#haters/trolls will be blocked out of hand

[p-redux]

Had no idea cherylecheryl was bootsaucepunk but makes perfect sense as both are pathetic, nasty, malicious bullies. Thanks for the interesting info.

Hi, Anon. Sorry it took me a few days to put this together. This post is gonna be a long one. So, grab a beverage and get comfy.

For those who don't know, Tumblr blog Bootsaucepunk has been around for years and has cemented a reputation as a Sam Heughan and Caitriona Balfe hater. As far as her being the Instagram troll cherylecheryl, well, we know Bootsaucepunk's name is Cheryl. How do we know this? Because she OUTED HERSELF and her FULL NAME, Cheryl N. on her OWN, now deleted Twitter account. Everyone who was around back then knows Cheryl's last name, but I won't post it in its entirety since not everyone may know it. Cheryl doxed HERSELF, and I'll show you how down below, but I won't repost her last name for obvious reasons. After Bootsaucepunk revealed her own identity, of course, people easily found her info, including that she's from New Brunswick, Canada. But this is because SHE HERSELF posted her full name and a pic of herself on her Twitter account. Here's the backstory of how she DOXED HERSELF a few years ago...

Bootsaucepunk gloated that she would repeatedly harass Sam on social media, he would block her, and then she'd create new accounts. She also badmouthed Caitriona Balfe, her husband, Tony McGill, and bragged that Cait blocked her too. On the left side of the screencap below, you can see her as Bootsaucepunk talking about Sam reporting her to Twitter, Twitter suspending her accounts, and then she would create new ones. She even joked that she's playing "whack a mole" with Sam. Harassing Sam and Cait is a GAME to her. On the right side of the screencap, she posts a LONG diatribe talking crap about Cait, after Cait blocked her. 👇

Bootsaucepunk continued to boast that Cait blocked her and showed the proof of this. 👇 I've also attached the PROOF that Bootsaucepunk is Cheryl N., provided by HER. 👇 You can see that Bootsaucepunk is asked by another hater, Cant-Resist-Temptation, what Bootsaucepunk Tweeted that caused Cait to block her on Twitter. And Bootsaucepunk replied by posting what she said to Cait WORD FOR WORD. Basically, Cait blocked her for talking shit about her husband, Tony McGill. The thing is those EXACT words were posted on her real life Twitter account, CherylN_____89 (now defunct). 🤦‍♀️ Either she didn't think people would make the connection, or she was so arrogant she thought no one would call her out. (Click on the screencap to read it better). Oh, and notice in the second paragraph, Bootsaucepunk takes the opportunity to continue to talk negatively about Cait.

Let me show it again so that everyone is VERY CLEAR that Bootsaucepunk posted on Tumblr the Tweet that got her blocked by Caitriona Balfe (she's responding to another hater, its-mootpoint). 👇

And it is VERBATIM what Cheryl N. posted on her then Twitter account! 👇

AND Cheryl/Bootsaucepunk was either dumb enough, or arrogant enough, or both to post it on her Twitter account with her FULL NAME and REAL PICTURE. 🤦‍♀️

After that, everyone in the fandom knew EXACTLY WHO Bootsaucepunk was on Tumblr. Bootsaucepunk tried to say that the pic she used on her Cheryl_____89 Twitter account wasn't really her. But, after she posted her full name, the fandom had no problem finding her on social media. 👇 Obviously, the avi pic on her old Twitter account is from YEARS ago, so she looks younger, but the pic matches her Facebook account. There is NO denying it's the same Cheryl N. And I have other pics of Cheryl N. from N.B., Canada proving this. But Tumblr only lets you post 10 pics or collages total. I'm not posting her full face, she did that all on her own, but trust me, it matches the pic SHE POSTED as her avi on her CherylN_____89 account. Same face, same person, no room for doubt. Bootsaucepunk IS 100% Cheryl N. from New Brunswick, Canada.

Again, this is NOT ME doxing her, SHE handed her identity to the fandom on a silver platter...and MANY other people in the fandom then called her out publicly as Cheryl N., and as a Sam Heughan and Caitriona Balfe hater. Here is just a small sample. 👇

Cheryl deleted her CherylN_____89 account on Twitter, but we know the approximate date when she posted the Tweet that got her blocked by Cait...because another person responded to her on February 12, 2020, calling her out for the Tweet. And also chastising for touting herself as a journalist. 👇

Guess WHO else was stirring the pot, harassing Sam, right around the SAME TIME on Instagram? 👇 Instagram troll, cherylecheryl commenting on an Instagram post, stating that besides trolling Sam on Instagram, she would also troll Sam on Twitter. That particular cherylecheryl comment was dated March 20, 2020. And CherylN_____89 was called out on Twitter by the account Fans of Sam Heughan on the SAME DAY--March 20, 2020!

