#i’m bi and heavily prefer women

[mockerycrow]

Do you accept request for sapphic ppl? I would love to request farah or val 👀

YESSS YESSS PLEASE IM ACTUALLY BEGGING YOU TO REQUEST WOMEN IM A SAPPHIC WOMAN MYSELF I LOVE YOU ANON PLSPLSPLSPLSSSSS

[oncemorewithqueering]

twin peaks sexuality headcanons

warning: very long

my god do I have THINGS to say about this show and 99 of them are about albert

so I thought before my feed is entirely twin peaks, I’d give my thoughts on the Outrageous Gay Tension of this show with some context

also ignore my handwriting, I’m very sick at the moment and have taken a lot of paracetamol (be more responsible than me kids)

spoilers for all 3 seasons, sorry

DALE COOPER

he/him

transmasc (FTM)

bisexual

listen. listen. trucoop is real rosencoop is real it’s all real. i love coop more than i can describe (which is weird considering I’m gay) and i heavily head cannoned him as trans and bi the second he drove onto my screen. i think he’d prefer men but women are also his cup of tea, or coffee rather. anyway he deserved better and he deserved to give Harry a little kiss.

HARRY TRUMAN

he/him

cisgender male

bisexual

i originally would have said Harry was gay, but I’m not a big fan of relationship erasure. yes, he is with josie. that’s why he’s bi.

i think Harry would have had a crush on some guys at school but would have bottled it down, until coop came to town, and he suddenly had a gay crisis. if i had to pinpoint a moment, i would say his initial realisation would have been when coop steals his nose (best scene) and he would have come to terms with it by the end of season 1.

even harry is not immune to the eyes of Dale cooper.

LAURA PALMER

she/they

cisgender female (but questioning her identity)

biromantic lesbian

first up, I’d like to give my consolidation to Laura palmer and anyone who may be reading who ever experienced something like her. she is my favourite character, apart from Coop Harry and Audrey, and i think she deserved so much better. PERSONALLY i think she and Donna had a very strong emotional romance but not necessarily a physical one. i think that her experiences with men caused her to do a big ol’ comphet and assume she liked being intimate with men. in reality, i think she wasn’t actually attracted to them but was doing it, alongside all the canon reasons, to reject her feelings to women.

and James happened, i guess.

DONNA HAYWARD

she/they

demigirl

homoflexible

idk whether i just see my identity in donna, but i think she definitely isn’t 100% female. i can’t explain it at all, but i just get the vibe.

as for her sexuality, obviously she and Laura had their thing, but i think her romantic tension with literally all. the. female. characters. initially made me think she was a lesbian. but, we have the James factor.

fucking James (my reaction whenever he is onscreen btw)

i think that her emotional intimacy to Laura would have naturally led her to the other emotionally intimate person in Laura’s life. i think James is the closest thing she has to Laura left, which is so sad. i love donna, idc what the widely accepted opinion is. i believe the ‘Just You’ song scene is her grappling with her feeling with maddy. i mean tbh if my girlfriend died and then her identical twin came back, i would probably be weird about it too.

AUDREY HORNE

she/they

trans femme (MTF) (i couldn’t fit it on the picture sorry)

biromantic demisexual

AUDREY AUDREY AUDREY AUDREY MY BELOVED

when i tell you i came out of twin peaks 15% gayer it is BECAUSE OF THIS GIRL. i love her storylines, her dialogue, her friendship with coop. it all feels so realistic! and her dancing!

back to the sexuality and gender thing, which is what this post is about, i personally believe her crush on coop came from a place of seeing a happy trans person comfortable in their identity and finding that beautiful. then translating that to love.

as for being biromantic, c’mon. donna and her definitely had a thing going for a bit. her demi sexuality comes from a place of her extreme discomfort in sex work (which is valid if you aren’t demisexual, by the way, but combined with her virginity until she forms a meaningful connection, the pieces fell into place for me. yes i am also demisexual and yes i am totally biased.)

ALBERT ROSENIFELD

he/him (because he is Him)

trans masc (FTM)

gay as fuck

“I love you, sheriff Truman”

I’m sorry??? excuse me?

albert is gay in so many ways it’s not even funny. with coop. with Harry. with gordon in season 3. and my trans headcanon? idk i just sort of vibed with it. normalise head canonning people as gay or trans with no reason.

also i love the idea that Denise, Albert and coop are just a group of trans fbi agents. we already have Mulder from the x files we need more (tell me if you want an x files version of this)

GORDON COLE

he/him

cisgender male

bicurious

i honestly can’t tell if David lynch would curse me for this post or just shrug it off

anyway. gordon didn’t strike me as being particularly fruity until season 3, when he had his whole trans power speech and those weirdly domestic scenes with albert. like, pop off little fbi husbands. i think he’s still working through period-typical biphobia and isn’t ready to say he’s bi. but i think with time he will be.

someone needs to take me away from this show for like a week and sit me down with some literature. I’d just gay headcanon it anyway (looking at you Sherlock Holmes)

BOBBY BRIGGS

they/he

demiboy

bisexual

the more i watch this show, the more i think to myself…”Bobby is…me?” idk whether it’s dana ashbrook’s truly unhinged and amazing performance, the weird nervous gay energy and the lack of masculinity for a character who would normally be obnoxiously masculine. i love him so much.

i think Bobby would struggle in the gender norms of being the child of a military man. and the sexuality norms of being the “bad boy” in school. i firmly believe that he is bisexual, because let’s face it, everyone in this godforsaken show is bi. find me ONE straight character. ONE STRAIGHT.

SHELLY JOHNSON

she/her

cisgender female

heteroflexible and demisexual

SHELLY IS A LITTLE BIT GAY BECAUSE I SWEAR TO GOD AS I WAS WATCHING THIS I WAS THIS CLOSE (HOLDS FINGERS TOGETHER) TO KISSING MY TV SCREEN.

shelly seems like the sort of person to have been raised with certain heteronormative values. but, i think after going out with Bobby, i think she’d have a little sit and think and say “huh maybe i would kiss a girl.” she hasn’t, yet, but that’s just because her crushes so far have been on men. if she met the right girl, she would.

i think her demisexuality comes partly from trauma and also because we need something in common because, if i haven’t made it clear, i LOVE HER.

