#intersys

[syscest]

Species-affirming cybersex. That is all

that's NOT all because I'm gonna break down these concepts and how they work.

species first. reffing chapter 2 of plural respect, system members have self-perceptions that can differ from the body and don't have to resemble things that exist in the outside world - and a shared understanding of this can help you connect. Nonhuman types often shorthand this as "species" to indicate something left field of human - but it practically encompasses impossible-human stuff like "human with a curse" or "human that's a wizard" and inorganics like "sentient computer virus" or "reanimated skeleton" for most use cases - anything physically impossible enough. if you're into shapeshifter language, you might prefer "form" - same difference.

with that in mind let's talk cybering. Cybersex in most of its forms is collaborative fantasy. You're taking "thinking about a hot thing" and extending it to include someone else over the internet somehow. Though valid barebones sexting can be purely something like discussing physically occurring masturbation, it usually involves constructing a scene of some kind and (though its rarely admitted) you're basically collaboratively writing smut fanfiction about you and your hookup.

I think breaking the "this is weird" glass is critical to engage with this properly and prevent mystifying it. yes you are writing self insert oc fiction with a friend over the internet, yes you're gonna be horny about it. and yes omg you DO get to choose the tense case and perspective you prefer to write in this is huge and nobody says it.

Furry ERP communities (owing to a common layer of seperation between the selves) often use third person language, refer to sonas by name, and put dialogue in quotes: <confused, she pokes her friend's arm, "Hello?" she whispers, "Anyone home?"> etc etc, providing a clear seperation between OOC and not. You might find this stiff or impersonal or booky - and there's a tonne of variation you can apply to see if it fixes that:

per-sender first+second person pronouns:

qualify actions instead of dialogue: <[she pokes her friend's arm] hello? is anyone home?]> (notably removes the hard OOC separation, which can enable chitchat)

both: <[I poke your arm] hello? is anyone home?>

+ avoiding self-references where possible: <*pokes your arm* hello? is anyone home?>

So sexting gives you a canvas, and because it's collaborative smut writing, it really doesn't require you to adhere to what regular humans do and look and feel like. You can write directly about your metaphysical forms interacting because you're literally out here playing pretend for fun.

It definitely works for some people and doesn't for others, but don't get caught in "what do I write". you can't focus on cybersex being *good*, focus on silly little whims and suggesting whatever comes to your head - start by finishing the sentence "if I had you in a room right now, I'd __". Its a silly little playpen for exploring eachother's sexuality and relationship to themself, just be nice to eachother and run with it.

And, yknow, affirming? well, as long as you communicate well, take the standard safety measures you would for any kink scene, and understand consent applies just as much when you're acting out text - then you can do/pretend/play/perform all kinds of stuff via text cybersex you can't do in-person. It's a great way to connect with these parts of yourself and resulting tendencies, and acquire stupid fantastical kinks about it. All new weird ways to be found (find yourself?) attractive.

Ok. well. unrelated tangent. you CAN do it in person. invoking weird nonhuman or otherwise metaphysical junk in bed is not strictly typing only - for one you can literally bring your phone TO bed and do mixed-media sex where you get to sext *and* get handsy, but that's not even the point. Sexting might make you a sex-fanfic-author but don't forget you can be a sex-wrestler/sex-theatre-performer too - talk to your hookup about the impossible things you'd like to do, and then do things that physically resemble them and you can both enjoy filling in the blanks. Your brain WILL help, if you're thinking about picking someone up with your tentacles and you use your body's arms, you'll naturally want to move them in a different kind of way, and you'll both pick up on it. The more you engage, the more it comes through in how you move, the more your friend gets to pick up on. Hell, you can even check verbally if you're understanding things right - "is that your arm" etc etc. It's a more complicated, subtextual language, but it can be a LOT of fun.

Anyway, species-affirming cybersex :)

[incyst-indeed]

Hey none of us wanna get up and go piss girl. Yes even her. YES Even the Gods can't be arsed. So erm. Can I just piss in you instead sis?

[floortile34]

Oh, yeah; i should say this publicly: I'm pregnant, so there'll be a new member to this system pretty soon :)

Mildly funny is that despite not being born yet, they'll be older than Monika; their little sister who asked for them to be made.

[syscest]

so real. like. as much as it can feel daunting and difficult having intimate relationships while plural. it's so nice getting close to another system and having a whole web of different shapes of relationships between your two systems. kinda makes it all feel worth it.

being plural and dating other plural fags is great! u get like a whole love dodecahedron just from two weird bodies getting together

[handsoffthefuckinshield]

he's still a little ball of nerves but he's got his Arizona iced tea and the fresh air is definitely good

[insanetwocubes]

"Say it! Say it out loud!"

"A vampire"

"You think he might be a vampire?"

~Four

Wait, he's a vampire?

Flare! No!

Oh.

Does he fucking look like a vampire to you?

I don't know???

~Flare

Wait. I just realized. I think this whole run IS the system map lmfao.

What, he has introjects of all his friends now?

You just heard Gena say her /job/ was done.

Honey, I love you, but I'm literally barely paying attention lol

Whatever.

~Four

[fribbitz]

I like the Doc Scratch alter you made. Keep up the good work nipbits. B^y

idk what "nipbits" is all about,, but thank youuuuu :3 !!! I'm still developing intersys relationships for them (seriously imagine sharing a body with bro strider and rainbowdash wtf) but keep getting distracted by my 89 other projects :P

bc I love Him here's another doc scratch doodle for you:

[interstellar-cluster]

Intro!!

Hi! We���re the Interstellar Cluster, or Intersys for short. We’re a plural, openly trauma-endogenic system of 100+ headmates.

