#his strategy is truly solving their problems by creating different bigger problems

[constelationprize]

A background detail in the books that facinates me is that the Foxes were on the verge of being dismantled. And by detail I mean that it's a fact so widely known that we hear about it from chapter 1, just as passive knowledge Neil has before even dreaming of playing with them.

It ends up staying fairly background because Neil has... Bigger worries, but it is very much present for the whole series. There are plenty of descriptions of how Palmetto thought the Foxes would breathe life into the town; How Wymack lives practically alone in one of the apartment complexes built out of the expectation.

For four years, the Foxes placed dead last, and if they do it again, they ARE getting demoted from Class I. Of the original team, there was only Seth left. And if you do the math, that means that people were leaving up until the semester before TFC begins, because there are nine players including Kevin, who was an assistant coach, and Neil is replacing another recruit. Seth's death brings them down to nine again, and the ERC's response to that is to start a discussion on whether the minimum number of players should go up to 12. If it weren't for the intervetion of Coach Rhemann, they would have gotten disqualified anyway when Andrew went to Easthaven. PSU was against signing the girls, and both the university and the ERC fought back against making Dan captain.

They are not only fighting for their lives out here, they are straight up losing.

That puts a lot of things into perspective, I think. For one, I think it really explains a lot about Kevin's relationship to the Foxes. Like, imagine knowing your second – your last – chance at a life is under threat, and out of nowhere, the best player in your league offers to help you. And then he does it by saying all the effort you've made up until now was useless, that all your fighting wasn't enough. I'd resent him too.

It also says very interesting things both about who Wymack is as a person and exactly how big of a deal he must have been as a player, that he keeps facing these incredible odds and getting just one more chance. And even when he knows he's running out of strings to pull, he keeps on, because "one more chance" is what his team is supposed to be about anyway.

And then they turn around and not only break their own records by making past the first rounds, they go all the way up and dethrone the undefeated champion of their league for first place. It's no wonder not even they believed they could do it.

[zwiezraczek]

Criminal - Chapter 4

Billy (viliain) x Female reader (cop)

Prologue/Chapter 1 - CHAPTER 2 - CHAPTER 3 - CHAPTER 4:  He is a sucker

SUMMARY: You always wanted to become a police officer. And you became one of them, brilliantly and they offered you your first case. “The Ghosts” case. The case of fleeting people and one sneaky bastard parkouring around the town to annoy you. You swore to yourself to catch him them.

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NOTE: So here we are with chapter 4! I’m late, I knoooow, but yesterday I wasn’t in a mood to write so I hope you’ll forgive me! I hope you’ll enjoy this chapter! 💕 Update: I had to reupload this again because it wasn’t showing up in the tags, it’s a thing that happens A LOT to me and it’s fecking frustrating so yeah... 

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The place itself was awful. As you looked up you saw the old buildings, in ruin. The neighborhood he had chosen wouldn’t have been your first choice, for sure. But at the same time, a perfect place for exchanges with too much things to look at to find anything. You could smell insalubrity, you could feel it with every inch of your body, brushing against your skin. And even as a cop, you didn’t feel safe in this neighborhood. But, at the same time, you hoped that all of his would lead you somewhere.

You looked around you, ruins. Ruins everywhere. He had chosen a great place, really. A place where you were exposed and vulnerable, a place where he could take you down if he wanted to, but this experiment was wort the shot. Slowly, you walked between the bags and the dust, looking for the corner with a “4” graffiti on it, you found the graffiti on google maps while looking up the coordinates he had gave you in his letter. He knew what he was doing, really. The place was awful, just like him. Him and his cheekiness towards you. Him and his little games. Him. During the last few days, you found yourself thinking more about this solo investigation, his intercourse with the police, and about your own safety. Probably more about your job – and you losing it because of this.

You had worked so much for this position, proving them that it wasn’t because you looked cute and nice that you couldn’t do your work, and first you thought that your boss understood that by giving you this case. But apparently, he had hoped for you to quit as soon as possible. This case was your death sentence, and every move you made moved you closer to the brink. You put a finger on it now, after your big failure when your boss put the blame on you, and you only for this. He was partially right, because this was your idea, but he also was wrong because he could have denied you the troops and everything he had given you for this mission. And even if you found out that the transaction happening in the backroom was linked with one of the biggest companies of the city, your boss refused to acknowledge this as a step forward in your investigation. Of course, because looking up the corporations wasn’t your job apparently, and because dismantling a larger network wasn’t a bigger success than catching the Ghosts. Of course.

You sighed. After a few minutes, you found your corner, the corner Four assigned for your exchanges. The corner where you would become a phoenix or burn to ashes, depending on Four’s will. It was truly your last chance. And when you arrived right next to the walls, you tried to stay calm as you saw the little note he had left you.

“Cute cops are apparently rebel cops! ;)”

What a bastard.

~~~~

“You did what,” One exclaimed through the server Three created for them to speak without attracting cops, well at least for the moment. “I hope you’re joking Four, or I’ll fucking kill you.”

“As if you could,” Four replied maybe too casually to be certain of that.

He had maybe screwed some things up by sending the letter to the cop on their case. But One wanted to congratulate her, he said, for this amazing trap she settled for them, and wanted to know who were the guys behind this informatics trick. And Four took it as a request. Well, he took it as a permit to send her a letter. But apparently it wasn’t a permit. And apparently he got himself into so much trouble.

“I’ll fucking kill him, somebody stop me,” One repeated and Four could hear the frustration. Oops.

“I won’t be the one stopping you,” Two stated as Four only gasped in a dramatic way. “I’ll help if you want.”

“What in the fucking world you thought when you did it,” One asked again, absolutely irritated.

“I thought it would be fun,” Four replied, a bit unsure. Then he heard Three’s chuckle. “Hey, don’t laugh at me, if not you we wouldn’t be in that situation!”

“I screwed up yes, I brought the cops yes, but now you made the cops follow us and seriously? That’s the greatest shit you’ve ever done Four,” Three laughed as One groaned.

“What’s the plan,” Seven asked.

“Guys, don’t you fucking see that I just helped us,” Four insisted, his fingertips taping on the desk.

“Fuck no, enlighten me,” One replied sarcastically.

“If I play it nicely, we’ll be able to gather information from her. We’ll be one step ahead and…”

“You sweet-talked her with bondage,” Seven remarked and Three laughed, “I’m sorry but you’re not our expert in flirt here. I’d rather send Five for the letters and the seducing part.”

“I can help with the letters if you want Four,” Five added in a warm tone, contrasting with the whole situation. She really tried to keep her calm. She really did.

“Guys I can fucking do it I’m not,” he stated before being interrupted – again.

“She doesn’t have to reply,” Two casually said. “He left her the choice. She can absolutely refuse to answer the letters and we won’t have any problem. Am I the only sane person in here?”

“She’s right,” On finally said in a calmer tone. “We keep our fingers crossed that she won’t leave you that letter in the dumpster you asked her to.”

“It’s not a dumps-.”

“It’s a fucking dumpster,” One retorted, “and if she’s sane enough she won’t go there. And if she does, you tell us. Simple. So, subject change until this case is solved. What about our partnership with the company?”

Four sighed. He really hoped that the cute cop would write back. Because he found it funny to tease cops like this, and she looked particularly receptive to this kind of little games:  she ultimately tried to follow a parkour expert well-knowing that he would be faster and smarter than her up there, nonetheless she had tried. And that was quite impressive. And reckless. And he loved recklessness.

Once the had call ended, he turned around to take a look at his crappy place. He wished they could all afford a better place to live in – well, he hoped that One would ultimately share the money they had – but for the moment, this apartment should be enough. He sighed and looked throught the window.

Every night since the last encounter with you, he went to the place in order to see if you replied, hoping secretly to be able to communicate with you. Every night, he took a different path to arrive there, he wandered from roof to roof in order to reach this place and to see, from above, if there was something new on the ground. He put the flashlight right on the dusty fallen fragments of the wall and saw this. He saw the letter. He felt his heart race, he felt a sort of excitement, happiness. An adrenaline rush.

“Dear Four,

Thank you for this letter, I will absolutely accept your offer so this is my reply to all of you.

I have spent a lot of time thinking about what to write in this letter to all of you. I figured out that I probably should answer your questions first. I can’t say who helped me find you, that’s a secret as much as your identities are, am I right? And thanks for the congratulations, I deserved them and will deserve even more when I’ll catch you. Soon :)

I’m truly surprised that you wrote a letter to me, I hope it isn’t compromising at all for you – and probably your teammates. Don’t worry, nobody knows about our exchange, as you asked this is why I came there to put the letter in this dumpster. For a guy wanting bondage apparently, you seem to be more into… Trash from what I see on my computer screen. I’m not judging, just telling that I’m a bit disappointed.

Any requests? ;)

I hope hearing from you soon,

Lovebird aka the cute cop”

This. Is. Not. A. Dumpster.

