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Oh absolutely, giving misogynists captive girlfriends/wives isn't going to fix anything. Being a little more misogynist to try to appease misogynists won't work.
But "giving any credence" is such an interesting phrase to use here, because it's so ambiguous and also accusatory. What does "giving credence" mean? Who has been doing it? What have they been advocating for? Who, for example, has been saying leftists should be more misogynist, and how?
I'm not alone in this confusion, either, there are several comments on the tweet who are equally perplexed.
The fact is that the left DOES NEED a better approach to people who are feeling lost, angry, and scared.
Alt-right "self-help" authors and programs are hugely popular. These predators target lost, scared, and angry people. They're cults, really. And no matter how much the left discusses things like "can we stop parroting bioessentialist bullshit because hey, men aren't destined to be misogynistic assholes"... these alt-right cultists don't ever even have to TALK TO a leftist to repeatedly hear "leftists hate you for being born white/male/rich/etc". I really can't get over how Rush Limbaugh popularized the term "feminiazi" and told an entire generation that feminists were angry man-haters when they literally are not. But that's exactly how the grift works!! I should know, I grew up in exactly this Rush Limbaugh kind of house!!
"Don't blame the hyper-wealthy for ruining the economy, blame women and foreigners for taking all the jobs! Don't blame the ruined economy when nobody wants to have kids anymore, blame the women! Don't blame patriarchy and all the misogyny it taught you when women avoid your misogynist ass, blame the women! Remember, the feminazis hate you!!"
So what to do?
On an interpersonal level, sometimes it can be really easy. This is a comment made to Innuendo Studios's video "How to Radicalize A Normie" on this exact topic (which I highly recommend watching).
"Hey, ex-alt-right member here. First, really like this series. I feel like you’re validating the radicalization that me and my male friends experienced. Putting it into words and showing us how we got tricked, exposing the magician and their tricks. Second, I vot out not through argument and discussion but actually through feelings. I was very edgy and would use the n-word in jokes all the time. My male friends would not call me out on it. But a female friend of mine said it made her uncomfortable and that she didn’t appreciate these jokes when we played fortnite together. That shook me to my core as I cared for my friend and that’s how my deradicaliztion started. Just wanted to add in this personal story, keep up the great work :)"
If this is someone you know, tell them their behavior is not cool.
THIS GOES DOUBLE FOR THE MEN READING THIS. Misogynists are more likely to listen to you than they are to listen to women!! If someone is being a shithead in your vicinity, consider: are you gonna let it slide? Or are you maybe, possibly, going to be the one thing that yanks them out of a hatespiral and prompts them to re-examine their hateful worldview? Tell them "hey not cool".
This might not work the first time. This might not work at all for some people. But if the situation is relatively safe, then it's worth trying.
And this does not mean that you personally are responsible for "centering men in your conversations" or "marginalized people putting in even more emotional labor" or "if a man is misogynist it's because you failed him" what the fuck ever like I've seen in this discourse. Come the fuck on.
It means you can probably try saying something to somebody you know. And if it doesn't work? You can say you tried.
On a policy level, we have more work to do. It shouldn't come as a surprise to any leftist that the current economic and political system in the USA exists to separate and exploit people. I think we all agree it really sucks to live in a system like this. Your average reactionary misogynist also thinks the system sucks, but as explained above, they've been trained to place the blame on some convenient scapegoats instead. Immigrants. Women. Queer people. Muslims. Anybody who's not white. Et cetera. "Government needs to get out of the way of smart people and then Elon Musk will build a utopia for The Faithful (which includes me) on Mars" or some shit.
These people need to hear that their anger is justified, but that their blame is misplaced. They need policies that will hold the responsible parties accountable. They need policies that won't leave them impoverished and isolated and exhausted after working a 40+ hour work week. They need to realize the system isn't sorting people into "the worthy rich" and "the unworthy poor", rather, that it's exploiting everyone except the wealth-owning class. They need to realize it's their politicians' biggest campaign donors that are doing this to them.
The Democratic Party needs to actually talk about this. I'll be dangerously pithy here: the Democratic Party needs to sound more like Bernie Fucking Sanders. Politicians need to oppose health insurance companies and get Medicare For All going. Politicians need to stop voting to give the military two fucking billion dollars every single day and fund free college and trade schools. Politicians need to tell business interests to fuck off and get a livable minimum wage AND a universal basic income passed, which will severely undercut employers' ability to exploit and isolate us.