We have almost equal numbers of fictives and brain-made headmates, and we are very much masc-heavy and a lot of us use neopronouns.

Here’s our Discord server link:

Host + frequent fronters, DNI, BYI, userboxes and links/socials below the cut.

Host:

Oscar ; he/they [ xe ] ; 🕸️🎧 sign-off

Frequent Fronters:

Cibris ; he/him ; 🌔⭐️ sign-off

Idaho ; she/it/sun ; 🔆🎨 sign-off

Simon ; he/him ; 💀🔪 sign-off

Logan ; he/him ; 🐺🗡️ sign-off

Miguel ; he/him ; 🕷️🕸️ sign-off

Jimmy ; he/him ; (no sign off yet)

Curly ; he/him ; (no sign off yet)

DNI:

- Racists, ableists, sexists, radfems, bigots

- Homophobes, transphobes, xenophobes

- Transmeds, terf, exclusionists

- Anti-endos, sysmeds, people who take part in syscourse

- Posters/participators in cringe culture (like the FakeDisorderCringe subreddit or the SystemsCringe subreddit)

- P*dophiles, sexualises minors

- Anti-semitics

- Anti-furries, anti-therians, anti-alterhumans

- Fakeclaimers, anti-informed self-dx, disorder gatekeepers

- Religious extremists, pro-life (anti-abortion)

- Also DNI if you support these things as well

BYI:

- (Changing this from what it used to be) We’re toxic! We love arguing, we love being right. We will answer every sysmed/anti endo in our asks and we will CLOCK your ass. Come at us.

- Some of us require tonetags, when posting the poster will add after their sign-off if they’d like for you to use tonetags when talking to them

- We are pro all types of systems. This is a totally safe space for anyone. Traumagenic systems, endogenic systems, soulbond systems, tulpa systems, etc etc. We don’t discriminate!

pronouns.cc // simply plural : InterstellarCluster // tiktok : intersys_ syscource + plural code // therian blog

[tba-posts]

PRO - ENDO SYSTEM SERVER !!

Hey!

We've had a pro-endo systems only server for a while.

It's space-themed and 15+

We have a friendly community!

[tba-bah]

PRO - ENDO SYSTEM SERVER !!

Hey!

We've had a pro-endo systems only server for a while.

It's space-themed and 15+

We have a friendly community!

[tba-coins]

PRO - ENDO SYSTEM SERVER !!

Hey!

We've had a pro-endo systems only server for a while.

It's space-themed and 15+

We have a friendly community!

[syscest]

forcefemming a plural system but you have to do each headmate one by one so it takes a reeaally long time. like you *just* got them all dolled up and you look away for FIVE SECONDS and they switch and now you've got some good for nothing boy in front and he's already taken off the maid dress.

[incyst-indeed]

Sexual preferences? Simple.

Abused housewife but its also your daughter

[wullfric]

Oh yeah

There was this dude yesterdayer (monday) that roped me into an impromptu interview regarding his job at the soda megacorp from here

It was more of a quiz than an intervie, but he had to record the conversation and we yad to repeat it like four times because he did don actually want my answers he just picked me up to rig the results in favour of the brand he was working with

But ye did not tell me what I had to fo beforehand so I just had to guess what answers ye wanted (sometimes he made signals to inform me) and like thats dine if I can helo you push tour silly soder projest that is fine even uf you kinda tricked me into it, but the problem was that I ahd lideraly no.idea what a fucking CBD was, and there where yis questions that requires me to actually for.ulate an answer and not just choose from pre.ade options and I had no fucking clue what a mother fucking CBT wasso I just bullshited mu way to thise (I did learn that they are like olant based or do.ethimdb,

And at the end like a fill on hout had passed and I still had not been able yo get my chinese foof from the chinese food restaurant that I always eat at and from which I order the exact smesthing sll the time so I gave him a fake name anf phone number after the question where over

I do feel kinda baf fo him because the quiz had like limited cupons based on what was tour economics situation and like all of them where solf out (we also lied about my economic clds) and in ytje final version of the intersie I still fucked up a bit in sime parts so I am worried the whole thing ess useless for him and he just wasyed his time and lodt his job at the soder factory or CBSometh.jd idk

I fid lesrn thst companies deem to crar alot about thingj sthat I literally have neebe paid attention to this na products (but maybe it is like subconscious bullshit ot whatever) (i ma too cool for.fall that tjough)

[r8kirani]

intersys communication is such a pain when youre sensitive to headachez

[reimeichan]

with the things that people consider plural-specific, like introjects and intersys dating, would you still describe yourself with those concepts? would you still call yourself an introject or consider your alters to be dating each other, for ex?

Absolutely, yeah. I still see myself-as-Green as being an introject of Allen Walker from D.Gray-Man, as an example. I have parts of me that are introjected from my parents and teachers and friends and acquaintances and anyone else who may have made a mark in my life somehow. I still think of the different parts as being in relationships with each other. I was actually having a moment today where the Green and Purple parts of me felt really happy to have each other and reflecting on how their relationship as the cringiest gayest boyfriend-girlfriend couple in the system have helped each other throughout our life. In a way, I kind of consider being fused with the other parts of me as the ultimate expression of love, in a romantic or platonic or whatever other sense. (And yes, that means if given the chance, I absolutely would want to schlorp up the people closest to me into my being. <3)

So, yeah, I still use those terms to describe myself. Though I use those terms less as a way to describe myself as a whole and more to talk about the specific parts of me. For example, I-as-Reimei am not an "introject", but I have a lot of aspects of myself that have been introjected from the people and media around me. I-as-Reimei am not necessarily dating myself... I mean, I do think of myself as dating myself, but not in a plural way. Does that make sense?