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What Your Zodiac Sign Says About Your Love Life and Approach to Dating

Aries

Aries are the first sign of the zodiac and are known for their impulsivity. When it comes to dating, Aries don’t do demure: These fire signs are ruled by Mars, the planet of action. Aries are quick to fall in love and aren’t afraid to let the world know through serious (and sometimes excessive) public displays of affection. When Cupid’s arrow strikes these passionate rams, they’ll likely try to put a ring on it faster than you can say, “we just met.”

Though it may be tempting to let a vivacious Aries sweep you off your feet, approach with caution. Aries often set unrealistic expectations on new relationships, only to be severely disappointed when the honeymoon phase ends. Aries must remember that the process of getting to know someone takes time. Hard work, empathy, and patience allow couples to create a solid foundations built on trust, loyalty, and mutual respect. Now that’s something worth waiting for.

Taurus

Taureans are known to be steadfast, grounded, and loyal partners. But before you can reap the benefits of a Taurus relationship, you must first wine and dine these earth signs like there’s no tomorrow (and no overdraft fees). Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, and so Taurus' approach to seduction style is truly enveloping. Get ready for an immersive journey through the sights, sounds, and flavors of romance.

A smitten Taurus will express romantic interest through an exploration of sensual luxury: rich cuisine, esoteric liquors, intoxicating perfumes. Bathing in lavender oil not your thing? That could be a problem. Taurus is the sign of the bull, and much like the massive creatures themselves, these signs do not like to budge. Taureans take disagreements personally and are not inclined to change their minds. Romantic bulls must remember that all relationships require compromise, and flexibility is closely related to kindness and empathy.

Gemini

Gemini is the first air sign and is represented by the twins. Though Gemini often have a bad reputation for being two-faced, these friendly, sociable air signs rarely have nefarious intentions. In fact, Mercurial Geminis are best known for their talkative, spontaneous, and upbeat dispositions. The Gemini seduction technique corresponds with their general attitude: These twins love to chat!

Gemini are all about storytelling, and these jacks of all trades often have lots of quirky hobbies. Have a stamp collection? So does Gemini! Love hot air ballooning? Sign Gem up! Gemini are the Energizer Bunnies of the zodiac, but if you’re someone who values cozy, quality time, there may be an issue down the line. The twins needs to stay active constantly, which sometimes makes it difficult to get to know this sign on a deeper, more personal level. Gemini must work to realize that quiet evenings at home are not time wasted, and FOMO only goes so far when cultivating a new relationship.

Cancer

Cancers are the sign of the crab, and the shellfish anatomy reveals a lot about this water sign’s romantic disposition. Like the crab itself, Cancers cover their soft, vulnerable interiors with rock-solid armor. The most difficult aspect of dating a Cancer is getting through their tough exterior. Slow, steady, and consistent pacing is critical for these delicate creatures, as they will need to trust you completely before they let their guards down.

This can be a daunting process, however, as the slightest mishap can put Cancer on the defense. If you’re fortunate enough to earn a Cancer’s confidence, these water signs are highly intuitive, nurturing, and generous creatures who love cohabitating, creating, and dreaming.

Leo

Have you ever dated a celebrity? Because that just might be good practice for getting with a Leo. Leos are ruled by the sun, and these fire signs envision themselves as the center of the universe. Leos love classic, old-Hollywood-style romance, including grandiose displays of adoration ("Twenty dozen roses? How thoughtful!") and paparazzi-worthy drama.

Leo lovers value the concept of a “power couple” and think of their partners as extensions of self. But despite their larger-than-life personas, lions are also sensitive creatures. If a Leo feels hurt by their mate, it could lead to a total ego meltdown. Regal lions must remember that relationships are not just for the tabloids — they also require behind-the-scenes dedication, compromise, and vulnerability. When they check off these boxes, the razzle-dazzle aspect of courtship is that much more fun.

Virgo

Virgos are the most analytical sign of the zodiac, so it’s no surprise that the fastest way into a Virgo’s heart is through hyper-intellectualism. These even-tempered earth signs love absorbing information, and Virgos are often avid readers, movie buffs, or music aficionados. Virgos rely on logic and organization, so the seduction style of this Mercurial sign is often based on tangible day-to-day compatibilities. Do you have similar sleep schedules? Do you both enjoy the New York Times crossword puzzle? How often do you shower?

Virgos use facts to create holistic profiles of their lovers and enjoy partnership that emphasizes reciprocity and kindness. Though Virgos' greatest strength is their sharp critical thinking, this can also be their romantic weakness. On a bad day, Virgos can be perfectionists, and their observations can become harsh and nit-picky. For a healthy partnership, Virgos must remain nonjudgmental and remember that structure and routine are not always the most important things in life.

Libra

Libra is represented by the scale and is associated with balance, harmony, and — you guessed it — partnership. Libras are often happiest in relationships, so it’s common to find this air sign diving head first into romance. Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, and this influence inspires Libra to be extremely aesthetically oriented. Libras are connoisseurs: They enjoy museum excursions, trips to vineyards, and high-quality interior design. Time with a Libra boo can feel like a montage from your favorite rom-com, and these charming air signs certainly know how to impress.