HAWK

he/him

cisgender male

gay

don’t be lying about that poetry being for your girlfriend hawk. this is the only character where i will defy canon, fold my arms and say no. i love that hawk got a bigger role in season 3, and i think that based off all i know about him (being the best character) i would headcanon him as being gay. why? idk. look at him?

hawk would totally just rock up one day with a guy on his arm, no explanation, and say nothing until Lucy stumbled into asking him about this guy. and he’d just be like “oh this is my husband. yeah we’ve been married for 6 years. you were at the wedding, we just didn’t tell you it was a wedding.”

iconic.

also i had hair envy the entire show, i wish that when i straightened my hair it was that luxurious.

LUCY BRENNAN

she/her

cisgender female

bisexual

I’m sorry Lucy, no one is THAT frazzled and not sapphic. it’s a rule.

i feel like Lucy would consider herself straight until she was taught about the internet, got a Facebook account, and promptly shut it down, but before doing that saw the word ‘bisexual’ and felt weirdly drawn to it. Andy was, of course, super supportive if a little confused. she’s still figuring it out.

i feel like she’d wear sweaters in the bisexual colours and be very happy whenever someone noticed.

ANDY BRENNAN

he/him

cisgender male

straight ally (but not really)

Andy is straight, but like more in a straight with a question mark way. maybe if he hadn’t dated Lucy, maybe if they hadn’t fallen in love, he would have caught feelings for a guy. after Lucy came out, he did some thinking, but decided to keep it to himself. who knows, maybe his tulpa is “kinda gay” (obligatory Buffy reference)

WE ARE DONE LADIES AND GENTS AND PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT EITHER BUT STILL HIGHLY ESTEEMED.

so, thoughts? I’m gonna do a part two with the season 3 exclusive characters, and some characters i forgot, like Norma, ed, Hank, josie, James….and Wyndam Earl. OH and Denise

thank you so much for bearing with me, and love y’all 🫶

(not as much as I’ll ever love Shelly)

[writteninlunarlight-years]

Hello! I hope you are well? May I ask for a BG3 and Hogwarts legacy matchup, please? 😊

Gender: Female

Pronouns: She/Her

Sexuality: I’ve always been drawn to men, but I do find myself attracted to women sometimes, so I guess i could be Bi-curious?

Appearance: I’m 1,59 cm tall (short?), chubby, blonde and quite pale with grey-blueish eyes. My hair is shoulder lenght and I wear glasses! I dress mostly comfortable, but I do enjoy wearing dresses and skirts. I only wear make up, when I feel like it (which means mascara, because I can’t do makeup…haha).

MBTI &/or Engram: INxJ, Type 6

Personality: I’m introverted and a little shy. I’m anxious, but have been told that I’m calm personified. I feel awkward a lot of the time. I try my hardest to be polite and kind. I do get annoyed easily, but try not to show it. I’m not easy to get close to. I observe, before I act. I enjoy joking around with my friends, which contains playfully teasing and flirting. My sense if humor can be dry and sometimes dark, but also silly. It’s all over the place.

Likes (at least like three things): I love cats, having time for myself, playing video games (who would have thought?), Horror Movies (Morbid things in general isnterest me) reading, scented candles, soft blankets

Dislikes (at least three things): Forced social interactions, people, not being able to sleep, being late and unorganized, spiders

Extra fun fact: Despite me disliking people, I work in the medical fiend. I quite enjoy my work.

BG3 EXTRA-

Race: Human

Class: Monk

D&D alignment: Lawful neutral

Please excuse any mistakes, English is not my first language! Thank you in advance, and I hope you have a nice day!❤️

~~~~~ MATCHUPS ~~~~~

BG3

Shadowheart

~~~~~ HEADCANONS ~~~~~

Shadowheart respects privacy, especially yours. She is already a very private person, so it's okay if you don't open up to her right away.

Once you two open up to one another, it's all over. You two are only ever flirting and chatting.

Shadowheart is queen at getting you to blush with her slightly raunchy jabs.

She gives off candle-girl vibes because of the occult stuff she's involved in and because she loves the smells.

She loves to spend time with you privately, away from others; she feels like too many prying eyes ruin the moment.

She will learn how to help you sleep better so you never tire.

She will teach you some cool healing spells so you can always care for yourself and others.

~~~~~ BLURB ~~~~~

You were sitting in Shadowheart's tent, eyes closed, listening to her prayer. Though her Goddess seemed a bit extreme, you felt it was respectful to be calm and quiet during her prayers. As Shadowheart finished her routine, you opened your eyes to observe her gentle features. She was always the most graceful in these moments. Usually, she was a vicious warrior on the field, but in the privacy of her tent, she looked like an angel. Once done, Shadowheart blew out her offering candle and turned to look at you, "Alright, my love, everything is done. Should we head down to the spring nearby and freshen up? Or would you prefer to read for a while?"

You heavily considered both options before choosing the latter; there was still too much warm sun out for you to get cleaned up right this second. As you two chose your material and headed to a small opening nearby camp, you tripped, grabbing Shadowhearts hand to brace yourself. She usually didn't like PDA out in front of your companions as this could symbolize weakness, but she immediately dropped everything to help you. Standing there in shock as she assessed you, you noticed everyone in camp watching. A red blush covered your face. It's not like your relationship was a secret, but you two rarely showed worry or concern in front of others.

After Shadowheart had given the all-clear, you two finished your walk to the clearing. Sighing now that the feeling of all eyes on you had faded, you turned to your partner, "Thank you, but why were you okay with doing all of that?" Shadowheart laughed gently before speaking, "Everyone knows that we are together, plus that elf has been getting some ideas recently from what I have heard, and I needed to stake my claim." You stared at her in shock before laughing gently and kissing her cheek. You two spent the rest of the afternoon reading before cleaning off and heading to bed.

~~~~~ EXTRA ~~~~~

(You two sat around a book Shadowheart used as a kid to learn healing magic. She was trying hard to teach you the basics of healing to help you understand the more advanced spells)

Y/N: So, do I do this? (You move your hands in a pattern)

Shadowheart: It's more like this (She replicates the pattern perfectly)

Y/N: All it looks like is you moving them in a fast circle. Why can't I just keep potions on me?

Shadowheart: Because knowing to heal in battle is far superior to those disgusting potions now once more.

Y/N: I already know how to do essential healing, though; why can't we move on to the more advanced stuff. ( You flipped the pages and imitated the hand placements. A bright spark erupted from your hand and smacked Gale in the forehead)

Shadowheart: (laughing) That's why, but good job conjuring a minor firebolt.

