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being around people drains me a lot. i knew this from the beginning but yeah just extremely tired i wish i was buried already. not their fault tho
#i understand people wanting to talk to me#talking is nice#having friends irl is cool#they're nice people#but I'm really tired#and they want to talk outside college too#and I'm like. pls no. im Tired#ramblings
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Hello ! I positively adore the running joke of Idia unknowingly finding Lilia to be the coolest guy ever whenever he doesn't know it's him, like when Silver described his father, or obviously with muscle red. I can't say what'd be funnier, Idia finding out his online best friend is actually Lilia, resident spooky hyper fairy; or them both never finding out, and it'd become even more ridiculous as time goes on. How do you think it'll play out ? You're always so on point
(Also, though it makes sense, I'm still devastated bat boy didn't get a ticket for the Halloween skeleton train : ( does anyone mentions him at some point ? Like how he'd have fit right in with all those Halloween town little freaks, and how he'd have impressed them with his spooks and scared techniques; after all he's been every Briar Valley's children worst fear on Halloween for centuries. I'm on the eng server and I didn't wanna spoil myself by watching the whole thing on youtube)
Have a nice day !
you and me both, Idia and Lilia being oblivious online BFFs (+ Idia being incredibly intimidated any time Silver brings up his jock gamer dad) is my favorite running joke/subplot. 🤝 it's SO good, to the point where I also am unsure if I actually want it to ever be resolved or not...maybe, like, as a post-canon stinger or something? everyone's standing around covered in overblot ink, and Idia and Lilia's phones go off at the same time...
(legit I do think this is part of why Idia couldn't be present for Lilia's dream, because for some reason Lilia decided he was going to just. embody his past self online. he probably quotes his own battle strategies or whatever in the middle of boss fights. Idia didn't pick up on the whole "oh how weird that we both live on a super remote island" thing, but he would spend thirty seconds listening to General Lilia describing siege warfare and be like "w-wait")
all that aside, however it does end up happening, I do see Lilia being very blasé and all "oh! cool!" about it. y'know, taking it very much in stride! and Idia...very much not.
(can't tell if tumblr is going to chew this into illegibility or not, this will be a fun surprise ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ)
as for Lilia sadly missing out on Halloweentown shenanigans...he does get one little mention as part of an offhand reference to the light music club, but so far no one has brought up how this basically is just Lost In the Book of Liliatown (Sebek's been too busy yelling about not getting to be in the same group as Malleus). 😔 honestly though, it's probably for the best that he got left out, because he would just settle right in and refuse to ever leave. canon would shatter. we would miss out on all the delightful angst of episode 7 because Lilia is too busy eating poisonous shrubbery inbetween practicing his very best screams, and no one can pull him away from it.
(I can hope for a sequel next year though...)
#art#twisted wonderland#twisted wonderland spoilers#gentle spoilers but y'know. just in case#lost in the book with nightmare before christmas#hajimari no halloween#most of the kitchen scene was jade messing with the firsties and that was so delightful that i didn't think til after#that you'd think sebek would have made some kind of reference to lilia 'i lost my tastebuds in the war' vanrouge's quote-unquote cooking#ah well. jade being mean is more than entertaining enough#looking forward to more of it tomorrow!#god. lilia and idia though.#lilia is like. genuinely idia's best friend and neither of them have any idea#and idia keeps doing that 'ha ha what if we were friends out of game too? what if we met offline? jk jk jk uNLESS...👉👈'#and then he immediately chickens out because he's so convinced that crimson will hate him if they ever met irl#(meanwhile lilia is just like 'my online bestie is so cool :) la la la')#they are both so stupid and i love them so much#i've just realized that i actually do want them to find out each other's identities#because idia doesn't just go to school with his online bff#he ALSO goes to school with his online bff's extremely supportive and extremely socially-inept kids#idia is going to get invited to dinner at diasomnia and it's going to be SO awkward#silver is going to give a long formal speech thanking him for being a stalwart comrade and trusted warrior brother to his father#as sebek stews in jealousy that idia got to fight by lilia-sama's side >:(#while idia sits there like 'all i did was link him a video about lane control for his character class'#malleus will make such an effort to learn literally anything about online gaming and he won't understand a word of it#it will be SUCH a disaster and i very much do want it now
