#he is never not nurturing
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boiling hot take but i simply don’t think suguru punishes you ever
#just about the only thing you can do to make him /angry/ is to endanger yourself#and even then it stems from worry#he’s just not rough with you !!!!!!!!!!#if u need him to discipline you a little he will but like#it would be because you need it and he knows you need it .#he is never not nurturing#ari noises ✩
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its sonics turn! 👅
#sonadow#shadow takes his job very seriously#do not test a guy who has a 20 step skincare routine#sonic is definitely a scruffy little thing who damn near never brushes himself#shadow will make sure!!! that he is left shiny and smelling like freshly ironed laundry instead of dirt#idk there is something so....cute about this that i have never thought about before and i think shadow despite being a hybrid is#much better at doing things like this and less bashful compared to sonic who is just a stinky guy by default#he would be grumpy but very nurturing. i think it would give him a sense of calm to bond like this#sonics of course a little taken aback at his enthusiasm but its a pleasantly welcome surprise from someone like shadow esp#idk what level the relation between them would have to have progressed to for sth like this to even happen but yknow#simply. when he licc. it makes my heart melt#i almost cried drawing this.....i love shadow....#almost forgot to tag#sonic the hedgehog#shadow the hedgehog#my art
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you are all I have, you are the eyes that see, the air that breathes, how can I worship anything else?
#john design is never going to be consistant he's an eldrich being ok? ok#malevolent#malevolent podcast#john#john doe#john malevolent#arthur#arthur lester#arthur malevolent#jarthur#private eyes#i guess#but itsITS MORE NUANCED THAN THAT OKAY#im havbing feelings about eldrich gods and worship and weird fucked up intimacy and love and friendship#and how can a god who has only been worshipped express that love in turn#how can something that was never raised or nurtured or loved born into a world of chaos with innate bloodlust ever progress if it is#not forgiven#how can a person adjust and live on if they are not allowed the space and decency to grow as such john failed yellow#HOW can you learn to move forwards. you must move forwards#anyway I <3 toxic codependency (in media) ok? ok
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"You will always be my Master."
#obikin#obi wan kenobi#anakin skywalker#sw art#star wars#oh.art#Anakin is never giving up the claim on his Master. Not even after his knighting. He's not letting /his/ Master escape. Ever.#And Obi-Wan does not fail to nurture the guilt and shame he carries inside of him. It blooms each and every time he yields to his Padawan.#And now to his Knight. Anakin is right‚ nothing changes.#...#alriiight let's see if tumblr still forbids me from the tags
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it's hell on earth to be heavenly them's the breaks, they don't come gently
#daniel ricciardo#dr3#went on a hike the sunday after the official announcement and listened to this song on repeat for probably 3 of the 8 miles#POV: me in the middle of the woods telling myself to get it together#while crying about a 35 year old millionaire before I end up passing someone on the trail and they call the police on me#so song is about how female stars are treated overtime and when they first arrive they're praised for being authentic and refreshin#but once the shine wears off and they're a little older and reveal imperfections or they struggle they become a target for ridicule#and then they're discarded for the next new thing in town and the cycle keeps repeating itself forever#which to me so closely mirrors daniel's trajectory in F1 in the eyes of the media#but also when you take the lyrics at face value they are just so daniel...#the f1 ecosystem and more specifically the redbull “family” are fake as hell#and yet daniel is one of their most genuine products who actually can't be easily reproduced (but by god they'll try)#he showed a great deal of promise despite coming from a place that really never should've produced a successful f1 driver#because the cards were stacked against him and nobody really thought he would make it#but he did and he gave us 13 brilliant years (and he has SO much more to give and do and succeed at and he will)#but the wheel of time keeps spinning and the cycle continues for the next shiny new toy that they can nurture and then destroy#anyway i'm not totally in love with these gifs but I need to be done w/them and I had to exorcise this demon that was making me sad
