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I didn't want to reblog this actual thread because my sidetracking doesn't need to be on a good and helpful mental health post. BUT. I wanted to ask anyone who has noticed the same thing I have about this topic: why do you think this kind of therapy does not work on the very large percentage of autistic people that it does not work on, including myself. many professionals and laymen have tried this tried-and-true method of subverting depression on me and I will just argue back, and I will have more reasoned arguments than they will. and I will engage with their question ("why do you feel that way") and the proceeding argument in good faith, but the therapist will not be prepared to advance past the professional Jedi mind trick of just telling me my extremely studied reasons for thinking a certain way aren't rational and should simply be abandoned. they don't have any more rabbits in the hat after that. so what the fuck
#i mean i know why#its because my thinking isnt dysfunctional or irrational its actually extremely realistic#but realism gets you depression in this cultural context#the only functional mood mindset is unsupported optimism and naivete#i ask therapists about this too and none of them have ever been able to answer me#i mean i have thirty answers to the rhetorical question in the OP ready to go#i will “win” the argument because the therapist's side is like “existence is its own reward :)” or some shit#and also i need to pay rent and eat so...
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IronMan2! Black Widow but with her hair tied back
#like a reasonable person would with that much hair#I mean it was TIED UP before she got changed why did she let it down#I mean I know why#-_-#Black Widow#Natasha romanoff#Marvel#MCU#mine#art#mcu art#marvel art
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Staring at the 5 different Word documents I have open at the moment and muttering, "Once my body gets out of survival mode, it's over for you bitches."
#I have so much to do#why must my body keep doing this?#I mean I know why#I got my diagnosis for the thing that was killing me a week before the pandemic hit and got NO medical care until late last year#but still#blegh#I just want to work
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I’m deeply curious why people think Taichi is a selfless hero for forcefully defending Kohei against people whose actions are potentially or actively harmful to him but Maya is a bitchy villain for defending Kohei (with less force and malevolence) when Taichi’s actions are potentially or actively harmful toward him, even if that was never Taichi’s intent.
Why does a disabled girl calling an abled boy out on his lack of care or understanding upset you so?
#i hear the sunspot#deeply curious#because they bring some similar energy#in defending him#and trying to keep him from harm#i mean i know why#its the ableism and the misogyny#but does anyone have an answer that isn’t rooted in that
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Why does it low key feel like today is the day before the purge
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hey if your response to lesbian visibility week is to add on saying how much you hate "xyz" lesbians then you are a lesbophobe. plain and simple. you hate lesbians who don't meet your ideal criteria for what a "real lesbian" is (ever changing and impossible to meet if you actually care about pleasing strangers). and if you're a non-lesbian you should just not make a post at all if that's how you're gonna act. we're tired of this shit
#why it is always lesbians why do you people LOVE policing lesbians so much#trans lesbians ace/aro lesbians he/him lesbians nonbinary lesbians butch lesbians mspec lesbians multigender lesbians the list goes on#every single time we get the most shit#and you bother our gay counterparts the least#I mean I know why#but it's infuriating to keep on watching you people cycle through to hating yet another group of lesbians#there are no invaders and there is no sanctity of lesbianism that needs protecting you guys are just lesbophobic#lesbian#lesbian visibility week#lesbophobia#queer#nonbinary#nonbinary lesbian#he/him lesbian#mspec lesbian#lesboy
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i really don’t know why some of you think it is appropriate to reblog a post about antisemitism with “Israel Bad Though”
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i love how we as a fandom have just all collectively decided that the hot bitches are in evenere and they want callum BAD
#like why not del bar hmm?? 🤨#i mean i know why#1) if they're flirting with callum they're probably at least a noble and del bar and evenere are the only two kingdoms where we don't#have the slightest clue what the monarchy looks like these days#2) we already know the evenerian women are hot#(rip fareeda we hardly knew thee)#and 3) we just kinda agree that evenere is the coolest kingdom c'mon#anyway#tdp#the dragon prince#continuethesaga#continue the saga#giveusthesaga#give us the saga
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kofi sketches!
#obikin#who theyre for in the image description!#my brain has been a mess this september i dont know why i keep forgetting to posting everything i worked on TToTT#i mean i know WHY#but ykno#mild stress but also bg3 took over my life so LMAO#anyway that last one for ciipotx i opened sims and copied the background LMAO#mpreg#sw
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here's to my brother who stood in my doorway and watched me get power blasted for 5 minutes by dust via my fan as I was vacuuming the front of it (to remove said dust) only to then ask, as I was languishing about being the dust creature from hell and trying to wipe myself clean, why I didn't just. turn the fan off.
#if it was a tv show they'd have fucking played a record scratch noise#i was so furious after like#son of a BITCH a) why didnt i think of that#and b) you rat bastard why did you wait until i was completely sand blasted to bring it up#i mean i know why#he's my sibling#but still#have a little mercy on a woman who is clearly an idiot
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Take out the dialogue and it looks like Kabru is gently covering up a died person so as to not scare the onlookers
Also why’s Mithrun sleeping in that wooden board ass position he’s so supine
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Sorry but why does a lesbian posting a picture/video of herself playing guitar feel like a thirst trap?
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As some of you might know, I’m currently writing a little something. But I just realized that I don’t speak french. Shocking, I know. But I just wanted Regulus to say something in french and I can’t do it. And using a translator just feels…wrong? Ughhh annoying. But I really can’t start learning french just to write a few sentences in my fanfics, can I? It’s crazy. I feel crazy. Is it, tho?
#the struggle is real#im telling yall#why cant i speak french#i mean i know why#never learned it haha#french#marauders#starchaser#harry potter#sunseeker#jegulus#marauders era#regulus black#james potter#ao3#ao3 fanfic#writers struggle#writers of tumblr#writing humor#fanfiction writer#fanfic writing#dead gay wizards#draco lucius malfoy#harry potter marauders#harry potter au#harry james potter#draco x harry#harry x draco#the seekers tale#allie rambles
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Accepting theories on why the beginning of Pride and Prejudice is so much harder to teach than the end.
#teaching tag#I mean I know why#because the second half is where everything is turned on its head and where everything looks different in its light#but I want to know why the beginning of P&P is so much harder than even me just teaching an average novel#like I really have not cracked the code of how to do it#I might be getting caught in the fineness of the texture of it#but I almost don’t know where to draw the kids’ attention if that makes sense#I have never felt more like I have bungled it :(#which is not a fun feeling#I don’t know 100% if it’s true! there’s a lot of excitement and investment but I just feel like I have bungled it#is this just the May exhaustion#idk. talk to me. would love to hear your thoughts
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man i know two isn't a sample size but why have i spent so much time this past week trying to convince people that leftist antisemitism is, in fact, a real thing that happens a lot?
like thanks, i hate it. fellow goyim, do better.
#tern talks#antisemitism#leftist antisemitism#i mean i know why#it's because they don't want to confront how much antisemitism they've been echoing#but. fuck. i thought we had the whole talk about white tears already
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i hate you, auto-play video on a recipe page
i hate you, auto-play video, that then jumps to the bottom-right corner of the page, and starts auto-playing AGAIN
seriously who thought that was a good idea
#just stop#shitty ux design#its bad enough i have to scroll thru the word vomit that passes for a recipe blog post thats just there for the seo juice#fuck all of u#why does everything have to be monetized#i mean i know why#fuck capitalism#project managers ruining everything they touch for $$$$
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