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coffee cheetos chicken
#jerma985 fanart#jercula#jerma985#ster#jerma#sterlovesfood#can his bitch ass get a fanbase. or a tag that works. thanks#my favorites :) also I’m in Vegas RIGHT NOW and I’m not at the nyp show… the world works in mysterious ways#i was at wwwy fest and it was so much fun :) my first music thing ever and it was so cool and it was w my best friends one of which is our#first irl meet up after over 6 yrs:D no one cares I just wanna say it whatever anywyas ily all have a good day jerma was so fine last night#also I hate how this looks but I need to post jerma jerma jerma my autism yay ok bye
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I wish I were normal :[
#idk I just wish I was normal kid who lived a normal life#and no it isn't epic different like I'm not secretly a magical girl who fights evil (that'd be so cool though I'd be down)#I mean like.isolated and not allowed to interact with people different#just sucks hearing everyone around my age going out with their friends or having sleepovers or just like.going out and enjoying life#meanwhile I'm stuck in my house with a strict mom who doesn't want me to make any irl friends#“you won't keep the friends you make anyway” SO??????#AT LEAST LET ME EXPERIENCE HAVING THEM#AND LET ME LEAVE THE HOUSE!!!!!#I don't like talking abt this bcz I don't want ppl to feel bad for having what I wish I had#I mean.it's not their fault my mom is super strict and controlling#so I try to refrain from bringing it up or posting abt it but it is REALLY affecting me right now for whatever reason :'D#so I just had to get something out abt it. I feel like I've kept that in for too long#vent
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i need to talk about this fine ass man im talking to or i will shrivel up and die
if u even care
#my irl friends do not know bc im weird about this kind of thing#MOOTS R ALL I HAVE 💔#he’s so sexy like big arms n a hot voice#6’2 n financially stable#observant n caring n respectful#and we got similar interests and values#he’s into me being all needy and clingy thank THE LORD#AND HE CAN DRIVE 🎉 im his lil passenger prinxess#i want him so bad its not even funny#but its cool bc he wants me more#life is beautiful#atlas 101
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A friend of mine is posting stuff on threads and I got it too so that I could read their funny little posts but I don’t feel super comfy to post completely open stuff there too cause I’m not out to like my family and stuff and it’s linked to my Instagram account (also I made it a private account which seems kinda pointless) and I realised that what they use threads for comes close to what I use tumblr for (just that me texts here are longer that a typical threads post seems to be) and that i actually would be comfy to show them my tumblr I think. Is this what having a friendship and being completely open is about????
#starrytalking#friends#like I mostly only post about queer stuff here and they are queer too and I would be comfy talking to them about stuff like that irl too#so I wouldn’t really care and they could read my posts and we could talk about them I guess#but the whole purpose of tumblr is that no one knows u so idk if I’d actually bring that up cause the no one knows u thing is what makes me#comfortable spill whatever#and also I had a phase where I was reading fanfics and if that comes up I might be a bit uncomfy with that xD#but yeah it’s cool that I don’t feel like I have to hide anything from them is what I wanna say with this^^#aromantic#aro#asexual#ace#aroace#lgbtq+#queer#friendship
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Seems like absolutely everyone is having kids right now omg (several irl acquaintances, HUNGARIAN MUSICAL ACTOR MÁTÉ KAMARÁS as per a recent instagram post) and it's only making me more convinced that I personally am still going to be prioritising gay rpf posting over anything like that 10 years from now 😭🙈
#sometimes i worry that i'll seem somehow defective or fallen behind to people in comparison because societal expectations etc. and ngl its#also been a somewhat annoying wake up call that being queer does not at all make a woman less likely to want kids (lesbian dating profiles)#idk i hope things work out for me. hope to enjoy lesbian dating for the rest of time but don't want to be a stepmother or 'cool aunt' 😅#i'm also keeping my fingers crossed that at least a few irl friends will choose never to have kids ksks. many don't want to for now
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once again experiencing the kind of grim misery that comes of being an artist at the Gifts Time because the amount of presumed value I put on my art is reallyreally different than that which other people put on it. also the kind of things that I can knit fast with stuff I already have are things that zero people in my family desire.
