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hellenhighwater Ā· 2 years ago
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I was waiting for something and wound up watching part of an episode of the Apprentice UK and discovered a new fun fact about myself: watching people who claim to be good at negotiating fuck up literally the most basic negotiation tactics fills me with a wild animal rage
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offthrack Ā· 2 months ago
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[ a lightly tipsy š§šššØš¦š¢ enters the set, still riding the high of her album release, a š‘ ā„Žš‘–š‘›š‘–š‘›š‘” no. 1 placement on Apple Music & Spotify's hip hop charts, and her successful release party. as the host's signal the start of recording, the tune of š™—š™§š™¤š™ š™šš™® infiltrates her ears and compels the artist to break into performance while taking her seat, continuing her dancing while she's being introduced. ]
tonight we got big mama in the building, everybody welcome š’ššˆš‚š„! we saw her on š’š’š’—š’† š’‚š’š’… š’‰š’Šš’‘ š’‰š’š’‘, she got our attention with Soufside and now she's on fire after releasing her first studio album š’š®ļæ½ļæ½ļ潚šš« š‡šØš§šžš² šˆšœšžš š“šžššā€”'cause she is the š‘ŗĶŸš‘ÆĶŸš‘°ĶŸš‘»ĶŸ. thank you so much for comin' out, we been waiting on this one!
"huh? huh? when a real one hold you down, bae you supposed to drownā€”ayeeee, that went over a lotta nigga's heads, for real! definitely happy to be here, thank you for having me. i been busy as hell, doin' interview after interview since before the record even dropped. it's been a wild ride; a fun one, fasho. there's definitely been a few bumps in the road here and there, but yeah. since i dropped it, i been tryna focus on having a good time with my loved ones and just. . .goin' up! you know, this album is a culmination of my real life shit over the last two years. it's only right that now everybody has it, i can finally rest. Right after this interview a bitch packin' for jamaica. then i got invited to a couple of paris fashion week showsā€”just got a lot of shit lined up now that the š‘š‘–š‘”š‘”š‘’š‘ š‘” thing is done, which was putting out a piece of work I'm proud of."
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and you should be proud of it. it definitely blew us out of the waterā€”props to you for sure. bumps in the road are to be expected, though. you pushing boundaries for the genre in a way. female rap is evolving in a way we never thought it could, and you apart of that in a special way. and the cool thing is it seem like y'all are friends. you ever feel the heat of the competition from other rappers? you got a top five out right now that's really doing their thing?
"i mean. . .š‘›š‘œ .į£" [her laughter comes out instinctively at the question, shaking her head.] "nah. rap is a game and i'ma play it well; they my girls at the end of the day, but if anybody wanna lean up and compete i ain't never shy away from it. i only really smoke gas but i'll smoke a bitch out behind my respect. now of course i got my favorites. but i'on know, it's soo many rap girls killin' shit right now. so top 5 is hard. i'ma say monaleo, cardi. . .š‘‘š‘Žš‘šš‘›, i'm not tryna be stereotypical, but meg, glo and kaliii. just based off my playlist."
you and saweetie stay posted up together on socials, so i definitely thought she might be in your topā€”
"woah, hold on hold on hold on hold on. let's get sum' rightā€”i loooove saweetie! that's my girl in real life, fasho. but from a music perspective, i wouldn't say my top 5. but she cold. next question."
confidence is definitely key. it's good to see you got that on lock! and that's a solid top five. it's cool to see women empowerment in an industry thriving off conflict.
"for me, confidence is a non-negotiable. i done seen how insecurity can fuck you up and have you diminishing yourself when you really got it. obviously, i'ma be humble because i know what it's like to be without and be hungry for the game, for a piece of the game. but i'm just at the point where my life is so lit that i don't give a fuck what nobody got to say about me, it's nothing i haven't heard before. i got the house i want, the cars i want. . . the nigga i want. like i don't give a fuck! you either with me or you don't exist."
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okay, okay. you not throwin' shots right now, but online they been posting your lyrics and puttin' names on them bullets. are there other rappers you didn't name that you might have a couple shots reserved for?
"the internet gon' talk no matter what was said. i let 'em 'cus to me that mean i'm part of the conversation. shit, i am the conversation. i'm on your mind and money on mine. we ain't the same, type shit. i talk my shit in my rap because. . .that's real shit i go through. nobody went into the studio wit' a vein poppin' out they head thinking this really gon' get that one hoe mad. now, i can't say the same for my assumed 'opps'. at the end of the day if you felt hit, if that shit applied? then so be it. but a bitch ain't gon' touch me so i'ma keep popping my shit. that simple. bitches be too worried about the comments nowadays, wanna be an internet warrior. put that shit in a song, dead it."
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when you say you're gonna keep poppin' shit, does that mean we can expect any new music? i mean i know the album is still hot on the streets, but on the lowā€”you got some surprises? we saw your tweet about gettin' in the booth with jimmy brooks, that got the people talking.
"definitely full of surprises. i got way more songs that ain't make the projectā€”unfinished shit that only my dog has heard. been in talks of filming a couple music videos for the project. you know, it's a lot of cool shit coming. and as far as š’Žš’“. š’ƒš’“š’š’š’Œš’”,. . . y'all not the only ones that got excited off that. my manager phone been ringing off the hookā€”been getting called for features left and right! it's crazy how one association 'a do that. but you know, me and my girls also have some real cool shit comin' up. can't speak on it just yet, but it's gone be a movie for sure."
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summeroffice Ā· 4 months ago
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1:13 I really like illusions. For some reason it is believed that the state is always the state. Well, government, state. That it is always a highly competent environment where people understand everything, their careers have already achieved certain successes in life and they understand everything. That is, they are ready to work to build ideal systems of relations in one or another field.Ā Ā 
Unfortunately, this does not completely correspond to reality. States are not ideal; the authorities always make certain mistakes. And sometimes, sometimes an official considers himself to be the main unit, let's say, which should monetise its administrative powers and not create conditions for the realisation of opportunities to do business.Ā Ā 
6:46 The task of the state is always to raise taxes. Well, that's how it works. The task of business is always to explain why raising taxes will lead to a recession in one or another field.Ā Ā 
7:42 Well, I [puts hand to chest] for example am a supporter of any kind of relationship that should be transparent. And that is why I believe that economic booking is about transparency. That is, it is necessary to fix the rules so that it is possible to clearly understand how many people can be booked and thus already plan the development of your business. Well, how will the enterprise function in general. And it will be correct.Ā Ā 
9:28 You can see him playing with his hands when another speaker is speaking. He doesn't play with his hands like this (with his ring) when he's streaming.Ā Ā 
30:09 He proposes the audience to ask questions. He says that he's willing to go to the person with his microphone if need be.Ā 
35:50 The concept is always only... In any conflict - it is a conflict, classic - in any conflict, in any concept, it rests on 2 things. First, there is no need to make statements that later turn out to be not entirely true. You have to make it possible to sit down at the negotiating table. Well, this is classic of any conflict situation. Because we always read first, everything is lost, then it turns out that there are nuances that really need to be discussed. It can be solved in part by a public demonstration of readiness for discussion.Ā 
39:45 What is human nature? You always want to bypass the queue without communicating within the framework of institution because it can take 3 days. You want to be able to call for the problem to be taken care of in an hour.Ā Ā 
The queue can be bypassed and everybody sees that others are bypassing it. Of course, a person naturally wants to bypass it too, when he has a similar problem. That is, it is necessary for the state to start not to make preferences for someone, and then probably everyone else will not want to bypass either.Ā Ā 
But it's a road.
41:14 Well, the state cannot be interested in the existence of only big business, because it will monopolise certain sectors. It's not beneficial for us as a state. Well, not for us personally, but for the state. For the state, it is beneficial to have a lot of competitive-- It has an advantage. It is a different type of competition, and there is no cartel conspiracy. And therefore, it is beneficial for the state to have more small- and medium-sized businesses. Then it is a different type of competition.Ā Ā 
42:04 There are just a few questions, they repeat each other, and they all sound approximately the same. Yes, I understand that they are a bit political and it is very difficult to answer them concretely. When will the pressure on business stop, when will the tax-- When will law enforcement agencies stop milking business?Ā 
I will say this. [Facing the audience] Tomorrow the pressure on business will stop. Well, how the question, so the answer.Ā Ā 
The host disagrees and explains that it's a real problem.Ā Ā 
42:57 I agree, in a moment-- I agree from the point of view that there are conflicts, large conflicts, a large number of conflict situations between business and the state. At the beginning we talked about the fact that the state is a little infantile, it is being rebuilt today; so, business is a little infantile, too. How to fight this? Again, there are three ways: publicity, you have a conflict but you don't compromise anyone and just give public information about this conflict. The first.Ā 
The second is the institutionalisation of relations. It can be Ukrinvest. It can be any other platform. The third is communication at different levels, meaning legal communication through the judicial system, even despite the fact that today the judicial branch is considered to be completely fair. Well, that would be a bit strange. But it is also being transformed.Ā Ā 
Why is it being transformed? The question is simple. Because if we want to get the right to be a corporate or collective member of the European Union after 5 years, then our law enforcement system cannot be non-competitive. The courts cannot be non-competitive in relation to other European Union states. Therefore, it will also transform, whether it wants to do it or not.Ā Ā 
How to help it today? Just speak about it publicly. But to talk publicly does not mean to publish defamatory texts about each other. Well, in an abstract way, compromising, right? It means to say that look, we have a court decision, we think it's legal or illegal, why, and give a legal analysis, give an appeal. That's how the system should work.Ā 
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modulationdigitals-blog Ā· 7 months ago
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lindiwe-in-camelot Ā· 2 months ago
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Did she study wildlife.Ā LindiĀ let out a sharp breath of amusement at that thought. "Heavens, no," she admitted. "You should have seen my father's face when I brought home my grades in science." She had dropped sciences as soon as she hit her A levels. "I've been on my local environment board, though, and there's a unique species of newtā€¦"Ā LindiĀ waved her hand over the issue of the newt. "So now I know facts about salamanders."Ā Ā 
LokniĀ denied wanting a bungalow, which was a small blow to her blossoming skills as a real estate agent. Perhaps it was for the best. No one liked real estate agents anyway. "Alright then, well, if you do ever need a bungalow I'll help you sort it out."Ā LindiĀ thought of Paige, and her IKEA catalogue of furniture she definitely wouldn't be able to fit into her dorm room. God, she missed her.
Thankfully, the conversation turned to Darcy, which was just the distractionĀ LindiĀ needed. She could turn her angst over missing Paige to frustration at Darcy's theories. "She wants us all to believe that our lives before didn't happen, which means that she thinks my daughter doesn't exist." It was a complete non-negotiable forĀ Lindi. She smiled, and gaveĀ LokniĀ an innocent look. The same duplicitous, bitchiness she had perfected navigating the difficult social waters of her local mum group. "Of course, maybe you see a different side of her. I wouldn't want to affect your friendship in anyway," she said primly, while internally hoping that she could swingĀ LokniĀ to team anti-Darcy, which coincidentally was the side thatĀ LindiĀ championed.Ā 
LindiĀ listened asĀ LokniĀ explained his work, in awe of the technical terms he used to explain his glory days in the rodeo and the Indigenous Relay Races. It all sounded perfectly interesting, a proper Western out in the wilds of USA, rounding up cattle. Though maybe with fewer shoot outs. "Pity there aren't any horses here, you could have put on quite the show, I'm sure. Without the medical bills."Ā AkhilaĀ wasn't charging, well, there was no point in charging, as far asĀ LindiĀ could tell. Unless she had created a teabag barter system behindĀ Lindi'sĀ back.Ā 
"Oh,Ā horseridingĀ in Oxfordshireā€¦ it's very English, very proper. Lots of dressage and show jumping." Lindiwe did not spend much time with the more country-based mums of the school, the type who walked around in beige jodhpurs and insisted on taking their children out of school to various challenges and competitions. "I never did much horse riding, my daughter had lessons when she was younger. She loved it, right until she started getting asked to help muck out the stables." Like mother like daughter,Ā LindiĀ presumed. She hadn't tried too hard to encourage Paige past her discomfort of shifting horse poo, given theĀ ever increasingĀ costs of lessons and kit and the estimate for buying a horse, let alone maintaining it at the stables.Ā 
"My daughter's name is Paige, she's doing her A levels, I suppose it's the same as senior high school. She's due for university next yearā€¦" That was, if Lindiwe's disappearance hadn't wrecked her. (Perhaps it was simply easier to wave everything off as a simulation, it certainly would have eased the guilt and worry she was constantly being subjected to.) "She's a good kid." Strong, resilient. She would do well, wouldn't she?Ā 
It was easier to talk about herself, how she assisted her community. "Me? I'm a busybody who can't help myself when it comes to organising things,"Ā LindiĀ brushed off his compliment, given how often her involvement in environmental boards and the like earned her eye-rolls and groans of discontent. She was very thorough.
The trees thinned out ahead, sunlight shining through a little stronger. And then, adruptly, there was the edge of the bungalows. Serial killer tendencies avoided successfully. Lindi hovered on the edge of the forest. She liked Lokni, he was easy to talk to, easy to trust.
"Speaking of, I've put out signs for a general meeting, just to have everyone together to talk about what needs to be done on the island." She'd whip everybody up to shape, if given the chance to.Ā "I was thinking like you said, that we need to create a sense of unity. Discuss what we need to doā€¦ in case rescue takes a little bit longer. You know, you should mention your idea about making a community garden at the general meeting. That way we can get more people excited about it." She smiled at Lokni. "We can get Zaid to make us bespoke meals straight from the garden."
"Maybeā€¦ if you're going to stay out in the forest, you'd like to come around to my bungalow once in a while for tea?" she offered, because everyone loved a good cup of tea.
Rather than being put off, Lokni was intrigued. "I didn't know that about axolotyls, that's really interesting. Do you study wildlife?" he asked before addressing her inquiry about the bracelet, "to answer your question though, it feels kinda' like that. Like an extension of me. I don't need it to survive, but I feel that I'll need it eventually." He hoped that his explanation made sense, because to be honest, he wasn't sure that he quite understood it himself. Even though Lindi was driving a hard bargain with the bungalows and their usefulness, Lokni still felt that being off the grid was better for everyone. Lokni had met quite a lot of people, but that didn't mean that he trusted all of them. Most people had a bad side to them, even Lokni, maybe even this kind, energetic woman that he was conversing with. "I appreciate your offer, really, but I think it's best for everyone if I'm on my own. I want to help out, but I don't need to live in a bungalow to do that." The image of him making one of those bungalows his home was... strange. Reminded him of the rez dogs curled up in some ramshackle doghouse. They were all tethered to this island, but that didn't mean that Lokni had to accept it. There was a defiant seed rooted deeply within his heart. He wasn't going to roll over that easy.
Lokni's interest was piqued at her mention of Darcy. "Oh, you mean Miss Palmer? She's really nice, helped me get off of the ship. Are her theories about the island really that strange?" Lokni asked, holding aside a curtain of vines for Lindi to pass through. He was a little surprised at the tone that Lindi took on when discussing Miss Palmer. Had things gone sideways with the two of them? Her probing about his work made him a little curious. Did she really wanna' hear about all of that? "Well, I mainly herd cattle and dig holes for fence posts. Rodeos were for when I was a younger buck. At this age, if I took a tumble off a bull it could cost thousands in medical bills. I did some bull riding back in my day. Did a little bulldogging, reining, roping, but I don't think anything will top the races I did in Calgary. There's this event held in Alberta called 'Indigenous Relay Races.' I was gonna' go this year as well, I had gotten more confident in my horsemanship and wanted to give it another go." Lokni realized that his voice had taken on a lilt, his excitement at recalling the adrenaline he had felt at that time causing him to talk a lot more animatedly. "Enough about me though, what is the horseback riding scene like where you're from?" he asked, taking a moment to stretch, the phantom pains of old injuries ghosting around his ribcage. "Sounds like you really know how to give back to your community. That's really great, you know. I wish that we had had more people like you around on the rez. With the lack of infrastructure and all, we could use more help." He said, his strides in no hurry to get anywhere. It was true, a lot of reservations didn't even have paved roads. Memories of Lokni's poor attendance in school flashed through his mind. Teachers should've been better informed about how hard it was for Indigenous kids to get to school, but a lot of them were too preoccupied with paperwork to study up on reservation issues. When she mentioned her daughter, Lokni gave pause, he hadn't pictured her to be a mother, all smiles and energy. Compared to his own mother, she radiated health and exuberance. What made them so different? He wondered. Regardless, he was curious, "what's your daughter's name? Secondary school... so she's finishing high school, right? I'm sorry, I'm not familiar with systems outside of The States." He didn't know how to respond to hearing how she was divorced, but knowing what his mother and father's situation had been, he just assumed that it was for the best and that he shouldn't pry.
