#i made this gofund me for someone

[luxshine]

I'm getting a TON, and I mean, a TON of messages asking me to promote their gofund me to get their families out of Gaza.

It breaks my heart, because on one hand, I have no money to help -unfortunately, being an english teacher/freelance artists means living from paycheck to paycheck- but on the other...

I'm sorry, but Internet has taught me to be very, very wary of people asking for money in dire situations.

I can't in good conscience share those posts if I don't know that they're 100% legit, and I have no idea how to go around making sure they are.

Can anyone point me to a resource where I can fact check them? It makes me feel bad, but If I am going to give a platform to the people who need help... I Don't want to accidentally also include someone who may be a grifter (I know, I know, it's horrible to think that... but I am old enough to remember the fake 9/11 survivors who weren't even in New York that day, and yet made bank out of donations because we, deep down, only want to help)

[kaito-module-of-the-day]

No no no no. Prev anon should not be accusing anyone of bots. You have to think of hundreds of thousands of people looking for help, interconnected to one another. Someone sees you reblog a gofund me, they send you thiers, so on and so forth a chain starts. That's why people get sent so many in my theory.

But to tell if one is fake:

A)vet it yourself. Do reverse image searches and see if donations are protected.

B) See what others say. Alot of people will reblog with #unvetted but clean image searche or similar tags, or others ways to prove it's real

C)Check and see if the campaign is under any documents or projects. There are plenty of sites and accounts that vet campaigns this way

It is good to practice caution. There ARE scams looking to prey on well-intentioned people. But doubt is the last thing the Palestinian people need. Don't simply assume that every go fund me is fake or that a majority are bots just because you're getting a lot of them. Many of these people don't speak English or use tumblr, so yes, their accounts are going to look "bot-like"

Thank you for the insight anon! People have made great points and I apologize for not thinking more critically about the ask.

[oldfangirl81]

Some have already touched on it but picturing the chaos social media would be during The Fall Of The House of Usher has me cackling.

Spoilers

• People trying to both do serious memorials for the dead after the orgy and make jokes about rich death from sexual misadventures.

• Then Camille dies at Victorine's place of work. So the quiet conspiracy folks who didn't think Perry's death was accidental start to make a louder noises online.

• Next comes the death of Leo. Half the siblings are dead in less than a week. Seemingly all unconnected although a lot say grief caused Leo's death. Hemsworth has to answer a lot of ridiculous questions once it comes out about the role the hammer had in Leo's mental breakdown.

Okay a lot of the next part comes from the idea that as Roderick gets closer to death the protections from Verna are fading to allow for consequences. So things could be hitting social media with much more attention than before. Like a veil being lifted from the world's eyes.

• When the details of the murder/suicide of Victorine come out people are truly horrified. But there are a few bloggers who get vindicated. Dupin wasn't the only person over the years who wrote and saw truth when nobody else did. There are lots of texts/tweets/Tumblr posts with "Dude, sorry I said you were crazy for thinking the Ushers were the devil incarnate. I just thought they were normal rich awful."

• Tamerlane's death sparks so many videos and posts on sex work, sex surrogacy, toxic fitness standards, etc. Her husband gets some support from the public but is also a big punchline in alt-right.

• The government conspiracy folks and the occultists have ended their online beef. They are in agreement that this is a deal with the devil coming due. They start fighting again as more deaths happen as to which Usher made the deal, a few even try to say it was somehow Annabell Lee's fault.

• The aftermath of Freddie's death is a lot of disbelief. And more people wondering if maybe there really was something supernatural at work. People use historical examples as proof it is just chaotic forces of the universe but others point out they can't prove those instances weren't supernatural too.

• Lenore dies and her AI is active but very clearly twisted and broken. Causing more genuine anger towards Madeline Usher. At least one of her classmates is online influencer who is heartbroken and engraged in equal parts.

• Madeline Usher's gravestone is never free from vandalism. Actually most of the Ushers graves are vandalized. Lenore's always has flowers. Someone tracks down where Annabell Lee is buried after more facts come out. They gofund a proper grave marker for her.