HOGWARTS LEGACY

Ominis Gaunt

~~~~~ HEADCANONS ~~~~~

Ominis doesn't easily trust people, so he was put off by you at first.

Once he opens up, you two act like a married couple.

The flirtations are enough to make Sebastion blush.

Ominis likes using your arm to guide him more than his wand.

He also likes to trick you into getting close to him so he can tell you something, only to whisper something naughty in your ear.

He is afraid to ask you to let him touch your face, not because he doesn't want to but because he knows how intense that can feel.

He gives you his jumpers when it is cold outside.

He really enjoys it when you help him bully Sebastion.

~~~~~ BLURB ~~~~~

It had been a long day studying; with all the running around and filling out your field guide, you were practically pooped for the time being. In the undercroft, lying on a couch, you heard the door open above. It was probably Sebastion since it was just after his Transfiguration class that you kept your eyes closed and rested. The silence in the room was eery and not typical for the boisterous man. Glassy eyes hover above you as you open an eye to peek up. You giggled and reached out to pat Ominis's head. Pulling back in fright, Ominis quickly caught up with himself.

"My love, you scared me. I thought you were sleeping," You laughed gently, putting his hair back in place. "I was resting. I am exhausted from all the running around today, but I was far from sleep. I still have some things I need to get done." Ominis smiled impishly. You already knew what was coming, "Am I on that list of things you need to do?" You smirked, moving closer to him, ready to complete this battle. "I don't know, Ominis. Can you handle all of this?" gently, you caressed his arm, watching him shudder. Ominis smiled in return and carrressed your face, "I think I can do more than handle my love." As you two moved in to kiss, you heard an obnoxious gaging sound.