"Zaid's a damn good cook. You gotta' hand it to someone who can make a dish when there's hardly any ingredients available. The crab he cooked for us was great. I don't think I'll ever be able to turn down an invitation in the future. Dangerous man, that Zaid is." Lokni joked, waggling his eyebrows at Lindi in a playful manner. "Do you cook a lot at home? How do you prefer to do things?" At this point, he was bantering, but maybe that was an American trait. Awkward silences made him feel like things weren't right between them, and that he needed to fill it with something. "The fact that there are no cameras out here is why I want to stay away from the bungalows. I don't like it. I prefer my privacy where I'm able to get it." Lokni reiterated. Though, he couldn't expect everyone to understand that sentiment. After all, he had grown up in a place that couldn't afford cameras. Maybe it was just something that he had grown accustomed to. Regardless, he didn't want to just brush off what Lindi was saying, and he appreciated her seeing things from his perspective. It really meant a lot to him. More than he could iterate in his own words. "In all honesty Miss, I think that being "perceived" as a new age hippie here is the least of your worries. If resources start to run dry, it may turn into something much more than just a mission to get home. People can turn on each other in the blink of an eye in times of need." He said cautiously. It wasn't his intention to make the conversation so solemn, but he didn't want Lindi to fall into a false sense of security either. Despite this, Lokni knew that he needed to keep a close eye on the plants around and experiment with how long it took them to replenish their fruit and nutrient-packed roots. "What if we tried to make a community garden? I've collected some seeds from the fruits and vegetables I've been eating. We could probably help a lot of people out that way." Lokni said, looking up with his hands in his pockets. Shooting ideas out wasn't really his forte, but Miss Lindi did have experience with working in communal settings. Judging from the weather here, her wouldn't be surprised if the growing period was year-round, unlike America. They should use that to their advantage. If he did the muscle work, maybe they could make something really nice, for everyone. If they could get the other islanders in on it, they might be able to make a renewable source of food. It would also stave off potential conflict. "Speaking of strange things that have happened, so far aside from what happened with Maria, the strangest thing is me waking up here. I keep having people tell me of strange happenings, but I've not experienced anything too out of the ordinary aside from coming to on the ship." Lokni explained as honestly as he could. Was there something that everyone else was seeing that he wasn't? Lokni almost felt like there was some sort of barrier between him and everyone else. Again. The feeling ate away at him like an infection. Lokni didn't like that one bit.
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potteresque-ire Ā· 4 years ago
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Hello. I just turned to be a turtle recently after being a solo fan mostly because of toxic atmosphere of solo fans. May I ask, were relationships between XZ and YB solos always so intense and also bad attitude to BJYX even during the promotion ā€œthe untamedā€? Or did this conflict start after the events of 2020? Thank you in advance.
Hello, and Happy 2021! Iā€™m a super new fan of the fandom, and so these arenā€™t questions Iā€™m qualified to answer at all. Iā€™m more comfortable providing some wider sociopolitical contexts to fandom-related events because Iā€™ve been reading about Chinese news for a loooong time. My ā€œinvestigative interestā€ (oh dear, that sounds so pretentious) is also more on understanding the CP culture in general, how it ties with the countryā€™s state of affairs rather than focusing specifically on Gg and Dd. While Iā€™ve read back on some history re: gg and ddā€™s fandoms, Tumblr is the only site where Iā€™ve interacted directly with fellow fans.
But Iā€™ve written up what Iā€™ve understand about solo and CP fans for c-dramas so far, mostly for my own benefit (I have a ridiculously poor memory!). Maybe it can offer some insight? This is very new information to me as well; so, if anyone spots something wrong or wants to supplement, please jump right in!
Wars between the fans of the leads of a CP (ā€œshipā€ in English; stands for ā€œcoupleā€) arenā€™t new. Conflicts between solo and CP fans also arenā€™t new.
Competition is the most obvious cause of wars between the fans of the leads of a CP. Especially in the case of M/M pairings, the person ā€œboundā€ to each idol by their CP is also, by default, about the most ā€œdirectā€ competitor one can have. Theyā€™re likely to be of the same age group, share similar fan demographics. Popularity of young male idols (often called ā€œLittle Fresh Meatā€ å°é®®č‚‰, a nickname Iā€™ve abhorred for the decade or so itā€™s come to existence) also isnā€™t expected to last, so the two CP leads must make the most of their newfound fame within the same time frame. The competition is more than fighting for similar roles; in China, another major arena is endorsements, in which an idolā€™s popularity is by measured by 1) the number they hold and 2) the units they sell. Here in the US, stars choose their endorsements based on how well they fit their image; there, stars take as many as they can as long as the negotiated terms are satisfactory. Hence, dd is the spokesperson of 25 products / services in 2020 (including an insurance company (!!)).
Iā€™ve also read about this norm in the industry, which I have yet to verify: in China, if two stars compete for the endorsement of the same brand product, the one who loses will not get endorsements of same products from different brands ā€” at least, not in the short term ā€” because any brand who uses the star who lost would be seen as inferior. Hence, to lose the competition on one endorsement deal can mean losing the endorsement deals for an entire category of products.
(Someone on Weibo has pointed this out: while Gg and Dd have often endorsed competing brands of the same product: Budweiser (gg) and Yenching beer (dd), for example; they have never fought for the endorsement of same brand product. Again, I havenā€™t verified this.)
This part is easy to understand.
The next question is: why are solo fans against CP fans? ā€œGirlfriend fansā€ ā€” solo fans who canā€™t bear to seeing their idol paired up with anyone other than themselves ā€” only make up a fraction of the fandom. How are CP fans generally perceived?Ā 
My key findings so far: CP fans are *perceived* to be more likely to express negative views about their idol paired up with other actors / actresses, which will affect viewership and ratings, restrict the kind of roles their idol will be invited to play. More importantly, CP fans are *perceived* as fickle ā€” more likely to walk away after their favourite CP drama has ended, because as CP lovers, theyā€™re thought to be equally in love with the romantic gestures as with the stars who perform them on/off stage. ie, When another drama comes along featuring the same romantic gestures, the CP fans are expected to jump ship.
I highlight the word ā€œperceiveā€, because while it doesnā€™t matter how solo fans see CP fans, it does matter how the business side of c-ent view CP fans and it appears to share this view. The c-YiZhan fandoms have been unhappy with the publicity of the upcoming adapted BL dramas for this reason ā€” aside from their allegations that itļæ½ļæ½ļæ½s copying The Untamedā€™s BTS, the thing that has offended them the most, perhaps, is the very idea that the marketing departments thought a few ā€œleakedā€ photos of the leads acting intimately close are enough to woo them away from YiZhan, from Gg and Dd.
Given this, perhaps, prevalent view of CP fans, CP fandoms have been viewed as something disposable, almost, to be made, used and discarded quickly.Ā 
Before and during the airing of the drama, the marketing / publicity teams fuel and encourage CP fandoms, reap the benefits in viewership from the ensuing discussions and hot searches. Solo fans usually arenā€™t threatened by CP fandoms in this nascent phaseā€”CP fandoms have been far smaller in size and only grow during the broadcast.
More importantly, the norms have been that CP fandoms do not last.
CP fandoms do have a tendency to ā€œself-combustā€ over time: fans * within * the fandom accusing each other of being partial to one of the leads ā€” spending more money on Aā€™s endorsements, for example, or buying more copies of Bā€™s music. However, this isnā€™t how many CP fandoms die. Instead, once the show is over, the process of ā€œBreaking the CPā€ begins. Iā€™m not sure who gets this process going, but my guess is the leadsā€™ management companies, with consent (willing or unwilling) from the actors. Breaking the CP means having the CP leads avoid each other as soon as the drama is done airing, and for as long as it takes for the CP fandoms to dissipate. It means no more appearing in the same drama and shows; no more sharing a stage; and if they happen to be at the same event, they are to communicate as little as possible. This ā€œloosening the bindā€ between the leads is designed to free the actors up for the next CPs, and its way of execution can be very abrupt, very ā€¦ cruel for the CP fans. For one of 2020 summer dramas (Love and Redemption ē‰ē’ƒ), for example, a popular character (het) CP pairing was broken up in the last fan meet, 10 days after the final episode had aired. The fan meet was marketed as a CP event (there was even merch for the CP); CPs fans bought the tickets, perfectly aware of the unsaid ā€œCPs are made to be brokenā€ rule and itā€™d likely be the last time theyā€™d see their CP together. But the organisers denied them even this last chance; the leads of the CP had no interactions, not even eye contact during the entire event. The actor didnā€™t acknowledge the actress in his farewell speech. The fans understandably got upset; even outsiders sympathised, stating that the CP-breaking could be handled with a little more consideration. Word on the street was that because the male lead already had other dramas lined up, the CP had to be broken up as quickly as possible.
(Weibo Night from almost a year ago was seen as a ā€œBreak the CPā€ event for Gg and Dd. Some turtles still cry at the memory of it.)
Thereā€™s a term related to the breaking of CPs: ꏐē“” (ā€œincreasing the purityā€). It describes the ultimate goal of breaking CPs: increasing the proportion of solo (ā€pureā€) fans by breaking up the CP and having the solo fandoms of each lead absorb the CP fans. Because solo fans are *perceived* to be more loyal (wonā€™t jump ship the next romantic drama comes along), less likely to draw criticisms (especially if the CP is M/M and/or affect the RL lives of their stars), and have more purchasing power (as CP fans have to divide their resources between the two leads and equally).
How does this affect how solo fans see CP fans? Another way to say the above is: one CP fan is one fan the two solo fandoms fail to capture. One more CP fan is one less solo fan. ā€œCP fanā€ should be a temporary identity. CP fandoms sequester resources from the solo fandoms until theyā€™re broken up.
This sets the stage for conflicts if the CP fandoms refuse to fade, if the CP fans refuse to turn solo.
The conflict between solo and CP fandoms is, of course, even more heated for real-person CPā€™s, which can, indeed, pose a significant threat to the leadsā€™ life and career. An easy example of the former is if one of the CP leads are in a RL relationship, and/or if the lead is straight but the CP is queer (this is the case for The Guardian (2018), the first popular adapted BL ā€œdangaiā€ drama). Another major issue with real-person CPs (queer or not) is that the media will make frequent comparisons of the leadsā€™ follow-up career. If the CP ā€œbindā€ remains, the lead perceived as less popular may be viewed as using the more popular one to sustain their popularity. Fans of the more popular lead do not take that well. The management company of the less popular lead takes that even less well, and its PR team will work even harder to eliminate the CP from public discussion.
Overall, the ā€œbreaking the CPā€ strategy works as intended. As long as the CP leads stop interacting, no more new candies are generated for the CP fandoms, and even the best candies have an expiration date. The CP fans move on, often to other CP pairingsā€”the CP breaking process often leave them hurt and disappointed at the leadsā€”and further propagating the perception that they are fickle souls who prefer candies over actors.
With this background, it doesnā€™t surprise me that the relationship between the fans of Gg, Dd, and Yizhan has been so intense since the airing of the Untamedā€¦ it would actually surprise me (much) more if it isnā€™t.
First and foremost, if I take away my YiZhan-tinted lens (as much as I can anyway!), the competition between Gg and Dd automatically becomes The Battlefield in c-ent. Gg and Dd are among the most popular idols right now, and thereā€™s a strong urgency in this competition as idol popularity is perceived to have a limited shelf life. Now, 18 months after The Untamed, Gg and Dd are not only vying for survival in the same industryā€”which may encourage cooperation between the two solo fandomsā€”theyā€™re vying for the throne.
Things are already extra tense that way. Hereā€™s an analogy I can think ofā€”itā€™s easier to accept losing a lottery by getting every number wrong than getting a single number wrong, and by one count. Itā€™s harder for solo fans to accept being number 2, when number 1 was a co-star, the other half of their idolā€™s CP.
Now, into this unresolved tension, throw in a huge curveball known as the YiZhan fandoms. A curveball that isnā€™t even supposed to exist ā€” CP fandoms are all supposed to fizzle out quickly after the show is over. Instead, the BJYX supertopic on Weibo (by far the biggest of the three Yizhan CPs) had 1.5 million members in January 2020. It now has 2.8 million (January 2021).
(For reference, ddā€™s supertopic has 5.4 million members and ggā€™s, 7.7 million.)
These YiZhan fandoms arenā€™t merely living on their last breath, their stale candies. Theyā€™re thriving. Self-combustion hasnā€™t happened. CP fans of Gg and Dd keep finding fresh candies, keep having new things to rejoice and scream about.
If I put myself in the shoes of a solo fan, what does this continued growth of the YiZhan fandoms mean? It means the ā€œbindingā€ between My Idol and That-Other-Idol-Who-Shall-Not-Be-Named, each a contender of the c-ent throne, is strengthening instead of loosening. It means more and more fans of My Idol are exhibiting signs of wavering loyalty, by becoming fans of both My Idol and That-Other-Idol. Fan culture in China is highly organized, requiring strategy, cooperation and obedience when it comes to generating the best numbers for their idol (sells, ratings, viewership etc). Having to rely on the fickle CP fans to generate these numbers means uncertainty and anxiety.
People behave differently when theyā€™re nervous. Some chew on their fingernails. Some attack.
2020, of course, make the solo fandoms even more nervous about each other. Gg, post-227, isnā€™t a safe person to be ā€œbound toā€, and also to have oneā€™s career compared againstā€”given the bad publicity that has circulated around him, given the fact that he has managed to stay on top in spite of it. Dd, meanwhile, has grown in popularity while Gg goes into hidingā€”while I personally do not, for a moment, believe Dd has anything to do with 227, it is within human nature to ask: if one losesā€”and in a manner so publicised, so catastrophic that even the Western media reported on itā€”who has the most to gain? Work culture in almost every industry in China is extremely cut-throat, and securing victory by not-so-clean methods isnā€™t uncommon with the immense pressure to perform. Fans are bringing in their experiences from RL in how they view their idolā€™s competitionā€”with suspicion, with defensiveness. With swords sharpened and ready for counterattacks.
The ultimate cherry-on-top when it comes to causing conflicts between Ggā€™s, Ddā€™s and YiZhan fandoms is, of course, the fact that YiZhan is no garden-variety, heterosexual, character CP. Itā€™s a M/M real person CP, in a society where homosexuality, while legal, is still considered ā€œnon-mainstream valuesā€ and explicitly censored from TV; where personal freedoms have overall been tightening and laws can change overnight. Itā€™s one thing if their idol is truly in a queer relationship and chooses to announce it themselves; itā€™s a whole different story if itā€™s some fans of another idol who ā€œoutā€ themā€”who publicise their queerness that, in the eyes of these solo fans, may very well be fictional. 227 has already confirmed that in c-ent, idols pay the price of their fanā€™s wrongdoings and in this case, all it takes is for the YiZhan fandoms to make a single mistakeā€”to celebrate one candy too loudly, for example (ā€œto dance outside the circleā€), and catch the attention of the wrong government official ā€” to not only cost their idols their popularity, but their whole career. To the solo fans, therefore, the mere existence of the YiZhan fandoms pose a huge risk to their idol that shouldā€™ve been avoidable in the first place. And when they check out the new candies, what do they see? They see Gg leaving hints suggestive of Dd; they see Dd doing inexplicable things that can be linked to Gg. c-Turtles joke sometimes that solo fans are even better than they are at spotting the connections between Gg and Dd. But while turtles see these connections as evidences of a romantic relationship, what solo fans see is the other idol latching onto their own, whose fame makes it a reasonable act; they see it as the other solo fandom carelessly jeopardizing their own idolā€™s career for the sake of more noise and popularity.
The solo fandoms end up fighting. They have few reasons NOT to do so without the YiZhan-tinted lens.
That said though, Iā€™m not sure if the wars between Ggā€™s, Ddā€™s and YiZhan fandoms are truly getting worse. As I write this, my thought is: perhaps itā€™s not that the fans are disliking each other more, but rather, more and more people are getting involved, and the stakes, the risks are becoming higher and higher. Gg and Dd both had fans during the filming of The Untamed, but they were a small fraction, quantity wise, to what it is now. Even if, at the time, 100% of Gg and Dd fans hated each other, they still wouldnā€™t have generated the noise than, say, if 0.01% of Ggā€™s fans are arguing with 0.01% of Ddā€™s fans now. The arguments then, however ugly they could be, wouldā€™ve stayed off hot searches, and largely within the two fandoms. These days, however, when even Gg shaking a pen can make it into hot search (as he did during the Tencent Awards), every heated exchange is amplified by passer-bys, by antis, by done-for-money re-bloggers. Quarrels snowball exponentially to the number of mouths pitching in; so does the antagonistic sentiments behind the hurtful words purposefully or accidentally spilled. Meanwhile, the c-YiZhan fandoms have reached the size that as much as theyā€™ve tried to keep everything away from the public eye, itā€™s not really possible anymore. Search BJYX online, and videos after videos pop up for any outsider who wish to get a primerā€”and thereā€™s no control over that content. Gg and Ddā€™s commercials hint at it. The Tencent Awards show host cued it. Before, the YiZhan fandoms may still be able to get away with a mistake or two. Now, they can make half a mistake and all the info already floating around will make sure that half a mistake will round to one.
If I were a solo fan, perhaps Iā€™d scream my lung out too. Think of how terrible this all is, if Dd(Gg) is actually Gg(Dd)ā€™s most fierce competition, as his being the other half of the CP is meant to be. Think of all the damages these fantastical speculations can do, if My Idol isnā€™t queer and tomorrow, the government comes down with a decree that outlaws queerness. Maybe My Idol will be spared if he isnā€™t at the top. But My Idol is at the top. Everyone will point to him. The hot searches will show his name, make sure the powers-that-be see it. He ā€¦ his downfallā€¦ can be made an example ā€¦
Okay, okay, Iā€™ll stop playacting here. Phew. That was scary * pats turtle shell to confirm its presence * :) . But can you see how deep that fear can go, for a fan who really, really loves and is therefore protective of their idol? How this fear, which stems from love, can turn into hate and generally loud, angry yelling across the internet?Ā 
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Title: edges of the world Author: glompcat Status: WIP/Unupdated Rating: T Summary:Ā  Leia Organa finds herself stuck in a strange alternate/parallel universe where the Empire never came to exist. Meanwhile, trying to navigate a galaxy ruled by the Sith werenā€™t exactly the Jedi Trials Leia Skywalker had expected. Or: Leia from a universe where Anakin never fell and canon Leia switch places. Now the two of them - and everyone else around them - have to deal with the consequences of their dimensional swap.
