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hxlda-hxlda · 1 year ago

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harper! | iMayBeObsessed | they/them

multifandom! bowie is god. my good music taste is my personality trait. talk to me about dnd and i'll love you forever. as always, fuck terfs. ask it, coward. requests open! marauders discord server.

currently obsessed w/ the xmen btw.

spotify | ao3 | i write things:

that's the idea | 104k, in progress, M. wolfstar, minor dorlene + rosekiller + flowerpot, slytherin!sirius, enemies to lovers, hogwarts era

sirius orion black: star slytherin, house of black heir. remus john lupin: sarcastic prick with more scars than he's worth. and they don't fall in love. they don't, okay?

your 'lectric eye on me, babe | 20k, in progress, M. wolfstar, minor jegulus + dorlene, fame au

remus lupin is a bassist for 'where wolves?', the rock band currently taking the world by storm. sirius black is a model dealing with the 24-year-long headache that is his family. both of them find each other to contend with. the world watches every moment unfold.

the radio interview | 1.5k, oneshot wolfstar, fame au

the oneshot that started your 'lectric eye on me, babe

all we’ve seen, all we’ve said; we are the dead | 5.4k, oneshot, T. canon compliant, remus centric post-war study.

the one where remus is alone, but james and lily are always there too.

meet me there (are you coming?) | 15k, completed, E. jegulus, minor wolfstar + rosekiller, spy au

james potter is one of the order of the phoenix’s best agents, but even the best have their downfalls, their weaknesses. and james’ just so happens to be those damned scowling lips.

sun kissed lips (that i might kiss, too) | 2.9k, in progress, M. dorlene, australia au(?), christmas/holiday season

dorcas meadowes is in australia for christmas and has plans to be miserable for the entire fucking thing. the beautiful blonde stranger in the pub has very, very different plans.

#they finally fuckin' did it #an intro post #it's good to be here gang #if you're wondering if we can be friends #the answer is yes #captain's log #writing tag #!!

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sirlancenotalot · 8 months ago

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the fact that people still use the "no one would talk to a friend that way" "no one would grieve for someone like that if it was just platonic" etc arguments to prove a ship is canon is so annoying to me. yes i get it, we got queerbaited hard but where does it say that romance has to be higher than a friendship or no one said friends couldn't also be lovers or vice versa....? i normally say "popular media tropes that usually are for romance" when i talk about fiction but pulling a blanket statement like "NO ONE talks to a friend that way" is so invalidating to so much of our queer experiences. the beauty of queer friendship literally lies in the emotional fulfilment we get from our friends in a way that i don't normally see in cishet friendships for whatever reasons. so idk it's just been bothering me to see these kinds of posts every now and then. "you wouldn't do [x] for your friends" i would actually. i would sell my soul for them. i would kill for them and kill myself for them. i would do anything for my friends that i would do for a partner. the "proof" for a ship doesn't have to be by invalidating their friendship. also like aren't most of the ships so powerful when they're also each other's closest friends? do y'all not think of your partners as your best friends?

#sorry for the rant #i know that popular media tropes have changed our mindset on romqnce #it wasn't a thing in my country but now the dating scene is so westernised that it's the same here #im not saying people can't experience romance or friendship differently #in the context of queer people specifically i've noticed that most people struggle to differentiate between platonic and romantic feelings #and often feel a mixture of both or somewhere outside both #it's intense! Regardless #I'm also trying not to invalidate romance or people that experience it totally separately from friendships #but i genuinely wonder #do you stop being friends with the person you're dating #how does thay make sense #them not being your bestest friend?#anyways I'm aroace and in a qpr #maybe i'm just a little sensitive #but queer people also talking in a very heteronormative of looking at romance also confuses me #are we really putting a tag on how much someone grieves???#first of all human relationships dont work that way!!#there's no need to place them in different positions #it's not a competition #every relationship is unique to the two people involved in it #only they can categorize their relationship not outsiders

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souenkun · 3 months ago

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Did yorishima getting his arm possessed by a youkai came with a bonus of eternal youth or something 😭