"God, could you two get a room that's disgusting." You laughed as Ominis turned to face his best friend. " Sebastion, I am afraid you are the blind one then, friend; as you can see, we were, in fact, in a room alone till you showed up." Laughing harder, looking at Sebastions face, you stood up, helping Ominis as well. "You know Sebastion, if you could just land a girlfriend, you wouldn't be so bothered." Ominis laughed into his sleeve before pulling you into a side hug and kissing your cheek. "She is just bloody brilliant."

~~~~~ EXTRA ~~~~~

(You had spent all day with Sebastion setting up the perfect surprise for Ominis. Since his birthday fell just before the break, you would celebrate it as a group this year.)

Y/N: You know Sebastion, if you didn't stomp like an oger, he wouldn't know where we were.

Sebastion: Oh, please. For a blind man, Ominis knows everything all the time, and I am surprised we have gotten this far without him catching on.

(You two enter the Underdark 15 minutes before you asked Ominis to meet)

Y/N: Still, you are loud; everything you do is what will give us away.

Sebastion: Sure, I will. Definitely not you, with your horrible lying skills.

(As you two turn on the light, you both yell in unison, dropping the gifts in your hands)

Ominis: (Wearing a party hat) Why hello, you two, I have been waiting.

[wjehfshs]

Ik I’m late to this but happy pride month yall! Here are some characters I head-canon as LGBTQ+

Ghost

Gay, Demiromantic and Demisexual

Has a HUGE thing for Soap

First discovered he was gay when he was 17

He/they

Soap

Bisexual with a male lean

He/him

Has a thing for Ghost as well but they don’t know they like each other yet

Transmasc/transgender (FTM)

Was so excited when he got his surgeries and Ghost stayed with him the whole time before, during, and after

First discovered he was bi when he was 11 and discovered he was trans when he was 16

Gaz

Pan

Demiboy

He/she/they

First discovered he was pan when he was 14

Started playing around with pronouns at around 15 but settled on the ones he uses now

Price

Gay

He/him

First discovered he was gay when he was 22

Has a thing for Nikolai

Graves

Gay but HEAVILY in denial

“Doesn’t use pronouns” (literally wouldn’t care what pronouns you use on him, so all pronouns)

Had his first gay experience in high school but denies it ever happened

He made out with a guy in the school bathroom during class but apparently “that didn’t happen”

He admitted it while drunk

Laswell

Lesbian (she canonically has a wife)

Transfem/transgender (MTF)

Price took care of her after all her surgeries

Her and her wife are high-school sweethearts

She/her

Loves her wife with all her heart

Every time she comes home from a mission she brings flowers and chocolates

Best wife ever fr

Nikolai

Pan

Didn’t even realise he was pan until he met Price

Has a crush on Price fr

He always thought he was just straight until he met Price and rethought it

After hours of thinking and researching different sexualities (and many “am I gay quizzes”) he came to the conclusion he is Pan

He/it

Alex

Transmasc Alex transmasc Alex transmasc Alex

Realised he was a boy when he was 19

Bisexual

Realised he was bi when he was 13

Preference for women

He/they

Price was also there for all his surgeries

Dad Price fr

Very proud of his top surgery scars :3

HUGE crush on Farah

Farah

Unlabelled when it comes to sexuality

Just loves who she loves

She/they

Crush on Alex

Asexual, enjoys sex but doesn’t feel the need for it in a relationship

Demiromantic

First realised she was ace at 23

Never put much thought into sexuality

Keegan

Also unlabelled when it comes to sexuality

He/him

Had feelings for a guy when he was in the navy and thought he was gay but realised he still liked women then realised he didn’t care about gender but pan didn’t feel like it fit so he just said “fuck it” and went with unlabelled

[theatrekidenergy]

Okay so I’m so fucking confused, is there a word for when you’re technically bi, but have a really strong preference for men (for reference I’m male/heavily masc aligned, so the attraction is mlm). I am attracted to women, I’d kiss a girl and be lovey dovey and everything else just like what I’d do with a boy, but in reality it’s more of a fantasy then what I’d actually want, in reality I’d only really want to be a with a guy. If you’re thinking bisexual or homoromantic or homosexual and biromantic, I had thought about that in the past but the weird thing is I feel both sexual and romantic attraction to men and women. Is there a word for this?

[5chatzi]

Okay I'm going to send you some partly-solicited recs for queer literature and classics because I have a decent amount of exposure to both~~

My qualifications include a degree in English and now being halfway towards my MLIS lol this is what I was made for

For queer lit, sometimes it depends heavily on your own orientation, like bi people want to read books with bi representation, etc. But those preferences notwithstanding, here are some generally quality titles:

Zenovia July by Lisa Bunker: A trans girl solves a cyber crime. Mystery, YA, contemporary setting, trans rep

The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune: a gay man who lives a boring government-worker life travels to an island in order to monitor the family of magical children who live there. Fantasy, found family, adult fiction (it has some kid's book vibes but does contain mild sexual content and mild swearing), gay representation.

Ace by Angela Chen -- nonfiction, part memoir exploration of what it means to be asexual, for the author personally and for society generally.

Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo -- a Chinese-American girl in 1950s San Francisco comes to terms with being a lesbian. Historical fiction, adult fiction (or might be YA?? There is what I'd call mild sexual content), lesbian representation, AAPI representation

Jeanette Winterson is a queer author whose work I generally like!(don't have specific title recs though) (I have read The Passion, and she has a couple biographies shelved in the queer library in which I volunteer. The Passion is not very explicitly queer from my memory but it is very good regardless.

For classics, here are titles that I personally Actually Enjoyed Reading and found relatively accessible:

To Kill a Mockingbird (and I also like the film-- I should have added that to my answer to your ask)

To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf is my absolute favourite classic novel, but I won't pretend it's for everyone, or that it's especially accessible. It's written in a heavily Modernist style that involves a quite lyrical, non-linear plot. But the prose is breathtakingly gorgeous and it has a really moving anti-war message.

Also, Orlando by Woolf as well, and this one is also queer! Features a genderqueer/trans/otherwise gendernonconforming character.

The Woman in White by Wilkie Collins is very long, but it's a mystery, and I found it engaging. The section narrated by the character Marianne is the best, and I headcanon her as asexual or possibly a lesbian.

The Color Purple by Alice Walker is what I would call poignant, and it's fairly short. Be warned that it contains some SA content, racism, and AAVE dialect that could be hard to understand.

Macbeth or Twelfth Night or King Lear are my favourite Shakespeare works to recommend. But with Shakespeare, it's better if you can see a film or live performance, since just reading the script can be difficult to follow.

Little Women!!! God, I love Little Women. Honestly not sure how that wasn't the first one I thought of.

Oh thanks so much for the thorough response!

I’ll admit most of these are wildly outside my normal genre, but I’m always willing to try new things.

I have read Macbeth in school but it’s been ages and I am pretty sure I’ve read Little Women but I can’t remember it would have been a long time ago. Oh and To Kill a Mockingbird. I think everyone has read that in school but don’t think I’ve read it since.

I’m gonna write them down and check them out and see how it goes. I pretty much exclusively read non fiction so should be interesting 😅

[hehimdykesrock]

Hi. I was wondering if you could elaborate a bit on your reasoning for encouraging the “Bi/Mspec Lesbian” label? I’m not a fan of the label but at least want to try to see where you’re coming from??

