#imong mama

[paperdolles198peronakulong]

Her name is Leslie

[whelving-yagon]

sauna kaagbay ang habol sa pagka-inusara

sa pag gakos niini sa lawas

sa pag tago niini sa mga dili hingpit

sa pag bukot sa habol nagdala ug kahupayan sulod sa mga kaugalingong pagkasilag

dili pa malitok ang mga pagbati

hunghong sa kaugalingon nga pagsulti ang tanan

dili pa kini mo atubang sa samin

dili pa amgo ang kalibera nga nag-tago sa aparador

sa paglabay sa panahon

nakakat-on ang kaugalingon ug tangtang sa mga maskara

nakakat-on ug litok sa mga istorya

nakakat-on ug pagsabot

ug nilabi pa sa tanan naka-ila ug grasya

pero ang silot sa niining naka marka sa panit

dili mapapas

[lilacartsmadsion]

Where srt thou art thou where thou art

[paperdolles198art]

[sunneih]

If mean, why hot?

if evil then why so cute?

[rosiehrs]

wala pa kay uyab? 🤣

imong mama akong uyab, foe tang eena mo🖕

[exocc]

Imong mama

[itsmikharla]

Tapos na ang 2022

Before to summarize my entire year, i chika sa nako ang mga hopes nako last year Regarding sa EXO.. YES PO nag perform sila, na excite nako sa January 1 kay  naay free performance ANIMAL! Tapos wala pa nag military si Sehun ug Kai I think ga hulat pa sila mag 30 years old. SO NAAY CHANCE mag concert sila.. Hay nako please lang I’ll try my best na mag ipon. Pero HUHU I don’t know if maka apil ba ko or dili if naa.. na curious na pud ko sa comeback nila. Unsa nasad kahay theme.. PLS explain next year self. Nag hope sad ko na madayon among laag sa States YES PO! Natupad ang laag nato.. katung checklist nato last time natinuod sa Boston, Hampshire ug sa New York animal.. busog akong mata ato uie HAHAHA. Pero of course ga struggle ko sa akong cousins kay they don’t really entertain kaayo like na feel nako na asian racist mi. Sa business proposal DAGHAN CHANGES.. wala pako nahuman sa among performance report unya deadline na atung christmas HAHAHA Hoay mygosh maytag mahuman ra namo mi di masuko si Madam Melissa HAHAHHAHA Karon na year kay akong feeling kay DAGHAN kaayo pinag daanan. Nakalitan ko sa SPF kay nahimo officer UNEXPECTED.. until now wala pako ka start sa minutes HAY NAKO Lord... I need help huhu kay I’m not really good enough... give me strength gihapon Lord pareha sa una naay kalit2 na challenges pag apil sa SPF.

Nakarealize ko karon man diay na year nagpahulay si Lola Rose, abi nako last year huhuhu I feel like dugay na kaayo to... sakit kaayo sa akong part pud kay nakabonding nako ni Lola minsan ma highblood dyud ko pero na kaya ra.

Karon na year bitaw akong ma say kay isa ni sa pinaka stress so far sa akong college life or nakalitan lang siguro ko kay nag face to face na. Na gamay gud akong weight ror tas haggard na kaayo nawong. Usahay ma wala na akong gana mu lihok kay abusar naman ni uie. I think gi tun-an dyud ko mag time management.

THEN naa sad koy new crush bwahahaha pero na wala na kay naa nay uyab :/ wala man kaayo ko niasa gamay lang huehuehue I hope beh next year naa nakoy new crush sumo na kaayo si JM HAHAHAHAHA charz kay walay ka thrilling.. 

This year sad kay nagsugod akong sakit-sakit pag face to face na sa school murag kada month nalang mag ubo ko sipon tas hilanat PAK! SIge man sad ko laag pero yaasss gi sugtan ko mama muadto mga layo2 na gamay sa Iligan HAHAHAHA unta uie sugtan nasad ko sunod.. kabalo ko murag na less ilang trust sa ako pero GE LANG ISANG SUYO sugtan ko... Nag debut na diay akong manghud this year stress sad ko ato kay grabeh nako effort ato animal! OMZ Mugraduate naman diay ko next year no HUHUHUH! Hoayyy puhon! Pero ga hope gihapon ko maapil sa cumlaude.. di nako mag wish na mag magna kay sakit kaayo muasa unya dili diay HAHAHA! Pero I think maghilak ko kung dili.. Unta makaya among groupmates sa next sem sana makaya nako ang mga requirements and activities na lisod and sa SPF nako I try nako na makaya nako balance ang time sheet chairperson naman diay ko sa valentines pakulo.. goodluck nalang sa akin.. 

Hoayyy daghan man diay mahitabo next year huhuhuhuh Please lang self you should be proud na nakaya na nimo tanan, if wala gani na reach sa imong expectations... at least you tried.. I believe gi try na nimo ang best.. if mag start nako work after graduate.. Hardworking na dyud ka hahaha if dili.. ok ra pud kay deserve nimo mag rest.. SANA ALL ni graduate na..

