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valerieality · 23 hours ago
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"im shifting to get dick idc 🤭" "hot take but permashifting is actually fine" "my s/o soo fine" "the easiest way to shift" omg idccccc your honor who gafff like come onnnn. please make this worth your time
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olderthannetfic · 21 days ago
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I love poking fun at books that are poorly written/goofy because I’m a lifelong hater and being petty is fun sometimes. Booktok shlock is perfect for this, and I would love to read an overlong lulzy breakdown of exactly WHY it’s poorly written, but anytime I read criticism of booktok stuff it’s just moralizing garbage.
Like I do not care if it’s “problematic” and “justifying abuse” (and most of the time it’s not even justifying abuse), I’m here to laugh/rage at bad writing. I don’t like a lot of Booktok shlock either, but at the end of the day it’s a matter of taste, not morals. I like plenty of problematic garbage, it’s just different garbage.
Booktok critics like to crow about overconsumption, claiming that “books are becoming products not art”, as if poor quality mass market paperbacks haven’t been a thing for ages. Any place selling used books is saturated with mills&boon romances from the 70’s. This type of cheap, easily digestible fiction is and always has been the most prominent kind of fiction on the market. Booktok just makes it more visible for people who want to find it.
When I go to Barnes and Noble I am free to walk right past the “inspired by Booktok” table and lurk in the adult sff section. Like I get that the Books You Don’t Want to Read being the ones that are front and center can be annoying, I am also tired of searching through sff recommendations and having to scroll through 11 Sarah J Mass books. But that doesn’t point to The Death of Literacy or whatever
It’s also hilarious when these people act like their twee ownvoices hopepunk cozy found family glurge is Good Literature that is soooo much better than your average Booktok fare, but honestly, if I want to read something to turn my brain off, the spicy enemies to lovers dark fae shit is a million times more fun because at least it’s not trying to be morally pure
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One of the reasons it's so hard for a collector to find gay pulps (or any pulps, but I care about the gay ones) is because those physical books were absolutely supposed to be disposable trash.
My only issue with booktok garbage is that there's too much het enemies-to-lovers dark fae derivative schlock.
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saintsenara · 2 months ago
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For unhinged and deranged ships: Snape/Bellatrix.
thank you very much for the ask, anon!
i adore these two haters, and not just in a "toxic situationship which leaves dozens dead" way.
because - as the most delusional snapemort defender in history, who would also defend bellamort with my life - i think it's inherently plausible that snape spends his period as a death eater during the first war feeling profoundly jealous of bellatrix.
after all, she's the dark lord's favourite - and voldemort isn't exactly shy about this being known [she wouldn't run around yapping about he "calls me his most loyal, his most faithful" if she had even the slightest feeling that voldemort would murder her for leaking his pillow talk] - which means that, if you go in for the idea that he's sleeping with her, i think you can argue that he also permits her some degree of public physical affection. i don't think they're holding hands during acts of terrorism, or anything like that, but i do think that bellatrix is summoned away from group settings to join voldemort, everyone knows what they're about to get up to, and the dark lord doesn't care.
snape - in contrast - is kept as a pretty clandestine part of voldemort's operation. karkaroff can't think of anything specific to credibly accuse him of, sirius isn't fully convinced he could have been a death eater, and so on.
and this makes sense - it's clear that snape gets taken on by voldemort in a back-of-house role [to be a spy he can eventually place at hogwarts, and very probably originally to brew for him], and is peripheral to the more public-facing, combat side of voldemort's terror. which means that any time he spends with the dark lord is probably one-on-one - and any affection he receives from voldemort during these sessions [and look, i ship it...] is similarly private.
but it's also clear in canon that this order only continues for a few months after bellatrix gets out of azkaban, before things start to shift and she finds herself having to be the jealous one.
from the start of half-blood prince onwards, snape usurps bellatrix in voldemort's public favour [no matter what he's like with either in private]. and we know that she's not thrilled about this - not least because she's correctly worked out that snape's not trustworthy and voldemort's only response is to tell her to wind her neck in.
and we also know that snape fucking loves how annoyed she is - he's having the time of his life roasting her when she cockblocks narcissa by stomping around his front room [the line about "endless reminiscences of how unpleasant azkaban is"... a third-degree burn, i fear] - and that all of snape's best pairings feature that "we literally cannot stop hurling insults at each other, i will not rest until i've told them this next zinger, i am incapable of letting anything go" dynamic.
textbook enemies-to-enemies-who-fuck.
where this turns into enemies-to-lovers... is that both snape and bellatrix are clearly profoundly lonely people. and not only that, but profoundly lonely in strikingly similar ways - above all in that they're in love with someone who doesn't want them in the way they'd like to be wanted. i don't think bellatrix loses anything of her character - her cruelty, her temper, her resilience - if we also imagine her as a bit of a hopeless romantic [her joy at voldemort complimenting her - "no higher pleasure... that means a great deal, bellatrix, coming from you" - which vanishes when he turns it into an insult is but one example] who would jump at the chance to be mrs riddle. snape's unrequited love is well known.
neither of them seem to have friendships in which they're the priority - snape is close to lucius malfoy, but the relationship is nonetheless transactional; bellatrix clearly adores her sister, but she's secondary in narcissa's concerns to her husband and son. they live their lives in service to men who regard it as their duty to sacrifice themselves for their cause - snape with dumbledore, who may like him, but who also thinks of him primarily as a tool to bring about voldemort's defeat; bellatrix with voldemort, who considers her to have done the bare minimum in terms of loyalty to him by enduring fourteen years in azkaban [even though he also thinks this places her above all her fellow death eaters, who didn't even do that]. they both have experience of imprisonment - snape metaphorically, trapped in the school he doesn't seem to have particularly enjoyed and the childhood home he thought he'd escaped; bellatrix literally. they're both voldemort's exceptions in terms of the demographics of the death eaters - snape on account of his social class; bellatrix on account of her gender - which means that they depend entirely on maintaining the dark lord's goodwill and are peripheral to the elite male social group which makes up the rest of the inner circle.
and these similarities mean that they have a pretty high chance of being able to understand each other, comfort each other, and help each other move beyond their isolation...
until voldemort gets jealous, that is.
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llannasvsp · 10 months ago
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Dragons Rising Season 2, Episode 1: The Blood Moon
RAS AT SHADOW DOJOOOOOO
Not Ras bashing the Imperians.
I love that his intentions with the Source Dragon power are taken care of at the beginning of the season.
New intro!
Ninjago TikTok is so funny to me.
Love that the Mechanic didn't learn his lesson from Crystalized.
YES GIVE ARIN ALL THE HEARTS
In this house, we are Intelligent George haters.
RIYU IS SO BIG.
Arin angst hurts sooo bad.
MENTAL HEALTH MENTIONED RAAAGHH LETS GOOOO.
I am the no. 1 Mr. Frohicky lover and defender.
Lloyd manages to make me cry 7 minutes into the episode.
The fact that Lloyd feels like he needs to lie about his lack of sleep just hurts me. Put yourself first, once, please.
ZANE AND KAI PLAYING VIDEO GAMES!!! I love.
Zombie Lloyd.
LLOYD PLEASE STOP LYING.
First blood moon vision. I'm trying to understand it, but much like Lloyd, I cannot. Firstly, Beatrix is definitely still alive. Thirdly, we only see Zane, Arin, and Sora in this vision. Interesting.
Lloyd waking up and immediately going into an attack is just... shattering. Poor guy.
"Uncle". Glad to see the show is addressing that again.
Arin and Lloyd are the trauma besties.
Spirit Wu! I guarantee he's dead.
CINDER FIRST APPEARANCE RAAAGHHH (all I could think of was how @nyaskitten might've reacted to this HAH).
Arin and his pies is so cute.
I kind of love Kreel.
ARIN'S LITTLE SMILE AAAH HE'S SO CUTE.
Soraaaa hiding things like this never ends up well. Please tell someone. It doesn't have to Lloyd. Just. Tell. Someone.
I'm gonna be so honest, I thought Skylor would be in this episode once Riyu ran to that noodle cart. Don't know why I got my hopes up.
Poor Arin :( I want to give him a hug SO badly.
Oh, Arin, your parents would be proud of you no matter what.
OKAY SAMMM that anxious gasping for air was SO good.
CINDERS VOICE??!??!?!??!?!?
Man, Cinder hates kids.
There goes Arin's spine.
Obsessed with how Lloyd enters the fight.
Sam Vincent is doing SO good with portraying anxiety. Lloyd sounds horrified at the reality of his visions.
GONNNNG
Very solid first episode. We get right into the action and it sets up Lloyd's visions and sleep deprivation really well. We learn just enough about Ras' intentions to keep us engaged, but not enough that we know exactly what he wants. I adore that Ninjago is addressing mental health not only with Lloyd but also with Arin. I also love that we see Arin and Sora longing for what the other has.