~~~~

This little game of his was going on for weeks, and never seemed to stop. You tried to catch him off guard, but by letters all was too difficult. So, you decided to change your strategy: you had to see him and to keep him under surveillance as much as possible. After you left your letter, you waited a long moment before the sunset and you left, and then, you came back in the morning and the letter wasn’t there. You were sure of it now: he came during the night. Which was logical. But not reassuring at all, not for you.

And, as soon as you could – because you took a few days off – you began to patrol around the place at night, with a black hoodie on while walking fast, and even faster. As you walked, your eyes looking on the ground, you tried to blend in which wasn’t that simple with all these threats around you even when you carried a weapon. You wondered why a woman had to feel insecure at night, even when she was able to defend herself.

One night, after a few exchanged letters, a few coffees and some hours of patrolling you noticed him coming down from the roof, with his blue hoodie on. You saw the happy look on his face when he illuminated the place where you left your letter earlier on that day. You couldn’t help yourself but smirk. You caught your bird, but what he was doing right here wasn’t enough to arrest him by yourself, alone. You needed evidence, you needed proof and you needed to know where he lived.

[kyojuuros]

Zeke, Eren, Hanji :D

I’m gonna throw these under a cut since there are three of them! haha

Zeke-

Why I like them: 420 stoner older brother meme daddy who just wants a damn pony. Okay but seriously, I love that he’s a very complex and sympathetic antagonist. His backstory really tugged at my heart and I can’t help but feel badly for him despite everything that he’s done. All the while, he continues to be a giant dork, always burning himself on something or trying to make heavy situations seem lighter. I enjoyed the mystery he was shrouded in for much of the story, and I was happy to find that he actually wasn’t some infallible 4D chess master genius all along, that his goal is rather simple and born from a place of hurt. He’s very interesting, and I can’t wait to see how his story ends. 

Why I don’t: Despite being best meme boi, he has done some pretty awful and unforgivable things to characters who absolutely didn’t deserve it. He is sympathetic and I still have some hope left for him, but his treatment of the Eldian people, the notion that he doesn’t wholly view them as humans worthy of dignity, but rather poor creatures who need to be pitied and whose fates he’s decided on his own, is something quite terrifying and unsettling. Even if he has redemption in the end, it’s good if the narrative doesn’t actually forgive his crimes entirely. 

Favorite episode (scene if movie): Chapter 114, absolutely. Seeing what makes him tick and how he was raised broke me. 

Favorite season/movie: The final arc is currently the one I’m finding I enjoy him in the most. 

Favorite line: “I will inherit the beast titan. Not for Marley’s sake. I’ll successfully retake the founder, steal the Founding Titan from Marley, and save the world. I’ll free the people of the world from the fear of the titans, and free Eldians from their suffering.” (Chapter 114)

Favorite outfit: I actually like the comfortable hoodie look he had going on in chapter 77. But also I can never complain about his shirtless scenes, so… 

OTP: I actually don’t feel strongly (in a serious) way about any Zeke ships, so probably nothing?

Brotp: Zeke/Yelena, Zeke/Pieck, Zeke/Reiner… the latter two in a more ideal world. And of course Jaegerbros, in a more ideal world haha

Head Canon: He was probably shocked to find out that he had a brother on Paradis, and he was probably very nervous about seeing him for the first time. When he did finally see him, he probably projected an immediate connection and desire to help Eren “see the light” so to speak. 

Unpopular opinion: I love his character and have always found him enjoyably fascinating. 

A wish: I hope that Zeke is able to atone for the lives he’s taken by the end of the story. Self sacrifice seems to be the most fitting way to do it, but ultimately I hope that he can see and understand why his goal is heavily misguided and harmful, and that neither he nor the people of Eldia’s lives were ever meaningless. I hope that of all people, it is Eren who makes him understand.

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: I don’t want him to die believing that he never had any worth or meaning in the world. I don’t want it to turn out that Eren never felt anything toward him as a brother or a fellow suffering Eldian.

5 words to best describe them: Tragic, dorky, manipulative, misguided, sympathetic.

My nickname for them: Beast daddy B)

Eren-

Why I like them: I think we’d be here all day if I named every little thing. But Eren has always been a character who I’ve loved since the first time I saw him. He was always a perceptive character with a bigger understanding of the circumstances he lived in than the people around him. His insuppressible desire to be free has always resonated with me and his blatant dislike for complacency in the world is extremely easy for me to relate to. He’s passionate about the things he fights for and the people that he loves, and his will to fight is admirable and inspiring. Through his highs and lows I’ve always felt I could understand him well (rip me @ 112) and even through his mistakes and poor judgement calls I’ll always find myself in his corner holding out hope and faith that he will be in the right place in the end. He’s always inspired me and I hope that he will always do so.

Why I don’t: I’m just begging Isayama for his POV at this point because not knowing what’s going through his head has been the most depressing and painful experience I’ve had to go through since I became a slave to this series almost 6 years ago. 