And we need Citizens United repealed. Badly. I'm not trying to imply the problem is only with Republicans' campaign donors, because Democrats' biggest campaign donors are also often the same people exploiting us. But look at how Democrats did a tiny little bit of pro-union and anti-trust work these past 4 years and they screamed bloody fucking murder. If Democrats are relying on these people's money to get them elected, I think it's going to be really hard to get policies passed that will actually make USAmericans safer and happier (ie. address Republicans' economic fears that they keep blaming on various scapegoats).
Although with Republicans controlling the entire Federal government for the next two years minimum, this feels more distant than ever.
That's what we need to be taking seriously. If you don't give any credence to the fears and insecurities underlying the horrifying reactionary politics, you're not actually addressing anything. If you can't admit that capitalism fucks all of us over and makes all of us miserable and looking for a remedy, are you even a leftist?
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I’m so sorry how much bullshit HP fans are continuing to putting trans people through, Im so fucking sick of it. I mean its international news that jkr is almost single handedly bankrolling the transphobic movement in Scotland and for the second year in a row Ive had to explain to a ‘well meaning’ friend of mine that her harry potter halloween party isn’t just poor taste and I don’t care if she has trans friends who are cool with it I’m not fucking going and its fucking embarrassing. I just wanna shake people. Fucking stand up for something. Consume other media. Sorry not sorry your comfort characters are trash and so are you until you grow the fuck up
what really gets me is that i WAS a huge harry potter fan back in the day. my best friend mailed me a hogwarts letter on my 11th birthday. I got picked to do the wand-choosing thing at universal, and of course i made my parents buy me that fucking $40 wand afterwards. I dressed up as hermione for halloween like 3 years in a row. I've read every single book. I've watched all the movies. I bought the fucking lego sets. but you know what i did when she lost her shit on twitter? i STOPPED FUCKING BUYING HER SHIT. what is so hard about that. genuinely. idc if you used to love the characters. i did too. they don't stand for what we thought they stood for and that sucks but you are an adult and you have to come to terms with the fact that sometimes things aren't what they say they are. find something else to love. or at the very least SHUT. THE FUCK. UP.
#and it gets even more annoying when i have to have this argument with EVERYONE IN MY LIFE because it's always 'oh you used to love hp'#yeah i did. do we think maybe there's a reason why i dont anymore. a very obvious one. perhaps#asks
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You’ve got to forgive yourself for being traumatized and needing to learn how to function again.
Recovery isn’t always nightmares and depression, it’s forgetting to eat, being scared of what others might see as completely normal things, it’s getting random panic attacks, not knowing how to take care of yourself, not knowing how to live like an adult, even if you’re twenty, thirty, forty, fifty, of feeling like you’re failing to function in a world where everyone seems to have their shit together.
If you need help, ask for it. Go to forums and ask for advice. Take advantage of community resources. Buy pre-sliced veggies and fruits, eat instant meals if you can’t cook for yourself today. Hire someone. Ask a neighbor for a favor. Buy any item you think might make life easier, even if you feel like you aren’t ‘disabled’ enough to have it.
Some of the depression posts (ie open your windows, take a shower, go outside, call a friend) are really helpful but they’re not always enough. I’ve found advice for spoonies, people with chronic pain or other disabilities have the best tips because they know what it’s like to be bedridden, out of energy, stuck in a brain fog.
You may never return back to the energy you had when you were younger and you might always need to use crutches to help you through life. It’s the same with medication.
Trauma is a real thing that happens to you, it physically alters your brain and it’s alright to have lasting scars.
You’re not broken, your life is not over and you can still be happy.
It’s not your fault.
