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Hello :) Thought of something I think would be interesting * u * What might (Signs or Sources) Eclipse think of the condition: synesthesia (ie seeing certain colors when you hear certain sounds, tasting shapes, seeing certain letters in certain colors)? Like, if (either) y/n had it and tried to explain to him that they see letters/numbers in certain colors even when they're printed in black ink, or every time they hear certain sounds they also see certain colors with those sounds, what would he think about it? I imagine he'd at least be very curious and maybe even try to figure out how it works XD
It's true he would be very curious to discover how such a unique perception worked! He might even suggest cutting their head open to take a peek at that beautiful mind. Of course, with Sources he'd only be half teasing. But Signs would be very excited to tell him all about it so he wouldn't have to find out for himself. He might even assume that it was just something all humans did as a attribute of their species.
#beings made of stardust au#signs of life#sources of light#ask#i knew someone with that once#i never asked them what color my voice was#it felt rude to ask#but i'm still curious
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Ryan, a 12 year old boy, isn't responsible for the choices the adults in his life make like 😭? He didn't ask to be in this situation, and he would've been happy just living with his mother, but regardless he got caught in the middle of this chaos and it's not his fault!!! None of it is </3
He's just a lonely boy wanting a normal life with a family that loves him. You can't hold that over his head, he's just a little guy
#boy rambles#I seen a weird post and felt ehh about it#its not his fault he didnt ask to be here 😭#the boys#ryan butcher#billy butcher#homelander#like he has no control what his dads do#and him choosing one or the other just shows how helpless he is- he just wants someone to love and care for him#and at the time lander seemed like the right choice considering how rude butcher was to him
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you know i got halfway through this before realizing i probably subconsciously ripped the concept from an old tumblr post sorry
#and then keith would say something rude and they would get into an argument for 3 hours#klance#vld#voltron#art#my art#ok guys we're in the tags time for my character debrief that no one asked for or cares about#i imagine this as like. far enough into their friendship that lance doesnt IMMEDIATELY come to blows#but keith feels the immediate need to make his emotional constipation everyones problem. and instigates a fight.#obviously that fucker would have to be on his actual deathbed in order to speak from tjhe heart#BUT if he somehow felt the motivation to fess up before then. it would be. such. an ordeal.#lance would be scratching his head like. why is keith insulting me out of nowhere 3982 times this week. i thought we were doing better#little does he know every time is just a try and fail on keiths part#because he needs an emotional miralax.#bless his heart.#if youre writing keith and he isnt dragged kicking screaming and dyiing into his feelings#are you even writing keith?#anyway this one goes out to katie klanced#hopefully you approve
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question on tumblr etiquette:
if you fall under a user's DNI list, but that user reaches out to you via ask or DM, without knowing you fall under their DNI list, do you still respond?
hypothetical example: user A specifies on their blog "DNI if you're over the age of 18", but then user A reaches out to user B. User B is over the age of 18, but user A does not know this because user B doesn't mention it on their blog. User B does know that user A does not wish to interact with people over the age of 18. does user B respond to user A?
#crab chatter#someone sent me an ask and i happened to see they have a detailed list of DNI criteria#and i fall under it#but now i dunno what to do?#i don't wanna be rude by ignoring their message#but i also don't want to be disrespectful for breaching their DNI#even if they don't currently know#maybe i'm overthinking things#i tend to do that#i might just play it safe and not respond#cuz i feel like everyone has their own reasons for their boundaries#and it's not my place to determine whether or not my well-intentioned attempt to be polite/friendly is comfortable for them#the other user put in the effort of communicating their boundaries#they just didn't know i fall under their DNI before reaching out#but it's MY responsibility to act responsibly and uphold their boundary#i'll add this to my pinned post rules#i will not reply if I feel uncomfortable or if I feel like my response could potentially make someone feel uncomfortable#of course i'm not going to talk to them about the topic(s) they have boundaries around#but if they truly do not want to interact with people of certain ages or beliefs or lifestyles etc#i want to respect that#i just feel bad about giving people the cold shoulder#but i'd feel worse if the other person felt hurt or betrayed#yeah i'm definitely overthinking it
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Question. I think Sonic and Tails are just good friends. I don’t believe Sonic raised Tails, and I don’t believe Sonic and Tails have a sibling or father son type bond. Am I allowed to say that? With how many people on this site seem to cheer “the brothers ever”, “they’re brothers your honor”, and “unbreakable bond”, I get the feeling that I would get internet crucified (or real life crucified, idk) for saying anything that doesn’t run parallel to this strongly held belief. So, can I say that I think Sonic and Tails are just good friends and that your opinion is also valid? Or am I going to suddenly suffer a stroke after you read this from you killing me with your mind?
