#hhhhhhhh ;w;

[mobolanz]

The manga one is so gd cute

[morningsaidthemoon]

Today on: things I am hoping for

[etchy-a-sketchy]

On my HANDS and KNEES please someone tell me theyve seen and enjoyed Mune ;w; (if u haven’t seen if I highly recommend the movie 👀

(Click for quality)

[siphisket]

Skirt Toge made a special appearance while drawing online with friends!

I ended up really liking how it turned out so I cleaned it up a bit, keeping on theme with the funky colors my friend drew behind him lol

[kate-m-art]

I get it now, I get the hype, sassy vampire man beloved andjfkmsm

[gregoftom]

piece based on/inspired by @gemsofthegalaxy’s fic, behind closed doors. go read it! gentle loving handies to each other while crying a littol bc they be like that first time ❤️

full vers is on my twitter, baraag and ao3, all 18+ ofc.

[akhaste]

Lee Yoon - Song of the Bandits Sketchs/ Studies 1920's & 1890's

Bonus: 1920's, but without the 'stache

[angelsaxis]

i revisited this article that states this:

Text:

"Different Name, Same Dynamic

What Nicole describes is a classic pattern of domestic abuse, one that is often associated with a male abuser and his female victim. But intimate partner violence (IPV) happens in same-sex relationships, too, and — like in heterosexual relationships — the abuse is categorized by a pattern of behavior in which one partner seeks to gain power and control over the other. A 2013 report from the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP) found that lesbian women are more likely to experience physical violence from a partner — and they accounted for 19% of IPV homicide victims. (This is a staggering proportion considering that only 1.5% of women in the U.S. self-identify as lesbian and 0.9% as bisexual.)"

And bases the entire article, which talks about IPV in wlw relationships, off this source. The articles main point is to talk about how women are can and do abuse other women in relationships.

And maybe I'm misreading something but this cited source does not actually talk about lesbians or queer women in general as perpetrators of either IPV or IPV resulting in homicide...like at all. "Lesbian women are more likely to experience physical violence from a partner" does not mean "Lesbian women are more likely to abuse their (presumably women) partners". You can't make that kind of logical leap. Why?

Because closeted lesbians date men. And those men abuse them. Bisexual women date men. And those men abuse them. Queer women date men, and those men abuse them.

I searched the study the article cites to see where this particular statistic could be. I found:

Hate violence survivor and victim demographics. Lesbians make up 19% of hate violence survivors and victims. This says nothing about being perpetrators, yet the entire article is about women as abusers.

There's another section in the study that does talk about perpetrators/offenders demographics, and these are the categories it covers: gender identity, racial and ethnic ID, age, total number of offenders, relationships (as in, landlords, family, coworker or employer, etc), and site. Not sexuality (which I was honestly surprised at).

People often say lesbians are the biggest abusers of the LGBT+ community, and then they use that to justify being lesbophobic and misogynistic, but that 19% statistic doesn't remotely support this claim.

I did some Googling and can't seem to find anything supporting the claim that lesbians are perpetrators of IPV more than any other gender + sexuality combo. This isn't to say lesbians never abuse or are never abused, but....there's just no numbers to support the claim. The one thing I can find is that according to the CDC, about two thirds of lesbians surveyed reported only having female perpetrators against them. Note that "female" does not denote a sexuality. Also note that the overwhelming majority of bisexual women are victims of IPV from male partners.

Reading this reddit thread also brings to light some other issues with the idea that lesbians are the biggest perpetrators of abuse in their relationships. They cite a CDC survey, I believe.

I'm just endlessly frustrated by this idea that lesbians are uniquely violent in the LGBT+ community. I'm too tired to get into why this belief sucks, or why people are even willing to believe such an unfounded stat in the first place. It's obvious.

[falsenote]

these delon movies that keep turning out to be gay.... it's not what the community deserved nor is it what it needed but it's what we have regardless

[bulbabutt]

[rivalmelty]

oh my sons my boys

[moonchildstyles]

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[vicaricon]

You can run You can run You can run I don't mind I don't mind I don't mind TRUTH gonna come out, someday IT'S gonna wipe that s m i l e right off your face But you can run You can run

You can run

ind. pri. semi-sel. transformers oc multimuse as constructed by trauma please read rules before following

muses &&. rules || permanent starter call

[bunnyhopkins]

I'm going to the beach this weekend...... thank god......... sometimes you run away in the middle of the week and then need to run away again.....

[serkonans]

truly the only thing stopping me from getting on dating apps at this point is I don't have pictures of me and I don't know what I should do about that

[archondorian]