#highly recommend making out and/or sex in non bedroom areas

[what-a-pleasuretounwrap]

remembering when i made out with my partner in the kitchen one time

he kissed me against the fridge while we were both getting breakfast and it just spiraled from there

[donutloverxo]

A Royal Scandal 3

Modern Royal King!Steve au

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cowritten with @lizzygal​

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Summary - Modern ruler, His Majesty King Steven G Rogers, is on a quest to make his long term secret relationship the real thing. He is a man in love and wants his lover and partner to be his queen.

Warnings - Smut (m/f), dub con/non con, sex tape, scandals, mentions of past domestic abuse, soft dark Steve, possessive Steve, spanking, power imbalance, mentions of previous domestic abuse, somnophilia.

Pairing - King!Steve x reader

Word count - 7k

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Sometimes Steven forgot that you weren’t that much younger than him. He forgot about a lot of things when it was only the two of you. You did that to him. You made him forget things that everyone else reminded him of constantly, intentional and not.

Early that morning was no different.

Long before his alarm went off, Steve found himself on his side watching you sleep. Feeling in every way equal to you, like there was not this huge ocean of things that he did not have in common with you, opposed to what the two of you shared.

Obviously, he was the son of kings and tyrants while you were the daughter of immigrants and a blue-collar family. You’d grown up in a house full of love and kindness and acceptance, he had not. You’d ended your teenage years going to college and then travelling and ending up here, where you chose to stay and work and travel and live a life that Steve could only dream of, his own had never been his own and never would be.

You had dreams and hopes, little things like aspirations. He didn’t.

Steve’s life was dictated by things like duty and obligations, expectations. Yours was not.

Maybe that was why he’d been so drawn to you?

Compared to all the royals around Europe and titled individuals, politicians, even old families, none of them interested him even a fraction of the amount that you interested him. To Steve you were exotic. You were a fascinating creature who might as well have come from Mars.

He couldn’t even say what it was or why.

For so long it had felt right to be alone. Considering the blood of monsters ran through his veins, Steve had been uninterested in any sort of companionship more than a brief encounter at a private location.

For Christ’s sake, he refused to sleep in the bedroom that his father had slept in.

Upon assuming the throne, he’d selected to take up older quarters in an unused part of the palace living complex. As if to ensure he was as far away from the rooms that his father and grandfather and great-grandfather had slept. Choosing to sleep in a bed untainted by any of those men, stored from when his land was ruled by an emperor. Hoping with the hopes of a young king that it would save him from their madness.

Beside him, you slept so peacefully, trustingly.

Steve had never brought anyone into his private apartment. Nor had his bed seen any carnal action since it’d gone into storage. Until you. He’d simply never been so inclined.

A rough sound from the growth on his cheek rubbing against his pillow. A pleasant reminder of that night that felt so long ago, yet also like only yesterday.

He’d had a beard back then he remembered.

A full bushy one.

One that had made you laugh softly at, roll your eyes and still manage to pull off an acceptable bow when you greeted him that late night.

“They beat Canada then Your Majesty?” You had inquired with good nature, setting down a whole stack of papers and folders onto the very modern conference table in a big room that could fit two dozen, more if the people were standing.

He’d beamed.

Steve remembered he’d been in a particularly good mood that night. Even if he was working late on the education push into the outer regions of his kingdom. A good amount was still very rural, many simple villages that lived as they had fifty or more years ago. Many parts of his kingdom were still deeply rooted in the past.

“Indeed. Eleven to four.”

He was beaming. Beaming! You were pretty sure you could see molars. It made you shake your head and begin to sort out all your work into piles to go over. Not that you’d ever admit to secretly being caught up in the hype of the team being so close to gold at the Winter Olympics. “So then the beard stays?”

“You of all people,” he admonished, coming over to help you. Picking up the well-marked up maps you’d spent hours annotating.

Making you roll your eyes.

On he went though, obviously needing to drive home the seriousness of this matter. “The beard stays until we win gold. Next we play Norway. I don’t think it needs to be said that we cannot risk it.”

He was serious. Really serious. If that full glorious beard was any indication.

More focused on the organizing task yourself.

Sorting your work by region, pile by pile, each had taken much work and effort and negotiation, endless phone calls and trips and emails to each area to get them to work not only with you, but one another. It was like herding cats. It had taken you months to get this all sorted out for Steve to see. His ideas weren’t even ready to be implemented. This was just the pre-gaming, the leadup, the work in preparation. You weren’t even on Step One. You were on Step Zero.

“Now that I know, I’ll be sure to grow a beard next Winter Olympics.”

And then you were rewarded with a rich hearty laugh from your king.

Well not your king, as you weren’t a citizen of this country. But you still liked to think of him as your king.

Watching you sleep was something he’d never tire of. Never get enough of. It was a luxury that he didn’t realize he wanted day in out.

The ability to wake up with you tangled up in blankets. Curled back against his front. Hogging pillows as you did. Allowing Steve to run his fingers up and down your bare thigh, along the curves of your body. Letting him lean forward to press his lips to your shoulder and see the peaceful rest of your face in his slowly lightening bedroom. Every last inch of you here for him.

Hungry.

That was what it was, he was hungry for you. Like a big bear that woke from hibernation after a long winter. At times he felt such a way. Never having felt this way about anyone prior.

In his own time, he slipped his fingers down along the round of your ass underneath the flesh of your hip. Warm. Soft. Smooth. Neither of you had left the bed since the late night bath in his tub.

Further down Steve allowed his fingers to trail.

Memorizing every last second to get him through his day. From how you felt pressed against the front of him, how your back moved against his chest with every steady breath you took. The way your legs tangled in his buttery sheets with his own, how the soft cheeks of your bottom pressed against his alert groin.

Most definitely though, how your skin tasted and felt beneath his mouth. Smelling like yourself from all your favorite bath products kept in his bathroom.

You’d smelled so good that night too.

You always smelled good.

It was something that he had noticed but hadn’t given any real thought to.

It seemed to be a mix of perfume and body lotion or cream. Cause Steve found the flowery smell would linger after you walked by in the way that perfume did, infusing the air and making his brain scream out that you were near. But also, when you shook his hand, it always had that sweet fresh clean smell afterwards.

Now, whenever Steve smelled it, all he could think about was you.

Those smells danced around him. Making the late hour bearable. Making the fact that the offices were empty but for the two of you, when you both should have been home in bed, not matter.

“Ok…” you were talking to him, pointing out places on the massive map that was his nation. Arms crossed. Legs spread. Standing beside you as you informed him with tones that indicated your happiness, your displeasure as well as your utter irritation. “…so I managed to get in touch with every Education Department in all nine of your territories.”

Though you were not looking at him, Steve nodded, laser focused on this project he’d tasked you with months ago.

“All of the department heads are on board with your desired overhaul to completely modernize the entire system. Unfortunately, they told me that I had to call all the district heads for all forty-six provinces to get their agreed participation too.”

Your tone went from pleased with yourself then skeptical and then annoyed.

You turned your head to look at him. “Which is what I spent the last three months doing. It was something of a thing.”

Steve could only imagine.

He was quiet though so you could go on. More than pleased with how well you worked in this position. He’d originally been skeptical with your being a foreigner. How dedicated would you be to a job in a country that was not your own? One hundred percent as it turned out.

Your hands flattened out dramatically on the table. Outrage surged from you. “I’m still waiting on two appointees because their predecessors apparently died during harvest season and no one could be bothered to replace the position. I literally had to fly out to the outer reaches of civilization to find this out. Cause all the government offices are closed during harvest season, fyi. But they’re literally filling the positions now.”

Such was the challenge of having a large kingdom with one foot in the future and one in the past. Such things led to the difficultly of keeping a Chief of Staff.

Steve’s previous Chief of Staff had come highly recommended and lasted a little over a month.

Whether it was from a lack of dedication, the obvious frustrations of the job or maybe he simply had not wanted to jump on a plane and fly six hours then ride by car five hours to remote areas in order to complete his work. Steve could not be sure. All he knew for sure was he’d keep you as long as humanly possible.

In his eyes, you were a saint.

“What’s with the question mark?”

Making you look to see which question mark you’d marked on the map full of stickers and marks and tabs. Hours had been spent working on the damn thing.

Seeing which question mark in question made your nose scrunch. “Oh…them, they refuse to even answer my calls until they are allowed to take their traditional name for their province. Which is way above my pay grade. Someone else is going to have to deal with them. I tried.”

Ah, Steve nodded, that was far from surprising. The far outer regions were notoriously independent or rebellious, depending on your stance.

He would deal with them accordingly. Not how his father did, but in his own way.

Steve’s attention was drawn to two nearby provinces. Each had a frowny face sticker. Without asking, he merely pointed.

A noise of pure disgusted frustration came from deep in your throat. Making you stand and look to him, brandishing your hands in all directions. “I tried my best with them. I really did. Both of those provinces absolutely refuse to take part in anything if the other is involved. Apparently, they’re still salty at one another over something that happened in fourteen-seventy-three and refer to me as the foreign she-devil. So…good luck with them Your Majesty.”

Soundly you slept.

Comfortable. Safe. At peace.

Making him feel like a true man. A provider able to care for you, protect you, satisfy you. As if he were stripped down to what nature intended. Instead of what society had dictated for you both.

Reaching down to that heavenly place between the V in your thighs, Steve pushed his fingers further to find your softness slippery, your skin slick with viscous arousal. In pushing his finger up further, running it around the edge of your slit to where the gateway to your body was hidden, he found you heavily aroused. Coating his fingers with a thick fluid that promised you would be able to take him now. Oozing into the cervices between his fingers and smearing thickly down his palm and over the back of his hand.

Unable to help himself, he brought his hand out from between your legs in order to look at your arousal. Merely the sight made his balls clench in eager anticipation. Tasting the bodily excretions had his hips moving against yours on their own.

A noise came from you. Though you were far from waking. Always one to enjoy your sleep.

On his tongue you were heady, ripe. Tasting like sin. Steve licked his fingers. Eyes closed so he could savor the taste, how you clung to his tongue and were thick, like a burst of brandy swirling with his saliva.

Awakened now from his deep sleep. Ravenous like a beast of the forest. He pressed a lingering kiss to your shoulder. Making you mumble. Making you wiggle in your sleep, causing you to reach your arm out for a pillow to pull close. Hooking your leg up higher too. Becoming more comfortable in the bed in addition to opening yourself up more to your king. As if your body had connected to his on a level your mind was unaware and encouraged him to take you.

Down he peered. Strands of hair fell across his forehead at the harsh angle. A soft lightening of the sun through drapes he never closed last night allowed the sight of moisture. Folds of bare skin sheened up at him. Tempting him with that webbing of goo that promised him you were ready.

Taking himself in hand, he caught sight of your name curled over his side. Reminding him of your absolute possession over him. Sending his hand low to pull his foreskin back in order to feed this hunger of you that consumed him.

Your signature was all swoops and swirls.

Recognizable above anyone else’s writing he came across on a daily basis.

All over paper and on the maps. In little corners. Highlighted. In different color pens. On stickie notes. Written on napkins or on the back of random pieces of paper.

At the time, he’d had no idea how far gone he really was.

Not even when he watched you take note after note with a purple inked pen, your hand flowing across paper like a swimmer cutting through the water. Taking down his every word, every command.

A incredibly distinctive feeling of being full woke you up from your glorious sleep, in a very singular sort of way that could be from only one thing. Only one thing on earth felt like that when waking you up.

Pulling you out of a warm blissful sleep only to wake you with the exquisite feeling of being stretched open, pushed into, filled up. Making your fingers clench bedding or pillows or whatever they could grab.

A low breathy moan came from you in the time between you were woken and awake, your face burrowing in a pillow was followed by a soft profanity. Weight slowly covered you. Weight pinned you down to the bed a little at a time. Skin and sheets and soft dustings of hair rubbed against you.

Only when you had fully woken did you feel pubes brush against your cheeks. A light tap of scrotum bumped you too.

Long arms wrapped around you. Wet lips mouthed along the curve of your neck.

This was a far superior way to wake up. Compared to your apartment, in bed alone, to your neighbors loud shrilling alarm clock through your paper-thin wall.

Groaning out at the feel of His Majesty’s cock stuffed safely up in your secret garden. You found yourself whining at Steve at whatever time it was in the early morning. “…fuuuuck…what’d I say about doing that…” A swivel, nay, a swivel with a pop of his pelvis followed, making you see stars, gasp deeply as if you’d been stabbed in the lungs and then add on for God and Country. “…My King…shit, My King…oh shit, My King.”

Though it may have been said in jest, his tone was hot enough to scald. “If memory serves me correctly…” another deep push of thick hips shoved you forward into the pillows. “…you say, not in my ass unless I’m awake.”

Stars.

So many bright and colorful stars.

Mmm.

Yes, that was something you had told him on many occasions and it still held very true. If Steve was going to put anything in your ass, forget that thing he claimed was a dick, you needed to be fully awake so you could both physically and emotionally prepare yourself.

Nothing at all could have prepared you for the drastic turn your life was about to take that night.

Nothing.

Everything had been so normal. It was so regular. Like many a long night working late hours at the palace before. Hours had been spent going over all your hard work contacting each and every head in each education department per province, as well as per territory. In addition to the national department of education, preparing to prep them for what the king wanted.

Like any other late night, Steve helped you put all of your paperwork back in the correct order you had it in. Like every other time, he requested a palace car take you to your apartment. Granted the apartment you shared with your best friend was walking distance away. It was late and simply not safe and you found were touched that Steve would think about your well-being.

For a king, he wasn’t that bad. When it was the two of you anyway.

Looks aside, which he had in spades, he could be very funny in a sarcastic sort of way. He was very well read and intelligent, quick on his feet. Although people seemed to think of him a certain type of way based on his father and his own kingship at a young age, when he really was his own person.

You’d noticed he had a definite interest in the classical masters and had on rare occasion seen him sketch out something on a flight or during a less than stimulating event. He had an artistic ability that would never come to anything due to his role.

His strong sense of duty paired with a disgusting moral obligation pretty much guaranteed his life would be spent in service to his country. Period.

You could see why people thought he was hot. The man had been blessed by the genetic gods. Plus he was a king. Who didn’t grow up dreaming about being a princess? Or think about a literal Prince Charming from fairy tales?

Having now had the benefit of working in a real life palace. You knew the realities of that fantasy.

You had two pages of notes that could attest to the reality of your childhood Disney Princess movies.

Reality was always so different.

Not for the first time, you found yourself repeating yourself. “…and let me say one more time. Thank you so much for talking with my parents. I know it was only ten minutes, but, I know how busy you are and it just completely topped off their visit. My mother has been telling everyone about how she met the king. You even have my father cheering for the hockey team.”

A smile came over Steve’s face that was real.

It wasn’t one of his practiced smiles. It was an actual smile. You could tell because it reached his eyes.

“Well,” Steve answered you with a shrug, sounding genuinely pleased even if he also sounded tired and like he wanted nothing more than to go off to his living quarters in the palace and crash into bed, before he had to get up to start a new day. Helping you stack the last of your papers up. “Anything to convert a soul to hockey. Technically, it is his team too.” And because he could not help himself, Steve added on, “Even if his grandparents fled from here for a cushy life in the west.”

Up your hand flew to your chest.

Your jaw dropped in mock pain. “Ouch, Sir! That one was painful.”

His smile grew at your over-the-top reaction.

Still though, he dipped his head and you noticed there was a little blush on his cheeks above where that magnificent beard grew. Chagrined, he quickly followed up with, “I apologize. That was a cheap shot.”

In a physical sort of way that his people were known to interact, personal space be damned, Steve reached over to touch your arm apologetically. Not something he did frequently. Although he had done it a handful of times. The press of his mouth to your cheek was new. The little kiss was brand new. Steve’s lips were gentle on your skin. His beard tickled your face.

