#having some fun before leak night XP

[that-spider-fan-over-there]

Uh, shot-in-the-dark predictions for MHA 424 (which are variations of the same thing), for who's gonna catch Izuku:

Izuku is gonna be caught by Tenko, reborn like he's a butterfly; whether he uses a new form of his Quirk or unlocks the one he was born with is between Horikoshi and God XD. It'd be cool if we get Tenko looking almost the same but with his original black hair; the trauma isn't gonna go away but it's more of a destruction of the physical (and artificial as well) similarities between him and AFO, you know? (And he'd look like Nana; I'm craving to see Toshinori's reaction).

Alternatively, (and this is just because I miss him), Mirio catches him. Which, if Izuku has a breakdown, this would convince him he wasn't worthy of being a hero and I crave that sweet sweet hurt/comfort of him thinking he wasn't worthy in the first place only to be proven wrong by everyone else. Besides, Mirio's the one who believes thanks to Sir Nighteye a world without bright smiles doesn't lead to a bright future, it'd be a nice parallel.

Or Izuku's fully unconscious, still has Float (ember or the Quirk without Nana's vestige) and it saves him. Tenko transferred OFA without him realizing and we get more vestige world shenanigans to bring Tenko back (I hope; otherwise why did we have a memory lane for four people?)

I'm excluding the possibility of Katsuki saving him because this mf has a busted arm and his heart's not 100% healed (duh). He would be the type of person to use his legs like Izuku or his teeth (again) but. Nah, let him rest, he also deserves a break.

I believe in Equivalent Exchange and BKDK karma tho (/hj) so depending on how bad discourse got in the last weeks, we're getting an Izuku saying "Kacchan" at least, because that's how it works in this fandom, I'm convinced XD. Anime's just said it's last one for a while so it could happen.

[michaelmcchillsmpe]

Day 8 | 12/1/19

Michael hopes on SMP Earth after an hour of Clone Hero. He joins the server and is greeted by James and gun noises. After attempting to see if he could play Minecraft with his clone hero guitar (but failing to know how to turn those controls on), he joins a VC filled with so much chaos already that I don’t even know who all was in there. All I know is that there was Dinkster, Poke, Burren, and Jameskii in there. He leaves after a minute though anyway and joins a private call with James.

He immediately wants to buy a gun after killing a couple of zombies.

Michael finds out James is building a train station in a horizontal chunk error into the side of their mountain.

They talk about how good villagers are and how airstrikes work.

Michael gets scared by a creeper exploding thinking that it was a gun and proceeds to yell “MOTHERFUCKER” over and over. He also yells at Chip about it.

Michael brings up the idea to put a bunker in their mountain courtesy of his girlfriend’s suggestion.

Michael gets James to make him an efficiency 5 pickaxe since James apparently has 64 XP levels.

Apparently the IP got leaked by someone but no one got in since the server has protection against that.

Michael pokes fun at Junkyjanker with that since he had leaked the IP for SMP Live when he joined.

They talk about taxes.

The server closes for a bit.

Poke raids Michael and then joins their VC.

They talk about a lot of random stuff. James and Poke always create interesting conversations.

Michael tries to get Chip to give him a gun by pulling him into a VC.

Sylvee joins VC to try to talk to Chip.

Chip leaves the VC but Michael tries to get him to come back because James and Poke are trying to get their friend on the server because Wilbur already approved.

James breaks 16 chests filled to the brim with blocks so all the blocks are just on the ground and lagging the entire server. 

James and Michael try to bury each other in their horizontal chunk error.

Luna (a member of Fruit Club and the friend James and Poke were trying to get on the server) joins the VC before getting on the server.

James obtains a picture of Stan Lee and gives it to Michael.

Poke keeps talking about buying furniture throughout this all.

Luna joins packle.

Michael cockblocks Luna from getting materials for a little bit.

Michael still wants a gun but has not purchased one yet.

He works on the houses he’s supposed to be building for the people who donated to him.

They won’t stop breaking Michael’s chests.

Sylvee shares her plans to make MadaNascar

Michael tries to get someone to buy him a gun AGAIN.

Michael finds out that the block glitch for climbing people’s houses in their claimed lands no longer works.

He finds Christmas island that has a Christmas tree built by Sylvee.

Chip and Inktea join the VC and almost hear some really disgusting stuff.