• Then someone finds the tape Dupin left. It gets uploaded online. Dupin never confirms the authenticity of it because he wasn't born yesterday. That leads to debates of those that believed it was supernatural all along and those convinced the tape is a fake.

• Still the world offline mostly just puts it down to tragedy mixed with rich people bullshit. It ends up being considered a thing like bigfoot or faking the moon landing.

[chibigaia]

hey, hi. sorry for sending this ask. I know it might inappropriate but we badly needed some help right and i hope you’d consider .. its for our cat who needs immediate care, you can find the post in my blog as i pinned it. We’re also trying to sell my son’s ps5 to get us some help funding the cost, just incase you know someone who might be interested. Hoping you’d be so kind to boost/share to help us alleviate the cost as it would tremendously help us a lot. if you can, pls try to answer this privately as some people might i pressure you to do so.. i know its weird, just wanted to avoid it if possible. Thanks a lot, and sorry again for being so direct. 🙏

THIS IS A SCAMMER^

I was already sensing something was off and decided to investigate the account, and then a friend joined in to help me double check stuff

not only the blog has been around for only four days and the first post they made was asking for money, but thankfully @mindofthemage also made me notice that they forgot to remove the tiktok watermark

and upon further investigation from her, since I don't use tiktok, we have confirmation that the paypal addresses and names don't match, not to mention the tiktok user is 26 and this tumblr user claims to be 30 while also stealing the rest of the original user's story

kyra45 also listed this user as scammer on their blog four days ago, when the blog started its activity

linked in the post above is the real gofund me

[beardedmrbean]

I hope BLM pays his bail. Or whatever the "Pay all black people's bails !" org was called.

For a few moments I thought you were talking about mr goodbye bicep, was gonna say he didn't get arrested.

has a gofund me that at lest check had made about $900 of the $2500 he's hoping for, which that's a tiny amount of money for the amount of damage that was done to him in this particular incident,

and this one wasn't his fault, unlike pointing a gun as someone who's already dropped a couple others.

There's a variety of those particular funds out there, guy needs to be granted bail before they can step in, also

I know one closed down after someone they put up bail for killed or raped someone and is being sued as a result, but hopefully they're being more discerning about who they post for.

I realize this is a small % of the people they've gotten out on bail, but maybe check to see what the charge is next time or something.

If it's protesting and civil disobedience going to jail is pretty normal and to be expected.

Even the ACLU admits that one.

[audreyweed-barnes]

As a giver my whole life, I have now found myself on the opposite side. My daughter and I have been through so much.. My husband, Avas father, is back in jail facing prison. His actions of DV on us is why he is there. I'm really not one to put my business out in the open because I just don't agree with judging or hatefulness. But as a single mom working 5 side jobs and raising my daughter Intermonks all of them, I'm just not making enough to keep our home, let alone diapers and wipes.. I know I'm not a failure, and I made the decision to keep my daughter safe. She's my absolute world, and there's nothing I wouldn't do for her. I'm not asking for sympathy, so please don't think, oh, just another someone looking for a hand out.. My friend made a gofund me to try and help us out. It was a very kind gesture she didn't have to do. I don't want to lose our home. My daughter needs her home. She doesn't deserve to be going through this. No DV survivors should have to face these struggles alone. I will keep doing my very best day after day to provide for Ava and myself. If anyone would like to donate, I will provide the link below. If anyone would please just send good vibes our way would be very helpful as well. We appreciate everyone so very much ❤️ thank you all!

https://gofund.me/0ed16627

#gofundme #motherlove #hardtimes #wewillgetthroughthis #please #goodvibes #sendlove #domesticviolencesurvivor #support #babygirl #thankyou #love #positivechange #positivethoughts #futureisbright #singlemomlife #singlemommy #fightforwhatsright #muchlove #godbless

[lovelivingmydreams]

Please don't skip me, I'm very scared, I don't want to die !!

My LGBTQ+ Brothers and Sisters, Save Me from the Bombing and Violence ,You Are My Only Hope

My name is Nour, I am from northern Gaza 🍉.

I once lived a peaceful life, filled with simple dreams, but everything changed on October 7th, 2023, when war destroyed Gaza. I was forced to flee my home, and now I live alone in a tent made of torn fabric in southern Gaza.