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brought myself to tears thinking about luo binghe and his loneliness. during all the worst times of his life, he was alone. when his mother died, he had no one. when he was being abused on qing jing, he had ning yingying but there wasn't much she could do for him. in the abyss, he was alone. when he was grieving sqq for five years, he had subordinates but he didn't have anyone to hold him and comfort him
and it's that loneliness and isolation that xin mo capitalizes on. those feelings of loneliness and isolation make his self esteem worse and his emotional state more unstable, because deep down is a miserable and lonely child that wants to be held and comforted and love
luckily for him, all shen qingqiu wants is to hold him and comfort him and make him feel loved! I think post-canon, they'll spend a long time confronting those wounds left by loneliness, except now instead of having to bear it alone, sqq will be there to hold him in his arms and tell him I'm sorry you were hurting, I'm sorry you were alone, you never should have gone through that. and there's the promise that he won't ever have to be alone again because that's the promise sqq made to him. from now on, wherever binghe goes, shen qingqiu will follow
#svsss#bingqiu#AUGH!!#coughs up blood. i feel normal about them.#i think maybe this is on my mind bc me and my therapist have been talking about loneliness and nurturing your inner child#BUT NEVER MIND THAT. let's focus on luo binghe here#i think there's also something to be said about how those worst moments in his life were made worse#by the people who should've been comforting him. whether intentionally or not#his mother was the only person who loved him in his life and then she died#ning yingying liked him and was sweet to him and she was probably the only bright spot on qing jing to him#but she also inadvertently made his abuse worse at times#after transmigrating sqq was a huge source of comfort and love and security for him#only for that to be completely ripped away when sqq pushed him into the abyss#and then later grieving sqq's death because sqq killed himself in binghe's arms and explicitly said it was for binghe's sake#no wonder binghe's emotional state is all fucked!#but i believe in bingqiu's ability to heal those wounds post-canon#binghe is so hungry for comfort#and since DAY ONE sqq has wanted to provide that comfort#it was always just outside circumstances that made it difficult for him to provide#but now those outside circumstances are gone. he can cradle binghe in his arms and pet his hair and tell him he's loved as often as he want#my meta
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Talking about mommy issues... I'm not a 100% fan of Jack as the destiel son BUT it's important to me that going there means acknowleding that "archetypically" speaking Dean is The Mother while Cas is The Father*. And this isn't just because, when Sam accuses Dean of acting like their father, he replies with a Freudian slip if I've ever heard one ("I'm not his mother"), it's also why Chuck's myth-retelling doesn't work (Abraham is totally Cas and he and Jack subverted that myth) 'cause first he doesn't understand Dean and second he's not an astute storyteller and doesn't realize his story was already subverting the myth he wanted to re-enact. Therefore he should've created a situation where Jack (The Son) was forced to kill Cas (The Father) if he wanted to provoke Dean, this was Jack's original sin according to Dean, come on Chuck, it's been 14 seasons, everybody already knew Dean was not gonna kill Jack. He's totally fine with caging and entrapping his putative sons but he draws a line at killing them (insert that meme from Community). (I mean, I know Chuck wants Dean to do his bidding but after 14 years he had to get a little more creative than that. Maybe he should've listened to his editor Metatron, just saying. "maybe less about detail and more about balance") ((hello Becky and Metatron parallel)).
It would have also meant that Jack's story would've gone back to its genesis + the long tail of dead parental figures (not only Kelly and Cas but Nick/Lucifer and Mary and whoever else I'm forgetting lol).
By the end of s14 there is a short-circuits of symbols so it all had to go tits up, hence the rising of the dead etc. etc.
*This doesn't mean they are the Good Mother and the Good Father as they're clearly not but these are the primordial energies that they both channel to Jack. Also, obvs patriarchy in SPN is very much alive and well as demonstrated by the fact that the Good Mother and the Good Father are only the Dead Mother and the Dead Father and unfortunately for Jack this is what he got when he was born. He's not even born and he already lives in an ideal world with ideal figures compared to whom he'll always fall short.
Also, Jack's got the power to wake up from the Empty his putative father because his Mother (Dean) is grieving his death and he wants to please him: Jack is a total mama's boy.
