#i lean heavily towards women

[yearningaces]

Hot take: yearning only wants to write about men and not women bc you don't wanna be the leading party even in a story so you need a male character to be the one 'in charge'

Bold of you to assume I wouldn't fold like a wet tissue for a woman the exact same way

[swallowtail-ageha]

We support women's wrongs but also if they literally dare to have any kind of kink or ship that is what we think to be gross or just anything that isn't mommy dommy pegging they are literally The Origin Of Misogyny and the reason why conservatorism is on the rise. We are feminists btw

[cassierobinsons]

@ilarual YOUR TAGS ON THIS POST ARE SO REALLLL I had to make a separate post about it

cas canonically does not angst about liking men. liking one man in particular yeah, but not about being gay in general. in an AU though? he literally comes from a fundamentalist xtian """community""" (cult) that has a disproportionate level of power over the lives of the general public. everyone in the cult is a huge narc, including himself. one of the only trustworthy people is his big sister who ran away and went no contact years ago. His mother is a CONVERSION THERAPIST who, let’s be real, probably isn't great about the autism either. too. i don’t get people who think cas’ backstory is impossible or even difficult to adapt to a mundane setting because the parallels are blatant and everything hints towards cas being deeply closeted.

I mean fuck, remember how balthazar was like “wow i’m so glad i rebelled and get to do whatever i want now including have obscene amounts of gay sex” and s6 cas was like :O you're using your freedom for HEDONISM? instead of SERVING THE CAUSE??? meanwhile he had spent the last year watching dean rake leaves in dead silence. and that's a cas whose family were only homophobic in the metaphorical and not literal sense. AU cas is not going to figure out that he's gay without a real fight!

[frnkiebby]

that gorgeous fucking profile~🎃

[unrely]

'Anonymous' @neverhangd said:

Smash or pass Anne Bonny, from this totally anonymous anon, for Izzy 👀

Send Smash or Pass + a name and my muse will say if they would smash or pass on that person.

The answer takes some thought, a few immediate issues coming to mind. Notably, she's a woman - which, historically, isn't his type. He'd had a few embarrassing situations with a whore or two before he started to figure his shit out. Then again, sex was a lot more complicated back then, overall.

More importantly, in a professional manner, she's under him, meaning she shouldn't be under him. He doesn't want to go around making a habit of sleeping with people he's supposed to be commanding. Though pirates aren't as strict with that sort of thing as a navy would be, and Stede's ship even less so. Still, it's something he notes, carefully - that she could feel pressured, especially with those starry eyes she looks at him with sometimes.

. . . It's nice being looked at like that. Most of Bonnet's crew has forgot that he's one of the most dangerous pirates alive. Or used to be, anyway. It's nice being admired, knowing he's still worth looking at.

She fights like a wildcat. Maybe she fucks like one too.

Smash.

[thecedarchronicle]

i have such a love/hate relationship with being unable to transition in my life currently, for a multitude of reasons

because while it sucks, not feeling like the body im in reflects me 100% (i do feel like its *me*, always has been *me*, just not like..the full picture of me) the entire reason it took me so long to come to terms with being fully a boy is that i don't hate being a girl! i enjoy a lot of it! but in the way that i don't want it to be my entirety. i want womanhood like a cosplayer wants to out on a wig. i love being a girl in the way a drag queen loves being a queen. i love being feminine, but i don't want to be seen as just feminine.

so now that i've come to terms with the fact that i won't be satisfied until i'm actually transitioning, instead of feeling trapped by femininity i feel like...i'm doing a victory lap. a farewell tour.

i don't hesitate to compliment other girls anymore because I know when i'm fully passing as a guy it won't be seen the same way. when i meet a girl for the first time instead of shying away from "being a girl's girl" and gossiping about her trip in italy where her boyfriend cheated on her; instead i lean into it, not thinking twice about how i might make the conversation awkward because i know one day this isn't going to happen one conversation in with a girl i've never met before. because now that i know why these things always made me uncomfortable despite how much i like them, i can enjoy them while they last. having a pad on hand for the random lady in walmart. being in a thrift store and an older woman approaching me to ask if the yellow dress or the purple dress looks better, and i say the purple one because it suits her eyes. because i know one day, i will be happier because ill feel so much more comfortable in my own body, but i know i'm going to miss these parts of being a girl.