The constant bombings are unbearable, but the fear of violence because I am a lesbian in a society that rejects me is even worse. Every day, I live in constant terror of being targeted, judged, and harmed simply for who I am.

Alongside this fear, I’m struggling to survive with extreme shortages of food, water, and basic supplies. Life has become a daily battle just to stay alive.

I urgently need your help. I cannot stay here any longer. Please help me find safety, dignity, and the chance to live freely as myself.

Every donation, no matter how small, brings me hope for a better tomorrow. Your support can change my life.

Please reblog my post

Please Take Action Now‼️

GFM Donations Link Here 🍉🍉

https://gofund.me/51b6c33c

‎‏Thank you for your compassion and support during this critical time.

Reminder to help the people of palestine if you can but be responsible about it. Don't give money you can't spare. Don't give money if the one asking seems even a little shady. There are organisations that help on the ground that are recognized and trustworthy too if you aren't sure about where to send. It can be hard to choose a family to help knowing it leaves many who could use that help just as much without. Playing judge jury and executioner is not something any of us want to partake in i imagine so know that it is fine to donate in smaller ways or to bigger causes. Help how you can to the best of your judgement. Beware of scammers! If you truly want to donate to a gofund me make sure that your money goes to someone who needs it and not someone who wants it. Be cautious, be kind to yourself too, stay safe and take life one day at a time.

[wayward-bumblebee]

Hello there! My family needs to leave Gaza out of necessity . I appreciate your efforts and time in reading my plea. There are no words to describe the horrors unfolding in this place.never expected to find myself in this situation. Because of this horrible situation I have decided to come before you guys for a financial support so that I can evacuate my family from this hell that we are into.The funds will be strictly used for the evacuation . I will personally bear any additional expenses incurred.Your support will make a significant difference in alleviating the suffering of my family ,We urgently need any kind of support before it is to late. As time ticking away translates to lives lost in Gaza I'm here and ready to answer any questions or concerns you may have.Kindly reach out and connect with me

Reminder to all of my followers that while a genocide is happening and we are all looking for ways to help the people suffering -

Please be on the lookout for scams.

Some of the tells are:

The account reaching out is days old.

Their post asking for help is an exact copy of the asks they're sending

Their link sends you to PayPal instead of a gofund me

They offer no proof of them actually being in need of aid

The amount of money they are asking for doesn't line up with what they're saying they need to do (ie $700 will do very little to get someone out of Gaza rn)

Sometimes they'll ask you to answer the ask in private which is a major red flag

Another big one is that they've made multiple accounts and asked the same thing to different people, all linking to the same PayPal

So Mr. Cecil Wangila, whatever your reasoning behind this - you should be ashamed. You'll garner no sympathy from me nor my followers by using a genocide to put money into your pockets while people are dying.

Everyone stay informed

[reilleclan-blog]

4am thoughts

Surprise surprise, I'm still here.

I know it would never happen but I wish these literal billionaire- millionaire celebrities that are coming out with new collabs and new music and all this bullshit would Make a TikTok account and look up all these gofund me pages and donate at least 20k or something to them. I really wish a billionaire celebrity would have the courage, or the care to donate back to the ppl that made them famous. I know it would never happen but I just wish. I just wish this world wasn't so cruel. It's so cruel that ppl kill themselves. Who gave anyone the right to tell them their life doesn't matter. Everyone deserves to be here except for the exceptions but I wish the world made me feel wanted and others as well. I unfortunately had to see a mutual on TikTok say they were going to kill themselves b/c their family told them to and u know life is suffocating. I truly felt like their feelings were valid but it made me sad they felt they couldn't live here. This world made them feel unwanted and I wish it wasn't like that. They were nonbinary and a black woman and shit like that is ten times worse for us. Their own family telling them that, it is the saddest thing to live thru cause I felt every part of that pain. Ppl that should protect and love us , abuse us instead. I wish you well I really do.