#LIKE i know the manga mentioned several times that he's older than he looks but dear god. that's the anime looks of a 20-year old????? 😭#this is our first Good Look at anime!yorishima and i'm still picking my jaw from the floor. how does he looks SO YOUNG in anime standards #thank god they didn't change his hair color but i noticed here that he shares the same eyeshape as natsume? which. uhhh (stares at theories)#anyway can we also get a va reveal too. is he voiced by maeno. i'm about to combust please please please @ anime production team #peepaw you're wayyyy to handsome when you should be pushing into your 60s. how is this legal 😭😭😭😭😭#no fawking wonder kusakabe's daughters were all gossiping about him. even *animated dolls* were confused about his real age 😭🤚#natori barging in from the window is hilarious but (slams him away) this is nawt about him. sawry #yorishima #natori shuuichi #natsume yuujinchou #natsume's book of friends

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teathattast · 7 months ago

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So what you doing Monday?

Doing Tuesday?

What you doing every day for the rest of your life?

'Cause that's where I'll spend mine

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And just like that

We fell so fast

And I can't help it

And I don't want to

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jichanxo · 4 months ago

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(late) sunday six 🌟

tags: @four-white-trees @phantasy14 @passthroughtime @overdevelopedglasses @skysquid22

back onto senseific, and with the dancing club again! trying to get down what i can without worrying too much about canon (or else i'll never make any progress...) kitakata is also here. lol

“You two are friends?” Nishizono asked, giving them an odd look, like she was seeing something unexpected there.

Kitakata looked surprised, apparently so caught up in his teasing he forgot she was there.

“We work together at the MRC.” Yagami tried to deny it.

She smiled. “That’s why you’re so close, then.”

Yeah, she definitely had the wrong idea. Unfortunately, if he tried denying it any more vehemently, it might make her even more sure of her assessment. Or he’d offend Kitakata and unintentionally begin an argument right here. He could hardly subject them to that on purpose.

“Ah, well,” He dropped his arm from Yagami. “You know.”

No, she didn’t. And Yagami didn’t either.

#sunday six #kitakata is in a good mood cause he got to giggle at yagami's dancing #hence the teasing #funnily enough the last time they saw each other they got into an argument lmao #but yagami dancing is funny enough to heal all wounds... apparently #yagami is very unamused obviously #“you know” NO WE DON'T KITAKATA. YOU WANNA EXPLAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO US?#and yes kitakata put his arm around yagami's shoulders. wow i wonder why they think you're friends #yagami's worst nightmare: a room full of people who think that he and kitakata actually like each other #anyway as you can guess i had a lot of fun writing this scene #had a hard time picking out a snippet #shoutout to yagami mentally shit-talking kitakata in other parts of this scene. briefly but still #maybe i should make a senseific compliation of everytime yagami thinks “what a dick” “show off” etc about kitakata #a hater compilation if you will

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wavesoutbeingtossed · 5 months ago

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re: your tags in your reblog about how taylor hasn't felt the need to fly back to the states during the euro leg and how travis was the one to go to her during his off season and the surprise pikachu of it all for her. think there are several things that have elicited that reaction from her where she's realized no, it didn't have to be the way it was despite maybe being made to feel the opposite at the time

Yup.

Again this is probably veering close to territory I don't/shouldn't get into on main because ultimately I don't think there's anything to add and it's all stuff we'll never know.

That being said, lol, I think there's been a lot in the last year that Taylor's discovered that has made her wonder about why she felt she needed to do things the way she did, and I don't even just mean in terms of her relationship. We've all kind of seen her blossoming in ways I suspect surprised even her.

But relationship-wise, I wouldn't be surprised if the way things seem to have felt easy and secure from the start with Travis made her wonder why it couldn't have been with other people in the past (ahem) and more than a little angry for a bit about how easy it is for her current partner to be supportive in a way that comes naturally when her previous one(s)... was(were) not. Obviously I can't speak for Taylor, but I certainly would have a moment of Petty Betty-ness for a little bit.