i love women!!! and i love being among women! but i don't love being a woman, not like the joy ive felt after accepting that i'm not. but that's okay, and i know i will miss it, but that means i can enjoy it while it's here ❤️

[valkyrjah]

gwyn sure does love ✨women✨

[deepwoundsandfadedscars]

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[xieliancore]

i said it on twitter the other day but feel free to use they/them pronouns for me as well apart from she/her!! i keep finding myself even at my age and i feel comfy with both! just please don't use masc pronouns or terms!

[danggirlronpa]

🍑 for Mikan

I am always. ALWAYS. On my Twogami/Mikan shit. The best thing that came out of DR3 was getting to watch the dynamic of Twogami (physically cannot stop himself from protecting and caring for all the others, no matter how out of character it is for Byakuya, at the expense of his own life) and Mikan (takes all of her self confidence and joy from treating others' wounds as a way of making herself feel powerful & useful, is constantly degrading herself in an attempt to make others happy) banding together to take care of Ryota...the extension of that dynamic in UTDP when they come together to force Hifumi to take care of himself, and later when you explicitly see them taking care of each other and gaining self confidence as a direct result of their relationship...mwah. Mutually beneficial and loving relationships for people who feel fundamentally unlovable. Mom/Dad dynamics.

And then also Ibuki/Mikan, obviously. Because I'm a lesbian and have eyes.

[imwritesometimes]

anyway... I think Conclave should win all the awards simply because the whole time I was watching it I was thinking 'god, my lapsed Irish-Catholic grandma would have loved this movie'

[peacesmith]

as much as i talk about being gay and stuff, i like to think some of you guys get whiplash when i talk about women

[ansburg]

see also:

would you date a bisexual man? unpacking the "downlow" paradox by khadija mbowe (video)

why we hate bi men by verilybitchie (video)

bisexual men’s experiences with discrimination, internalized binegativity, and identity affirmation: differences by partner gender (sarno et al., 2020)

between a gay and a straight place: bisexual individuals’ experiences with monosexism (roberts et al., 2015)

gonna be honest i don´t like playersexual characters because it makes them feel less like actual characters and more like dolls. what i mean is there´s no way astarion is sexually attracted to women i dont buy it

[imtrying-ok]

I will say hatred of men in a vacuum is not systemically harmful. It's definitely not nice but it's not bigotry.

But it is used to justify bigotry.

Common stereotypes for visibly deformed+disabled people are things like social ineptitude, lack of morals ('evil cripples' are a whole monster on their own),

And then general idea of being a 'man', in a patriarchal sense (strong, determined, sexual), combine with stereotypes present in marginalization.

So when people interact with visibly deformed+disabled men, they're typically doing so through both these lenses.

Think of a visibly deformed+disabled man. There is a stereotype surrounding those men; that they're creepy, that a lack of understanding social cues means they'll assault women, the semi-unconscious logic of deformed=creepy=perv. Think of something like Perfect Blue (1997), or like, any media appearance of dwarfism. This shit goes double for men with dwarfism.

People treat disabled men like shit; act like they're assaulters-in-waiting, act like they're manipulative for having needs, treating any man visibly deformed as if he's a resentful incel freak, backing away from him in a froward, doing anything to not be near him. And they will justify their ableism with "it's because he's a man". They will say that they're "just wary of men", while leaning into heavily ableist stereotypes, using the fact he's a man to justify their treatment of him.

When a woman deliberately takes a path to avoid me, I think: "would she do this if I wasn't deformed? Does she even know?"

Yeah and all of this is to say. This is why trans men generally hate hearing "I hate all men". Because it's used to justify people's transphobic biases towards us.

When a woman tells me directly how much she hates men, I think: "would she be saying this to me if I wasn't trans? Is she saying this because I'm a man, or because she wants to show her distaste for how I transitioned to a man?"