And to add to this shit cake, I saw this kid hugging the grave of their mother's. No headstone, just rubble hoping their mom would hug them, but she's dead. The kid crying their eyes out longing for someone they love but can't see anymore is the cruelest thing. Thinking about it, my best friend was killed in a motorcycle accident and I'd cry my eyes out all the time. I'm sorry, I'm just sorry. It feels like the worst dream in the world to still get up and head to work, see ppl maskless, poor homeless, and still act like everything is fine. It's not fine nothing is ok. This place is sick

[pentagramstars]

Obligatory, you can be trans in the game, there is a trans character that’s prominently featured. The goblins aren’t connected to any race other than the points you’ve made up.

The whole suppressing a goblin rebellion plot everyone was calling racist and problematic actually turned out to be an operation where the goblins were framed by the actual antagonists and the goblins were innocent all along. This is revealed later in the game.

I’m sorry your upset. Be better. You embarrass the real members of the trans community by getting upset at a non issue, now speak out against atomic heart funding a terrorist nation attacking a peaceful one, thanks.

It's so early in the morning do you not have like a job or school or like a life fucking christ.

Brannan ghey is dead. Are you fucking happy, are you. A child is dead and you want to up my ass about a boycott. Fuck right off.

Gofund me for her family

https://href.li/?https://gofund.me/25376b57

Hot takes under the bar.

If you don't know, I had a post about the new Harry Potter kind of blow up at lest it go more notes then I'm used to and I've gotten a lot of comments and ask most of which I delete but it's got me thinking more about the thought process of this kind of fake activism, cause it kind of every where. The same account say "we need to come together and fight bigotry" can even save themselves the 70 dollar to not play a game so many people have clame to be willing to boycott. Media consumption does not come without consequences under capitalism. If you can live with knowing that you have help fund the antitrans then fine. If you think but they put a litte asterisk next to the racism that makes ok fine.

Play the game no one's stopping you, but stop calling youselve an activist. Stop saying you care about minoritys because you don't.I've seen a LOT "we as the left need to be better" post and like fuck off. I get it calling someone and ass gets you nowhere but crist it been a week and I can smile while ass whole like this spam my inbox. This is as kind as you are going to get.

[madeliar]

RPC !!! PLEASE READ !!! IMPORTANT !! ( TW: DEATH ) 

i am so unbelievably hurt to share with you all that we’ve lost someone in the rpc. jordan, who wrote @viciousheart​, @flamereigns​, & many others, has passed away. her mother contacted me via jordan’s discord to let me know. i asked her mother if there was anything i can do to help, & she asked me to share the link to the gofundme page they’ve made for jordan. as most of you know, jordan had recently lost her father. her mother now has two funeral expenses to pay for. please, please, PLEASE consider donating to the gofund me HERE. if you cannot donate, please share this.

i am thinking of making a rest in peace post where rpers alike can memoralize jordan, & i was thinking of sending her that post. if you would reply to this post with a heart if you’d be interested if i did that.

GOFUNDME LINK ONE MORE TIME.

SIGNAL BOOST. SIGNAL BOOST. SIGNAL BOOST.

[luxshine]

The more I think about it, the more I hope the woman who caused the Tour de France is never found. Or, more precisely, is never found by the GENERAL PUBLIC.

Should she be reprimanded? For sure. Pay a fine? Most probably. While the Tour is also responsible for ensuring the safety of the bikers, common sense should have told her that try to put her cardboard thing in front of the cameras was going to put someone at risk of running into it. And to be honest, for that message? It was not worth it unless her Omi and Opi were in their deathbed and their last wish was to see a forty-something bike pile crash.

BUT I don’t want the public to know who she is. No name, no photo, no anything. Because every time I think of “stupid sport fan who did something really idiotic” I think of Steve Bartman, aka. the most hated man in Chicago, aka. Florida Marlin’s MVP of 2003, aka. that one man who cost the Cubs the chance to get to the World Series in 2003 and break the curse  a few years early than they finally did because he tried to get a foul ball and in doing so, he deflected it away from Chicago’s Left fielder Moises Alou, and well, he cost Alou the catch. And while he was not the only one who reached for that ball, and it WAS a foul ball, the fact is that it was HIS hand the one who bumped the ball away from Alou. And had Alou catch it on the fly, it would have been the second out of the inning, which was at the time 3-0 for the Cubs. Instead, the Cubs allowed the Marlins 8 runs, lost the game, ultimately lost the Series and the Marlins went on to win the World Series in what I am sure made Robert Zemeckis almost die laughing even if it was the Marlins and not the Gators. 

