Tattoo I got at the local Dyke Nite a couple months ago plus my tea quotes soaked with tea ♪~(´ε` )
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we did NOT go to the club we r browsing astarion items on etsy instead
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its so funny how gay bars are like "laid back gay bar. no nonsense. dyke nite every 3rd friday"
but lesbian bars are like "we identify as an everybody bar so everyone sbould feel safe and welcome and comfortable regardless of if you're lgbtlmnop^€%£§ or straight but we would never dare use the word wxman because of every wxmxn identifies with wxmxx as there are many folx outside the binary and-"
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Growing up I was always the weird bitch™
Always collecting something, playing games I made up myself, singing about my surroundings and getting lost in stories, the people I did find and connect with I clung to so hard it would often drive them away. I like gore and sentimental gross things and sweat.
Even as a dirtfemme-leaning nonbinary person, I'm just perceived as a dyke in eyeliner that chopped off her tits in most spaces
I'm lucky to work in a place where the management respects my pronouns and so do most of my coworkers.
I do find it hard to make new friends in dyke gatherings.
I'm weird and always have been when it comes to being audhd and having niche interests and the only problem I've had with it is the rarity of finding people in a similar vein.
And it's partially awful because since it's so rare I really click with someone on a mental level I become instantly smitten and that sets me up for disappointment because surprise surprise humans will behave like humans
Like I'm sentimental in that I will keep your ponytail if you cut your hair. I've given a heart-shaped scab as a gift to a friend in a pretty little vial.
My memory is deeply connected to smell and that's one of my best senses so I huff people people I like, inhale them, breathe them in.
I love cheesy gore effects and having a sour chango raspa which reminds me of the taste of blood
These are all tame examples but anyway my point is at the gay little gatherings I go to I'm a niche within a niche within a niche.
I'm about to go with a foldy chair and a big sign that says "WEIRD BITCHES CORNER"
So I can finally find my girls, gays and theys I'll actually connect with.
I yearn for someone I don't even know.
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I don't care if non lesbians say dyke as long as it isn't with malice. like, straight people are allowed to say dyke when talking about dyke nite, or dykes to watch out for.
if I have to hear my brother say "are you gonna go with your friends to d word night?" one more time istg
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i bring a certain dyke vibe to dyke nite that the dykes don't like
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Also for the record I'm aware I'm about to show my entire old man ass in this post but I went out to the queer bar to attend a specific Dyke Nite event rather than just lurk upstairs playing pool and listening to oldies and while I enjoyed the sensory aspect of the music (please wear earplugs oh my god) and the lighting and the drinks were reasonable (I still think $6 for fake beer is a bit much but whatever) and I enjoyed being asked to dance by a v hot butch- how do you dance to music where the beats shift completely every minute or less like I know it's just that DJ but it's a lil hard to dance when the mixes are so sporadic I can't pick out what beat I'm meant to follow
It was fun I'll likely go again but getting home over stimmed at 2am with bodega food was not the worthwhile pay out it felt like at the time
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