#in all im chill atm. exhausted though

[bingobongobonko]

guy who needs to get medicated badly after having a particularly bad episode a day ago but also looked at a funny dog picture and got my ID back in the mail and also just finished a comm -> things are looking up for me!

[jo3mm]

Animefest @ Dallas day1 (andahalfish w/ @saucytango)

[beizhuo]

i had announced a couple of updates on the blog that I am chilling at atm , but i will make a post here as well . 

first and foremost : IN LIEU OF ASEXUAL AWARENESS WEEK - i updated my rules . i normally go through and update my rules as needed from time to time because sometimes we need that refresher , but yea . granted , i always find myself rereading people’s rules anyway because that is just common curtesy . but i do know that my rules are a bit long so i will put the new rules under the read more .

secondly : im phasing out of the name amphy . though i will always respond to the name , and if you are using the name , you can continue to do so . but i normally fall back on the second name i go by . i don’t particularly cringe at any name or nickname you give me . ghost is just definitely more fitting for me - as one of my close smite pals have said .

lastly :  this gender - questioning idiot is still ???? about their gender , but i think i may be a bit more genderfluid than anything . but it also depends on my mood & who you are . i normally prefer they ! so you can keep to they . especially if we are acquaintances or you dont really know me . but ! i have an addition , he / she is kinda only okay if you’ve asked and/or we have discussed or if its like a term that you would use on yourself . idk if that makes sense or not lol . but then again , gender doesn’t exist for me , so meh . i could be a racoon underneath a bedsheet with two eyeholes cut into it . 

anyway . the rules update and explanation is underneath .

im DEAD serious for these triggers , ESPECIALLY nsfw . i am not super fond of al/cohol*sm at all due to trauma ( im super jaded by it usually and wont care if you mention alcohol from time to time , but please do try not to discuss this thoroughly unless you can ask me beforehand ) . in all honesty , i am normally okay to discuss IF you ask beforehand . i just need a WARNING .

as for vagueing : this is something that drives me up the fucking wall . just don’t do it . i beg of you . this goes back to dealing with your issues and drama in private . it is a HUGE pet peeve of mine .

Reads as.... :

EXCLUSIVITY & FETISHISING. ⪢ I absolutely will not tolerate the excessive fetishising of queer people. Im sorry, but if I see you are being exclusive, erasing gender identity to canon muses, or just completely destroying/stripping the character to the point of unrecognition, I will not tolerate you on my dash and I don't want to write with you. This is really hard to explain and discuss, but... It's okay to have queer muses and to make canon characters queer, but don't make it to the point where it strips them of their identity. ⪢ If you are being so exclusive to a point where you refuse to acknowledge or write a cis character, then don't bother writing with me. I don't like cisswaps most of the time anyway. This also extends to people hating / ragging on male-female ships and bisexual characters. Like, deadass, do not pass go, do not collect 200. I don't want to interact with people like that. PERSONAL WARNING. ⪢ The mun is asexual and sex-replused, I will NOT understand most sexual innuendos. Please do NOT send NSFW unless I ask or you ask for permission. For the love of gods, yes, I am an adult, yes, I can engage in sexual plotting from time to time. But it is STILL a trigger for me. Please don't randomly send me stuff unless you know I am ready for it. Also, please don't treat me like some sort of baby or this innocent person for not understanding your jokes, it does, in fact, get really exhausting for me.

I cannot fucking believe that i have to actually add last and final warning too and its actually borderline disgusting ESPECIALLY DURING ASEXUAL FUCKING AWARENESS WEEK , but , alas , i am . but let me go in order .

the first one : i shouldn’t have to explain this . i will just refer you all to this post again .

the second one : idk why the fucking hell i have to like even bring this up either but like ???????? again , please refer to this fucking post again .

the third one : why this has to be brought up is honestly really sad , but once again i have to draw boundaries and fucking point and growl at it like im fucking toothless drawing something for hiccup and getting mad at him when he steps ON IT . and i have every right to be but like holy fuck . i dont care if you forget all of my other triggers but FOR THE LOVE OF FUCKING GOD please respect that i am a sex - repulsed asexaul . also . please don’t be like uwu or diminish how i feel if i don’t understand a sex joke and get concerned . this convo i had with a guild member explains this fairly well . 

anyway . please understand that if you send something sexual , you will , most likely , HAVE TO explain it to me . and don’t baby me or get upset about it either jesus christ . just because i don’t understand doesn’t mean it gives anybody the right to blow it off . 

yes i know this kills the joke . I understand that . which is why sometimes i wont ask , but please , PLEASE be patient with me . and don’t treat me like a child about it either .

[papasbabymommyslittleone]

Hi! How is everyone today?

I myself am admittedly exhausted. My workload was somewhat heavy this week, though thankfully on Tuesday we are meeting with Remy which should aid in balancing te work out. I have mostly spent the day alone in my room recuperating, though Vee joined me for a couple of hours after lunch. - ⭐️

yeah i've pretty much been chilling too. i kind of did some writing but idk it wasnt going great so i hung out with Lo for a bit to stop stressin about it and im just listening to music atm. kind of wanna see if dad isn't busy - 💜

I'm not busy at all! Once I finish writing this I'll go check on my little stormcloud! 🌧 Today has been pretty quiet since those two have been in their rooms and on Fridays Roman focusses on his art, but I know it's good for everyone to have their space!! Still I'm excited to spend time with them whenever they're all ready! My joints have been pretty achey today, I may have overdone it a bit with the gardening this week... - 🐶

I am quite perfect today, thank you for asking! My painting is coming along very nicely AND my hair is doing precisely what I want it to do. All in all a pretty fabulous day! - 👑

[midlifemagazine]

MIXLIFE 3: Nevrland

In the MIXLIFE series we will ask artists that we love to make a mixtape and we will ask them some questions about it. In this third MIXLIFE we are presenting Nevrland, the Belgian duo consisting of Munix and Ssaliva. This mix aired as a guest mix on our monthly radio show on Internet Public Radio.