Title: eros turannos Author: emerald-leaves Status: complete Rating: R Summary:Ā  Love the Tyrant. Oderint dum metuant- Let them hate as long as they fear. AU set in time around the Clone Wars. Note: This fic has unfortunatelyĀ been removed from Fanfiction.net. However, a PDF is available upon request.Ā 
Title: the exchange Author: misslearn Status: WIP Rating: T Summary: The Daughter has a bad day and it irrevocably changes the fate of the galaxy, twice over.Ā Or: ROTS Obi-Wan and Anakin are swapped with their younger, TPM, selves. It changes things, in both parallels.
Title: five weddings and a funeral Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  PadmĆ©'s feeling gloomy about her perpetual singleness, but everything changes when she meets an attractive stranger at her sister's wedding.
Title: flat tire Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: G Summary: Who knew something as simple as getting a flat tire could change the entire course of your life?
Title: for a moment Author: shelivesfree Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  And, just for a moment, all the worries and concerns that troubled the young couple cease to exist. Fade away to just this. Husband and wife. Asleep. Dreaming of the sweet little life they will soon bring into the world and into their hearts.
Title: for a sith to love a jedi Author: silverdaye Status: WIP Rating: R Summary:Ā  Jedi Knight PadmĆ© Amidala, the Heroine with No Fear, has crash landed on a moon after a starship fight with Darth Vader. Now the two enemies are stuck on a strange moon with strange rocks that prevents them from accessing the Force. They form an uneasy truce to leave the other alone. Yet after Vader sees Amidala bathing, she keeps coming back to him and he can't keep his mind off of her.
Title: for you, iā€™ll risk it all Author: estrangedlestrange Status: complete Rating: G Summary:Ā  Darth Vader was certain he had killed PadmĆ© Amidala on Mustafar, but when a rebel broadcast reveals she is alive, he will stop at nothing to free her from what he assumes is captivity. Former Senator PadmĆ© Amidala was certain her husband had been killed on Mustafar, but after seeing Vader across the room during a mission, she is sure that she had been lied to. Knowing the truth, she seeks out her husband, either to bring him back to the light or kill him, which ever was necessary.
Title: friendly competition Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Playing Quidditch is awfully difficult when youā€™re in love with the rival Seeker. Snapshots of Anakin and PadmĆ©ā€™s 7 years at Hogwarts.
Title: fruits of malice Author: therealthing Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  In an alternate universe, Anakin Skywalker was taken from his mother at the age of four. He was raised as Darth Vader in a loveless, brutal environment. His life takes an interesting turn when he has an encounter with a certain senator from Naboo.
Title: future imperfect Author: therealthing Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  A time travel story in which Anakin Skywalker is sent to the future to witness the consequences of his actions.
Title: fundamental force carriers Author: tanarill Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  The Sith Lord Darth Vader lived his life. He probably didn't live it well, but he lived it as well as he knew how. At the end there, he'd even managed to woman up and kill Sidious. But he was dying, and at peace with the past. The past wasn't at peace with him.
Title: getting home to you Author: irnan Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Anakin always said it was Padme's fault, but he was the one who spotted that broom closet. Fluff.
Title: the girl from harvard Author: shelivesfree Status: complete Rating: M Summary:Ā  Absence makes the heart grow fonder. It also makes it grow more paranoid. Padme is in her last year of Harvard. Anakin has just started at the University of Chicago. Though they won't admit it, their long-distance relationship is taking it's heavy toll. Will their love prevail or will the distance prove too much for both of them?
Title: give me a signal Author: stranestelle Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  When PadmĆ© Amidala is unable to contact Coruscant while negotiating a loan on Scipio, the Senate suspects trouble, and sends Anakin Skywalker to go check on her. Of course, the resourceful senator isnā€™t really in any trouble ā€“ don't flatter yourself, Rush Clovis ā€“ but thereā€™s definitely some brewing.
Title: hand in my hand and we promise to never let go Author: gemma Status: complete Rating: M Summary:Ā  Anakin Skywalker was sent to build an elite Jedi team to help end the ten-year Clone Wars. Jedi Knight Naberrie trains hard to be selected and grows closer to the Jedi Master in the process. But with Jedi falling every day in battle, is it safe to follow your heart? Or will war take what's most precious to Padme?
Title: the hardest path Author:Ā  catiiasofia & misschrisdaae Status: complete Rating: G Summary:Ā  PadmĆ© does what she has to for her family. Series: Three Paths Not Followed
Title: heart of a sith Author: therealthing Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Fourteen years have passed since the inception of the Empire. Darth Vader has been asked to go to Alderaan for an unusual reason, one that Vader soon discovers will change his life forever.
Title: heirs of light and darkness Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: R Summary:Ā  After escaping the Jedi purge two years ago made him the most wanted fugitive in the galaxy, Anakin Skywalker has at last been captured by the Empire. He expects to be killed, but Lady PadmĆ© Amidala, the imperial heir, has other ideas.
Title: heretic pride Author: fialleril Status: WIP/Unupdated Rating: G Summary:Ā  Like most Republic citizens, the Naberries have never spent much time thinking about the Jedi. But that changes with the birth of their daughter IlarĆ©. (Or, the AU where the third Naberrie daughter is a Jedi, PadmĆ© offers Naboo as a sanctuary for runaway slaves, Shmi is a conductor on the Tatooine freedom trail, and Anakin jump starts a reformation. Or maybe a heresy. It all depends on your point of view.)
Title:Ā hidden Author: disco shop girl Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Anakin is woken from his dream before it can warn him of his fate. Without that fear hanging over him he feels a disturbance in the force, and chooses to leave before it can manifest itself.
Title:Ā  high above the clouds, my love for you is eternal Author: rogue darth skywalker Status: WIP/Unupdated Rating: M Summary:Ā  Modern Aviation AU. Anakin is a pilot, Padme is a flight attendant. When they meet for the first time he is captivated by her. But much to his surprise she has a young son. This is a story about how bonds are broken, how families are made, and how sacrifice is sometimes necessary to get people where they are meant to be.
Title: hold me in your arms and iā€™m home Author: gemma Status: complete Rating: M Summary:Ā  It's the ten year reunion for students from Coruscant high and more importantly, a long awaited reunion for two former lovers.
Title: home Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: G Summary:Ā  In which "Darth Vader" is no more than Anakin's playtime alter ego (happy Skywalker family AU)
Title: hypnotic takinā€™ over me Author: gemma Status: complete Rating: R Summary:Ā  "By the Forceā€¦ Just how many times had he seen her like this in his dreams? How many times had he run his fingers over her skin? Filled his hands with her perfect backside? Yet, when he was, by some mercy or a cruel joke, granted true sight of her, he was oblivious."
Title: i do take two Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Thirty years after their clandestine wedding on Naboo, Anakin and PadmĆ© decide to finally do the proper wedding ceremony they never got to have, with all their friends and family present.
Title: i know your type Author: shelivesfree Status: complete Rating: M Summary:Ā  "Am I dead?" It slips out, accidentally. She turns her head towards me, a confused look on her face and tips her head. "Excuse me?" Flashing her an impish grin, I lean casually against the wall. "I must have died and gone to heaven, because you look like an angel." The look she gives me is far from impressed. "Do you use that with all the girls, or am I just lucky?"
Title: i wish i could rewrite the stars Author: gemma Status: complete Rating: G Summary:Ā  Suddenly, forever felt like something that could be real. They could make it real, the two of them together and out of nowhere, tears stung at Anakin's eyes. It just meant so much. Padme loving him too was the stuff of his dreams; something he'd only just dared to believe was possible. But she did.
Title: if blood be the price Author: cadesama Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Anakin promised to free all the slaves and it is a promise he intends to keep. Struck by visions of a slave uprising on Tatooine, he runs away to join the fight. Five years later, it his new alliance of former slave worlds that the Republic fears, rather than a Separatist threat. Enlisted to negotiate a peace treaty, Senator Amidala is dispatched to find Anakin, alongside Obi-Wan Kenobi, who only wishes to bring his former Padawan home.
Title: imperial obligations Author: skywalkersamidala Status: complete Rating: R Summary:Ā  PadmĆ©'s advisors suggest that she get rid of Vader and make a politically advantageous marriage. The Empress is less than pleased. One-shot.Series: The Empress and Her Sith Lord.
Title: in his very soul Author:Ā  catiiasofia & misschrisdaae Status: complete Rating: R Summary:Ā  Ten years ago, the effort to liberate Naboo from Trade Federation control failed. Chancellor Palpatine managed to rescue the young Queen Amidala and two of her handmaidens, formally adopting her as his own. The new father and daughter quickly manipulated the Senate into granting him emergency powers and creating the Grand Army of the Republic, letting the Clone Wars begin. Now, assassins are coming for PadmĆ© Palpatine, and her father has entrusted her safety to his mysterious enforcer, Darth Vader. While neither bodyguard nor charge is happy about this arrangement, there is an attraction they cannot ignore.
Title: in search of absolution Author: rogue darth skywalker Status: complete Rating: G Summary:Ā  Padme bit her lip as she placed one last post-it that had the name 'Shmi Skywalker' written on it. She didn't speak. She knew he needed a moment to think - to process what she was silently asking him. 'Are you ready to accept her forgiveness'"She'd want to come to her only son's wedding," She said. He shook his head, "I don't think so. After everythingā€¦"
Title: in the past Author: silverdaye Status: WIP Rating: T Summary:Ā  It's been two months after Bespin, and Luke Skywalker is trying to come to terms with the events that happened there. During a dogfight with Darth Vader, both of their fighters crash. When they recover, they both find themselves on Coruscant at the end of the Clone Wars. Vader still aims to claim his son, but Luke has been taken to the Jedi Temple where he meets Anakin Skywalker.
Title: itā€™s a dangerous love affair Author: gemma Status: complete Rating: M Summary:Ā  Lies, masks, blood and sex. The criminal underworld will swallow you up and spit you out again. One wants revenge and the other wants peace. Can their affair bring the downfall of the two biggest gangs of the underworld?
Title: itā€™s like deja vu all over again Author: shadowsong26 Status: complete Rating: M Summary:Ā  Three days ago, Padme Amidala closed her eyes for the last time in a sterile white room on an asteroid at the edge of nowhere. Three days ago, she opened them again on a sleek, chrome starship, watching Dorme putting on the finishing touches to Corde's headdress, her own weighted braids a comforting blanket on her back. Padme decides to change things, decides she can save Anakin (and the Galaxy) this time. Except, as time passes, she starts to realize things aren't happening exactly the way she remembers...
Title: (itā€™s not so bad) being dead like me Author: estrangedlestrange Status: complete Rating: T Summary:Ā  Recently deceased Anakin Skywalker (killed in an taco truck explosion) finds himself not in the after life but recruited as the newest member of the undead, heā€™s become a grim reaper. Heā€™s told that itā€™s his destiny but really he thinks itā€™s just rotten luck. Rotten except for the fact that one of his fellow reapers is PadmĆ© Amidala, the most beautiful woman Anakinā€™s has seen, dead or alive. As he struggles to come to grips with his death and his new role in the universe, Anakin finds that taking souls isnā€™t the easiest job out there, he also finds himself falling in love. One-shot.
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TERFs are wrong. But, so are social constructionist Gender Theorists
You know it is not a question of one extreme or the other. As much as both like to think they are morally right and have ā€œthe scienceā€ on their side, they donā€™t. Both are god damned annoying, totalitarian, and are interpreting reality and what that means in order to browbeat and push others, both socially and legally, towards doing things based on what those mean.
Both are trying to control the parameters of all things based on the fundamentals by their interpretation of reality, not by the objective facts. Both are wrong.
TERFs are not wrong in that someone that is born with XY chromosomes and a standard male sex conforming body is male, and you need dysphoria in order to be trans. They are not wrong that your gender is not just a wily nily purely social construct.
They are, however, wrong about absolutely everything else regarding what those genders MEAN, where theyā€™re derived from and why they were derived that way.
And the social constructionists arenā€™t wrong in that we should make exceptions to the biological rule for people with transgenderist disorders of the mind and brain. But, they are wrong in that so many are totalitarian. They do not want these exceptions to be exceptions, they want the very basis and fundamental understanding, how we define gender and sex, to change to be based not on biological empiricism, facts or truth, but by legal and social oughts and things they argue ā€œshould be held true else it demoralizes and oppresses a minority.ā€
There are not, ā€œmillions of genders.ā€ Thereā€™s your basic standard assed functioning, and then thereā€™s a disorder we otherwise canā€™t do anything with or about right now where itā€™d simply more healthy for everybody around if we let them live with the identity that is in their minds and body.
Furthermore, the nonbinarist movement needs to stop being such a cowardly little bitch and argue for itself outside the umbrella of trans rights, because it sits there demanding changes and exceptions and validations be made for it on the basis of bowing to trans rights, when it itself hasnā€™t stepped out of its parasitic sphere to fight for any on its own. Strategically using trans rights as a platform for both offensive and defensive purposes.
TERFs, up to now, have been virtually unchallengable because, ā€œyou must be a horrible right wing fundamentalist religious monster to oppose EQUALITY for WOMEN!ā€ And theyā€™ve just skirted on that since the 60s. Which was absolute hell trying to convince anybody that radical feminism was nonsense and harbored deep, authoritarian bends on takes with social ramifications. Yall were in their corner when they were talking about how, ā€œsocietyā€ needed to give women, exclusively, help to go to college because of past oppressions. But when someone tried to tell you they had weird obsessions with vaginas and using them as rubber stamps for whom gets special treatment and privileges and exceptions to defaults that make men do dirty work and women get clean pay? Deafening silence.
But the minute TERFs donā€™t want transwomen in their magical witch girlā€™s clubs, fucking with the cosmology? Ohho theyā€™re visible now. You can see their bullshit now. Theyā€™re weirdos drawing female symbols and self-portraits with menstrual blood and making hacky poems about their uterus, now. Theyā€™re bad people now. You can actually see they werenā€™t, ā€œbeing hyperbolicā€ or ā€œjust venting about the evil MEN around themā€ now. Hahahahaa. Hilarious.
TERFs are wrong. Point blank. But so are the social constructionist extremists and postmodernists behind the appropriated bandwagon of what calls itself the trans rights and nonbinarist rights movement in the west. The basis for which theyā€™ve defined their norms is not one of reality, but ā€œoughtsā€ and ā€œshould beā€™sā€ and ā€œmust besā€ and ā€œor elseā€s. To the point where they invented a slur specifically to denounce those that do not share their view. ā€œBioessentialist.ā€
That makes as much sense as calling someone a dirty, ā€œbioessentialistā€ because they say you need to be an elephant, to be an elephant. Yes, you do need the physical, biological characteristics to really BE that which you aspire to be. No, you donā€™t get to redefine what an elephant is to force the elephant to ā€œidentifyā€ as an elephant so something that is not an elephant can also be an elephant.
If misgendering someone is triggering for a minority, itā€™s just as triggering when you deny someoneā€™s sexuality or gender when theyā€™re hetero and cis. And many are repulsed by the idea that the reason theyā€™re compatible with their sex and gender conformation is because they, ā€œmade a choice.ā€ For that matter, if youā€™re actually transgendered and not some bandwagoneering asshole, being trans isnā€™t a choice either. Itā€™s a psychological and neurological impossibility to be anything else, not a lifestyle, not a hobby, not a ā€œpreferred state of mind.ā€ Arguing anything else is arguing not for trans rights, but for psycho-social dominance in law.
And if you think misgendering someone thatā€™s transgendered is bad, people that make up at MOST, 0.7% of the human species, and some say as few as 0.3% of the human species (people with cleft lips, born missing limbs and more are born more often) then what the FUCK do you think it is, redefining the identities and realities of 99.3% to 99.7% of the human animal, not to mention how every other animal works? (not counting some exceptions like clownfish.)
Gender is not, wholly, a social construct. Itā€™s a derivative and plutoā€™s shadow from SEX. SEX is not psychological. Sex is not negotiable. Sex is biological and disease can make it express incorrectly or correctly to function as intended by natural selection. Gender is only a social construct in that some cultures have assigned thoughts and characteristics and responsibilities for people on the basis of said sexual role. Thatā€™s it.
But people that try to live purely in the psychological sphere or argue that sphere belongs in the dominant position for mankind try to argue itā€™s the only one that really matters, and while weā€™re at it, lets let the minority dictate what is normal and rational and good. So their believe gender as feelings supersedes sex as reality.
And why would they argue this? Because theyā€™re, ā€œjust such big fans of trans rights?ā€ No. Because they hate disparity and immutable, biological difference. And so want to use the arbitration of human law and culture to marginalize it and pretend it doesnā€™t exist- to where using technology to circumvent it and the penal system to enforce that view seems like a reasonable, moral thing to strive for. Trans rights for these people have always just been a nice coat of paint to put their real activism under.
And the biggest bitch of it all is, Radical Feminists and Trans Inclusive Radical Feminists and Social Constructionists all receive their marching orders from the same ideology. The same stupid take that says bugger reality, live in a communal fantasy and enforce everybody else to live in it, too. Else theyā€™re a bad person. Else theyā€™re a fascist. They merely differ in the rules and the fundamental parameters.
Know the difference between, ā€œthis person is bad and they should be shamed for their beliefs because they are bad,ā€ and, ā€œThis person is bad because theyā€™re sitting on a throne that I want to sit on as is rightfully mine.ā€ TIRFs donā€™t hate TERFs because theyā€™re wrong, they hate them because theyā€™re in the middle of a power grab.
But we have the opportunity to end this ā€œCritical Lensā€ shitshow forever. Both sides are exposed and showing their true colors as terrible ideologies and people. Both sides are showing their totalitarianism in the form of competitive propaganda and using the legal system to get their way based on past manipulations and exploitations they got from lying to a public that didnā€™t want to be misogynistic or prejudiced against the transgender.