Bc as a lesbian who previously identified as bisexual, I honestly find the “Bi Lesbian” label invalidating to both identities. For context, I identified as Bi for quite a while bc I had been told that Lesbians don’t include nonbinary people or trans women. Which is not true!!!

Mspec sapphic people already have the terms Bi and Pan (and Queer, Sapphic, etc.)- Lesbian is the ONLY one that doesn’t include men. Adding it to the Bi label just caters to the fear of not being ‘gay enough’ that society drills into mspec sapphics. Bi women/enbys are still queer. A feminine gender preference can be described just as easily with the term Sapphic. The “Bi Lesbian” term just reinforces the harmful idea that Lesbians ‘jUsT hAvEn’T mEt ThE rIgHt GuY yEt’.

A personal anecdote: in the past few years, I have begun to actively avoid telling men I’m not close to that I’m a Lesbian. Because they frequently want to take it as a challenge. To “convert” me. The “mspec lesbian” idea actively puts Lesbians in danger by just repackaging conservative ideologies under the veil of being *progressive*. (Invalidating the validity of sapphic identities/relationships, and that ‘ALL women are attracted to men/can be converted’. I have also seen mspec lesbians say Lesbians are terfs as a justification for the new label- while the justifications themselves sound transphobic??? The jist of it usually is- ‘Lesbians are transphobic. The identity is defined by not being attracted to men- So why can they like trans women but can’t like binary trans men! Even though I totally believe that trans women are women and trans men are men!!!’)

Sorry this is long and repetitive. I wanted to try to put as much of my reasoning as I could. While I can empathize with why the bi lesbian label was created (bc I identified as Bi for a very long time + thus became heavily aware of biphobia within the LGBTQIA+ community. Even from Lesbians.)- it ultimately implies that Bisexuality isn’t considered “gay enough” and unintentionally perpetuates the idea that Lesbians can be converted into liking men.

My first thought is this sounds like some radfem Gold Star Lesbian bullshit lol. And yeah this is super long and repetitive, so I'm not gonna worry too much about the quality/conciseness of my response. Guess ill try to just take it peice by piece. I usually don't entertain shit like this but I'm bored today so let's try it.

Why do you find someone else having a different experince than you invalidating? Have you considered that this may be a personal insecurity more so than the responsibility of the people who's identities you're uncomfortable with?

The bisexual label has bever been exclusive of trans/nonbinary people, and the misconception that it is is itself transphobia in action. You say you changed your mind about that label after learning that it isn't exclusive of trans people, congratulations. That doesn't mean that everyone else using the bisexual label just hasn't come to that conclusion yet.

Lesbian has historically included bisexuals and etc. It's never been exclusive, but there have always been exclusive people in every queer community.

Do you think there is any true distinction between bisexual history and gay/lesbian history? Why can't we share words? Why are we all obsessed with being unique? Why does it matter so much if we overlap? Isn't that the point of community? To share and to be different and have overlap, to take joy in each other's experiences? Why are you so intent on defining exactly who can be what? Is the point of queerness not to acknowledge our inate and complex humanity, to say "I am unquauntifiable"? It is to me. But maybe that's philosophical, in which case my practical down-to-earth questions are: who gets to make the rules about who gets to be what, who is going to enforce these rules, and what tool of violence are you granting them to do so? Is it you? Is it the government? Is it an organized elected council of queer elders? Are the freaks who don't follow the rules exiled, shunned, imprisoned?

As for these other words we "already have" like sapphic, have you considered that we "already have" lesbian? Lesbian has historically been a word for women(etc) who are attracted to women(etc). Why did we need to make new words to separate each other? Why did we need sapphic when we already had lesbian? I don't feel that making and using new words is wrong and I support anyone who wants to use these labels, I'm just demonstrating that the logic behind that point of yours is identical when flipped. Lesbian has always been here for people like me, it was the only word we had for a long while, so who are you to rewrite its history?

Your personal experience of queerness is not universal. Words mean slightly different things to everyone, that's how languages and humans work. And that's a good thing. That's the point of all this!

The kind of people who harass and assault lesbians don't care about this shit. Are you seriously trying to blame a whole group of queers for ... queers being harassed and assaulted? The straight cis guys who are chasing and trying to "convert" lesbians already don't think of women and lesbians as people. They're not gonna sit there and debate the finer points of someone's identity before they decide if they want to assault them.

The bigots don't care about our labels. They don't even respect whether someone is actually queer or is just someone they perceive as queer. Outside online discourse like this, a faggot is a faggot is a faggot.

I do not have any patience for anyone who believes certain types of queers make the rest of us look bad. Like seriously why are we still doing this? Also you personally right now with this ask have just repackaged dangerous conservative ideologies under the veil of being *progressive*! This is some seriously puritan stuff you've said here! You say it yourself that you have been a victim of being sexually pursued against your will and that you take certain precautions in life to prevent that from happening, and then you turn right around and blame a whole demographic of people *with that exact experience* for bringing that experience onto themselves *and onto you*! What!

Literally nobody is saying all women have the ability to be attracted to men. I have literally never seen or said that apart from this very ask right here. I guess it could happen, someone could be saying that somewhere, but in that situation I'm gonna call them a misogynistic ass and consider them to not be speaking for all lesbians everywhere. And I don't think it's too much to ask that others use the same level of critical thinking skills in that situation.

And as for the people you have seen saying "all lesbians are terfs" those people are lesbophobic. Those are lesbophobes. I don't know what else you want me to say about that, I don't really see how some people being lesbophobic should impact whether or not a whole bunch of other people are morally correct (?) in using the word lesbian.

Ask rating:

4/10 for nonsense and contradiction

[shan-nanigans]

FE3H Headcanons that I’m too lazy to draw for Pride month

If I don’t have a character here/don’t specify something I probably don’t have any strong headcanons for them. Also, I’m down for pretty much any character being cis or trans, but if I specify them as trans here it’s bc I particularly enjoy trans headcanons of them

Blue Lions: - Dimitri: Bi, monogamous, trans - Dedue: Gay, monogamous, could see him being Demi as well - Felix: Bi - Sylvain: Bi and very in denial about it, transfemme headcanons are god-tier - Annette: Pan, polyamorous - Mercedes: Bi, open to mono or poly - Ingrid: Lesbian, prob monogamous, could see her being some variety of nonbinary - Ashe: Bi or pan, trans

Golden Deer: - Claude: The most bisexual man I have ever seen, polyamorous - Hilda: Bi but leans HEAVILY towards women, polyamorous, trans - Raphael: I cannot stress enough how aroace this man is (probably leans sex-positive but it’s really not a big deal to him) - Ignatz: Panromantic asexual (sex-positive), would enjoy seeing him be some variety of not-cis - Lysithea: Bi - Leonie: Probably aroace, but if she does feel some kind of attraction it’s toward women