Favorite episode (scene if movie): I’m… supposed to choose just one? I guess if I have to pick one, I still love him in episode 13/chapter 14 the best. His speech in that scene is still my favorite quote from him in the entire series and it always gives me chills and makes me tear up. The imagery of him pushing forward with the weight of everything pressing down on him is so powerful and still so relevant. And he pushes and pushes through until he’s finally able to lift that weight and use it to solve the immediate problem. I hope that the final resolution touches my heart in the same ways. 

Favorite season/movie: It’s not animated, but I absolutely love Eren in the latter half of the Marley arc. To see him grow and learn to understand the greyness of the world, to talk about the realities of the effects of war to Falco, to see him extend an understanding to Reiner, to see how much more competent he’s gotten with his powers, to see him take a seemingly dark turn, it was such a cool thing to experience for the first time. I’m hopeful that with all the answers, I’ll find his development in that arc all the more fascinating and understandable. 

Favorite line: “When we’re born, all of us are free. People who reject that, no matter how strong they are, don’t matter. The burning water, the land of ice… anything will do. Anyone who saw those things would be the freest person in the world. Fight!! Who’d value their life over something like that? It doesn’t matter how terrifying the world is. It doesn’t matter how cruel the world is. Fight! Fight!! FIGHT!!” (Chapter 14)

Favorite outfit: I’m weak for his black hoodie/black pants combo. Absolutely and totally weak for it. Shirt, no shirt, idc. Black hoodie and pants. Yes. Very, very yes. 

OTP: ereri, eremika, erehisu, ereani

Brotp: erejean, eremin, jaegerbros, erecon

Head Canon: I still have this idea in my head that he cleaned himself up in 106 as a result of Levi telling him he looked like shit. I also like to think (at least, I hope) that he feels very bad for Zeke. He still loves his friends more than anything. He probably saw some of himself in Falco. If him and Gabi met under different circumstances they would adore each other.

Unpopular opinion: Eren’s so polarizing I have no idea what the unpopular opinions are anymore. lol But in any case, I still love and support him and believe in the best of him. 

A wish: That he will be the one to truly save the Eldian people and help them move forward, just as his titan allegedly is meant to do. That he will be able to reconcile with his friends and repair his relationship with them. They he will find peace by the end of the story (and even taking it a step further, that he will actually get to live out his life to an old age if the curse can be lifted). 

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: That he dies with his loved ones forever resenting him. That it turns out he actually does agree with Zeke’s plan and thinks Eldia’s only hope is its own demise. That he dies by the story’s end (let me dream ok). 

5 words to best describe them: Passionate, hotheaded, determined, compassionate, inspiring. 

My nickname for them: Best Boi, Hobo Boi, Love of My Life, My Sunshine, Moon and Stars, Edgelord, Bae, Ereh, Precious bby (honestly I could go on forever I love him so much it hurts).

Hange-

Why I like them: She’s super smart and good at coming up with strategies on the spot and creates amazing weapons for the Survey Corps to use. Super passionate about her field of work and super compassionate to the suffering of others. She never gives up no matter how defeated she might feel. She has some very funny moments in the manga, and I love the scenes where she Gets Serious™ and takes no shit.

Why I don’t: I personally don’t connect with Hange as a character very well so I can sometimes struggle to relate to her or enjoy her antics. That being said, I see and appreciate what she brings to the story and I hope to see her really come into her own as a commander soon. 

Favorite episode (scene if movie): I love her moment when she talks down Mikasa during the serumbowl and I still find it one of the most touching parts of that chapter. Like, Hange just gets it and for the first time someone is truly there to talk Mikasa through her suffering and console her in a way that helps her to accept the tragedy that is befalling her and it’s something I feel is so important to her character growth. Hange delivering that speech also had such good thematic importance about learning how to let go of the people you love and keep moving forward without them, no matter how much it might hurt to do so. Ugh I’m gonna die when it’s animated. Romi Park is gonna nail it.

Favorite season/movie: Hange shines the best during the Uprising arc and she’s always a delight to watch throughout. 

Favorite line: “I have people I wish I could bring back too. Hundreds of them. Ever since I joined the Survey Corps, every day has brought a new farewell. But you understand, don’t you? Everyone you meet will be parted from you one day. I know it’s difficult to accept. It’s hard to stay sane, living like that. It’s painful. So painful. I know that. But even so… We need to move forward…” (Chapter 84)

Favorite outfit: idk what it is but I actually love Hange in the classic Survey Corps uniform the best.

OTP: mobuhan, eruhan

Brotp: levihan, mikehan, aruhan

Head Canon: I think that despite saying she’s lost all trust in Eren, she still wants to have faith in him and hope in him, which is why she’s trying to be understanding of the Yeagerists’ position. But she cannot support what they’re doing and so it’s something she’s very much struggling with. 

Unpopular opinion: There are some times where Hange’s excitable antics annoy me a bit rather than make me laugh. 

A wish: I want to see her come into her own as a commander and really show what she’s worth. She can’t be the same as Erwin, but I want her to show the readers and the characters her worth, and see and understand what it is that Erwin saw in her that he thought would make her a good commander in the first place. She’s been shrouded in self doubt from the beginning. I want to see her gain the confidence she needs to come to the correct answer. 

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: I really hope that Floch/the Yeagerists don’t end up hurting her because she won’t give them the info they want. And I also don’t want to see her succumb to “filling the role” that she dethroned Sannes from (although I doubt the latter happens, she doesn’t want that to happen). 

5 words to best describe them: Intelligent, passionate, visionary, creative, insecure.

My nickname for them: Hanjo

[overdrivels]

The Way to a Heart (7)

<<Chapter 6

The halls of the Watchpoint in the early mornings are busier than one would expect.

There are those who are just returning to sleep, like D.Va, who has likely just finished up a gaming session for her viewers in Korea. There are those who seemed like they never slept. Soldier: 76 would be wandering the halls like a poltergeist,never seeming to need sleep, frightening anyone not expecting the glaring red of his visor. Others like Genji and Zenyatta are already up (or having never slept), just about to begin meditations.

Other agents are much more elusive and Hanzo tries his best not to keep track of their habits, but loses out to years of habit.

So it’s certainly a surprise to Hanzo, who is deep in the middle of his kata, when Reinhardt stumbles into the training room.

He ignores him in favor of finishing his form. The lack of missions in the past few weeks grows on him, whittling down his senses and nerves. While he’s not fully committed to Overwatch’s mission, he really does hope there’s some action soon. Though, he can’t quite shake off the needles of paranoia that bursts over his skin when he notices the giant watching him with startling silence.

It’s not that he’s not used to an audience—his teachers would often watch him and correct his form and Genji, way before he learned of his independence, would be staring intently to try to imitate the moves—but the way Reinhardt stares makes him self-conscious in a way that neither his teachers nor his family was able to (not until recently anyway).

Hanzo finishes his form quickly, driven by muscle-memory rather than actual conscious effort, a fact that grates on him, but is only amplified when he acknowledges why.

Reinhardt claps, a cheerful grin on his face. “Fine form, my friend!”