Someone tried to hack the server but couldn’t since it was protected and now they technically have his information because the kid didn’t use a VPN.

Poke has been trying to find a ping pong table to buy for like ten minutes.

Michael flies to Luna, James, and Sylvee.

Poke leaves.

Kara joins the VC

Michael and Luna discover how to deforest extremely quickly.

They pull Jordan into the call to bully him and demand things.

Everyone flies to Jordan’s base.

They make Jordan give them a chorus fruit to grow and Kara gives them endstone.

They all stay around Jordan’s base as they wait for the chorus fruit to grow.

Inktea watches them from afar

The ever ominous Inktea

Kara shoots Ink with her gun, he disappears for a second, and reappears on top in full diamond armor again.

Chip arrives to watch too.

They attempt to leave Jordan

Kara kills Chip.

Chip retaliates and airstrikes them.

Jordan gets upset by Kara ringing his bell at his base.

Sylvee attacks Michael in his plane as they fly around.

Michael and Sylvee join Chip’s VC to ask him why he’s following them and Michael demands a gun. Jameskii is also in the VC with Ink. James joins as well.

Sylvee won’t stop asking if Jameskii is naked.

Chip and Jameskii leave the VC.

They arrive back in California.

Jordan joins the VC.

BeanIsland becomes allies with Packle.

KingdomOfJordan becomes allies with Packle.

Jameskii and Chip come back into the VC. 

Sylvee murders Chip.

Chip finally gives Michael a gun after he won’t stop asking.

James one-shots Chip with a bow.

Chip makes a faction and makes it an enemy to Packle because he can.

There’s apparently a password people on the server are trying to figure out. Sneeg uses all the attempts before you can’t guess again for 24 hours. Jordan is just confused about what the password is for.

James cut out a section of earth and just fills it with water while Sylvee builds an extremely mini version of Earth in it.

Jameskii won’t stop asking about if there’s a Walmart.

Michael fills in James and Sylvee’s mini world hole.

Sylvee and Chip get blown up by a creeper.

Cuck somehow was renamed to Braphog so Michael makes a nametag to rename him back to cuck.

Michael logs off for the night because he got a headache and wasn’t feeling like playing Earth anymore that night.

Quotes:

Michael: “How gun.”

Jameskii: “There’s just one slice of bacon on the floor on a plate and it’s surrounded by really disturbing Mickey Mouse models with talking nipples.”

Michael: “Chat, give me a fursona. Draw me a fursona, chat. Make me super sexy.”

Michael: *reading subscription message* “‘don’t disrespect the blood god’ fuck that. I’ll fuckin’ spit in blood god’s mouth.” James: “I’ll go whoop blood god’s fucking ass right now.” Michael: *laughing* “I’ll pull out my AK47.”

Michael: “I’m gonna dox him.”

James: *doing that weird voice he does* “Kill me.” Sylvee: “I don’t like that.”

James: “Michael is simpin’ right now.”

James: “Catch me in the woods, taming that wood.” Poke: “What does that- yeah, I agree.”

James: “My man boobs are throbbing in excitement.”

Michael: “DON’T SHOOT CUCK.”

Poke: “I’m currently being gay, can you leave me alone for two seconds, Michael.”

Michael: “Why are you strippin’ my shit, you fucking hoe.”

Poke: “I’m gonna use Michael as a ping pong table.” Michael: “I’m gonna use you as a fucking cum rag.”

Poke: “When the cum sock starts walking.”

Sylvee: (to Jordan) “You sound sad.” Jordan: “Oh, I am.”

Sylvee: “Hey guys, Miss Captain Jordan Ladybug Sparklez here, back at it again with a Minecraft lets play.”

Kara: “Go sleep.” Michael: “I can’t, Kara! I’m showing James my ass.”

Half of the quotes are James. He just says too much weird shit to NOT quote him.

[techcrunchappcom]

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Streaming devices from Roku/Google in new 4K HDR fight, and more tech news today

Your tech news digest, by way of the DGiT Daily tech newsletter, for Tuesday, 29 September 2020.

1. Buying Google’s new Chromecast before launch, and the streaming box wars

We’re all set for Google’s Launch Night In event tomorrow, where we’ll get the Google Pixel 4a 5G and Pixel 5, with pricing and availability being key interest points. (The leaks are probably right, but there’s still more to know.)