i don’t care. block me if you don’t like them being portrayed like that
#ask#anon ask#i hope you felt really smug typing this out#this is worded so rudely and for why?#had to fight back the urge to respond as petty as i possibly could with two fists#i could go on a tangent about how sonic and tails canonically view each other as brothers#and unbreakable bond is their duo name in sonic advance 3#and that those aren’t just fanon beliefs#but i won’t#it’s asks like this that make me consider turning off anon#but i know it can be scary to ask a creator you like a question#i probably shouldn’t have responded to this#i’m in a bit of a mood and this as i feel like biting someone’s head off
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my opinion on the Blake lively situation
#okay so I never HATED Blake lively#but I did have a feeling about her#so I’d always like purposely not interact or view any interview or anything of hers that came up on my feed#I DON’T like Ryan Reynolds and never have#I just find him a try hard and annoying#and I did not like the couple of Blake and Ryan#they just seemed soooo pick me#so yeah I tried to just ignore the whole downfall of Blake lively that’s been happening#bc sometimes I just don’t care to comment or learn about celeb drama#BUTTTT ofc i got sucked into it#and not Blake tryna have a Margot Robbie in Barbie moment 😂😂#‘bring your girlfriends and wear florals!1!1’ GIRL MARGOT NEVER TOLD ANYONE TO WEAR PINK TO BARBIE IT WAS A NATURAL THING#not to mention I didn’t even realise this movie was about domestic violence as I’ve never read the book#and it was NOT being marketed as one thanks to Blake and Ryan#also why did Ryan have to get involve#ALSO this morning I saw the interview from 2016 where Blake is being rude to the interview#and oh my god it’s awful like SHE FIRSTLY FAT SHAMES HER OFF THE BAT NO HESITATION#then proceeds to ignore the poor interviewer#like doesn’t give her eye contact AT ALL#which I felt so bad for the interview bc I’ve BEEN THERE#this is why I’d hate to be a celeb interview bc imagine getting treated like a third rate individual by these big headed LOSERS who think#they’re better than you just bc they’re famous#I could NOT#anyways also Blake tried to have a whole feminist moment when the interviewer asked her about the clothes she wears in the movie#‘would anyone ask the men about the clothes’#UM BITCH YES??? COSTUMES??? IN FILM?? IS A THING ???#also can I just say Blake has always had the worst hair ever and the fact she has a hair care line is insane bc SHE IS KNOWN TO HAVE BAD HAI#and I never thought her fashion was good like even when people were simping over her met gala outfits I NEVER EVER SAW THE VISION#anyways yeah lol#the interviewer thing triggered me lowkey like HOW RUDEEEE
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the wow ptsd never leaves you
#God I remember when the main healer of the raid team I was in yelled at me for ... wording something in a#what he considered 'rude way' once.#I think he asked me to use a cooldown and I had died and felt so ashamed of myself#so I said something like#'dude - i'm dead?'#and BOY howdy did HE NOT love that#It was bad enough that the raid leader/guild leader took me and him aside on discord and forced us to talk things out#which is fucking insane in hindsight#wow raiding was so fucking insane
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What did you think of BBH's chat, where he asked if they'd like face cam and the majority said no?
Pretty rude to me, like I know he's not going to take it to heart, but his voice was quite subdued afterwards so it definitely stung.
Especially with some frequent chatters being so vocally against with weird reasonings. I know some of the chat are just obsessed with being argumentative and "getting one over him" and bullying. But talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face (most were lamenting the lack of man bun picture as an excuse to say no to the face cam, even when he offered to do the cam with his hair up)
On the other hand, BBH doesn't have to do the song and dance of being "forced" he could just turn on the cam. He's just being shy / silly or maybe just wanting a little hype up / excitement to goad him on. Still people rather wanting to see a vtuber with three expressions or your dog instead of you? Little owie.
Sorry if I sound thirsty, it's not really the cam or lack of cam I care about but the response of chat to a streamer suggestion being shot down - 'cause if he's suggesting it it's because he wants to do it and was hoping chat would be hype about it. Just my second-hand embarrassment kicking in I guess.
