#i need to write gabe as a butch lesbian actually

[this-world-of-beautiful-monsters]

i love how so many people see the chen siblings and think: "canon sapphic couple"

[eir-mercy]

All for the ask thing!

1. what’s your gender?» Nonbinary

2. what are your pronouns?» they/them are ultimately my pronouns but he/him are fine too

3. is your family accepting?» depends on the family member. my mother is very supportive and she was in denial at first and now shes very supportive. but my brother hates it and he goes as far as to correct my mum with my deadname if she calls me Gabe.

4. what do you wish you could tell your past self?» itll get better and listen to those who accept you for who you are and dont let anyone change you.

5. what is your sexuality?» i am primarily grey asexual

6. favorite color?» purple, black, maroon, navy blue, silver and gold.

7. sun gay or moon gay?» moon gay

8. when did you find out your sexuality?» after 6th grade, really and a buddy helped me get more into the lgbt terms and i think around… 8th-9th grade ultimately i found grey asexual

9. how was your day?» good so far!! my man and i got up at 11 am and we went out for lunch with his mother and grandma and we just got back!

10. do you have any gay friends?» quite a few!

11. what’s your favorite hobby?» i love drawing, writing and collecting crystals.

12. who’s the best gay icon in your opinion?» i really dont have one honestly. i could careless

13. which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise?» aromantic is my favourite. i cant stand the highly saturated colors.

14. are you openly out?» yes, mainly. i try to look as passing as possible but its quite hard. but i am out!

15. are you comfortable with yourself?» sexuality, mostly. its confusing but body wise since it doesnt align to where i want to be, no.

16. bottom or top?» bottom

17. femme or butch?» uhhhh kinda a fem boy but not?? aaa

18. do you bind?» occasionally, not as much as i used too.

19. do you shave?» certain places yes, and occasionally my arm pits because summer heat. otherwise theres no where else too

20. if you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be?» my boyfriend

21. do you have a partner (s)?» yes! my boyfriend is andrew. best mans ever

22. describe your partner (s)?» he’s a cis bi dude. stoner, nerd, intelligent, stubborn, totally tsundere. but all around the best boyfriend.

23. have you ever dated anyone of the same sex?» yes

24. anyone of another sex?» ive dated people who were genderfluid, trans, nonbinary and cis.

25. pastel gay or goth gay?» goth!!!

26. favorite dad in dream daddies?» never got into the game or fandom so pass

27. tell me a random fact about yourself?» i have my boyfriend’s second dog tag with a pendant attached to the original chain and wear it whenever we go out or somewhere, even if its a walk. the pendant holds my valkyrie, Jade. i also wear two bracelets constantly my friend got for me at camel back.

28. do you own any pride flags/merch?» i have a trans flag hanging in my room at the house were being evicted from, and i have a pin that says he/him/him! (thanks zo!!)

29. have you ever been to a pride parade?» once! it was over a year ago, actually. my best friend mal and her girlfriend invited me and we went to Harrisburgs’ pride! they were sweet enough to let me hold both their hands while we walked around.

30. any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves?» its okay if you are unsure and if you go through life and change sexuality or gender. ive gone from being a lesbian (before finding out trans / nb and so forth) and it took a bit to find what was right for me. not everyone gets it first try! but make sure you are true to yourself.

and if you want to come out, do so on your terms, never anyone elses. its okay to be scared, if you need help i am here to listen and give any advice.