And, amongst other hardware to be launched, is a new Chromecast, which for some reason is already on sale (above via Reddit):

$50 for a streaming dongle with 4K HDR, and remote, plus Dolby Atmos and Dolby Vision, and not needing your phone to use it…

Yep, that’s a decent upgrade over the Chromecast Ultra, which didn’t offer HDR, nor a remote.

The current Ultra does offer an ethernet port for a hardwired connection, though, which can be useful for 4K and for playing Google Stadia without overheating issues on the streaming device itself.

In terms of the competition in this space, it’s fierce:

Roku just announced its Ultra box is finally supporting Dolby Vision in the new $100 version (Engadget).

Roku doesn’t detail its specs beyond basics. Its new Ultra has more RAM, a better quad-core processor, better Wi-Fi range. The ethernet port remains 10/100, not yet Gigabit.

Adding Dolby Vision was overdue, given the Apple TV 4K ($180) and Amazon’s Fire Stick 4K ($50), and the Fire TV Cube ($120) all have had it for years.

There’s also the super adaptable Nvidia Shield TV ($150) for more Android-based flexibility and a bunch of cheaper devices with fewer features.

There’s a new Roku Streambar, too, a soundbar with, er yep, Roku, for $130.

I’m excited to see where the new Chromecast stacks up among all these.

2. Xbox Series X first look: Fast, powerful and quiet. Reviewers actually have the new Xbox with them, and first speed tests and insights are coming out. And it’s fast! (Engadget).

3. It’s official: We’re not getting a OnePlus 8T Pro, meaning the OnePlus 8T will be a single device launch and the 8 Pro won’t be superseded this year (Android Authority).

4. Dell updates XPS 13 laptops with 11th Gen Tiger Lake CPUs with Thunderbolt 4. Still no AMD options, no word on XPS 15 range yet either (Android Authority).

5. iOS and iPadOS 14 review: iPhone transformation, iPad iteration (Ars Technica).

6. Google is cracking down on apps on its Android App Store: now much more strictly enforcing a 30% cut and forcing app developers to use its in-app purchases billing system. Not just Apple, now. Netflix and Spotify had previously avoided Google’s cut. Expect to hear more! (NY Times).

7. For the last time, please don’t buy the Apple Watch Series 3 (Gizmodo).

8. Mercedes-Benz reveals driving footage of its fairly wild electric car prototype (Electrek).

9. I keep hearing how good the game Hades is, available on PC and Switch. Here’s a review that confirms it all (Wired).

10. The palm is the new fingerprint. Amazon is rolling out Amazon One which lets you pay with your palm, and it wants its palm recognition technology in stores, stadiums, and office buildings (The Verge).

12. It might just be that the Auroras kick into a higher gear this week. Here’s a little guide of how to watch the Northern Lights, potentially (Lifehacker).

13, Scientists find evidence of multiple underground lakes on Mars (Space)

14. Great pics from the best drone photography awards of 2020 (droneawards.photo).

15. ELI5: “What happens to the sweat you don’t sweat from your armpits because of ‘anti-sweat’ deodorants?” (r/explainlikeimfive).

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[envysea]

6/5-6/6

The last couple days have been so weird. Yesterday I had a brutal but fun day at work–4 big dogs to wash and groom; 2 golden retrievers, a border collie, and a lab. I was returning the first golden to his owner after the groom and the owner, directed towards me, was all “Sir. Mam? Sir…?” It was funny but makes me wonder if I could pass as more gender neutral? My work smock isn’t form fitting but I thought my voice gave me away as more feminine, but maybe not?

After work I had my dog’s agility class. It’s outdoors and the hay made my eyes and throat itch so bad. Halfway through class my nurse practitioner called me to tell me that because of my bicornuate uterus I can’t get any IUDs. Which isn’t what the doctor who did my ultrasound said so I was pretty upset at the change in information. I cried and barely made it through class before I got home and cried some more. Luckily I had my girlfriend to text and help me talk through things. It sucked though cause that news ruined my whole night. I couldn’t play video games like I wanted; I was just too salty and tired. It’s mostly frustrating because between my aura migraines and weird ass uterus the only birth control I can possibly take is the arm implant or hormone shot. — Then today I took my car in to get my transmission patched up and flushed and they find more repairs that need to be done sooner rather than later. And these are in addition to the repair they found on Friday when I got my oil changed. Luckily I have a friend who can do them for me which helps make things more affordable but it still sucks cause I wanted to buy new tires and fix my exhaust leak so my car won’t be as loud. But I had to drop $200 today on my transmission and then I’ll need to spend another $200 on parts for sway bars, brake pads, and engine mounts.