All it takes is connecting the dots and understanding just how and why itā€™s not a matter of ā€œbitter evil borderline-conservative Karens Vs. noble oppressed transgenders.ā€
TERFs are fucking NOT conservatives. Theyā€™re typically the same far-left assholes as the TIRFs. They differ ONLY in that they believe critical theory fucking STOPS at the immutable reality of biological sex, because they stand to lose dominance if itā€™s not immutable- so they demand it be CONSIDERED immutable. Their status as oppressed inherently, hinges on it.
So thatā€™s it then. Youā€™re left with no real heroes in this fight. But if you take anything away from what Iā€™m telling you today, itā€™s that you can argue legally for trans rights. Just, on the basis as exception to the biological basis, as has been proven. Asterisks. Hyphens. Acknowledging the reality that the existence of the transgendered does not negate the reality of biological sex, nor those whose genders are a direct result of their biological sex as the norm.
Itā€™s not bigotry to sexually discriminate to some degrees. When dealing with subjectives, itā€™s a matter of argument. When dealing with biological realities and imperatives, opinion is irrelevant to the self-evident realities, and interpretation matters less than the reality.
But to those that believe any discrimination based on physical differences or state is inherently wrong, just the idea of male and female being two different, named things, (ā€classesā€, if you will) with different, ā€œunequalā€ functions and capacity, fills them with rage.
Your moralism stops where nature begins. Period.
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I know this is controversial but do you have any johnlock non-con or (preferably) dub-con for the twisted minds out there? If it's roleplay even better. If you don't do this sort of stuff just ignore me.
Hey Nonny!
Ahh, I usually donā€™t so I donā€™t have a lot of personal recs (moreā€¦ it just happened in the fic and itā€™s a side issue), but Iā€™ll give you the ones I have bookmarked as well as the ones I have on my MFL list, if only to bloat this list a bit more, LOL.
Cheers, and as always, if anyone has some recs, please let us know!
NON-CONSENT / DUBIOUS CONSENT
See also Alexxā€™s Lists:
John bottoms, Dub-con - Johniarty, Johnlock, Johncroft
Alpha!John, Omega!Sherlock & the Dub-con sex
Dubcon Johnlock
Drugged Non-con sex
Johnlock non-con and dub-con sex
And my alternate list:Ā Consent and Relationship NegotiationsĀ 
Upon Waking by joolabee (E, 3,901 w., 1 Ch. || Mild Dub Con, Magical Realism, Angst, Somnophilia) ā€“ It sets on slow: John can only be awake while Sherlock sleeps, and vice versa. Their lives are codependent, but never meeting. Like a set of scales.
A Certain Kind of Hunger by MapleleafCameo (E, 5,881 w., 1 Ch. || Magical Creatures || Incubus!John, Worried Sherlock, Tail Penetration, Somnophilia, PWP, Threats of Non-Con) ā€“ A concerned Sherlock watches as John seems to be rapidly losing weight. What he discovers is that John really isn't normal. And he is very, very hungry. The tail was the real surprise.
Caves in the Mountains Are Seldom Unoccupied by starrysummernights & TheMadKatter13 (E, 7,925 w., 1 Ch. || Were-Creatures, Werebear John, Pseudo Bestiality, Rimming, Dub Con, Rough Sex, Come Inflation / Eating, Size Kink, PWP, Bratty Sherlock, Rutting) ā€“ ā€œThis isnā€™t something to play at, Sherlock,ā€ he snapped. ā€œIf it doesnā€™t work out- what youā€™re asking of me- we canā€™t shrug and say 'oh well, at least we tried'. If we do thisā€¦ I could seriously hurt you. Do you understand? I could lose control. I couldā€¦ I could kill you.ā€
On the Losing Side by missselene (E, 8,210 w., 1 Ch. || Anal / Oral, First Kiss / Time, Angst, Misunderstandings, Mild Dub Con / Drunk John) ā€“ After Mary's death, John moves back into Baker Street, but is still upset at the loss of his wife and child. Eventually, he and Sherlock stumble into a sort of relationship, but it's more physical than anything and they don't talk about it. They especially don't talk during sex. If they are going to have sex, Sherlock notices the signs hours beforehand, and he prepares carefully. The lights are off, they're under the covers, he prepares himself using lots of lube so he can make it feel as much like a woman as he can, and he doesn't let himself make any noise so that, if John wishes, he can pretend that he's still with Mary.
Better Than One by Innerspace (E, 14,760 w. 1 Ch. || Threesome, Self-cest / Clone Sex, First Time, BJā€™s, Power Play, Slight Dub-Con) ā€“ Sherlock creates a clone and discovers things about himself and John he never imagined. John is just along for the ride, so to speak.
Kintsugi by distantstarlight (E, 14,772 w., 1 Ch. || Post S4, Emotional Hurt / Comfort, Regret / Remorse, Loneliness, Separation, Drug Use, Healing, Protective John, Sad Sherlock, Dev. Rel., Complicated Relationships, Love, Angst With Happy Ending, Sherlock is Called Freak, Johnā€™s Penance, Voyeurism, Doctor/Caretaker John, Guilty John, Detox, Fingering, Love Confessions, Cuddling, Slight Non-Con Turns Enthusiastic Consent, Virgin Sherlock) ā€“ Sherlock Holmes becomes estranged from the man he had once considered his best friend after John lets him down horribly in public. It seems that the world's only consulting detective will be on his own once again...or will he?
The Midas Touch by flawedamythyst (E, 32,231 w., 1 Ch. || Magical Realism, John has a Magical Cock, Dub Con, Healer John) ā€“ John Watson has a medical condition that means everyone he sleeps with is instantly healed of all illness and injury. This causes complications when Sherlock breaks his arm, and even more complications when Sherlock falls in love with him. Yes, this is a story where John has a literal magic healing cock. It's a lot less cracky than you're probably imagining. Warning: Contains complex issues of sexual consent, although not between Sherlock and John.
A Love with No Name Series by aceofhearts61 (G to M, 49,955 w. across 20 stories || Asexual Sherlock / Straight John, Est. Rel, Queerplatonic Relationship, Romance, Cuddling, Fluff, Platonic Romance, Domestics, Rape/Non-Con) ā€“ In which Asexual!Sherlock and Straight!John are platonically in love life partners.
Coventry by standbygo (E, 52,020 w., 26 Ch. || Dollhouse AU || Case Fic, Slow Burn, Sci-Fi / Fantasy, First Kiss / Time, Attempted Rape/Non-Con, BAMF John, Falling in Love) ā€“ ā€œLet me get this straight,ā€ John said, wondering when his life had become a science fiction film. ā€œSome guy orders up a personality, a person, to his specifications, and they program this into a real live person, who has consented to do this, and she goes to this person and acts as his wife, or lawyer, or Royal Marine, or Navy Seal or what have you, and she has all the skills, all the knowledge, everything? Then you say the magic words, and she follows you back to The House, and they erase it all until her next appointment?ā€
Scars by SilentAuror (E, 60,494 w., 5 Ch. || Rape / Non-Con / Abuse, Gaslighting, Manipulation, Dub Con Elements, Homophobia, Angst With Happy Ending, Mary is Not Nice) ā€“ S3 rewrite, showing Maryā€™s manipulation of John as he realizes his love for Sherlock. Mary is not having it.
A Cure For Boredom by emmagrant01 (E, 81,665 w., 8 Ch. || Dirty Talk, Threesomes, Light Dom/Sub, Sex Club, Experiments, Anal, Mildly Dubious Consent) ā€“ Theyā€™d never talked about sex in the year theyā€™d known each other. Well, that wasnā€™t quite correct: Sherlock had never said a word about sex; John had bemoaned his personal dearth of it on many occasions.
Secrets and Revelations by Hisstah (E, 83,535 w., 9 Ch. || Sentinel / Guides Omegaverse AU || Adventure, Violence, Anal / Oral, Omega!John / Alpha!Sherlock, Case Fic, Politics, Mild DubCon) ā€“ Dr John Watson has some major secrets that he's kept from his flatmate, Alpha Sentinel Sherlock Holmes. Now the Sentinel Tower is after him. Can John stay out of their hands until he can reveal his secrets to Sherlock? Part 1 of Secrets and Revelations
Not Broken, Just Bent by Schmiezi (E, 87,585 w., 43 Ch. || Pining, Love Confessions, Rape/Sexual Assault, Torture, Hurt/Comfort, Heavy Angst, Villain!Mary, Suicidal Ideations, Main Character Death, Sherlock First Person POV, Parentlock, Sherlockā€™s Mind Palace, Grief/Mourning, Emotional Love Making, Possessiveness, Depression, PTSD, Kidnapping, Virgin Sherlock, Eventual Happy Ending) ā€“ "For a second, I allow myself to remember teaching John how to waltz. There is a special room in my mind palace for it. A big one, with a proper parquet dance floor. For a second, I go there. I remember holding him, closer than the World Dance Council asks for, excusing it with the fact that we are training for a wedding, not for a competition. For a second, I feel his hand on mine again, smell his sweat, hear the song we used. For a second, I allow myself to love him deeply. For a second, only a second, that love reflects on my face." Fix-it for S3, starting at the end of TSoT. Evil Mary.
Shatter the Darkness (Let the Light In) by MojoFlower (E, 109,683 w., 23 Ch. || PODFIC AVAILABLE || Genie/Djinn AU || Magical Realism, Kidnapping, Genie Sherlock, First Kiss / Time, Case Fic, H/C, Angst, Clubs, John Whump, Mild DubCon, Hand / Blow Jobs, Torture) ā€“ Fairy tales are for those who remember how to dream; not John Watson, broken and hiding from his bleak future in a beige bedsit. But then he discovers a lamp and finds himself in the dangerous riptide of an enigmatic man whose very existence is unbelievable, murder charges against his sister, and the growing pains of feeling alive once more.
Ten Days by Engazed (E, 137,208 w., 31 Ch. || Rape/Non-Con, Post-TRF, Angst, Hurt/Comfort, Torture, Case Fic) ā€“ Sherlock Holmes has been dead for forty months, and John is at last beginning to live his life again. But just when he believes he might be happy, his world crashes back down around him. John is named a missing person. Someone is pointing DI Lestrade in the wrong direction. And as the days pass, his situation only grows more dire. It seems like the disappearance of his best friend is the only thing that can bring Sherlock Holmes back from the dead. Part 1 of The Fallen
A Fold in the Universe by darkest_bird (E, 152,869 w., 26 Ch. || Omegaverse / Prime Universe Crossover || OmegaJohn / AlphaSherlock, First Kiss / Time, Friends to Lovers, Established Relationship, Angst, H/C, Dub Con, Humour) ā€“ Alpha Sherlock and Omega John are in a relationship. Prime Sherlock and Prime John are not. So what happens when a freak fold in the universe switches one John for the other?
The Gilded Cage by BeautifulFiction (E, 326,887 w., 31 Ch. || Omegaverse || Omega Sherlock / Alpha John, Friends to Lovers, Dub Con, Reproductive Rights) ā€“ In a world where Omegas are the property of the elite Alphas, locked away and treasured by those wealthy enough to buy them, John never questioned his flatmate's secondary gender. Sherlock Holmes was an Alpha through-and through. Wasn't he? A chance discovery turns the world on its head, and John is left grappling to come to terms with Sherlock's past as events conspire to threaten their future.
MARKED FOR LATER
Three drinks or was it five by iriswallpaper (M, 1,455 w., 1 Ch. || Mild Dub Con / Drunk Sex, Morning After, First Time, Awkwardness / Awkward Sex, Idiots in Love, Avoiding The Talkā„¢/Miscommunication, Fluff, Happy Ending) ā€“ Sherlock wakes up beside John, naked in his bed, after a night of getting hammered together on very good Scotch. Trying to spare John embarrassment, Sherlock makes as much noise as possible to indirectly wake John, all the while dreading the Very Important Talk he knows John will want to have.
Scars by Mildredandbobbin (M, 2,516 w., 2 Ch. || Post-TSoT/Pre-HLV, Rape/Non-Con, Hurt/Comfort, Rape Aftermath, Past Torture, Pre-Slash) ā€“ On his honeymoon, John starts receiving anonymous texts with increasingly disturbing images. He discovers how much he doesn't know about Sherlock's time away. Part 1 of the Scars series
No Means No by lindor1306 (M, 3,606 w., 1 Ch. || Post-TRF, Underage / Non Con / Rape / Child Abuse, Dub Con, Drunkenness) ā€“ When Sherlock attends a party with John, he finds himself in a horribly familiar situation, and learns the meaning of the word 'No'.
Tumblr Mini-fics #7: Triskadekaphilia Fic Fest - The Johnlock Fics by berlynn_wohl (E, 3,791 w., 16 Ch. || First Time, Alley Sex, Dub. Con., Loss of Virginity, Oral Sex, ABO Dynamics, Mpreg, Omega Sherlock, Sub Sherlock, Orgasm Delay/Denial, Chastity Device, Drugged Sherlock, Milking, Omega John, Experiments, Nudity, Yoga) ā€“ In March 2013, I celebrated 1300 Tumblr followers with my Triskadekaphilia Fic Fest. Followers requested a pairing and a kink, and I wrote a fill for each that was 13 sentences long, with one sentence that was 13 words long, and with one word that was 13 letters long. These are the resulting Johnlock fics. Part 7 of the Tumblr Mini-Fics series
If You Go Out in the Woods Today by Sexxica (E, 5,247 w., 1 Ch. || Fawnlock, Mythical Beings/Creatures, Teen John, Virgin John, Anal Sex / Fingering, Mildly Dub. Con., Bottom John, Top Sherlock, Outdoor Sex, Blow Jobs) ā€“ You're sure of a big surprise. 18 year old John Watson certainly didn't expect to stumble into the realm of a forest god, let alone one demanding payment in order to let him and his friend Mike leave.
Company by lookupkate (E, 6,004 w., 2 Ch. || BDSM Club AU || Dom John, Sub Sherlock, Soft Dom John, Mentions of Previous Bad D/S Relationship, Past Non-Con, Humiliation, Happy Ending) ā€“ Sherlock goes under cover to suss out an embezzler at a BDSM club. His past is marred by an ex-boyfriend who verbally abused him under the guise of a D/s relationship. What he thinks he needs is a little different than what he needs. Luckily he's placed with someone who can see how fragile he is, Dom John Watson. Once the case is over he realises how much he's going to miss the man. Damn.
Let's go home by thewallflower07 (M, 6,333 w., 2 Ch. || Post-S3, POV Lestrade, Cuddling, Snuggling, Protective John, Hurt/Comfort, Hospital, Restraint, Psychological/Physical Torture, Emotional/Psychological Abuse, Non-Con Touching, Non-Con Drug Use, Kidnapping, Fever Dream/Hallucinations, Villain Mary) ā€“ Lestrade is driving John to the hospital and helps him bring a heavily injured Sherlock home. In a flashback Mary had kidnapped Sherlock and played her cruel tricks on him. Sherlock is walking through a weird London where nothing is logical and he sees a John Watson he no longer recognizes.
Splat! by Vulgarweed (E, 6,618 w., 1 Ch. || Historical Appalachian 1970ā€²s AU || Dom / Sub, Gunplay, Knifeplay, ā€œNon-Conā€ Roleplay, Switchlock, Anal, Rimming, Bondage, Hunting Kink, Rough Sex, Object Insertion, Dirty Talk, Comeplay) ā€“ Sherlock decides he does want to go hunting with John after all. But not for deer. Part 2 of the The Bone Fiddle series
Pulse by SoftTae (E, 6,620 w., 1 Ch. || Vampire AU || Vampire John, Human Sherlock, Dark John, Dub Con, Rape/Non-Con Elements, Blood Drinking, Anal, Light Bondage, Violent Sex, Biting, Vampire Sex, Angst, Preditor/Prey Dynamic) ā€“ This was written for a friend who asked for vampire John, and human Sherlock.
Black Cat by CatieBrie (E, 7,158 w., 1 Ch. || Psychological Horror, Supernatural Elements, Disturbing Themes, Body Horror, Sex, Major Consent Issues / Possible Rape, MCD, Intent Magic, Ambiguity) ā€“ Heā€™s watching Sherlock crawl up his body, doesnā€™t have to see to know he has a blade tucked away somewhere, knows his body will react no matter what. ā€œDo you know what this is, John?ā€ Sherlock holds up a doll made of rudimentary cloth stuffed with god knows what. Itā€™s wearing a crude rendition of Johnā€™s favorite striped shirt, denim pants and the hair is too fine and blonde-shocked-grey to be anything else but his.John tries to answer, has no voice, shakes his head. ā€œItā€™s a poppet.ā€ Sherlock explains, pushes the arms together and Johnā€™s limbs react, snapping to his sides and remaining there even as he tries desperately to struggle free.
Perception by orphan_account (M, 7,821 w., 1 Ch. || Rape/Non-Con) ā€“ John is perceptive sometimes.
A Chemical Defect Found (On the Losing Side Remix) by AreteArt (M, 7,978 w., 1 Ch. || First Time / Kiss, Friends to Lovers, Mildly Dubious Consent, Angst, Fluff, Misunderstandings, Pining, Anal / Oral Sex, Frottage) ā€“ A remix of missselene's "On the Losing Side." After Mary's death, John moves back into Baker Street. He and Sherlock stumble into a relationship, or something of that sort. Sherlock's rather giving when it comes to sex, but that doesn't mean he and John ever talk about it.
