#i’m trying to create a healthier body age for myself since i caved into harmful beliefs while growing up | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

goldennika · 5 months

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made a comment over dinner about how i think some cardigans i bought may have shrank in the wash since they’ve been feeling increasingly more snug and short, to which my dad snorts and says “or maybe the wearer has gotten bigger,” which is NOT the case here bc my sister also commented that the cardigans fit her better now and her weight is pretty much the same!! 😤

#way to kick a man down 😠#this isn’t the first time he’s taken a dig at my figure either #and what’s more infuriating is that he seems to just JUMP at any chance to imply i’ve gotten bigger #almost like he can’t stop himself from making a comment if i make comments about the way my clothes fit #i’m trying to create a healthier body age for myself since i caved into harmful beliefs while growing up #i KNOW that i’ve put on a lot of weight since the pandemic started #and i’ve been trying to make peace with my changing body and accept my curves #but some days the negative self image wins #and being made fun of something i cannot /immediately/ change really hurts #rambles

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