#irl and online

[i-didnt-do-1t]

Be kind, please

[gojoest]

i always know when someone doesn’t like me even if they’re being nice to me out of courtesy

[starkidsimping]

i feel out of place irl cuz of a constant disconnect from people and i feel out of place online even with people who are supposed to be "like me" because even online i dont understand social cues 😭

its a stupid stupid game >:( it does not work :(

[scrambleseggy]

I think there’s something also sadly ironic about the fact people say trans men hold up the patriarchy or are often toxic when very often those behaviors are literally encouraged as “checklists to be considered a man” —

People target young trans men often in their binder stages as “transtrenders” and mock them relentlessly on the internet for being “too soft” … So which is it? Do you want trans men to be toxic manly men or do you want them to simply just be trans men? Because it seems to me even the LGBTQ+ community encourages toxic masculinity to be considered a “real man” and not an “attack helicopter.”

I just want people to digest this.

Because you can make fun of “you’re valid 🩷🩵🤍” all you want, but this is often the only place someone young could identify as trans without having to be bullied for their love of those around them who may not fit in. Some of ya’ll wanna say trans men are toxic but don’t even realize that’s exactly what you expect them to be, because otherwise, they’re “fakers” right? They’re trying to “ruin the community” right? Literally using the same tactics our parents did on us and those we even know and date through our lives…

Like c’mon ya’ll. Give me a break. You cannot tell me that the mean-spirited nature of the internet has not perpetuated these harmful stereotypes against a very specific group of young trans people for often very obvious reasons no ones willing to admit.

If you want trans men to have healthier relationships with themselves and others, maybe start breaking down why all your expectations of them fall under the very things you use to act like they don’t belong in the community.

[cxrsed-angel]

love having no friends and coming on here and seeing everyone have friends such a fun experience

[trobedistic]

made a friend on trobed tiktok recently and we've been dming each other and psychoanalyzing trobed and sending each other sneak pics of our trobed fics. life is good

[x7mafiadetective7x]

u guys have no idea how pathetic i am oh my god

[kafka-ohdear]

a shame tumblr blogs couldn't be proactively deactivated for a certain length of time

[bitchyblkqueer]

working in media is crazy because i’ll casually meet someone that i or my mutuals or friends have (deservedly) roasted within an inch of their life…..

[lewmagoo]

one thing about me is, i will call everyone babe or baby

[cupoficewater]

when someone had conservative parents and only diverged from them because they thought they were uncool but maintained all of their stupid right wing beliefs....hate 2 see it

[somewhat-very-insane]

i'm literally so good at Friendship woah

[lillyspam]

I keep ruining everything-

[lovestarr5]

i haven’t used desktop tumblr in eons and just found out that i had asks open i sincerely apologize to the people who tried to communicate with me and i just didn’t respond XD

[lilylovelle]

I GOT THE TEETH CLACKER THINGY

[kiwi]

everybodys gotta get back into the practice of using pseudonyms online... i remember the time of screen names where u never ever told anyone ur real name and that was just understood as basic internet safety. plus having a screen name is fun because sometimes it sticks so well that it becomes part of ur identity that u can use in whatever facet of ur life you choose. it rocks to pick your own name