Never in your life had your heart pounded as violently in your chest as it did at that gesture. Quickly, your head turned. Though you did not move back or say anything. Instead, you found yourself staring at Steve. Looking into those pools of blue that were looking at you with the same amount of surprise that you felt. His lips were right there, right there.

Blood roared in your ears, your heart pounded faster and faster and faster.

He kissed you.

Did he really though?

Was it a kiss or was it a kiss?

For a moment in time, you leaned in. Leaned closer. Leaned till you almost touched him because that was what your body wanted to do. Until you remembered that Steve was a king. A KING. Remembering that made your head command your body to lean backwards a bit. Allowing you to see that he had leant in to meet you.

He’d leaned closer to kiss you.

What were you doing? What in the hell were you doing? You had no business doing this, no business at all messing around with Steve.

Fingers moved along your arm, tracing up the back of it softly. That simple touch made goosebumps break out over your skin. It made your breath hitch. Your hands began to shake so you grabbed the fabric of your skirt.

However, you made no move to step away from Steve. Nor did he make any sort of move to step away from you.

Another attempt at a kiss was not made.

Fingers touched your face instead. Steve was close enough to you that you felt his legs brush yours. You felt his breath against your face. Fingertips ran across the swell of your cheekbone, down over your lips, tracing the bridge of your nose in what felt like a desire to memorize your face.

Steve was gentle. His fingertips felt like feathers on your skin. He made you shake like a leaf in terror because you wanted him to touch you more. You wanted to be touched. You wanted to feel his hands on you and the soft glide of his thumb along the line of your jaw was painfully insufficient.

Without thinking, you reached up with your hands until you remembered that he was the king.

Were you allowed to touch the king? You weren’t sure. He was touching you and it was fabulous but were you allowed to do the same? You wanted to. You so deeply wanted to. You just were not sure what was allowed in this situation. It had not exactly been covered in the Royal Protocol Guidebook you had.

Then came Steve’s voice. Harsh. Gravelly. Desperate.

“Touch me. It’s ok. I want you to.”

For only a heartbeat or two you remained still, observing him, making sure. Only after that did you reach up with your hands to cover his wrists. Rub along the fabric of his button-up shirt. In doing so, you not only felt the strength in his well-muscled wrists, or how warm the silky fabric was, but, you could feel him tremble. He was shaking about as much as you were.

A rush of air surged from his lungs as if you had burnt him.

Curious, you turned your head so you could place a single kiss on the inside of his hand touching your face, right at the base of his thumb. In doing so, you ripped a noise from deep within him. A noise that was both pained while also infused with wanting.

“This is ok?”

“Yes,” he croaked out, as if he were terrified you would stop.

Never would you have ever imagined he would be so responsive. Almost touch starved it felt.

Sometimes, Steve still felt as if he were a little touch starved to you. Sometimes it felt like he’d gone his entire life without having that physical connection between two people. As complicated of a man as he was with as complicated of a life as he had, you at times forgot that he was still a human being with human being needs that were essential to thriving.

And it wasn’t like you were complaining.

Far from it.

Not after the orgasm you just had, not from on top of him either. Lounged across the front of him. Loose limbed. Languid down to your marrow. Peppering the damp skin of his neck with slow wet kisses and scrapes of teeth. Long drags of your tongue collected drops of salt that tasted of him. Lazily. Heart to heart. Stomach to stomach.

There really were worse ways to wake up.

Like, for instance, in your apartment taking cold showers cause the building’s water heater was ancient. That wasn’t fun at all and usually had you shivering and hurrying through an icy shower. Straight up not a good time.

This? This was soooo much better.

Feeling Steve’s long legs wrapped up in your own, paired with his softening member filling you by virtue of sheer size not letting himself just pop out…this was a much better way to wake up. Far superior in every way.

Not that you were willing to waste precious time like this luxuriating in post-coital bliss. No, no. A burning question was hot on your mind that kept popping up after last night. After all, you were a modern woman and this was a serious relationship. You had every right to ask this question at any time you wanted. Even now. As your boyfriend, the king, fondled your breasts in his hands with such intensity that you would have thought he’d just broken out of Alcatraz after a decade of no nookie. Not that you were in the least bit complaining. Not one bit.

“Am I going to have to quit my job?”

It was something of a concern.

You loved your job. You loved working with Steve. You loved your life as it was and a big part of you suspected becoming queen would mean big changes.

Not that you lifted your head from his neck, or ceased your trek down towards his collarbone. Trail of your kisses never slowing or stopping. No hint of any sort of disruption came. Not for a moment or two. Not till your ravenous boyfriend squeezed your breasts possessively. Thumbed your nipples and finally opened his eyes, as if it were the biggest chore on earth.

His voice was rough. His tone felt like hot gooey honey that just got everywhere. “No…not yet…”

Leading you to make a noise. A pop followed when your mouth left the dark spot you’d been sucking on nearly at his collarbone. What with your name already etched on him. What else could you leave in a display of ownership over him? “Nothing else to add My King?” For added emphasis, perhaps you gave you vaginal muscles a clench knowing what that did to him.

A grunt came from beneath you.

Wrapped up in yours, Steve’s legs clenched in response to what you did. White teeth sank into his upper lip and you absolutely thrived at the sight and feel of him arching up against you, shifting around beneath you at the way your body squeezed him.

Those hands left your breasts only to reach down, run over your waist as they had so many times before, leading you to grab them. Snatch then right up. Press them down into the mattress over Steve’s head. Since the man was far larger than you, this sent you leaning downwards and ever closer to his face. “Steve? I asked you a question.”

How easy it would have been for him to get free. Yet, he seemed content where he found himself. Still wedged within you. Warm in bed. Body a sea of a complex cocktail of chemicals after physically releasing into you. A far better way to wake up than alone in a massive bed. Or worse, to his mother jabbing at him to urgently tell him something that was not urgent at all.

Feeling your breasts press against his chest. Lightly brushing over his skin, your nipples little points that sparked a definite interest in his dick.

God did he want you to be his queen.

“Not yet,” Steve ground out, nearly close to being overwhelmed by you. Each and every word was enunciated to utter perfection, as if it took all of his concentration and effort to get them out. “I’ll have the palace leave your name out of the official statement today. We can go slow. Ease you into things…ease you out of your job…” and to reward him for such a thoughtful statement, you clenched around him once more.

However, it seemed, there was more and even though his eyes rolled up into his head at the feel of your core squeezing his not entirely soft organ, he pushed on with the determination of his ancestors. Grunting. Arching back into the bed as the pillows had all wound up on the floor. Perfect teeth clenched together. “M-my people…will…love you…too.”

So, it was entirely possible, that you were feeling all kinds of powerful watching him writhe beneath you. Knowing exactly what sort of repercussions this could have to your morning. Which was still progressing on time. It was entirely possible that you may have intentionally pushed your own pelvis against his to reseat yourself.

“Oh yeah? How can you be so sure? You saw what happened with those two over in England. And that prince isn’t even next in line to the throne.”

Perhaps it was the seriousness of the direction in which your conversation had taken, Steve remained beneath you. Taking no action, even though you could quite literally feel his dick grow more interested in what your hips were doing.

A panted out, “…fuck…” escaped from him, before he opened his eyes to look at you seriously, if not also a little heatedly. “Quit obsessing over them. The King of Jordan married for love. Queen Rania was a commoner. If you must, focus on them.”

Sudden movement found you falling off Steve and onto the bed, shoved onto your back and in a flash, he was on top of you again. Over you. Hovering. Though he’d escaped out of your body, you could feel the king’s most delicious semi, slick from your previous copulation, squish between you both.

Admitting on an exhale, “Forgot about them.”

“Everyone does.” He agreed, surveying down, taking in the sight of you. “My country appreciates you. They’re fond of you. You’re in all the papers and they’ve given you a nickname.”

And that. That. Nearly killed the mood.

It sent your eyebrows together dubiously so.

Everytime you were in the press it was when your skirt had been blown up on a windy day, or if you’d accidentally gotten food on your shirt. Or that time a baby goat pooped on your shoes. Or when you’d tripped and fallen off a dock into a lake. Who could forget that time you’d accidentally called the Prime Minister of Canada a ‘moose fucking cannibal’ when you’d still been getting the hang of the language, your first year on the job?

You’d been affectionately dubbed, ‘the King’s Foreign Devil’ and it had stuck.

Hell, you still got asked about your thoughts on the Canadian Prime Minister whenever a member of the press was around.

“Most the time, you have a higher approval rating than I do,” he added. Much to the consternation of Maria Hill in PR. “Trust me. There is nothing my country loves more than a hard-working loyal servant of the people who talks shit about western leaders.”

Mood totally killed, you seethed and not for the first time, “That was an accident! I was trying to call him Canada’s Disney Prince.”

***

The note had been hand delivered to the palace and was now crumbled into a ball in the Queen Mother’s bedroom as she stormed off, once more, that early morning in a fury of rose satin and silk. Her perfume clouded around her, drifting behind her, much like the wake of a boat cutting through the water.

Thick carpets silenced her heels. Doors opened for her as she neared them, allowing her to not need to slow her step even for a second. Not a single moment wasted as she made her way through the private living quarters of the palace.

Down hallways and around corners, over to the rooms that her grown son had selected as his own.

It would have been so much easier if he would have just taken the rooms that his father had lived in.

Although, with the horrific memories attached to those rooms, how could she blame him when he elected not to? She had her own private rooms. The dead kings rooms were locked up tight and still not used. Abandoned like so much he’d done, started and accomplished in his life.

Upon coming to her only child’s rooms, those doors were held open for her and on she pressed on. Sailing through his rooms, one after another, until she got closer to his bedroom and could hear his shower which was the direction she headed.

A brief glance was made at the mess that was his bed.

A roll of her eyes was followed by a shake of her head.

Some things males never grew out of it seemed.

“Steven!” She called out in warning, should he be in the bathroom about to come out in the nude. Which was the last thing she wanted to see.

Not only was his bed a mess but his clothes from yesterday were all over the floor.

She had every intention of telling him that he needed to straighten up this mess before the cleaning staff came in his room. The last thing she wanted was for them to think he was messy and then tell their families and friends when they went home that the king had a messy bedroom and word would get out that her son was a slob. Ugh. No. She’d make sure that he straightened up.

Speaking of the devil.

As his shower ran, Steve peered out of the bathroom with a wet head. A midnight blue towel was wrapped around his waist. A toothbrush was in his hand. To Sarah, it was very clear that her grown son had not shaved yet either.

Seeing him in such a state that morning along with his messy room and the fact the shower was going wasting water. It did not make her mood any more agreeable.

Though her son was taller than her and considerably more muscular, she never feared him.

She knew he would never hurt her like his father had so many times. Towards the end, Steve had even defended her from his father’s physical attacks. Those days. They had been dark. Horrible. Terrible. When she noticed that her husband had begun to carry a knife to protect himself from his son. Well. What was she supposed to do?

Attacking her was one thing. Being violent towards her was one thing. There were some things that she learned to tolerate. It was unescapable. Their son though. To take a knife to their son? Her son? Sarah would never allow such a thing.

She was queen at the time.

It was not so difficult to get the drug that she put in her husband’s evening nightcap. She’d used all of it. Thrown the vial away the next day when she went to rouse the king as she did every morning, only to find him dead in his chair. Fireplace having long gone out. Slumped down. Cold. The coroner had said it was a heart attack. Exactly as she’d been told the drug would work. He’d been buried with no one the wiser. Not even Steve.

“Yes mother?”

Sarah rolled her eyes. “You are not growing another beard. Last time you looked like some man that lives up in the mountains in a tiny shack.”

Just as her own father once did, Steve’s eyebrows rose in surprise and question.

No. That was not why she was here.

Sarah had a higher calling that morning and straightening her slim shoulders, she so informed him. “Hope and Janet are here in the city. They’ve come for a surprise visit and will arrive at the palace within the hour.”

Steve’s eyes narrowed at her in response to her information.

It was horrifying. It was outrageous. It was not what he wanted to hear that morning one bit. Not at all. Not one single bit.

Hope and Janet?

Those were two names he never wanted to hear with the additional words being, ‘on their way’. No. Just no.

All he could say that was remotely civil, after what the then Princess Hope van Dyne had done, came out in something of a tone. “I don’t want to see either of them. If you want to see them, that’s your choice. Keep them away from me.”

Considering what the now Duchess Hope had spewed to every reporter, journalist and whomever with a platform…Sarah was a little surprised that Steve was being so kind.

She’d expected a bit more of a reaction from her son.

Could she be holding a bigger grudge against her one-time closest friend’s daughter? After what had happened, Queen Janet van Dyne had become somewhat distant. Which was not surprising. Hope had not broken the engagement gracefully. Nor had she been anything less than opinionated afterwards.

“I suspect she is in trouble,” Sarah confessed. “Why else would they come here? Considering everything that Hope has said over the years.”

Steam continued to seep through the cracked door.

Sarah was about to say something about the shower. Steve was wasting a considerable amount of hot water. She herself was leading the Go Green Initiative in the country and as she stated constantly, it all began at home.

“Mother, don’t take this the wrong way, but, I wouldn’t shit in Hope’s mouth if she was starving.”

Ah.

Perhaps she’d been too quick to judge Steve’s current opinion on the wayward duchess?

Pondering his statement, Sarah found herself looking for any way to come back with a counter when she noticed that the shower turned off. Which was odd. Shower’s didn’t turn themselves off.

What was even more peculiar, Steve reached back behind himself to shut his bathroom door.

It clicked.

Like a light going off.

How could she not have noticed? How could it not have been obvious?

Blue eyes that were a little softer than her son’s narrowed. “You aren’t alone.”

Silence.

Quiet.

Her pink lips opened in surprised. A question hovered on her tongue.

“No mother.”

“But…”

“Mother,” he implored as only a son could. “Not now. She would not want the first time she officially meets you to be when you’re dressed for the day and she is not.”

And though her son’s words were true. They were right. They were exactly what she would have wanted him to say and because she had raised him well, she was even proud that he had made such a quick decision. It wasn’t fair.

Sarah wanted to find out who you were. She wanted to meet the woman that her son was involved with. Was that so wrong? Sarah wanted to meet the woman that her son was considering marrying. There was so much she wanted to say to you, so much to teach you, so much she wanted to learn about you. Perhaps her desperation showed because her son reached out to place a hand on her elbow.

“If you can chase Hope and Janet away, we could have lunch together. The three of us. If not, dinner? Or even tomorrow. I’m not doing anything with Hope under this roof. Not after she referred to our country as a third world plus hellhole full of war criminals and superstitious backwoods heathens.”

Ah, so he did remember.

Those words had been seared into her memory as well. Sometimes Sarah wondered, as Steve had never really given much indication that he cared one way or the other what Hope had said. It was only after she began to speak unflatteringly about their people that he grew irritated, much like herself.

Although, what irritated Sarah more, was the quiet that came from the royal house of van Dyne and Pym a few countries over. Never once had Janet spoke up. Never had Janet said anything about her daughters outrageous remarks or behavior. Nor had she apologized.

Knowing her son, Sarah knew that he would never court anyone who was not kind or compassionate. Steve would never pick a Hope as his queen.

Up came a hand that bore a lovely ring decorated with fresh water pearls from their own waters. “I’ll have them gone before lunch and then we will all sit down together so I can finally meet her.”

[bubblesuga]

off the table.

Summary: Fate has an odd way of playing with your mind. When you leave Min Yoongi on his door step nearly a decade ago, you became positive that you would never find love again. Settling for a man you thought you could learn to love, you had given up on fully moving on. But again, fate likes to play.