#felix speaks#trauma#recovery#deconversion#ex cult#ex religious#ptsd#cptsd#healing#disabled#actually traumatized#spoonies#things i need to remind myself with too#it sucks to have to come to terms with the fact#but youll be so much better off once you stop denying yourself the help you need#also re: buying items meant for the disabled#do it!#you are not taking resources away#if you need it you need it#and the more in demand these items are the better theyll be made in the future
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no thought only MQF in brain* (*even more than usual yeah.....)
ok lads listen up. i love allllll Mu Qingfang designs ok? all the interpretations are cool and valid and dear ok BUT. whenever I personally try to draw MQF without a 'stache he just looks to me like a first-year med student ok hjdfhkfd
but anyway. when i was scrolling around and being completely normal about MQF i saw a lot of ppl say stuff like 'this is my 'mqf is actually pretty' agenda' and its alwaysss about peeled mqf SO I HAVE A POINT TO PROVE OK. mqf with a moustache can be also a prettyboy ok?? i can prove it 😭😭
so here are my qingfangs where i turned up the babygirl vibes to absolute max as i could hsdfjkhdskfh 💜
#mu qingfang#svsss#listen.......actually nevermind hfdjkhfk#im having. thoughts#hsjkdhkf#maybe ill also make a text post some time later because i cannot shut up im having lack of fics issues hjdfhfk#so anyway 🥰 hjkfh silly litol weary doctor amirite-#also some may have noticed that i have finally used the correct peak seniority for MQF aha well#(through gritted teeth) i have finally come to terms with the fact he is 8th its fine its whatever i like 8 anyway#it fits anyway of course the doctor peak is underappreciated smh smh smh smh#also btw if youve ever been influenced by my mqf design i have to let you know each and every time that happens i gain 5 billion years hjfd#<333333333#it makes me soooooooo giddy that ppl like him enough that i change their perception of him lmao jdfhkd#nothing gives me more power points than when the moustache propaganda claims another victim FR HAGHJKFD#so yeah 🥰🥰#wait also gotta mention that im not like bashing any other designs i want to make that super clear#i suck at tones i dont want this to get misinterpreted#all mqf good mqf 💕💕
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hard to come up with funny lil coping posts when all i can think about is how bayern has had so many seasons to prep for the impending transitional period where we have to reconstruct following the departures of a lot of our key core players and here we are at the end of thomas's second to last season and we are probably in the worst position we could be in ! great.
#shit ava says#like blah blah blah third place sucks and this being our first trophyless season sucks etc#but idk. i'm more just annoyed that there is no direction in sight.#like i'm okay with charging through difficult times because the transitional period is inevitable#but the fact that we have no idea what the fuck is coming next season actually sucks ahahahaa xxxxxx#i'm just mad because we've had years to prep and we did not just NOTHING but actively made our position worse. what the hell#a far cry from what i know is controversial but like the bayern dna that was at its height during pep/jupp/flick etc#i know a lot of people do not like him and that's fair but#i think that's why i was a lot more lenient on nagelsmann#because i felt okay we have to be patient... this is a long term project etc. and then it wasn't! welp
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#i was looking through old photos today. they where from wjen i was like 1 and it made me so sad#bc my mum would have been like only a year or 2 older then i am now and she looked so young#and now she has an abdomen full of tumors and blistered hands and feet. theyre prob gonna hsve to remove her bladder#but shes still very pragmatic abt it. but she grew up in a house where no one really cared about her feelings so she made them small#and now her mother calls and doesn't ask how her grandkids are doing and doesn't ask how her daughter is doing. im cursed with terrible#grandparents on both sides but i resent my mothers mother worse. though my dad said i probably wouldnt have survived his upbringing#and hes right. my nana has like zero empathy and cant cook for shit. idk how my parents r so normal but the fact i had a good upbringing is#probably the only reason im still here. and thats the other thing that made me sad abt the old pics. just looking at this little baby with a#fucked up head and thinking: in 25 years that kid is gonna b so broken down their not gonns kno what to do or how to fix it. idk whats wrong#with me. ive always been some stage of miserable but i used to b able to get things done. and now i cant seem to force functionality#and it sucks. bc im home now and i still feel like im cringing around this open wound in my chest. but whatever#as of today ive started taking ab1lify. hopefully it helps in the long term but in the short term it triggers my 0cd. which is not fun#its so frustrating. whatever. i also found out my eyes used to not work together. not enough to have a lazy eye but it was hard for me to#read and apparently my eyes were tracking at like double the speed of a normal person. wtf is wrong with my brain? also also my mum was like#yea i never would have guessed bip0lar but we thought it was something. autism i could see 100% but yea didnt see that coming. ao i guess#i brehave like a bit of an oddball. ans my nana would bother my dad to try to make me participate in church and my dad was like no. she#clearly don't wanna b here lol. ay. they did the best they could which i appreciate#unrelated