A Study in Asexuality by ladyxdarcy (M, 8,082 w., 1 Ch. || Asexual Sherlock, Bisexual John, Acephobia, Mentions of Rape/Corrective Rape Therapy, Past Suicidal Ideation, Implied / Referenced Drug Use, Overdose, Past Mary/John, Emotional Sherlock, Insecure Sherlock, Vulnerable Sherlock, Est. Rel., Angst with Happy Ending, Fluff) ā€“ When Sherlock, asexual to his core, fears that John may grow bored of a sexless life, he decides to do whatever it takes to make John happy so he stays. Good thing John is already happy.
as if not spoken to in the act of love by coloredink (E, 8,288 w., 1 Ch. || Dubious Consent, Codependency, Angst, Drama, Consent Issues) ā€“ Sherlock endures the indignities, bodies squirming against one another, the sweat, the saliva, because of John's jam in the fridge and sour-breathed kisses in the morning.
Making History by SaraDobieBauer (M, 8,622 w., 6 Ch. || Vampire AU || Season 1, Vampire John, Dark John, Bondage, Dub Con, Virgin Sherlock) ā€“ Sherlock Holmes lay unconscious and handcuffed to Johnā€™s bed. John had been waiting for this day ever since heā€™d first met the consulting detective. He'd been waiting for centuries really.
Slave by skadi_zlata (E, 15,654 w., 1 Ch. || Slavery AU || Rape/Non-Con, Graphic Depictions of Violence, Dub Con, Abuse, Angst, Hurt/Comfort) ā€“ In the gambling dens of a vaguely AU London, John Watson has won and lost fortunes in a night. One evening he winds up playing with entirely the wrong crowd, the kind of people that make him feel heā€™ll be lucky to get out of there with his life ā€“ let alone anything else. But the announced prize is somewhat unexpected. Itā€™s an abused slave with dark curly hair and mesmerizing blue-grey eyes.
Kingdoms Rise by colbee (E, 15,668 w., 1 Ch. || Post-TRF, References to Canon, Graphic Descriptions of Crime Scenes, Mentions of Rape) ā€“ "The name is Sherlock Holmes, and I broke in."
The Wench Is Dead by Chryse (E, 15,915 w., 1 Ch. || Underage, Extreme Dub Con, Flashback, Manipulative Relationship) ā€“ ā€œYou thoughtā€¦not just you, Molly too. Probably everyone assumed it. You thought that bad things happened because I used drugs. That I made terrible choices and got myself hurt. And you werenā€™t wrong, not exactly. You just got it backwards.ā€ What Sherlock put in the box. Part 2 of the Another Country series
Evidence of Human Life by thesardine (E, 16,906 w., 1 Ch. || Possessive Sherlock, Mental Health Issues, Rough Sex, Dubious Consent) ā€“ Sherlock's sanity deteriorates while he and John are stranded on a deserted island.
Broken Wings and Cigarettes by solisandluna (NC-17, 20,298 w., 10 Ch. || Violence, Abuse, Rape, Hurt/Comfort, Angst, Sherlock Whump, Dark Story) ā€“ Sherlock has been missing for two years. So when he is found in a cellar, tortured and raped, how will John help him recover? Can he get over the shock and guilt of seeing his seeing his friend so abused? And can Sherlock be fixed?
A Question of Intent by Mildredandbobbin (E, 22,129 w., 6 Ch. || Omegaverse || Dub Con / Consent Issues, Misunderstandings, Knotting, First Time, Switching, Mating Cycles, Top/Bottom O!Sherlock, Top/Bottom A!John) ā€“ Sherlock was on the bed, naked, writhing, tangled in the sheets, on all fours and apparently in the full throes of a Heat. So very not good, the non-lizard part of John's brain was saying -- the enlightened 21st Century, reconstructed Alpha part, the part that supported Omega contra-heat, equality, pro-choice, the Omega rape legislation and general gender liberation. The part that knew Sherlock did not, obviously did not, want to copulate with him and certainly did not want to bond.
Consent by KeelieThompson1 (M, 26,466 w., 11 Ch. || OMC, Rape/Non-Con, Rape Recovery, Sexual Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Developing Relationship, Triggers) ā€“ Sherlock has a difficult past regarding sex which John discovers when he tries to change their relationship.
Dubious by mslilylashes (M, 29,907 w., 14 Ch. || Rape/Non-Con, Dub. Con, Abusive Relationships, Victor Trevor) ā€“ John says every time Sherlock says 'stop' he will do so immediately. Sherlock knows that there is always a point that most men say they can't stop. The idea that John might be so much more than what Sherlock has come to expect from other men intrigues him, so he begins an experiment in consent. John begins to realise he is being tested, but he doesn't know why. (Does he ever when it comes to Sherlock?) All he knows is that something happened in Sherlock's past to make him think that what he wants or doesn't want doesn't matter in the bedroom. Then the nightmares start. Part 1 of the Dubious series
Lessons in Astronomy Series by CaitlinFairchild (E, 31,164 w. across 3 stories || Angst, Post S3, Grief/Mourning, Mildly DubCon, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Physical Abuse, Oral/Anal Sex, Unrequited Love, Pining, Sibling Incest (No Actual Holmescest), Masturbation, Accidental Voyeurism, Drug Addiction, Romance, Dev. Rel., Trust Issues, Happy Ending) ā€“ In a different time, a more naive time, Sherlock thought he was the star and John the satellite, circling him in worshipful orbit. He knows now that was never true. John was always the sun, bright and fierce, and Sherlock was the pale, cold moon, his only heat coming from the light he reflected. And then his sun went into supernova. Moriarty said he would burn him and he has, and John is the fire, his rage and grief incinerating Sherlock, burning the heart out of him in the end, turning him into nothing but cinder and ash. And now the supernova is collapsing, a black hole born where there was once warmth and heat and love, and Sherlock is being pulled down, down past the event horizon, into the endless frozen void where nothing can ever escape.
Unsettled by AxeMeAboutAxinomancy (E, 33,879 w., 10 Ch. || HIs Dark Materials AU || Daemons, Dark Themes, Non-Con) ā€“ Sherlock's dƦmon hadn't settled. Once John realised that, so much made sense. Though so much else didn't, because it practically wasn't possible. Part 1 of the The Utmost Edge of Hazard series
The Half-Life of Love by Calais_Reno (E, 38,751 w., 12 Ch. || Dev. Rel. Angst with Happy Ending, Obsessive / Possessive Sherlock, Different First Meeting, Manipulative Mycroft, Drug Withdrawal, Rehabilitation, Pining, Mild Dub Con, Abusive Parents) ā€“ ā€œMaybe we met too soon or at the wrong time, under the wrong circumstances,ā€ said John. Sherlock shrugged. ā€œHypothesis Contrary to Fact: none of these 'what ifs' happened, so itā€™s all pointless speculation. We did, in fact, meet at a specific time and place.ā€
Renegades by augustbird (E, 39,405 w., 12 Ch. || TRF AU, Dubious Consent, Torture, Drug Use) ā€“ Ā Sherlock Holmes takes down Moriartyā€™s syndicate. He also takes John Watson with him. AU of The Reichenbach Fall.
Shadow by MapleleafCameo (M, 40,845 w., 11 Ch. || Rape/Non-Con, Supernatural Elements, Non-Con Kissing, Non-Con Touching, Dub Con, Implied Slavery, BAMF Molly, Angst, Creepy) ā€“ Invaders from an alternate universe, another dimension, invaders called Shadows have humanity fighting for their own survival. John, captured by the Shadows, has more to fight for more than he originally thought. Eventual Johnlock.
Defrag by 7PercentSolution (T, 43,748 w., 21 Ch. || Graphics Depictions of Violence, Rape/Non-Con, Underage, Angst, Drug Use, PTSD Sherlock, Memory Palace, Case Fic, Mental Health Issues) ā€“ Sherlock's hard-drive needs to be cleaned up; viruses detected, malware files deleted, memory freed up, order restored. Follows on chronologically from Musgrave Blaze, but there will be enough back story to stand alone if you haven't read that yet. An important Part of the Game Theory Series. Part 4 of the Game Theory series
Silence by halloa_what_is_this (T, 44,993 w., 13 Ch. || The Piano Fusion || Victorian Sherlock, Dub Con, Voyeurism, Permanent Mutilation, Johniarty, Mute John) ā€“ In 1850, John is a mute young man forced to marry to save his father from indebtedness. His sister as his interpreter and his piano to keep him company, he travels to London to live with his husband James Moriarty. Without John's consent, James sells the piano to his friend Sherlock Holmes, who only asks for lessons from John in return. The lessons turn into a power play between the two when Sherlock proposes a deal: John may earn his piano back one key at a time, certain conditions attached. Part 1 of the Aborted Wings series
Mind the Gap by orphan_account (E, 45,089 w., 6 Ch. || Victor Trevor, Dubious Consent, POV First Person Sherlock, Character Development, Friendship, Pining Sherlock, Fluff, Introspection, Parent Death, Vulnerable Sherlock, Doctor John, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Friendship, Child Abuse, Implied Sexual Abuse, Domestic Abuse) ā€“ An introspective journey through the life and relationships of Sherlock Holmes. "I can hear the bones hum beneath pale and freckled skin, this sack that holds my form together. Bits and pieces that start at the bottom and end at the top, hiding the blood, muscle, fat. Cells, knit together, constantly in motion. They'll live and die, and replicate, until total equilibrium is met."
Vault by masterofall14 (M, 47,766 w., 23/31 Ch. || WiP || Loosely Inspired By Room, Non-Graphic Rape/Non-Con, Parentlock / Sherlock Has a Son, PTSD, Eventual Johnlock, Suicide Attempt, Pining John, Sherlock Loves John & Vice Versa, Big Brother Mycroft, Triggers, Creepy Magnussen, Happy Ending) ā€“ Jack lives in Room with his Pa, Sherlock. They share everything, except the secret that Jack isn't privy to... Room is in Appledore's vault. Magnussen and the woman his Pa calls the Wicked Witch visit when Jack sleeps and Jack can't explain where the bruising on his Pa's body comes from... But if they get out, how will they both cope after years of imprisonment? Even Sherlock, who can imagine nothing other than the four walls he has known for thirteen years...
The Night Is Darkest by missselene (E, 48,461 w., 8 Ch. || Post-TLD, Extremely Dub Con, S4 Rage Monster John, Insecure Sherlock, Self-Esteem Issues, Sexual Exploration, Healing, Self Care, Self Acceptance, Sexual Exploration, Casual Sex, Gentle Sex, Sherlock/OMC, Threesome with 2 OMCs, Implied/Referenced Domestic Violence, Communication, Internalized Homophobia, Relationship Negotiation) ā€“ Ā Sherlock Holmes would do anything for John Watson... and that includes letting John do whatever he wants to him. What would it take for Sherlock to stand up for himself and finally start taking care of his own needs?
Command Structure by 221b_hound (E, 49,034 w., 16 Ch. || PODFIC AVAILABLE || Post TRF / Not S3 Compliant, Dom/Sub Play, Dom John/Sub Sherlock, Oral/Anal, Anal Fingering, Frottage, Past Child Abuse, Anxiety Attacks, Captain Watson, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Protective John, Slow Build, PTSD Sherlock, Consensual, Past Dub Con, Rimming) ā€“ Sherlock Holmes returns from his hunt to destroy Moriartyā€™s network. He comes home to John, and at long last they start this thing between them that couldnā€™t begin while Moriarty threatened them. But Sherlock has returned fractured and suffering anxiety attacks. He thinks he needs discipline - the whip - to help him focus and be strong. But his problems are deeper and run back to a childhood of neglect. John Watson is prepared to be Sherlockā€™s Captain, but heā€™s a doctor too. His command style isnā€™t about pain and subjugation. Itā€™s about care and responsibility: and those concepts go in both directions in Captain Watsonā€™s command structure.
Brotherly Bargain by xenobia4 (E, 50,187+ w., 17/19 Ch. || WiP || Rape/Non-Con Elements, Graphic Depictions of Violence, Abuse, Torture, Blood and Gore, Fisting, Dismemberment, Non-Con Oral, Object Insertion, Watersports) ā€“ A violent drug cartel abducts Sherlock Holmes after two of their operations in the UK have been shutdown. They upload the videos of torture online, gaining the attention of both the British government and Mycroft.
Musgrave Blaze by 7PercentSolution (T, 64,527 w., 28 Ch. || Equestrian, Country House, Series One, Murder Mystery, Case Fic, Graphic Depictions of Violence, Rape/Non-Con) ā€“ Mixing ACD canon, Sherlock and John are drawn to the rolling hills of Gloucestershire to investigate the mysterious disappearance of a horse, the death of its trainer, and the theft of a three-day eventing trophy from Musgrave Hall. Multi-chapter case fic that brings back some old memories for both men.
Roommates are for little people by alexxphoenix42 (E, 69,042 w., 14 Ch. || Teen/Unilock || Forced to Share a Bed, Pining, Hurt/Comfort, Fake Relationship, Sherlock is a Prick, Drinking, Inadvertent Drug Use, Family Wedding, Footballer John / Ballet Dancer Sherlock, Frottage, Slow Burn, Mild Dub Con, Cuddling While Sleeping, Slight Homophobia, Posh Boy, Dirty Dancing, Endearments, Nosy FAmily, Bathing Together, Mild Angst, UST/RST, Enemies to Friends to Lovers, Fluff) ā€“ John was looking forward to seeing his friends back at uni, but a new year brings new complications, not the least of which is a dorm room with only one bed, and a stroppy roommate with an utterly spectacular arse. God, John doesn't need the headache.
Sherlock's Bane by toggledog (E, 70,095 w., 19 Ch. || Post-TRF, Rape/Non-Con, Rape Recovery) ā€“ John's friend, DI Toll, is brought onto a case involving murder and the destruction of a Mozart bust. He starts sexually harassing Sherlock. Toll being such a likeable guy, this appears to go unnoticed by everyone. Sherlock, himself just wants to work on the case and not cause trouble for John. However, the harassment starts getting more and more obsceneā€¦
Next Right: Welcome to Westbound Rest Area 818 by elwinglyre (E, 73,618 w., 16 Ch. || American Unilock AU || Bunk Beds, Anonymous Sex, Homophobia, Closeted John, Roommates, Angst with Happy Ending, Idiots in Love, Music, Rape/Non-Con, Hurt John, BAMF John) ā€“ Sherlock Holmes dreams of escape from his smothering family and space to breathe. Studying chemistry at the University of Michigan, he's almost far enough away to fill his lungs. Almost. While John Watson dreams of being a doctor, he also dreams of being with another man. John knows that with hard work and study, he can make the first a reality, but he's certain the second can never be. Until a secret encounter in the dark at Rest Area 818 changes everything. When Sherlock meets his new roommate, John Watson, he sees a man in the closet. Sherlock hides from no one. Except from his own family, a detective inspector who wants his evidence returned, and his secret encounter at Rest Area 818. Setting late 1970s, Michigan, USA. POV third person alternates between John Watson and Sherlock Holmes.
This Is Your Song by agirlsname (E, 79,990 w., 19 Ch. || Moulin Rouge Fusion || Prostitute Sherlock, Poet John, Acting, Singing, Dancing, Writing, Poetry, Musical, Song Fic, Heavy Angst, Unreliable Narrator, Sherlock is French, Love at First Sight, UST, First Kiss/Time, Frottage, Coming in Pants, Anal Sex, Switchlock, Clothed Sex, Crossdressing, Secret Relationship, Forbidden Love, Jealousy, Terminal Illnesses, Grief/Mourning, Breakup/Makeup Sex, Past Drug Use, Attempted Rape, Canon-Typical Violence)ā€“ When John Watson is invalided home from the army in 1895, he moves to Paris to rediscover his writing and find a new meaning in life. His old friend Stamford invites him into a group of artist friends, and suddenly John finds himself auditioning to write a show for the famous brothel across the street. There, he meets the most beautiful man heā€™s ever seen - Sherlock, the star of the Moulin Rouge. But Sherlock is already promised to the investor of the show, the rich Duke Moriarty.
Stranger at the Gate by bendingsignpost (E, 85,190 w., 11 Ch. || Vampire AU || Vampire Sherlock, John with a Sword, Hypnotism, Vampire Sex, Dub-Con, Lying Sherlock, Vampire Puberty) - Ā As far as initiation rites go, kidnapping a human doctor from a defended town ought to seem extreme. When James Moriarty offers him the challenge, Sherlock never considers saying no.
A Study in Slavery by sweetinsane (M, 88,538+ w., 12/? Ch. || WIP || Dark / Slavery AU || ASiP, Angst, Domestic Violence, Rape/Non-Con, Slow Build, Dehumanization, Sexual Slavery, Child Abuse, Master/Slave Dynamics, Dark Content) ā€“ John has never owned a slave of his own, but after returning from Afghanistan is awarded one with his pension. A disobedient male slave with way too much troubling history, however, is not what he would have chosen himself.
Fade To Black by twistedthicket1 (M, 93,389 w., 29 Ch. || Split Personality Disorder, Action, Romance, Violence, Implied Rape/Non-Con, BAMF John, Fluff and Angst, Baskerville, Human Experimentation, PTSD, Implied Self Harm) ā€“ John Watson believes one day he'll just fade. That he'll drown in the black spaces of his mind, and that one day he will no longer exist. It's always been like this, the dark spots marking out moments in his life he can't remember. Where for just a moment he's someone else. Having a Dissociative identity disorder, he can't even be entirely sure he's really who he says he is. Then he meets Sherlock Holmes. A brilliant detective who when he looks at you can read your entire life story. John is immediately fascinated and afraid, half-wondering if maybe Sherlock can see the other personalities in him and half terrified of the thought of him finding out. Becoming his flatmate seems at once to be a wonderful and horrible idea. Yet as John's Blackouts become more and more severe and his other personalities begin to truly awaken and show themselves with Sherlock's help, the two soon discover that sometimes even the kindest person can harbour a demon best left untouched inside of them. Because not all of John's other personalities play nicely and some may be hiding secrets best left undisturbed...