I still don't want Arin to get elemental powers, but instead realize that he is valuable, loved, and vital to the ninja. I want him to learn that he is not "broken" or "a burden" just because he doesn't have an elemental power. Arin is so important to me.
On to the next episode!
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joejhang · 4 months ago
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my input into the thea discourse in the aftg fandom
tw: rape, SA, abuse, violence
spoilers ahead !!! full disclosure: these are my opinions and no one is obligated to agree w me but if u don't i'm literally begging u pls explain urself properly in replies or just don't engage. it's rlly not that deep i just can't w mfs who just say shit like "ur wrong" without giving it any real thought and acting mature and explaining their opinion. if ur a hardcore thea hater/lover honestly just do the smart thing and don't even read on. thanks pooks !!!
gotta preface this by saying: i am not a thea hater. she's done a lot of things wrong that i'll go into but i don't have a strong hatred or even dislike for her. that being said i'm fully aware that if there's anything that will get the aftg fandom riled up it's thea muldani or the extra content. one of those.
first off, i'm well aware that thea is very much a victim of the nest, as much as jean or kevin. and also we don't even fully know how deeply thea was entrenched in the shit that went down in the nest, all we know is that she probably didn't abuse kevin or jean the way others did, considering how she interacts w them in tsc. one of the main criticisms i see of thea is how she "handled" the whole situation w riko and kevin and finding out all of riko's abuse. ppl didn't like her "no harm no foul" attitude re: kevin's broken hand. i get this, considering it wasn't rlly "no harm no foul" given the lasting trauma left on kevin from the incident, and also how long he spent recovering. that shit leaves a long-term impact on ppl and riko still remains kevin's abuser, and thea was wrong for considering it to be "no harm no foul" bc there was harm done. that being said, i think ppl need to be aware that the nest was very much a cult, as neil so aptly puts it. and tbh i have had very little experiences w these sort of environments but i do know that the nest's mentality likely had a long-term impact on thea asw. no matter how deep the abuse went w the other ravens, they were all still subject to the deep-rooted competition and fear that everyone experiences in the nest. idk the full extent of it, but it's pretty safe to assume that thea (given how good of a player she is) is pretty deep in all the cult mentality. this isn't an easy thing to just grow out of, and a lot of the brainwashing that went on in the nest probably stuck w thea and contributed to her responses to finding out exactly what happened to jean and kevin in the nest.
one of the things i most dislike abt thea is the whole conversation between her and jean in tsc. i appreciate that she cares about jean and sort of took him under her wing, but i feel like what rlly stuck w me abt it all was the whole "tell me you weren't up to your old tricks again" line. obv this pissed a lot of ppl off in the fandom too, so i'm just gonna say my piece briefly; thea referring to the older ravens repeatedly raping jean on riko's orders as jean's "tricks" is fucked up. she probably didn't know that jean wasn't consenting and she didn't know riko ordered it, but she did know that jean was a child at the time and can't legally give consent, and she did know that it wasn't like he fucked his way up to the top cos he's had his number from the beginning. she was an adult at the time, and should've done more to protect jean. still, it's obvious why she didn't, cos again, she was also a victim of the nest, and was definitely not in the best position to help jean. that being said, her line does imply that it was jean's choice/fault for messing around and the wording is just pretty fucked, so i'm not gonna completely absolve her of any responsibility in this convo just cos she was also a victim.
another thing i see when ppl r responding to thea criticism is referring to the criticism as victim blaming. tbf, a good amount of it probably is, but i think there are still a lot of things to criticise about her, and just dismissing it as "blaming the victim" is a disservice to the ppl trying to make a valid point. stating that the way thea responded to finding out abt riko's abuse towards jean and kevin was wrong and careless isn't victim blaming. victim blaming is, as the term suggests, blaming the victim of a situation for the situation they're in. listen. thea is not a victim of riko's abuse, at least not in the same way jean and kevin are. thea was a victim of the nest, yes, but it's pretty clear that what jean and kevin experienced was out of her hands, and not on the same level (esp jean. idk what rlly went down between kevin and riko before the hand breaking incident). at the end of the day, i think the way thea dealt w the issue of riko and his treatment of kevin and jean was thoughtless, and pretty dismissive. but it also bears remembering that there wasn't much for her to do by the time she found out. riko died shortly afterwards, kevin took his place as the best striker on the court and jean was sent to the trojans to heal and recuperate. her response could've been more...sensitive (i don't think that's the right word but we'll go with it) but still, y'all will complain, but what was she supposed to do? nora already stated that she was angry at riko, but riko died soon after and other than her anger, there was nothing else for thea to do in her response.
lastly, another argument levelled at thea is re her relationship w kevin. i actually am not sure abt their age gap (i think kevin was 15 and thea was 18 when they first met???) but i do know that their relationship didn't start properly until kevin was an adult and a player for the ravens. i really don't see the problem with this, considering three years (as far as i know, it is three years) isn't a HUGE gap in maturity and by the time they were together they were both very much consenting adults. as far as we know, thea didn't make any moves on kevin when he was a minor, and (if i'm correct) kevin being 18 and thea being 21 when they first properly started getting together isn't anything problematic. they're in similar stages of life, in a very close environment that's toxic, yes, but that they're both familiar with, and it's clear that the feelings they have for each other aren't the same as the violent, repressed sexual feelings held by some of the other ravens. they do genuinely care about each other on some emotional level, much as the fandom may want to deny it, and i don't really think there was anything wrong with their relationship re: consent and the age gap.
anyway, that's really all i have to say except that i do think thea is a complicated and honestly pretty realistic character, given the horrific circumstances she experienced in the nest. i think the fandom is well within their rights to criticise her actions but it bears remembering that she is just a human being and is never going to be perfect, and i think the way she acts is very real and true to her personality and circumstances and she makes a lot of mistakes, but that's just the human condition. it's also insane how much hate thea receives when she's honestly pretty on par with most of the other aftg characters on the moral "scale", if that even exists here. it's pretty baffling how much hate thea receives when she doesn't act all that differently to andrew, neil and kevin. it erases a lot of her complexity and does a disservice to her character (which, if you think about it, we don't know all that much about) to just label her as a purely "good" or "bad" character. aftg is not meant to be portraying conventionally "good" people, and i just think all the thea discourse is really interesting to put under a microscope and dissect.
thanks for reading and i will say it again: if u don't agree with me, that's fine, feel free to explain ur opinions and ur side of things. if ur just gonna be bitching and moaning abt how wrong i am or how much u hate/love thea, take it elsewhere. just don't engage. how easy is that??? just keep scrolling.
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nelmyriel · 5 months ago
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[ Castlevania: Nocturne ]
Briefly (haha, nope) about my attitude to Netflixvania: I’m neither a fan of the original animated series, nor its hater (I like S1 and S2, but S3 and S4 are absolutely not for me. Apart from the franchise, it remains one of the strongest animated works). I'm always open to new things as long as the creators try to keep at least some connection between characters and their prototypes (and I have some concerns about it).
As a fan of Maria Renard (especially the grown-up version), I'm glad she's not forgotten. The gaming community is largely divided between those who see Maria as a funny child added into the universe as a joke, and those who hate the adult version for being implied to be Alucard's love interest (I don’t agree with some fans' interpretation of their relationship, but more on that another time. glorfys_glorioushair's vision is the closest to me).
I'M TIRED, I just want to meet new people, even if we have different canon sources. I will take care of them, warm them up, presenting the games xD
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In more detail (not criticism, just verbiage): Let's start from the obvious part — this is a product of inspiration, not an adaptation in the literal sense. To get some pleasure watching the animated series, you need to distance yourself from games. This is a quite standard method nowadays, I think.
I'm still forming an opinion about Nocturne, because the story is not finished yet. But I'm also slowly plunging into melancholy, because Alumaria ship and Maria are the cornerstones of my love to Castlevania per se.
How changed is the huntress' image? Well, I feel like Netflix missed some potential that games contained (or will implement it later?) and done a hideous damage with Maria's swearing, but there's still a chance to patch up such flaws with her growing up.
I always imagined her as a battle Lady. Dangerous and daring, but elegant and well-mannered (if I correctly understood Renard family's position). If I were the adaptation's author, I would tend to the archetype of a young noble lady breaking stereotypes. (Without extremes, of course — she is engaged in a tough business). This would have provided interesting dynamics with other characters (and an interesting detail for Richette), since the nobility side would be represented not only by vampires, but also the dissident protagonists.
This doesn’t mean I think Netflix’s biography of Maria is bad — it’s just different and takes us away from Konami again. Whether this is good or bad — we still have to find out. Perhaps it's just a matter of habit?
However, I'm hopeful about the family arc. Such plot has controversial nuances, but it's much better than the off-screen death of nameless parents. I want to witness the girl's experiences and life lessons! I'm also absolutely thrilled with how Tera's character was reworked!