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#i have real thoughts rn i am just so overwhelmed with feeling that this is all that can come out#tldr: i wish i could just spend my time traveling and treating women how they Deserve to be treated (well. loved)#thinking about how many people i see who are so deeply sad#thinking about how many ppl ive had a positive impact on even if we ended on terrible terms#thinking about how many more people i could help if i just had the resources ....#thinking about how fucked the psychiatric industry is and how so many therapists suck#thinking about how i actually love being the mommy therapist friend a lot of the time and my limits surrounding that really just come from-#-the fact i Dont have the resources to do this for everyone bc i also have to manage other things in life and work and such#thinking about how if i could i would actually do free emotional labor like. all the time.#thinking about how much it sucks i cant do this#thinking about how much i want to hold every sad girl i see on my dash and let them cry into my arms until they cant anymore#thinking about how much i love my friends#thinking about how much I love...... everyone i meet#not in the like Romantic way but in the “oh hello. you crossed my path. i love you. i love you. i love you. thank you for being alive” way#thinking about all the people who have harmed me and how i Still feel so much love for all of them#thinking of the strangers who have been both rude and kind to me and how much i think of them. how deeply i hope they're still alive.#it..... hurts to love this much ngl#but pushing it down feels worse and im full of this feeling of tender frustration????? because of it#i love that i have so many people who allow me to love them and love me in return#i want to reach through the screen and kiss every follower and mutual and person i follow on the forehead and tell them I love them#i wish i could express more love for people w/o them falling In love with me or being weirded out thinking im In Love w/ them....#i wish i could express better that its not that im aromantic but that i just have so much love at my baseline that its hard for me to-#-Fall in love unless we constantly are talking and communicating and like. working to that together without sounding like a jerk or like im+#+a saint. im not a saint. im not. i just love you. ):#ANYWAY sorry for all those feelings if i didnt get them out i was gonna explode#that also definitely wasnt really a tldr
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I guess the root of my problem is that I feel really out of place everywhere.
#tho i guess its alright because i have one (1) place where i kinda just nudged myself in there#and because I'm there so much i cant possibly be out of place but. aside from that#pretty much everywhere i feel out of the loop#even on tumblr i feel pretty lonely n im starting to reblog less n less again#discord is a whole nother thing i feel like im going to explode if i try to hold a conversation with multiple people#i just cannot do multiple people. i have to consider muktiple peoples opinions and continue the conversation???#i physically cannot do that#so. i feel pretty isolated#and i mean even at college i dont rlly know anyone there#i didnt even know there was a little event everyone went to???#i had no clue what everyone was talking about?? i didnt see any email about it#even the teachers were talking about it n im just clueless#so yeah .#ive come to terms with the fact that i wont belong everywhere but#it hurts rlly bad yknow#and its so tiring. i can't keep up with ny good words n i can't even follow my own advice#im a mess n a total flop n gosh. life sucks huh#heres to another friendless year ay college???#heres to being myself: a total wallflower loner#expresso the depresso#what#what?#i truly do hate myself huh
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#slowly coming to terms w the fact that maybe the men that i would be attracted to just don’t exist#like sure a lot of men are beautiful gorgeous even#but then im like…… realistically i just don’t see myself in a relationship w them???? is this my deep rooted insecurity speaking or#is it something else???#like realistically speaking i just don’t see myself walking down the street w them like we just wouldn’t look right together you know???#is that insane of me to even think about?#and then when i find a man that im attracted to and i could perchance see myself in a relationship w i get stuck on thinking thoughts like#what if our world views aren’t compatible what if his personal hygiene sucks etc#i have not had a crush on anyone in literal years at this point i just need to make peace w being destined for solitude#also…..#never beating those lesbian allegations btw#no jk i am like 80% sure that im actually attracted to men my venus is just in virgo#(so are my sun and mercury btw but those aren’t super relevant to this situation i think)
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I feel like people are equating neonazis trying to co-opt a movement that was started by a group of people who have been driven from their homeland by the acts of a violent colonial state as a way to 1) delegitamize the movement because it benefits and validates white supremacy and white supremacist ideology that says all non-whites are at their core evil violent animals but also 2) appeal to the anti-semetism that is baked into a lot of Western peoples' core beliefs and reality is the same as white supermacist groups endorsing someone like Donald Trump.