That’s all folks! Tabian na kaayo I hope sad diay na ma ok ra pud ko sa church activities.. I’ll try my best na di nako ma attatch sa mga tao sa church mao rato hehe BYEBYE 2022!!! Pero so far.. this year is a rollercoaster.. DI kaayo ko ka ingon na best year so far kay naay good and bad memories.. Mixed emotions ko.. akong 2018 ug 2019 best year pero karon animal ambot lang sana all inana ka chill HAHAHAHA

[upin-ipin]

Kuya's POV

The participant is the interviewer’s older brother, Joel. He is 23 years old and just graduated from his Tesda Course in Hotel and Restaurant Technology. 

Joel is a paddler in the dragon boat team Amihan. They have competed in various places including Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Baise in China, Cagayan de Oro, Butuan, and Siargao. 

Being an athlete helped him maintain his physical fitness and gave him a sense of discipline when it comes to his physical health. He engages in physical exercises five times a week, goes to the gym, and attends their 3-day weekly training sessions. He also monitors his diet and weight as they are prohibited to exceed a certain weight, exceeding the required weight will exclude them from the competition, the reason for this, is to maintain balance on their boat for them to paddle smoothly. Being an athlete also helped him lessen his engagement in motorcycle activities to avoid injuries, when he was an adolescent, motocross was his thing, ever since he became an athlete he has been meticulous in engaging in other vigorous activities, having injuries and not being able to compete in dragon boat competitions is out of his list. 

Since Joel is a fresh graduate, I asked him how was his journey in school now that it has come to an end. Now that he’s a graduate, he’s feeling more of the pressure of being an adult. Since he is the first child and an older brother, the pressure is big and real. His decision-making improves and chooses other people’s needs before him as he doesn’t feel the need to pick himself first, he said. He reminisced the moments when he was just in high school, he said he was very impulsive at that time and just acted aggressively, now, he realizes the changes in his actions. I asked him what situations or scenarios made him become the person he is now, he answered: “daghan uy, kay ate bany nimo (his girlfriend), ila mama, sa akong mga amigo sad.” He said that having a girlfriend also helped him become mature and improve his emotional intelligence, and adulting really hit him hard including his friends as they were very “bugoy” in high school. He has to make decisions that will be best for all and not just for him. The issue we had with our father also helped him become a more responsible older brother, he now sees me and it made him feel that he really needs to fulfill his “kuya duties.” I see my older brother as a very laid-back person, nontransparent, and emotionally reserved. So, I asked him why do you always keep your emotions to yourself? Asking him this type of question was not easy, as we don’t usually talk with each other about these topics. He said, that expressing his emotions doesn’t make any difference, he doesn’t want to burden anyone with what’s burdening him, why would he trouble someone that is troubling him? That’s his mindset. And also because he’s a “man”, he said: “di man ko angayan mag ingana oy” he meant sharing his feelings and being emotional. Sometimes I just wanna punch this man in the face, he is the straightest (he’s not homophobic though) and the second stereotyping man I have known with my father being the first. I asked him, do you think you would be like this now if it wasn’t because of your experiences? He answered, “syempre dili, mag bag-o man jud ka, imong personality og pangutok habang ga tigulang labi na daghan nakag responsibilities.” he knows that he is learning from his experiences and from the people he met. 

I noticed that Joel can make friends easily, he knows how to start a conversation with a stranger and can talk to them for many hours. His main friends are his friends from high school and they have been friends for 7 years now. They may have encountered many challenges but they’re still in the best condition. His relationship with his girlfriend is also in the best condition, they face many challenges but they fix it together. He learned a lot with his relationship with his girlfriend, it teaches him to be patient and understanding. I have seen the worst attitude of this guy when we were kids, and I know how impatient he can be. However, seeing him now becoming more patient and understanding, I could say it started when his relationship with his long-term girlfriend strengthened and became more mature. So, special thanks to his girlfriend! Joel and I were like a dog and cat growing up, we couldn’t be seated next to each other or else we’d kill each other. We just recently relied on each other after our issue with our father. He became more protective and a responsible kuya. He is a menace and “sakit sa ulo” to our parents in his rebellious phase, however, that phase is already phased out. He takes care of our parents well and has a ‘healthy’ relationship with them. He’s in the stage where he doesn’t want to ask our parents about his needs and tries very hard to provide it on his own. 

I asked him all the insecurities he faced in becoming an adult, he said it was his height, his weight, his motivations, and his future. He is stuck on what career he will choose, our parents expected that his dragon boat career was just for recreational. However, Joel wants to pursue more of his dragon boat career. He considered it as his biggest challenge now, but I believe he will pursue the path that he is more passionate about. I also asked him what was the biggest achievement he had ever achieved so far. He said it was competing twice internationally for his team in the dragon boat, his coach always includes him in the line-up for every category they were competing, and this made him feel relevant and fulfilled. His coach’s affirmation of him gave him a sense of accomplishment. With all the hard training, hard work, and discipline he did, bear a sweet fruit. He proudly said: “wala man koy medal as a studyante, pero naa koy medals as an athlete.” it’s his prize possession. This man may be annoying sometimes but I am proud of him, I am proud of this Kuya.

