#i just enjoy bi/pan imogen and making someone who does experience romantic attraction aspec

[moonmoonthecrabking]

i see the comphet lesbian imogen idea (not for me but if that’s what makes you happy go for it!!!) i respect it i appreciate how it makes people feel but i raise you: bi/pan demi imogen.

i’m not demi myself so i can’t speak to the experience, but from my understanding it make sense that her three canonical* crushes (nick, ben, and sahar) were all long-term friends of hers. also, that she only had feelings for sahar (that she realised or that reappeared) *after* they had become closer again.

from my understanding, it is possible for someone who’s demisexual to stop experiencing attraction when the emotional bond is broken. the anecdotes quora showed me said that only happened for them in extreme cases, and i don’t know if that applies to bens treatment of her, but if it does it could explain her not being able to answer elle as to why she even likes him.

besides that, maybe for imogen the “we’ve been friends for a long time” explanation isn’t just comphet, but is the best way for her to understand her feelings.

also as i’ve mentioned i’m not demi myself, so if anyone is please let me know if i’ve gotten anything wrong so i can edit the post!!!