AHEM.

Bartman had to be escorted out of the field by SECURITY. By the time he arrived home, he had been doxxed. EVERYONE in Chicago knew his name, and worse, everyone WITH BATS knew his name and face. And most of those people had been drinking a lot that day.  Six patrol cars were sent to his house to make sure he  was safe. Illinois’s Major suggested he joined the Witness Protection program, and Florida offered him sanctuary. THAT’s how bad the harassment got. (And worse? He is STILL a Cubs’ fan. He was DEVASTATED to be called the cause his team, once again, got so close to victory and lost)

Sure,  the Cubs’s defended the guy, he is still living in Chicago -although he outright refuses to do ANY media appearance, after he said he was sorry in an interview;he even refused to appear on a documentary defending him- and no matter what baseball fan say? EVERYONE was reaching for that ball. Hell, even Alou was quoted as once saying that he wouldn’t have catch it anyway (although later, in true Baseball fashion, he claimed that nope, he had that ball straight in the glove). It’s what baseball fans do? The ball comes your way, or in running distance for you to catch it? YOU REACH FOR IT! It’s just that usually, you also check that there are no outfielders also reaching. But the original abuse was horrible. If it had happened now? Well, before 2016 and the curse was broken? Bartman would have NEEDED that sanctuary, and changing his name, and probably Gofund me some plastic surgery. Because Sport fans are VICIOUS.

So yeah, I hope no one ever finds out that poor woman’s name. Even if, just like Bartman, she should’ve known better, and unlike Bartman, she did cause injuries. 

[padalickingood]

-NEED HELP MOVING OUT-

Hi everyone! This one’s gonna be a long one but I hope I can implore you all to take a quick minute of your time to read this and hopefully share it with others TvT. I’ve really been taking my time procrastinating from writing this because I never liked talking much about my own personal situation and dumping that on people, but I’ve unfortunately reached a point where I'm a bit desperate for any kind of help If I am going to try and make this happen.  

Recently I’ve started a serious goal of saving up enough money in order to move out by early next summer. I have attempted to make plans to move from my family home many times in the past couple of years and unfortunately have never managed to get anywhere near to achieving that goal due to my financial situation. Things have gotten increasingly stressful and emotionally exhausting in my current situation and I’ve officially hit that point where I’m willing to ask for assistance online.  

As a freelance artist, even with my Etsy, Patreon, ko-fi, and commission work combined I barely manage to make enough for basic living essentials which doesn’t include any sort of insurance or homeowner/apt owner expenses. Currently I do my very best to pay for as much as I can on my own and even so I still require support from my parents by them allowing me to live with them and them providing internet etc. What I pay for out of pocket is limited to things I need personally such as food, clothes, basic living supplies, art/store supplies etc. I’ve also recently limited myself from buying anything that is not completely necessary for essential living like eating out, movies, buying gifts over a certain price limit for friends, as well as canceling any travel plans from here on out. 

At this point I feel like It’s important for me to explain why I am a freelance artist as opposed to having any other type of job that could potentially be easier and pay better. This may be a bit of a tl;dr but I feel like it should at least be mentioned because the impact it’s had. Several years ago (I wanna say 2013 ish?) I dropped out of my community college because of essentially having a breakdown. The entire experience had left such a negative impact on me that my mood had very noticeably 180’d from high school to 2nd year of college. It was probably the closest I've come to being any level of depressed, which is not a word I throw around lightly as it’s something I don’t think I've felt anywhere near the level of those who struggle with it. Overall those years were so incredibly demoralizing and difficult for me that I made the tough decision of leaving school, something I had never even considered doing in my past (I never even skipped class in high school up until last day of senior year lol). Deciding to leave when I did though was probably the right decision because to this day, I still feel the lasting negative effects those years had on me. After I left school, I picked up a retail job and worked there for about a year and half. It wasn’t something I was really eager to do but was necessary as I wasn’t going to school anymore. With no degree though a minimum wage job was my only real option. Unfortunately, my experiences working weren’t all that positive either (as something I'm sure many of you also experience). I struggled to maintain motivation and continued to feel incredibly negative. It got so bad that it effected my relationships with family and friends as it kept me in a very antisocial mood. I ended up quitting that job shortly after and decided to try and go full freelance. Ever Since then I've worked on building up my store, commissions and anything else I could to try and make money from my art. To this day I still struggle with building up my online presence to the point where I can make a living off of it, but one thing that drastically changed for the better was my mood. My mental health has always been an absolute priority for me and I make a conscious effort to never force myself into anything that I know will have a negative impact on my health, which is why I dropped out of college and quit that job. I knew that if I stayed there it would have absolutely gotten so bad that It would have left much deeper scars than it has. And Although working in Freelance is no easy task and comes with its own degrees of stress, I find it far more rewarding and worth managing that stress. 