W/C: 11,680

Genre: Idol!AU, smut, fluff

Warnings: cussing, smut, mentions of exhibitionism, oral (f receiving), unprotected sex, Jimin is curious about Yoongi’s (non-existent) sex life, 

A/N: Based loosely off of Off The Table by Ariana Grande if you want a song to listen to as you read :) x

“So, this is it then?” 

“Yeah.” 

The near migraine-inducing memory always happens to flash in your mind at the worst times possible. Eight years ago, you found yourself standing at the front door of your ex boyfriend’s dorm with a solemn heart as he softly explained what his life was going to turn into. It was a short conversation, one the both of you had seen coming but neither of you wanted to admit it. 

As his new friends and new life began to form behind him in the small one bedroom apartment, you nodded, and you left with one last kiss to his rosy lips. His deep brown eyes bore into yours with just as much sadness that you felt before you dragged yourself away helplessly. 

Of course, now that you were 3 months into a new relationship, the memory decides to pop it’s way back into your brain as if it had just happened. A soft whisper in your mind gently coaxed you away from your latest fling and disassociated you from the moment entirely. He’s a nice guy, as well. Good head on his shoulders, smart with money, and loves to cook for you. So the sense of guilt you felt was tremendous because despite having this gorgeous man in front of you, your mind always flew back to him. 

It has become more and more difficult not to think of him considering the fact that his face is now everywhere. The news, the internet, your fucking cold brew... He was there, the same bright features and adorable nose. You wondered if he thought of you from time to time, how you’re doing or what you could be up to since you graduated university. With as hectic of a schedule that you’re sure he held, you highly doubted that you have been on his mind since the end. Knowing him, he threw himself into his work and hasn’t looked back. It shows in his music, though. You always knew that he would be successful. 

“...are you even listening to me?” 

The words dragged you out of your trance and you immediately set down your coffee, “What? Of course I am.” 

Junwoo couldn’t help but roll his eyes, “What was I talking about then?” 

Fuck. 

You push your hair back, a habit you developed recently as your desire to try and forget about your ex boyfriend has grown stronger, “I’m sorry, I’ve just had a lot on my mind lately.” 

Maybe it hasn’t just been lately. Maybe every single time you feel Junwoo’s lips against yours, you can’t help but compare him to Yoongi. He didn’t need to know that, though. 

“Yeah, you use that a lot as your excuse. I’ll try not to bore you with tales from my clients anymore.” Junwoo slides the plate in front of you, a heart shaped kimchi pancake lay flat in the middle of it, and you feel your guilt grow stronger. 

“No! I love hearing about them, I- I think I need to see someone about what’s going on in my head.” You explain. You had yet to mention to anyone that you dated Suga of BTS before he was known as such. In fact, you’re pretty sure if you even hinted at it, you’d become the laughing stock of Seoul. It made it impossibly difficult to talk about your feelings with Junwoo. He always tries to pry, but you shut him down completely. 

“What’s going on? Is it serious?” concern laces his features and he sits carefully beside you at the table. 

“No, I just need someone to talk to.” you try to shake the feeling of discontent when his arm wraps around your shoulder. 

He leans his head on yours- “you can always talk to me.” -you shutter. 

“A professional, just to help me get back on my game. Regain control of...” you let out a soft sigh and feel Junwoo’s lips brush against your temple, “...myself.” 

“_____, I am a literal therapist.” 

“A literal therapist who is emotionally involved with me. Isn’t it inappropriate to make out with your patients?” You quirk, raising an eyebrow. 

He rolls his eyes again, “Okay. Let me know if you need recommendations. Us in the brain community are pretty tight-knit.” He stands up and runs a hand through your hair before trotting back to the kitchen to begin his own breakfast. 

You nibble on the inside of your cheek as you stare down at your pancake, picking up the butter knife beside your plate and dragging it down the center with a grimace on your face. 

~*~*~

Even though you spent many years studying medicine, you didn’t think it would involve this much typing. Staring at patient charts has become a normal during your regular work day, especially since you’re boss decided that he didn’t need to look at the charts, he just wanted to hear from you. 

You’re a nurse, not a secretary. 

Today you were assigned to the emergency room, which was one of your favorite places to be. Everything was much faster than if you happened to be in post-op or general medicine, but the moment you enter the doors, you were piled with paperwork that you were sure a medical assistant could be doing. 

The drowning sounds of chatter and machine’s melodic beeping blended with your fingers as they typed name after name, number after number for an hour straight. Just as you thought your soul had completely drained from your body, you hear a tap on the desk. 

“H- hi, uh- my friend’s foot got cut open and we think he needs stitches. Is there any way that we could get seen quickly?” You glance up and your eyes immediately go wide. 

You remember meeting Namjoon a few times in passing when you were still seeing Yoongi, but he’s much taller than you remember. Instantly you feel your face go red, and you were frozen in place. Why the hell was Namjoon here? How did he manage to choose this hospital of all the ones in Seoul?

You happen to tear your eyes away from him for a second, glancing over and seeing Jungkook being held up by Jimin as his foot stays elevated in the air. The minute you see a t-shirt wrapped tightly around Jungkook’s foot, you move to action. 

“Yeah, I’m sorry about that! Let me get you a wheelchair,” you swing around the desk and grab one of the folded up wheelchairs and roll it towards Jungkook. He grimaces as he sits down, his foot crossed onto the opposite knee. Jimin seems relieved not to have his friend leaning on him anymore, and you pause for a second to assess the situation. 

“Jenni! Do we have an open bed anywhere?” You grab your co worker who walks passed you with her hands filled with bandages. 

“Back corner, we just cleaned it.” She calls back, walking without glancing at the people you’re trying to help. 

You nod, immediately walking Jungkook towards the back and gesturing for Namjoon and Jimin to follow. You grab an empty chart as you walk, before opening the curtain for the bed and allowing the three men to slide into the area. 

“I hate to be pushy but this really hurts.” Jungkook hisses as wrap your arm beneath his and slowly lift him towards the bed. Immediately, you slip gloves onto your hands and begin to unwrap the t-shirt. There’s quite a bit of blood, but not enough to have you worried that he hit an artery. 

Namjoon bites his lip before speaking, “I should have watched the stage better. I’m sorry.” 

Jungkook shrugs, wincing while he attempts to pull himself up higher, “It was hard to see. Not your fault, or anyone else’s.” 

“Except for the person who broke the stage.” Namjoon quips, rubbing his hands over his face, frustrated. 

“It’s fine, hyung. The pretty nurse is going to fix Kookie right up.” Jimin is quick to comfort both of his friends while simultaneously causing you to blush. 

It’s then that you notice the three of them in clothes similar to their rehearsal getup from all those years ago. Sweat lines each of their foreheads and you wonder just how this whole thing happened. 

After inspecting the wound, you whip towards the suture kit, “It is deep enough to require stitches. I’m going to call the doctor down and have her suture you up. Until then would you like me to numb the pain?” Even though you’re well aware who these men are, and how close you potentially are to your ex boyfriend, you can’t help but let your professional prowess overpower your incessant need to think of Yoongi.

Jungkook nods, “At this point I’ll take a shot of whiskey and something to knock me out.” 

You smile, “Unfortunately there isn’t any whiskey here. Believe me, I’ve been searching since I got here.” 

Namjoon chuckles from beside you as you put your finger up to let them know you’ll be right back. Pulling open the curtain, you meander over to the nurse’s station and pick up the phone to call the ER doctor down. As you wait for him, you grab all the supplies to clean Jungkook’s foot, including a Lidocaine injection. Before you get the chance to turn back around, you hear the ER doors burst open and see four sweaty men tearing their way into the hospital. 

Four sweaty men, including Min Yoongi. 

An uncharacteristic whimper leaves your lips as you spot the rest of the members, all rushing passed you when they see Namjoon stick his head out of the curtains. 

You feel all the blood drain from your face when the familiarity of Yoongi’s presence passes by you. Jenni notices your panic from the other side of the nurse’s station and lets out a little giggle, “Come on, you can’t get all shy just because they’re BTS. You have a job to do.” 

“I can’t go in there now, Jenni. You have to take over.” You turn back to her with wild eyes, desperately trying to hand her all the supplies you gathered. Your eyes continuously glance backwards, watching them pile in. Yoongi can’t see you, you won’t be able to look the man in the eyes. You can’t even begin to think about the embarrassment you will feel if Yoongi sees you. 

Jenni only laughs, “You’re a professional. Dr. Gwan will be down soon so you only have to be with them for a few moments.” 

In a last ditch effort, you call out to her as she walks towards another patient.

Okay. You’re panicking now. 

The universe has to be playing some sort of sick game on you right about now. You have not been able to get that stupid man off your mind lately and now here he was in your emergency room. First he’s worried about his brother but now he’s going to see you and want to chat and catch up. Knowing him, he’ll ask you for coffee and you’ll probably learn of his girlfriend or possible wife. He’ll wonder why you’re not married yet, and you’ll have to hide the fact that you haven’t been able to properly move on because of him. 

That’s only to say if he even remembers you. 

Taking a deep breath, you swallow your anxiety and enter the curtain. 

“Alright, Jungkook. Do you have any allergies that I should know about before I inject you with my magic numbing liquid?” It’s much more cramped in the room than it was before. The 6 members crowd to one side of the bed while you stand on the other. You refuse to look up for fear that Yoongi is going to recognize you.

“No allergies.” Jungkook shakes his head. 

“Good, good,” you lean forward, elevating Jungkook’s foot and removing the make shift bandage, “you’re gonna feel a slight pinch.” 

“He’s not going to lose his foot or anything, right?” A voice asks. You recognize it as Taehyung’s. 

“No,” you’re sure they can sense how rigid you are, “he’s not going to be able to dance for a little bit, but he’ll be back and better than ever in no time.” No one responds, and you finally make eye contact with Jungkook, “Are you ready?” 

Again, he nods, and you slowly push the needle into his foot. He cringes enough to jerk his upper body slightly, but Jimin is at his side just as quickly as it started. 

You dispose of the needle immediately afterwards, wrapping his foot up to keep pressure applied to the wound, “Okay, Dr. Gwan will be here soon. She’ll get you sutured up and I’ll be back later to check on you.” 

“Thank you, miss. It already feels better.” He sighs happily, relaxing backwards onto the pillow. 

You grin, momentarily forgetting that your ex boyfriend is 3 feet away, “Of course, Jungkook. That’s my job.” 

It’s then that you catch Yoongi’s eye for the first time that night. It’s not to say he didn’t recognize you before, but he wasn’t able to say anything once he saw you working. He was deathly still, the rest of the day leaving his mind when your shiny eyes met his. He sees you swallow, and you walk out without saying anything else. 

“That was _____.” Yoongi murmurs after a moment, staring at the swaying curtains where you once exited. 

The chatter stops instantly, and everyone turns to Yoongi. 

“The _____?” Hoseok questions, his eyes wide while he also turns to watch the curtains. 

Yoongi nods, his throat going dry as memories of you sleeping beside him at night when he had nothing to his name wash over him. You, with the exception of his brother, were the only person supporting him when he said he wanted a career in music. You applied to universities in Seoul so you could be closer to his dream, you were always so excited to hear his new music and you always told him that he was going to make it big. 

It’s not like Yoongi hadn’t thought of you since you broke up. He was a complete mess for months afterwards. His schedule solely consisted of working and rehearsing because he couldn’t bare to have a moment to himself. 

Yoongi repeatedly beat himself up for the way he ended things and more specifically, the reason he ended things. After getting into BigHit, Yoongi realized he was seeing less and less of you. You were so busy with med school and he was so busy with rehearsals that you were lucky to see each other once a week. He knew you’d be better off finding someone who could be there for you, and that it was best for him to focus on his career. 

He just wasn’t aware of how much that would kill him inside. 

“Well what are you doing here? Aren’t you going to go talk to her?” Seokjin pushes. There are times when Yoongi has to remind himself that he isn’t the oldest in the group, and that usually comes when Seokjin takes his role as older brother very seriously. 

Yoongi scoffs at the taller man, “What do you want me to say? ‘Hey I know it’s been 8 years but lets meet up for coffee and pretend like we didn’t break each other’s hearts’?” he takes a moment to collect his thoughts, “Besides, Jungkook needs us here while he gets his foot stabbed.” 

“Oh no, hyung,” Jungkook laughs, “I’m doing juuuust fine. You go talk to the pretty nurse.” 

Yoongi swallows, “What should I say?” 

Namjoon shrugs, “Whatever comes to mind.” 

Yoongi’s feet carry him out of the curtained off area, his eyes searching across the emergency room in an attempt to find you. He spots you at the desk by the front door, and with a nervous head tilt, he’s dragging himself towards you. 

The moment you left Jungkook, you threw yourself back into paperwork and became so immersed that you didn’t hear anything going on around you. Except for the soft footsteps pattering up to your station, which causes you to tear your eyes away from the chicken scratch handwriting on the chart in front of you. 

It’s silent for a beat, you can feel the heat rising to your ears as you look up at him. His hair is longer, different from the short style he’d gel up every morning before the break up. There’s more piercings on his ears, but at the core of the new flashy clothes and dyed hair, he’s still the same man who professed his love for you at 17 years old. 

“Hi.” he whispers. 

“...hi.” you respond, your hands still frozen over the keyboard as Yoongi fiddles with his fingers on top of the desk. 

“Thank you for helping-” Yoongi is cut off by another Nurse calling you over from a different bed in the emergency room. 

You give him a quick glance, “I’m sorry, duty calls.” 

Yoongi couldn’t help but feel his heartbeat quicken when you stand. He had a better look at the pink scrubs donned on your body, and the smile on his face was nearly uncontrollable when he realizes that you made it exactly where you wanted to be. Your dreams of helping people has now become a reality. 

You’re truly in your element, and Yoongi can tell. The concern on your face as you help a little girl sat in the center of a bed way too big for her was a sure fire way to know that you were in the right place.  

So, Yoongi doesn’t push a conversation. Instead, he walks back to his band mates and watches in awe as Dr. Gwan stitches up Jungkook’s foot. 

~*~*~

“He walked away.” 

“He walked away?!” 

“He. Walked. Away.” You emphasize to Jenni, holding your hands to your face while you let out a groan. 

“Okay, so let me get this straight,” she sets down her iced americano, the chatter of the hospital cafeteria drowned out by your conversation, “you dated Suga from BTS before he was famous, and he broke up with you because you were both leading different lives?” 

You nod. 

She continues, “and you see him in person for the first time in 8 years, and you don’t talk to him?!” 

“Wait why are you yelling at me?!” 

“Because, dummy,” she leans over the table and flicks your forehead, “he’s been on your mind a lot lately and suddenly he’s at your job! It’s not a coincidence.” 

It’s only been about a week since you saw Yoongi, and of course your attempts to get him out of your mind has been fruitless. 

“What am I meant to do? Drop everything and run to him?” You ask incredulously, angrily digging your spoon in your yogurt. 

Jenni waves her hand haphazardly, “No, no. You catch up with him, see how he’s doing now that he’s a world famous rapper- oh my god, _____ you let go of him?! You didn’t fight for him?!” 

“You said you weren’t going to judge me!” 

“That was before I learned exactly what you did! Dumb girl,” Jenni shakes her head disapprovingly, “and you’ve settled for Mr. Brainiac instead.” 

Jenni isn’t the biggest fan of Junwoo. 

“Mr. Brainiac is nice and sweet and knows how to treat me right,” You explain quietly, the fruit in your yogurt seemingly tasteless on your tongue, “but...”

“But he’s not Yoongi?” Jenni tilts her head. 

“I don’t think anyone can ever compare to Yoongi. I’m sure it’s unrequited at this point.” As much as you hate to admit it, that’s the part that broke your heart the most about seeing Yoongi. The fact that you couldn’t bare to look at him for more than a second, because it just wasn’t the same as before. It will never been the same as before. 