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I thank and at the same time judge the creators for the way they managed characters' age. Now the gifted summoner better fits the gloomy setting, but, unfortunately, she meets Alucard too early — this fact obviously sets the audience against the romance. Because of S4*, I already had to bury my dream about "one true love" story (its symbolism is expressed in the wolf form), and then they added fuel to the fire**.
(*A dude can't experience "first and/or only love" more than once (not being reincarnated, of course), so my favorite trope just won't be adapted. It's not about Greta, she's a good (one of the best in S4, actually) character. You can substitute Sonia in her place or swap Maria and Greta, and my message will not change. It’s just that Konami — many years ago — hooked me with a story about naive and inexperienced lovers. Given Alucard's nature, this made an interesting topic to explore. But, since I am still here, it means I accept new rules.) (**In my culture, only the moment (age) when a romance begins is important. Not the moment of first meeting. But it's hard to miss the public outcry — people haven't seen the characters' relations yet, but already hate their dynamics).
I'm also upset that in battle scenes Maria is a pale shadow of herself. In the opening fight, she couldn't handle just one vampire, but I hope that the writers intentionally left room for her skills development. Drawing a little minus for this. But a plus for the sword and the underrated DXC design!
Well, if the plot disappoints me, at least a lot of visual content will remain, which is a real treasure for a fan of unpopular Maria. I'll always admire the work of all involved artists.
P.S. Yes, I deliberately omit the analysis of general history, setting, etc. (After all, this is not a review of the entire Nocturne, just a character's superficial analysis). There is a huge room for discussion, but I will leave it to more historically savvy people. One thing I understand for sure: this is one of the most visually and historically rich basis, which wasn't used properly. On the other hand, it's mainly a matter of budget. Corporations are unfair to creative studios. In my perfect world, Powerhouse and Konami join their forces.
Hey Konami, don't you have an animation studio? Your followers are dreaming about a canonical adaptation or a remake of an iconic game with significantly deeper plot.
I never seriously criticize and certainly never post angry manifests, especially dedicated to someone’s creative expression. I'm always looking for the positive aspects, but if my patience runs out, I usually just retire.
Anyway, since the release of S1 I've been immersed in the Nocturne fandom and even prepared something unique for you!
P.P.S. Sorry for the confusion and my poor English!
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kidfoundonstreets · 10 months ago
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LOVEBRUSH CHRONICLE. YOU LIKE?
ill try to keep it brief 1/20397
lovebrush chronciles is an otome game deisgbed by team/company I AM ACTUALLY NOT SURE DESPITE YOU SEEING IT EVRRYTIME YOU ENTER THE GAME HOLD ON neteaze games (passion of gamers) and it is about altnerate universes, time fuckery, and school life.
the game begins introducing itself as a regular otome school life sim (my condolences to the fans who fell for william first sight only to find out hes not an actual love interest trust me i see u i feel u) but then WHAM BAM!! just when u thougut ur girl best friend was lookin kinda cute she gets X_x in this summon circle and you jump in to save her only to find out youre now in a royal cage surrounded by people that needa sacrifice you to save themselves from their own doom. oh and youre not in your own world anumore good luck have fun
so now here goes the different plots and paths with the love interests. the way i playrd it was as they introduced it, which was ayn aklaid lars claerence. no cael route yet which rips me apart every night. the love interests seem to have consistent values throughout most universes despite all of their diferet upbringings which i find pretty cool considering schoollife and royaltylife are two completely drastic diferent things, and also i nejoy how mc is written with more character and an amazing design to match the rest of the beautifully drawn cast
on that topic the art is GORGEOUS. i have never seen such beautiful detailed art in a game before and i assure you it will not disappoijnt. the graphics and smoothness of the game are especially a great touch. THERES A MINI STORY FOR EACH CARD BTW SR AND UP ITS SO GOOD becasenit feels as if the creatoes actually put care and give a shit into whar theyre writing and drawing and even in little events the absolute quality and depth of the cast shines theough its just i cannot express how much you need to play tjis game if you like dating sims ITS FREE TOO??,×*#&@ IMSO SAD WHY ID OBEYEME GETTING SM ATTENTION WHEN THIS IS SITTJNGHERE HUH dont get me wrong i too was in that hole but trust me brother there is only one man worth it there and obeyeme sure as hell isnt gonna do it justice with its 200+ chapter peobably plotline
anywya its 11 pm and ibhave no idea how to organize this post so ill just go through the cast
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he is my plaything
ANYWAY ayn is so maahh hes the stupid cat that sleeps on me at night HE USED YO BE MY FAV AND WAS EXACTLY MY TYPE OFF THE BAT ITS SO IRONIC HES MY LEASY LIKED NOW but hes still very good and god you need to see this
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^^ bisexual dilemma
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^^ HIS EMO PHASE
i like him as a side piece, he has a nice personality but it doesnt stick out to me as much as the rest but i heavily respect the enjoyers of him
Aigh now
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HHHRHRGGGHWH HHRGGBW WHWHWBW W SLSOPE9282B3BDND BSHSJW W GHENRBR .R FJJGGW HJ W..B GHN.F. H . THROWSUP aklaid my dear my darling ! i lvouou my little STARBOY my favorite my self sacrificing devoted prince who acts soo nice but is the cause of his own decay. smooochh I ADORE HIM dude one time he almost dies and mc is like "i am so sorry" and hes smiling qhile saying "nono! this is the happiest ivebeen" GET THERAPY
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lars is my favorite lesbian
im onsessed w him hes always fun no matter where he is and yet they still dont dumb him down the moments where hes serious only add to his character his charm is unexplainable his rizz unatainable you could never
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my TRUE favorite lesbian
MY FABORITE MY FABORITE KY DAVROITE I WAS SO WORRIED HOW I WOULD ENKOY HIM BECAUSE SO KUCH WAS UNKNOWN BUT AHGGWDHHSHW HIS ROUTE HIS DEPTH EVERYTHING IT MAKES ME SO SADITS HWARTBREAKING DUDE "HAIR HOLDS MEMORIES" IM GONNA SOB INTO MY HANDS I CANT BELIEVE I LOVE A MAN NAMED CLARENARENCNEUXIHQBQ SHUTOROSHUSITP oh and he really likes cats :D
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i have run out of images but cael caught my eye since the beginning and i dont know whats wrong with him is he my parental figure my wife my side piece my worst enemy my hater my lover my killer my doomer my caretaker my one-time-leave-you-for-nine-months
i genuinely cannot stand him hes the one who i always run to and check on firstin efents and stories not claerence not lars not alkaid but fucking CAEL.
i cant help it maybe in the end my heart really belongs to him because im still waiting for his route and for him to show moreemotion and maybe break down or slowly go through the agony of learning to accept love despite everything despite you
this is the only part i feel a little uneased about in the writers hands.. they are very capable hands.. but will they do him right.. hes so stupidly simple but not it makes me grit my teeth and die
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THANK YOU EVERYPONY FOR REASING IF YOU DID PLEASE SMASH THAT OIKE AND SUBACRIBE BUTTON FOR MORE UNHINGED RANTS IM SORRY FOR BEING AUSTISTIC AND MAY DO IT AGAIN ♡♡ GOD BLESS
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laf-outloud · 1 year ago
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User real-girl replied to this post saying "Why even come here with this?" I can tell you why. They can't think for themselves, so they assume we can't either. They consider anything MC or JA says (WHEN it suits them) to be gospel. If it doesn't suit them, they flock like mindless sheep to one of top scammers, uh sorry leaders, to repeat what they said. I love Jared. You love Jared. My fellow Jared lovers love Jared. That doesn't mean we take everything he says as gospel. We can disagree with him, or have reservations on his opinions (like being way too nice about his haters, for one).
I love Jared. So do you. So do my fellow Jared lovers. We know there are sad people out there who hate him for lies spread by AAs and Hellers. We know there are people for whom he is simply not their favorite celebrity. Our reaction is at most a shrug. Who cares? Their loss. True, we are absolutely gobsmacked that's how they feel, but in the end who cares? We don't go around their blogs yelling that they're wrong about not liking him, and he's the best, and how they should go and look up everything Jensen said about him (which is a lot of good things, but we know they only hunt for what Jensen says about Misha or their ship). That is something AAs and Hellers are just biologically physically incapable of doing, and I am speaking literally here. I'm not exaggerating or being dramatic. They are in a cult. They're brainwashed. People in a cult are groomed to think if you're not one of them, then you're against them. There is no middle ground or nuance. That's the difference between them and us. And that's why they will keep coming to our blogs with what THEY think is proof that Jensen is an angel on earth.
You read my mind! I just responded in another post asking if anon is saying the same things on Jared-hating blogs. I doubt it. And I don't send asks to Jared-hating blogs (or more recently, Gen-hating blogs that have gone off the deep end,) I stay in my lane and don't engage people that I know won't agree with me. It's really that simple, don't like, don't read, don't engage.
And yes, we are perfectly willing to disagree with Jared. Matter of fact, most recently, I'm questioning the Padalecki's decision to have Highland cows in the Texas heat. And there might be other things I disagree with, but I also know that sharing those will just add fuel to the Jared-hater's fire because they do not understand thinking for one's self, or that disagreeing with one decision doesn't mean I don't like Jared or Gen any less.