#chuck coercing dean into the role of The Father is part of the reason why his story has never worked#this doesn't mean that dean doesn't uphold patriarchal values cause he clearly does#nurturing and caring are nice traits but they can also be unhealthy#it's quite telling that in the show about absent fathers dean never leaves and when he does is to follow other father-figures#and that is number one issue with cas is him leaving#which could mean nothing#supernatural#spn#castiel#dean winchester#jack kline#chuck shurley#spn s14#super-m/Others
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I just realized I never posted these which gives me an opportunity to update Pico's design a little anyway. Yippeeee
#👻#my art#waiting for a wildfire au#wildfire!pico#wildfire!bf#someone asked about the naming scheme. i just didnt wnt it be generically called roleswap auNDKSJ#and piconell/bfgf roleswap au was too clunky to like. shorten#so i just started calling it the working title for the fic ill never write#wildfires are natural disasters but theyre also necessary to kill off old life so the next generation can grow#similar to funkycule it has a very. nurture over nature message. and is about how these kids deal with#becoming adults under the scrutiny of shitty adults#and darnell and gf are both arsonists. so. DHWJDJWJE#also yes pico is wearing one of darnell's old hoodies he is gayyyyyy
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one of the good changes from episode one is the way the lead-up to their flight to camp is used also as a way to explore what grover's been through, how terrified he is of 'screwing up' a mission again, how much he kind of hates his job. because he befriends these kids, he's really just a kid himself, still, and then he has to lie to them and push them away for the mission as a whole, and aryan sells how much he just hates it. how convinced he is that getting only one of and not both of the people whose safety he's entrusted with to camp IS 'failure' and not 'as much success as could be expected, under the circumstances'. he's got this anxiety that stems from feeling older than and having more responsibility expected of him than the children he meets, befriends, and guides to camp, but he's not really older, not emotionally, not in terms of anything except raw years, which doesn't really mean as much as he thinks it does when, for instance, he was also seven for twice as long as a human boy. but he's surrounded by not just humans, but human hybrids who die super young, so that is the time scale he thinks on, and he DOES feel older and he does feel a responsibility! in the book he's basically out of the picture for this sequence, so i really enjoyed getting to see some stuff geared towards his past and his goals and his issues . hi sweetheart i always loved you and you're going to find a god who's spent thousands of years hiding from everyone but you, because you care about him more than anyone else ever, ever has, and when he dies you're gonna put what's left of his soul in your heart and i love you so much
#like mister kind of always about to cry and everyone can tell. did you know you're the only person your god wants to talk to#do you even know that yet#like his anxiety is always about his duty of care. towards his friends towards his community towards his faith#and he never feels like he can measure up because he's not a tough guy or a wily guy. he's just DEEPLY resoundingly nurturing#and he lives in adhd greek warrior town where everyone is FAST and BRAWWW so he thinks this is the wrong thing to be#and then he gets anxiety about his anxiety#etc. can you tell i always really related a lot to him#pjo
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THOUGHTS ON HAPEPHOBIA (fear of touch) READER??
GOJO SATORU .
because of his own unique relationship with touch, i think he’d be a perfect fit for this kind of reader <333 gojo may have a craving for it, but also a deeply rooted fear; his infinity is a soothing blanket that shields him from the world, and i think he’s a lot more dependent on it than he lets on. so, more than anything, he’d be extremely understanding of your fear!!! he doesn’t push for a reason, doesn’t tease you (he does. but just a little. never more than what you’re entirely comfortable with!), just accepts it and moves on. makes sure to never, ever touch you, or make you feel unsafe in his presence. he’s very observant and attentive in general so i think he’d be a great partner for someone with haphephobia <3
and again; gojo gets it!!! touch can be terrifying!!!! so it’s probably a great relief for him too. i think he struggles with intimate touches immensely, in the beginning of a relationship. if the touching isn’t entirely casual or entirely on his terms, it feels so foreign and unconquerable. you show each other that affection and trust can be shown in ways other than physical contact, that it doesn’t change how much you care for one another.
i do also wanna add that if you ever feel comfortable starting a treatment plan for your phobia, he’s with you every step of the way :3 walks you to your appointments and even joins you if you need him to, he’ll also be more than willing to help out if you decide on some form of exposure therapy. just working on making you feel safe, slowly building you up towards even a single tender touch. you can tell that he’s a little scared, too, even if he really doesn’t show it — and i think that helps.
buuuut either way, he loves you and accepts you for who you are <333 no matter what. he’ll be right by your side, just grazing the back of your shirt with his fingers so that his infinity extends to you, and you can walk around with no fear of being touched.
