#i'm just a girl 🎀

[hereforb99]

One of my least favourite and eye-rolling arguments is, "OHOo, wHaT if the RoLeS WeRe ReVerSed?" As if men don't get away with things even if the roles were reversed. Yes, Da-hye did Soo-cheol dirty, there's no denying that, and yes, he still loves her and welcomed her back into his life as if nothing had happened. Am I okay with it? I am. In fact, I think it's very cute.

Okay, so now, if the roles were reversed, would I be fine with that? Absolutely fucking not! So why would I be okay with Soo-cheol welcoming Da-hye back to his life? CAUSE IT IS FICTION!!!

We all know what would have happened if such a situation had played out in real life. Da-hye and her child's lives would have been in serious danger; she would most likely have been assaulted or killed. Soo-cheol is rich, and wealthy families are not going to sit idly by after you fuck them over. Women like Da-hye would definitely never have gotten away with what she did, if it had happened in real life. And men like Soo-cheol do not exist in the real world. Men's egos are fragile, and he would absolutely not have let her get away with it.

This is exactly why I am fine with this in fiction. Like, let women get away with things, at least in fiction, because it rarely ever happens in the real world. Men are not as forgiving as women are. And if a man were to commit something like this in the real world, everybody would be like, "Ugh, typical of men," and then just move on. Because genuinely, we are so done with men doing this stuff that it doesn't surprise us anymore. So, like, just let women get away with crimes and stuff, at least in fiction. Let them just be.

In fact, the very reason K-dramas are popular among women is because these men are incredibly warm, which is rare in real life. The things these oppas do for their women are so rare that we all yearn for them. Korean men themselves say that they are absolutely nothing like these K-drama oppas. Like, can you imagine a guy like Baek Hyun-woo in real life staying in his in-laws' house even after he's seldom respected there, just for his wife's sake? But you know what, you will see plenty of women putting up with nonsense and abuse in REAL LIFE, just for their families.

In my opinion, they have pretty much "punished" Da-hye's character by making her child's father an abuser. It's more like, "See, you gave up a nice man, so now you're stuck with this abuser. You deserve it."

[the-mom-friend-dot-com]

its been months but who wants to listen to me rant about the guy i've liked for eight years and is probably the reason i'm chronically single

[minx-xchu]

the temptation to paint ai art

[alfaire]

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[myflowerdeer666]

[trashie-kun]

it's so crazy that you don't have to play the video game, read the book or anything of the sort to get attached to the characters lol Literally can just watch a couple of lore videos and boom new characters to be occupying my mind

[hooned]

JAKE @ 🛒🥗🧾

[hercarisntyours]

SHE'S PISSED

damn bro why so mad who crawled up your ass

[yarrystyleeza]

Idk why but whenever I rewatch dd s1 or watch an edit of it I mentally chew metal bars and claw walls off. I can't even explain the emotion, but it's almost like elevating into another plane of existence. The moment I see the newspaper with the "The Devil of Hell's Kitchen" on it on screen I get this orgasmic chill all over me. Him standing in the dark being a part of it, the idea of him 'lurking in the shadows' waiting for evil, especially s1, is just completely extraordinary (I swear to God I couldn't find better words). I'm not even talking about the sexually arousing side of this. 🥴🥴🥴 This show is insane. Nothing will ever replace this show and especially this season. It's #1 for me.

[strfalls]

[thejudeduarte]

Creating oc's just so you can make aesthetic pinterest boards for them >>

[insane-in-the-membranee]

Hello darlings 🎀

So I got my nose pierced FINALLY. I got it pierced before too when I was in 4th or something but I got an infection so yeah— that didn't end well. I was totally against it as well thinking I won't look good. My mother even sold the nose ring (gold) she made for me because she was like "this girl ain't getting it pierced". But my lovely sakhiya/pasandida auratein convinced me I'll slay and told me to get it done.

So being the person I am, I got it pierced today on impulse. I didn't tell anyone. Only my maa (she went with me lmao so obv). Then I called my dad, nani, bhaiya and so on— and was like "Tadowwww surprise!".

And I look fucking divine. Holy Shit.

That's all.

Thank you for coming to my lil ted talk <3

Bye, lovies! ❤

[minx-xchu]

Albert Einstein once told us "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." Therefore, no thought head empty, problem solved ♡

[myflowerdeer666]

[hearts-hunger]

being in your mid 20s on tumblr is so strange like you have a long few days at work and you miss 7 events with the friends in your phone and have to catch up on 49 new pictures of that Guy

[abyssmita]

My and my girls:

AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHbhaiahAHAHAHAHAHAH bhai bhai *gaspingforair* bha-i *stumbling on our feet* bhai HEHEHHEHEHEbhaiohbhai *destroyed the sound barrier* bhai *no sounds coming from mouth any longer* phew hoo bhai

*done laughing*

*look at each other*

PFFFFF-WHAHAHAHAHHEHEHEHHEAHAHHAHAHUHUHIHIHIHIBRO