But because Libras hate disappointing their partners, they often avoid conflict like the plague...even if that means resorting to white lies and half-truths in order to keep the peace. Libra needs to remember that healthy disagreements offer an opportunity to grow, learn, and establish boundaries when needed. There’s nothing wrong with speaking your truth, and compromise cannot exist without honest dialogue.

Scorpio

Scorpios have a bit of reputation in the zodiac. These powerful water signs are symbolized by the scorpion, a shadow-dwelling creature infamous for its poisonous stinger. Scorpios have an intensity unlike any other sign, and when it comes to romance, this water sign is all about deep soul-diving. The ideal relationship for a Scorpio is one that goes the distance emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. You may be totally hypnotized by a Scorpio even after just one date: These seductive lovers are extremely bewitching.

Most Scorpios are aware of their magnetism and enjoy using their powers to manifest their hopes and wishes. These water signs must remember to use their enchantments for good, and not for evil. If not carefully managed, Scorpionic energy can lead to obsessive tendencies, control issues, and power struggles within relationships. Scorpio must remember that soul connections are precious, and need to be treated with respect and reverence.

Sagittarius

Have you ever been lost in the desert with only your wits to guide you to safety? How about ice climbing up a frozen waterfall or river rafting down the Amazon? Your Sagittarius lover has. Sagittarius is the last fire sign of the zodiac and is represented by the archer. Sagittariuses propel their arrows to far-off places and travel incredible distances just to satisfy their daring curiosities. They love exploration, storytelling, and philosophy, and dating one is like sitting in the passenger seat of Indiana Jones’ Jeep.

Sags are the life of every party, and often abide by the “no bullshit” approach to communication. These daring, exciting fire signs are terrific partners in crime…if they stick around. Sags are born to roam, and freedom is very important for to these brave explorers, which is why flings are often much easier for them than commitment. In order for their relationships to blossom, Sags need to accept their lovers as their co-pilots. After all, partnership can be an extremely exciting adventure in itself.

Capricorn

Capricorns are thought to age backwards: As stoic Capricorn grows older, the sea goat becomes increasingly youthful, optimistic, and fun loving. This also mirrors the typical experience of dating a Capricorn. Earthy Capricorns are the most hard-working and professionally ambitious sign of the zodiac. They achieve success through their serious, matter-of-fact approach to life, and they also don’t like to waste time on superfluous relationships. That means if a Capricorn expresses interest, they really like you.

At first, Capricorn’s dating style can seem fairly traditional: no-frills restaurants, movie dates, and responsibly paced sleepovers. But as Capricorn warms up, they'll reveal their wild side. Inside every Capricorn is a big-time troublemaker, and you’ll know you’ve earned Cap’s trust when that inner rabble-rouser comes out to play. Despite their secret badassery, Capricorns always needs to work on not treating their partners like their employees. Capricorns can be very cold in relationships, especially when they’re feeling scared of vulnerability. Caps must remember to lighten up, and accept other people’s flaws — even imperfections are beautiful.

Aquarius

Aquarius is often misconceived as a water sign due to the “aqua” prefix, but in fact, it's the last air sign of the zodiac. Aquarius is symbolized by an altruistic healer bestowing the gift of water (life) upon the land (Aquarius is the water bearer). Aquarians are the opposite sign of monarch Leo: They represent the people. As the most humanitarian sign of the zodiac, they care deeply about issues relating to the greater good. And since Aquarians are most impassioned by the spirit of egalitarianism, interpersonal relationships are often difficult for these righteous rebels.

Aquarians are not particularly affectionate, so romance tends to look a lot like friendship for these air signs. They love thinking outside of the box, so their dating style is often unconventional, relaxed, and eccentric. The most important thing to know about dating an Aquarius is that they need their space. Alone time is absolutely critical for Aquarians, and they will revolt if they feel claustrophobic. The Aquarius lover should always try to be more present, and communicate their need for independence without hurting feeling through harsh aloofness. Aquarians do care, but they have their own, quirky way of showing it.

Pisces

The final sign of the zodiac, Pisces, is represented by two fish swimming in opposite directions. This water sign is extremely psychic, emotional, and intuitive, so it’s no surprise that dating a Pisces is like diving into the deepest parts of the vast ocean: exciting, bewildering, and a little scary. Pisces are known to be serious party animals, so a Pisces lover will likely enjoy activating their spirituality through mind-altering experiences.

Sometimes Pisces can become overwhelmed by the depth of their own emotions in a relationship, and these fishes' preferred defense mechanism is swimming away. When the going gets tough, it’s not uncommon for Pisces lovers to disappear without a word. Pisces should remember that it’s okay to be vulnerable. The type of partnership that supports Pisces' intense emotional sides takes commitment, dedication, and lots of hard work to build.