#Pouring out my heart to a stranger but I didn't pour the whiskey #Anonymous #i still wonder if that's part of why there were some low-key clapbacks last fall #between the surprise songs and some media responses and--#you know #lol this feels analogous to when I started my new job after getting laid off from my old one that I'd been at for nearly 10 years #and how I spent years being underpaid and having shitty schedules and ending up with like actual months-worth of vacation time #because i was never able to take it #and it was just the way it was but I stayed for so long because it was like 'family'#and then i started my new job (albeit in a new field in some ways) and I got paid way more and better hours and a super supportive boss #who like nurtured my desire to grow and move up #instead of my old boss who I considered a friend who was like 'lol we're cutting your hours so that you're not full time anymore #but you're a super valued member of the team and we can't do this without you!'#anyway i nearly cried the first time I heard it's time to go and then got laid off weeks later lmao #and I had a crying breakdown after I started my new job because i was like 'things can be this easy????'#'i don't have to struggle paycheque to paycheque and i don't have to work 7 days a week on the whims of others' schedules???'#'and I can actually have a life and not feel guilted for not being a team player???' anyway lol

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fluffle-writes · 7 months ago

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I wanna. Pick them up in my mouth and shake 'em around like a dog obliterating a squeaky toy

#you can tag anyone you feel this way about but I was thinking about Rook hunt in particular #tbh I feel like he'd picture the same - just with Vil and Neige #he wanta his oshis to be besties (he is just lime me fr) (just a liiiittle furyher frim reality)#(I view neigexVil as nore of a crackship until we get more Neige development/lore)#(our queen Vil doesn't deserve to be genuinely shipped with someone who's kinda 2D rn.#But I respect people who flesh out neige with headcanons - they write the dynamics realy well tbh)#(hopefully we get more RSA development at some point I think that'd be cool)#(plus I'd cry if TWST just. stopped. after the last NRC OB)#(I mean it'd make sense aince that's where the story is based and it'll probably end once Yuu finds a way home #- which feels close now thanks to Ortho)#(But at the same time I. have been following this since it first came out when I was about 16 - same age as the first year squad lol)#(and I feel like it'd feel weird if we stopped getting main story updates)#(Im rambling a LOT lol - probably because I'm tipsy haha)#(hope someone can relate to my lamenting of future woes though)#(Oh well - I should atop borrowing sorrow from the future and live joyfully with the now)#(I do miss my friends who've stopped being in the fandom though - and my friends who deactivated and idk how to contact now)#(sugarandmelody... zacrazyvalentine... I miss them. but we had fun #writing and stuff. and I suppose that's what matters in the end. that we had fun.)#at least - I hope they had fun too. and I kinda hope they think about me how I think of them sometimes.#have a nice day if you're reading this. I rambled in the tags a while and I understand that it's kinda long lol.#and probably riddled with typos #I'm tearing up for some reason haha. well it is what it is #I hope each and every one of my followers know how amazing they are - I hope y'all have a wonderful day - evening - or night #I wish I could hug people across the internet lol #I should stop posting on tumblr while drinky haha #tw drunk #tw drinking #i'll tag it just in case #don't wanna cause discomfort and stuff

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hyp3rfixation-h3ll · 1 year ago

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The council has become VERY locked in a heated debate about this so I'm settling this ONCE AND FOR ALL via a tumblr poll (feel free to check the tags for context)

( GOES WITHOUT SAYING BUT PLEASE REBLOG FOR A LARGER SAMPLE SIZE )

if you'd like my personal opinion , i think it counts and we Would redefine the word to include our alien friends . theyre arguably just as human as we are and eating them would have the same psychological effects , even if they taste good !

#tumblr polls #poll #my polls #ask to tag #ask to tw #cannibalism cw #cannibalism tw #baby's first multiple choice question and its about eating people. okay #now if you're wondering “op what is the CONTEXT???”#its sonic creepypastas. we were talking about starved eggman and i Blinked and suddenly we were all arguing about #whether or not him eating mobians counted as cannibalism #i'd say it does. just because the dictionary says one thing doesnt mean its the law. we made that shit we can simply change what it means #if it becomes outdated ! and i'd argue that the definition IS different in the sonic universe #however there are a couple friends in my group that disagree and use the dictionary definition as their proof #so im making this poll to see what YOU ALL think personally

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crescentfool · 1 year ago

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beaming everyone on the dashh with good brain day vibes!!! i hope that you all can remember to extend self-compassion to yourself whenever you're feeling down about something 💙