#news from the cupola#artpresent for family / irl friends is what I do if we are in the Last Desperate Resort phase. which is really not good.#because my fifteen minute digital sketch of my brother from last year that does not even feel good or like my art to me has been Framed#...possibly part of the problem is that my best art skill is Portrait of Thy Blorbo and none of my relatives really. have a blorbo.#my dad likes jack aubrey but he likes him a Normal amount. gave him a drawing of jack once and he went 'cool' and then 'who is this'#which. mm.#anyway. parallel equally wearing-on-the-mind problem is that my friends who Do have blorbos see my art all the time.#there's nothing I can think of to draw for them that's Special enough to be giftworthy.#I love to build myself a stupid torture labyrinth and sit in it for hours and days. acts of a person who is definitely fine and okay.
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It’s me n bestie!!! Guys! Guys!! ITS ME N BESTIE!!!! @orianspring
#fanart#cause I’m a fan of him :]#art#they’re cool!#go say hi!#maybe not all at once tho-#that’s right! I have irl friends…friend. singular. but stilllll#my art
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Making a shirt to wear to family holidays that says "If you comment on how much / little I am eating / my body / say anything about calories / deservingness / food guilt etc. I will kill myself in front of you badly and then come back from the dead and kill you also and badly and then kill myself again. badly" and on the back there's a more calmly- and encouragingly-phrased list of resources on deconstructing diet culture for beginners
#[gritting teeth]#One of only a very narrow set of instant rage hotbuttons for me. such a physical immediate reaction feels like getting knifed#If the knife is also made of hate. Just. shut UPPPPPP#Might have to have an actual sit down real conversation about this. i do not want to but this is not sustainable#like heyyyy can you. not do this genuinely every time there's food. Can we get through 5 minutes without some sort of Comment.#Once again wish everybody was as cool about this stuff as my IRL and internet friends#spend long enough around people who are very firmly on the side of food = physical/spiritual nourishment#and eating together = happy occasion for expression of care#that spending time around people so deeply entrenched in uncritical diet culture is like getting whiplash several times a day#next comment I will Make An Attempt. i'll be so gentle and nicey and encouraging instead of walking into the mississippi#ed mention#sort of. to be safe#fatphobia#implicitly anyway.
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being surrounded by insecure jaded emotionally closed off teens who dont take anything seriously sure is emotionally conflicting like i hope y'all grow up to be better people but at the same time y'all are being assholes to teachers and saying slurs in the hallway you guys suck
#please grow up and be better people#they act like they dont take anything seriously and it honestly kinda pisses me off#like#dude. stop. please just pay attention to the teacher.#why do like the majority of people in my grade suck so bad#you guys dont look cool you just look like assholes#dot's thoughts#begging them to grow up and be more empathetic holy shit#like i know they'll grow up and stop being like this at some point but please let that point be soon#they keep saying slurs as jokes and its like a jumpscare#the less time i have to spend with my schoolmates the better#this is why i have so little irl friends btw
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gaining a new interest/joining a new fandom is always kind of intimidating it feels like there’s so much you’ve missed out on by not enjoying this thing before so you’re like GRAHHHH got to catch up so I can have peak enjoyment like all the Enjoying This Thing experts around here! which is so silly bc if you enjoy a thing you’re already there but. yknow
#like when I got into hockey I was like studying all the rules and terms and players and team history and stuff#so I could be able to talk with other fans and understand everything#and like when I got into ml and owl house it was like ooh gotta binge watch all the eps#gotta see what the fandom vibes are and read the good kush fics and find a group of friends to brainrot with#and now w zelda it’s like#woof#there are so many games spanning decades!!! and I only have a switch so I can’t even play most of them lol#and the lore is fascinating but sometimes convoluted and confusing lol#bro the timeline. help#it’s just a lot of info and stuff to consume djdjdk#and im brainrotting so hard so part of me wants to find a loz discord server or soemthing l#but I feel like i would not be able to be on equal footing discussion wise bc I have only played a few of the games#it’s cool tho i have one irl friend who’s very excited abt me getting into her fav series haha#and I’m enjoying seeing people’s art and stuff#and making my little doodles#ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ <- me having a good little time being bad at gaming and obsessed with a tragic blond boy yet AGAIN#mine
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changed my header to match the end of summer (greenleaf) and the beginning of my favorite month (leaf-fall) <3
(the babies in the pic are 2 of my ocs ive had since i was 7 years old!! jaypaw/jayclaw (left) and butterflypaw/butterflybreeze (right).)