I really need to go from 40-50% commission ASAP especially with all the things I need to take care of and save up for.

Even though I went to bed early yesterday I took two naps today. I was just exhausted for some reason. Got lunch with my friend and other than pricing air conditioners and getting my car checked out I did nothing productive today xP

Oh I stabbed my foot on a piece of metal edging on the floor of my apartment. I tried hammering it down but that didn’t work… So I need to figure out a way to stop it from trying to kill me when I walk barefoot in my own home…

God I can’t wait for tomorrow so that I can be done with this weird day. I also have a date with my girlfriend to look forward to after work (fingers crossed I get off on time).

Anyway. Night.

[anyu-blue]

In one of those moods. Ranting. Don't mind me.

After being almost completely ignored by Tevs for about 4 days... I'm kinda at my wits end.

The thing is I get it. I got it several times and have thought about it much during my relationship and at my breakup and the aftermath. And if I tried again (like I almost did this morning) I know I'd get it again. I'm a 'high maintenance' person.

I don't feel like I am- everything I ask of others is something I do for anyone who even remotely pays attention to me- but it's being painfully branded into me that what I do and want/need in return is just too much..too much effort. Too much time. Too much work. Too much.

"Meek.. you're just.. a lot."

"It's always something with you."

*sigh*

...

I'm not TRYING to be... Most people I know I am more than happy to let them be for days, weeks, months, years... Whatever they need... But when someone's life directly impacts mine.. yeah I get messed up when nothing is said to me. Especially when I try to communicate, start conversations, share anything.

...

Well technically I'm not more than Happy, I'm content to because I know I'm exhausting to be around. And I'm only happy if when they're ready to be around again they reach out... Well... Most everyone I know if I stop being able to put in all my effort for any reason... They drop me entirely.

I feel this sounds normal, unfortunately...

But even so it goes deeper than that too. If they do come back and see I'm like this or hyper or anything other than my 'let me give you stuff' self... I get a lot of... Discomfort.

..

I was talking with a guild mate yesterday and unfortunately triggered a few things when I was. I have repressed a LOT. A lot a lot of me. And when it starts to leak from the seams I've gotten into the habit of pushing people away/lashing out.

I get into phases where I just CAN'T be normal any more..no matter how hard I try. And trying harder makes it worse of course 😅 and worse and worse and worse and then if I reach out, I'm told I'm being too much... Without actually getting any help.. only getting the wishes of me to suppress it enough they can tolerate my presence again before they'll even think about how they want to help...

And worse than that... They'll think about it. Agree to Something. And then never do it again (unless I lash out and demand they keep their promises).

I'm just...

I just...

I know. I can't keep chasing People. I can't keep expecting anything different of them. I can't keep asking for support and understanding and patience from people unwilling to give it naturally.

But otherwise... Idk what to do.

I mean TECHNICALLY I'm not even supposed to be doing THIS. Ranting on a social media site. Again. I'm 27. I should have my ducks in a row. I should be able to handle every day life. Especially on my own.. that's what society (my area) screams in your face and demands...

But I also know humans are communal creatures (most of us anyway). We do better when what we do and what we need is reciprocated...

I've tried so hard... Begged my ex to do what he was asking of me (he wanted me to nag him about his chores- his words- and I asked him to do the same for me if he noticed mine weren't done. He never answered me and we broke up not long after I started pressing the issue), begged my sisters for reminders or information about what I'm doing that bothers them or what they want from me in exchange for anything they do succeed in doing that I ask and vise versa (we even agreed to a white board that's in our living room for that!! And guess who uses it? Me. It took me screaming and crying after my surgery AND my dad coming over to get the point across that I DIDN'T know anything about any appointments or schedules or chores because Tevs refused to write anything on it. I'm not proud it took that. I'm not proud I literally threw a fit. It sorta worked... But I'm not happy about it still)...

I have begged. pleaded. Cried. Demanded. Tried to bribe... I've even backed off and backed off and backed off and repressed and repressed and repressed and changed my words and actions and forced myself to pay attention and listen and leave people alone and more... I've successfully completed every task asked of me by them- including telling them when I do (though I do have a problem with that, I've still followed their wishes)... And yet all I seem to get in return is... "You're asking too much. You're too much. I don't need these things so neither do you."