#lizzy speaks #the human brain works in such profound ways i think #lately i've been thinking about that post that was like 'you will always be your oldest friend take care of yourself'#it's definitely a sentiment i agree with and i appreciate how it emphasizes the importance of extending compassion to yourself #you wouldn't say such hurtful things to your friends right? (or at least i'd hope so)#so why would you say it to yourself?#you are your own friend too. and i think everyone has a beautiful soul within themselves. nurture it! water it! feed it good thoughts.#basically i wish everyone a 'i hope that your brain is not your own enemy but rather a friend that you can find comfort in'#things will work themselves out with time. there's beauty in life and you will find small delights to cherish!! i am manifesting it for u!!#and for those who find it difficult to transition from a self-critical mindset to one that's more compassionate and nonjudgmental #i truly think that with time you will be able to rewire your brain to be kinder to yourself. i'm proud of you for taking any first steps :)#there are times in which it feels counterintuitive to go against habits that feel hard-wired... but brains are very malleable littel guys-#with such a wonderful capacity for changing and learning new things. so i hope everyone can learn to be their own best friend!#not to undermine the importance of a support network ofc. that's good too and im all for that!! but i hope everyone remembers to be kind-#not only to others but also to themselves!! you're going to do great out there!! i love you all!!#ive just been thinking about this a lot... i needed to get it out there. you all shine so brightly!!! we shall be fine!!! have a good week!#sorry if this is out of nowhere but if there's anything about me you should know it's that i'm the 'hey dont cry 8 billion people on earth-#ok?' post. idk i just find great joy in knowing others are out there thriving and finding a daily delight yknow i love humanity!!

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liminalweirdo · 7 months ago

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sometimes allistic people are so weird, someone at this clinic set up four health appointments for me and i have literally no idea what any single one of those appointments are going to be for. the clinic just. set them up, and i'm just gonna... show up to them, i guess.

so now i'm going to show up to an appointment and idek what i'm supposed to expect because there's literally no information? is this a psych assessment? is it a space for me to ask questions? should i treat this as a job interview? are they going to eventually ask me to meet them on the interstate after dark and mug me? idk!

this is mostly a joke post, but things could be made more accessible to autistic people by just giving a LITTLE bit of information on what something's going to be?

like what are you going to do at my MRI, what are you going to do at my first physio appointment? What's going to happen at this queer meetup? i don't fucking know, ever because you weird little allistic guys all just run blindly into anything, apparently, like a domestic animal released into the wild.

you don't know if you're gonna be there 3 hours or 3 weeks, how do you guys know you even brought what you need to survive? there's never any fucking instructions?

#i often think it's neutrotypicals with the weird fucking brains and not us #you guys waste SOOOOO much time talking about absolutely nothing so that you can get to know someone before becoming friends #but everything else requires absolutely no instructions or like toe-dipping? you just leap right into that stuff #what is it about other people that scares you so bad that you have to spent months small-talking with them before you can be friends #and yet you just walk into completely foreign situations with absoutely no prep or instructions #like don't you guys ever wonder like... what's going on?#what are you guys doing???#please actually someone talk to me about this i am genuinely asking #so much of the time when i ask allistic people why they do things they genuinely have no idea why they do them that way and i'm like???#''don't you see how this is actually detrimental/inefficient'' and you're like ''i guess'' and then you KEEP DOING IT ANYWAY?#like who's got the rigid thinking now llolol #tbh i think we all have disordered thinking it's just that neurotypicals think they're normal because they're ''the majority'' (for now)#for now #liminal scrawlings #actually autistic

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hxlda-hxlda · 2 years ago

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heya hello!! welcome to here :)

my name is harper and i’m all round queer (they/she). despite being on this site for over three years, i still have no idea what i’m doing here. i’ll get there. or i won’t.

this is mainly my dimension 20/dropout/naddpod outlet. but this is all reflective of a single train of consciousness and i promise a total of zero (0) consistency.

ok that’s all from me. drink some water today. ok bye <3

#if you're wondering if we can be friends #yes we can #i need dnd friends #ok bye for real this time #ok luv u #ok bye #pinned post

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vile-wizard · 5 days ago

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