Instagram troll cherylecheryl has DIRECTLY harassed and bullied Cait, Tony, Sam, and EVERY woman Sam has ever dated. This is well documented for YEARS. But here's just a small sampling of cherylecheryl harassing Sam's ex, Anna Modler and most recently, the Brazilian fan who got a pic with Sam in London, and inadvertently posted a video of Sam and rumored current date, Sarah Holden. 👇

And those are the MILD comments, she's said some horrible stuff to Sam's ex, Mackenzie Mauzy, Gia Marie, as well as many others.

Something else that's of note. An ex-shipper who got sick of Cheryl's bullying, DMed me and showed me cherylecheryl's Instagram account and something very interesting on it. Here's the content of cheryelcheryl's Instagram account. 👇 It's all faux shippery Sam Heughan and Caitriona Balfe pics. Fake, fake, fake, fronting as a shipper, yet we KNOW all the crap she's said to Sam and Cait, and about them. The cognitive dissonance is staggering. And she also follows all the hater accounts that mock Sam's dates and Cait's husband, Tony. Her oldest post is dated January 10, 2022, in it, she attacks another fan, she attacks actress Hannah James directly, and boasts the fan blocked her. BUT, if one checks her account info, it shows the account was started in March of 2018! It's not logical that she created an account in 2018 and didn't post anything until 2022. No posts at all for 4 years? NOPE, she obviously posted from 2018 to 2022, and then DELETED posts that would identify her as Cheryl N. This is also why the account shows she's changed her username 2 times. Lemme guess? Was it originally CherylN_____89? 🤔😊 👇

For those saying cherylecheryl isn't Bootsaucepunk, um, I just PROVED to you beyond a shadow of a doubt that Bootsaucepunk IS Cheryl N. And Cheryl N. has an extensively documented history of saying horrible things about Caitriona Balfe, her husband, Tony McGill, Sam Heughan, and EVERY woman he's ever dated. Cherylecheryl on Instagram has an extensively documented history of saying horrible things about Caitriona Balfe, her husband, Tony McGill, Sam Heughan, and EVERY woman he's ever dated. And I showed you in a screencap above that cherylecheryl on Instagram talked about going go harass Sam Heughan on her Twitter account. Just like Cheryl N. aka Bootsaucepunk. Gee, what are the odds that there's another Cheryl who's a horrible troll and isn't Cheryl N. aka Bootsaucepunk? C'mon, now.

Regardless, there is NO doubt WHO Bootsaucepunk is = Cheryl N. And not only is she a Sam hater, but she's also a Cait hater. Let that be known to newbies who aren't aware of the history. I'm shown accounts who claim to be Cait fans but they associate with Sam hater accounts who interact with Bootsaucepunk, comment on her posts, let her comment on their posts, and mutually reblog. In your disdain for Sam, you're inadvertently commiserating with a Caitriona Balfe and Tony McGill hater.

So if the hill you want to die on is proving that Bootsaucepunk on Tumblr isn't cherylecheryl on Instagram, that's on you. BUT, do not forget that Bootsaucepunk IS a PROVEN Cait hater. There are MANY other examples of her hate toward Cait, but the ones I showed you up above should be enough to distance yourself from her. Make NO mistake, Bootsaucepunk hates Sam Heughan AND Caitriona Balfe, and has gloated about her disdain for them BOTH for YEARS. There's no justifying or excusing Bootsaucepunk/Cheryl N.'s behavior and anyone who associates with her is guilty of condoning such behavior.

I rest my case, your honor. Case closed, Edith.

[rainbowsky]

Please stop, I beg y'all.

Aaaaarrghhhhh....

I've been seriously considering blocking some Anons, or closing my inbox to Anon asks. I don't like doing that to turtles, but I'm getting past frustrated and feeling drastic about it. A huge percentage of asks I've been getting are from turtles who do not curate their online experience and who constantly bring Twitter drama and anti messages to my doorstep and I'm tired of saying the same things over and over again.

I can't believe the volume of asks I've gotten about this stupid F'n Douban page, which tells me 100% that a decent number of you are not staying in your own lane!! The only people talking about this (fake BS) are antis!! Stay out of solo hashtags on Twitter!! Yes, that includes GG and DD's individual names. BLOCK AND IGNORE.

