#idk if u have encountered this specific kind of trans person but they r everywhere on tiktok and in my schools gsa

[vampyrfagg]

hi Ive kind of been lurking in your anons bc you reblogged a post once and I don't have any mutuals so you're like my bestie in my head so sorry. anyways you mentioned theyfabs the other day and I feel kind of out of the loop. like calling it a slur is a bad take but it does seem like just calling someone a "biological female" with extra steps. or am I missing something?

hii !! <33 u do not need to lurk at all i promise im v friendly<333 but nw! i do understand being uncomfortable w the phrase but it's not like. all ppl who r afab and use they/them, it's intended to be like a subset of the tenderqueer group - it's specifically describing generally transmisogynistic nonbinary people who cling to their afab label - yk the kind of person who will offer up that they are afab w/out any prompting or relevance to the conversation as if it somehow makes them better or more safe than amab trans ppl? the kind of trans person who will bring up ""female socialisation"" and ""male socialisation"" and use it to justify both their transmisogyny and inflated ego? so calling it a slur is quite funny to me bc it's often describing ppl who put down other trans ppl to make themselves seem safer or more palatable? if that makes sense? idk it is v early here so i'm not sure if i'm being super coherent :,)