And...

My heart is completely broken by this point. Even my dad has told me recently... Too much, Meek. You gotta back off... I'm more upset because when he said this to me, I was freaking out about a broken promise. When THEY promised ME they would do something, and I agreed to the compromise... THEY were failing... And yet I was in the wrong for being upset about them not following through... It had been months. I had been asking and reminding and chasing them for months about it. Not every day... Not even every week... But when I came across it and had one of my days I had too much pent up not to be quiet... I just HAD to say 'hey, would you be willing to do the thing you promised please ❤️'.... And then I waited. And I checked back a while later.. and I asked face to face what was going on. And got glared at and treated like a jerk for asking for them to do the task that they promised was their responsibility instead of doing it myself when I was standing there.

I feel like a parent sometimes... And not in the good way... And Tevs demands I not parent her... But doesn't do things unless I pull stunts like that. Same with our little sister.

And I can't keep doing this. Not for people who refuse to return the favor. For those who refuse to step up when someone else has a bad time and falls a bit.

I dropped doing so much like the cooking for everyone and organizing fun things and keeping everyone together... And not a single person in my family stepped up to do it even temporarily. I started back up again... And asked directly if someone was willing to do the next bit (and we'd take turns) or something like that... And I always get a yes.... Aaaand then nothing. Nothing. Nothing.

So I've been doing, well... Nothing. I even kept myself from talking to Tevs more than just the stuff she's agreeable to lately... And I get and have gotten nothing back.

Tevs doesn't actually care about me or anything other than her horror stuff anymore. Me because I can't keep things in/be normal enough not to need something just slightly different than is subconscious for her.... And everything else because yeah the world sucks and she'd rather kill things, but doesn't because she hates going out.

Idk what to do.

I was so desperately trying for an autism or ADHD or SOMETHING diagnosis... And even they told me.. yeah, you likely do, but stop pursuing it or you're going to ruin your life.... So I get no help or sense of community because I can't PROVE without a doubt I'm one of them.... And it's so scandalous to be on benefits and not be able to function don't you know? So just keep doing what you're doing!! You can pass and that's a blessing..... So I gave up there too... Rejection sensitive dysphoria... I know they say that because things are bad and there's so much discrimination... But I'm excluded from both in the end. Too weird to be normal. Too normal to be weird.

I'm very grateful for the people I've met more recently that are in similar shoes.. because at least I know I can relate to some people and it's nice to know I'm not alone... But I'm also too scared to keep reaching out... I've already had my trust and my heart broken a million times because I'm too much.. or the person who gave me a shot in the first place was a sleaze ball (whom I was too much for) anyway...

There are a lot of people I love too that said they'd love to provide whatever they could.... But I have pulled away from because I feel I'll be too much eventually and I don't want them to deal with my worst streaks (one of my exes is a good friend of mine and I adore her... But I'm a wreck... I'm so happy she has gotten to move on in places with her life and I get to catch glimpses of her thriving.. we used to talk every day.. but life moves and I don't want to keep being the needy drama queen XP)... I don't pester those who I know will come through with their promises with reminders either because of the same fears.. and looking at what's happened in my own household... Reminding people of their promises and demanding they be kept instead of being continually promised and nothing more... Has ruined a lot...

I try to be understanding. Life moves. Stuff gets hard. People have bad times... But I literally have no community I wasn't holding together when I was at my best... That didn't fall apart when I stopped being able to function that highly... Night shift doesn't help either... But even if I wasn't night shift... Nothing happens because no one else is interested in or has the energy it takes to pick up the reigns...

I don't feel all that great... But I can't deny over the years... Without me... We never would have had so much... And without me... The sense of community is gone.

It's funny though... I'm such a wreck here and in my head. Bouncing around. All these 'bad' thoughts... But on approach you'd never know it was me. I literally bend over backwards to help and do and go and... Have so many nice things to say, or such a soft expression on my face even when someone is irritating me.. you'd never know...

Because if I dare to show any of it... I'm instantly in trouble or ostracized.

I'm so squashed... And I don't see a way out.

I care a LOT about others and keep track of so many things to be sure they are comfortable and safe and happy.... And I'm not allowed to ask the same in return because it's just too much.