[sturbewi]

errr this school is starting to get on my nerves. yung organization under my college or department is called voices tapos yung slogan nila is "let your voices be heard." but everytime someone raises their concerns or excuses like that they won't be able to attend sa certain school events due to emergencies and mishaps, the officers will pull out the line na, "we will not sign your clearance if wala imong attendance." like bruhhhh what about sa students nga layo kaayo? in my case, mejo layo among house and mahal kaayo ang pamasahe kada adlaw, dili mi everyday naay halin sa beach na gina caretake ni mama. i know the student officers gave all their efforts to make this event happen so expected na mag participate tanan students but please, do understand other students situation as well. naay uban layo ug balay tas ang uban kay working students pa. i just think it's so wrong na mang blackmail mo nga dili signan among clearance if di mi muapil, walay moy empathy considering na "let your voices be heard." inyong slogan.

[dyiinnn]

hapit nasad mag-end ang october

lalang random thought lang. sauna, inig padulong na mag-end ang month sa september, kinda ma-excite ko. idk. tas inig oct 9, kanang medj mahappy ko kay naay ice cream. haha tas one time, niana kong mama nga gusto kaayo kog ice cream. kahit tong gamay lang. pero wala siya nipalit. wala kapalit pero nakapatad siyag lotto. sad kaayo ko ato and kahilak gyod tawn ko. hahahaha tas pagmata kay astang hubaga tawn sa eyes. hahahhahaa (hugging my 8yr old self).

tho i know limited ra kaayo amoang resources sauna pa. pero huehua ing-ato kagamay nga butang sa akong bday malipay nakog maayo unta. huhuhu hahaha chares. bitaw pila ra baya tawn kalipay sa 8yrs old. hahahahaha

kadtong october 9, knarf gave me ice cream. huehua maka-happy sad. hihi dili lang pa gyod kas-a but katong nag 20 pod ko. huehua. thank you, babe. hehehe

tho now nga 21 na ko, wala nakoy labot gyod if naay mag-prepare or wala. tho mas prefer nako wala ra. pero kanang maka-dinner lang kog tarong. hahahahahhaah huhu. pero betaw. ang ilawm ani kay gusto ra bitaw gyod japon kog surprises. huehua maka-happy sad og naay mo-greet. hehe samot na imong fav ferson ang unang mo-greet onta. hahahhaauhhhuhu pero okay ra tho kay nakapoy rapod and all. (nabawi rapod sa ayshrem. haha chares)

pero bitaw. i guess lahi2 rapod tag expectations and ma-feel when it comes to bdays. hehe

i remember gwynette nga nagpaabot gyod tawn og alas dose sauna just to greet me. hahahhaa maka-happy gyod. close kaayo gyod ming gwyn and jhs pami, gatulog man jud gud to siyag sayo. haha tas katu. nagpaabot gyod guru to sha. hahahahhaha

pero betaw ey. okay ra tho. chambahan pa diay ang 21. naa nakoy "at least gamayng space" diris balay, naay nag offer resources, nag adto ang close sa akoang heart na people despite their busyhar scheds. . . hehe kana.

there's so much to be grateful for

[christlegynbdicen]

POV: Kanang gi kasab-an ka sa imong mama kay nabaali ang sudlay pag sudlay sa imong buhok 🥴

[chrizza]

Mosugot ra pud ta ko atog naa syay ihatag ba pero thank you'hon napud grabeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee maayo kaayo moinvest sa iyang uyab bantay bitawg di na siya makatabang panahons naay tabanganan lage or bantay bitawg di mo magkadayun kataw-an gyud ta mo. Asa kaha na imong kwarta ug 20k+ man kaha kag sweldo. Ako pa ra bay gabayads imong gigamit. Grabe napud ka uyyy sige rag ako. Gikapoy napud kog kuyog anang mga tao nga nagsalig ra nga permi akoy mobangka or mopagawas ug kwartaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Grabeeeeeeeeeeeeeee makaraaaaaawr. 1k ra gae na iyang ihatag ni mama niya

[meighanae]

Nangita kog make up set unya gi-ingnan ko sa akong mama og magpamata paka na dili nana makita ang make up sa imong mata?

Ako gyud siya gidiritsuan og "Ma, adlaw nako na. Please lang."

[rosiehrs]

POP QUIZ, WHAT ARE THE THREE STATES OF MATTER? (Bonus if you mention the fourth one)

ok im not actually that stupid buddy.... solid, liquid, gas.

imong mama fourth state of matter, - wa na sa akong syllabus BAHALA KA

[coldbrewplss]

Where are you living

sa imong mama hahahaha char