#inmyopinion

[overthelamppost]

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Often times, withholding your whole opinion from a friend or child to not hurt their feelings is kind; just as being amicable to people you don't know or care for is respectful. These are different than being intentionally misleading, like feigning greater feelings than you really have for a potential significant other, as well as being untruthful, like outwardly boasting about someone's talents or looks when you really feel they are lacking in that department. Perhaps some people prefer to be misled and always want to be told what they want to hear. Myself, I prefer genuineness. This isn't to say I want others to be cruel to me or brutally honest about their every thought about me at all times (please don't!), but there's always the option of saying nothing at all. Just be authentic. If someone doesn't ask for your honest opinion, you have no reason to fib about how you feel — unless you are trying to get on their good side or wanting something from them, which we all can recognize is also dishonest and insincere, taking us right back to where we started! Remember, you can be real and still show kindness and respect to friends, acquaintances, and even strangers. Being "real" and honest does not equate to being rude and hurtful. Thus, being passive and not vocalizing your every single opinion about every single topic does not label you as dishonest or fake. However, aggressively handing out faux opinions and mistruths just might, especially if it's excessive and/or given for personal gain! I think it's important to just always aim at being genuine — while still considering the beneficiary of your intentions. The world has enough fake and coercive people already; please don't become another!

[socialiseisnotinmyname]

Long hair Felix is my passion

[spourtneys]

he’s so bewtiful and cuters here I love his ugly shirt.

[n01r-kn1ght]

It’s finally finished-

Anyway, sans x anomaly y/n but their an alien instead

It actually turned out pretty good inmyopinion and it’s interesting to see how different the drawings look between the time I took

Anyway, this was heavily inspired by I Really Want to Stay at Your House from Cyberpunk Edgerunners

As well as @htsan ‘s human sans

Also background on its own cause I’m really proud of it

[oxfords---notbrogues]

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[angeldoll04]

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[grumblrs-confessional-booth]

myfriendkeeps beratingmefor comingtohis hospitalforchewing onrocksbut inmyopinion theyaretoo yummytoresist

[lonniemachin]

if jpv ever gets a love interest they should be a civilian #INMYOPINION

[lastparty]

it's rfk debuting in 2018 and releasing her fifth book later this year it's chloe gong debuting in 2020 and releasing her fourth and fifth(…?) book this year it's ann liang debuting last year releasing her second recently and then announcing a contract for a fourth and fifth book the other day. idk!! good on them truly truly. but this feels bad for everyone involved and this rate of production is being too normalised #inmyopinion. especially in ya!! ya should have standards too. and especially when its standalone novels or even an entire new series thats a whole new world!! i just think well society if writing actually made you money and inversely society if no capitalism and so on

[worldbymaggie]

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[lizbookwu3n]

texans are a scary team, cj stroud is such a baller

might be the only team that could knock us off in the playoffs #inmyopinion

[yuridoujin12345]

also it’s super unfortunate but i REALLY dislike kugimiya rie as kiana. her and theresa’s jp voices are just really not good In My Opinion like they’re really bad portrayals of kiana and theresa In My Opinion and there’s no nuance or depth in their performance InMyOpinion.

it sucks because i KNOW kugimiya rie is great she's even brilliant when she works on anime and i think it comes down to how she's directed to use her voice when dubbing a character. like there are moments when she voices kiana/hov where she does an INCREDIBLY good job, where i go "yes that's kiana! that's the character i know!!" but a lot of the time when i compare it to the cn voice it just doesn't come close.

i will say though final lesson animation in jp dub hits really fucking hard it's so good.

[acklesangel97]

There’s a part 2 guys!!! More facts!!!!

FACTS!!!

[fannymazza]

C'è differenza tra opinione e crimine. Prova a cercare sul vocabolario magari aiuta #ilrazzismononèunopinione #lomofobianonèunopinione #ilbullismononèunopinione #noallediscriminazioni #discriminarenonèunopinione #lediversitàarricchiscono #norazzismo #inmyopinion (presso Finale Ligure) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQxfzacMRMA/?utm_medium=tumblr

[imrllyheccingtrying]

I agree with the general sentiment behind the whole 'treat someone who is having a bad mental health day like they have the flu', but a reminder that unlike a physical illness, a mentally ill person more often than not benefits from engaging in activities, even if they find them more physically draining than usual. That's not to say you shouldn't be patient, respectful and attentive to their boundaries and limitations whilst ill, but- for me personally- it helps a LOT if someone says something like, 'let's go to the shops together' or 'let's go and take a short walk in the park'.

If you give people who are suffering mentally small, manageable goals (obviously for each person it will be different), and offer to do them together, you're offering time to socialise, a feeling of fulfillment, and encouraging them to engage with the world around them. This, in my opinion, is often more beneficial than just wrapping them up in a blanket and bringing them food. Not to say that a few days like that here and there are not okay, they can be refreshing if you're tired, but especially if they're having a longer episode, getting up and or out can actually help them recover faster. At the end of the day though, it is about communication. Do your best to help, but don't beat yourself up if you aren't an expert therapist, most people aren't!! Try asking the person if you really want to help but don't know how ❤