If you can't curate your online experience, that's your problem. Don't make it mine, or anyone else's on Tumblr.

You know what bugs me the most, is that some of you seem to put a lot more weight to what those antis who are trying to hurt you say than you do to anything me or @accio-victuuri or any of the other turtles who try to help you are saying. Why do you bother asking any of us anything if you're going to ignore the answer?

Look, antis are liars. I've said this a thousand times.

Douban is a USER EDITED site. Don't let yourself be trolled by haters. Stop buying into their narrative. They're trying to spin a negative story for you and you're getting sucked into it, and it's so frustrating.

If people keep writing me about stuff like this I'm going to close my inbox, or else take my own advice and use the block button. Stop hand-wringing about what idiots are saying on Twitter, or if you're going to do it, please don't do it in my inbox.

Focus on GG and DD and their works. Isn't that what we're all here for? Fandom should be fun!

Whatever you focus on, that's what your experience will be. Just remember that. Choose wisely.

For the next couple of weeks no one is allowed to send me negative asks. If you have any happy, positive questions related directly to GG and DD or their works, please feel free to send them in.

[notmyprey]

Hi! Uhm I’m new, I love your blog! But I’m just nervous I’ll be judged by others that I like this stuff

Hey I am so so sorry about how long it took me to get to this. I have been thinking this over quite a bit, since this is in fact a very serious thing. (I also have been really busy, which hasn't helped in the speed at which I answer asks)

Firstly, thank you! I am always so happy when people find my art/content as entertaining as I do!

Secondly, in regards to the judgment.

Unfortunately, no matter what you do, someone will judge you. But when you want something enough, when you care about something enough, you will find places and groups where that judgment lessens. I have found my place here, a place where, although no one knows my irl name, they know me by a name I answer to. Although no one knows my face, they do know a truer face of myself than many do in real life. People here know me and often know a more freeing part of me.

I think being here, on Tumbler, has been so freeing and overall rewarding. I know you may be scared of the judgment, but there are ways to lessen it. (I will give tips on how to do this later on)

Although our community has its faults, it is kind at heart and truely is trying to do what they think is best to keep others safe. Although many disagree with the methods, it always comes back to the fact that we want to have a safe place to express ourselves. This, our community, in reality, is a decently safe place.

That being said, I know the fear of harassment is very real. So if you guys want my tips on how to avoid harassment, here are some things I've found:

Dont post political views (outside of DNI lists) on your sfw vore blog. This often can lead to people who dont agree with your view on said matter to seek you out for hate. I have seen this time and time again, I whole heartedly recommend a dedicated blog to that stuff, or even creating a new/separate account for it.

Dont spam tags. This is basic, but often overlooked. Make sure you tag your posts right, or people may block you because you did post something triggering and they saw it.

Dont reblog Willy nilly. This can lead to mishaps, such as accidentally rebloging a post from an nsfw blog. Try to make sure you are rebloging from people you know are safe.

Dont threaten, even jokingly, anyone unless you make it 100% clear it is a joke. This goes for your friend, others, and even people who are mean to you. This is often overlooked, but can easily come to bite you in the ass when your words are used to make you look violent and sporadic.

If people criticize you, even unjustly, try to at least think about where those words may be coming from. I have someone call me a pedo in the past, and although I am very ace, I understand it was probably coming from a place of hurt. Whether it was their hurt or someone they knew, it was probably a subject that was important, and if they see any of the same trends as when they/another was hurt, they will point it out. Dont get angry and aggressive, no matter how much you want to. If you need to, step away.

If troll annons start invading your ask box, either turn off annon or stop answering. Answering annons like that too often only fuels the fire, trolls, not haters, but trolls specifically feed off of your reaction. There is nothing for you to often grasp onto in those moments since the face you are talking to is faceless. So, either scarcely answer trolls, or dont answer them at all.

Dont get involved in community discourse when possible. Unless your hand is forced or it is an unavoidable matter, it is best to stay out of discourse. If you still want to know what others thing/help in a muxg safer way, often, I will message others I trust about their views on the matter (or if they are involved asking if they are doing ok), but rarely anything beyond that. Its difficult, seeing people you know be in the rough situations, but often stepping in when not necessary leads to more problems than it does help.

Please note that these are just some of the things I do that help me. Other people may have their own way of keeping harassment away from their blog, but this is mine.

[time-to-write-and-suffer]

The most frustrating thing to see in the HogLeg tags is people in the notes of TERFs and edgelords and Devil's Advocates and Consciencious Objectors trying to beat some sense into them.