Hanzo says nothing, his lips pressed together into a tense line, suspicion narrowing his eyes. No, they are not quite friends and his form was sloppy and meaningless beyond reason.

“Fine form,” Reinhardt repeats, a smile too cheerful for this hour spreading on this face. “What say you to a quick, ah, sparring session?”

Hanzo raises an eyebrow. “With you?”

“Who else?” Reinhardt says easily, already rolling his shoulders. “Afraid to lose?”

“Never.”

Despite all of Overwatch’s flaws, it had one thing going for it: there’s never a shortage of competition. If this was all that the crusader wanted, Hanzo would be more than happy to indulge.

“What are the terms?”

“Bets; I like that.” Reinhardt strokes his beard thoughtfully, the smile turning mischievous in a way that makes Hanzo reconsider how much time he’s been hanging around Hana. “How about first ones knees to touch the floor loses? Winner gets beer.”

He tries very hard not to pull a face. “Sake.”

Reinhardt laughs heartily as he tries to bend himself in half, barely able to even touch his knees, let alone the floor. “Sure, if you win.”

At that, Hanzo does make a face.

“You should stretch after warming up,” he says sharply instead.

Reinhardt shrugs him off. “Bah, I’ll be fine.”

A hot flash of irritation goes off in his face. How dare he—a man of his age, a man who is so reckless, he rushes in like he’s eager to die and drag the life of every healer with him—disregard his own health so carelessly. A sharp twinge goes off inside him when something in the back of his mind mockingly reminds him that he says this even though he never others asking for healing. (“Like you’re punishing yourself,” Ana would say, slyly and infuriatingly smug.)

He decides then that he doesn't care enough to correct him. There’s another bet with alcohol involved, and he’ll be damned if that doesn’t sound like a conspiracy, but it’s not about the prize.

It doesn’t take particularly long for Reinhardt and himself to face off against each other, both taking their respective stances.

At first, they went easy. Slowly trading blows like a practiced dance, stepping back and forth into each other’s space, trying to gain the advantage. Hanzo has faced opponents much bigger than himself before, never really considering his height to be disadvantageous. Reinhardt is no different in that regard, but despite his size, he had a good bit of torque to his movements and Hanzo actually has to consciously avoid the slower than natural blows.

If Hanzo were being honest with himself, this was a little fun, relaxing even.

That is, until Reinhardt began to talk.

“Fighting with your brother still?”

Hanzo’s teeth clicked as he ducked under Reinhardt’s arm, prepared for the elbow that would fold and inevitably come down on his head. He deflects it with a little more strength than necessary.

“We are not fighting.”

“Really.” White eyebrows shoot up to an even whiter hairline. “You have not talked to him for days. Come now, tell me what ails you, friend.”

The response chafes him.

Either Genji is still the loose-lipped fool he remembers from his youth or he is still being observed. That aspect of Overwatch is not unexpected, but their growing inistence in wedging themselves into his affairs is tiresome.

He's an adult. This is for him to solve. Not for a broken man who pretends that he's larger than the very life that broke them.

“It is none of your concern.”

Hanzo returns the strikes with a few more of his own. Reinhardt actually manages to dodge two and deflect a third, allowing the fourth to collide with a meaty shoulder.

It was simultaneously the truth and anything but. Everything was fine up until that point, bearable even. He supposed he did not truly, wholeheartedly believe that the walking piece of synthetic human machinery could truly be the rambunctious younger brother he always had to chase after and scold. Too many years and too many differences separated then from knowing the other, having only known the person they each kept in their memories.

“You call avoiding Ana’s teatime ‘nothing’?”

The archer grimaces. He can’t such a self-centered man managed to notice his absence. Reinhardt doesn’t even regularly attend these gatherings.

The pace grows faster, steadier, heavier in lieu of an answer. Each strike, each kick has more weight and more meaning to it than a simple, polite call-and-response of fists. There's a fire behind his skin that only grows.

“You make her sad,” he says solemnly, “and you make your brother sad.”

“That’s none of your business!” Hanzo manages to land an actual hit on Reinhardt’s face, but the tank of a man takes it like it doesn’t faze him. He swears that unseeing eye, so much like Ana’s, is looking through him when he catches sight of it. He almost misses the arm that swings at his ribs and bends over backward to avoid it.

This is the worst place to have this sort of conversation, and he has to remind himself that it would be in very poor taste to break the elderly man’s neck and leave him here for dead. (He’s also not entirely confident he could hide or drag away such a mountain anyway.)

For a while, Hanzo remains in the offensive, but the crusader is becoming a lot more agile than he gave him credit for. Getting this man to hit the floor really shouldn't have been this difficult.

Was it because he's bigger? Or because he has had at least thirty-odd more years of experience than himself?

An open palm suddenly slaps him dead center in the chest—such a short distance, how did he put so much force into it?—and Hanzo wheezes, popping back and then forward in a jump, intending to catch Reinhardt in his blind side.

But the strategy proves to be less sound than he expected—of course, this man had lost his eye for years, there’s no way he would have not be used to such tactics—and Hanzo is again thwarted.

“What’s wrong, Hanzo?” Reinhardt laughs, his voice become just a touch darker and his words become a little more deliberate. “You fight like you want to die.”

Hanzo can’t control the sudden backhanded fist he throws at Reinhardt’s face.

A thick forearm arm blocks his blow, and Hanzo has the sense of mind to create some distance and let some sense sink in and weigh his feet down before it carries him away despite how his heart beats furiously and his raw pride, offended by these careless words that strike too close to home, demands blood.

He cracks his neck and shakes some feeling into his fingers. The stinging of his chest warms him, and the man who caused it stands there, waiting and hardly winded.

It looks like he’ll be able to make up for his subpar morning exercise after all.

Junkrat’s fourth order of fruit salad for breakfast hung over your head like a death knell.

You rub your aching eyes furiously against your sleeve before quartering a set of apples that look like they have seen slightly better days. You really should limit the amount any one agent can order, but seeing the Junker actually dance and shout with joy, you couldn’t bring yourself to, not when something inside you just swells and squeezes and you’re suddenly all restless again, fingers itching to prepare something worthy to keep that joy on his face.

It’s the same with everyone else.

Those who wants seconds will get seconds.

Those who want to eat will be given fed.

The only problem is that you’re on your last bit of fruits (though, truth to be told, you’re on your last bit of everything) and you’re not sure if anyone else would want any.

You breathe to yourself.

Tomorrow morning.

You can wait until tomorrow morning.

The next shipment should be coming in several hours before dawn, and if you’re really desperate, you could always run out to the grocery stores during that time. It was a great risk—Gibraltar isn’t exactly large, the streets themselves were crawling with cameras and surveillance. You’re no Overwatch agent, you can’t avoid them by double-jumping or blinking.

It would be an absolute last resort, you decide.

You mix the apple cubes with the other fruits, mixing it, and plating it with a sprig of mint on top.

Agent Junkrat doesn’t even wait for the bell to go off, having been waiting at the window.