Black Eagles: - Edelgard: Bi with a preference for women, nonbinary (uses she/they pronouns) - Hubert: Possibly aromantic bisexual? But more importantly she is a trans woman and she goes by Aversa now - Linhardt: I have no idea what his sexuality is but he is definitely very nonbinary and uses any pronouns - Bernadetta: Pan - Dorothea: Bi, trans - Caspar: trans

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RULES.

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[bisolationist]

Hi catboy I’m just looking for some advice if you don’t mind and I thought it was probably better to ask on this account. So me and my girlfriend (I’m a man) have been together just coming up to a year now. We’re both bisexual although while I’d say I’m equally attracted to both sexes my girlfriend leans very heavily towards women which I knew when we started dating as she only realized that she’s bi not long before we got together. So far this hasn’t caused many issues in our relationship and she seems quite attracted to me but it’s starting to feel like maybe she can’t see us being together long term, which I have brought up with her and asked her if she can actually see herself ending up with a man but she just says she doesn’t know. I don’t want to break up because I really love her but I also don’t want to get hurt later on if she realises she’d prefer to be with women

Oh ahhh hmmm. I feel like you're not going to like my answer.

Bi people can definitely be happy with the sex they don't prefer, even long term. But I have to imagine that if you're starting to feel that way already, it's for a reason, something you feel is missing. Like if things were perfect that feeling wouldn't creep in. And if her answer is that she doesn't know... well if you were in a relationship you wanted to keep long term, you'd know because you want to keep that relationship. So uhm.

Yeah I guess that's my take. Sorry. I feel like if you're asking you don't need anyone to sugarcoat things. Feel free to DM me if you need to talk. I've been there and I know it's Not Great.

[watermelinoe]

While we are having bisexual class consciousness, here’s a rant:

What the fuck is this shit of pretending bisexuals are completely accepted by society and fully oppress gay people along with straight people and biphobia doesn’t exist etc etc because you can be “straight passing”. Meanwhile every single gay person is a poor little meow meow whose life is the polar opposite of a bi person and is personally victimised by our slutty antics.

Cause obviously a bi woman in a lesbian relationship is insanely privileged compared to her lesbian girlfriend, of course. It’s not like the material way they are viewed and treated by society is EXACTLY THE SAME. It’s not like a single gender conforming bi person and a single gender conforming gay person have exactly the same amount of “straight-passing privilege”. It’s not like bi women are victimised by their male AND female partners BECAUSE they are bisexual, and have the highest rate of intimate partner violence as a result.

And I’m not ignoring the fact that bi women can be in a straight relationship and live a life being treated as functionally heterosexual! I’m aware of that! And I have to mention this cause if I don’t put millions of disclaimers on a rant like this the horde will come for me. But the thing is, some bi women can’t have that! It’s not always a choice. I’m bi, technically. I could never be with a man though. I heavily prefer women. Not to mention the fact you can’t actually usually control who you fall in love with, life isn’t a dating app with structured swiping and messaging.

Like literally nobody is saying that bi women have it worse from society than lesbians or whatever, but any time you bring up legitimate problems that bi people have somebody has to shoehorn in that gay people have it worse and you’re a privileged oppressor and you should shut the fuck up. There’s literally no outlet for us to talk about our problems even amongst ourselves cause somebody who thinks they are the only true victim of society has to come along and tell us they have it so much worse.

hmm i partially agree, like i don't understand this "straight passing" argument when it's *only* applied to bisexuals. like you said there are also gay people who "pass" as straight just like any closeted bi person, but ultimately they still navigate the world as homosexuals and bi people navigate the world as bisexuals. and that's a disadvantage either way. but by that logic, i can't agree that we're viewed the exact same... you're describing a situation where a bi woman would be facing homophobia bc she's assumed to be a lesbian, and that's definitely where we have the most overlap in our experiences, but the internal effect isn't necessarily the same imo so we internalize things differently based on our sexualities

i'm the same way though, i'm a febfem bc i could never happily be with a man, i'm more or less penis-repulsed. being bi doesn't mean you're available to men. i know the majority of bi people end up with the other sex, but that isn't the case for everyone lol and even if you're with the other sex that doesn't make you immune to biphobia. the statistics are there.

i do think there are some bisexuals who wanna go on abt this "monosexual privilege" shit but in radfem spaces? there's no reason why bi women talking abt legitimate concerns should be met with "other women have it worse so shut up," like that's literally a men's rights activist talking point to shut down feminists and i yet see radfems saying it unironically to bi/straight women which is wild to me

[musicalmoritz]

I don’t really think there’s any problem with queer people wanting to stick to queer ships, as a lesbian I definitely prefer queer ships to het ones (tho I obviously still love het ships). Heterosexuality is everywhere in society and some queer people just don’t care to have to see it in their escapism. Like you said, people can headcanon the ships as queer if they want but not everyone is gonna want to do that. My thing is more-so that I don’t personally understand how anyone can hate the canon TBHK ships because they fit my exact taste for ships, like people are fully allowed to hate whatever ships they want but it’s just not computing in my brain lol. And Mitsukou was like the main one I was thinking of besides AoiAoi lol

The problem for me arises when people try to claim the ships are bad just because they dislike them, or try to say they aren’t canon. I have had someone fully argue me that Aoi doesn’t love Akane; and I once saw this creator who was like very insistent that HanaNene and Mitsukou aren’t canon because “Kou likes Nene” and “just because HanaNene kissed doesn’t mean they like each other.” That is where the bias comes in imo, and it happens uniquely with both queer and straight ships. People are quick to dispute any canon queer ship just because it’s queer, and people shut down canon straight ships because they aren’t willing to admit they just don’t like them. I’m not in the Sailor Moon fandom but I have seen the “calling it problematic” thing happen with MamoUsa, and from what I’ve heard their relationship is perfectly fine

Not trying to argue with you btw, sorry if my response came out that way!! I just wanted to add a bit of nuance here because this is a subject I love to yap about, your perspective is 100% valid. Sometimes the exclusion of straight ships does feel a little biphobic, I’ve seen some tbhk fans write off Kou’s feelings for Nene as comphet when there’s literally no indication of that in the manga and AidaIro make it pretty clear when a character is fully gay. And I would LOVE to see more transfem/transmasc/t4t headcanons for ships that are straight in canon. I personally headcanon Sakuhiko as sapphics (genderfluid bi Natsuhiko and nonbinary lesbian Sakura ftw). Fandoms tend to be very rigid about trans headcanons and I would absolutely love to see more of them

I also agree that people miss out on a lot of great relationships when they don’t like ships just because they're straight (or just because they’re gay). I understand where they’re coming from ofc but sometimes those biases lead them to miss key elements of the story. Such as AoiAoi haters missing Aoi’s entire character arc and Aoi and Akane’s canon personalities and development just because they refuse to admit the ship is well-written. On the flip side I deadass saw someone try to argue that Mitsuba isn’t important to Kou because “he could’ve easily been replaced with Yokoo or Satou.” I swear this fandom is braindead

