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The Importance of Solitude in a Complicated and Chaotic World
Note on the text: I used Henri Nouwenâs Clowning in Rome: Reflections on Solitude, Celibacy, Prayer, and Contemplation as published in 2000 by Doubleday
The world is a complicated place and any theology that does not recognize that, much less any theology that attempts to dumb it down into overly simplistic categories isnât doing us any favors. Which is why I love the way Nouwen talks about the need for solitude in a beautiful, yet complicated and chaotic world. Because he doesnât mean that we need to run from that crazy world, but that living in that beautifully chaotic world to the best of our abilities means creating a space in our lives for solitude.
Nouwen lived in Rome for many years, and the reflections in this book sprang from the observations he had while living there:
When we look out over the city of Rome, walk in its streets or ride its buses, we quickly realize that it is a crowded city full of [people]. . . . We see men and women moving quickly in all directions, we hear [both] joyful and angry voices mixed with a great variety of street sounds. . . . It is a busy, congested city in which life manifests itself with all its boisterous intensity (35-36).
So he knows how beautifully chaotic life can be and itâs from this vantage point that he writes about solitude
âSolitude is the place where we find our identityâ (19). Solitude is something that we all desperately need and not in a way that deliberately separates us from other people. We need each other, we need community. We need to have fulfilling and powerful relationships of all types with each other. And itâs because of that need for enriching and truly authentic relationships that we need solitude.
For Nouwen solitude is simply the space where an individual can discover who he or she is without any outside pressure. This is important because the more that a person is able to really understand and embrace who they are, the more that they will be able to engage in those fulfilling, soul enriching relationships that they are yearning for.
When a person doesnât have a strong sense of self, itâs easy for them to get sucked into all sorts of toxic relationships and even punch unnecessary holes into otherwise healthy ones, and make otherwise healthy and stable relationships unstable âaccording to moods, personal attractions, and mutual [incompatibilities]â (14).
Solitude however gives a platform through which we can get to know ourselves better and therefore create more stable relationships with others. Without solitude
we begin to worry about what we think and feel about each other, we quickly become suspicious of each other or irritated with each other, and we begin, often in unconscious ways, to scrutinize each other with a tiring hypersensitivity. Without solitude shallow conflicts easily grow deep and become painful wounds. . . . With solitude we are protected against the harmful effects of mutual suspicions, and our words and actions become more joyful expressions of an already existing trust rather than a subtle way of asking for proof of trustworthiness (15).
When I really know myself and can therefore be more fully myself then I donât need you to tell me who I am or somehow validate who I am. Which means that we can simply to have a fully authentic relationship where I can both love you as the person that I am and be loved by you as the person that I am. That is how the most incredible and fulfilling relationships of all types are born, and that doesnât happen if I donât give myself the space, which, again, is all Nouwen means by the word âsolitudeâ, to really discover and embrace who I am. Which is why it is so vitally important for all of us, in whatever way we can, to create some space in our life for âsolitudeâ. Itâs not so that we can run from the world and the people in it, but so that we might be able to embrace the world more fully and in a more authentic way.
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âWhile realizing that ten years ago I didnât have the faintest idea that I would end up where I am now, I still like to keep up the illusion that I am in control of my own life. I like to decide what I most need, what I will do next, what I want to accomplish, and how others will think of me. While being so busy running my own life, I become oblivious to the gentle movements of the Spirit of God within me, pointing me in directions quite different from my own.
It requires a lot of inner solitude and silence to become aware of these divine movements. God does not shout, scream, or push. The Spirit of God is soft and gentle like a small voice or a light breeze. It is the Spirit of Love.â ~ Henri Nouwen
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Lenten Thoughts - 8 April - "Praying means ..."
Lenten Thoughts â 8 April â âPraying means âŚâ
Lenten Thoughts â 8 April â Monday of the Fifth week of Lent, Year C
âPraying means giving up your false security, no longer looking for arguments that will protect you if you get pushed into a corner and no longer setting our hope on a couple of lighter moments which your life might still offer. To pray, means to stop expecting from God, the same small-mindedness, you discover in yourself. ToâŚ
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In solitude YOU discover that YOUR life is not a possession to be defended, but a GIFT to be SHARED. #henrinouwen #discover #solitude #life #gift #share #dwowddailyinspo #dwowdfam #bethankful #begrateful #beblessed #takecareofyallselves #coach_dinelle #coachdinelle @coach_dinelle (at Bronx NY , 10473) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmwN1t1L7x1/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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Entering the Dayspring house late one afternoon I came upon Henri drinking coffee and in tears. âWhat happened?â I asked anxiously.
âOh, I had a bump today that upset me more than usual,â he answered dejectedly. âThis morning, as I always do, I was rushing to get to the Council Meeting, and Dan stopped me and wanted to speak to me. I guess I was preoccupied because I quickly said I couldnât see him. A few minutes ago he telephoned and gave me a piece of his mind. He was angry and he said that I preached beautiful theories about the Christian life that I never lived up to, and that I, supposedly a man of prayer, was selfish and rude. His remarks caught me off guard. They were hurtful, especially because they were true.â Henri and I talked for a while and later, as he prepared to leave, he said something that stayed with me and consoled me. âI wonder,â he pondered, âif Dan ever considered what I would be life if I wasnât a man of prayer?â
-Â âThe Only Necessary Thing,â forward by Wendy Wilson Greer
This forward hit me in a deep place of my soul. Havenât figured out why, but it resonates in a place I have not yet ventured.
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"Forgiveness changes the way we remember." -Henri Nouwen -- #CreatorForNextGen #Creator4NextGen #TheologiSeru #KristenCerdasIman #QOTD #ReminderToMyself #NoteToMyself #HenriNouwen #Pengampunan (at Kebon Jeruk) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGldzQmhAES/?igshid=1wa3kvfav7iww
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. #HenriNouwen #quote #meditation #awareness #joy #happy #sinaia #peles #lifeasanart #life #reflection #beauty (la Castelul PeleĹ, Sinaia)
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Ministry is the least important thing. Â You cannot not minister if you are in communion with God. Â A lot of people are always concerned about: âHow can I help people? Â Or help the youth come to Christ? Â Or preach well?â Â But these are all basically non-issues. Â If you are burning with the love of Jesus, donât worryâeveryone will know. Â They will say, âI want to get close to this person who is so full of God.â
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