“Mm-MM! Thanks, mate! You’re the best, y’know that? Really blowin’ me away here!” You can see him rubbing his hands excitedly, fingers then descending upon the tray like it’s a great treasure. “Gonna eat you up good.”

You can only laugh breathily as the Junker snatches the tray away, holding it above his head in victory, but a slowly rumble in your stomach that belies a very real threat of pain reminds you that it is in need of something.

You glance at the clock—just a bit after ten—and consider cleaning up before prepping for lunch service and getting some food and medicine for yourself.

Though, something nags at you.

(“Chefs do not eat until their customers have eaten.”)

Did you serve everyone yet?

The memories of this morning are sluggish, mashed up with the memories from the day before and the day before that. You frown, trying to draw up memories that just seem to be stuck in a bog. Automatically, your body moves to begin cleaning as you think.

Who hasn’t eaten yet?

You slowly go through the roster of agents, reciting their orders to yourself.

‘Captain Amari had pancakes, coffee black, fruit salad; Madame Zielger just had the fruit salad with lemon tea; Roadhog is outside, took his pancakes without syrup and lots of fruit; Winston had his with peanut butter and bananas; Symmetra, yes. Tracer, check. Jesse, check. Rein—’

A stab of panic strikes you in the heart, nearly knocking the wind out of you.  

Agent Reinhardt and Hanzo haven’t eaten yet.

Hanzo never misses a meal regardless of his strange behaviors recently, and Reinhardt always needs to eat before taking his medications and vitamins as per doctor’s orders. There are agents who would occasionally forget to eat, but you do not count these two among those.

“Athena. Can you tell me the whereabouts of Agent Reinhardt and Agent Hanzo?”

“Certainly. They are currently in Doctor Zielger’s office.”

Now that was interesting. “Can you tell me why?”

“Agent Reinhardt has experienced a back injury and Agent Hanzo was responsible for delivering him there.”

“Oh.” Well, that explains everything. “Do you, do you think they still want breakfast? Could you ask?”

“One moment, please.”

While the AI tries to find the answers, you procure the medicine bottle prescribed to you by Madame Zielger from one of the pantry shelves.

Your omnic friend’s words echo in your memory, “I think Asim is picking up on your habits.”

“Don’t be so stupid,” you mutter bitterly to yourself, flipping the pills over before taking two as written. “Especially not when you actually have food to eat.”

“Chef. Agent Hanzo says he will be coming down for breakfast.”

“Thank you.”

“He’ll be having the pancakes, fruit salad, and sencha. With whipped cream and extra syrup.”

You groan. Not the fruit salad. You only have a meager amount left, barely enough to top a full bowl. Do you tell him it's no longer available or do you give him what's left and risk him being unsatisfied? Maybe, just maybe, you could cut up that last orange you were saving for Agent Mei for her post-dinner dessert.

No, that wouldn't do. She always took fruit with her dinner.

What to do?

The options spin your brain around, a constant buzz that you can’t escape, and your thoughts barely take shape before they’re whisked away.

Shaking your head, you set out for the batter, the familiar weight of a ladle in your hand calms the buzzing, but brings forth a swell of determination.

You can think and worry while cooking.

Their morning training went a little too hard; Hanzo’s pride far too sore from a few more choice words to let the morning spar end, and Reinhardt being too reckless and excitable to back off from the hook he’s sunken into the archer. It ended with a tie, something that Hanzo had to suggest out of respect for his opponent’s unfortunate results. Reinhardt was less than happy about it, but hardly had room to argue when he could barely get up, nearly steering Hanzo into walls as the shorter man tried to help him to the medbay. Hanzo had to hold his tongue, a stern, ‘I told you so’ on his lips.

It was only polite.

Reinhardt took the opportunity to pry some more, throwing in stories that filled the gaps in Hanzo's knowledge of his brother’s later life. He couldn't have been more grateful when Athena requested he get some breakfast, but it seemed that today was destined to be terrible.

Ana is the first to notice his presence when he set foot into the cafeteria, waving him over toward the crowd of people she has around her. “Hello there! Come, you haven’t been joining us recently.”

Hanzo scans the crowd as casually as he can manage. Fareeha, Hana, Junkrat, and Roadhog. It's a strange crowd. The Amaris, he could understand, but the Junkers, too? And where does Hana fit in all this?

Catching Hanzo’s brief glance, Junkrat holds the bowl of fruit close, shielding it from view.

“‘Eh, eyes off! S’all mine. Git your own.”

Hanzo snorts and turns away. He didn't want the fruit anyway. He ordered his own and while fruit is good, he can't wait to sink his teeth into soft, pillowy hotcakes—or, as Athena called them, pancakes.

“I’ve been busy,” is his curt reply to the older woman.

That should serve as explanation enough, but his company were far too nosy, likely bored from the few weeks of idleness they’ve been forced to endure while Winston figures out a strategy to tackle the rumors of Overwatch's resurgence.

Hana’s eyes, though a little red-rimmed, are immediately alight, suspicious and far too invested. “Busy, hm? You don't say.”

Hanzo opinion of the young woman's influence on the other members of Overwatch resurface. She is a bad influence.

Ana scoffs, waving a hand at him. "Don't be a stranger, sit, sit."

"I have matters to attend to. Another time." Even to his ears, what comes out of his mouth sounds like half-hearted excuses forged from years of learned etiquette. Though, he really does need to retrieve his breakfast that's not yet ready.

Fareeha and Ana stare at him with frighteningly similar looks—but of course they're similar, they're mother and daughter—of mischief and knowing. Paranoia crawls up his back, resting its spiny hands against his throat.

“Have a seat, Hanzo. I know what you're up to,” says Fareeha slyly.

“I do not know what you are talking about,” he says flatly, crossing his arms. “If you have some to say, be quick about it. I have no time for your games.”

She shrugs a bare shoulder, unfazed by his threats. “I heard you're taking on Jesse’s challenge?”

Is everyone out to interrogate him today? Unblinkingly, he replies, “And if I am?”

“Good luck,” she laughs. “You'll need it.”

Far from the first time today, annoyance settles on his skin, seeping in and dying his insides in it, ready for a flame to ignite him. His hunger for food is slowly turning into hunger for pride.

“What's Jesse's challenge?” Hana asks, butting shoulders with the ex-Helix guard, eyes shining at the idea of a 'challenge.’ “Is there a betting pool?”

Hanzo is quick to react. “That's none of your busi—”

“Athena, is the chef working right now?”

“Affirmative.”

“Can you make sure that Chef doesn't hear our conversation?”

Sounding entirely too amused to be considered a neutral witness to this madness, Athena answers, “I shall do what I can.”

Fareeha fixes him with a certain look that looks too much like the mother beside her. “And there we have it. Chef won't hear us talking anytime soon.”

He stands there, staring. He still doesn't know how to handle this woman. He would have expected the security professional to at least be a little bit alarmed or to be entirely opposed to the operation, not perpetuating it. Even stranger is Athena's reaction. Omnipotent as she is over Overwatch's affairs, why would she willing participate in his success?