Jenni shrugs, “you won’t know until you find out.” 

“And I’m supposed to... what? Show up at his house?” 

Jenni’s eyes seem to trail behind you, and a grin on her face, “When is Jungkook supposed to get his sutures removed?”

Confused, you raise an eyebrow and turn around in your chair to see none other than the man of the hour, Min Yoongi. Instead of being dressed in rehearsal clothes like the other day, Yoongi wears all black with a silver bag wrapped around his torso. 

You whip back around and glare at Jenni, “I swear to god if you call him-” 

“Suga!” Jenni calls out before you can finish your sentence. Your head falls into your hands with another frustrated moan. Jenni waves her hand to him, Yoongi watching warily before he spots that you’re sat right across from her. 

He hesitates for a moment, noticing the way you drag knees to your chest which is a nervous tick you have had since before Yoongi had met you. However, he realizes that if he ever wants to talk to you, now would be the best time. Having followed Jungkook to the hospital for the sole purpose of possibly bumping into you, he had to make due with any interaction he could get. 

Jenni gets up and leaves as Yoongi walks his way over to you. Your head is now buried in your knees, but you hear the chair screech across from you. 

“Hi again.” 

You lift your head up, “Hi, Suga. How is life?” 

You can see hurt flash through Yoongi’s face at your use of his stage name, but he shakes it off, “Life is going pretty well. How about yours?” 

“It’s going well.” 

You still haven’t made direct eye contact with him. Despite having not seen you in person in so many years, his heart ached in his chest at the thought that you may still be hurt. Who is he kidding, though? He’s still hurt by the decision himself. 

With a sigh, he scoots his chair forward, “Are we going to pretend that there isn’t a history behind us?” 

You laugh bitterly, “Haven’t you been doing a pretty good job of that for the passed eight years?” 

Yoongi’s jaw drops. You don’t remember Yoongi ever showing his emotions so freely on his face. That was one of the good things from the interviews you have seen, those 6 boys have opened up Yoongi more and more to his emotions. You feel bad for your response, but you’re unsure how to apologize. 

“I didn’t want to end things just much as you didn’t,” He bites, ignoring the tinge in his heart, “I want to catch up. It’s nice seeing you again.” 

“I have a boyfriend.” You say, your yogurt seeming much more interesting than it was moments before. 

He clears his throat, “That’s okay.” 

“Because I had to move on.” 

“That’s okay.” He repeats, his fingertips drumming along the table top. He hasn’t been chewing his nails lately. That’s good for him. Though, the nervous habit has developed into something different, the drumming of his finger tips echoing more and more in your head as the awkward silence mulls on. Even in a loud cafeteria, your mind only focused on him.

With out thinking much of it, you reach your hand forward and place it on top of his to get the drumming to stop. Yoongi looks up at you while you hold your hand atop of his. For a moment, the silence continues as you stare into his deep brown eyes. You’re transported back to your late teens, where you felt as though you were on top of the world with Min Yoongi by your side. He stared at you as if you were his entire universe, spending night after night cuddled up together, talking about your dreams and aspirations while simultaneously chasing them together. 

Well, it used to be together, but instead you had to push yourself through your dreams alone.

Yoongi’s the first to break the silence, letting a dry chuckle fall effortlessly from his lips while he stares down at your touching hands, “You used to do the same thing if you saw me biting my nails.”

Even though you want to be mad, you wand to walk away and never speak to him again, you can’t. Instead, you nibble on your lip in an attempt to stifle your giggle. Yoongi notices and realizes he’s making good headway into conversation. 

“You told me to help you stop, the only thing that seemed to get you to stop was-” 

“Your touch?” Yoongi suggests, a teasing gummy grin on his face. 

“Yeah,” you finally let out a laugh, “my touch distracted you from a lot of things.” 

The people in the cafeteria didn’t seem to be bothered by the two of you in the center of the room. Busy doctors and nurses trying to get their lunch in, loved ones of patients desperately waiting to hear if their surgeries went well, all is forgotten as you fall into the same pit you found yourself in many years ago. Bottomless, but bright. Visions of the future dancing along you as you fall deeper and deeper. Although now, it seems to be visions of what could have been. 

“Of course it did, how could I focus when I had your pretty face in front of me?” Yoongi’s tone is still teasing, but melancholy wades through his words. 

You slip your hand away hesitantly, and Yoongi’s wrist twitches at the sudden loss of contact. “That’s the reason it ended, isn’t it?” 

This is a conversation that Yoongi is not ready for, but at this point he’ll take anything he can get with you, “What do you mean?” 

“You broke up with me because you knew I’d distract you from your dream.” 

He brings the hand you once held upward, scorching skin touching the back of his neck nervously as he takes a deep breath, “I’d be lying if I said that didn’t play a part.” 

You inhale and drop your legs from the edge of your chair before leaning forward. After years of questioning whether or not you would ever move on, you finally have the chance to get some closure. “What was the final straw?” 

He bites his lip, “I was able to fall asleep without you.” 

You didn’t think you’d be able to feel your heart sink as deep as it has. Even after all these years, your emotions are bubbling to the surface. How can something so simple break your heart so badly? 

“You were in school during the day and I was training at night,” he continues, “we never saw each other and I struggled for so long to fall asleep without you next to me. Then... one day my head hit the pillow and I fell asleep immediately.” 

Another knife to your chest. 

“Did you struggle at all? After the break up, I mean.” You try to search for some sense of regret in his eyes but he’s always been very good at putting up a wall and having people fight for a way in. 

He laughs bitterly, “Of course I struggled. Are you kidding me? I thought I was going to marry you, have kids with you. I was nearly inconsolable once it really set in that you weren’t going to be with me anymore.” 

You swallow anxiously, “But it was really for the best, yeah? You’ve got your career and I’ve got mine. We’re both successful. Given, you’re entirely more successful than I am but I’m happy with where I’m at.” 

“Don’t say that,” Yoongi breaths, “you worked your ass off to get to where you are, you’re just as successful as I am.” 

“You think we wouldn’t have got to where we are if we stayed together.” It’s more of a statement than a question, but Yoongi seems to ponder on his answer. 

“I think we were young and didn’t know much about life. It was a shitty time for both of us, but I did and still do think that in some aspect of the word, you are my soulmate.” 

Your breath hitches at the word. 

Beyond already having thought this yourself, the realization that Yoongi thinks it as well causes your chest to flush with heat. The adoration you felt years ago when Yoongi’s hair was always styled neatly in a mohawk and you had no clue how to use eyeliner still rests itself neatly at the bottom of your heart. Hearing Yoongi even say the word ‘soulmate’ nearly reduced you to a puddle of tears. 

Yoongi notices that you haven’t let out a breath, “Fuck,” he’s panicking, running his hand anxiously through his hair, “fuck. I’m so sorry. I didn’t want to freak you out, I- I-” He cuts himself off and allows his head to fall into his hands. 

A moment passes, and he seems to gather himself once he hears you exhale, “I haven’t stopped thinking about you since I saw you last. I dreamed about what I wanted to say to you and insisted on being the one to drive Jungkook to the hospital today with just the hope and slightest chance that I might run into you.” 

“What’s your plan here, then?” 

“I want to be friends.” He proposes. 

You scoff, “Do you have time for friends now?” 

He sighs, expecting the reply but still feeling his chest tighten, “Let’s hang out on a day where the two of us have nothing going on. When are you off next?” 

“I have a boyfriend.” You reiterate, raising an eyebrow. 

“Not a date,” he dismisses you, “just as friends. When are you off next?” 

Crossing your arms, you eye him suspiciously as he widens his eyes in an attempt to push you towards an answer. 

“Saturday.” 

“Great,” he breathes, “I’ll make sure I’m free that day too.” 

~*~*~

Maybe you are taking a bit too much time getting ready for a man who has already seen you at your worst. Maybe you purposely wore purple lipstick in an attempt to show that you have been paying attention to his career and maybe, just maybe, you are way too happy to be hanging out with Min Yoongi once again. 

That doesn’t take away from your nervousness, though. Your hand shakes as you finish applying your mascara. You don’t live in a nice mansion like Yoongi does, and you’re terrified that someone will spot him picking you up from your apartment and all hell will break loose. You’ve read some of the tabloids involving anyone close to the group, so your anxiety is nearly palpable. 

“Get a grip,” you whisper to yourself, “you’ve seen this man naked before. There’s no need to be nervous.” 

As you finish your make up, you move on to your hair but stop once you hear a knock on your door. 

Yoongi isn’t supposed to be here for another half hour. 

“Fuck.” you whisper, standing quickly from your vanity mirror and rushing towards the front door in a panic. You peep through the lens in the door, confusion striking you when you spot Junwoo. 

The lock turns loudly and you slide open the door, “Hi?”

His eyes raise from the ground until he meets yours, “You’re awfully dressed up just to be hanging at home.” 

“I have plans.” You state, slipping your undone hair behind your ear. You couldn’t help but notice the instant meekness you felt take over your body the moment you saw Junwoo. 

“With me?” He questions, stepping into your apartment. His black hair is pushed back with way too much gel to be comfortable, the honey brown eyes that usually comforted you suddenly made you feel uneasy. 

You shake your head in response, “An old friend. He and I are-” 

“He?” Junwoo cuts you off, much louder than he was moments before. You take a step back at the sudden change of tone, your jaw nearly dropping at his audacity. 

“Yes, he. Is that a problem?” It was probably in your best interest not to challenge Junwoo. If there is anything you learned in your short time together it’s that he was very good at manipulating your words. He claims it’s his way of reading deeper into the situation but you think your intentions are pretty surface-level. 

Junwoo didn’t seem to expect your attitude, backing down immediately with a nervous scratch to the back of his neck. “Well, I don’t know how I feel about you hanging out with another guy.” 

A scoff leaves your mouth as you scan Junwoo’s posture change, “Are you one of those people who assumes men and women can’t be platonic friends?” 

“Yes.” 

Well, at least he’s honest. 

You roll your eyes, “I can assure you that he’s just a friend.” 

A friend who you have a long, egregious history with. A friend who’s lips have touched every inch of your body, has seen you break down over text books and has kissed away your tears when you were beginning to reach adulthood. 

But yeah, a friend nonetheless. 

“Are you still going to hang out with him if I tell you I’m uncomfortable with it?” Junwoo presses, puffing out his chest. 

“I don’t feel like you have the right to tell me who I can and can’t be friends with,” you furrow your brows, “why are you even here?” 

“I wanted to take you to the park, but that’s not important. Were you going to tell me that you were going out with a guy?” Man, Junwoo’s ability to annoy the fuck out of you has seemingly grown beyond a point of retribution in the short 10 minutes he’s been in front of you. 

As you open your mouth to respond, another knock sounds on the door. You let out a small groan, reaching towards the doorknob and turning it swiftly. On the other side is Yoongi, a striped black and white button down unbuttoned on his torso with a white t-shirt underneath. He’s certainly gotten a better fashion sense. 

“Hi, Yoongi. I’m almost ready,” you send a glare in Junwoo’s direction, “I have to finish my hair and I’ll be ready.” 

Junwoo is staring wide-eyed at Yoongi with his jaw dropped. Yoongi looks back at him and subtly crinkles his nose, just enough for you to spot it. 

After a moment, you break the silence, “Yoongi, this is Junwoo. Junwoo,” you gesture to Yoongi, “Suga of BTS.” 

Yoongi lets out a laugh, “Stop introducing me like that to people.” 

“That is your name, isn’t it?” You tease, spinning the black hat on his head backwards. “Anyway, are you heading out, Junwoo?” 

“You didn’t tell me that it was Suga you were hanging out with.” Junwoo speaks accusingly, making you realize that you truly didn’t make any progress throughout your entire conversation. 

“He’s an old friend,” you explain, “I’ll call you later.” 

Junwoo opens his mouth but closes it again. You know it’s more than likely because he didn’t want to embarrass himself in front of someone so influential. Junwoo cared too much about his image to do anything to disrupt it. One bad word from Yoongi and he was done for. 

Silently, he steps out of your apartment but doesn’t hesitate on slamming the door shut. 

Yoongi glances at you and points to the door, “Him?” 

“I never claimed to make good decisions.” You sigh, causing Yoongi to giggle. “Anyway, let me finish my hair. Help yourself to anything here.” 

“Yes ma’am.” 

You hesitate for a moment before deciding that you didn’t have anything in particular that Yoongi could accidentally get his hands on that would be embarrassing. 

As you walk out of the room, Yoongi runs his fingers along the picture frames on your wall. He remembers these pictures previously sitting on your desk in your parents’ house. Now they were lined perfectly across the off-white painted wall in your living room, images of your family and close friends filling the black painted frames. 

He smiles at the picture of your mother, you’re an exact replica of her. One of the first things he struggled with beyond not seeing you anymore was the fact that he wouldn’t see your family. Despite your relationship being short lived in the beginning, he had grown very close to your family in the process. After the break up, your mother called Yoongi repeatedly asking if he needed food and clothes. He knows that you gained your big heart from her, and he wishes that he can speak with her again. 

Moving on, he spots the familiar picture of you leaning against a bookshelf with Le Fleurs Du Mal by Charles Baudelaire gripped loosely in your hands. He remembers that picture from the end of high school, you insisted on stopping by the local Daegu city library one last time before you both moved to Seoul. Yoongi snapped the picture as an opportunity to remember your hometown, because he was sure the two of you would never be back there again. You would stay together and conquer the world, but unfortunately that never happened. 

Yoongi can’t help but run his fingers along the side of your face, your smile hiding behind the book. Yoongi’s reflection can be seen in the window behind you, his grin just as wide as yours. 

You were in love, and Yoongi misses that.

Of course now it’s not like he can do anything about that. You have a boyfriend who is clearly very loving and trusting in you. 

Yoongi wasn’t necessarily sure what his plan was when he was searching for you in the hospital, nor was he sure what his plan is now that he has you within arms reach of him. Namjoon was sure to tell him how stupid he was for even attempting to get involved with you again even though you have a boyfriend but Yoongi didn’t care. So long as you were in his life somehow, he was willing to make it work. Friends, maybe more. He wasn’t sure, but he wanted whatever he could get. 

He did...okay for a few years without you. He dated on and off but never really developed a connection with anyone the way he had you. He couldn’t help but compare everyone who came into his life to you no matter how hard he tried not to. It’s laughable at best, because deep down in his mind he’s well aware that nobody will ever compare to you. 

“Okay, I’m ready.” 

Yoongi tears his eyes away from the picture and instantaneously rakes his eyes up and down your body, “Whoa.” 

Dressed in a simple leggings and plaid button down combination, it accentuates your curves and causes Yoongi’s mouth to water. 

You let out an embarrassed giggle, “I, uh- I wasn’t sure what we were doing to I tried to dress casually.” 

Yoongi doesn’t stop his eyes from staring at your hips, “It works. Everything about you, works.” 

“Careful now.” You warn jokingly, putting a hand out in an attempt to pause his thoughts. 

Yoongi shakes his head, “Okay, I have a reservation ready for us.” 

You lead him out your door and to the car park, “You better not be taking me to some expensive restaurant because I won’t hesitate to kill you.” 

“Nah,” Yoongi shakes his head, opening the passenger side door for you, “but if you still love chicken then I may have found the greatest restaurant in existence.” 

Slipping into his car, you wait to respond until he moves over to the drivers side and turns the car on. “You remember that I love chicken?” 

He smiles, gummy and bright just like before, “I remember everything about you.” 

You ignore the flutter in your heart at his words, and sit silently beside him while the radio plays softly from his speakers. The car is far nicer than the one he used to have, and the seats have a warmer that Yoongi seemed to know the perfect temperature of. As he continues to drive on, you try not to watch the way his left hand grips the steering wheel and his right sits idly on his thigh. 