But as a result of those years I’ve been afraid of going back to either school or a minimum wage job. I know if I return to a job like that it will pull me back into a mental space that I'm just not willing to sacrifice myself to, and as far as College goes, I simply can’t afford it. However, with deciding to become a freelance artist I've dedicated my time to trying to build myself back up with my art and create a presence online where I can simultaneously do what I know makes me happy while also earning a living off of it. My progress has been slow and over the years I've felt like I've hit a standstill which brings me to my overall goal of wanting to move out. As I mentioned before I had been making attempts to move since around the time I worked in retail. Things haven’t panned out since then as I am still struggling to try and build up my store/Patreon/overall customer basis online. Unfortunately, also within these past few years tensions have been at a pretty constant high in my household because of it. There’s an added weight of still being so reliant on my parents after all these years and it being used against me, that the stress I’ve accumulated from it has kept me from being as productive as I would like. Recently with some current events I’ve just about hit a breaking point and am willing to do anything I can in order to save up so I can officially move out. I’m incredibly tired emotionally from still being here and I’ve started to take serious steps to making this move happen. Luckily I’ve been able to find a friend I can move out with so I won’t be paying rent on my own and I’ve calculated how much I could potentially make a month if I stick to a packed workload schedule. It’s not ideal but I’ve committed to this freelance work and I’m willing to work as hard as I can to reach my goal, and if all goes well then by this time next year i’ll be able to move out.

In writing this I hope that I can ask for support in helping me raise enough so I can try and move out of an unhealthy situation into hopefully something better.  

And to be clear I'm not doing a kickstarter or gofund me. That’s just simply not something this warrants. I know have options and I know that all I need to do is to work much much harder than someone with a 9to5 in order to earn what I need. The only reason I decided to write this out is to share WHY your support is so incredibly important to me and why sharing my work to anyone you can is very essential to my livelihood. Right now, I am very far away from earning nearly enough on a monthly basis in order to move out within a year, but I'm hoping that can change for the better. I simply ask for those who support my work to continue to do so and for those who haven’t and are absolutely financially able to consider supporting my work and share it with anyone you know. Whether it’s commissions, store merch, Patreon rewards, ko-fi etc. Every tiny bit helps me so much!  

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Here are the ways you can support me!

✪ Patreon: With the cheapest tier being 2$ a month you guys can get early access to all of my artwork a month in advance as well as other bonus content at the 2$ and above tier that is exclusive to patrons only. I have details about my rewards and goals on my Patreon that you don’t have to pay to view! Simply visit my homepage and browse through the rewards and bio to see if it interests you! 

✪ Ko-fi: I recently added a moving goal fund there which will show its progress with each kofi donation! The goal is ambitions and I don’t really expect to reach it but I wanted to just aim high and try and earn as much as I can. Also, I do sketch commissions there occasionally and may do other types of small commissions. So, if you’d like to support me while also getting something for yourself keep an eye out for my announcements on my twitter! 

✪ Commissions/adoptables: I’m going to officially be opening up my commissions soon but before that I wanted to try my hand at selling some adoptables! I’ll have more information about them after I finish up my current batch of commissions but I'm going to try and stick to those for now with some small YCH commissions sprinkled in between. After those though I’ll be opening up regular commissions again ^^ 

✪ Etsy:  I’m actually not sure If I'm going to keep my store up for much longer since I get charged a fee on each listing but before it closes you could help support me by buying merch from my store! 

