#intermasc of color

[madintersexmermaid]

As an intersex femme and interfemmasc of color (Afro-Indigenous/Asian/Indigenesian/Afro-Latina, etc.) who's slightly plus sized and curvy with hips, thighs and a badonkadonk, I've been challenging myself on my internalized fatphobia, colorism and featurism and how it's impacted my journey with femininity and especially embracing the side of me that's a feminine man/masc, mainly because I'm always used to seeing very thin, dainty and eurocentric representation of queer feminine men/mascs and I'm trying to unlearn all of the rigidly eurocentric, eurowestern, colorist, racist and fatphobic bullcrap that's being pushed and instead create my own diverse gaze and romanticize that instead.

[broken-dollhouse]

Inter-

[pt inter dash /end pt] Back with some simple intersex flags I wanted to make , I originally made interfemmasc / interandro for myself but I ended up making more to share with others , each has 2 versions since I couldn't decide which I liked more. These were just for fun and not to be taken too serious :) I had grabbed color ideas from the mingender , fingender , ningender and lingender flags along with my own intersex flag and this one by d-vewing plus this one by caeliangel . I did aim to keep much of the purple / yellow motif but I did struggle some with the integration and I will likely redo these at one point in time I'll have the flags under the cut like I usually do this time , which I apologize for! [I will also apologize about the lack of IDs , I'm learning and unsure how to id these ones/gen] I will also warn for maybe bright colors on some just in case. As it should go without saying , these flags are intersex exclusive , transintersex folks these are not for you.

Interfem

Feeling as tho your gender is inherently feminine or FIN [feminine in nature] due to being intersex , this gender is not inherently female in nature.

Interfemmasc / Interandro

Feeling as tho your gender is inherently androgynous or LIN [androgynous in nature] due to being intersex , this gender is not inherently androgyne in nature.

Intermasc

Feeling as tho your gender is inherently masculine or MIN [masculine in nature] due to being intersex , this gender is not inherently female in nature.

Interneu

Feeling as tho your gender is inherently neutral or NIN [neutral in nature] due to being intersex , this gender is not inherently non binary / agender in nature.

@radiomogai @intersexflags archive pings just in case [sorry lol]

[madintersexmermaid]

Fae (slang and subculture coining proposal)

Good afternoon, my loves! This idea had been sitting on my brain for a while, and I want to share it with you guys.

In summary, since the word "dolls" is slang term belonging to trans women/transfemmes, I figured that there should be some special affectionate slang term that we intersex women/interfemmes should use for ourselves and each other: "faes".

What does the slang fae mean?

A fae is slang for a beautiful, mystical, ethereal and stunning intersex woman/interfemme. This is meant for intersex women and interfemmes to claim as a way to build confidence and empowerment in acknowledging and embracing our beauty, especially the beauty in intersex womanhood and intersex femininity and intersex queer womanhood and femininity, in a harsh, cruel and nasty world and society that frequently tries to erase, mock, dismiss, laugh at, disrespect and dehumanize us yet also simultaneously and hypocritically objectifying, fetishizing and hyper-sexualizing us.

Since "fae" is short for "fairy", this not only is in reference to fae/fairy mythology from fairy tale folklore but also thus overlaps with intersex women and interfemmes reclaiming the trope and idea of being seen as alluring, fascinating, magical, desirable and intriguing but only reclaiming it for ourselves to take back our agency and autonomy, and not for the sake of appeasing or getting approval from interphobes, intersexists and intermisogynists that erase and dehumanize us while also simultaneously objectifying and fetishizing us (ew!). This also parallels some queer folks reclaiming the word fairy. (refererence: @satyrradio's Alluring Intersex flag, for intersex folks who reclaim the Intersex Allure trope)

This slang and subculture will especially aim to empower and uplift black and brown intersex women and interfemmes of color, intersex women and interfemmes who use nonbinary and gender non-conforming (GNC) gender identities and labels, and autistic, neurodivergent and disabled intersex women and interfemmes (especially as I'm a black/brown mixed race and autistic neurodivergent intersex woman and interfemme who uses gender non-conforming (GNC) and nonbinary gender identities and labels).

Also, I hope there'll be a flag coining for this soon, especially by somebody like either @satyrradio or @brokendollhouse22-blog (whom I hope will see and read this! Please let's make it happen! 💖💖🤞🏽🤞🏽).

Note: Intersex men and intermascs, especially autistic, neurodivergent and disabled intersex men and intermascs and black and brown intersex men and intermascs of color are absolutely welcome to claim the slang fae, as intersex men and intermascs, especially those of color and who are gender non-conforming (GNC) by gender identity and expression are just as likely to face intersexism, interphobia, intermisandry and intermisandrinoir just as much as intersex women and interfemmes face intersexism, interphobia, intermisogyny and intermisogynoir.