"There is no middle ground or nuance." This, right here, is what it all boils down to.
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piduai · 2 years ago
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Also your ship hate is so real. Keep your hater-head up queen. It's crazy how popular some of them are too (esp sugio n koitsuki) given the fact that it takes away from what made these characters interesting and unique in the first place entirely. Sugio is just your typical 700k-boyXboy-enemies-to-lovers but to make it work you have to completely obliterate both of these characters personalities/what they stand for (motive/writing wise) especially Ogata like c'mon now... His ass is NOT getting redeemed through the power of yaoiful sex. Poor Sugimoto, Shiraishi was right there too. At least this one had the 'EyeSuck' scene, but koitsuki? How would that even work without Tsurumi? Get real. I know the need arose from the fans wanting to give Tsukishima a ''happy end'' but honestly I would rather take years of dilf manupilation if it means I don't get to babysit a dumbass rich kid for the rest of my millitary life. Not that I hate Koito, I like him as a character but he definiatly had 'барчо́нок' mannerisms, like he deadass said Tsukishima was filthy and broke for not owning a handmirror... Sorry you're probably sick of reading about this way more than I am since you've been into GK much longer but I just had to say I'm with you on the GK pairs feeling fujoshibait/homophobic in nature and it's wild considering the content of the actual manga. You have people cvmming from getting their finger ate and yet... Then again I know this has more to do with the general anime/manga consumer mindset rather than GK itself so it is to be expected, I just care about this manga so goddamn much girl Satoru Noda messed up my brain in the best way fr. Sorry I got carried away but if you read it this far thank you again for your translations and I wish you the best!!
but i don't think any of them are fujoshibait/homophobic tho... the way noda wrote them (character dynamics) i mean, not the fujobait anime posters no self-respecting person cares about. like imo there's no need to grasp for straws and paint something you think is stupid and tasteless as problematic/bigoted/morally corrupt 🤷 just say you find it ugly and dumb and move on. none of the popular or unpopular fanon ships were written as romantic/sexual in canon anyway no matter what the coomers say, all that "tension" people keep yapping about is just complex human relationships or titillation/double entendre/play on classic tropes noda is super duper fond of but it all gets over girlies' heads because they lost the ability to see past fanfiction. sad! well nobody has time for this
otherwise i agree, all gk ships are stupid and have no substance but sugio/koitsuki are the dumbest because they're inescapable. with sugio it will NOT work out in any scenario (ever) unless one of them is wildly ooc and let's be honest sugimoto would never say or do that. there's a reason 98% of sugio shippers are ogatagirls, they compromise sugimoto's entire character to get that 700k boy x boy enemies to lovers hot and steamy yaoi because ogata as he is could never coexist with sugimoto as he is. so it just ends up being reductive and shallow and stripping both of them of what makes them interesting
with koitsuki i just don't understand it but it's mostly because i find tsukishima super boring so anything regarding him is a huge blind spot for me (since i simply do not look in his direction). i think koitsuki is one of the "safest" and most bland dynamics in gk (exact reason for which it's the most popular ship) but in fanon again both characters are stripped of their complexity and their canon relationship is severely modified to make it more yaoiful
which honestly i have no problem with... like if that's how people want to enjoy this series, sure. who cares, none of it is real.
i think there's like things to be said about how shipping culture and the popularization of fanfiction has gradually taken the shape of bile that poisons most attempts at interacting with other fans since all they know is sucking and fucking but honestly i'm a huge advocate for not engaging in unpleasant situations when you can. sure there's a lion share of people who can't see past the yaoi thus compromising everything else you and i love this series for but like... so what? i avoid those people, i don't befriend them, i don't read what they say. and i don't have a say in how strangers choose to engage with fiction... at the end of the day it all comes down to personal taste and what you seek from said fiction, if they're comfortable in this insufferable climate i'm happy for them and wish them the best. as for me i'll just stick to my peaceful yaoi-sparse corner
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ay-chuu · 2 years ago
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heyhey! is the matching event still opened? if so i would like a matchup for twisted wonderland
i go by they/she pronouns and i usually like to wear cutesy clothing with slight macabre themes (pills, syringes, bandages all that. look up yami kawaii for more stuffs) these can vary between pastel and somewhat gothic/scene. i am also 159 cm, if that accounts to anything.
my zodiac sign is aries and i am an intj with a 4w5 enneagram. as far as general personality type stuff goes, riamu yumemi and shin sato are pretty on the mark but i suppose i'm just not as open abt me being mentally ill than riamu is considering i just mask my emotions a lot of the time.
and my hobbies consist of astronomy, music compositions, and stag beetle terrariums!
as far as my pet peeves go, i hate sudden loud noises or constantly loud noises as the latter gives me a migraine after awhile. slimy food textures and foods that trigger my gag reflex as well is a massive ick for me too. i also despise slow-paced tasks since they easily make me bored and then i get distracted to do something else
my favorites are relatively spread out, i don't consume much television or movies so it's pretty much games and music for me. i like rhythm games such as project sekai, bandori, and idolmaster and i like games that fall into the rpg genre like pokemon, omori, earthbound, yume nikki, etc. with this, i do quite enjoy visual novels too. as far as music goes, i like a lot of punk rock but sometimes i'll consume other genres (fav english song is love me dead by ludo and atm my fav jp song is shoujo rei by mikitop)
as far as musical artists go, it can vary quite a lot. my most notable ones are probably pepoyo, shinra-bansho, akatsuki records, mcr, and green day.
i am so sorry that was longer than intended, i hope you have a good day and be sure to stay hydrated! ^^
Thanks for your good wished love and i really like your style! ヽ(o^▽^o)ノ
I match you with... (っ^▿^)💨
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First of all, when we look at the zodiac and MBTI features, you are quite compatible. You're both Aries, so you two are stubbornly committed to your goals as possible. What I would say for INTJ and ENFJ is that you can help Vil when he has unnecessary emotional tantrums about himself and he gives you the long self-care conversations that you wish. Rather, you complement each other in terms of your needs, and that's something you both want and respect.
I see some "haters to lovers" among you, Because at first you thought Vil was needlessly selfish and different and he didn't like the way you stare at him even though you're beautiful and interesting JKLFGJKDFLGDF I think you respected him after the events of book 5 and you respected each other You started to know and love!
He likes your taste in clothes, I think he thinks it reflects the sweetness of your introverted personality. Apart from that, he likes that you care about himself, give importance to him and your commitment to life. He always feels so happy and proud when talking about your commitment to your goals together. But even if he doesn't admit it, his favorite feature about you is that you are understanding and more relaxed, making him feel at peace with himself no matter what <3
I think the problem with your relationship is that you sometimes stay away from long-term goals and he is sometimes overly obsessed. Because he wants the best for you, he wants his goals to be long-focused and you want him to relax and not be so hard on himself, which causes fights between you. But at the end of the day, because you realize that the things you fight for are the value you give yourself, you put your pride aside and make peace.
Some of the memories i imagine for you two: A long night spent together at the mall, secretly making funny faces and laughing together while choosing a meal, Renting an arcade saloon for you one night and playing arcade for you laughing together until the morning even though he normally cares about your and his sleep a lot, and "You're Slaying today too, my queen" words given to each other :D
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fefairys · 2 years ago
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man i feel like most of the time when someone hates a character, they dont usually have very much to say about it theyre just like "idk they never stood out to me i just dont care about them i just dont like them" but then ppl who love the character have entire essays about why they like them so much that cites examples from canon and are really well constructed and thought out and thats why i am just such a lover of all characters because ppl always draw me over to their side with their loving gushing rant abt their faves, and the haters dont have anything meaningful to say on the matter!!!
i just think it is so much more fun to talk about a character u love than to talk about a character u hate. to me. i dont like dwelling on negative feelings, this is why i dont like talking about post-canon homestuck at all because it's all so negative and like, i agree with ppls crticisms of it but its like ok i dont really wanna talk about this can we talk about something true and beautiful instead :/ yknow.. i just dont understand why ppl always wanna bring up the things they hate about something... this happened so much at the hs cafe is ur talking about homestuck and then someone is like "haha but fuuuuck post canon amiright" and then we spend 20 minutes talking about the follies of post-canon and its like okaaayyyyyy im tired of this can we talk about beautiful things 😭i just sit there nodding and agreeing cuz like i said, yes i agree w criticisms of it most of the time, but GRAAHHH!! it is just so exhausting to me to constantly be talking about negatives like that.
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nsfwmiamiart · 1 month ago
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(Second Draft Version) Incoming Text for @natalieportman:
Dear Natalie,
I just want to remind you that just because I’m quiet and ignoring you doesn’t mean I’ve abandoned you.