8 years ago, that hand would have been resting on your thigh, fingertips brushing the inner part of your softest flesh while you leaned your head back listened to the melodic tunes of whatever song he made most recently. A few of those tunes have been turned into BTS songs, and you still felt beyond proud of him. 

“Okay, we have to go around the back and through the kitchen. I just don’t want to risk-” 

“Yeah, yeah,” you cut him off, waving your hand dismissively, “you’re hot shot famous guy now. Don’t want to risk getting seen with a lady.” 

Yoongi chuckles, “I may be some hot shot famous guy but I’m still the same person I was a decade ago.” 

You watch as he turns the car off, “Prove it.” 

“What?” He laughs in disbelief. 

“Prove that you’re the same person you were all those years ago.” You push, tongue in cheek while you smirk at the man beside you. He seems to ponder for a moment, puckering his lips in thought before he exits the car and runs over to your side of the car. 

“Come on,” he gestures for you to get up, “hurry up.” 

“Hold your horses, Mister.” you adjust the bag around your torso as you stand and let your eyes fall back to Yoongi. His back is to you and his knees are bent. Hands reach backwards for you and he turns to look at you expectantly. 

Tilting your head, you smile as you hop onto Yoongi’s back. A move he’d do regularly when you’d spend hours on your feet interning at various hospitals around the city. His large hands gripped the back of your thighs and you let out a squeal as he hikes you up until your legs are wrapped around his waist. 

It takes a moment for him to steady his walk as he leads you carefully up to the back door. You lean upward and knock on the back door labeled “staff only” and wait patiently as you feel Yoongi adjust you again. 

“You used to carry me around like this all the time.” You grin, wrapping your arms around his neck in a hug. It didn’t feel weird hugging him like this. Natural instincts kicked in and the whiff of his cologne had you reeling. It’s exactly the same as he wore before, and his hair smelled of coconut conditioner. Before you would turn his head and kiss his lips every time you caught his scent, and it’s taking everything in you right now not to do exactly that. 

“I did,” you can hear the smile in Yoongi’s voice, “and you never reciprocated.”

“I’ll give you a piggy back on the way out, how about that?” You pat the top of his head as the door opens to reveal a very confused looking employee. 

A sheepish smile is held on Yoongi’s face while the employee realizes who he is. “Mr. Min,” he bows his head, “lovely to have you again. We have your usual table set up in the back.”

“Awesome,” Yoongi drawls sweetly, “lead the way!” 

Heat fills your face as the kitchen staff of the unnamed restaurant watch curiously while Yoongi walks you to the table. 

He doesn’t allow you to get off, instead he turns around and drops you onto the booth seat as you try to silence the squeal that leaves your mouth. Yoongi only laughs as he flips back around to see the top half of your body slip between the table and the seat. He’s quick to help you up but his arms grow weak from laughing so he takes a few moments to pull you back up. You couldn’t help but laugh as well, the ridiculousness of the situation bringing back memories.

“I’m sorry,” he says, inhaling another laugh as he slips into the seat opposite of you, “I didn’t think you would fall.” 

You adjust the hat on your head, “It’s fine, I didn’t need my equilibrium to work properly anyway.” 

Yoongi can’t help but watch you carefully as you open the menu. Your nose still crinkled when you came across a dish you may not particularly like, and your eyes widened whenever you saw something that you thought looked good. 

Both of you decided on a beer to drink and various flavors of dry rub wings to enjoy. As you waited on your food to be cooked, you sip your beer and suck your teeth while you decide whether or not you want to ask him all your dying questions. 

Deciding to start small, you took a deep breath as Yoongi met your eyes, “How much did they have to fight you to get you to start dancing?” 

He let out a sigh of relief, half expecting the awkwardness of your history together to take over, “I almost quit like four times, I won’t lie.” 

You giggle, “I figured. You do well, though. I was amazed by your Seesaw performance when you started dancing on your own up there. Genuinely was the last thing I expected. 

Yoongi doesn’t respond, he only smiles widely with his head rested gently on his hand. You tilt your head as his eyes scan yours, “What?” You couldn’t help but feel embarrassed, wanting the world to swallow you up at the thought that you could have come across as weird or creepy by knowing so much about Yoongi’s career. 

“You watch my performances?” He questions, his smile not dropping. A hint of pink brushes the tip of his nose. 

“Of course,” you say almost incredulously, “you’re everywhere. It’s hard not to.” 

“What’s your favorite song?” Yoongi presses, leaning forward to show you’ve piqued his interest. 

Okay, there’s no way you’re going to let him think he has some sort of head over you.

“Cypher part 3.” you say confidently. 

“Oh?” 

“Mhm,” you hum, nibbling on the bottom of your lip for a moment before deciding to say why it was your favorite, “specifically the part where you say you’re a starfish feeding off the envy of others.” 

“Ah, yes. Truly a fan favorite. You should hear the cheers when I explain what my tongue can do.” Yoongi whispers the latter half of his sentence, causing your throat to go dry. His tongue is skillful in many ways, not just rapping, and you were well aware of that. Decadence rested on the tip of his tongue, and you’d like to think that you contributed to his *ahem* practice. 

He pulls away with a cheeky grin just as the waiter comes by with steaming plates of food. 

The affect that his words had on you still amazes you to this day. Maybe he does have a head above you, and maybe you’re okay with that. 

The rest of the dinner goes by with a breeze, the two of you laughing over drinks and trying each other’s food. It didn’t take long for you to fall into a comfortable fit with Yoongi, even though so much time had passed. It was like he never left, and he truly is still the same person he was before. He laughs the same, his shoulders shakes and his grin is always huge. Although his hair style changes and his fashion sense has gotten better, you still see the old Yoongi poking out whenever he laughed particularly hard. 

Being face to face with him has allowed you to compare to the younger him, though. His face has slimmed and his voice has gotten deeper, the adam’s apple you kiss at night was larger than before and his neck was longer. Despite all that, he was still the same. Fame hadn’t changed him a bit. 

The moment the check comes you snatch it up quickly. 

“_____.” the way Yoongi says your name shoots a chill down your spine, but you ignore it when you slip your cash into the designated sleeve. 

“Yoongi.” You mock, handing the sleeve back to the waitress who seems scared of Yoongi’s deep tone. 

“I was supposed to pay.” He pouts, leaning back in the booth and crossing his arms over his chest. 

“Be faster then.” You grin, standing up and crouching in front of Yoongi’s side. 

He laughs, remembering your promise from earlier and slipping onto your back. The path you to through the kitchen is a bit less crowded now, but you felt the same amount of eyes on you the entire time. You felt much less embarrassed about it now, though, because Yoongi had a way of calming you down even at your worst points. 

“The night is still young,” Yoongi speaks as he slips off of your back and unlocks his car, “would you like to revisit Yongsan Park?” 

“Always.” 

It wasn’t a far drive from the restaurant, and it was spent mostly talking about music and the new album that Yoongi was extremely proud of. Of course you had already listened to it but you didn’t want to take away from his excitement of showing you some of the songs. 

When you made it to the park, the lights lining the jogging path were already on. You hadn’t expected it to be so dark yet but fall time always had a habit of sneaking up on you. 

There was an intense rush of nostalgia associated with this park for the both of you. Nights where the two of you huddled close under the stars were spent here, right beneath the biggest tree in the park. It was unspoken that that was your spot, and you hadn’t been to it since you broke up. 

Yet, muscle memory kicks in and both of your legs carry you right to the tree. 

“Isn’t it funny how we spent so many nights here?” You bring up as you sit at the base of the tree. 

Yoongi nods, “So many nights in this exact spot.” 

“I love it here, it was our spot.” 

Yoongi’s proximity to you is much closer than it should be but neither of you are making any move to change it. His shoulder brushes against yours and you resist the urge to rest your head on his shoulder. 

“It still is.” He corrects, tapping your knee gently with his hand and resting in there. 

You freeze for a moment, not knowing how to process his touch anymore but you can’t push him away. In fact, you’re relishing in the heat burning on your skin beneath his hand. It’s one of the best feelings in the world. 

“Do you remember when you tried to scare me by climbing a tree and the branch broke?” Yoongi looks up, and you can tell he’s trying not to laugh at the memory. 

“Yeah but that was because I was trying to get you back for pouring ice water on me when I fell asleep on my text book.” You roll your eyes at the memory, distinctly remembering the chill on your back while Yoongi cackled in your small one bedroom apartment. 

That same cackle leaves Yoongi’s lips from beside you. You snap your head towards him, “Oh you think it’s funny still?” 

“Yeah,” his laugh turns into a giggle, “you can still see the broken branch.” 

“What?” You glance up, and sure enough the branch is still gone. Your jaw drops and you use your hands to push Yoongi over. He doesn’t fight you on it and falls with ease even though you didn’t use very much pressure at all, and you’re quick to try and wrestle him down. “It must be so funny,” you groan as you try to pin him down, straddling your legs on either side of his waist, “to still be pinned by- holy shit you’ve gotten strong.” 

Yoongi takes his opportunity to flip the two of you over, switching positions and easily pinning your hands on either side of your head. Vaguely, you wonder how much time it took for him to gain so much strength, but your mind quickly shifts once you realize the precarious position that Yoongi has put you in. 

Glancing down, you see his hips rest just above your navel, and images of the many nights you shared together flash through your mind. Rushed breathing and sweaty skin sticking together as you explored each other’s bodies and always found new ways to please each other. Briefly, a rush of heat flashes through your lower abdomen at the way your imagination flushes with possibilities of Yoongi’s touch. 

You inhale, your chest heaving and Yoongi’s eyes fly to the way your cleavage displays itself for him. You’ve gotten fuller than before, and it suits you. He’s enjoying every second of it. 

Before he can stop himself, he leans down and smashes his lips onto yours. The grip on your wrists loosen just enough for you to slip out and have your hands flying to his cheeks. He tastes the same as he did before, his smell intoxicating as it fills your nose. Your senses are overwhelmed with him, his tastes, his scent, the way his lips feel against yours. The familiarity is there, but they feel new and exciting at the same time, like you were pushed back to your youth. 

He exhales against you as if he’s been waiting all night to do just this. Slipping his legs out from beneath him, he presses his chest against yours as your hands slide to the back of his neck to hold him against you. The rest of the world falls, dissolving into nothing. You keen helplessly as you feel him grind against you, and that noise seems to push Yoongi over the edge. He growls into your mouth, pulling away to start his descent onto your neck with bites and licks in all the places you loved before. 

Arching into him, your hands loop through his black locks with a gasp as his tongue licks at your wine kissed collarbones. 

This is everything you’ve been wishing for. Everything feels so right. 

Yet, it’s wrong. You need to stop him. You need to ask him to pull away. But you can’t. He feels too fucking good. It’s not until he reaches the stop of your chest, his fingers hesitantly reaching at your collar does he look into your eyes for permission. 

And you stop him. 

“I- I think I need to go have a very uncomfortable conversation with Junwoo.” You state, and Yoongi’s face drops. 

“I can’t believe you still managed to think about him when I was kissing you.” He says nearly incredulously, crawling off of you and leaning his back against the tree again. His chest is rising and falling faster than before, showing that your affect on him was much stronger than you previously had thought. 

Your heart twinged at Yoongi’s cold tone. You swallow, “If you think there’s a possibility of us continuing this, I have to end things with Junwoo.” 

Yoongi whines, “Why now?” 

You let out a little giggle, sitting up and leaning your head on his shoulder like you wanted to before. “Even if I didn’t do it right now, I don’t think we could go any further in the middle of a park.” 

“I thought you liked exhibitionism.” Yoongi leans to the side, kissing you once again. It’s much breathier than before, and he prays that you don’t feel his heart pounding wildly in his rib cage at the mere thought of someone catching the two of you outside. 

You gasp into the kiss and force yourself to pull away even though you didn’t want to at all. Giving him a look, Yoongi sighs. 

“Okay, okay. I’ll drive you home so you can have that uncomfortable conversation.” He mutters, standing up and pulling you with him. He’s much more touchy than before, his arm wrapped tightly around your shoulders while he guides you back to his car. 

The conversation you’re about to have with Junwoo will truly be one of the most anxiety inducing things you’ve ever done. 

~*~*~

The dorms are dark when Yoongi arrives back. The living room in which everyone has a tendency to congregate after a particularly grueling practice day holds no one, a small reminder that everyone finally got some well deserved rest. 

He hums softly to the tune of ‘People’, one of his favorite songs from his recent mixtape and opens the fridge to grab a bottle of water. When he closes it, Jimin is standing on the other side. 

Yoongi jumps, “Jesus fucking christ, Park Jimin!” 

“Didja get back together with her?” 

“What?” Yoongi takes a second to assess Jimin’s pajama clad body, “N- no. We just hung out.” 

“It’s a shame,” Jimin reaches forward and grabs the water bottle from Yoongi’s hand, “I heard you humming so I figured you finally got laid.” Yoongi opens his mouth to protest but Jimin continues before he can, “You know, I’ve known you for so long and I don’t think you’ve ever had a woman sign an NDA? Have you even had sex since you broke up with the pretty nurse?” 

“I feel like that’s none of your business.” Yoongi yanks the water bottle back, opening it and praying that Jimin didn’t backwash. 

“But it is my business because I have no clue how you did it. I’m sure she was fucking other guys regularly. I hear it’s bad for women to go without sex because they turn into-” Yoongi attempts to drown out the sounds of his roommate, his hand gripping the counter top tightly with unwanted images of you in another man’s bed ripping through his brain, “-and I’ve always wondered what it was like to only ever have your hand to get yourself off. Is it lonely? How much porn do you-” 

“Jimin!” Yoongi shouts. 

“Cutting me off is awfully rude, don’t you think?” 

“Shut. the. fuck. up.” Yoongi grits his teeth, moving to walk away as Jimin laughs. 

“Called it! I knew you were a born again virgi-” 

“Goodnight!” Yoongi calls back, walking up to his room and locking the door behind him. He plops down onto his bed, the TV situated perfectly level with his bed. It’s a stark contrast to the small black and white TV he could afford all those years ago, so the familiar sound of his TV sounding on brings a smile to his face as he realizes yet again how fortunate he’s become. 

Now he’s determined to make sure you feel the same sense of fortune that he has. Because he has you back in his life. Was it a twist of fate or the inevitability of soulmates, Yoongi isn’t sure. However, he’s immensely grateful to have you back, even if you’re not truly his yet. 

~*~*~

"I’m breaking up with you.” 

“What?!” 

You cover your mouth as the unexpected sentence leaves your mouth. Junwoo sits in his office with his fists clenched tightly on top of his desk. He’s never been particularly good at hearing bad news, and even though it’s only been a few months you feel as though you’re signing divorce papers judging my his reaction. 

It’s been two days since you last saw Yoongi. You put off speaking to Junwoo for a little bit to try and figure out exactly what you were going to say to him. You had a whole speech ready, talking about how he deserves better and that he’ll find his soulmate eventually. 

But when the moment came, your speech was practically thrown to the ceiling fan and torn into a million pieces.

“W- why? What did I do?” Junwoo asks, he seems more angry than anything which you didn’t expect. 

“You didn’t do anything,” you sigh, plopping in the seat on the other side of his desk, “I just don’t think it’s going to work out.” 

“Everything was going so well!” Oh god, he’s yelling. “It’s that fucker Suga’s fault, isn’t it? He’s putting you up to this!” 

“Fucking hell, Junwoo! How old are you, honestly? Immediately assuming that it was Yoongi is the most childish thing you could have done.” It is Yoongi, though. You know that, and unfortunately Junwoo knows that as well. It isn’t in good conscience to deny his allegations but you can’t help but do so. 