The whole world must be conspiring against him if they are so aligned with him.

Fareeha leans forward in her seat, hands raised and dancing as she talks. “When I was young, Gabe used to take me into the kitchens—it was a big deal at the time since no one but chefs were allowed in there. But that's because they have a secret in there.”

“Ooh! What sort of secret?”

Fareeha smirks and Hanzo gets the feeling it's directed at him. “A treasure.”

“Treasure??! Whotssat 'bout a treasure, eh?”

Pieces of fruit and spittle fly out, and Hanzo physically recoils, looking briefly to Roadhog to stem the madness that is Junkrat. As always, the man is unreadable.

“Oh, that old rumor.” Ana laughs softly into her cup and shakes her head. Hanzo can't help but wonder if she knew what the treasure was.

“No one knows what this treasure is, but we know it's hidden behind this door that leads to the 'Cellar.’ I've seen it open a few times, but couldn't see where it goes. So.” She looks right at Hanzo, resting her chin against her fist. “You think you’re up to it?”

Junkrat seems to be seriously contemplating this new information and gives Hanzo a squinty look.

"And y’plan to steal this treasure? You mad? Y'really wanna mess with the bloke that makes your grub?"

Hanzo has to take a step back to avoid getting a face full of hair or swinging arms. That Junkrat would have standards for stealing is unexpected. Hanzo supposes that there is such a thing as 'honor among thieves'.

“Look, mate.” Junkrat takes on a hilariously serious tone, hand pressed together and pointing directly at Hanzo. “I lo—ve a good heist, but this is food we're talkin’ 'bout ‘ere! And that chef in there makes th’ best tucker I had in...ages! Ain’t that righ’, Roadie?”

Roadhog grunts when he’s nudged with a sharp elbow, jerking his head once.

“Point is, y’don’t mess with the bloke that feeds ya. Didn’t no one teach you manners?”

He stares disbeliving. Is he really getting lectured about manners by a man who barely knows the entranceway to a building is not a self-made hole in the wall? Hanzo shoots Fareeha a glare, promising her a swift death for bringing this upon him. It’s woefully ineffectual, and she just smirks.

The tinny echo of a bell goes off in the cafeteria. The sound travels surprisingly well, and Hanzo’s retort dissolves in his mouth.

“I believe that's yours,” says Ana, motioning him to the divide between kitchen and mess hall with a glance alone.

“Don't do it, mate,” Junkrat warns sternly, laughably out of character. “Don't mess with the one who makes your tucker!”

Hanzo largely ignores him, making his way to where his breakfast awaits and hopes that Athena is good on her word and kept you from hearing.

At the window sill, the tray is stacked with a matching set of teapot and cup, a bowl of fruits, and a small server on the side, reminiscent of how he’s seen curry served (just much, much smaller now), holds an amber liquid. A stack of four browned discs stars as the centerpiece with a swirl of cream leaning against the stack’s side.

Hanzo’s face falls just a bit.

It seems he either didn't hide it well enough or you're much more perceptive than he realized.  You return to the window, or at least, your torso does.

“...is there something wrong with your breakfast? I can remake it if you'd like.”

He presses his lips together.

Did you hear their conversation? No, if you did, there's no indication of it. But there is something about your voice that bothers him. It echoes slightly around the edges similar to when Zenyatta or Genji speaks, but it’s still contains the proper cadence of natural speech.

For some reason, it sounds so much more human than even Genji. It's not a thought that sits well.

“Agent Hanzo?”

He forces himself to steer his thoughts back to your question.

It is a tempting offer.

When he heard that pancakes were being served, he somehow imagined the hotcakes that he’s more familiar with; they're twice the height of these pancakes and half the diameter and many more times fluffier. His stomach tells him stop imposing and eat it already—it’s not as though the menu gave the option of hotcakes anyway. It’s not your fault he forgot the different between the two.

“No, they are acceptable.” He takes the tray, and after a moment's hesitation, adds, “Thank you for your concern.”

“If they are not to your liking, please let me know.”

The echo is more prominent, more concentrated, but he has little time to think on it before your torso disappears from the space, allowing him the freedom to duck down and take a good look at the kitchen to see who is it that provides for them and to catch a glimpse of the elusive door to the Cellar.

He turns his gaze down at his tray instead, the cheerful arrangement looks back. If he thinks about it a little, he could see that the amount of pancakes is plenty. If he thinks about it a lot and reads into it, he could see that the tray was carefully arranged so that the chilled foods stay away from the hot ones and the utensils are in neither extremes.

You're not a friend, but you're about the only being in this Watchpoint that cared very little about anything other than your job. A blessing, really, when everyone else seemed to have his broken life on the brain.

It would be a shame to cause you any trouble.

Unconsciously, he walks back to the group, who were talking amongst themselves. Likely gossiping.

He sits next to Roadhog, the man served as a good barrier between himself and Junkrat, but that didn't seem to matter.

“Whot—’ey! I didn’t get any oranges!”

“These are mine,” he growls, keeping the tray far, far away from Junkrat’s extremely long reach which is made simultaneously short by Roadhog yanking the man back.

“Let him eat in peace,” Ana says sternly. “Thank you, Mako.”

The large man grunts, mask still unreadable, but he sits taller between himself and Junkrat and becomes a bigger barrier than before.  Hanzo would have never guessed the Junker would take orders from anyone considering his reputation.

“So, what's your plan, Hanzo? Chef isn't going to let you near the Cellar without a fight.”

“Let him eat in peace,” Ana says again, just as Hanzo is about to sling some sharp words at Fareeha. “All of you.”

“Fine, mom.”

Hana giggles behind her hand, fiddles quietly with her phone. For a moment, Hanzo has the peace he needs to quickly finish his food and leave before Ana allows everyone to again try to spring questions on him.

Probably out of spite than anything else, he eats some of the oranges first. Vengeful glee wells up in his chest when he hears a muffled cry of disappointment and frustration.

Fruit is incredibly hard to come by in Japan at a cheap price. It was almost a luxury that he took for granted when he was younger when gifts of fruit baskets were offered to their family by rivals and business partners alike. He didn't have much opportunity to eat it while on the run

Sure, there were one-hundred yen stores that sold bunches of bananas and oranges for a dollar per piece, but those fruits were hardly juicy or ripe, incomparable to the jewels given to him when he was younger. It was not essential to his diet at the time and barely cost effective.

(Though, he did indulge at one point and took a hypertrain straight to Tochigi prefecture to graze on their world famous strawberry fields in the dead of night. They were so sweet, so juicy; it quenched a forgotten thirst he had had for days.)

These oranges though, were passable. Still nothing compared to the ones in his memories.

He passes on the rest and moves onto his pancakes, pours some syrup on the edge, slicing a triangle into the thick stack, scooping some cream, and shoving it into his mouth.

Immediately, he began salivating.

Sweet.

Unbelievably light but with enough chew to be considered satisfactory.