A Waste of Breath by Chryse (E, 95,452 w., 25 Ch. || References to Drugs, Dubious Consent, First Time, Friendship / Love, Hurt / Comfort, Angst) ā€“ John had always assumed Sherlock was uninterested, untouchable, married to his work. He was wrong on all counts. But when Sherlock embarks on a relationship, John worries that he is in over his head.. .and this time he might be right.
We're All A Little Mad Here by angelblack3 (E, 98,019+ w. across 4 works || Series WiP || Dark AU, Obsessive Behaviour, Stockholm Syndrome, Torture, Kidnapping, Dark Sherlock, Abusive Relationship, Bondage, Aphrodisiacs, Rape/Non-Con, Painplay) ā€“ In this universe, Jim got a hold of Sherlock way before he ever met the ones that were meant to save him. Now, they're happy business partners. Though, according to Jim, Sherlock isn't nearly as happy as he could be. He should find someone like Jim found his dear pet Sebby. Sherlock is skeptical, until he finds an army doctor with a psychosomatic limp in a twisted sense of fate.
Riptide Lover by jinglebell (E, 114,090 w., 20 Ch. || Merfolk & Victorian AU || Mermaid Sherlock, Human John, BAMF John/Sherlock, Possessive Sherlock, Oral Sex, Hand Jobs, Mild Gore, Dubious Interspecies Consent, Stockholm Syndrome, Dark Romance, Dubcon and Morality, Rough Sex, Abstract Mentions of Rape, Size Queen, Switchlock, Foot Fetish) ā€“ The year is 1866. When John becomes swept overboard, he never expects to encounter a living creature of myth. When the merman absconds with John, the lost sailor must use every tool at his disposal to convince Sherlock not to kill him. But it seems that killing John Watson is not what the deadly, beautiful creature has in mind at all...
Thirst by bittergreens (E, 122,257 w. || Post TGG, POV John, Angst, Pining John, UST/RST, Masturbation, PTSD, Sexual Fantasy, First Kiss/Time, Nightmares, Frottage, Friends to Lovers, BAMF John, Mildly Dub Con, Hurt/Comfort, Oral Sex, Rain Sex, Voice Kink/Porn, Loud Sex, Rimming, Fingering, Dirty Talk, Case Fic, Baths / Bath Sex, Mild Gore, Psychological Torture, Fluff, Slow Burn) ā€“ When John realizes he has feelings for Sherlock and decides he must keep those feelings secret at all costs, the resulting tension might bring Baker Street to the ground.
"Merry Christmas" I wrapped it up and sent it with a note saying "I love you" by starrysummernights (E, 135,132+ w., 30/31 Ch. || WIP || Post S4, Slow Burn, Mary is Not Nice, Christmas, Fluff, Smut, Angst, Parentlock, Past Torture / Rape) ā€“ John has moved back into 221B with his daughter Rosie after Mary was killed, but things are not exactly comfortable between him and Sherlock. After everything that has happened, they are trying to become friends again...and maybe something more. What better time than the Christmas season?! Takes place after TLD.
A Little Help from my Friends by Ttime42 (E, 140,776 w., 28 Ch. || BDSM AU || Switchlock, Fluff, Verbal Abuse, Bondage, Hospitalization, Military Kink, Teacher/Student Roleplay, Consensual, Punishment, Violence, Blood, Knives, Past Drug Use, Dub Con, Masturbation, Case Fic, PDA, Stalking, Johnā€™s Giant Junk, Aftercare, Kidnapping, Happy Ending) ā€“ In a world where everyone identifies as either a dominant or a submissive, Sherlock is having a rough time moving on from a bad relationship and has sworn off doms forever. John has recently returned to London from war and has a fortuitous run in with an old friend in a park. Sherlock and John's lives are changed forever because of that chance meeting, and they'll both find their way through life with a little help from their friends.
The Frost Is All Over by Chryse (E, 148,518 w., 21 Ch. || Pining Love, Implied / Referenced Rape / Non-Con, Period Typical Homophobia, Virginity, Teenlock, Major Illness, Implied / Referenced Child Abuse) - John was brave and clever and loyal, a commoner who longed for an exciting life. Sherlock was dashing and brilliant and passionate, an Earlā€™s son who longed to solve crimes. Being a Tale of Glorious Adventures, Love Letters, Treachery, Longing, Secret Identities, Deathbed Confessions, First Kisses, Daring Escapes, and True Love.
Failing Upward by elwinglyre (E, 204,847 w., 40 Ch. || Parallel Universes || Rape/Non-Con, Graphic Depictions of Violence, Magical Realism, Science Fiction, Supernatural Sex, Non-Con Unwanted Frottage, Memory Loss, First Time, Angst, Hurt/Comfort, Immortal Johnn, Friends to Lovers, First Person POV John) ā€“ When John Watson, a young med student who supports himself as a florist-by-day and musician-by-night, finds he is heir to supernatural powers that others would kill to possess, Johnā€™s life transforms into a mixture of comedy and terror. As he fights to understand whatā€™s real and whatā€™s imagined, he travels from one alternate universe to another. Along the way he finds the key was there all along: his brilliant best friend, Sherlock Holmes, the man who becomes the touchstone for all that John is and ever will be. Set in current day cities and countryside of Michigan, this story blends romance, magical realism and science fiction with humor. Part 1 of the Failing Upward Universe series
A River Without Banks by Chryse (E, 203,286 w., 23 Ch. || Alternate Realities || Angst with Happy Ending, Depression, Suicide, Violence, Torture, Rape/Non-Con Elements, PTSD, Serial Killers, Virgin Sherlock) ā€“ "You love this, being Sherlock Holmes."He had once. When had it all gone so wrong?
The Jewel in the Tower by PoppyAlexander (E, 207,079 w., 39 Ch. || Dystopian AU, Violence, Rape/Non-Con Elements, Mild Dub Con, One World Government, Class Issues, Assassin John / Geisha Sherlock, Self Esteem Issues, Slow Burn, Espionage, Miscommunication, Sexual Fantasy, Masturbation, Letters/Texting, Phone Sex, Infidelity, First Time, Blow Jobs, Dirty Talk, Injury Recovery, Panic Attacks, Frottage, Scars, Misgendering, Happy Endings) ā€“ In a contemporary dystopia, Unity is peace ā€“ despite the fact unsanctioned information, illicit currency, and every sort of danger flows unchecked in the world's pleasure districts. John Watson, a weary hired gun, is assigned by the mysterious Mentor to investigate a subversive element lurking in the Icehouse, the world's most famous House of Repose. As accustomed as he is to dealing with the unexpected, John is nevertheless woefully unprepared to meet the gem of the Ice house, Xie, the world renowned "drashaskaya," the living work of art after which all other drashas are modeled. In sumptuous suites, amid trailing puddles of silk and fervent whispers in the night, John soon learns that nothing is as it seems in the floating world of London's pleasure district. (PUBLISHED AS ā€œAt Night in the Floating Worldā€)
Conductivity Series by liriodendron (E, 207,367 w. across 7 works || TRF / Post TRF, ReunionCanon Typical Violence, Developing Relationship, Friendship, Romance, Sexual Tension, First Kiss/Time, Synesthesia, Power Dynamics, Self-Harm, Drug Use, Case Fic, Est. Rel., References to Drug Use, Homophobic Language, Religious Content, Intercrural Sex, Unrequited Love, Angst, References to Suicide, Injury, Anal, Dub. Con, BDSM, Suicidal Thoughts, Violent Sex, Suicide, Grief/Mourning, Break Up) ā€“ In which Sherlock Holmes locates his heart, John Watson learns what it's like to burn, and there is no darkness that cannot be made bright.
Deflowered - Directorā€™s Cut by Lorelei_Lee (E, 328,535 w., 51 Ch. || Mafia / Mob AU || Rape/Non-Con, Dub-Con, Boss John/Rentboy Sherlock, Bottomlock, Virgin Sherlock, Pining Sherlock, Jealous John, Prostate Milking, Sounding, Anal Beads/Plug, Anal Sex / Fingering, Spanking, Begging, Blow Jobs, Riding Crops, Begging, Romance, Desperation, Minor Character Death, Implied Self Harm, Violence) ā€“ It should have been strictly business. Being a Mafia boss with a sadistic sexual streak, John had long since realised that his playthings were in it for the money only. Being a masochistic rent boy, Sherlock seemed too good to be true. Little did they knowā€¦
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A Quick Overview to Taking an Invention to Market
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If you are an inventor or supplier of a new product, competitors can be a major problem. For this factor, I am often asked just how to secure an invention or new product from being stolen or "knocked off."
In my experience, the response to the competitive challenges is to develop a technique based upon the objectives for the invention, the certain product itself, and the approach to be taken.
Developers take one of two major techniques to make cash with their invention: certifying the invention to one more business or ending up being a maker themselves. I will first talk concerning the technique for a licensing strategy.
Before describing some strategic options, I need to discuss that the magnitude of worry of revealing others an invention at this phase is typically overblown. In my experience, a business will seldom rip off an invention at this phase. The majority of item firms, including those inclined to knock-off items, have lots of brand-new products underway at any type of given time. They are focused on ending up and also launching the stockpile. In a lot of cases where "burglary" is assumed, it is likely a plain coincidence. I am frequently offered extremely comparable suggestions from individuals who can not have an understanding of each other.
I ought to likewise deal with points I have made somewhere else regarding patents and also nondisclosure agreements. They are devices that can be useful, however generally, they're far much less powerful and effective by themselves in the real world of affordable consumer products than most inventors as well as lots of experts believe them to be. You can also check out InventHelp Commercials for more information and advice
Please note: I am not an attorney, as well as while I will attend to several of the legal devices made use of in this procedure, this is based on my very own experience and also should not be taken into consideration legal advice.
Method for the Licensing Technique
When licensing an invention, the main purpose is to develop the assumptions with the business you are approaching to license your item that your invention would be of value to them and also it remains in their benefit to enter into a lawful licensing agreement with you as well as pay you for it as opposed to just replicating it and also claiming "thank you for the pointer."
Here are several ways to create the assumption of value:
A prototype that plainly illustrates the functionality, creativity, and also utility of the invention is a valuable, if not vital, tool. Although these people check out items daily, the effect of being able to hold and also try a new item vs. describing it or revealing an illustration is significant.
Provide details. Product groups at companies, especially little or midsize companies, are putting on several, several hats. This is, after all, one-factor inventors can be useful to them. When an item supervisor advocates for launching a new product, being geared up with crucial market information that sustains his choice can drastically raise his dedication to an invention. Market research can have a significant impact. As well as by this I suggest info concerning security problems as well as competitive products, and also beneficial market statistics or stats they may not have considered to be appropriate. And we like it when creators have real focus group information from the core target customers.
While this may seem secondary, based on the first-hand experience, I can state that for firms that have licensed products before, the assumption of the creator and also exactly how easy (or challenging) they believe it would be to function with them is an actual element. As many service masters have claimed, people do organization with people they like.
As soon as the worth of the invention has been established, it's important to be clear that to protect the civil liberties to take this product to market, the possible licensing partner will require to implement a licensing agreement. In licensing negotiations, intellectual property security, or at least the look of defense, is typically important, regardless of the intrinsic weaknesses I discussed above.
Discover and understand the offered options from a certified expert. While practically it is possible to create and submit intellectual property filings oneself, I advise using a qualified and registered patent attorney or representative. There are nuances in using language, as well as leveraging and using IP law is hard to pick up from the ground up.
In this procedure, the most essential phrase I can think about is "patent pending." Having the ability to provide your item as patent-pending includes in the regarded worth and it shares a warning (" We better not replicate this or we can get filed a claim against"). So file what you can to be able to properly compose "patent pending" on your sell sheet, prototype, website, calling card, as well as anywhere your product, will be shown.
Depending on the intricacy and also the attorney or patent agent's prices, having a utility patent prepared and submitted by a specialist can set you back thousands of dollars. Nevertheless, if you think licensing to be a sensible method, having been issued a practical energy patent, or having one in process, is a beneficial device in this situation.
If filing an energy patent promptly is not an option, there are various other means to achieve patent-pending conditions. Probably the fastest and also least pricey method is to submit a provisionary patent application. A "provisional" never, in fact, becomes a patent but works as a place-holder (or date-holder) for when, as well as if, you do file a patent.
A developer has twelve months from the date a "provisionary" is submitted to then file the utility patent application. Along with having the ability to utilize words "patent pending" throughout this period, it additionally supplies time to find a licensing companion. At this juncture, several options exist:
As soon as a partner has been found, the utility patent can after that be filed.
The "provisionary" can be licensed as part of the negotiation-- as well as the worry to file the utility patent.
The licensee might license the "provisionary" and also discover they are content to continue without the energy patent as any type of variety of current products does not have licenses.
The technique for the Manufacturing Approach
Most of these actions can be taken if the technique is to take a product to market. Nonetheless, the thoughtful technique will be various.
When taking the item to market, there is no need to produce the "assumption" of value with an additional supplier. Actually, in this method, the assumption should be made that once the product has begun to amass a meaningful market share, rivals will take notice. As well as considering that licensing the invention is not the main objective, safeguarding IP to produce a property to certificate additionally has less importance. Consequently, the protective approach in this technique is mosting likely to be made to hinder the competition's capacity to duplicate you by enhancing the danger as well as price-- regarded or actual-- of knocking you off. This will get priceless preparation for the market. So the method is to use whatever lawful devices are offered-- as well as cost-justified-- to create obstacles to being duplicated and also to win with marketing.
While some creations are patentable, in my experience, the patentability of an invention is frequently uncertain. I have often consulted with creators that invested the majority of their offered capital on their patent applications to locate that the result was either a declined application or a substantially narrowed-down, less-useful version of their initial application; this is why numerous product companies don't also trouble with patents. That same cash is made use of to create an excellent product and also to win at marketing. You can also follow InventHelp Linkedin
If the cost/benefit of declaring and preserving an energy patent is suspicious, then it may be useful to submit a provisional patent application at a fraction of the cost of a patent. This will certainly delay the need to submit an actual patent for twelve-month, which might or may not be the chosen path, and provides 12 months' lead time with the capacity to make use of the caution of "patent pending" on packaging throughout this period.
A hallmark can be asserted by just beginning to use the ā„¢ after the brand name as well as item name (done by typing "tm" between parenthesis). Second, filing for a government registered trademark prices significantly less than a patent, and also the bar for demonstrating infringement is less stringent. Produce a fantastic product and offer your sellers as well as customers fantastic value from the start.
Design product packaging that is both captivating and also easily merchandised.
Establish targeted marketing as well as Public Relations project that fits your budget. Note: Restricting advertising to trade magazines targeting retail buyers and also at a trade convention as well as making use of Public Relations to create nationwide brand name recognition as well as need from end-users is commonly most cost-efficient at an early stage.
While not an assurance, lots of merchants will believe difficult before giving a peg or shelf room to a thing that is similar (a knock-off) to yours. They will pick your rival if the new thing wins at advertising and marketing (is of much better top quality or is valued in a means that enhances their margin).
Be a trusted vendor with outstanding customer care.
Safeguard your brand impact in the store by developing complementary products rapidly.
Book as lots of URLs as you can economically justify that relate to your item as well as trademark name and ideas.
Be generous, make pals in the sector, and develop your affordable intelligence.
Know who one of the most likely rivals are and also enjoy them very carefully.
Despite the course you pick to take, there will certainly always be risks. As well as in organization-- specifically the product service-- the threat of competition is constantly existing. Nevertheless, if protecting the invention/product is integrated into a natural strategic plan with multiple techniques based on the technique to be taken, the chances of success will be significantly enhanced.
The Fact of Patents as well as NDAs Some would claim that the "noticeable" way to safeguard your product is to file a patent. As well as sure, there are some scenarios where a beneficial patent has been released to an inventor who has the financial wherewithal to police as well as protects it.
By now I hope the constraints of patents are clear. Go to Target or Walmart and review the product packaging of 50 items. Exactly how several are patented?). A layout patent, which covers the precise style of an item, is much more limited as a defensive tool than a wide utility patent. Provided the number of new patents being issued each day, there are fewer readily available insurance claims for basic products every year.
There are no "patent authorities." If somebody rips off a product and it can be shown that someone has infringed on a patent, it depends on the creator to participate in and spend for, the lawful battle to prove and also to stop the infringer from proceeding. Given that the argument may not be specific, this can be an expensive legal action. Several developers lack the monetary funding to combat a lawful battle with a well-heeled knock-off business.
It should currently be clear that a patent is usually not the end-all response that many inventors, as well as specialist consultants, presume it to be. That's the trouble. The bright side is that understanding this, an inventor can concentrate on producing a winning technique.
I would certainly additionally like to briefly discuss another often-misunderstood lawful record: the nondisclosure agreement (NDA). While there are advantages to utilizing an NDA, its effectiveness is typically overemphasized. Below's why:
Initially, many-- most likely most-- suppliers will certainly not sign an NDA. They see no reason to obligate themselves to a creator with whom they have no prior relationship.
Second, an NDA is not a patent. Many NDAs don't say anything concerning not swiping the item idea, so the celebrations to the NDA are just guaranteeing not to tell anyone else.
Third, there is the capacity of including a non-compete provision of some kind in an attempt to deal with the last factor. Doing so will certainly further minimize the number of companies to whom you will certainly be able to pitch your invention as few will certainly authorize these. I have additionally directly discovered a couple of venture capitalists and expert financiers ready to sign NDA arrangements.