You’ve been my student for the past 12 months now, since January 2024. You’ve seen and heard things that have helped you become wiser and a better decision-maker—do you agree? You can see everything clearly now, correct? It’s not as clouded as it used to be back in January 2024.
This is why I want to remind you: we are all running a marathon, not a sprint. Along the way, we may feel tired and worn out, but it’s crucial to endure the pressure and keep moving forward, no matter how challenging things may seem. Together, we’ll reach the finish line.
You should also keep this important reminder in mind:
I am supporting the Portman family, not Israel.
I am supporting the Kunis family, not Israel.
I am supporting the Gadot family, not Israel.
I cannot carry the problems of Israel on my shoulders; it’s simply beyond human capability. I’m not built for that level of responsibility. However, I can support the Gadot, Kunis, and Portman families—that is manageable and within my capacity.
I hope you all realize that our world is filled with hatred. People often treat each other cruelly, and whenever someone tries to do good, there will always be those who attempt to obstruct it. In today’s world, doing good almost feels like it’s being outlawed.
The evil people in this world be like, “How dare you do good? Who gave you permission to make a positive difference?”
This is why you must confront the reality of our time—it’s the apocalypse. Anyone who tries to do good is met with immense hate and opposition. Am I wrong? Haven’t you all faced resistance every time you’ve tried to do something good?
Evil people are like dictators, and you must outwit them. Use your problem-solving skills to stay one step ahead.
I encourage Natalie, Mila, and Gal Gadot to binge-watch the TV series Prison Break. You’ll learn so much from this series. The survival skills of Michael J. Scofield will help your families deal with the anxiety and pressure you all face during this apocalypse. It’s basically a survival school, teaching you how to navigate a corrupt system—because, let’s face it, we’re all prisoners of this massive surveillance-driven system.
NATO territory is one huge prison where everyone is under surveillance. If you want to survive, you need to adopt Scofield’s skills.
Here are the links to the Wikipedia pages you requested:
Michael Scofield - Wikipedia - (click on the blue link)
Prison Break - Wikipedia - (click on the blue link)
The difference between me and you is my vision. Never forget this: I see things that you don’t.
You see this world as Disney World, full of delight, but I see it as a giant prison. That’s the difference between our perspectives.
To survive this apocalypse, you should hide all your secrets with the Kapoor family. They’ll help Natalie, Mila, and Gal Gadot protect their secrets in India, far from NATO’s watchful eyes.
During the past 12 months, you’ve learned invaluable lessons that will help you survive. You should read my letters in the archives like a novel with many chapters—it’s entertaining, and you’ll gain new insights every time.
Everything you’ve learned in 2024 came from my letters. They’ve provided you with guidance and understanding. That’s the whole point: to educate and guide you.
Also, you’ll always have a special place in my heart, but we both know we can’t be lovers. It would only waste our time and energy. Life under constant surveillance makes romance complicated. We’re better off as friends. Don’t you agree? I know you do. Romance would bring unnecessary headaches for both of us.
I’ve told the same thing to Gal Gadot and Mila Kunis. Too many haters in this world. Friendship is better; it avoids so much drama.
Remember:
Gal Gadot cares about me, but not her community.
Mila Kunis cares about me, but not her community.
Natalie Portman cares about me, but not her community.
It’s the communities filled with hate, not the women.
Also, about Natalie—whenever I think about her, I call Tori Black. She looks like you. After I’m done, I move on easily. Problem solved.
Angelo be like: “Tori Black is the doppelganger of Natalie Portman? Close enough—fine with me.”
Fun fact: Did you know Chris Brown stole Tori Black from me? She’s in love with him now because of his slow songs. Tori Black says, “I’m in love with Chris Brown; he sings so good.”
I forgive him, though. He’s an awesome singer—I listen to his songs too.
Lastly, I know you’re obsessed with my wealth. You lose sleep thinking about what you can’t have, don’t you?
You should be friends with Jamie Chung and Bryan Greenberg. I even encourage you to have a romantic relationship with Bryan. He’s a cool Jewish guy. I vouch for him.
Gal Gadot, Mila Kunis, and Natalie should all consider Bryan Greenberg. He’s trustworthy and can protect your financial secrets.
Remember to defend Bryan Greenberg. He’s the only one allowed to protect your secrets.
So, Natalie, do you see anyone else helping you access $1.5 trillion in assets? I didn’t think so. Protect Bryan Greenberg—he’s the plug.
Jamie Chung is my Queen, and Bryan will always be in our lives. Protect him.
This was fun.
Love you, Natalie! Big hugs for you.
King Angelo (Notice I’m not a Crown Prince anymore? I’m a King now.)
P.S.:
Synopsis of the Letter:
The letter is addressed to Natalie, and it serves as a reminder of the lessons learned over the past 12 months. The writer reflects on their journey together, emphasizing the importance of endurance in life's challenges and reinforcing that the writer supports specific families—Portman, Kunis, and Gadot—without carrying the broader weight of Israel's issues. The writer acknowledges the world's cruelty and encourages Natalie to develop survival skills like those of Michael Scofield from Prison Break in order to navigate a corrupt system.
The writer also advises Natalie and others to form discreet relationships with Bryan Greenberg to protect their financial secrets during this "apocalypse," asserting that he is the only one trustworthy enough for this role. The writer touches on their inability to be romantically involved with Natalie, proposing instead that Natalie pursue a relationship with Bryan Greenberg, while reinforcing their own romantic commitment to Jamie Chung. The letter concludes with the writer’s declaration of their new identity as a king, not just a crown prince.
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pwblogarchive · 6 months ago
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June 2006
June 1, 2006
a letter to myself 10 years ago, from myself today (idea lifted from d.e.)
dear peter,the first and foremost. i miss you. not the people around you or the world you call yours. i am not who you think i am. i am not who they say i am- by "they" i mean the lovers and the haters. i am in between, still normal and ordinary. i dont know what you would think about the place i am standing right now. its funny i never pictured myself here, simply because i did not picture myself existing anymore. i am sure you know what i am getting at. its kind of funny almost. after seeing the top and the bottom. id have to say there is a much better view from the top, but you have alot more friends at the bottom. even when im trying to disappear its halfhearted. im almost there. you know? the only thing you got is that goddamned pen forever. it will be buried in your hand. youre gonna learn alot of things but none of them will include: unconditional love, modesty, grammar, or impulse control. id like to think that you wouldnt hate me. but who am i kidding? spotlight or no spotlight thats always kind of been your thing- its just kind of funny that its in fashion right now. i never did anything just for a buck back then, and i still wont. dont give up on me. in some ways i think i am walking away from all of this as we speak. here are some books you should read they will make your head rest easier at night, more importantly they will help you understand yourself:the old man and the seaour lady of the flowersthe green hills of africathe motel lifethe every boythe heart of darknessfirst love, last ritestake care of yourself. i am waiting on a letter from ten years from now
.posted by xo @ 2:05 PM
June 3, 2006
my phone cuts out in the same place every single day ("the gospel of gossip").
dear 310,
you can truly think yourself to pieces.
writing too fast for you to keep up.
and why would you want to anyway?
true oranges and sedated blues.
or is it the other way around?
i am millers paris. she is always humming. i hate it.
i wish for autumn. i am always thinking of breath in the air and leaves burning somewhere. somehow i attatch it to feeling okay.
in a running home from school kind of way.
just as easily as you run away from your problems, you can run home to them.
moodswings have kind of become protocol around here. like something you have to cross off of a checklist and then have your supervisor sign.
there isnt enough breeze in the suburbs tonight.
i imagine them to be like italy sixty years ago, only with less flamboyance and wider streets.my head is sticking to the pillow like sleep doesnt want to let me go.
writing alot lately. its like i always just want to mean something, something more than me.
its getting old.
i want to be more.
you make me want to be more.
to be shot out into space or to discover a cure to something terrible.
you cant denie, there is something nice about chicago. calming.
where your waiter is just your waiter and the doorguy is just the doorguy. not the place where everyone wants to be something they're not.
not as thought it matters but it feels safer.
she looks at me like she knows how fragile i am.
but i, we, all have inside of us continents like he said. vast and lush. full of guns and loves.
like the two were different by definition.
but they are the same. linked if only by the way that you will always remember your first ones.
then she said, "many african cultures dont believe in the concept of future".
fuck your futures.