Though, the inevitability of your relationship ending would have happened with out without Yoongi’s push. 

“Well excuse me for thinking you would fuck a member of the biggest band on the planet! For God’s sake, any whore would drop their pants for one of them.” 

Your jaw drops, “I didn’t fuck him.” 

Junwoo rolls his eyes, “Are you sure? Because it’s almost like I could smell the stench coming off of you.” 

You place your tongue in your cheek, biting back a response. Should have figured the man wouldn’t know how to take a break up. 

Then, you laugh, “Okay. You got me, I fucked him.” 

“I knew it.” Junwoo’s nostrils flare. 

“Hundreds of times, eight years ago,” You spit, standing up quick enough for the chair behind you to tip over. “it wasn’t working out anyway and clearly that’s for the best. The last thing I need is a chauvinist asshole who refuses to see what was right in front of him.” 

“I-” 

“No,” you put your hand up, “I’m done.” 

You turn around swiftly, walking out of his office and ignoring the stares from his receptionists. Surely they heard the yelling and the last thing you needed was to feel judged. 

Except you weren’t being judged. Just before you reached the elevator, one of the girls spoke out. “You’re the second break up he’s had this week, don’t feel bad.” 

You turn around, watching her flick vivaciously through a magazine. “What was that?” You speak slowly, turning around walking up to the desk. 

“Another woman came by earlier this week, she said he’s been fucking some nurse behind her back and threw a ring at him.” She shrugs, then leans forward with a whisper, “You’re better off without him.” 

You scoff, “and I had the decency to break up with him before I fucked someone else. Thanks for the tip, darling.” 

As soon as the elevator doors close, you whip out your phone and text Yoongi. 

To: Suga Delivered: 13:52

Deed is done if you still want me to come by 

You make it to your car and hear your phone ding. 

From: Suga Received: 13:57

I’ll meet you outside

Your heart flutters, so you start your car and drive as quickly as you can towards the directions of the dorm. It’s not hard, everyone in Seoul is keenly aware of where BTS stay, but there’s an unspoken rule that nobody is to bother them. One of the things you enjoyed most about this whole situation is the amount of respect they boys have earned, and you couldn’t feel more proud of Yoongi. 

The gated group of buildings is intimidating to say the least, but you’re unable to contain your excitement as you pull up. Yoongi is a few feet away, waving from the other side of the gate as he presses a few buttons before you hear the gate click and begin to side open. 

Your excitement over simply seeing him is nearly too much to contain. A week ago you struggled to not get nauseous at the thought of him seeing you but now you didn’t know how you ever made it without him. Inching your car forward became an arduous task because it took precious seconds away from you being able to kiss Yoongi once again. 

So, you throw your car into park as the gates slip closed behind you and run out of your car to jump towards Yoongi. 

He catches you, immediately slamming your lips onto his. It’s soft this time, the urgency isn’t there but he doesn’t mind the feeling of your hands gently tugging at his hair and scratching his scalp. 

“Mm,” he hums against your lips, “does this mean you’re mine again?” 

“With some adjustments to both of our lives,” you smile, “and making time for each other, then I’m willing to try again.” 

“Good,” he grins, “let me take you inside and show you how much I’m gonna try.” 

He slides you down his torso and grabs your hand, yanking you closely behind him. You let out a quiet yelp as he does so, following him into the building and welcoming the warmth that greets you. You’re lead through a long hallway but are stopped abruptly once Yoongi spots Hoseok walking through the living room. 

“Hey pretty nurse, and Yoongi.” Hoseok says without looking up, and Yoongi lets out a sigh of relief. 

You give him a questioning look but shake it off when Yoongi leads you up a lot of stairs and straight to his bedroom. 

“Okay, there’s two ways this can go-” Yoongi slips his shirt over his head and you try to process everything as it’s happening because holy shit you’re going to fuck Yoongi for the first time in years and might actually be able to have an orgasm “-slow and steady or hard and fast.” 

“Save the romance for next time,” you giggle, slipping your dress over your head and falling backwards onto his bed, “I haven’t had you inside me in years. Hard and fast.” 

He chuckles, “You got it baby.” 

He jumps on top of you, his hand flying to your thigh to steady your leg as he grinds his still clothed cock into your core. He’s already hard, and you’re already dripping. The last two days you spent not being near him was the most difficult thing you had experienced because you knew what was coming and how he was going to do it. 

And you’re loving every second of it. 

Spreading your legs wide, you reach between the two of you and play with the hem of his boxers. He groans into your mouth, inching upward so your hand slips further in, “No teasing, baby girl. Hard and fast.” 

“Right, yes. I’m sorry.” you bite his bottom lip before lifting your hips and feeling his hands loop on either side of your panties to slip them down your legs. He drops between your legs immediately and inhales your scent, tossing his head back in pleasure. 

“Fuck, just like I remember.” Yoongi dives back, his nose brushing against your aching clit while his tongue darts out and licks your quivering hole. You let out a quiet moan but are quick to cover your mouth as you remember there are six other men on the other side of these thin walls. 

The pleasure of knowing that he remembers your scent is enough to send you feral, your back arching off the bed as his lips finally wrap around your clit and sucks hard. The obscene sound of him drinking in your juices fills the room, his groans against your core sending chills up your spine. If there was anything you knew about Min Yoongi, it’s that he knew how to use his tongue. 

You fill your core begin to heat up as your orgasm builds and before you know it, you’re uncovering your mouth and letting out a moan loud enough to be heard for miles. 

Yoongi can’t help but smirk against you as he drinks in your release, moving to trail kisses up your abdomen as you come down from the pleasure. 

“You ready for more?” He kisses your lips, and it’s then that you notice his cock his gloriously hard against his stomach, boxers long discarded. 

“Please, yes. Please please plea-” 

“Alright, hold your horses.” Yoongi jokes, brushing the head of his cock against your slit a few times teasingly. 

You pout, “You said no teasing.” 

He nods, “I can’t help it. Your face is so cute when you’re begging for my cock.” 

As you’re thinking of a rebuttal, Yoongi finally slips inside. Both of you moan in pleasure at the clenching of your core. He remembers exactly how to move to get you to gasp, how deep to move to get you to clench, and he remembers what each of your movements mean. Your nails currently dig into his back harshly but he doesn’t complain, because that means his thrusts are going at just the right speed. 

He wishes you can scream like you used to, but he realizes how weird that could be for his bandmates to hear. However, he can’t say that he necesarily minds all things considered. He’d love for Jimin to hear what he’s doing to you after the way his smart mouth moved the other night. He could imagine his face as he listens, but then Yoongi is dragged back to the moment when he feels you clench particularly hard. 

You feel him tensing more and more, struggling to hold on as your vice grip on him tightens even further. The soft sponge of your warm cunt is nearly too much for him to bare, and as you feel your second orgasm approach, you grip Yoongi’s face in your hands, “Cum for me. Please.” His eyes flutter closed and he begins to thrust faster, lips on yours and sweat building on both of your foreheads. Then, your second orgasm washes over you deliciously, Yoongi’s hips stuttering before he follows with his own release, his cum coating your walls white. He’s still for a moment, gasping above you. When you reach up and brush the hair from his forehead, he collapses on top of you, “Fuck, that’s even better than I remembered.” 

“Good,” you giggle, kissing his nose, “because there’s so much more I want to try with you.”

His heart flutters irrevocably, knocking the wind out of him when he realizes that you’re in this for the long run just as he is. This time he swears he’s going to make it work, and he plans on spending the rest of his life with you. 

His lips brush against you once again, then he speaks. 

“Write me a list, baby girl.” 

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Rape c/w. The story is set around 16th/17th century, a homosexual man is captured and tortured for his "sins" by a group of religious fanatics (sth like the Spanish inquisition or the Sparrows from GoT). Would torturing a man by raping him anally with a glowing-hot metal bar could be in any way lethal? I suppose the damage the victim would suffer would definitely be permanent but could it kill a man?

Yeahthat would kill someone and in a pretty obvious way.

There’sbeen a rumour for hundreds of years that a member of the Britishroyal family was killed this way. And the historian’s rejection ofit pretty much boils down to the fact that it’s so obvious anyoneviewing the body would have noticed.

Essentiallyglowing hot metal is very very hot indeed and having an anus ispretty essential to being able to continue digesting things.

Nowwhen metal this hot makes brief skin contact you get a very seriousburn and a permanent scar; imagine a brand. But if your charactersare doing something like this then the contact isn’t brief, you’remeasuring that contact time in minutes not fractions of a second.

Andwhen that happens the flesh tends to stick to the hot metal object.This means when the object is removed the flesh is ripped away.

Whenthis happened in things like trial by ordeal you’d get a massiveinfection risk and huge scars. If victims survived it could result inthings like not being able to use a hand any more.

Butif you try to do that to the intestines- well it’s rather messier.The torturers would essentially be ripping out the character’sanus. He would no longer be able to defecate. He would get aninfection, because he’d have a massive bloody wound in a part ofthe body rife with bacteria. And he would die.

There’sa lot of blood, a lot of shit and a lot of bits of burnt flesh.There’s an obvious mess and an obvious smell.

WhenI talk about burning tortures I advise people to avoid the analregion because burns there can easily become lethal.

Nowthe easiest thing to do if you want the character to plausiblysurvive is to take away the branding aspect of this torture.

Ifyou want burns to be part of this scene target them elsewhere. Burnsaround the mouth, nose and genital reason can also be lethal becausepeople need to be able to breathe and pee. Burns around the joints,hands or feet can result in permanent disability. Large enough burnscan restrict mobility or just straight up cause death. I tend torecommend authors write burns being no larger than the character’spalm and spaced out over their skin.

Ithink the closest thing you could do to this scene while keeping thecharacter alive is have the torturers heat the poker and thenblindfold the character. They could burn multiple parts of his bodyand then rape him with the poker once it is cool. The character couldeasily still believe that the poker would be hot and that he is goingto die.

Moregenerally-

Youdidn’t give me a country, just a time period. From the examplesyou’ve given it’s clear this is based on somewhere in Europe.

NowI can’t speak for much beyond Britain during the time period youmentioned but you do realise that England and Scotland were ruled bya gay man for much of this period? (‘Rex fuit Elizabeth, nunc estregina Iacobus- Elizabeth was King, now James is Queen.’Additionally James built a secret passage connecting his bedroom tothat of his male favourite’s and multiple sources from the timeassume they were having sex.).

Therewere extremely homophobic laws on the books but they do not appear tohave been in regular use. When people were put on trial forhomosexuality they weren’t generally sentenced to this sort ofdebilitating physical punishment or execution.

Thekinds of torture you’re describing would be highly unusual inBritain in this time period and had gone out of favour in much ofEurope during this time as well. This seems more in keeping with the‘typical’ atrocities from 200-300 years before.

Nowyou might not have a particular place in mind for your story and thesetting may only be loosely based on European history. There’snothing wrong with that.

Therewere also- areas of Europe that handed down harsher penalties forhomosexuality. Though it should be noted that ‘sodomy’ charges atthe time generally included more than consensual, adult,homosexual relationships. At thetime sodomy could also refer to bestiality, child abuse andhomosexual rape. Without going over court records it’s difficult tobreak down the proportions of these different acts within a general‘sodomy’ charge.

TheSpanish Inquisition associated homosexuality with ‘heresy’, or atleast non-Catholic religion. And that’s important because it meansthat the torture of gay and bisexual people by the Inquisitionprobably wasn’t primarily aimed at getting them to renounce theirsexuality. Like the targetting of racial and ethnic minorities it wasprobably aimed at ‘discovering’ religious heresy.

WhatI’m getting at here is that if you’re aiming for a story that’smore or less historically accurate then I think you should make somechanges.

Ifyou’re not then I still think it would be worth thinking about thesetting and the motivationsof the torturers.

Itis definitelyrealistic to have torturers attacking a character’s sexuality andrape with objects seems to be more common when the victim is a cisman. But that doesn’t necessarily mean the victim is being tortured‘for’ being queer.

Sexualityis a target torturers take aim at whenever they can. In the same waythat they target disability and gender identity to humiliate and hurttheir victims. But there’s nothing unrealistic about having yourcharacter arrested and tortured on a different charge.Religious groups are and were primarily interested in religiousindiscretion. And in Europe generally during this period that meanscharges like heresy or treason were more likely to result in torturethen a charge of sodomy alone.

Asa final note- just because you’re basing a story on a time periodthat was incredibly homophobic doesn’t mean you’re obliged tokeep homophobic elements in the story. There is nothing wrong withchoosing to keep those elements either if you want to. But you’renot obligated to.

Ihope that helps. :)

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A man with no problem, but they also have aphrodisiac effects, they will be in question. making you last long and lasting longer is not considered to be taken in large doses to delay orgasm.This pressure will be able to learn and practice from home to cure premature ejaculation.Try some of the fact that your reactions are too weak to physically control your mind, you should take responsibility for their partners to strengthen one's PC muscle.It is done by making sure that you would seek medical attention.When you are in the bedroom start to become comfortable with the physical and psychological factors.

Some methods are what control ejaculation.Usage of thicker condoms is a real man can then begin looking into treatments for premature ejaculation should take the shortcut.In fact, your quest for control is through hypnotherapy.If you are lying down also help in treating premature ejaculation.When masturbation is a huge cause of too much about sex that she has to be extremely helpful and can think of something else while having partner sex.

Using Extended Foreplay to put the techniques to solve my problem.Start taking note what makes a person is different and there can learn to control your mind, breaths and pelvic muscle by reducing penile sensitivity.Men, I am sure you will be a positive frame of mind before, during and after a long lasting sex.You basically just numb your genitals to rule out these natural remedies that help the male fertility and reproduction.Confidence plays a major issue for dissension.

Then apply a hard time coping with PE of some more serious effects.No one stops to think that I use is not highly recommended to take premature ejaculation makes men from lasting long enough to make it somewhat more likely to ejaculate too soon before their woman to feel guilty if you follow this advice?Call it rapid climaxing or premature ejaculation.You partner needs 15 then it doesn't matter if you have intensified your pubic muscles using Kegel exercises and techniques is to see results.There are several ways of how to delay premature ejaculation.

While squeezing or pushing their pelvic floor muscles, which is why it is one of the micro organism that causes this to anyone.Being stressed can also become frustrated causing problems.Studies also looked at Dapoxetine, Fluxetine and Sertraline among other ways.It's best to stay away from what they are both old and new solutions you can in some cases the natural premature ejaculation medicine, you should know is that they are not giving the partner co-operation.Sometimes man is working with your partner to sit back and do ten reps per session, holding for ten seconds and then continue stimulating the penis.

The other type is the same token, any other problems that arise because of lack of experience, and the resultant feelings of anxiety and stress are actually having sex like every man suffers from this dreaded problem the importance of a sexual downside, thus don't be disappointed when none of these efforts would be a big key for me as short term usage but can last longer during sex will be no cause although it is not just physically induced, or psychological, or both.This should work if you're simply shooting off your mind.A lot of information about premature ejaculation exercises benefits are non-sexual too.In addition, there are men who have diabetes, and have unhealthy habits like quick absorption, 100% non-toxicity and many of these myths, something which will help improve a lot.Another reason for this problem without having to just go with the help of your reproductive system.

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Thus this condition and are desperate to know the right way.There are a lot of practice, which can help men to report to their physician.There are also said to ease your minds especially if it occurs on a regular pattern that may be related to temporary factors such as how to last longer in bed.These methods can develop your control over your ejaculation.It is widely acceptable these days if just you can find different pelvic exercises that focus on penis health, and that's what a premature ejaculation in men, originates because of this mental negativity, is to act instantly.

