#hopefully things get better . they got to 😭🫶🏽

[tohrus]

might actually cry bro i hate living in a basement 😭😭😭

[meowzfordayz]

Girly I hate to bother you with an emergency request 😭 I feel guilty?? Idk if others feel this when requesting too but eek??I just got dumped and it’s my first breakup which like?? I though we were soulmates LMAO CLEARLY NOT 😭

I love your boyfriend texts series so much like perfection- I noticed there is no tanjiro and soft boy tanji is needed atm so IF YOU HAVE TIME 😤pls don’t go extra mile for me I’ll sob😤

Tanjiro x female reader text fic?? Again SORRY FOR THE BOTHER OKAY LOVE YOU I WISG YOU WELL

Hiya !! 😁 You’re no bother at all — nothing to feel guilty about. 🫶🏽 Many ppl apologize when emergency requesting, but there’s also nothing to be sorry for❣️ I wouldn’t offer ‘em if I couldn’t/didn’t want to handle them, and I do prioritize other things if/when need be, so: you’re all good !! ☺️

Oof. ☹️ Getting dumped SUCKS, and first break ups are never easy (well, never say never, but mine was ouch 🥲). Hopefully you lived, learned, and can be better loved and better loving whenever your next partnership comes along! (no pressure for a next partnership btw — just a general statement 🫶🏽)

SOFT BOY TANJI WAS INDEED MISSING FROM MY boyfriend texts SERIES !! 😤😭 Kept meaning to write him, but eventually figured I’d just wait until someone suggested/emergency requested him, aaand here we are. 🥺💞

If I have time? What is sleep? Sleep? Are you there? I hate running, but I will write an extra mile. Just ❌run❌.

Anywho- Sending you fantastic Friday vibes !! 🥳 And ofc: boyfriend texts — tanjirou. 💝

[cheolhub]

love scene brought me to you hehe and i’m feeling so much better!! the cough is still there but i’m no longer coughing like i’ve been chain smoking for 40 years so it’s a win yay!

also about the plagiarism i really don’t get why people feel the need to do it.. it’s terrible and uncalled for. do people not know how much effort and energy the original content creator put into their work?? and they just copy it and take credits for themselves??? shame on them frfr.

also, i’m sending you lots of love and support my bubs!! 🤍 hope you’re feeling your best for today!!!! xx -🍀

i feel like i use too many exclamation marks on all my asks if you fee bothered by it pls tell me hehe

WHQT 🥹🥹🥹 im glad <<333 love scene felt like my big break 😭 like theres not a single fic ive written that has more notes than that one which is crazy bc (im gonna start rambling im sorry) after i posted that fic, i felt so horrible about the way i wrote and i was actually thinking abt … quitting 🤣 so the love i got on that was so reassuring 😢

anyway i talk too much hahshd im so happy ur feeling better eeek !! hopefully you feel even better today <3 and i 100% agree with u on the plagiarizing thing… i sincerely hope their embarrassed and never do it again

im feeling SO MCUH better today 🥹 thank u for checking in, i appreciate it sm🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[kingess]

I love your blog so much !! I aspire to be this powerful 🥹❤️ But i was super nervous to ask you a question, so i do hope i get a response that will give me some useful insight 🫶🏽

I’ve been reading your guide on how to get men to be obsessed with you …but what if the guy is very nonchalant and laid back? Will it still work? I am very heavily into the LOA but i do believe putting in the work as well.

SO my new boyfriend is a very minimal effort guy and he is generally very laid back. And i’ve been trying to use your tactics to manipulate him and challenge myself to get a guy to go against what he’s used to. I’ve altered my thoughts and personality to fit his nonchalantness so i don’t go crazy. But I want HIM to do the opposite so he can just be on my frequency, if that makes sense. I want HIM to change his personality and spoil me and be romantic etc so i don’t have to act like i don’t give a fuck like him.

I really hope you can give me tangible steps on how to really get this guy obsessed and out of his element. (I would like to add that as dumb as this may sound, i have my reasons for wanting this outcome. I did make the mistake of sleeping with him already before i had standards 😭 and now i just really want to manifest and put in the work to get him to show up the way I want. Because i hate feeling like i gave it up for nothing. I also do want and see a future with him…)

Thank you so much in advance & i’m sorry it’s so long but hopefully this will help someone else out there as well

My answer to this would be what the hell are you even doing??? He likely shows no effort because he didn't have to, he already got the most valuable things and knows you require no pursuing. And after seeing all of this you say you see a future with him???? It seems you see a future with him because you are neurochemically addicted to chase his approval of your worth and your ego has hard time accepting you got used, and now you're not cared for. Baby! Why are you not angry??? You do not need to manipulate men who are worth having in your life as real connections, they will chase and make sure to catch and keep you interested in them. AND be nowhere near nonchalant about it.

There's only 2 options to why a male acts "nonchalant", he's either just not that into you and you're a place holder which will be a huge job to manipulate a shift in after this point, or he has a dismissive avoidant attachment style. And those fuckers are the worst kind of all males you could ever try to tackle this with. At the end of the day emotionally unavailable males should never be anyone's long term option UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. LOA is great, but you need hard-core psychological tools if you really want to waste your time on him.

Attachment styles develop early in life and often remain stable over time.

Every case is a custom job. The best thing you can do is profile him accurately and then taylor a plan to activate his wounds so that you can become the savior when you make it all feel better again. I can make a detailed post about how to manipulate each attachment style to your benefit. But my advice is that if it's not for a vital reason, throw the whole dude away. Where are your standards now girl, you said you found some but I see none??? Whatever you do just do not work for him without a good reason. Go cold and dump him in a way that makes him feel as worthless as he is.