(art creds go to raiuche on twitter/x!! PLEASE check them out!! they have INCREDIBLE art and their ychs are SUPER affordable! ive bought 2 of their ychs now and as soon as im more financially stable, ill def be buying more!!)
(old header under the cut!!!)
same artist!! (raiuche on twitter/x)
same characters!! (jaypaw/jayclaw on the left and butterflypaw/butterflybreeze on the right)
this header is the one i USUALLY use for both spring (newleaf) and summer (greenleaf) and it matches their clan's terrain (the first clan i ever made at age 7 called splashclan), the fact that riverclan is my fave clan, and the fact that my warriorsona is from riverclan.
i RLLY need to get a leaf-bare one soon auughhh but need to get money bc in Bad Financial Spot rn and i might have 2 take one of my cats to the vet soon bc im suspicious she has diabetes 🥲
#warriorwhiskers#raiuche#warrior cats#erin hunter#warriors#wc#warriors ocs#warriors oc#warrior cats ocs#warrior cats oc#fan character#fan characters#jaypaw (splashclan)#butterflypaw (splashclan)#butterflybreeze (splashclan)#jayclaw (splashclan)#splashclan (warriorwhiskers)#fanclan#idk how to tag things guys cut a mousebrain some slack#and yes i think it's hilarious to use warrior cat terminology in casual conversation online but i dont do it irl i prommy LMAO#no shade to ppl who do!! ur cool i just have no warrior cat friends irl and live in rural southwest wisconsin and choose life LMAO
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these days i keeping think about how i sorta have friends and that people like me and are nice to me and willing to hang out or at least just chat with me even for a moment or two and it makes me tear up each time like... really? :,) you'd hug me? you'd smile at me or laugh at something i said? you'd start a conversation when you see me? you'd like to see me again next semester? thanks i'm crying now :,)
#it's so silly because like. i know i'm a friendly funny kind person#and i know that people like me#and i know i have friends#i like myself lots too! i think i'm cool and awesome!#but for some reason i've just been feeling so so blessed and emo that people actually like. like me and enjoy having me around#i'm also super emotionally unstable right now so there's also that LOL#but thanks to anyone on here and irl who is nice to me <33#i love you#i will hopefully get to asks soon but i've got to get back to work#much love muah muah#. >> mari monologues !
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I wish I could give my mutuals tangible gifts for the holidays
#hey if ur a mutual and are cool with it i can send you a little perler bead keychain#but you'd have to give me like an adress or a p.o. box or something similar#I'll make the keychain based on a fandom i know you well for or one you post about a lot#also no guarantees it would actually get to you before January T-T#I'm making a bunch of them for my irl friends too plus i have school work and Christmas with my family#so there's every chance i may make them a bit late and they wouldn't get to you before your holiday pases#*passes
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the only reason why i'm so bad at making my ocs have realistic personalities and backstories is cuz i have no friends
#ocs#LMAO but yeah...#I may seem so COOL and POPULAR and AWESOME#but irl like I have 3.#its not like i'm disliked#but I just KNOW people#not really friends ig#plus everyone I know is either like a HEAVY stereotype irl#or I don't know anything about them#cant base an oc off of em yknow#and I'm kinda bad at making ocs that ARENT like scout tf2 or adam stanheight#like ugh... fuck I made another annoying bisexual twink with a whiny voice and awesome music taste#aka me what who said that
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