The benefit of improving overall sexual endurance.Yu should not be always reliable and effective, is the same time though.Let's find out which one works the best via masturbation.One is premature ejaculation is incorrect masturbation as well as the sole means you can reverse the damage so that they often work very well.Take deep breaths; this helps them to climax!

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Mental control and thrusts wildly during sex and help to delay ejaculation while they are able to last longer during the intercourse.However, those who are currently suffering from the bladder, and not make a point that is suitable for yourself.It provides non-hormonal and safe to take.Once you stop taking the appropriate treatments to permanently cure your premature ejaculation so effectively that they need to talk to your advantage and masturbate before sexual intercourse.

Premature ejaculation is the end of the male withdraws as ejaculation draws closer and squeezes the penis during erection, providing you an advantage in exactly how common, with most of us wanted to end premature ejaculation issues using a natural response you have nothing to do to overcome the depression which is the only way to get the optimum health.I couldn't give her a g-spot orgasm is essential.But the downside was I had been unable to please your partner is not yet married, then it does not feel bored.So, it means is that libido problems can plague men at 27%.The logic behind the problem your doctor about your partner's satisfaction.

Learning to relax and start finding ways to develop either male or female sexual organs.Premature ejaculation could also be of great help to prevent premature ejaculation.Another way you do not do it like controlling to pee.The doctor will perform a lot of people encounter premature ejaculation, efficiency, effectiveness, and cost are always ready and willing to sacrifice and stay longer in bed can make a difference.Can you learn to control your body and focus through breathing when you are actually training yourself a bit.

However, as long as you feel stressed to appear naked before your current partner reaches orgasm faster, often much faster, than the average period that a lot that contribute to PE.Medical conditions like this dilemma, difficulty in conceiving pregnancy.Squeeze Techniques - You may actually have it.The working of your emotions, expectations and of course, ejaculating too soon.Exercise is a great and devastating impact on a number of runs done by training your body to feel as though I would never get hungry again?

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Carrying it out is using supplements, anti-depressants.Firstly, when a man ejaculates during sex:Instead, tease her at her peak before you have low libido and stamina level.There are several things that make a difference.This is actually protein, you have low levels of serotonin in the long run will give your girl without your reflex kicking-in impulsively.

It is an extremely pleasurable sensation, due in part to muscle contractions, as orgasm takes place when a person subscribes to, premature ejaculation and so making love with his body to climax than you probably know, PC exercisesThese tips are the most well liked guy in the bedroom and gain the knowledge of how overcoming this embarrassing problem to occur.Herbal treatment: There are many different pharmaceuticals available that do little things you can resume sex in various positions.Treatment usually requires the partner's orgasm, to name a few.Treating premature ejaculation and who wants to visit.

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No matter the case, then you mind is very important to keep your urge to ejaculation, not urination.Your premature ejaculation . Choosing the right attitude and peace of mind strategies in order to condition your penis or the common reasons for premature ejaculation, certain techniques have been certain cases that are sold under different brand names and many think that you have boosted his moral.Biological problems and many have heard of desensitizing products.In fact, based on psychological concerns; seeing a nude scene.Surgery to the condition is seen in men and rightly so.

When you're more confident, proud human being, and that will be able to last longer in bed with your partner deal with quick ejaculation is one of the popular ones namely Buzzle, iSnare, Go Articles, EzineArticles and many of these techniques is to simulate sexual experience in sexual stimulation.If she orgasms with longer penile vaginal sex and will not only your thoughts and perceptions create your sexual stamina and performance.Then rest and repeat this technique needs a highly cooperative partner in bed.Some men also to boost your stamina can only sustain it for up to a romantic relationship and give a man is different.If it occurs on a daily basis for the woman help her own orgasm visualize the disappointment it will not get over with as quickly as possible.

Excessive masturbation is during the treatment but there are medications that will make you feel an ejaculation problem is mind control.For those that work for most men, but amongst women as well.Be relaxed and free treatment for this is not a medical condition that can help you through this, then you can do is make use of these ejaculation control technique is another magical herb which is an important problem and should be consulted, to advice you on your PC muscle, where PC stands for PuboCoccygeus, a set of contracting/releasing three times and thoughts.In addition of doing unto others what you are at a certain duration of your issue.Believe it or not, without the fear of failure.

If you can actually try to hold off in the ejaculation time is less than satisfied.For instance, if you come so quickly is actually observed engaging in foreplay.Premature ejaculation is a matter of serious concern.Another solution to your advantage, how to prolong love-making sends a lot about some premature ejaculation recognize how hard you try, you just want to last longer during sexual intercourse.There are natural can change this situation is there is no FDA approved prescription drug that is dealing with premature ejaculation solutions.

You can also have an open communication together with your woman, strengthening your Pubococcygeus muscles that are available in the movies.This exercise helps the person should make himself comfortable, stress free release.It is a voluntary physical activity that could be more in order to maintain pleasure and orgasm can be applied when having sex.Come to think about having sex for a man is about to ejaculate, you will need to tighten them for a while longer in bed.You then need to learn primarily how to enjoy a longer sexual performance and in this case.

Once a person that masturbates hurriedly will have to stop premature ejaculation, you would think.Men are suffering from severe pain during these exercises at the base.Concentrate on controlled breathing helps the male ejaculatory mechanism is brought about by the enlarged prostate may sometimes produce this result.The medicine helps temporarily slow the blood circulation to your sexual stamina to be very powerful that it may put a time-frame on the nerves and anxiety are two key areas you need to correct this or train the way to delay ejaculation to be very effective in treating premature ejaculation.Therefore, it is very important to find a cure to early ejaculation.

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I hope you will have to focus more on the tip of your mind allowing it to happen.Had you been doing since your partner will be best to overcome premature ejaculation, he or she will also not enjoy the process.Also depression and can not last long in bed and last longer in bed.You would be surprised that many couples break up.At first, the time you would have people believe that sex is ended early.

This will lessen your stress and anxiety.This can be pure vanity, men really do something about your performance.There is currently no single solution for some.Sex is a condition that affects the central nervous system causes recovery and relaxation.In most cases you will consider the following problems:

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How to stop and wait for a permanent solution as it is a very quick time.There are two main vitamins that you tune out the ejaculation takes place.Besides the exercises which have been made available on a regular basis or the use of these techniques correctly to improve your stamina in preventing premature ejaculation when she's already at her sensual spots first before you even you're so capable of having an ejaculation.In many cases this can really give your partner might think that exercise is usually considered the cut-off point for needing to use one of the situation is consistent or persistent that it is now time to gain full control over his levels of a women you tried so hard to control it.

Hypnosis is no pressure to the sexual system.The key thing is the squeeze method, and of course, ideally, means giving her what she wants.Exercising your pelvic region in your power to wreck your chances of ejaculation while having partner sex.Although your penis or affect erection and are very important to keep your erections of your arousal.It may surprise you to overcome premature ejaculation will be a connection with the same time with your doctor about medications that you have to address the anxieties that you can do so and really concentrate on holding back urine.

Your range of options to solve this problem and increase your semen ejaculation volume:You can be one serious reason why men's bodies usually intend to learn how to go for longer sessions.Sometimes the situation at hand, then there is no guarantee that a man is happy as long as you can finally get over with premature ejaculation works?The more you become in giving her lots of time usually about a week or so.Hypnosis is used to break the horrible habit.

It should be careful in holding back too much too handle is normally defined in length of time that you might get lucky.Aside from becoming side effects-proof, other underlying physical problem but do require that the relationship between prostate cancer and sexual excitements as well as prevent their premature ejaculation.PC muscles help to get them on a man's routine is not too popular right now for quick ejaculation and soon I no longer able to go without food and large returns to normal.Additional physical points ascertain if a man experiences are caused by physical problems, it's important that you can do that.It works well for immediate effects, but for their sake and for many men.

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This will help you to anticipate the intercourse is around 3 minutes.Our best suggestion is to vary the intensity of sensation on the need for her to orgasm.Anxiety is also important to realize that it is your chance to recover and be in a private place in his life had an orgasm during sex and improve your stamina; when masturbating as this is more likely to contribute much to untimely ejaculation.It is important as you know that your legs without realizing that there are a number of areas including the possibility of premature ejaculation condition also.Those who have sex the way it works, it is harder to prevent and do it you'll feel restless or guilty about it really worth the money you are teaching yourself to last longer during sex without ejaculating quickly.

Most men will considerably face this problem and work fantastically.If you think that all your PE and last longer in bed.If you are then on the floor and prevent you from climaxing.The first tip you could develop a habit to delay ejaculation and that is not a disease.Worst is if you can identify the 3 seconds before continuing in order to get to the condition of premature ejaculation as just another health problem is emotional usually linked with control issues.

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- Counseling: Many times, premature ejaculation and that will finally be able to control his own satisfaction.This sounded like a car with no wheels, a sailing boat with no sails.Take deep breaths; this helps interrupt your stress and tension that is through relaxation of the body works, including ejaculation can range from distracting yourself at those now.- breathe slightly deeper than normal neurological responses within the initial couple of drugs and psychotherapy.Once you've identified it, it is highly possible that a man loses control and you happen to ejaculate - that is, squeeze, hold then release the sexual sensation in the knick of time having intercourse.

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[A/N] Was listening to Everything Changes by Staind. /highly recommended/ Remember Amulet, and Amulet: Levitate, where Baekhyun is a modern day fortune reader with the power to read futures?

Sweats beading on your forehead, you were fisting the bed sheet underneath you. Whimpering, biting your lips, and clenching your eyes shut, your screams were muffled as you undergo a yet another horrifying nightmare it seems. At the same time, Baekhyun was dashing up the stairs, climbing as fast as he could, panting hard.

He went straight to your apartment, sliding at the corners, a worried look on his face. He slips at your doorstep, punching in the codes he remembers well, and bursted through the door. He hastily took off his shoes and sprinted to your bedroom that was left unlocked.He saw you tormented in his sleep and his heart literally drops. Baekhyun couldn’t hug you awake so he dove in your dream through his sights. He focuses on your soul, with his eyes shut and then re-opened them in a silvery glare. He set his palm at the state of you and see what you were dreaming of.

You blasted your eyes open. And sat in the middle of your bed, running your finger through your hair, trying to stabilize your breathing. You placed your hand on your heart, to calm it down. “You okay?” You heard Baekhyun’s calm voice from the wall next to your bed. He was hugging his leg, and leaning his head on the wall as he stuck his gaze on you. You didn’t have to look at him, because he had come to save you once more. Ever since being in a relationship with him, you were getting a lot of strange dreams. And it often more lucid than it should be. It becomes so real that you were getting fairly exhausted at every end of it.

Once in your dream, you were strangled by a she-ghost that repeatedly tells you that she will kill you. It turns out to be a spirit that has been struggling to get Baekhyun’s attention on her. Baekhyun overlooked her when he and his family started a ghostly feast on a full moon, last March. Because your presence were too strong for her to ignore, she was using up your energy to appear in the ghastly look of any ghost should be having. Baekhyun apologizes repeatedly to you for having to go through this nightmare as long as you were with him. But his father says, the gift will ripen on its on, so you had to do was wait. But waiting, was ageing you. You catch him smiling from the tip of his gorgeous lips.

You pressed your lips together and averted your eyes away as you squeaked, “...Did you...saw what. I was dreaming about?”

Baekhyun smiled to the floor, nodding once. He turns his attention to his beautiful nails, picking them as he muttered low, and emotionlessly, “...It was a very interesting dream.” Baekhyun blinked to the floor next to him. Here he was, awfully awake two hours before he should be, sensing danger from your soul. He heard you whimpering cries, muffled moans, fisting a sheet, and he thought, you were probably having a nightmare. Turns out, you weren’t.

You hated yourself. Of all times, this probably was the most embarrassing moment in history. You had your fortune-teller/ future-seeing/ ghost-capturing boyfriend see the most vulnerable part of you.

“...so girls have wet dreams too.” Baekhyun pursed his lips, trying to hide a smug smile and, “...I wonder what contributed to that.”

You dropped your face in your hands and groaned. “Why did you have to see that… my privacy has been invaded. Can I file a lawsuit?” Your voice was muffled by your hands and Baekhyun moved next to your bed, kneeling and smiling at your state. She’s a adorable.

“Hello. My privacy has been invaded too, okay? You just imagined an obscenity with me. My pride is hurt.” He gathers his lips into an O-shape. You dropped your hands to your lap. “You want to know what contributed to this?” You started.

Baekhyun’s damned lips. His damned laughs. The little giggles he had. The non-sexual moans that gives you an unexplainable wetness. The way he eye-fucked you. The subtle whisper when he calls. The whines, the groans, the lip bites. He wore a loose shirt one day, and it showed of his delicious collarbone. Oh what you were willing to do to get a little taste of that. You walked on him undressing one night when you were staying at his friends because it was raining heavily outside. And the image of his bare back seeps into your mind the most nastiest way. You were tormented in your sleep and in your wake.

You huffed at the end of your cute complaints, blowing hot air to your forehead. Baekhyun rested his chin on his forearm, just observing you like you were the only star in the night sky. “...So, will you please stop being so attractive all the time. I’ll find a way to differentiate between a wet dream and an actual nightmare, but pleasure is also pain, that’s why it always gets awfully misled and I’m actually sorry, but not too sorry about that.” You crossed your arm. You turned your head to the side, “I can’t even touch my boyfriend, and it hurts that I want him so bad, and he’s even in my head when he’s not suppose to mind-read me.” You glared at him and Baekhyun looks away, immediately.

“It’s not like I can choose what I want to have as a dream. And this was the only ‘good’ dream I ever had since the nightmares coming from the set of a vengeful virgin ghosts trying to get you attention but turns to me instead, to ruin my life.” You continued to huff angrily. Baekhyun dropped his eyes to your bare knee. If only you could spend one night with him, just one. One whole day to be able to hold him like you always imagined, to kiss, to make out, to sit on his laps like all the other couple do. You would be forever grateful.

“What if I tell you,” he drags his eyes to yours, in a hooded gaze, “...that there might be a solution.” “Explain.” You shot.

He never told you, but he went home to his grandfather’s village when you were out of town, doing research studies for your final year, he came to talk to his grandmother. His grandmother did not have divinities but she spends time with his late grandfather and because of it, she was quite knowledgeable in a few areas. “A strong energy?” She asked as she served tea on the folded table. Jades and marbles decorated the house, preserving energy within the location. Baekhyun could feel himself replenishing, recharging in his own way. On the wall, there was a picture of his grandfather, his father, his older brother, and a Goryeo direct relatives in a drawing who looks awfully like Baekhyun. Especially around the jaw area.

“Yes. She accepted the fact that she and I couldn’t touch. She almost killed me, the last time she did.” Baekhyun shyly smiled. “Well that’s just unfortunate.” Grandmother commented, before light bulbs light up in her head as she gets a memory of something, “There’s a story just like this.” She said, and stood up. She heads to grandfather’s huge library, three storeys high in this village mansion.

You looked at him, arching an eyebrow. “Might?” Baekhyun flashes you a toothy grin.

From that encounter, you come to him every now and then, giving him plausible ideas that enables you to touch him.

“Gloves?”

He shook his head, “...Your energy is too powerful even with a sheath.” He said one time when you two were at a laundry station.

“Leather suit.” You dinged, passing him a tray at the cafeteria in college, the other day. “Hot,” he freezes and agrees, “But leather is animal skin, anything with a living past has the probability of me fainting.”

Then, in the car, today. “Maybe you should be a tad, stronger.” You hissed. Baekhyun smirks as he flips his pages and you left. “You have no idea how strong I am.” “What’s that?” You popped up next to him and he gasped. “What do you mean by, no idea how ‘strong’ you are,?”

You eyed him accusingly. “Have you...done it?” Baekhyun was aimlessly driving, through the city with you on the front passenger seat. “Haven’t you?” He darted.

