Beatrix Potter's Tailor of Gloucester and it's the best financial investment I've made in a while, I smile every time I see it
#i found this book i don't remember where when i was 10ish and tried to read it. very audacious seeing as i knew like 50 words of english#i skimmed through it looking for words i recognised. mouse. snow. coat etc#then i encountered the phrase ''worsted chenille'' and it was the last straw#i knew what worst means. it means very bad. it's in past tense for some reason. and chenille is a caterpillar. in french for some reason#and this doesn't make the sentence any more intelligible! i thought it was about clothes? wasn't this guy making a coat#what role does the worst caterpillar play in this project#it was demoralising i felt like english & i would never work. you can know the words and they still don't make sense#the words worsted chenille have haunted me ever since
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"Cool ship art, unfortunately I'm interpreting it platonically" dude it's literally fine lol. Guys please. Art is meant to be interpreted. Don't call it unfortunate just because you think your interpretation differs from the artist's vision (and please refrain from using wording that implies strictly correct and wrong interpretations, it dismisses others!)
#blabber#Sorry this is just. A bit demoralising and dismissive to me as an artist#And well theres a whole other convo to be had about romantic vs platonic interpretation specifically#me personally though I could not give less of a fuck#I view some ships as more romantic and some as more platonic but I personally hate having to sort art into these two specific categories#I just wanna draw girls kissing man. To you as the viewer it can be whatever you want it to be
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i am once again wishing killing yourself was easy
#i literally cant keep doing this and living like this no matter how hard i try nothings changing for the better#it's so demoralising so exhausting i miss my sister and i wish i had proper friends#tw suicide
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I would kill for literally one SINGLE children's picture book about being raised by more than two parents. I have looked. For years. I can read to my kid about parents in every possible gender configuration imaginable but as far as I can tell there is not even one book where three people have a baby together on purpose and raise that child as a family. I am at the end of my rope.
#there's actually something kind of demoralising about repeatedly reading these progressive 'families can look all kinds of ways' books#that constantly leave out families like ours#i know it's an unusual configuration but like#not even ONE?
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Situ WeiLian & Shen Zhiheng [Snowfall episode 13] || 15 Minutes X
#my vids#situ weilian#winwin#shen zhiheng#snowfall#stand by for the queue#gao weiguang#cdrama edits#vampire cdrama#cdrama#this will go on YouTube eventually but ppl there was demoralising debby downer as who judge w/o watching the drama
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Semester results are out. Some friends who don't put in half the effort scored higher.
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I know Makoto is losing her mind recalling the principal of Shujin was killed by Akechi and neither Haru, Sumire or Ren seem to really care lmfaoooo.
Makoto: He killed our principal! Ren: What? Oh, yeah. That guy. Ann: ...The guy that let Kamoshida get away with everything. Haru: Wasn't he working for Shido, too? Sumire: And- Makoto: okay I get your point but we have to draw lines in the sand somewhere and murder seems like a good place to start
LMAO Makoto really is going through it. Her understanding of morality is not doing her any favours in getting through this situation HAHAHA someone save her she's about to snap
#asks#fftsr#jokes aside- writing Makoto in fftsr has been super interesting#because I interpret her as someone with a very black and white understanding of morality#so her having to navigate something that is almost entirely in shades of grey#to the point where even murder is in the realm of “weeeellll”#she's not having fun with all this magic bullshit HAHA#she's slowly starting to get to the point where she thinks that *everything* is unfair- even for Akechi whom she very much dislikes#and it's all very demoralising for her#I'm sure she'll figure it out! :D
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why have you carved me out of flesh?
[ID: It Writes Back - Hritvika Lakhera
Lord above you have carved me/ out of flesh;/ will you return/ to stem the bleeding?/ You have left me rotting,/ repulsive,/ hard to breathe around./ Blood left on the sheets/ is harder to scrub out;/ blood left on the floor/ wafts of rot instead of iron;/ you are my butcher/ casting me into offal.
I am immortality./ I am the shifting darkness,/ the echoing cliff –/ why/ have you made me/ out of bleeding,/ rotting/ flesh?
/end ID]
#new poem after ages 😅#posting poetry has felt demotivating for a while. and i realised i was starting to hold myself back while writing#so I've decided to get rid of some stuff that is getting in the way of expressing myself and just demoralising me#just gonna treat this space like my own personal archive that anyone who relates can dip into#if you like the poem tho please consider sharing!#the few times my poems have reached a larger audience I've had the loveliest tags to read on them by people who relate#and that makes it all worth it really#poetry#original poetry#writeblr#poems#w#writings#words#queer poetry#described#writblr
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“It’s definitely been a better weekend. From a pace point of view, there’s still things we’ll try to work on. There’s that positive, but with that comes a missed opportunity. It’s frustrating when it gets ruined by someone else.
[…] We never know what could have happened but I think we were looking at a good place.”
#when he’s so pissed off he has to stop and look away to catch himself#I need to know the chronology of these interviews#was this before or after the canal + interview??#anyway I like how he always thinks of his team because they work hard on his car#and when something like that happens it’s not demoralising only to him but to them also#mr mechanic man is going to French kiss that front wing at the next race#daniel ricciardo#China24
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i’m sorry but vini saying “i don’t want to play anymore” has broken my heart. being hated and abused for doing ur job which is also the thing that ur the most passionate abt by supposed fans of that very same sport. all for the colour of your skin
#he doesn’t deserve this!!! no one deserves this!!!#how the prem handles racism is by no means perfect and there are so many issues in the way the english game deals with racism and homophobia#but serie a and la liga have absolutely no control and no desire to stop any of it nd it’s so….. demoralising????#like football is only going to become increasingly diverse and that is so great bc it will ultimately lead to more bingo being able to enjoy#and feel represented in one of the biggest sports in the world#but being young and black and talented and watching this happen must make u feel so scared for what u might face just for doing what u love#and that’s not ok#thinking abt vini and lewis and son and salah and rashford and saka and moises kean and#and every other minority sportsperson that has to watch this and somehow carry on#that’s meant to say ppl instead of bingo i was just rage typing#rants#football#*
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has anyone noticed you can do all the trying to communicate and explaining everything in the world and nobody will still listen or take you serious . or is it just something rotten in my aura
#egg.txt#this is the killer in the workplace#like i thinkin the brief scraps of a personal life ive had its like#well itsjustincredibly hurtful and demoralising etc but like#thats personal IM TRYINGG TO DO MY JOBBBBB LET ME DO MY JOBB#SCREAAAAM ^_^
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Bro I thought this was a joke what do you mean it's getting more real.
#listen as a joke I enjoy this#as an actual thing I think this is insane and terrible for lewis AND ferrari#ferrari are not supportive they are controlling of their drivers down to their fashion and public appearances#And they do NOT share Lewis' values and will not have his back against racism. Not that merc always did but. Even less so#and ferrari atm is in a Building stage it needs to be led which I know Lewis CAN do but should he have to? at this stage in his career?#or will that just demoralise him and lead to faster retirement?#and that's before we even get into the Two Number One Drivers problem which we KNOW ferrari CANNOT handle#they have never once in 24 years been able to balance having two competitive drivers they can't do it they just can't#they can't even balance charles and carlos#idk it seems like a recipe for INSTANT bad blood man
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Fun fact: Kaushue canonically has three love interests across the entire story, but I only ever focus on one of these because I cannot for the life of me draw the other two! (This sounds like a shitpost but it is legitimately true.)
#text#kaushue#even if trahearne is kaushue's like actual soulmate his other relationships are extremely important to him#i just... cannot fuckin' draw either of them....... and it demoralises me WHEEZE
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