NO I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING AS YOU LOLLL like bad is a grown adult man and does not need me to defend him. I don’t know his thoughts or what’s in his mind or if this actually hurt him. but personally if I got THAT strong of a negative reaction to the mere suggestion of showing my face on stream well I would never want to show my face again ever to be quite honest !!! like anon I need you to know I was thinking this EXACT thing as this went down…. and even if he’s not hurt emotionally by this (wouldn’t be surprised, he seems like he’s got very thick skin considering the fact he actively seeks out friends that bully him LMAO) I would not be surprised if the takeaway he got was that people don’t want facecam stream. IT’S NOT TRUE BADBOYHALO IT’S NOT TRUE I need badboyhalo to know he is very handsome and I would kill people with hammers and knives for a facecam stream and I normally don’t even LIKE facecams that much in general
#ask#like again I really do not know if this actually hurt his feelings#he may be completely fine and not think anything of it!#but it was still crazy to watch happen because it felt so rude like guys think for one second#about the implications of the chat messages you are sending ToT#secondhand embarrassment is the exact word for it#CUZ LIKE IDK I DONT WANT TO SOUND PARASOCIAL OKAY IT WAS MORE SECONDHAND EMBARRASSMENT THAN ANYTHING#LIKE BAD’S AN ADULT HE CAN TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF HE DOESN’T NEED ME TO CODDLE HIM#BUT AT THE SAME TIME DAMN WHERE ARE PEOPLE’S MANNERS ToT
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Alfred has such an "I didn't sign up for this" vibe but he's had several chances to just leave at this point. I could totally see him coming back to life and being just as mad as Jason for petty reasons.
Sure, he has legitimate gripes with the Batfamily. He might have felt pressured into parenting Bruce, who I'm sure was a difficult child. Maybe he thought Bruce had nowhere better to go. Once Bruce was an adult, however, he was home free. I'm sure Bruce would have given him a generous retirement package.
So, yeah, petty villain Alfred when?
At the same time tho I don't see alfred as being a good (as in interesting) villain someone else sent me an ask that I can't find but they said alfred gives off Jacob rees-mogg vibes which yeah evil alfred is just a member of the UK Conservative party which like currently good alfred is also apart of the Conservative party (tho do find people's arguments that he a Blair lib dem very convincing) so maybe evil alfred is actually a member of reform UK
#ask#thejeweloftheworld#i think its also funny that yeah alfred didnt want to look after Bruce#its been mentioned in a couple different comics that alfred was going to quit his job at wayne Manor#before the waynes died and he felt he had to look after their child#which nah bro Leslie is here hes good go back to england#also off topic#but i was recently rudely reminded about how poor i am#so might start linking my kofi account more#mmmm maybe#funnily enough my current situation is also bc of the shitty english conservates#hahaha i hate it here
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Do you take commissions? If so, do you have a commission sheet? I’m sorry if this is an annoying ask I just really love your work lol
not annoying at all! i really really appreciate this a lot, thank you!
i have done commissions in the past on other platforms, but for now i am not taking them here. i'm not saying that i never will, because sometimes life is.. you know. Like That™️. but for now i'm steering clear of it to try and keep my passion up! 👍
#i also frankly think- and i don't say this to be rude- but i think that most folks in fandom would think my work is overpriced#because i charge somewhat more professional rates. still not a living wage. still not what you could get as a non-freelancer#(deleted a lot of rambling about prices here but if anyone does want to hear it i can go into it sometime)#kirby characters are generally far more simplistic so it would be a whole different pricing bracket#but i think expectations in fandom seem different to an original content community where people are doing this for a living#the one person i've commissioned in fandom i was so shocked at the rate i paid like... 500% what they asked me.#(that is not hyperbole. i 'tipped' 400% and it still felt like the bare minimum. you *must* tip undercharging artists.)#anyway. i have a lot of thoughts about monetising my art but at the moment this is still a no. i'm sorry!#i do really genuinely appreciate it though! if i ever open them i'll be sure to post here about it!#i'd also like to do art trades a little more regularly in the future (not rn) ; so there's that too? but we'll see. again i'll post about i#starflungs personal tag
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We just had a big team meeting, about 12 of us on the call. One of the agenda points was one of the team talking about a meeting they had with the head of one of our regions. She was talking about the challenges communities are facing in this region e.g. "I think isolation is the biggest issue in this area." One of the men in the team interrupted her and said "you keep saying 'I think' so do you think or do you know?" And then proceeded to tell her that if you talk to donors you have to know and why would a donor trust her if she says think instead of know. In front of the whole group. She handled it very well but if that had been me I would have absolutely kicked off. This wasn't a donor meeting. It was a meeting with the team so you have absolutely no idea how this person speaks to a donor. And if you did have concerns about how she does her job - even though you're not her manager - you don't announce that to the whole team!