#gojo satoru and his inherent desire to nurture you and watch you grow#he really is so…..#yeah.#he’d be a great fit for an s/o with any kind of phobia i think….#the only downside is he might tease you but like#i don’t think he ever pushes it.#i remember writing a selfshippy little fic when i first got into the fandom where he upsets a reader who’s terrified of snakes#by hiding . a plastic snake in their room 💀#and that was just for self-indulgent purposes lmao bc i really think . gojo has a solid sense of where the line of your comfort goes#he’d never ever cross it#but aaaaa this concept is great anon…. thank you for letting me ramble abt it!!!!#ask tag ✩#gojo x reader
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just a doodle but i missed drawing him :(
#the vampire armand#ironically#he makes me think of the sun a lot#so bright but lonely#always a degree of separation out of their control from the people they nurture and love#always an angel never a got type beat#vampire chronicles#tvc#iwtv#interview with the vampire#amc
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Marigold: *ankle dislocating sending him to the ground hard* Ugh-
Bass: *halts and immediately turns to scoop him up, speaking softly to him like he would to any of the Falmer in his care* Shhh it’s alright I’m coming-
Taliesin: *skids to his knees before bass can reach him* where does it hurt? What happened?
Marigold: *more embarrassed than he is hurt* m-my ankle, it’s out again…
Taliesin: *nods and wraps a cloth around berwhale before handing it to him* bite.
Marigold: *nods and takes it, biting down hard as Taliesin pops his foot back into place* Mnnnmphh-ghhh- *spits it out* thank you…
Taliesin: *takes it back before scooping him up* don’t mention it. *starts walking*
Bass: I- I can carry him for you?? My armour is fitted with a means of transporting those smaller than me.
Taliesin: hm? Oh no no, I got him. *smiles and waltzes off ahead*
Evalien: *smiles up at Bass* We’ve all offered, even Nayir. Only Taliesins allowed to carry his Marigold.
Bass: *smiles with a deep sadness behind his eyes* Hm, like me with my Rosemarin…
#his Rosemary#he never thought he’d love again until he met Valerica#he sees Eva as his daughter after losing his wife and unborn child#he’s got such a nurturing heart#bass Dragonborn#Evalien Dragonborn#marigold Dragonborn#skyrim taliesin
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thinking of bailey!kiara in that s2 episode where jj and kiara had to take a detour to get luke out of kildare and her conversation with luke
#kiara is so against driving him anywhere but she knows the only way luke’s hold on jj will cease is if he’s gone#when jj goes inside that gas station to get him bait and snacks he starts his mind games#talking about her she’s just like her mom slumming it with the bad boys she pays him no mind until he says jj’s just like him and is doomed#he says her mother isn’t as nurturing and clean as she thinks#he talks about her short time living with them that she can’t remember and how he never wanted her and she made things worse for him and jj#kiara maybank carrera#bailey bass as kiara#thinking thoughts💭
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family sentai big brothers - an observation
#fiveman#magiranger#gogov#gaku - thoughtful/placid/beloved aniki#makito - romantic/nurturing/beloved aniki#matoi - bastard#i kid lmao i fucking love matoi so much this is a matoi stan account my boy has done nothing wrong in his life ever#ANYWAY#i have so many feelings about these boys its not funny#gaku lost both his parents but he always had arthur#he shouldered a lot of the emotional burden but he was never “left to raise his siblings”#makito lost his dad young and became “the man of the house” but again - he always had his mum#he never had to be 'dad' - at least not until he was already an adult#BUT MATOI#matoi's parents left. they left and he didnt know if or when either of them were going to come back.#so to deal with it he held on to the family he has left and he holds on too tight and he suffocates them but he's doing his fucking BEST#i will defend matoi until the day i die tbh#2023 art tag
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Twist villain!Shanks
Think about it.
