#ignore me y'all

[cinamun]

Live footage of me in your replies every time you post your sims whimming wickedly

[dreadsuitsamus]

there's just something so enticing to me about the idea of fucking a friend's dad. it's so wrong, so bad and awful and will only lead to bad things... but that thrill is addicting. just how long can it go on before your friend finds out? is their dad married? do you continue fucking even after your relationship is found out? god it's so fucking hot

[maranull]

reverse yearning where I'm instead glad for the person I would be with for not having to deal with me when I'm tired or sick or mad

[fazer-geishakuulat]

Idk why I need to complain but every single time I open any dating app (also as now I've been to a gay bar couple of times) I feel my worth drop instantaneously. My body will begin to disgust me, my looks, my preferences etc. I never have had a experience where I don't hatred for even using the apps. I've had multiple conversations with a friend who toxic they are and they're not good for my mental health, but if I want to have a chance at some human connection I need to be on them. The bar is way too crowded and sensory overload for me that I cannot even be there and feel left outside.

So what's my plan? Complain. Make a fool out of myself every time I open an app or going to bar where I sit in a corner drinking lemon water.

[gods-no-longer-tread-here]

so Wammawink's trauma makes her want to protect everyone and treat them like babies because she never got that

and Horse's trauma has not been interrupted by any measure of true peace, nor has she or Rider ever had magic to keep each other safe

so while Wammawink is freaking out in episode two, Horse is genuinely so Lost in the Sauce that is the familiar adrenaline of "everything can and will kill you", that she seems to just revert to "I don't know if what I'm doing will kill you, but it will beat the enemy, and that's just as good :) oh wait y'all haven't accepted that one day you will be nothing but cannon fodder"

like, it's still fucked up that she kicked the others into the taurnado. but also she grew up a solider, killing enemies because they're there, following orders when she has them and risking her life when she doesn't to defeat her enemy--because that's what being a soldier is. Horse hasn't realized that there is selfishness in thinking her life and those of her allies are expendable as long as they Win.

Because that's what war does to some people's minds. They stop seeming themselves as important, and by extension their fellow soldiers, which is usually everyone around them. In a battle situation, Horse reverts to using everything around her, including her companions, as weapons. Because she is a weapon and her entire sense of self is based on that.

Wammawink only knows how to protect. Horse only knows how to fight. Episode two shows that Wammawink is not a small, fragile thing, and Horse cannot survive a battle alone.

I'm really glad I gave this show a chance.

[chmydarling]

[cantstayawaycani]

I'm on one tonight. IDK what's got into my introverted ass.

[yui-kuromori]

You know, as bad as my mental health gets (and it does get bad) or as despaired and lost and alone I feel, I can take comfort in the fact that I've never once stopped feeling grateful that I was born.

[dorothywonderland]

BRO LITERALLY DOXXED HIMSELF TO THE CYCLOPS. he was asking to get jumped come on

[alcego]

i understand the desire to make Jeremy secretly fucked up but y'all i will be so real. man would be a Fox if so. to me it is funnier to make him absurdly normal. yeah his parents are divorced but that's fine. just... making him Normal would be the hardest thing for Jean to decipher and in MY mind it makes more sense for Jeremy to be just. painfully normal.

[cinamun]

thank you to @reality-refuge for reminding me that this post exists

LMFFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO

All my OCs as they walk past a kitchen:

Internet people: Hey Cin! What would you say your story is about?

Me: Sex and kitchens. Sometimes food.

[quiet-admirer]

You all know I love soft feedist themes - they're my ride-or-die constant in my personal kink life - but soft feedists have GOT to start doing some more reflection on the ways we talk about our kink because I am seeing post after post saying things like "I like soft feedism so much better than other kinds of feedism because only soft feedists want connection with their partner and treat their partner with respect and like they're a whole human being, and can balance kink and real life because of how wholesome and nice our kink is."

Not only is that super ignorant and condescending towards people who aren't into soft feedism, who are no more or less capable than you are at healthy kink practices and treating their play partners with respect and love, but it's also a really unhealthy pattern for so many members of our community to say things that reinforce the stereotype that hard dom/sub dynamics and fatphobia play are abusive or unhealthy, or that they are in any way excepted from risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) practices.

When these beliefs become widespread, it means people newer to feedism get the message that any abuse they experience from partners is par for the course if they want to engage in anything but soft feedism. If you're labeling soft feedists as the healthy, supportive, respectful feedists, it means you're ultimately dismissing a huge portion of feedists as 'barbarous' or 'beyond saving', and regardless of whether that's true or not, you're showing yourself as willing to abandon those feedees you see as subjecting themselves to abuse and disrespect instead of working to make sure that every single feedist knows that ALL feedism IS healthy, IS respectful, IS about connection and intimacy when the scene is over. Anything else isn't feedism: it's abuse, exploitation, harassment, rape culture, and fatphobia.