Posted by xoat 4:16 AM
June 5, 2006
Stick around long enough and everyone becomes parody of themselves (see also: if it could happen to the egyptians if could happen to you).
you dont hate me, you hate the part of you that is like me. i cant sit here and ride my flaws until the end because the truth is i live the charmed life because of you and them. we are a gang. maybe its time to disband. im not sure i am thinking clearly but i just want you to know that i waited on you guys calls all night- they never came. i just wanted to say i miss you or im sorry or you know something that would have meant something to you. i would have made it poetic and memorable or at least something you could laugh at while drifting off to sleep. always trying to relive the glory days.
i dont care how poorly these sentences were constructed or how in the light of day i will wish i had not written them- right now i can only curse the fucking light off of this stupid western city because it wont ever get dark enough for sleep but otherwise how could you guide your way back here?
my head always feels warm right before i pass out, i always worry that there is something wrong and i wont wake up or you know i will. promise me that you wont take anything i ever say too seriously
June 9, 2006
“jim dear and darling.”
sometimes its like whats the point in anything. i am glad i have figured you out. it took one million times. but on one million and one i gave up on you. its the opposite of losing your virginity, its the opposite of dreams.im glad i got the chance to be a complete nerd and talk to superheroes on the red carpet. im glad i didnt waste it on movies and people i wasn't obsessed with. i am glad i am three thousand miles away from you right now. i am glad for the view out of my window. it doesnt feel like a prison more like a new start. its funny the way a wish and a curse are so close to each other, just like a grudge and a promise.thank god that shit wasnt live cause i have a mouth like a sailor. edit.im not a boomerang and youre not badnews. were just nothing at all. thanks for helping me figure it out. two lies in one sentence has to be a new record for you, so congratulations.sometimes the people that i only know through these songs and this screen make up for ones i have known for years. thank you for your birthday wishes. they meant alot to me. whether you know it or not.the birds are starting to sing the world awake at my house. get here soon morning."i wish i could stop being around people, i guess i am just addicted to it."w.e.
posted by xo @ 2:19 AM
June 10, 2006
“lets be alone, together.”
"here we are, alone again. its all so slow, so heavy, so sad... ill be old soon. then at last it will be over.so many people have come into my room. theyve talked. they havent said much. theyve gone away. theyve grown old, wretched, sluggish, each in some corner of the world". celine "death on the installment plan"i think i hear the tapping of rain on the roof but only in my head because i wish it so. i have some romantic idea of myself in some dirty apartment in paris writing words that will be cirtically analyzed and translated into languages from countries that i didnt even know existed. but this isnt france in the 30's and i dont have the knack for that kind of wit. tried to put my hand through a wall today in a disagreement i had with myself. i came out ahead and behind if you get my meaning. i think i just wanted a wound to take care of as they seem to be easier to look after than either a plant or a dog. stubborn and stupid are not far off from eachother in the dictionary. we have the same conversations day-in and day-out, im not sure why i even call anymore. just so its not just me talking to myself. though it seems to often be that anyway. im not sure if its schedule or even when it goes into remission its just a phone call or bad day away. i have to hope everyone and everything else is just like this as well or else this is gonna be a pretty lonely ride that goes on for far too long. i am looking at each word that proceeds the word i am currently typing. they look terrible to me right now. or even write now.dear liar, how could i ever ask you to stop. that would be like telling a carpenter he couldn't use a hammer or more like a surgeon he couldn't use a scalpel, because you are indeed precise.sometimes it feels like i am addressing myself surrounded bypeople who are also by themselves.posted by xo @ 10:36 PM
6/11/06 Q&A
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I just got done watching “Dead on Arrival” and I wanted to know how old was Patrick in that video? Back then he was hot but now he is HOTT!!
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im not sure. they had delivered him to my door in a baby basket the stormy night before. the note on the basket said “amazing” but i didn’t realize how true those words were until days later, thanks for adding the capslock, it really captured the feeling.
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Hey Pete What is your favorite kind of cereal?
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currently: frankenberry- 1000 fobrock scene points to the first boardie to name to the two monster cereals that used to be a part of the count chocula family.
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hows it like being 27 now ? :)
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same flaws, concerns and boredoms with just one more candle on the cake. you know what, maybe next year is our year.
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Have you ever eaten like, four boxes of blueberries before? Cause ya know, blueberries rock hard.
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i didnt even know blueberries came in boxes. hence, i am no expert. i like blueberry gum though. i swallowed a bunch when i was little, even though my mom said it wouldnt digest, so that in a million years when they dig up this civilization they’ll know what kind of candy we had.
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Who cusses the most? Who the most solitary or the quietest?
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pete cusses the most and is the most solitary andy or patrick can be the quietest joe likes long walks on the beach holding hands with a man made out of weed… just kidding. we all have different sides to our personalities. just like you morgan.
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Petah please listen to this amazing song I am obsessing over. It is called EMALINE and it is the live version by Ben Folds 5. I think you will like it. XO
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one of my favorite songs ever is this one ben folds song. its called “the luckiest” go listen to it and then have your ears, brain and heart write ben a thank you not for writing it.
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Hey. Since you guys own Hottopic, could you PLEASE add more H.I.M. merchandise? im looking for a HIM beanie hat online at hottopic.com but i cant find it and i really wanted it. will you please add more HIM stuff?
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could hottopic possibly have more h.i.m. merchandise? i love him. im pretty much sure thats all i ever see in that store.
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can patrick play guitar??
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nah. not a single note. hes never even held one. wait i thought that thing said “keytar”. oh a guitar? no he’s never even held one.
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what keeps you going each day?
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sadly. involuntary functions like heart and lungs. but following that: you. honestly.
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Pete!I just broke up with my boyfriend and I`m completely heartbroken.I can`t eat or sleep.He says the only way we can get back together is if we are friends with benifits.I want him back I just don`t want him to date anyone else.Am I wrong?Thanks for your music-it`s gotten me through some hard times so I wanted to say THANK YOU!!!love you and the boys.
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i dont think im qualified to give any advice on this anymore. im pretty much a wreck in all relationships, platonic or romantic.
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transformers: the movie. how does this make you guys feel?
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it will never top the first. with the “you got the touch” song in it when optimus dies. and the way the guy yells “shit” in it. so classic.
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dose it ever get werid knowing that millions of people know who you are and you have no idea that that person even exsist ???
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im not too sure anyone really knows who i am. but in the grand scheme of your question, yes it can be kind strange.
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Is it okay to feel lonely all the time?
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sometimes it seems realistic. other times it just seems too predictable.
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Peter I made a mistake and I had unprotected sex. I like this guy, but he seems a little strange, bc he makes remarks to me about how he wishes my dad would walk in and see us. He also asks me degrading questions while we are getting intimate, such as where I want it. What should I do about him?
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i wouldnt waste my time on someone who treats me that way. i would suggest cutting your losses and finding someone who won’t treat you like dirt.
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is there any bands you would like to work with?!
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the format.
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Do you think FOB would have the success it does if Patrick has decided to be the drummer?
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No.
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Hey Pete haave you like forgotten about this website or something?
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i tried to. but im too addicted.
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how cum ur older than every1 else in the band? like waaay older. okay not waaaay older but like 3 years or so. just wondering.
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andy is 26 and i am 27- patrick and joe are younger because tazakistan wouldn’t let us adopt any orphans our own age.
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would you guys ever go on Oprah? If she invited you on for an episode. If so, what do you think you would talk about.
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sure id just on her couch and say some crazy shit.
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On 4-14-06 *MEGYN* asked if now that your signed for a bigger label, do you care less about your fans and more about the money and you told her to talk this to the band from under the wallet tree. what does that mean? do you care more about the money or the fans that have been with you since the begining?
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no no no, thats the name of the recording studio we built on the moon to record the next record with. i mean we had to do something with all the piles of cash and i was getting sick of lighting cigars.
June 13, 2006
“blue pills / black nights”
history has proven thatyou can put despair on play/.repeat and it will go on forever.and if its loud and bright enough it doesnt matter how much money you have to buy the things you want or how brilliant you are told you are or how the right girls smile at you or how the best cameras flash at you.it is all you will hear or see.posted by xo @ 12:23 AM
June 15, 2006
me and you underneath the honeymoon. I'm not sure if you know but every night I've ever had that white hoody I slept with it. And when you had it back it was hard for me to sleep. And everytime I've ever left I kissed that thing you drew on the board in my room. Now I don't have either. Anything you've ever done I could forgive or forget. Except this. It was something I held sacred and I
xo
June 19, 2006
“im pretty much just a lawyer with the way im always trying to get you off”
i dont mean to have you worried or troubled. its the last thing i want. never take anything i ever say too seriously. youd need a search party to track my moods. who knows where they went? i guess this doesnt make sense. but in some strange way this is me saying thank you for always being there on the other side of this monitor.i am watching reality bites right now.the most exceptional thing about you is how ordinary you believe you are.i want to be kepy.i am a bull.she is a china shop.posted by xo @ 9:44 PM
6/19/06 Q&A
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you guys looked uber classy rolling into the mmvas with those kickass shirts. what was up with your hand though?
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the fratellis put my hand in a blender cause i wouldnt tell them where the goonies were. but seriously. its just got a couple scratches, totally fine. no worries at all. just gotta keep it covered for infection.
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pete… whats this i hear about policemen and cheerleaders and “the works” at the muchmusic awards? how very diddy style of you. oh and pete…is that you i hear on punchlines new cd? the line in caller ten when a voice goes “maybe fate can only go so far” or something like that? it sounds just like you. danke gleichfalls.