(I am a visibly deformed+disabled trans man, I wrote this post using language I prefer, keep in mind not everyone is fond of being called "deformed".)

[aerael-a]

Koichi, do you have more boyfriends or girlfriends?

          𝐊𝐎𝐈𝐂𝐇𝐈  𝐖𝐀𝐒  𝐀𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐄𝐃  𝐁𝐘  𝐓𝐇𝐄  𝐐𝐔𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍,  but  it  wasn’t  one  that  was  very  hard  to  answer.  ❛        I’ve  always  had  more  girlfriends  than  boyfriends,        ❜  he  commented,  thinking  back  to  his  childhood  and  school  years.  ❛        Both  platonic  and  romantically  speaking.        ❜  

            It  was  only  after  adulthood  that  he  started  giving  men  more  of  a  chance.  He  didn’t  regret  it,  but  women  still  held  him  in  their  grips  very  tightly.    ❛        I  still  lean  heavily  towards  women  for  both  friendship  and  romance  but  I  am  no  longer  so  opposed  to  men  as  I  once  was.        ❜

[ill0usainte]

Had to tell her that dick off limits I hop on it at night, I'm a menace.

pairings: rafayel x possessive!reader

cw: unprotected sex, cowgirl, overstimulation, whiny!rafayel, crying, dom!reader, cum play, sub!rafayel, playing with paint, needy!rafayel (come on, it's him we're talking about), possessiveness, jealousy (sorta), he loves possessive women sm

You can't convince me that Rafayel isn't a whiny sub while you're riding him.

You didn't like the way women were so touchy and flirty towards him during his art exhibition earlier. But you know damn well, that Rafayel is still going to be the one crying later.

His back was laid against the floor of his studio. He panted heavily, trying to catch his breath. His white-collared shirt fell off his shoulders, buttons not in place. He whined against your touch-- body reacting to every move you make.

He flutters his lashes, eyes glassy as he looked at you with his blue orbs, his gaze filled with love and lust-- face flustered as he whimpered.

His lips quivered, feeling his gritty cock inside your warm pussy. Just right after Rafayel entered your tight hole, he immediately came.

Can't resist how it sucks his whole cock so good--your walls clenching him inside.

Resting his head against your bare chest, whimpering like a puppy, apologizing to you like a blabbing mess.

You did this to him.

This man will let you; use him, make you do everything to him-- just to please you.

Oh god, what would the sea even react if they found out how freely and unhesitantly their sea god submits himself to a mere human?

You can't help but grin, adoring his pitiful state. Feeling his cum leaking out of your throbbing hole, dripping down to his cock. You leaned over and pulled him into a heated kiss, earning a moan from him between.

Hot tongues dancing inside as he savors the taste of your plump lips.

You pulled back from the sloppy kiss, his lips swollen as he looked at you with his lustful eyes. Saliva connected your lips and his-- the look on his face was begging for more. You caressed his cheek with your hand; Rafayel leaned into your touch as he placed his hand over yours, moving his head and placed a soft kiss on your palm.

You leaned back, the way your tight hole swallowed his whole cock, the way it clung to it-- makes it hardened more as it twitches inside of you.

Your soft hands resting over his pelvis-- soothing it circles with your thumb as you smeared his cum and your juices together.

"Mon amour, p-please... 'lease, use me as you please." He begged, as if he were pleading you to take control over him. His mind went hazy; he was in pure ecstasy. Keeping his pace-- pounding his cum deep inside your womb.

He's so desperate-- to feel you, touch you, and be inside you.

Trying to catch your breath, you placed one hand on his chest while the other reached out for the brush with wet paint. Holding it, you positioned it against his pelvis, which was already smeared with his cum and your juices.

Fuck, he finds it hot when you're in control-- dominating him as you please. And most especially-- how possessive you are.

As you ran the brush against it, you wrote something with bold, capital letters. Rafayel pursed his lips, his body quivering with every stroke of the brush.

After finishing, you threw the brush away. He leaned in to see what you had written:

"MY PROPERTY. ♥"

He loves possessive women!