The majority of item companies, including those inclined to knock-off items, have lots of brand-new items in progression at any provided time. When an item manager supporters for launching a brand-new item, being geared up with critical market data that supports his decision can drastically boost his commitment to an invention. I have frequently spoken with inventors who invested the majority of their readily available funding on their patent applications to find that the result was either a decreased application or a drastically narrowed-down, less-useful version of their original application; this is why lots of item business do not also bother with licenses. A layout patent, which covers the specific layout of a product, is a lot more limited as a protective tool than a wide energy patent. If a person knocks off a product as well as it can be shown that someone has infringed on a patent, it is up to the inventor to involve in and also pay for, the legal fight to show and also to quit the infringer from proceeding.
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As home prices rise, here's what buyers can do to land a deal
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Real estate agents Rosa Arrigo, center, and Elisa Rosen, right, work an open house in West Hempstead, New York on April 18, 2021.
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In this red-hot real estate market, itā€™s tough for buyers to land a deal.
Supply is low, which is pushing prices higher. The median price of an existing home sold in March was $329,100. Thatā€™s a 17.2% increase from March 2020.
Yet there is some good news. New listings were up for the second week in a row, increasing 40% over last year, which is right when the pandemic hit, according to Realtor.com.
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ā€œBuyers who are currently struggling to find a home are likely to see improvement in the number of choices available to them as more sellers list for the spring buying season,ā€ said Realtor.com chief economist Danielle Hale, in a statement.
That said, the market is still very tight.
ā€œI have been in the business for more than 30 years and I have never seen a market that has been this hot,ā€ said Glenn Brunker, president of Ally Home, which provides mortgage services and products.
He recommends potential buyers take a pause and do a little soul searching.
ā€œTake a look at your income stream, your employers, the location you are considering buying a home and make sure that the stability of your personal situation is one that warrants homeownership,ā€ Brunker said.
If you are ready to buy, hereā€™s advice from experts on how to navigate the market right now.
Figure out your number
The first thing financial advisor Jacqueline Cooper asks clients is what they are paying in rent and if that is okay for them.
ā€œCome up with a number first,ā€ said Cooper, founder, president and CEO of Financial Education Associates in Dorchester, Massachusetts. ā€œWhat you can afford is going to guide not just your principal and interest payments, but taxes and insurance payments.ā€
Review your existing expenses and debt. There will also be additional costs to consider, like sewer and trash, possible homeowner association fees and a likely boost in utility costs.
Get a good real estate agent
Part of your due diligence includes finding a real estate agent who is experienced in both buying and selling homes. They should also have a strong knowledge of the local community and relationships with other realtors in the area.
ā€œYou want them to be able to negotiate hard and know what makes a competitive offer in that neighborhood,ā€ said Lexie Holbert, a housing and lifestyle expert for Realtor.com.
Do your homework
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Start looking at listings online, including doing virtual tours, even if you arenā€™t quite ready to begin the process yet. It will give you an idea of neighborhoods you like that are within your budget, Holbert suggests.
Setting up alerts from real estate websites will also let you know when new homes hit the market in those areas.
As you see homes you like, you can figure out your monthly payment based on the down payment and cost of the house by using a mortgage calculator, which are offered by lenders.
A good knowledge base will help you make an educated decision in a short period of time, which is crucial when homes arenā€™t sitting long on the market.
Get pre-approved for a mortgage
A mortgage pre-approval will give you a sense of the amount you are qualified to borrow, what your interest rate will likely be and the amount of your monthly mortgage payment.
However, just because you are approved for a certain amount doesnā€™t mean you should spend that much money.
ā€œThe only person responsible for your budget is you,ā€ Holbert said.
Getting an edge over the competition
To win over a seller, try to form a relationship with them. That can range from writing a heartfelt letter or having your real estate agent paint a positive picture of you as a buyer.
ā€œIf you can connect on an emotional level with the seller through the realtor or as an individual, it does make a difference,ā€ Brunker said.
First-time homebuyers may have an advantage if they are not depending on the sale of a previous home to buy the new one and have flexibility on when they can move in. One option is to rent the home back to the seller while they look for their new home.
While some buyers are waiving inspections, Brunker doesnā€™t recommend that tactic since an unexpected repair can put you in a financial bind.
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twilightofthe Ā· 4 years ago
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@nerdgatehobbit Hey! Thanks for the question! Ik you asked this to my main but imma respond on my SW blog if thatā€™s okay?
So whew thatā€™s a big question. Do I honestly think that Dave kept Obi Wan and PadmĆ© and then Anakin and Satine from interacting in the TCW show because they didnā€™t want shipping wars?
(Remember, these are all just my personal opinions. I do me and you do you!)
Short version? Yes and no. Long version? Under the cut because I can never shut up.
Firstly, I donā€™t wanna say this was all Daveā€™s decision. He was one of the top guys in charge of TCW, yes, but he was far from the only one, there was an entire creative team working on the project, and during the time of TCWā€™s original six seasons Lucasfilms was not owned by Disney yet and George Lucas himself had a very large amount of creative control over the entire show. So I donā€™t really think itā€™s fair at all to point fingers at any choices the show made and go ā€œyep thatā€™s completely 100% Daveā€™s fault aloneā€.
I also donā€™t quite think they were concerned about shipping wars in the way ATLA had them. Avatarā€™s shipping wars were so absolutely toxically rancid that they legit drove me right out of that fandom. Iā€™m still hesitant to come back during the current renaissance because of them. Star Wars, prior to the Sequel Trilogy, never had shipping wars close to that calibre of pure nastiness. The fandom was a godawful cesspool that fought to the death on most aspects of the franchise, this has always been true, but shipping, if Iā€™ve read right, was somehow never really one of those hot button issues within fandom. I donā€™t think Lucasfilms kept the Clone Wars four apart because they were afraid of fans fighting over ships.
That being said, Lucasfilms HAS always been Very Strict on how they want their characters to be seen, romantic-wise, way back to when they would terrorize Original Trilogy slash shippers back in the 80ā€™s and 90ā€™s with threats of legal action. Itā€™s part of why they were Very Firm in their insistence that they had absolutely nothing to do with all the Luke/Mara Jade EU stuff. You either abided by LFā€™s canonical romances or not at all in their world. So yes, in the case of Obi Wan and PadmĆ©, I absolutely think the writing teamā€™s decision to keep the pair of them apart was almost entirely so fans didnā€™t ship them together.
Why do I think this? Because there is no other rational reason why Obi Wan and PadmĆ© havenā€™t had a single second of screentime in TCW that hasnā€™t had either Anakin or Satine also in the room as a buffer. Not when Revenge of the Sith EXPLICITLY portrays their relationship as relatively close friends who care about each other. So nope, I genuinely think the show just doesnā€™t want the fans to consider any other relationship for PadmĆ© besides Anakin.
But why would they do this just to her and Obes? Obi Wan and PadmĆ© both have other friends of different genders, why donā€™t they worry about us shipping THEM? Well for Obi Wanā€™s case, it can be excused that he flirts with everyone, so weā€™re conditioned to think that itā€™s never anything serious, and none of the other characters are married to the main character of the series. This is entirely because of PadmĆ©ā€™s position. Yes, she has other male friends, but either theyā€™re nonhuman and not conventionally attractive so the series doesnā€™t see them as a threat, theyā€™re Clovis, who they actively show Anakin going into a jealous fit over, or theyā€™re Bail, who can be excused by the fact that heā€™s already married and also because heā€™s never actively shown as in competition with Anakin for anything, so heā€™s not threatening either.
Obi Wan, on the other hand, is a major threat to Anidala in the showā€™s eyes. They already constantly make a point to compare him and Anakin in almost every opportunity. Which is strange, the showā€™s decision to force them into the role of narrative foils to each other when in the movies that isnā€™t the case at allā€” Obi Wan is much more of a foil to Sidious and Anakinā€™s foil is Luke ā€”but yeah, the show very often has Obes and Ani going through similar situations with competing viewpointsā€” ESPECIALLY their canon romances, and I wonā€™t rant about how the showā€™s attempted Anidala and Obitine parallels fall apart under scrutiny right now but if yinz want the rant sometime let me know.
Obi Wan also has the canonical ability to charm the pants off of literally everyone he meets. Nearly everyone in canon is in love with him, 80% of the fandom at least is in love with him, and I KNOW most of the crew was in love with him too. Anakin, on the other hand, has a very abrasive personality and is much easier to dislike. The show was ALREADY terrified of the fans not liking or wanting to root for Anakin to the point that they reworked his entire personality to make him more palatable to his critics from the movies. Plus, Obidala fans already existed! Since the first and second PT movies, a big group of people already shipped these two because they already thought Obi Wan was a preferable match to PadmƩ than Anakin. The studio did not want to encourage this.
So yes, I think it was a combination of the showā€™s tendency to already try and get the fans to compare Obi Wan to Anakin for everything else plus their insecurity in Anakinā€™s image and likeability as it was, that they did Not want the handsome charming not-future-evil guy around the leading lady and threatening her canon romance by existing as a possibly better option. So Obi Wan and PadmĆ© got no stories together, just kinda throwing the opening ROTS left them in the garbage ĀÆ\_(惄)_/ĀÆ The worst part is, there is so many potential places in TCW where Obi Wan and PadmĆ© could talk to each other, like during her investigation into her friendā€™s murder, during the Clovis arc, bits during the Malevolence arc, the earlier Naboo crisis arcs, even the one time where sheā€™s just hosting a damn party and wants to invite her friends gahhhhhhhh
Anakin and Satine, I also think yes, but this is also a case of half and half because Satine isnā€™t nearly as major a character as the other three are, and out of the nine episodes she appears in, she only has more than a singular line in seven of them, and out of those seven, only two of them arenā€™t revolves entirely around building her relationship with Obi Wan. So really, there is a defence for the writers here in noting that thereā€™s not as much room to explore Satineā€™s character as it is, let alone trying to shoehorn in a scene with Anakin.
Except no, Iā€™m not gonna give them that defence because in the two episodes where she only has a speaking line or lessā€” Obi Wanā€™s funeral and the Ahsoka and Lux meet Death Watch ep ā€”I can already easily think of ways she and Anakin could have really meaningful interactions in them both. Yā€™all have already heard my bit on how they could have a real important conversation at the funeral, but yā€™all HAVENā€™T seen my idea for a rewrite of the Carlac ep where itā€™s a two-parter, Anakin comes with Ahsoka and PadmĆ© to the negotiations on Mandalore, and it ends up with a subplot of Anidala chasing after Ahsoka and Lux with Satine as the put-upon third wheel and we get foreshadowing to Satine being Bo Katanā€™s sister, so when the reveal happens the next season it actually means something.
So yeah, it was partially because of timing constraints, but it was also DEFINITELY in part because they didnā€™t want Satine being shipped with Anakinā€” which ppffffft, if they were brave enough to actually try writing these two in a conversation in-character, theyā€™d understand how much of a not-worry this would be xD ā€”because the show is set on the fact that despite maybe there being other flings at some point, Obi Wan and Satine are each otherā€™s one true tragic love (Or, at least Obi Wan is Satineā€™s. Heā€™s always had more freedom and decision than she has in this narrative, and thatā€™s always kinda bugged me). So, that means Satine canā€™t interact with any men unless theyā€™re gonna betray her trust and try to kill her by the end of the episode, because the show needs Obi Wan to have a loyal, steady, good girlfriend because he is a good man.
(And yes, before anyone says it, I have heard the more unpleasant rumors behind why exactly Obi Wan was given a girlfriend in the show, but as Iā€™ve yet to see any official proof of them besides fandom salt, Iā€™m not gonna spread them because those are hefty accusations to throw around).
So yeah, Satine canā€™t talk to Anakin partially because time constraints, but also because she isnā€™t allowed to talk to any other nice men besides Obi Wan and her son (no I donā€™t particularly like the Korkie Kenobi thing, but it is blatantly obvious that that is what the show was implying and Iā€™m not gonna pretend otherwise), and Obi Wan and PadmĆ© canā€™t talk to each other entirely because the show saw Obidala as a threat to Anidala.
Again, just my opinions and things I noticed, yā€™all are more than free to disagree and discuss with me.
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donnerpartyofone Ā· 5 years ago
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while iā€™m apparently still in confession mode for some dark reason:Ā 
after i told that awful story yesterday about the degrading one night stand that an older male friend spent a year bullying me into, i started thinking about all the cliches that are sold to us about the sexuality of precocious young women: what it means for us to navigate the devious emotional traps set out by the jealous and covetous world around us. what i mean is, thereā€™s this whole gothic narrative that never stops circulating, involving beautiful, talented, intelligent, sensitive young women who are advanced enough to start exploring their own desires independently, but not experienced enough to identify the (typically) older male predators who hunt them. these men take advantage of their uninformed curiosity, leveraging their preyā€™s desire to grow up faster in order to control, possess, and abuse them. while this narrative is inherently criminal, society never seems willing to fully denounce it, preferring to preserve its erotic potency for a wide and slavering audience. the iconography of this narrative is mostly derived from Lolitaā€“
[which btw our cultural failure to see that book as anything other than aĀ ā€œlove storyā€ is really disturbing and speaks volumes about our willingness to project our grossest ideas wherever we want, even when other interpretations (likeĀ ā€œblack comedyā€) are abundantly available]
ā€“a mature but fragile adolescent with that /special something/ innocently hypnotizes a genteel older man whose sophistication belies his uncontrollable animal desire for her, which is less His Problem than it is a natural response to her beauty and charm; aĀ  forbidden love affair ensues. when i was young, i swallowed this concept hook line and sinker, hoping it would happen to me some day! i hated dumb little boys my own age, and i felt that if some Humbert Humbert type were to flatter me with his highly curated attention, then i would know that i had truly arrived.
ā€œsadlyā€, i made it through high school and college without ever knowing that validating thrill. i wasted the latter half of my 20s on an abusive relationship with a guy two years younger than me, who often argued that he should be allowed to wreck my life however he wanted because he wasĀ ā€œless matureā€ than i was and deserved more leeway. as i turned 30, i met the extraordinary person i would marry. i felt a profound sense of relief, entering my 30s; i had finished with so many of my old delusions, and the pulverizing pressure to have The Time of Your Life throughout oneā€™s 20s had finally lifted. i looked back on my youth, thinking of it as a period of dreary, pointless misery in whichĀ ā€œnothing really happenedā€, good or bad. but recently, when i started to think about it with greater focus, i realized that some shit really DID happened to me. i had just completely ignored it, because i thought of it as the fruits of my own bad taste.Ā 
throughout junior high, i had a bizarre rapport with a guy in his early 20sā€“ā€nothing happenedā€, as they say, but this guy was sort of a freak and a loner, and iā€™m probably lucky that there wasnā€™t a lot of opportunity for something TO happen. then my supposed best friend, jealous of even this non-event in my sad little existence, forced a relationship with a 30 year old man out of nowhere, and competitively abused my ears with a lot of gnarly details about their horrible sex life. then in high school, my first two boyfriends were both pretentious manipulative dickheads in their 20s who really had no business bothering someone who wasnā€™t old enough to vote. some of my friends suffered from the same problem, though we all just felt like we were becoming independent young women or something. then thereā€™s some other stuff with an older classmate who was abundantly aware of how emotionally unstable i was, and took appalling advantage of that for a long time, and i probably wonā€™t ever be brave enough to talk about it. then in college i briefly ā€œdatedā€ a guy around 50 with whom luckily nothing bad happened before i got rid of him, but like, it really wasnā€™t cool, looking backā€“he made me feel incredibly obligated, and as he only informed me mid-stream, he was married with children. then i spent the rest of college getting dragged through the mud by a guy in his 30s who used his professional clout and well-honed manipulative abilities toĀ ā€œtake my virginityā€ (a phrase and concept i hate, but which applies here), which he was very excited about; it would have been best if he had just abandoned me after that, as so many assholes do, because he then cultivated a long tawdry and extremely damaging soap opera between us, the only point of which was to make trouble for his actual girlfriend, who was ALSO much younger than him. and the end of college and slightly after, i developed another intense connection with a man a few decades older, who would never quite initiate a relationship, but who was insidiously manipulative and made me feel terrible when i eventually got a real (age-appropriate) boyfriend, as if i owed him something; i later found out he did the same thing to another girl that i know, who is substantially younger. the terrible one night stand, previously discussed, was just a gross little footnote to this disgusting historyā€¦
ā€¦but the thing is, i never, at any time, felt like i had taken part in the overheated archetypal drama that society has built up around may-december romances. i didnā€™t even see myself as a victim of the bad behavior of adults, of people who should and did know better; i just felt separate from the whole thing, even though i had fantasized about it so much as a kid. the thing is, at the same time that the Lolita narrative is inappropriately romanticized, it does provide an opportunity to see the girl as a potential victim, a Little Red Riding Hood who enters a perilous erotic negotiation with a Big Bad Wolf. because i didnā€™t see myself as the heroine of my own iteration of this overly familiar story, i didnā€™t recognize the degree to which iā€™d been exploited by people who knew to use my youth and inexperience against me. i just blamed myself. and the reason for all this is really sad: i simply didnā€™t feel attractive. in my mind, the vulnerable nymphet was always delicate, doe-like, elegant; clothes hung on her alluring frame in a way that created a dizzying paradox between her youth and her emerging maturity; she could dance, play music, or write touching poetry; she was preternaturally irresistible even toĀ ā€œgood menā€. she had to be liv tyler in STEALING BEAUTY (*barf*) or some shit; only somebody that compelling could star as the doomed princess in societyā€™s well-loved fairy tale about statutory rape. personally, i perceived myself as ugly, awkward, socially burdensome, and most importantly, the kind of girl who should count herself extremely lucky to be the center of anybodyā€™s attention, even temporarily. because i didnā€™t see myself as a damsel in distress who deserved protection and sympathy, i failed to spot my own victimization. i thought of my history of increasingly negative and abusive encounters with older men as a matter of bad luck, bad judgment on my own part, and ultimately,Ā ā€œthe best i could doā€ if i wanted any kind of affection. so i guess the irony is that if i had identified myself as a desirable dolores hayes type, then yes, i would have been in serious danger of fetishizing my own mistreatmentā€“but on the other hand, i would have had a more realistic framework for understanding the sinister thing that was happening to me. unfortunately, the other side of the misogyny coinā€“not the side that turns you into a sex object, but the side that excludes you from feeling sexually worthy at allā€“prevented me from noticing that that awful Little Red Riding Hood cliche had already happened to me several times over.
tl;dr - when misogyny convinces you that you have nothing to steal, then itā€™s hard to tell when misogynists are trying to rob you.
itā€™s funny to start recognizing this only now that iā€™m approaching 40. i see a lot of young women on tumblr heroically fighting to strike a balance between enjoying their kinks and avoiding the corrupt elements in their communitiesā€“all the while trying to stay aware of how their personal history and mental health plays into this drama. some of them are way farther along in that philosophical journey than i was at their age, and i really admire the work theyā€™re doing. iā€™m writing this more for the ones who donā€™t even know that theyā€™re already a part of this struggle, because they havenā€™t learned to see themselves as desirable enough to be included in it. that is to say, i wrote this for myself; but i have a sneaking suspicion that someone else out there needs to hear it, too.