#non royal#work#working#i just felt like that was so rude#personal#if he'd been asking for his own clarification it would have been fine#but he was just telling her she's shit at her job basically
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How are you on Tumblr and don't have a crush lol
I genuinely hope this is sarcasm and it's just going over my head in a "social cues are always a miss for me" way, but it's easier to *not* have a crush here.
#like i dont want to be rude lol but you ever go to comment on someones post and look at the notes#that shit is not for the faint of heart#the stuff you can find without even looking ?#maybe some of you are made from steel but me not so much#i know people have made connections in this place but i am not one of them#however if thats what you use this app for you do you haha just not for me#asks#personal#again i am tagging PERSONAL#because these are my thoughts and how *I* feel everyone else is entitled to their own thing#zero judgement#i was just asked how i felt lol#you can give me shit i dont care lol i will just delete it
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Something about the Explorers meeting scene at the end of HZ065.
Amethio addressing Spinel in an impolite way vs the way he uses respectful language with Gibeon.
#last gifset i rb'd is the scene in question#anyway amethio said 'kisama' to spinel in that scene and i remember being taken off guard ww (when he said 'i need to ask you-')#('kisama' being a very derogatory way of addressing someone etc)#i remember ame using it to address friede in the hz manga adaptation of ep45 and i was like. why are you talking to your rival this way ww#(this specific word wasn't in the anime. it was added in the manga and he said 'you.. don't get in my way' and i thought it was amusing)#so as far as i know this was the first time amethio referred to someone that way which also showed that he was pissed off at spinel#amethio can be a rude bocchan sometimes and i think it's a neat part of his character#the way he talks casually to most people and the way gibeon is the only person he uses keigo with iirc#his 'wait please'.. the 'kudasai'.. really stood out to me when i watched the ep#felt a bit desperate to me too#hz065#character notes#episode notes
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Who are your fave and least fave fkmtverse characters?
the first that came to mind was hyoudou senior i just dont enjoy seeing him on screen very much and i think hes boring & annoying as a character. hes fine in middle management blues tonegawa cause then its a comedy manga & we poke fun at him but like as an Antagonist in Best Gambling Manga Ever Made Kaiji Part One its like. i just dont want him ever having the spotlight for more than than a single plotbeat at a time. im less scared thinking about "what if the ending of kaiji ruins all of my analysis so far?" than when i read people talk about hyoudou being the final antag of part 7. this is my 1 singular fear but this being said, im fine with hyoudou existing. hes not that bad. the one in zero was worse and by "the one in zero" i do mean theres at least 3 (?) of them and theyve merged into 1 singular existence in my memory. im sick of them. can we stop? it makes me appreciate how fucking awesome washizu is when i see fkmt utterly fail at writing any other good character w this archetype. what did he put in washizu that made him awesome? mahjong?
