#im strESSED

[pixvoxx]

I desperately need someone to explain aromantism to me. The Google definition is not enough. I know what it is, obviously, but for some reason, it is SO difficult for me to understand. Whenever I read about aromantism, I feel like I'm only reading about aroace's, not aro's.

Whenever I think of aromatic, I can't help but think negative about it, because it involves sexual attraction. I'm a fool when it comes to sexual attraction because I don't feel it, so I don't know what it's like. And I also suffer from sexual trauma..but I don't know if that's a valid reason. Throughout my life, I've seen sexual attraction as kind of a messy thing.

By thinking negatively about aromantism, I mean: Do aromatics only care about sex in a relationship(if they happen to be in one)? Or: Do aromantics just want sex, and no fully committed relationships? Those questions has been on my mind ever since I found out about aromantism.

And I know aromantism is a spectrum, the whole Aroace community is. But I'm talking about the iconic, original aromantic flag we all know and love.

I'm asking because I feel terrible for feeling like this about people of my own community, and I feel like I'm dehumanizing aro's because I can't understand how their sexual attraction works.

Don't worry, I will NEVER hate or be aro-phobic to anyone for the way they feel a certain attraction, best believe that.

If ANYONE, could answer my questions, I'll make you a nice dinner.

(please, it's stressing me out— I cry when I'm stressed out—)

[roach-works]

how to write a query letter for the novel i finished:

-open document

-write 'hello'

-read a bunch of How To Write Query Letter articles

-open document

-delete 'hello'

-lie down in bed

-cry

[vezimira]

[tumbleweeddesktop]

Wriolette: "duty first"

Furina : "istg you both got married 2 years ago, here's a honeymoon ticket, get fucking"

[curaheehee]

I've been trying to find tweets for 'bofb as tweets' for an HOUR....AN HOUR and nothing....NOTHING HELLO???? THIS ISNT OKAY?????

[mistressemmedi]

Verstappen behind Hamilton 😭

[screechingfromthevoid]

y'all didn't tell me about spin the bottle. How am I supposed go on like this.

[dew1s]

Anyone else worried that ep 8 of my adventures with superman is called 'The Death of Clark Kent' because I definitely am.

[demiromanticmickey]

After every episode of Only Friends I feel like I need a cigarette and I don't even smoke.

[starrspice]

I realized it's been a bit since I've properly posted content on here so Here's some Sun and Moon Smooches for you

I'm so very burnt out lately and I'm honestly just counting down the days until fall break

Hopefully then i can get some writing done

[sareevibes]

Mood for today

[iambrownandbrownie]

Ming dressed to set fire in the entire house. He's not going down alone. Lol. Our lil red flag bad bitch. Go get it.

[red-enby]

WHAT THE FUCK WAS THIS SHIT AT THE END???

[subbanator]

[jeanmoreausautismstickers]

had someone reblog a photo of Neil and Andrew and call it jegulus and I feel like I've failed both my andreil and bartylus followers with that one

[luqxvii]

—"REJOICE BOYS!"