And sorry to yap even more but omg you’re SO REAL for the “why watch a media so heavily focused on romance if you hate the romance.” Like again, people can hate whatever ships they want but why make yourself watch something that focuses so heavily on a relationship you hate??😭 If a romance in a show doesn’t look cute to me and it’s a prominent element I simply won’t watch it. This is very much aimed at the people who call MadoHomu abusive but shhh

Anyways yeah I get why some queer people don’t care about straight ships but me personally?? The more women the merrier

I’ll never understand how ppl hate any of the canon tbhk ships. That’s like being cooked a full course meal by a five star chef and saying “nah, I’ll pass”

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Discovering Who You Are

A lot of LGBT+ teens are upset at people discovering their own queerness at a late age, presumably because they expect everyone to just fully accept themselves as some flavor of LGBT+ the second they hit puberty.

It’s not that simple.  It really isn’t.

I grew up in Alabama in the 90s.  My parents were and are very homophobic.  We were Catholics in a heavily-Protestant area.  I learned at an early age that, for some reason I couldn’t figure out, it was wrong for boys to marry boys or girls to marry girls.  Despite my confusion, I was forced to accept that these things were a sin.

I was what my parents’ generation called a “tomboy.”  I preferred jeans over skirts (mainly because I wasn’t allowed to climb things in skirts).  I played more with “boys’“ toys than with “girls’“ toys.  I loved dinosaurs.  I hated floral patterns with a vengeance.  I loved stories where a female character has to disguise herself as a boy to avoid being recognized and captured.  Those stories made me feel a certain way that I couldn’t put my finger on.  My mother assumed I’d “grow out of it” and kept buying me Barbie dolls and pink floral bedspreads that I hated, assuming that I’d come around.

I hit puberty.  I found myself enjoying looking at other girls.  But I also knew I liked boys.  Because I had not been exposed to the concept of bisexuality (we didn’t even have Internet access), I assumed that because I liked boys, I must be straight.  I must just enjoy pictures of beautiful women for the aesthetics.  Yeah.

My college years came.  I found myself admitting that I had a few “exceptions,” women I’d “go gay for.”  I was 21 years old when I was finally able to admit that no, I was in fact bisexual.  By this point, it was the mid-2000s.  I knew, in my heart of hearts, that I could never tell my parents what I’d discovered.  I still didn’t have a college degree or a job that could support me on my own. I would be homeless the moment I said, “Mom, Dad, I’m bi.”  So I kept my damn mouth shut.  (AFAIK, my parents still don’t know.)  I felt relieved to know more about myself, but terrified that my bisexuality could get me fired, blacklisted, my life ruined.

Years passed.  I tried and failed to hook up with a few young women my age who were accepting of LGBT+ folks.  (They were usually already dating someone else, which put a damper on things.)  I met a nice older man who was really sweet and liked a lot of the things I do.  We ended up getting married.

I entered my 30s.  I started seeing a lot more openly trans and NB people on Tumblr (still the main place I tend to see trans and NB people, since it’s dangerous to be open about it in public still).  I learned that some people were genderfluid.  Suddenly, something clicked.  I understood why I thought it would be cool to be “mistaken” for a boy sometimes.  At age 34, I finally realized that I was genderfluid.

These were concepts that I did not have a word for when I was a teenager.  I couldn’t identify as bisexual or genderfluid because I was unaware that these concepts even existed.  Queer rights have come a LONG way since the 1990s, and in conservative areas, attitudes have barely budged.  I have a cousin my own age who thinks that the mention that a certain child has 2 mommies is “adult content” and shouldn’t be in children’s shows.  I have heard years of horrifyingly homophobic and transphobic things from my parents, aunts, uncles.

So yes, older people often take longer to figure out that they aren’t allocishet.  They grew up with no Internet, no queer representation on TV or in the movies, nothing except what our enemies have to say about us.  And those who did know, were in extreme danger if they came out.  It’s not that long ago that being queer, or even suspected of it, got you put in prison.

Hell, even know, if certain people knew I wasn’t cishet, there would be an uproar.  Parents would insist that it wasn’t safe for me to teach their children.

[roachclit]

Not you and another bi woman being biphobic. Do you ever think maybe most bi women that ‘prefer men heavily’ only feel that way due to internalized biphobia and misogyny? You both sound like every monosexual person that stigmatizes bisexuals acting like we are all cheaters who want polyamory and can only be truly fulfilled if we are dating both genders or something.

There are a multitude of reasons why a bi woman might prefer men over women. Internalized homophobia or misogyny are certainly some of those reasons. Or they might genuinely prefer men because not all bi people’s attraction is evenly split between both sexes. Also, statistically, more bi people are likely to end up with the opposite sex simply because the dating pool is so much larger.

As a febfem I feel somewhat alienated by bi women who largely center men in their sexuality. Personally I would prefer to date a bi woman who’s equally or more interested in women because I find her experience more similar to my own. I want to be with someone who loves women loudly and proudly because that is the way I love women. I don’t think I’m being biphobic by having those preferences and boundaries. And if I believed that refusing to date someone was a form of discrimination, then as a gender critical feminist I would be a massive hypocrite. You are allowed to turn someone down for any reason. If someone refused to date me because I was bisexual would my feelings be hurt? Yeah, probably. It wouldn’t feel great. But I can’t and won’t equate that to any form of systemic bigotry.

[realcube]

haikyuu!! boys when you come out to them as bisexual  🏳️‍🌈

characters: yamaguchi, tsukishima & kenma

part two!!

tw// fem!reader, fluff, coming out, 

Tadashi Yamaguchi

ok so hot-take but i think yamaguchi is straight

(or maybe bi but with a heavy preference for females)

but rn he identifies as straight 

but like..he’s so supportive of the lgbtq+ community

like tsukishima gives off ‘gay but homophobic’ energy

but yamaguchi has ‘straight but a strong ally’ energy

and this is hugely bc while tsukishima fell down the alt-right pipeline, yamaguchi was going through that ‘women 😍🤩💕’  phase which i think every WLW has went through at one point

like while tsukishima was watching ‘sjw get rekt compliation #125′ , yamaguchi was watching those heart-wrenching lgbtq+ short films on youtube 

and on tiktok his fyp was probably originally cottagecore (bc it’s his ideal lifestyle ofc) and somehow he is now kinda on sapphic cottagecore tiktok 

like not to fetishize them or anything, just bc he’s awed by how in love they are and that’s kinda what he wants for himself

(also he uses them as date inspo for you and him DFBZVAYUL)

anyway this was just my lengthened explanation as to why - unbeknownst to you or anyone - he was an ally to the lgbtq+ community (if not apart of it)

you didn’t really expect him to be disgusted or unsupportive of it tbh - i mean, it’s tadashi ffs! 💞 you know he’d never break up with you or judge you for something like that, but that didn’t stop you from being slightly nervous

but he was ten times more nervous when you texted him, asking for him to meet you by the local park’s fountain bc you had something important to tell him

mans thought you were dying ngl

he almost burst out crying on the walk to the park bc he imagined a whole scenario where he was sitting next to your fkn death-bed 

but you seemed healthy enough so his next assumption was that you were going to break-up with him

so when he approached you by the water fountain and you noticed that his eyes were glossy and his hair was damp with sweat, you were quite worried for him now