You might say, oh well that is the same! And I would say, you have no spine and have zero desire to actually fight for a better future and are instead interested only in crown yourself and your own group as the most moral and best team on the playing field.
We should 100% take steps to protect young folks (and frankly old folks) entering into the activist scene from falling into white supremacy and anti-semetism. A lot of people (in particular Western and white ppl) need to be vigilant as they join the cause for Palestinian liberation and freedom to keep in check the anti-semetism AND islamophobia that has been taught to them practically since birth.
But for me, to say that neonazis and white supremacists would seek to scout in pro-palestinian movements BECAUSE being pro-palestinian makes you anti-semetic is islamophobic and I'll even go so far as to say anti-black because of the strong connection that Black American civil rights activists have to Islam and to Palestine.
#had to go and block someone that i liked on this hellsite because of this bullshit#and that fuckin sucks#i am always willing to look internally and question to what extent my learned antisemetism is extending#and since becoming more aware of what is happening in Palestine#i have had to come to terms with how normalized and deep anti-semetism is rooted in my mind#but I will not be told that I am anti-semetic because I know what violent settler colonialism is#i know what settler colonialism is and the fact that people ignore it#is clear the way that colonialism is so heavily normalized as well in the Western mind
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Looks up wikihow for what to do when you realize your office has 5x the amount of budget of every other executive office combined
#fun fact the president gets the least! reaffirming the idea they do jack shit#maybe i shouldnt condemn gabby to that but also sorry maam you are not being evpsa as long as our nepo baby linenof succession#has anything to say about it 😔😔 maybe you could be dod one day#like i am the outlier that only happened because the ACTUAL nepo baby backed out last minute#so they had to speedrun my nepo babiness#anyways the genuine nepo baby route (me) is one i’d like to aboid because as one of the people involved it sucks !!!!!#anyways sorry abt my boss telling you could do it even though youve already been elected to senate and my boss terms out in 3 days!#(and ????????????)#but thats a conversation i dont want to have so it will be unsaid unless you talk to me ! sorry i will be prioritizing those whove been here#and doing the work for 2+ years i think thats actually how this is Supposed to work when you don’t make all your core staff seniors @my boss#i’ll be real they were insane for that like im insane for swinging the exavt opposite way but ALL YOUR CORE STAFF???? you left your juniors#in the fucking DUST man now you have nepo baby times and everyones like but you can do it SHUT UP im a nepo baby#to be fair its good we didn’t fast track the person we did bc WHEW issues but the thing is the person who got left with all these issues is#ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not any of the people whove been dealing with them for 3+ years so THANKS IG!!!!!!!!!#some ppl really dont grow up with the ideals of making sure you are leaving something for those after you huh like dont get me wrong#the work we DO considers those who comes after us bc thats how advocacy works but our OFFICE has none of that in terms of like#staff and stuff like some of the staff choices this year were 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫 everyone went into fall confused as hell#bc WHO TF WAS GOING TO RUN like even before i was properly involved THIS ISSUE EXISTED !!! you guys just got lucky i existed#and lucky that im a pushover that does whatever those around me tell me too like i am remembering i DIDNT WANT THIS JOB!!!! it took both#the person i consider my mentor and the person who i consider who i want to be when i grow up telling me to do it b4 i even considered it#so DONT TELL RANDOS THEY CAN HAVE A PLACE IN (MY) OFFICE!!! I HAVE ENOUGH PROBLEMS RIGHT NOW!!! do you know what a bitch hiring is going 2 b#anyways :’) can everyone tell i am So Excited for this job :’)) if it turns out we’ve had a budget of 300k this WHOLE TIME like#i had been SAYING WE DID bc its my JOB to Know it and it was THERE and we’ve been acting like we had 150 i’ll lose it#v.txt
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Books Read in 2023:
Inconspicuous Consumption: The Environmental Impact You Don't Know You Have by Tatiana Schlossberg (2019)
Fully Automated Luxury Communism: A Manifesto by Aaron Bastani (2018)
You Suck, Sir by Paul Bae (2014)
Utopia For Realists: How We Can Build the Ideal World by Rutger Bregman (2014)
Revolutionary Petunias by Alice Walker (1973)
Girl with the Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier (1999)
Twelve by Twelve: A One-Room Cabin Off the Grid & Beyond the American Dream by William Powers (2010)
Windfall: The Booming Business of Global Farming by McKenzie Funk (2014)
The Environmentalist's Dilemma: Promise and Peril in an Age of Climate Crisis by Arno Kopecky (2021)
[ID: Covers of aforementioned books. End ID.]