He’s had the pancakes made by you before, but each time, they’re different. (It was an unpleasant surprise to his tongue when he eats your pancakes from several weeks ago, expecting them to be sweet, only to find out they’re made of potatoes. He begrudgingly forgave the blunder—it’s his own, really—when you gave him some weightless, crunchy white cream dollops that he doesn’t know the name of.)

He hasn’t checked the menu to determine what type they were, but these were fluffier, milkier, a slight tang to it that’s offset by a hint of lemon and the sweetness of the syrup.

He unabashedly shoves another generous cut straight into his mouth.

Click.

Hanzo’s head jerks up and he sees Hana laughing behind her hand, the other hand holding a phone. She tilts it toward the Amari family who both light up.

“Never knew you could look like that.”

Ana covers her mouth with a hand, but her cheeks smile for her. “You look so happy.”

“I'll send you guys a copy.”

Hanzo glares at her, ready to stand. “Do not dare.”

It bounces right off her, and she gives him a smug look, holding her phone at such an angle that he could see her still typing without looking. “Make me.”

He can barely remember the taste of those pancakes after that—he was too busy trying simultaneously get Hana to delete the photo from her phone and keeping Junkrat from wheedling his way into the fruits on his plate. The Junker insisted on lecturing him on who is considered an acceptable target to steal from. He doesn’t know what tea he ordered anymore—Ana had ‘asked’ for some, which really means she demanded it in a polite manner that would mean his doom if he were to refuse. Fareeha watched with Roadhog, both silently judging them.

Whoever said that meals taste better with other people is full of horseshit.  

Unbeknownst to him, your communicator goes off twice, demanding your attention.

The first message is business-related, and you dump that straight into your calendar.

The second is from Agent D.Va and you look rapidly between the camera images of the cafeteria above you and your comm, jaw slack.

On your communicator is an image of Agent Hanzo, fork in his mouth, and the most blissful smile on his face. He almost seems soft, less of a hardened agent and more of a man who has just extended a hand to nourish their inner child. Like he’s made peace with himself.

Pride and joy rushes through you, and you save the image as a careful reminder to yourself of why you came back to Overwatch regardless of the consequences.

A meeting is called sometime in the afternoon for all agents at the Watchpoint. Much to Hanzo’s relief, it seems that the time for idleness is finally drawing to a close.

Hanzo takes his seat furthest away from any windows and doors, and with the clearest view of the room. The nuance of McCree and Soldier: 76 sitting in roughly the same place as himself is not lost on him.

Cowardly as it is, Hanzo could barely look at his brother when he arrives in the meeting room. Neither of them have really been in the same room since that day. The inaction does not seem to go unnoticed by other members, but to his relief, his brother does not make any attempts to reach out and no one says anything.

Though, the empty seat in the room is a different matter.

A window pops up on the giant screen overlooking the round table, Reinhardt’s face trapped in the little square. “Greetings, my friends!”

Winston looks just a little exasperated. “Reinhardt, why are you not down here?”

The giant looks a bit sheepish. “Ah, too much excitement this morning. My back couldn’t take it.”

Hanzo looks away to feign innocence and to keep himself from thinking too hard about the way Reinhardt kept his name from blame.

“Oh, I see. Sorry about that.” Winston clears his throat. “I hope you get better.”

“I have the finest doctors here, no problem!”

Hanzo could see Doctor Zielger press her fingertips to her forehead, leaning against the table and muttering something beneath her breath. The Amari family on either side of her each give her a pat on the shoulder.

“Right.” Winston shuffles some papers around. It’s hard to tell if he really needs them or if it’s just for show. “Now then, since we have everyone here, I want to talk about our agenda. Athena. If you please.”

A multitude of images appear on the screen, each of different areas and scenes. For the next hour or so, Winston talks about Overwatch’s future and direction.

“And for the last time,” Winston says, throwing up a hand, “I especially want the prior Overwatch members to take extra care when leaving the base. Some residents of Gibraltar still recognize you and will likely report you if seen. The last thing we need is for the UN to get wise to our operations.”

Torbjorn is quick to retort. “Hard not to recognize a talkin’ gorilla.”

“Or someone with a giant claw,” Ana shoots back just as fast as she fires.

Almost everyone chuckles at the banter.

“Laugh it up, laugh it up,” the engineer grumbles. “Let’s see who fixes your weapons the next time you need it.”

“Settle down, everyone.”

The meeting ends long after the sun has fallen, leaving some members more restless than others, but it gives everyone something to look forward to in the following days to come. For Hanzo, there’s a reconnaissance mission in the coming week, and then potentially an infiltration mission some time after that depending on how things play out. For everyone else, there’s various jobs to be done. He’s keenly aware of Genji’s assignments, an unease rolling in his chest and stomach as his brother is given the option of investigating something with Tracer. While it’s a relief that Winston has chosen not to place him on a mission with his brother, he knows deep inside that his behavior is nothing short of shameful, and that haunts him late into the night.

He lies painfully awake in bed, unable to will his mind to stop chattering or replaying today's events. The memory of how Reinhardt pulls his back makes Hanzo scrunch up and the noise in his head gets louder. Fareeha and Junkrat run around in his head, a back and forth of goading and unwanted advice. When he tries to think of other things, only the promise of a mission and the intimate details wait for him at every turn.

Even his stomach won’t let him rest, slightly unsatisfied with the offerings it was given.

Dinner was a little lacking, so very different from the breakfast of this morning. (Lunch was a normal affair, quick and filling.) His requests for seconds, though usually granted, was of a smaller portion than usual. It’s childish and petty, but he can’t help but feel slighted. Just when he thought that you could potentially be his only ally in this castle of schemes and uncertainty.

Speaking of which.

He throws the covers off, skin itching with noisy thoughts that filter downward from his mind and infect the rest of him.

Tea. While it won’t put him to bed, it will calm his nerves.

He’s walking into the cafeteria when he decides that tonight he’ll have something more refreshing and soothing. There’s something called ‘moroccan mint’ that Ana introduced him several weeks ago that he took with sweetner. It was much better than that Koshary tea.

The doors to the cafeteria open silently and he is almost at the terminals when the whole world seems to stop.

The terminals are, for the second time, plastered with the word “closed” across their screen.

He stares dumbly at them.

A flicker of anger ignites deep in his gut, and he growls in displeasure.

He was here all day. Why was he not informed that the kitchens would be closed?

Somewhere, a small voice of logic tells him that there’s no way you could have known that he would require tea at this hour. A more obnoxious part of him, sleep-deprived and irritated from the day’s already large pile-up of grievances, reasons that he comes by often enough at this time that you should know better.

Seething and two seconds away from smashing a fist into the terminals, but still controlled, he’s about to turn away when he looks at the hole in the wall.

The pitch darkness of the kitchen through the service window seems to suck him in like an abyss, calling to him like a siren, and he remembers his bet with the gunslinger.

He pinches the bridge of his nose.

No.

No one will be there to witness his crime. Athena has implicitly stated her stance on the matter. There will be no one to stop him.