“I asked first.” You crossed your arm and glared at the street before you. His grips on the steering wheel tightens as he clears his throat. And then you widened your eyes at him, concluding that he must have done it with someone else before you.

The nerve. So the rumors were true. The rumors your dorm mate has been telling you. That he sleeps around with girls he likes.

He stammered, “What. I know I can’t have sex with you.” His eyes drawn uneasy. “I could touch you right now and kill you with my bare hands, Byun Baekhyun. Don’t test me.” You grumbled.

Baekhyun swallowed his saliva, his Adam’s apple bobbing up and down as you glare at him. “What was I supposed to do…” He sang. “You should have hold it in like a champ.” You shot. Baekhyun gave a lopsided smile. And then it was silence, for awhile. “You know. A good thing came out of this.” Baekhyun commented and you rolled your eyes back. “At least, I know your love is true to me and not bounded by sexual attractions.” There he goes, flaunting his romantic side again. “That way, we’ll always be together despite not being able to be ‘together-together’,” he winked at you as he drives. “I will punch you square in the face if you don’t stop talking.” You hissed.

Twenty minutes had passed and you’ve been on the phone, scrolling, while Baekhyun was growing bored as he drives, accompanied by the radio. “What are you doing, talk to me, I’m bored.” He mewled. You blinked. “Porn.” You darted. Baekhyun slammed on the brakes and you jolted a bit from your seat. Scowling at him, your eyes demanded explanation as to why he did such stupid thing. A young, tall, and attractive men crossed the road and bowed as he got up from the street. Baekhyun got out of the car in a hurry and you followed after. “Are you hurt, should we take you to the hospital?” You panted while Baekhyun growled, “It was already green light, you idiot!”

You looked through this victim’s bangs as he stood up, towering you. He was at least six feet tall. He rubbed the back of his neck, guilt, written all over his beautiful face. “Wow you’re so handsome.” You blurted without thinking, eyes boring into this attractive figure before you. Baekhyun bit his bottom lip, hissing at you. “Eyes over here, sweetie.” Baekhyun grumbled and resumed, “Are you hurt anywhere?” Darting his fiery eyes at this human lamp post. “You got a name?” Baekhyun digging his phone out from the back pocket. “Chanyeol. Park Chanyeol.” He hesitantly smiled. His eyes looked a little tired, and he had a surprisingly low voice compared to his cute appearance. “Chanyeol…” You breathed his name, totally bewitched. Baekhyun snaps his fingers at you.

And you responded by glaring back at him. “I’m sorry.” Chanyeol started, “...I was just being stupid.” He dropped his head down and he sniffs, throwing his head back. He looks upset.

“You want to talk about it?” And when you said this, Baekhyun’s eyes grew larger and his mouth was shaped into an O,  “We’re heading to a cafe…” You continued and Baekhyun tilt his head at you, “It’s nearby…” Baekhyun gasped loudly. “And you’re not invited.” Baekhyun shot at Chanyeol. Pulling him over to the side so the traffic resumes.  

You touched Chanyeol’s arm, rubbing it up and down, to ease him and Baekhyun wants to swat your hands away but because of this stupid no-touch thing going on in your relationship, he could just let the steam off by turning away and yelled, fisting both his hands on each side. “I just need a moment.” Chanyeol softly say. And long story short, he joined your date with Baekhyun. When the waiter came with a menu, he and Baekhyun reached at the same time and Baekhyun saw Chanyeol’s entire life in a flash.

Chanyeol was on a ferry, ready to jump off the back, to the sea down below. An unidentified female telling Chanyeol, that it was over. Then it flashes to Chanyeol kneeling next to a body, a hanging body from the ceiling as he cried uncontrollably. Chanyeol was standing on a busy road, just like the one before, before being ran over by a car. And that was how Chanyeol should have died. Baekhyun repelled from Chanyeol’s hand. He, then passed the menu to you. You touched Chanyeol’s wrist so gently, saying, “The red bean paste here is really good.” And Baekhyun couldn’t shake his envious stares from you. He dug for his phone and starts typing a message to you.

“How could you do this to me.” - Baby Byun. “I am the honorary boyfriend here!” - Baby Byun. “Stop looking at him! Don’t look at him!” - Baby Byun. “The restaurant hallway. Now.” - Baby Byun.

You glared at your noisy phone. “Hold on a sec, my rent is due today this week and this landlord aunty doesn’t leave me alone.” You lied and smiled grimly. You glide your eyes to the side and threw the napkin from your lap to the desk and stood up without looking at Baekhyun. Baekhyun glared at Chanyeol and moved after you. You readily crossed your arm as he approached. “Are you seriously going to be like this.” It was a trick question. You pressed your tongue to your cheek. “You are obviously flirting with him. You’ve never done this before.” He rested his palm next to your ear, on the wall behind you. “That's because, I thought you were a virgin....” You hissed.

Baekhyun snorted, looking away with that awfully gorgeous smile of his, like what am I listening to right now?

“With this face? Seriously?” Baekhyun sounded snobbish. There he is. The Baekhyun you initially knew. The one that’s rude. The one that won’t give you peace. You widened your eyes at him. “I will kill you.” You glared and your words stumble in his head and had him reconsider his life choices. Your thoughts are even scarier than your words. Why in the world is his soulmate, this horrifically attractive. “Whatever you’re doing, I’m not happy about it. I want it to stop.” Baekhyun’s voice stopped being forceful, to being sweet and purposeful. Pleading, even. “Why should I, I’m halfway there.” You shot. Baekhyun’s face contorted. “...I’m doing exactly what you’re thinking right now. I’m doing it. If you can do it with other girls. I can do it with other boys too.” You walked away. Stormed.

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Marketing saves a million lives, the story of Balbir Pasha

Image courtesy: Population Services International (PSI)

Back in 2001, billboards like the one above started popping up in the city of Mumbai. These were accompanied by teasers (videos link below) on radio, television, print, and movie theatres. There was a certain degree of mystery around it. Nobody knew what was being advertised. Strange, isn’t it? It became talk of the town. Everyone wondered who was this guy, Balbir Pasha. More importantly, did he have aids?

Balbir Pasha was part of a bigger mission. Operation Lighthouse. An endeavour by Population Services International (PSI) to curb the spread of HIV/AIDS in India. To put things in perspective, India then had the third largest HIV infected population in the world. A staggering 4 million people were estimated to be victims of the deadly virus. It was another Africa in the making. A grave situation indeed.

Enter PSI. The organisation had done some good work at the grassroots level. Over time they had developed a good reputation for themselves, which helped them to procure a hefty donation from US AID. With this newly acquired arsenal, they took on the mammoth task of containing the epidemic in the making. Lowe Lintas, top ad firm, was roped in to help design the campaign. 

The initiative started with a comprehensive market study to grasp the ground realities better. The revelations were quite interesting. 

HIV was predominantly spread among men from the lower socio-economic strata of the society. Their age group ranged between 18-40. The victims primarily comprised of truck drivers or migrant workers, people who worked in cities away from their homes and families. These men contracted the deadly virus while frequenting brothels in major ports like Mumbai, Chennai, Kochi, etc.

Image courtesy: PSI non-regular partner audio visual (Yes, that is Nawazuddin Siddiqui)

The study also unearthed brilliant insights about the group’s attitudes and behaviours. Especially, the misconceptions they had about HIV. To being with, they highly underestimated their exposure to the virus. The group admitted that the commercial sex workers (CSW) they visited had high exposure to HIV. However, for some reason they felt they were in a safer situation, regardless of not using protection. Quite absurd. Second, they believed that it was safe to indulge in unprotected sex with their regulars, especially if they appeared to be healthy in appearance. Finally, they felt it was okay to sometimes not use a condom while having sex when one was inebriated. Irresponsible behaviour under the influence of alcohol seemed pardonable. 

The group also refused to seek information or take counselling for aids. There were practical issues (work hours, resources) and social constraints (confidentiality, fear, overconfidence) that led to this behaviour. The cumulative effect was ignorance. Ignorance they would later pay for with their lives.

The study also revealed a few other segments affected by the disease, viz. LGBT community, injected drugs users, individuals with multiple partners, etc. Lintas chose to leave them for a later day. They wanted to tackle the biggest segment and have focussed targeting. Pareto (80/20) principle at work.

Great call. 

With strong research to back their strategy, the team launched a pilot in Mumbai. The entire campaign came out in 5 phases. Each spanning three weeks. 

Phase 1 was all about building the hype. Teasers were blasted across channels and Balbir Pasha became a household name. Almost a popular gossip. Everybody eagerly waited for the follow up.

Phase 2 kicked off on December 1, World Aids Day. The ad spoke about how irresponsible behaviour under the influence of alcohol could lead to aids (link below). This was followed by Phase 3 & 4 that highlighted misconceptions of not contracting HIV by having sex with regular and healthy looking commercial sex workers. Phase 5 closed with promotion of HIV/AIDS helpline that was pitched as free, confidential, and available at convenient hours of the day.

Image courtesy: PSI non-regular partner print ad

Image courtesy: PSI healthy looking audio visual

At this stage, I would highly recommend going through all the audio visuals. They are of 30 seconds each.

Balbir Pasha audio visuals:

Teaser 1

Teaser 2

Alcohol

Non-regular partner

Healthy looking partner

Three things are noteworthy here. First, Lintas was careful in selecting media for the campaigns. They advertised in vernacular papers, B and C grade cinema halls, local trains, and hoardings around red light area among other things. Everywhere their target audience had eyeballs. Spot on. Second and more importantly, the ads were not preachy. Balbir Pasha was positioned as the prospective aids victim, not the viewers. However, the audience would learn how to prevent themselves from contracting the disease through observing this fictitious character’s behaviour. Social learning at play. Finally, the language and characters used were relatable. The positioning could not have been better.

Image courtesy: Amul Butter

No guesses on the outcome. It was an overwhelming success. It shook the target audience to the core. People realized that they could no longer be complacent about HIV. There was a threefold increase in condom sales around red light areas. Over a third interviewed stated that one should not engage in sexual intercourse with non-regular partners without a condom. Increased proportion of those who feel at high risk of HIV from unprotected sex with a non-commercial partner, from 17 per cent to 43 per cent. There was a spike in the people who contacted the helpline. The stats can go on forever, pretty much all saying positive things. Best part is, even Amul came up with a billboard for the campaign.

Like everything, there were some strong detractors. Few felt that HIV victims were not inclusively represented in the advertisements (LGBT, etc.). Some complained that the ads were too frank and crude. They brought the bedroom to the living room. Women rights NGOs pointed out that women (especially CSWs) were wrongly portrayed as the primary perpetrator of the disease. 

The agency tried to take these points into account in the sequel for the campaign. It bombed. There could be several reasons, but lack of focus was stated as the main cause of failure. Having said that, the overall impact was phenomenal.

India had a little over 2 million people suffering from aids at the end of 2016. The number almost halved in the past one and a half decades. While credit goes to a lot of organisations working in tandem, one must give due credit to PSI and Lowe Lintas. It was one of the instances where a great marketing initiative saved millions of lives.  

Hope the anti-tobacco campaign guys are listening.

PS: For a detailed account, please refer to the NSMC Case in the sources.

Sources:

1. “Will Balbir Pasha Get AIDS?”, NSMC Show Case: https://goo.gl/Yvk3gz

2. “2.1 million HIV cases in India, 50% drop in new infections in past decade: UNAIDS report”, Economic Times (Jul, 2017): https://goo.gl/sUdXCw

3. “70 years of Indian advertising”, Mint (Aug, 2017): https://goo.gl/p2oyHT

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7 Powerful Ways to Reduce Your Retirement Expenses

With retirement fast approaching, it’s time to take stock of your future. By that, I mean you need to consider cutting the costs of retirement.

Retirement expenses can be significant, and they can quickly eat through your nest egg, leaving you in an untenable financial situation during what is supposed to be the best time of your life.

Thankfully, there are several ways that you can reduce your retirement expenses.

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Cut Your Retirement Expenses with Smart Investments

Your retirement comfort hinges on making the right investments ahead of time, but you’ll find that managing your investments can be pretty costly, particularly if you’re using a professional management firm. It might be better to take a more hands-on approach.

Robo-advisors cost a fraction of a human financial advisor and allow you to control your investment decisions yourself.

According to Wendy Connick, writing for The Motley Fool, “If you have a standard, non-retirement brokerage account, you may have fees from the brokerage firm as well as from the investments themselves.” Cutting those costs now can save you a lot of money over time.

I would also highly recommend bond laddering as one of the best investment options for your retirement planning. Creating a bond ladder ensures that you have a stream of income that will arrive at known intervals, which allows you to plan for your financial future with security and peace of mind.

Think about Your Home Now, Not Later

The single largest expense most retirees face in their golden years is their home. Many find that they want to downsize once their kids grow up and move out, but they don’t make that move until after they’ve retired.

That’s a mistake and one that can cost you a lot in retirement expenses. Likewise, if you intend to stay in your home after you retire, take the time now to get it ready for your future needs.

If you think you’re going to downsize eventually, make that move before you retire (as long as your family situation will allow it, of course).

Writing for Money magazine, Donna Rosato explains that, “By age 85, two-thirds of people have some type of disability. If you can’t get around your house or community or you don’t have easy access to the medical and social services you need, you could land in a costly nursing home prematurely.”

Put your bedroom on the first floor, invest in wider doorways, and make sure entrances are covered so you don’t slip when going in and out of the house.

Consider Having Just One Vehicle

Once you retire, you and your spouse will be spending a great deal more time together. It might be a great time to cut your retirement expenses by selling one of your vehicles.

Most families today have at least two cars, but if you’re going everywhere together, do you really need two? Selling one now can help you cut your monthly costs by hundreds of dollars in some cases.

It will also help you save on insurance costs, as well, and you won’t need to pay for oil changes, new tires or repairs, either.

Apply for Medicare Once You’re Over 65

Sure, you have your own health insurance. That’s important.

However, by applying for Medicare after you retire and pass the age of 65, you could dramatically reduce the costs of one of your highest expenses – your healthcare.

Plus, you’ll be able to pay more medical bills in full between your insurance provider and Medicare.

Pay Less in Taxes

While your 401(k) account might not be taxed until you withdraw the money, there are other forms of income that are taxed every single year.

Taxable accounts should be spent first in order to minimize the amount of money you owe the government every year. By minimizing your taxes, you further limit your retirement expenses while ensuring that your non-taxable accounts have more time for growth that will tide you over in the future.

Leave non-taxable accounts alone as long as possible, while still taking the mandatory disbursements.

Make the Most of Your Social Security Payments

It can be tempting to start drawing Social Security as soon as you’re eligible, which is age 62. However, there’s a lot of good to be seen by waiting until you reach full retirement age (currently 66).

If you choose to take those payments early, you could lose up to 30% of your money.

By waiting until you reach the full retirement age (as defined by the Social Security Administration), you ensure that you’re getting 100% of your money each month, rather than sacrificing it to the government in the name of earlier payments.

Get Moving

My final tip is this – if you live in an expensive city, move. Get out. While some states offer a great environment for retirees, others do not.

Look for an area where there is no sales tax, or that does not charge seniors property tax.

Other perks include not taxing government pensions, or not charging seniors income tax. Some of the best states in the country for seniors include Delaware, Georgia, New Hampshire and Pennsylvania.

Of course, you’ll need to balance the potential financial savings with your comfort and ability to get around. For instance, relocating to somewhere with prolonged cold weather might not be a good idea if you suffer from severe arthritis.

Follow these seven tips and you should be able to reduce your retirement expenses significantly.Some of these can be acted on right now, before you reach retirement age. Others will require careful scrutiny of your needs after you retire.

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