i typed too much about hyoudou but i still wanna mention some absolute FLOPS of fkmt characters like the protagonist from RUDE 39 (the pachinko manga fkmt did) katagiri yuuji... whys he named the exact same thing as the protag of t*m*dachi game? RED FLAG. i actively rooted for his ruin the entire time i read that one. i dislike him greatly. can we kill him? in a similar vibe i just cannot like nikaido of hell golf fame. initially i wanted him put in a death game cause thats just what i like reading about but it progressively grew into a need to see him suffer horribly on screen. i need him tortured and NOT mentally the psychological torture of being a loser is NOT enough for him i need him in REAL ACTUAL HELL. im still keeping w the nikaido chapters tho
my blogging may sound like i hate miyoshi greatly also but thats all in jest & good fun hes a good antagonist and a good punching bag. its very fun and enjoyable to go "miyoshi sucks miyoshi should die me and my friends wouldve killed miyoshi with hammers" which makes him a GOOD character i enjoy. hes awesome. hes my singular favorite example of hte trope of "the protags friend betrays them in the death game" its so masterfully pulled. miyoshis awesome. & i love how they wrote him in life in tokyo ichijou LOL hes also very important for kaijis depth of character- heres a guy he saved who then backstabs him. does he still believe in trust? is he still incapable of (direct) violence? and paves the way for part 4+5. miyoshis awesome. hes not top 3 favorites tho. hes just an honorable mention i guess
as mentionned i love washizu also hes my grandpa and i love him. also i love akagi hes my one singular favorite fkmt character its not even close no elaboration needed. i enjoy & love & think about all the akagi characters, banger after banger, urabe u are so funny, and so on. one year ill remember to celebrate yukio day properly. lets move on
SAHARA i love sahara an abnormal amount ive just made up so much shit about him that is real to me n then i read part 1 again n i dont notice that theres very little supporting my vision. but im RIGHT. he begged to be in the death game. he BEGGED to be in the DEATH GAME over being a WORKER. this dude rocks. i know in my heart that he loves gorey movies and he laughs when the characters die & his favorite movie is funny games but he disagrees w everyones analysis of it he just thinks its a fun movie? its a fun time? i also love endou & have similarly made shit up about him to meeeee he got broken up w between part 1 and 2 and htis explains literally everything about him. the way he yells at kaiji in the bathroom is just him projecting his frustration & anger he had with his ex. its NOT about kaiji. it simply makes sense.
uhm this is already too long but i didnt even get to ten. i love ten dearly. i also enjoy mamiya greatly as a character shes funny & a very interesting protagonist for a psychological, hot mahjong action work. her kinda character would be more usually seen in comedy slice of lifey mahjong (like penchan!) so its interesting. its fun. its new
in conclusion i like the characters that are good and dislike the ones who are suck
#honestly hyoudou doesnt really deserve to be on the same level as guy from rude 39 but he was my first disliked character#and now i dont dislike him as bad since ive seen worse fkmt characters. but he WAS my first thought n it wouldve felt weird not to include#thanks for the ask also.. i try to keep it short but i like elaborating on my thoughts... n theres a LOT of fkmt manga to be fair#ask#anon#fkmt
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Hey I liked a lot your I hear the sunspot Maya post! I don't understand why there's so many people who have an issue with her as Kouhei's friend. She's doing what she thinks is best and you explained it so well 💖
Hi! <3
I am very glad you liked the post. Personally, I don't understand why Maya is such a divisive character and I just wanted give my perspective for why I, personally, do not think she is the devil incarnate. I always try to explain my point of view, especially if I know there is a large portion of the fandom that disagrees.
I know that there are people that vehemently hate Maya. I also know that there are people that vehemently defend her (I am one of them), but the way the fandom has been treating each other over this character has made me hesitant to post anything. So I am very happy to see that there are other people that don't hate Maya that have seen my post. There are also other people that have explained why Maya is such a good character just as well, if not better than I have.
#thanks for the ask!#i hear the sunspot#to be clear when i say the way the fandom has been treating each other i mean on both sides#i have seen rude people on both sides and i am not okay with that#i like this character a lot. i have asked people who don't like her to examine why#just like people who don't like her have asked people who do to examine why#this is as much as i will say on this subject#i have very specific reasons for defending maya and one of them is because i know there are people like me out there#who felt so sad at all of the hate this character was getting#i just wanted to let everyone know that they are not alone and that there is a community here#anyway i'm getting off topic#thank you so much it brings me such joy that you and others like you have found my post
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malky i struggle so much playing in stars and time i love time loops but something about how they are presented made me convinced that engaging with any of the time saving measures would be really rude and everyone would be mad at me so every time i time loop to the town i have to sit through the entire battle system tutorial so nobody gets mad at me help
Ix my advice to you is you have to accept that this is the time prison experience. Immerse yourself in the narrative of time prison, the speedrun mentality, the wear and tear of repeating dialogue. Also they literally don’t get mad and don’t care.
#ixcaliber#ask#in stars and time#malky plays games#also you can use the banana peel in town to skip ahead#I also felt bad about being rude but like siffrun in general also does not want to be rude#all of their time saving actions are typically…gentle?#they’re given for a reason too the developers gave them to you for a reason#but yeah I totally understand the feeling. eventually I got strategic about when to use certain measures#and also engaging in the narrative will give you extra narrative stuff#my desire for Seeing All The Things won over me feeling bad in the end#the issue is that loop is too mean and mischaracterizes everything#so the thing they said also convinced me that it would be rude but it’s literally fine
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