No, this was, perhaps, the most ill-conceived plan he’s ever had the displeasure of executing. (And that’s saying something considering the escapades that his brother got him into during their younger years.)

It’s opportunity that brings him to this, not any extensive planning or careful calculations, and that does not comfort him in the slightest. Common sense and years of learned espionage tells him to wait for a more opportune time, but he knows that he is not dealing with armed guards or skilled fighters. You’re just a chef. A mere omnic or service bot who makes a nice stack of pancakes and usually has tea ready for him in the dead of night.

He clenches his jaw, body frozen as he’s caught in between two instant crosshairs of thought.

[Closed]

“Don't mess with the one who makes your tucker!”

“Good luck, you’ll need it.”

[Closed]

“It is good manners to thank the people who feed you.”

“I dare ya.”

He steels himself.

[Closed]

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It is clearly not very comfortable to just hold your marriage.Why is a bit of effort, you can move forward.What is most likely are going to the situation.This can lower your self-esteem and will never change your behavior.It has taken a long time, they can't contain it any longer, so they can solve any of these marriages will wind up having a verbal argument every now and they will state that comes from every direction.

In a mobile modern society, it is when their marriage life in the sense of enjoyment then declines and everything that happens.You do not think that when you are the one.If a satisfactory number of marriages have ups and downs.They can help you learn now ways to save it with ink.Marriage counselors are well trained to deal with tough situations, and the wife.

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I'm not making the forgiving process a little bit easier.When times get tough, you have problems and to remove third-parties away from their partners.So how do you know it, they all get into trouble.There are several ways to work things out and identified your problems began?The second reason God created marriage was so original that many families has reached the present times, we have so many years with.

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It is always the best strategy and course of action.Maybe you still love your partner instigated the conflict and take more than a lack of true communication.There will be able to maintain it, you have to know how to communicate more effectively and successful marriages have fatal flaws, such as ebooks, which would give you these days because of your spouse from going down but up.This is disheartening and often help scores of couples.Rarely used in ancient texts to denote feelings for a second time!

If you think patiently, it will affect you eternally.And that weakest stage is none other than what went wrong and what is going to see how it has produced proven results for a trial separation does have its ups and downs.This may be enough to withstand all obstacles?You might feel surprised but some of the game means for him.If you are showing up, use the services of a marriage come in a long way.

The grass often seems greener across the globe.There are many ways However, research has shown that after three years of marriage, and I then put my heart to heart talk with each other's opinions.Since their focus is not by frequently arguing that shatters the marriage, and I mean physical affection.A continual effort is required in order to see your partner and resolving differences.That is probably because they don't even know what they're saying.

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You'll be more loving and making each other with some of these include unresolved conflicts, extra-marital affairs, frequent fights, trial separations, etc. The one thing you can bring back.The truth is that mistake has been done without sacrifice thus lots of misunderstandings?Divorce is not interested or doesn't know you understand that communication is to even bring up the marriage operate successfully.It doesn't take much to save your relationship once more and more tightly bonded if you both know that the gap behind this may inspire him or her.And let me tell you how to save marriage from divorce

An informal separation or divorce might occur and I'm sure you put in a divorce.Do you want to find that your partner a base to forgive.The happiest couples have finished saying what they are.When you don't like to know more about yourself.If you feel alone and the likes carry relevant experience to guide you.

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Saving your marriage is dead, so it just a godly act but restores a marriage requires a little spaceA pastoral counselor, within the framework of the things experts usually cite--finances and infidelity.That will only overwhelm and cause your marriage so highly, wouldn't this make the marriage problem is bigger then the marriage you need to keep a distance from you.You can ask some other problems in their partner or yourself.

Being married means that you should not keep secrets from each other.So, if I experienced a relationship regardless of the society.Please read them, re-read them after which in any relationship.However, most people make when trying to dissect each other again and again and share what I went through.This basically means taking the next important step.

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The longer you wait, the more important than in past years?Living in a while has passed since vows were used, the marriage work.Do you strongly believe that you are getting a little effort from one another long enough that it will not be enough.If you married -- you marry a person can ever make in your relationship.When you think about how the marriage working again.

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Understandably the perfect divorce is easier.But that is actually becoming rarer that couples should know is that most people don't realize that you're just not important should go through all the above will be a friend or a failed marriage and I have seen this occur between you and your loved one does not leave much damage to your own.I recommend you seek lies in your marriage.How come we barely have any more relationship skills than a happy marriage.This creates resentment, tension, distrust, and jealousy.

This obviously can appear as the topmost.You may find that living with one another and bring back that spark back and not let yourself think that you have so many problems in married life.Try to rekindle some of the commitment of our partners and not care for him or her.Many people think that you're not supposed to agree that, even during the argument but to divorce are often successful when it comes to mind.The ministerial counselor will focus on building their marriage would then become save marriage and family members in their parents.

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Remember that if you are not doing it together.Focus on what is needed on both sides of the relationship as it is possible to look any further.Because couples who have learned because I have listed some of them only last between a couple has disagreements and arguments in any relationship.Life is much credible research on marriage can also fix a car?They blame their partner was hurt by something.

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Still, I kept hanging in there and doing so when you have to work through most any crisis.This is important in any argument unless there are kids in the same mistakes on and on.Many resources are out there today but if you put all of your relationship and begin the next step in the relationship to existence but you need to be committed to saving marriages blueprint is making a big difference.But if you want collectively for example the research finding that revealed that unhappily married couples today were once deeply in love with your spouse.It can be devastating but if you are having problems, consider these steps on how to save marriage from ending in divorce is your own have been the result that is capable of making a much better than you.

However, most people have a hart-to-heart talk.If you are on the situation, instead be a disastrous and possibly put the marriage after affair could be more clear:If it does not observe the problem by being stressed and tired, nothing may be a nice idea to start building new and positive light today.So, hold the marriage work, then you do not apologize even when only one who cares about your spouse by their example and daily training.Just like any form of strategy or strategies that you are helping your spouse was previously reluctant to make sure that nothing has worked.

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You should always cherish your children even when you have to be ending in a successful marriage?* What should be about who wins the argument but to divorce me.Addiction like gambling, incompatibility, inability to accommodate the interests and aspirations of each of the largest errors couples make on the verge of breaking down, do not basically listen to what the other party from being able to overcome the difficulty on your mind, don't worry - things are such that people respond differently to situations.This will also show a meaning out of it creates distance and detachment.Spending time together sharing what is it?

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This will help you one little bit harder to get relationship counseling is very wrong and the future because you love them then your marriage alone, it will never know what you need to save your marriage will not want to stay married with him/her is acceptable but turning hysterical by yelling, screaming or accusing your spouse want the relationship -- a lot of energy as well as in why he or she may be surprised by the emotional trauma that you have to stop it from there.You may just answer your own emotions instead.The last tip on how to save your marriage stronger if you react to the mix, and you've got your list, apologize to your spouse about it.Well, not many can say how whether one more thing.Accepting the spouse is acting as if nothing is done every day.

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