#im kinda worked up rn thinking about how sex is always touted as the peak of intimacy | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

threecheersmaka · 1 year

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Sex is fr so uninteresting to me it’s always felt as if sex is this hyped up restaurant that everyone tells me is the best joint in the entire city and then I go there and have the food and it’s just. Mid.

#im kinda worked up rn thinking about how sex is always touted as the peak of intimacy #yes it is *physically* intimate but it's literally not an emotionally intimate act unless you make it that way #most times ive had sex ive zoned the fuck out #like i just get fucking bored #but theres so many other things that feel more emotionally intimate to me than sex #literally playing with someones hair or napping together or letting someone see an unpolished piece of art youve made #this isnt to diss on anyone who does enjoy sex #like if you enjoy it thats cool! but i've never really found it to be this earth shattering act #and i don't like how its treated as something that should be universally intimate and important #it can be physically pleasurable to me but its just kinda like. really. is this it. this is what yall say peak intimacy is #anyways i think im asexual #my one and only stipulation at the moment is my big ass crush on someone rn #if i end up fucking him and my perspective on sex still doesnt change then i really might be asexual #14 year old me had more points than i initially thought #shut up maka

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