MIDLIFE: hey boys

MUNIX: goedenavond

MIDLIFE: bonsoir : ))

SSALIVA: yio

MIDLIFE: how is everyone?

SSALIVA: good good. Police academy 6 on tv so cant complain. MUNIX: yupp good too, no school tmrw, life's ok.

MIDLIFE: haha sounds like you are both chilling....

MUNIX: always haha/i>

MIDLIFE: could u tell where u live?

SSALIVA: Verviers/Liège MUNIX: yupp same

MIDLIFE: ok ok. when did you meet? (classic questions :p) But really wanna know

MUNIX: in liège through our mutual friend Olmo, shouts to Olmo. SSALIVA : hehe no prob. yea through Olmo at a Folie Douce party. MUNIX : then we shared a stage at dour in 2014 with liyo & steff from heartbroken, and both projects (hbkn and nevrland) kind of started from there, and some house parties in liège woods. we started playing together at the house parties, mixed all night long on our computer and having the best fun so we just decided we had to keep doing it. SSALIVA : yea good times.

MIDLIFE: you tell it like its been twenty years ago though

MUNIX: well the parties were exhausting. SSALIVA: hahaha feels like it was ages ago actually… we need to do more house parties i think.

MIDLIFE: you have a good house to do that?

SSALIVA: we have friends who own a house in Liege valleys, we used to do lots of parties there. super isolated, so we used to rent a soundsystem MUNIX: yup very special place, but it's a huge mess everytime so you usually need to find a good occasion.

Would the valleys be a good show if it was recorded in Liege?

MUNIX: valleys? dont think i know the tv show, is it like the hills? oh no they look british. SSALIVA: actually dont know valleys. but basically u can do anything in Liege MUNIX: yeah considering their look I think it would work well in Serain. SSALIVA: lol MUNIX: yeah we have all of the white trash u need down there.

MIDLIFE: are you a bit white thrash yourself?

MUNIX: yeah white is thrash anyway, I guess SSALIVA: guess we are yea. doesnt get better either haha

MIDLIFE: you have a dream to get out of Liege and move to the hollywood hills or something like that? or do you really feel at home where you are?

MUNIX: I dont think any of us wanna get too tropical, were too used to our shit climate. SSALIVA: nah not at all, i just like it a bit country side. if anything i wanna go more towards green areas.

MIDLIFE: with wifi tho ? or at least electricity

MUNIX:Yeah a coutryhouse with just electricity to only make music and stop listening to all the other things happening / being all the time on the internet would be awesome SSALIVA: ideal nevrland move rn would be to rent a cabin for a week or smthg and work on new stuff. MUNIX: a flat in some nice place and god wi fi and a belgian country house would be perfect. SSALIVA: Haha, we re on the same page

MIDLIFE: thanks for the mix btw, really enjoyed.

SSALIVA:❤ MUNIX: Thanks to you! it's all love

MIDLIFE: Do you have a favorite song atm or/ do you have some tracks that have been on repeat the last couple of days?

MUNIX: usually everytime young thug releases something there's your answer hahah. SSALIVA: haha same MUNIX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uotrEWJaFbg SSALIVA: connection here is shit but i mostly listen to renaissance music these days .

MIDLIFE: Do you have other plans for the future?

MUNIX: yeah in the next months, just have a month left to think about school then life has taste again. SSALIVA: nothing too precise rn, releasing music in the next months basically. can't say much more than that. i mean work on new material is the main thing i guess. SSALIVA:police academy 6 s not so good btw. they should have stopped after the 4th one i reckon.

MIDLIFE: theres an actor named Pat Proft in police academy 6, i thought that was pretty funny.

SSALIVA: haha yea. MUNIX: he's american, wish he was from some country i never heard of where everyone has funny names like that.

MIDLIFE: with two presidential elections in recent times (usa and france) i wonder if you thought about who would be a good candidate for presidency in belgium?

MUNIX: woaaw, eden hazard maybe SSALIVA:haha oui MUNIX: or thibault courtois cuz we can always trust him.

MIDLIFE: im trying to find a way to say bye, because like to keep these kind of short, but was nice talking to you. shoutouts?

MUNIX: yeah was real nice! Shouts to Olmo, Heartbroken, Folie Douce, La Superette, Hermutt Lobby and Radar Radio SSALIVA: Olmo yeaa. 0comeups always MUNIX: oh yeah true i wanted to write it. shouts to him for being so outchea! SSALIVA: and Walter. MUNIX: yeah walter mitchy and everyone else we have love for. And if ur in liège friday come to lara gasparotto's exhibiton we'll be there playing music.

MIDLIFE: oh wait, last thing, please tell me where and how the pics were made !

MUNIX: the photos were taken on the 21st of july in verviers! national day. we found an old graveyard around the city while the fireworks were going. mormorty aka noémie merca took the pitcure. shouts to her! ayyy

MIDLIFE: okay thanksssss, good night!

MUNIX: goedenacht ❤ ❤ ❤ SSALIVA ❤

MIDLIFE: ❤/

MUNIX:❤ u too. And shouts to gavin! ❤ That was fun. SSALIVA: yea thanks g

Listen to Nevrland's MIXLIFE here:

Nevrland on Soundcloud

Photo1 by Noémie Merca and Photo2 by Ssaliva>