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This post brought to you in part by the very beginning of CABIN IN THE WOODS, which, while not a deep film in any way, features a salient moment in which College Girl #1 tries to tell College Girl #2 that the professor who took advantage of her is a scumbag, and College Girl #2 defends him, humbly and maturely replying:Ā ā€œI knew what I was getting into.ā€ The blood freezes in my veins when I think of how many times I said something like this about someone who did not deserve my defense. If you got dicked over, literally and/or figuratively, by someone older, sober-er, and/or more experienced than you, then this is your gentle reminder that you really cannot be accused of knowing what youā€™re getting into.
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apartmentsdada Ā· 4 years ago
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Frequently asked questions Every Home Seller Should Read Before Hiring a Real Estate Agent
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Before you hire a real estate agent, read the answers to your most important things. Will a property I sell myself be at a cut-throat disadvantage compared to properties sold by real estate agents? No-and in several ways, you'll have an advantage. First of all, today's buyers find their properties on the Internet on their own time. If they like your home, they're going to call you no matter what-and the odds are good that they'll possibly be happier dealing with you than with an agent. It is basically no secret that a huge number of homes are not selling as well as expire before the agent ever gets the home sold. Instigate a Google search and you'll see the amount of training material the estate industry offers to teach their agents how to influence sellers to renew their listings for a year. There isn't an magic in what a real estate agent does. To give you an example of the key benefits of selling your home yourself, think about signs. When you list using an agent, they get to place a mini billboard into your yard that includes a tiny bit of advertising for your home and a large number of advertising for their company. The whole industry should have moved to customized signs a long time ago-but they haven't. You will find a significant advantage by tailoring your on-the-ground marketing propose to your home, including your FOR SALE sign. Do homes sell just for more when listed with a real estate agent? That's what any National Association of Realtors funded by real estate agents states, but there's no independent data to support their statistics. In case a real estate agent tells you they can get you more money for your home, keep these things bring you a buyer; if they can't, they need to leave you will alone to sell your house. Far too many listings handled by providers expire, unsold. An agent's opinion is not going to get your place sold. It's easy for people to make guesses and conjectures, but to win in today's market, you have to deal with hard information. How much time and effort is this really going to take? You will need about as much time to sell your house as it takes to make sure you plan a long vacation. The marketing side requires one of the most time up front, but once you've gathered your facts, the software shouldn't take you more than a few hours to get your online marketing plan started. You'd have to gather that same advice for an agent, if you used one. And the process has long been streamlined for you on sites like simpleandsold. com. For anybody who is skeptical, take the amount you'd pay in commission towards a real estate agent and divide it by the number of hours you will need to plan a vacation. The result should help you see that occasion you put into selling your house will be time well expended. A real estate agent told me it would be dangerous to sell my own home, because I'd be letting strangers in my house all the time. Should I be worried? Unfortunately, you're going to have to let strangers in your home to offer it. But you would have to do this with or without a real estate professional, so this is almost a moot point. Remember that you can clear your home any way you want: you can take down information for safeness purposes; you can schedule your viewing appointments so that you will never be alone in the house; and you have the right to stop the process if you become uncomfortable with a person's presence. This is something sometimes real estate agents face. Do I need to use a Multiple Listing Service (MLS) to see the exposure I need for my home? First, you should understand what MLS is. It was not designed as a marketing place for homes; rather, it's a simple way for brokers for you to negotiate compensation with each other, so that Real Estate Agent A can convey to Real Estate Agent B, "Sell my listing and I will spend you X. " Period. My local MLS, that has been named #1 in the country, is still way behind the times. The software allows me to upload approximately eight tiny (two-by-two-inch) pictures and about three sentences of description. I'm not really allowed to link to anything. How is that a viable selling tool? Look at Zillow, Trulia, and Yahoo! Real Estate will probably see how much the MLS has been eclipsed. It's turned into just an outdated method for real estate agents to protect their lawn. Some systems are not even Mac compatible. With Straight forward and Sold, you can put your home up for enjoying on hundreds of websites, and you can add up to thirty-six large, high-definition photos in your listing. You can have paragraphs of description with regards to your home. You can attach listing brochures and other files, which will interested buyers can view online or download. You can add background music or a voice-over about your property's features; you possibly can provide links to area schools and anything else you'd like. What is the NAR? NAR stands for the National Connections of Realtors, the lobbying group listed at #4 on opensecrets. org's list of political heavy hitters. Oahu is the organization about which Joe Nocera of the New York Conditions once wrote: "You have to wonder sometimes what there're smoking over there at the National Association of Real estate agents. " According to Bloodhound Realty Blog, The NAR seems to have stayed under the radar while doing a monstrous amount of difficulties for the economy, the housing market, and most importantly, the consumer. Bloodhound Realty Blog states (this blog does a great project of exposing the NAR), "It was the NAR that lobbied for each law and rule change who resulted in the housing boom, the sub-prime lending failure, the wanton bundling of fraudulent loans, the recurring subsidization of the secondary mortgage market, etc . The bad guy behind all the villains in the collapse of the American market is the National Association of Realtors. " "The properties licensing laws, written in their original form by the NAR, exist to limit competition in real estate brokerage, eradicating alternative sources of real estate brokerage to artificially sustain more significant commissions for NAR brokers" John Crudele of the Los angeles Post recently stated: "The real estate industry lives through motto: "location, location, location. " Next week it'll be recognized for "deception, deception, deception. " People want comprehend and the NAR is deceiving the public all to save the particular sacred real estate commission. Crudele also reports: "The Countrywide Association of Realtors admitted that it has been reporting damaging figures on sales... Jeez! Tell the truth!... The Agents aren't doing the country any favors by sugar-coating his or her stats... and the people at NAR don't seem to be bothered by your practice. " Don't most people trust real estate agents to get individuals the best deal? Unfortunately, people don't trust them. From the most recent Gallup poll, they ranked lower than bankers and yet higher than congressmen in terms of ethics. In all fairness, it's not typically the behavior of real estate agents that has been unethical; it's the way the organization, the NAR, has worked to block their contest. As I see it, and as most Americans see it, competition is ideal for the competent. You own your home, so you should have the choice selling it any way you choose. The NAR got a general population slap on the wrist in 2008 from the Justice Agency when the organization tried to stop real estate agents without a physical clinic from participating in MLS. The Justice Department had to sue the NAR to allow mobile, internet-based brokers-the kind what person operate from laptops and Starbucks instead of fancy offices-to practice their trade. I think the NAR should be embarrassed of making taxpayers pay for this lawsuit, which (in the text of the DOJ itself) "requires NAR to allow Internet-based readily available real estate brokers to compete with traditional brokers. " The Team said the settlement would enhance competition in the realty brokerage industry, giving consumers more choice, better services, and lower commission rates. NAR is now bound because of a ten-year settlement to ensure that it continues to abide by the requirements of your agreement. But don't Realtors operate under a Prefix of Ethics? Ironically, the NAR emphasizes a "Code of Ethics" for all its members-but at the same time, they have been labeled on the carpet for deceptive statistics on homes revenues. In my opinion, anyone who needs an organization to tell them easy methods to be ethical probably doesn't understand the code regarding ethics that they're swearing to uphold.
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dogsliampaynedoesntinstagram Ā· 5 years ago
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Oh! Thank you so much!! Yeah, I did understand now. I donā€™t know why I had mixed the meaning. I thought he meant something like just ā€œheā€ would be successful just by existing or something like that, which is not what it means šŸ™ˆ. Also, about charts, I know what you mean, and on the one hand I agree with you, but then, when people compare the boys within them the one who gets numbers one is the best, and so I want that for Louis too. But well, I canā€™t do anything else, so šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø. Thanks!!
Hi anon,
I really liked your interpretation of what Jeff was saying.Ā  Particularly given who Jeff is.Ā 
Thereā€™s nothing wrong with wanting a number 1 anon! I want a number 1 for Louis as well.Ā  And while in general I think comparing 1D members is boring and rarely done with rigorous methodology - I do think it would be very useful for his career to have this particular marker of success, at least on one side of Atlantic.
I think he has a good chance in the UK, where his real competition is Lewis Capaldi.Ā  Heā€™s got the signings and the cassette bundles, which will push up his sales.Ā  On top of that none of the acts that are releasing that week have as strong a charting history in the UK as they do in the US. Lil Wayne, Kesha and Meghan Trainorā€™s last albums all peaked at number 4 or 5 in the UK and their first week numbers were between 8,000 and 11,000. If you look at the current charts youā€™ll see that Lewis Capaldi is doing better number than that every week.Ā Ā 
Things are harder in the US, and thereā€™s been a lot of ground changing since he announced his release date (and thatā€™s one of the things that is difficult about charts is that you announce a release date that you think will be good, but thatā€™s without full information).Ā  The original plan for releasing the album would have involved merch bundling, but obviously thatā€™s had to change.Ā  One of the reason that itā€™s quite unpredictable is that the same is true for everyone.Ā Ā 
I think the fact that Lil Wayne is releasing the same day does make it much harder in the US - and partly thatā€™ll be a self fulfilling prophecy, because as I suggested whe talking about Niall, if youā€™re not going to make number one thereā€™s much less reason to put resources into your chart specific campaign. Lil Wayne did monster numbers for his last album in 2018- 480,000 with 140,000 sales. Obviously if he does anything like that nobody else releasing that week, including Louis, has a chance.
But remember this: Many people have had long successful music careers and been happy without a US number 1.Ā  Many people have had a US number one and not had a long successful career or been happy. Itā€™d be useful for Louis negotiating further publicity opportunities and portraying his success, but thatā€™s it.
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We have answers to the question "How do we pay for Medicare 4 All?" Some of them quite detailed. No one has managed to come up with an answer to "How do we afford not having it?" We as a nation literally cannot pay for healthcare. This is a huge ongoing crisis. The closest we can come to answering it is to pretend that, well, the fallout of individuals not being able to afford healthcare is limited to those individuals. This is a lie. It costs everyone. It drags the precious economy down. The person who goes bankrupt because of medical expenses and loses their house... that's a blow to the neighborhood they lived in. A bank has replaced a profitable asset (a mortgage) with a depreciating asset (an empty house). The family struggling to pay for healthcare is paying money into a system that doesn't actually produce anything except profit for the top. Take away that struggle, they are doing business with their neighbors. Ordering products. Buying services. Creating jobs! Defaulted medical bills (including from those much-exaggerated can't-refuse-anybody free ER visits that the right likes to pretend is the same as free healthcare) get passed onto everybody else, meaning we're already "socializing" costs, but inefficiently. ERs don't do routine preventative and diagnostic services or non-emergency treatment of chronic conditions, which means by the time someone winds up in an ER, the care they need is 1) more expensive and 2) less effective.Ā 
All of this is a huge drain on the stuff that the people gibbering about the terrible specter of socialism actually do care about: productivity! Consumer confidence! The freedom of the marketplace! Socialize the medical system and we will be paying less money for better outcomes. We're already spending more money on healthcare, collectively, than it would take to treat everyone for real. And for all that money, we get the worst healthcare in the so-called developed world. If we could be getting more while paying less, THE INVISIBLE HAND OF THE FREE MARKET demands that's what we do. Market economics dictates that we adopt socialized medicine. Anybody who disagrees doesn't actually care about what they're telling you they care about. "But people will have to wait for treatment!" They do already, sometimes until they die. "But there will be rationing." There already is rationing and it's killing people. "But the government will decide what treatment you get." Less so than for-profit insurance companies do now. Universal healthcare, free at point of service, paid for by public money, is the best deal we could take. We would pay less and get more. And it would make the "free market" freer by removing artificial constraints on things like job mobility. "Private industry is more efficient than the government." Efficient at what? For insurance companies, it's making money. This efficiency comes in the form of them taking more profit by charging more and providing less.
It's efficient *against us*.
Of course, replacing most of the concept of health insurance with a public institution will displace some jobs, and we should take care of the people affected by that but "socialism" is a better solution than propping up an industry that is robbing and killing us. Our concept of business ethics right now is that the main fiduciary duty of a company is to generate ever-growing profits for its stakeholders. This means a for-profit insurance company is doing wrong when it takes care of us. Its "job" is to take our money and keep it. Any money that an insurance company spends on paying for actual health care is regarded in the business world as a failure, with some failure being inevitable, but regrettable nonetheless. They will take more and give less, if they can get away with it. Now, the ideal of the free market is that if they jerk us around we can take our business elsewhere, but healthcare is so expensive and byzantine that most of us can't afford it, except when subsidized by an employer who has the benefit of negotiating in bulk on our behalf. But this leaves us in a pinch where if our employer isn't great we can't "vote our wallets" by leaving because we need the healthcare and if our healthcare (which we didn't get to pick directly) isn't great we can't "vote our wallets" because we need the paycheck.
In theory an employer offering bad healthcare benefits is a bad employer who should be "corrected" in the market by leaving their employ, but jobs aren't fungible, we can't just leave and go across the street to another employer with the same circumstances but better insurance. This makes the "free market" as it applies to health insurance NOT REALLY VERY FREE AT ALL.
Our nominal power to negotiate and force companies to compete for our business is severely constrained and diluted by circumstances. If a restaurant, movie studio, or video game company wants our business, it has to contend with the fact that we could stay home and feed or entertain ourselves in lots of other ways, on top of there being other restaurants and media companies. But the alternative to healthcare is stay home and administer home remedies and hope you don't die of an infected tooth or hangnail that spreads, or untreated cancer, or whatever. We aren't really "customers" with the same choice. So the fact that the consequences of voting our wallet and staying home means we might die and the fact that our negotiation ability is at a remove through our jobs (which, again, without which we might lose our ability to secure food and shelter and healthcare, and maybe die)... ...means that the vaunted competition that is supposed to make the free market efficient and fair just doesn't happen. It doesn't apply.
We are at the mercy of corporations who, again, are instructed by society that their highest good is separating us from our money. And it doesn't have to be this way! We could eliminate the whole predatory, unnecessary layer that is the for-profit health insurance complex and replace it with a public agency whose highest good is getting the most treatment for the least money. And at that point, multiple massive distortions of the "free market" disappear.
We gain more power to change jobs if another employer is offering us a better deal. Free market competition! Great, right? We've got more money that we can spend on things we want. We don't have people losing cars and houses and apartments and education plans and jobs because they had a medical emergency they couldn't pay for. We eliminate a lot of bankruptcies. Financial planning becomes more predictable. Consumer confidence goes up. Spending goes up.
Every business that is providing something people want benefits from the increased stability! Demand for basically everything rises! Jobs are created! Workers are less stressed and fearful and exhausted and so are working better! Where's the downside for "capitalism"? I'm a fan of the free market. I think customers benefit when companies compete for their money. I think companies benefit when workers compete for their money. But our for-profit healthcare system distorts this whole thing so badly that this is basically not happening now. If you like "capitalism" in the sense of a market-based economy where entities compete to trade what they have for what they want... a little "socialism" around the edges is a good thing, a necessary thing. If we could decouple our thinking in the business world from the current fiduciary duty we choose to imagine businesses owe, then "profit" becomes the reward for doing a good job at whatever the business does, and that's FINE. It's good, it's great, it's the ideal.Ā 
But we can't there as long as we're treating everything as though it's just another fungible option among many where people could freely vote their wallets. We can stay home from the movies if the options stink, go watch a play or a TV show. Can't do that with cancer treatment. Democratic socialism, social democracy... related and overlapping concepts, I'm not actually that interested in wanking over the distinctions. The point is, you can have social features on a market economy. And you can't have a market economy for long without them. In the competition that makes a market economy work, the reward for winning is also the means by which the game is played, which means each round is *less* competitive than the one that came before. Competition is a finite resource, which means it's unsustainable. The more that this competition extends into areas in which negotiation and competition are stifled, the faster the process by which the competition breaks down becomes until the "free market" becomes a fiefdom of company towns. And so the distortion caused by our for-profit healthcare industry is speeding up the demise of the free market. A public option would slow that down. Eliminating health insurance as it exists now and replacing it with some form of single payer system would go much further.Ā 
To make a long story short (TOO LATE!) - we can't afford to keep the health insurance industry around. Can't afford it. How do we pay for it? Nobody has an answer for that. We can figure out how to pay for Medicare 4 All, but not how to pay for health insurance. And while we're figuring out how to pay for healthcare under the private insurance model, we should ask... wait, what are we paying for? Mostly to prop up an industry whose goal is that we should continue paying them to exist. Literally no purpose. They produce nothing.
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