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we thought it was hilarious. the cop was a friend and the cheerleaders we met yesterday- so the only thing we had planned was the drum corps. but we thought it was something funny to do. our sense of humor sucks. we apologize.
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i would like to congradulate your guys for winning an MMVA last night and your performance was ausome. they saved the best for last!! anyways i was wondering, do you guys like performing in Canada and hows the new album coming along?
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thank you. we are really happy because it was again a fan voted on award. it made us feel all warm inside. we love canada.
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Enjoying the World Cup Pete?
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yeah but not as much as korean tom cruise. the koreans pretty much are slaying. france was bummed yesterday. i was not.
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I was just wondering if you guys have ever seen Pump up the Volume with Christian Slater… I have turned it into my best friends new favorite movie.. She thinks that Happy Harry reminds her so much of Patrick … that made me smile for some reason… Have a good day
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we called patrick stump up the volume for a couple of weeks in a bad period of nicknames.
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Pete, you say the phrase “At the end of the day…” a lot and now I say it too- Got any other good phrases I could borrow?
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my friends bonnie and leslie say “totes” all the time instead of totally and people think they are a riot.
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Did you know “JT LeRoy” (AKA LAURA) listens to you guys? Weird.
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thats insane. he/she is one of my favorite contemporary writers.
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does patrick really like baseball?because he sometimes i see him wearing orioles and mariners jerset/shirt things.by the way, im sending him a padres one if he likes it or not.okbyee.
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i dont think he even knows they are teams. he just likes bright colors. its cute.
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I saw DROP DEAD FRED the other day on tv. What is your favorite part of the movie???
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probably the dogpoop part. or when his head gets stuck in the refrigerator. sometimes i feel like him. pretty irritating with a horrible sense of fashion.
June 22, 2006
sex and the city (the part theyll never tell you)
its strange here this time of year. because the weather never changes.
it is always summer here. so it doesnt feel like the same desperate love of these three pages on the calander. or at least not what i am used to.
sometimes the worst wishes are the ones that come true.
yellow and white lines to the coast.
you can learn to love anything if its around enough.
some people learn to love their mistakes.
shakes hands. "thank you, our time is up".
what keeps you coming back?
i got a long rap sheet.
(the statute of limitations is running out on you pretty fast).
the powders wet. the sparks arent coming.
the hammer isnt hitting. its spinning.
you can learn to love anything.
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June 22, 2006 
“i pack heat like an oven door.”
the circles under my eyes are a sign that says "do not trespass".there is moss growing on the roof of my mothers room.i am jealous of the time she spends thinking of it.it is bright. no matter what chemicals they spray it with-it thrives.and late at night the rain falls like bachelors for bad luck girls.i am jealous of the way it breathes the drops while i just heave.if i had any sense id send her a thank you note for the way my heart wouldnt ever give up on someone.my dad was a weekend warrior.but at least he was fighting.usually with my mother or mortgage broker on the other end of the phone,as i was hushed and pushed out of screen doors.if i had any sense id send him a thank you note for my sense of adventure.consult the map of a world that does not exist.simply part of the no future generation.only (st)all(ed) dogs go to heaven, only the worng dreams come true.sleepwalk of the stars. there is too much green to feel blue.i am jealous of the late bloomers as i am of the wallflowers.in this world of shit. fertilize me.dont worry, youre safe.i am just a tiger sleeping in the shade.just tiptoe by.blackmail myself.give us what we want or youll never see what you love again.i thought you said you were "non habit forming".i thought you said you were "safe to use at night"."use only as directed" and so on.i came back to you.only its more like a relapse.count a thumb then two fingers in.thats the one i want.posted by xo @ 3:52 PM
June 25, 2006
“i am your best imaginary friend. (white lies, gray love).”
at the end of it the only thing that we are promised in life is a hole in the ground. sometimes it gets you through the rough patches just to think that you could change someone. it makes you love them to think that they would change for you. but like i said before its more like the james bond series than anything else- different actors, same character. same shitty dialogue, same shitty songs for the same hearts. and anyone that says any different is a goddamned liar or worse, is just too much of an optim to pay anything mind. talking to you is like selling fire in hell. it can be done, but youre probably gonna have to tell a few white lies to make it happen. and anyone that changes only does it in front of your eyes and changes back when in the blackness of their own room. anyone can paint a gutter to make it look like gold. it only feels strange when the paint washes away. "love me with your head, not your heart". cigarettes on window sills. i love the way the smoke curls off of your lips. it makes me think we are in a period piece until the lexus hybrid drives by the front of your house. its efficient, just like you. went to the pride parade today just besides no one gives a compliment like a drunk gay man. when you are thinking about the first place where it all went wrong- please keep me in mind. you are ancient history- whichever side of this sentence you are on doesnt feel so great. you lob reassurance at me only im playing a different game. somtimes you just want to know that all is okay with the world and that you can sleep tight. only it never is when you need it to be. i keep talking and never say a thing. sleep easy. be well.i am still. i cant think of a single thing. it hits me like a wave. get me out of my mind."ransom notes keep falling at your mouthmid-sweet talk, newspaper word cut outsspeak no feeling no i don't believe youyou don't care a bit you don't care a bit"i am a sentimental pessimist, dont blieve the fucking smile ever.love,the hot mess.posted by xo @ 10:30 PM
6/25/06 Q&A
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So when do the FOB action figures and barbie dolls come out?
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come on. youve seen the bratz pics. theres no way we’d put out action figures. dolls with outfits maybe. hahaha
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I watched “The Lost Boys” for the fist time the other day and i was just wondering what your favourite part was. Mine would have to be the “woah death by stereo” part. please respond.
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“maggots michael, youre eating maggots. how do they taste?”
June 27, 2006
“what are they going to arrest me for? being awesome?” i woke from this dream today: i was riding a motorcycle in the desert with this world jumping next to me the whole time. it could jump really far. then my dad was there and he said the wolf was bad news and couldn't stay. i lost it and picked up one of those desks with the table attatched (you know like from little house on the prairie) and asked him if he wanted to die. he said yes. then i threw the desk and he said no he didnt right before he died. i then woke up and brushed my teeth but the toothpaste tasted like it had gone bad. then i woke up for real.kind of crazy.i had to call my dad and make sure i wasnt throwing desks at him over wolves. you know.food for thought again, consider this crash dieting.patrick could sing the phonebook and you would still swoon.currently writing songs.sometimes i watch kids in spelling bees and get so jealous of the talent they have. i wonder what it would be like.did you see the corners of my mouth turn up for a second today? cause i caught you looking.more tomorrow. i miss being on tour. i miss playing shows every night. i hope you love the new songs so we can play more shows.cantsleepcantsleepcantsleep."we must never be apart"...watch: barflyread: death in installmentsposted by xo @ 1:12 AM
6/27/06 Q&A
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Hey, Pete. Check your aol email for “I was bored” sent today, the 27th. I sent you another poem on the 22nd called “P.E.T.E.” It includes stuff from the Q and A and what I have read elsewhere. Love it…laugh at it…whatever…Be happy and do not fake it.
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simply because this has been posted over one million times- there is no aol email account anymore. if it is important please just post it in the q and a…
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hey pete… what do you do when you feel everything falling apart? who do you turn to?
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smashing pumpkins “ava adore”
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What was the biggest show u guys have ever played and do u ever get nervous before u do a show?? thnx ..luv ya always
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i think the biggest was madison square garden or bamboozle- cleveland/dc on the bcandu tour were big as well. i always get nervous, mostly that maybe noone will care about the songs anymore. you constantly suprise me though. thank you.
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i was wondering when the next cd was coming out?
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we are currently getting it ready so either late this year or early next.
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i just got a guitar, and its hard to learn, got ne tips?
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turn it up loud and headbang alot.
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is it ok to love patrick and you BOTH?
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sure. you could even love joe and andy. i bet you could fit us all in your tiny dark little heart.
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Jason, you awesome i loved that striped jacket you wore to the MMVAs lol its funny i was at that store the day before, question: what do u look for ina girl, cuz im just dying to be her
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thanks, jason is a big fan of babez- jason likes girls that will buy him burger king and drive him to band practice.
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I guess Ill try to ask again…..or maybe Ill ask everyday until you answer =P Cause I HAVE to know…..who is singing at the beginning of one of FOBs old song “Honorable Mention” because it really doesnt sound anything like Patrick, but it sounds like he comes in later. Plzzz answer! Lots of love, your biggest fan AsHeLy (Seriously, I know the words to almost every song youve ever recorded)
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its patrick i swear. puberty arrived about a week later. it got stuck in the mail.
6/29/06
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Pete Imagine this: Patrick (with his hat on of course) playing in a bathtub filled with bubbles and has a toy boat, army men, and a rubber ducky. Then he puts all the army men on the boat and pours a huge cup of water on the boat and laughs when all the army men fall in the water.
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i dont have to imagine. i get to see it in real life.
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why cant I choose love AND sympathy?
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because usually they seem to be the same thing.
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pete how many hairstyles have you had?