‘tadashi! are you okay?! your eyes are all puffy and red! do you have hay fever?’

yamaguchi rapidly shook his head, hastily escorting you to a nearby park bench so you could sit down beside him, ‘it’s nothing; what is it that you want to tell me?’

‘oh’ you choked, quickly averting your gaze from his kind, damp eyes. ‘it’s- um, i don’t-’ you cut yourself off, mentally cursing at yourself as you had practised what you were going to say to him hundreds of times before he arrived yet you still couldn’t stammer it out

yamaguchi was hanging on each word you uttered, but once he noticed that you were struggling, he placed his hands upon yours and shot you a reassuring smile

you let out a sigh in hopes to relieve your nerves while rehearsing what you were gonna say one more time in your head before blurting it out,

‘babe, erm, i’ve been questioning for a while and i’ve concluded that i’m bi - as in bisexual; and i just thought i’d tell you bec--’

you genuinely thought that you might have to explain to yamaguchi what bisexual means so IMAGINE your surprise when he simply replies, ‘you’re bisexual? is that all you wanted to tell me?’ and once you hum in agreement, he lets out a heave of euphoric relief

‘(y/n), please don’t make fun of me but on the way here, i was almost gonna cry because i thought you were going to tell me something horrible.’ he clutched his chest, breathing heavily - usually he’d never admit to something like that but right now, he felt that it was appropriate

you snickered at his rather exaggerated actions, ‘awh, baby. i’m sorry.’ a pout formed on your lips as you soothingly rubbed his back.

yamaguchi rapidly shook his head before turning the tables and rubbing your back instead, ‘nonono, it’s fine! i’m fine!- and i’m glad you’re fine too.’ he stumbled, hastily placing a kiss on your cheek before whispering in your ear, ‘i’m so proud of you. congratulations!’

although you couldn’t see his face, you could tell from his light voice that he was beaming 

after that, he buried his nose into the crook of you neck and snaked his arms around your waist to pull you into a hug, which you both stayed in for a good 5 minutes

Kei Tsukishima

let’s be honest, tsukki’s definitely part of the lgbtq+ community but in deep denial

like if you ask him, he’s not even questioning his gender or sexuality, he’s just ✨straight ✨

so when you just randomly joked one day ‘oi, four-eyes, turn this shit off. she’s too much for my lil’ bi heart to handle.’ while y’all were watching a movie and you instinctively made an off-hand comment about how gorgeous the female lead was 

upon realising what you just said, you turned to him with the most awkward grin plastered on your face, ‘tsukki, i’m bisexual, by the way.’

‘no shit, sherlock.’ he hissed at your use of that little nickname 

you turned your head to look at him as you blinked rapidly, finally  mentally processing his response 

while he did the exact same thing simultaneously, dramatically turning his head to meet your gaze before muttering, ‘was that you coming out?’

your eyes widened as you realised, then nodded slowly

tsukishima smirked, shifting his attention back onto the movie, ‘congrats.’ he spoke in a mellow voice, a slight sense of amiability laced into his tone 

‘thanks-’

‘have you told your parents yet?’ he quirked a brow, his eyes remaining glued to the screen

you hesitated before shaking your head, ‘no.’ 

‘what about your friends?’

‘yeah, i came out to my friend group a few months ago - along with yamaguchi.’

tsukishima couldn’t help but frown at the fact you came out to yamaguchi before him but honestly, he couldn’t blame you - he was aware that his bitchy exterior probably discouraged you from telling him sooner, so he was just glad that you had the confidence to tell him eventually  

‘so how long have you known that you’re, like, y’know, bi?’  he inquired further

‘a while.’ you hummed, biting your bottom lip, internally so relieved that he wasn’t being too awkward or weird about it

‘good for you.’ he pushed his glasses up the bridge of his nose, not a hint of sarcasm or irony detected in his voice for a change, ‘oh, and good luck with coming out to your parents’

‘thank you.’ you murmur, happily shifting your attention back onto the movie

 tsukishima honestly doesn’t mind/care tbh

like he’s supportive and will beat a bitch up if they don’t accept you - but in general, he thinks that it’s none of his business who you love

as long as it is him (ಥ _ ಥ) 

Kenma Kuzome

ok so fun story 

you were both chilling in his room on a saturday, he was playing on his nintendo switch as always and you were on your phone

you had been meaning to come out to him for a while now but every time you tried, it seemed as though something happened to prevent you from doing so 

for example, you tried to come out to him while y’all were chilling at the park but then a bunch of geese started terrorizing y’all and it completely ruined the mood

so you thought that now you were in his room - where there was less of an abundance of geese - it’d be a better time than any to just lift the burden that had been weighing on your chest

you were as nervous as any one would be but you kept on trying to reassure yourself that kenma would be supportive 

however, he had never discussed any lgbtq+ related issues with you so you had no idea where he stood with that sort of stuff but tbh, he doesn’t give off homophobic vibes 

after a while of staring at the wall and working up the courage, you finally spoke up, ‘hey, kenma. i think i might be bi.’

you mentally cursed at yourself as you didn’t ‘think’ that you are bi but rather you knew that you are bi, yet you felt the need to add that filler just in case things went sour

he perked up upon hearing this and turned to look at you, a small smile gracing his lips, ‘okay, that’s cool. congratulations.’ 

you couldn’t help but beam back at him, ‘thanks, babe.’ you almost whispered, gladly going back to whatever you were doing on your phone

honestly, you were happy to leave the interaction at that - i mean, his brief and calm response was satisfying beyond expected, as it was probably the least awkward way that could’ve possibly gone down

however, what happened next filled you with endless amounts of euphoria 

‘oh, and (y/n).’ kenma said to grab your attention, ‘i’m bisexual.’

you did a double-take 

your instincts told you to throw yourself into his arms and rave on about how proud you are that he had the courage to come out but after a moment of reflection, you had a better idea

‘okay, that’s cool. congratulations.’

kenma automatically pouted at how you used his own words against him when he was clearly expecting a hug, ‘(y/n)..’ he whined lowly, shifting his gaze back onto his game

but you were weak so ofc you pulled him into a hug as you both muttered sweet, reassuring things into each other’s ears

‘i love you so much, (y/n) no matter what.’

‘i know.’ you snickered.

‘bitch-’

‘i love you too. and i’m so proud of you for coming out - you’re so brave.’

‘aw, thanks. so are you, babe.’

‘i know’

kenma playfully nibbled at your neck for being such a clown during a sentimental moment

but anyway, you helped kenma come out so- yeah :))

[purec0nfusion]

The urge to smile say “ggggggaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy” at your phone is a constant struggle.

Also I need to find fics (or jus write them ig) about domestic avengers/mcu characters with Thor/(autistic)bruce, Mobius/(adhd) Loki, (audhd) Tony/(autistic) Stephen S, and STUCKY.

Image having such heavily headcannoned fav characters that they’re practically different people… can’t be me eheheh

Anywayyyyy bc I’m bored here’s my incomplete guide to ‘How Toby sees mcu characters’ enjoy(or don’t idc)

🏳️‍🌈

Bucket Borns: unlabed queer, ✨Steve✨, he/him

Americas ass: bismezzual w/ women preference but if asked he just says ‘I love Bucky 🤷🏼‍♂️’ he/him

Tiny Stank: 🔥raging🔥 bisexual, greyromantic he/him/his

Sherlock Strange: bi 🤷🏼‍♂️, he/him

pEnIs pArKeR: trans -FIGHT ME/j- bismeggual, he/him,

Small hulk: Asexual, panromantic he/him

Lord of Thunder: Pansexual he/him

Licky: bisexual 👏genderfluid 👏intersex👏 pronouns vary from moment to moment

King Val: bisexual with women preference

Mobius Mobius Mobius: unlabed, partial man he/they

To be continued I’m going to get icecream