hellooo i have thought about it 'cuz ive seen the idea floating around and sorry, i dont like it. 😭🙏 or rather, the idea of a villain shanks is fun in theory but if it's actually canon then i dont think it will pay off very well lol especially 'cuz he's the very first pirate we meet and it's been over twenty years. i would certainly be tilted.
idk how oda could write it in such a way that i wouldn't be mad aha, tho i'm sure if anyone could pull it off it'd be him. (and i mean villain!shanks as in "was always a villain", not "has to do antagonistic things but his heart is in the right place".)
i will say, however, that there is something delicious about possessive shanks, especially if it leans a little dark. like, he's a smiley pacifist right up until you harm someone that's his, and then it's game over for you and your friends and your livelihood. he's already like that in canon, but i mean like, it's to the point where his revenge gets a little cruel and he enjoys paying you back for the harm you caused.
i like attributing this to him 'cuz if he's dating mihawk, known serial murderer (of marines, if not also underwhelming challengers and entire crews of people that annoy him), then his "let's not kill people if we don't have to" thing could be more of an intellectual ethical choice for him rather than an emotional one. and once you've crossed that line for him by grievously harming or maybe even somehow killing mihawk, then it's over for you and you bet he'll enjoy it. (tho nine out of ten times i write him as a bleeding heart and mihawk is fond and exasperated by it haha.)
but yeah. i digress. 😅 it's a fun concept and i'll probably read the fic if it's mishanks and mihawk isn't his victim in a way that ends unhappily, but ultimately, the most i prefer is shanks with a dark streak.
if anyone's gotten to the end of this ask and adores twist villain shanks, feel free to try and convince me in the replies. maybe i'm just thinking about it the wrong way, and i'm open to ideas. ;P
#thanks for the ask!#rei replies#akagami no shanks#shanks#red haired shanks#mishanks#akataka#now i was also thinking: what if shanks never ends up in that treasure chest and he grows up as a celestial dragon?#nature vs nurture and whatever#but even in those au's i imagine he wouldnt exactly *enjoy* killing and he'd be pretty easy to convince his side's not the ''good'' one#like. even if he was conditioned to believe he was better than literally everyone else i'd want him to be still be smart and sword-savvy#which lands toward being intelligent enough to see the merit of ditching his own side.#probably he would see treat ''lesser'' people more like cattle? but he'd see the merit of being a good farmer. that kind of thinking.#in a short form fic yeah he can just be a straight up evil celestial dragon but i think i'd find it one note.#then again there are some very good fic writers out there...#what im saying is that it's not my thing and it doesnt tickle my brain rn but if it's a mishanks fic i'll give it a chance anyways.#i'd just be happy more fics would exist.
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i love it when bubbly anime girls r actually really emotionally repressed and good at keeping people from getting too close to them its enrichment to me so u Know when i catch the slightest hint of that it Will be my focus with them
#maya amano. aerith gainsborough. ayano tateyama. akane kurashiki OBVIOUSLYYY#junah… welcome to the club babe#my favorite thing abt aerith is that everyone makes her out to he this nurturing maternal loving figure#and she is loving. yes. but shes also so bad with other peoples emotions over and over again in the og game#and sooo good at refusing to actually open up to u.#i think the most vulnerable she ever is with cloud is that ‘i want to meet.. You’ gold saucer moment#and she still makes sure to turncit on cloud. whos even more fucked in the head. so#maya amano my queen whos the only persona character to talk to but never accept her shadow LOL i love her#uh oh i think i like it because im like that also. erm. scratches my head. who said that#OERBA DIA VANILLE SORRY I FORGOT U BABE. also vash the stampede is the only man who i group in here. even tho i said anjme girl
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