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when you date a hairstylist you end up getting alot of hair cuts. lets settle on some insane number. like 1 gazillion.
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so do u ever get tired of people whining to u about their problems. cause i def think peeps should own up to their problems and deal with them
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i often wonder if people are sick of hearing about my problems. because thats all these words have ever amounted to. we are in it together, kind of, i suppose.
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I didnt think a long time friend would block me on tumblr or at all. I admit, i was a bit upset and just thought their cold response online was because they were busy playing video games atm.
i went to go share my new fic w/ them and found out they blocked me. So it was what i thought. They genuinely didnt care or was annoyed i guess. Im not gonna ask somebody to speak to them or wonder why they blocked me. Or think that this aquaintance was built on something nefarious.
But im just going to take it in stride and not worry too much about it. Im just glad they werent my only friend and that i didnt heavily depend on them. People acting funny nowadays anyway and life is too short. People are just willing to snuff the light out of people with good intentions, and some are jealous. Some fail to see the good in people that are different. Or theyre just fickle for any reason.
If i'm your friend, we may disagree on things or run in different circles, but im not going to be petty and block you. im petty with strangers i dont agree with or dont know. But no matter how much we disagree i'm not gonna be petty with you if i think youre a cool person. Though maybe this is a teaching moment.
Maybe this is telling me to be more kind and not block people??? But unless we were friends beforehand i wont block you. Im still not going to care too much because the world is too envious and fickle nowadays. If i only got like two online friends then ok. If they betray me then i know that i wasnt meant to befriend others in this life or world. And i guess thats ok.
I was told long ago that i had to accept that not everyone would like me. I was told in church that the world will reject me. So its a soul crushing admission to someone who always wanted friends and a best friend. But im ok if God and Jesus are my besties at this point. If thats how it is, then thats how it is.
But if anybody is nosy and read it up to now, cherish the people in your life online or irl. You never know how important that friendship is to them and how much theyre willing to put up with to be your friend. If theyre a ride or die like me that is forgiving as i am and looks past the negatives. Do not take that person for granted.
Stop taking friendships for granted in general. Because for years i thought i had to change for people. When it was never me who was the problem. A lot of people in my life didnt care and were too fickle. they were jealous. They refused to see me for who i was! And im tired of trying to prove myself to people who are selfish and only care about themselves.
crying! getting rsd because they refuse to text me back! putting up with what felt like abuse and neglect. Im freeing myself for forgiving those who have treated me less than. forgiving people who were jealous or didnt like how i shined my light. i never tried to commit unalive because of how people treated me and im still here watching this world go to crap because too many people pull the "woe is me" crap and only care about themselves.
too many people blame God but dont realize they perpetuate their own demise. they see anything with a semblance of good and assume its bad. Forgetting that i was even a proshipper at one point in my life. i was pro lgbtq+. i was all that s*** even a feminist! Yet when i switch teams and go my own path im bad for it!
If yall think im some horrible person for standing by what i believe even though ive always been first and foremost a lover! not a hater! Then some of you need to reevaluate yourselves and look in the mirror. I know im not perfect! I never was and neither were yall! At least im aware to admit that with my whole chest!
But like i said imma stop blaming people for my issues. Imma stop getting sad when i get rejected. Imma stop worrying why nobody will text me back. if yall fickle like that then maybe its a good thing you left. Maybe this was for both of us to move on. Ive lost alot over the years. i struggle. But im refusing to let anyone take my shine away from me. no more.
you never know loss or rejection until it happens to you. and too many of yall go around like your loner status is bulls*** and that you have more people in your life than you like to admit. or act as if you dont need people to talk to. Either youre very priveledged or miserable pretending to be ok. Especially (lemme just say it) if you dont have God or Jesus in your life.
You try to go for inclusion then ostracize people you have your own bias or prejudices against. Liars and hypocrites! Then i cant speak my mind because its wrong to believe something "my oppressors" believed. Its not the religion its the people! Its not the race its the people! When you take away politics, race, sexual orientation, disability, gender, etc. Its the person. Its the people who hate. The individual person. And hate isnt exclusive to people who oppress you. You and your community can hate too. You just dress it up as ✨️prejudice✨️ you cant fight fire w fire. You can put evil against evil!
Yet here i am. I'm willing to put all that aside. Im willing to get slapped, neglected, spat on, and abused to learn the true meaning of forgiveness and what it means to forgive. what it means to turn the other cheek and rise above hate and evil. Like after all after we die none of this trivial mess will matter at all. And if yall are sick of injustices, sick of how people treat each other, sick of the evil bulls***. Then why not rise above it and do better?
Also self reflection is a good thing. When you start wanting to live life with better principles and a better heart its always a good thing! and the best thing to learn from all this is that you'll never know if your friends are on opposing sides until you bring up stuff like politics and religion. Stop making that your identity and talk about your favorite shows and anime. gravitate to likeminded people. And learn to agree to disagree or walk away.
But with me im just built different. I'll befriend anyone until they talk about hate for something or blaspheming God. Even then im patient because im aware not everyone thinks like me. And im constantly misunderstood. Even though i could go for others who think like me, im willing to befriend people that dont agree with me and show them the most love. Some i wouldnt like to interact with but i'll still love from a distance.
Love is suppose to conquer all right? thats what its all about? So i'll do that. i'll love. i'll forgive even people who wrong me. I'll never stop trying to be the best version of me. this planet can suck an egg if it thinks im going to crumble and become bitter. im going to be that annoying positive person from now on. Because insurance companies dont care about getting me therapy and i still know a bit about cognitive behavioral therapy to know that with christianity it can work. By God it will.
Yall are not going to make me bitter and sad like yall. im sorry. I actually wanna live and go somewhere where im not suffering. And im not a masochist. I got too much to live for. Your feelings about me dont dictate me or my life.
i love you, i hope things work out for you, i wish the best for you. And take care of yourself! I hope someday you'll come to the realization i came to and treat people even the ones you hate. With love, compassion, and understanding. And i hope you'll find happiness and freedom from being the way you are now.
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soonyoullgetbetterx · 2 years ago
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Friendship, Lover, Family, any connection with other people tends to be hard and unpredictable. At times it feels like you're making positive progress akin to taking a step forward. With the unpredictability that entails, when a conflict or fight arises it could feel like you're taking three steps back. If this dynamic doesn't look up some time soon, with time it will only worsen and you'll end up parting ways eventually.
I was in a conversationship like this several times. During several different phases of my life. Just when I felt happy that I heard from them or we got to spend some quality time, the next day they would treat me as if I didn't exist at all. I'm suspicious that this hot and cold behaviour activated some attachment system or unresolved issue in me that got me on a hamster wheel with no way out.
Looking back, I wish younger me would've known better and walked away before she beat herself up over people who only care about themselves. It took me a really long time and plenty of self work to get to the point of where I am now. Knowing when to walk away when their actions no longer match their words, instead of giving them chances after chances. Making them think they can come and leave as they please, usually only when they're lonely or it's convenient for them.
Perhaps I crave connection so bad that I'd ignore the red flags as long as I could feel the tiniest bit of connectedness. With time I learned, being alone doing things that are enriching for me are much better than connections that are draining -no matter how familiar or good it feels at the moment. In the long run, if it's not reciprocal it's better to run away and never look back, rather than staying put hoping they'll see what's in front of them. Especially when people are so diverse and unique. There will come a time when I meet my people who will cherish me as I am as well as my companionship -without me having to perform or walk on eggshells.
As an illustration, let's say some people are chocolate, cheese, or yogurt. As scrumptious chocolates, cheeses, or yogurts are there are always people who simply won't try or enjoy them. Instead of forcing a cheese hater to love cheese, it's much easier and probably better too to be with cheese lovers in the first place. Even when you're a stinky blue cheese, cheese lovers would still find a way to enjoy and appreciate you.
The same goes with chocolates and yogurts people. Be with people who are chocolates and yogurts lover. Then, no matter how bitter or sour you are, these people will always look for you, enjoy you, cherish you, and find ways to appreciate you. You'll be wasting your time trying to prove yourself to people who hates chocolates or yogurts or simply perhaps lactose intolerant to tolerate chocolates or yogurts.
No matter how great you are. You could be made out of the finest ingredients in the world and these people would still find faults within you or things to blame on you. Imagine a lactose intolerant person eating the best milk chocolate in the world and ended up with a messed up digestion, they'll say it's from the chocolate they ate. Very rarely people would say it's because of their decision to eat said chocolate in the first place. You'll rarely -if ever, feel safe being connected to people who aren't compatible with you.
It's not a matter of pointing fingers trying to point out whose fault it is that a connection doesn't work out. It's simply a matter of compatibility. Some people, no matter how great they are simply just aren't compatible with you (and vice versa) and there's no one to blame. That's okay. We all have our own people and just like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle, there are only a number of people we could connect with. We're not meant to connect with everyone and that's okay too.
Don't be a stranger,
soonyoullgetbetterx
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