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And lastly, I want to thank everyone who took the time to read through this and for those who follow me/support me in any way that you can. Even your reblogs/retweets on my work mean so much to me and help me so much I could never fully express how much I’m thankful to have such an amazing and lovely following of people <3 Thank you for your time

[neogenesis85]

I seriously need to get away from this apartment.

I need a break.

I was done before the quarantine, but I’m now going on month three working from home and I can’t deal with all the emotional shit that everyone keeps pilling on me. And my fam are the ones that, unfortunately, have to go into work. So at least they have some kind of outlet.

Tried to tell my mom my cousin’s cremation was paid for and we’d probably get him back by tomorrow. And since she’s been drinking since this morning she turns it around about her and the fucking credit card bill (that I told her is taken care of) and how his mom hasn’t contributed towards his funeral costs.

And like, I get it. But my aunt was out of work for a month and we were waiting on the gofund me money. Which we have now. Along with my aunt’s and my stimulus check. And the cremation costs weren’t nearly as much as the cleaning crew was charging. Which was the only thing we used my mom’s credit for.

Last week when I had to pay the cleaning crew I made sure that she wanted to use her card for that purpose. I asked her several times if that’s what she wanted to do. If not, they could have waited and we would have negotiated some type of payment plan. She assured me she wanted to do this for both her sister and her nephew.

Now she’s reneging on it, feeling as if my aunt hasn’t contributed anything towards any of the funeral costs. My aunt already said she will pay her whatever she could before the end of this month. But we also had rent to pay and the cable bill is due. Also my car was down again and I had to deal with that. And my aunt is only getting a week of unemployment out of the whole month she wasn’t working.

But you can’t have a rational conversation about it with my mom because she’s always drunk and nothing productive gets solved.

I’m just fucking tired and done and all I want to do is dip out for a few days.

And tbh, she really is one to talk about someone owing her money when she massively fucked up my everything when she was smoking that rock and would steel my checks (among many other things) to get money out of my bank. She owes me sooooooo much more than the $1500 she’s worried about. As far as I’m concerned she can fucking eat that credit card bill. She fucked my credit up as a kid using my SS# so fuck hers that’s she’s trying to rebuild.

But that would be me being petty and making everything about me.

And unlike my mom, I’m adult enough to step out of my feelings and assumptions and look at the bigger picture.

She only does that when she’s sober. And that’s a really rare amount of time these days.

[imtherealsebastiansatan]

I find it so interesting that one of the KK Libra is unable to afford to taker her child on a trip so request gofund me page to help take her child to nyc for her birthday meanwhile is traveling all over the place to volunteer for comic cons in hopes of getting close to Sebastian in one of his cons. Wtf she’s also sneak her way into one of the promoters as a friend who knows sebastian and interviews him during cons. Libra and Christine. This is scary behavior.

She forgot her child's birthday thirsting over Seb. I forgot about that and every time someone brings it up I get annoyed. I'm all for women doing their thing but you made the choice to be a mom, don't neglect your kids.

I also noticed they are befriending con employees and such.

The good thing about these girls making everything public is that everyone had evidence of their behavior and everyone knows where they will be. All it takes to make the right people aware of their intentions is an email of a dm.

I am more concerned with a certain other stalker that just appears everywhere. 

[lovelivingmydreams]

Help Us Endure the Hardships of War, A Christmas Wish from Gaza

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Hi Friend,

This Christmas, while homes are filled with joy, my family sits in the shadows of war. I’m Ghazi Al Amoudi, and my wish this year is simple—to give my family hope amidst the challenges we face.

War has taken everything: our home, safety, and the little comforts that once made life easier. Each day, I promise my family brighter days, but I can’t do it alone.

This Christmas, you can be our miracle.

Your kindness could mean food on our table, warmth on freezing nights, and the reminder that we’re not forgotten.

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This season of giving, a donation or simply sharing our story can make all the difference. Thank you for bringing us hope when we need it most.

Wishing you and your family a Christmas filled with love and light.

With gratitude, Ghazi Al Amoudi

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