#SUPER loved inconspicuous consumption it was just v informative all around#i have it physical and will b keeping it#fully automated was an interesting thought experience ig? it was a book.#you suck sir was a v quick and lighthearted read of a teacher sharing his stories#utopia was very much like arguing for social democracy and so in terms of that it was v solid#tbh i would rec this book as a good one for like. liberals in ur life#not a difficult read and tbh im gonna get my mom 2 read it#petunias very very good book of poetry#pearl earring is a fictional story of how that painting came to be#i enjoyed it! the prose was very well written!#twelve by twelve was SO bad i literally couldn't finish it and the author is racist and just. dont touch it#windfall was difficult to get through sometimes but VERY worth it i found it informative and also just.#make me so fucking aghast#environmentalist dilemma was....... a book. it started out very strong and i was absolutely hooked and thought i'd love it but then it wen#t downhill. i found it quite informative and interesting in parts for sure#but the author is more centrist than i am and that comes across QUITE a bit and theres a lot about like. his own opinions and stuff#the straight up reporting the facts parts were interesting but not his own opinion i just wanted him 2 be quiet#2023media#gigi.txt
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christine cqnigula is so mecore
#fish.txt#i just woke up like ten minutes ago and i am thinking about her and also rod avenue q because. i love them#sorry i'm thinking about i love play rehearsal again i just love that song so much#i love play rehearsal is like what fantasies come true is to me#they kind of have the same concept too they pull the ol' bait n switch (i don't think i'm using that term right) on ya at the end#no sorry that's not the right song the song i'm thinking of is uhhhhh#guy that id kinda be into#I LIKE BOTH ANYWYAS#christine's solos r mostly my faves from bmc so#it sucks to be me and guy that id kinda be into were the first songs i listened to from each musical fun fact#i heard them actually around the same time ! i think i heard it sucks to be me first though
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#haha i have to come to terms with the fact that my best friend who I've been in love with since we met is moving away for at least 2 years#it's not like the feeling has ever been reciprocated anyways but still it's going to fucking suck#but i mean i moved away for a year and we still remained closer than ever#but chances are he'll find someone and ill be so happy for him#but once again ill be left alone and without anything to cling to#🙃#i hate change#and i hate feeling how much i feel and how i always get invested in the wrong people#but still it's a fucking rude awakening and im not ready
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just had a conversation with my sister about her high school class reunion, which turned into a conversation about my high school class reunion (it's this year) and it's weird. it's so fucking weird to think about.
#which it's weird because i've been out of high school for ten years#yeah#but also#i have to come to terms#with the fact#that as much as i don't want to see those people#because i was never really friends with many of them#a lot of them probably don't want to see me either#even though much of my class was very close#with one another#and#that still sort of sucks#like yeah high school was a long time ago#and i don't dwell on it because i'm literally 28 this year#but sometimes it just comes up#and it's not a great feeling#feeling like no one would miss you
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missing rolling over after a bad one and nuzzling into someone else’s warm skin. missing talking animatedly about dying in the dream and oh there was this segment where we were flying kites and then i WAS the kite and i did this swoop dip barrel roll that i could feel in my gut and throat and then watching him sagely nod and tell me in increasingly funny melodrama what my dream “means” until my heart is racing from love rather than fear as we chuckle under the same blanket. missing the feeling of being raw and known and chosen over and over and over and over and idk. i think mayb that was my one. everyone should get One.
#txtit#sigh. exposting#i still dont regret it but.#coming to terms w the fact that there will always b poison in my life bc it is constantly leeching from my bones#and it’s just easier. not better but easier to have someone who will suck the poison from the everbleeding wound#oh! Im crying. Thank god i remember how to do that#i hate waking up early
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