It's also extremely important to decouple in your head that any particular identity or way of being, whether it's identity labels that correspond with your kink fantasies, gender or sexual orientation, or anything else is *inherently* safe; trustworthy; and capable of healthy, respectful, and deep interpersonal connection. The fact that you like popping mini muffins into your partner's mouth in front of a fireplace instead of pretending to force your partner to funnel a weight gain shake doesn't mean you magically know how to communicate well, practice adequate aftercare, or listen to your partner's needs. It doesn't mean you are more knowledgeable about fatphobia. Preferring cuddling and gentle feedings doesn't make you a supportive person to be around or make you incapable of creating a controlling, hurtful, pressured, or shaming environment. We have to learn these things explicitly, we have to practice them, and we have to keep practicing them.

It does you and your potential partner/s a disservice to be actively creating these blind spots in your mind where you never have to examine your own actions or patterns of behavior because you're a Soft Feedist, so that means you're automatically "good." On a community level, you are creating a culture where abuse and mistreatment can go unchecked because "we're soft feedists so that means we're all nice".

That's a culture that makes it harder for people experiencing abuse and mistreatment to speak up. If abuse doesn't happen here, maybe I'm just imagining it and making a big deal over nothing. If abuse doesn't happen here, am I going to ruin the image of soft feedism if I speak up? Will people even believe me that another soft feedist could be mistreating me since everyone knows the people here are so nice and wholesome and care about their partners?

I'll say it again: ALL feedism is respectful, ALL feedism is consensual, ALL feedism is about mutual connection and intimacy, and ALL feedism means treating others as whole autonomous human beings. Claiming otherwise hurts all of us, including other soft feedists.

[imjustavenuxwithaboomerang]

zombies + text posts

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[jayktoralldaylong]

You know who they did the dirtiest in Arcane? Apart from Vander that is.

The answer is Mel. My baby girl lost her two boyfriends and I'm tired of pretending like I'm okay about it.

She gave everything to their dream.

"She wanted to use them." YES! At first! At first she thought they were a great investment. Then she came to love them with more sincerity and more care than many other relationships in the show. Sure some of the toxic things she'd learnt from her home tended to seep into the relationship, but she did everything she could to prune that away.

She loved them. She poured everything into their dream. Everything into helping Jayce get rid of Heimerdinger when he wanted to ban the research that could help Viktor, everything to help them both vote for peace and make the council decision unanimous. Everything to get back to them, after getting kidnapped! 🥺 After going through every version of hell, she immediately gravitated to where she would find them, 😭 find the only loves that had ever accepted her without necessarily demanding anything in return.

And Riot just took that away. And I'm tired of acting like I'm okay with it.

I'm tired of everyone saying Mel deserves better than Jayce and Viktor, tired of people shipping her with people she's never met (especially when the aim is just to give her someone who is not Jayce or Viktor), I'm tired of the strong independent black woman stereotype following Mel around when it's the LAST thing that she wants when she only just learnt to be soft with Jayce and open with her heart once again. I am tired of people calling her a manipulator as if her character arc ended there, as if she did not unlearn toxic love and traded it for the gentle bond she then had with her two favourite scientists.

I'm tired of people not acknowledging that she had to leave Piltover, not just because the Medarda family needed her, but also because her boys were gone. The family she had finally made for herself, the family she was willing to abandon her family name for. They're gone and I don't think Riot will ever be kind enough to give them back to her.

Everyone else, even Ekko sort of has a family to fall back to. Mel has successfully lost everyone. The fact that Lest is the closest person to Mel left says way too much about how awful this whole situation is.

And I am TIRED, I am so sick and TIRED, of people acting like she did not love Jayce and Viktor. I am so sick and tired of people acting like Jayce did not love her. It probably hurt him too to leave her behind.

The tragedy of them is that Jayce knew Mel still had the chance to refind her feet, but Viktor had only ever had Jayce, and Jayce would NEVER leave Viktor alone. And it hurts that Mel probably wished she could have gone with them, because now she has to start everything from scratch and barely anyone in the fandom acknowledges that side of her pain and I HATE IT!

(Jayce might have been created for Viktor in League Lore, but Mel was created for Jayce. 🥺😭 Mel was created to love Jayce and they took her baby away.) #HappyHare(Mel)WhereHaveYouBuriedAllYourChildren?TellMeSoISay😭

[crispycreambacon]

The Post-Exam Moodboard

As represented by Puppet History characters. Tag yourself: I'm Clipped Coin + Molasses Horse (and maybe a little bit of Ryan ngl)

Bonus sketch of shan and ryn (both created by the lovely @ravxe3n) (I hope you don't mind me tagging you 🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽)

[celestialrealms]

Decided to make this bingo card for the upcoming season as a salty and tired Triworlds and trio fan to inject some fun into a season I'm not particularly excited about. It contains things only I, and maybe like two other people, care about.

(Didn't bother labeling it as season 3 because I'll be shocked if a lot of this isn't a concern for future seasons.)