Like, what happened with "don't feed the trolls", guys? Here's a helpful list of what to do when seeing specific types of braindead/inflammatory posts.

"Um if HogLeg is straight up killing people then gender clinics are mutilating children!" That's a TERF. Block, report if applicable, move on. This one wants to hurt you and takes pleasure in doing so. Hates you probably. Do not engagee.

"LMAO at those snowflakes being upset at a game! I'm gonna play it and nobody can stop me!" Edgelord. Block, report if applicable, move on. Do not engage, you are the snowflake they're trying to trigger. Do not give them the satisfaction.

"Um um I'm trans and POC and Jewish and this is getting out of hand, guys! You're radicalizing the normies by being mean to them for playing the game!" or "I'm trans and POC and Jewish and you're all insane for acting like wild dogs and attacking people for playing a stupid game! I'm not like this! Be normal!" At best, a sad creature still hoping that if they act "normal" enough, the power structures that be will let them live. At worst, a rando pretending to be these things in order to further their own argument. Yes, that still happens. Yes, even on Tumblr. Either way, move on. Block if you want. Do not engage with the bad faith arguments, they're either too stupid/insecure to get anything you say or they're actively aware of your arguments and know exactly why they disagree. Not worth your time.

"Uwu uwu *crying shitting throwing up* I love Hawwy Pottew and it's my hyperfixation/comfort thing and I will play it but I that doesn't mean I'm a transphobe! I promise I love my trans siblings! I am trans/am friends with transes! Please don't call me transphobic for simply enjoying some media! I'm full of love and affection and am an ally! Let me have my comfort thing! I'm so hurt by your mean accusations, but look, I'll donate to good causes and reblog trans rights posts!" Sad bottom-feeding slug, hasn't grown a spine yet and might never do so. Don't engage, this one's definitely not worth your time, your arguments might either pass through them (on account of it having no solid bone structure) or bounce off them (the skin is thicker than it seems, and it's just pretending to be soft and squishy but actually fully knows what it's doing and doesn't want to be held accountable).

Basically, stop, don't, turn around. Don't waste your time.

Anyway, to the rest of you: Keep on being haters and godspeed.

[integra1127grimmreaper]

Baker Wonderland - Part 5

Part 4

Javi Gutierrez Masterlist

Series Masterlist

Warning: mention of pregnancy, social bullying, childbirth.

Summary: You and Javi finally go public about the baby news.

It had only been two weeks since Javi returned home, and he was already nose deep in working on a new script. You were just as busy with a new project; having to do the confectionary goods for an upcoming movie awards event.

"Here you go, Hun..." you place a snack platter down on Javi's home office desk.

"Thank you" Javi smiles, pulling you down into his lap then to sit while he rubbed your belly.

"How are my girls doing?"

"We're good... just been busy, working on the designs for the awards event" you respond, absentmindedly running your fingers through his hair.

Javi arches his brows in response, "I hope you aren't overworking yourself?"

"It's a bunch of theme designs and plans, only thing being overworked is my hand..." you roll your eyes, tugging at his hair lightly.

"Ouch!" Javi softly cried out, glaring at you.

"Was the baby..." you hold your hands up in a shrug, smirking.

Javi snots at you in disbelief, "our innocent child, that is currently nestled inside your womb, took control of your hand and pulled by hair?"

"Yup, sounds about right" you nod, flashing him a broad grin.

Bursting out with laughter, Javi shakes his head at you, "you're ridiculous, you know that?"

"And yet, you married me..." you shrug in response.

Grabbing your face, Javi pulls you in for a quick kiss, "I married you because I love you... can be as ridiculous as much as you want, will never make stop loving you."

"Good, because soon I'll have a partner to join me in my ridiculousness" you smile, resting your forehead against his.

"That so...?" Javi chuckles, going back to rubbing your belly.

"Yup... we've already mentally been making plans on how to annoyingly entertain you."

"Is that right, Nena? Are you and Mama planning on ganging up on me?" Javi directs his enquiry toward the baby as she kicks against his palm as if in agreement with you.

"I shall take that as a; absolutely, yes" you smugly remark.

"The two of you are going to drive crazy, aren't you?" Javi groans, resting his head against your chest.

"Yup" you giggle, tapping him on the shoulder then and nodding toward food platter.

"C'mon... snack time."

"Great news for our Javi G fans! After weeks of not seeing our man, he was spotted out and about with wife, Y/N today."

"God... is it me or is he looking even more gorgeous than ever?!"

"Ikr?!"

"Just wish the Whale wasn't with him ruining the pic though... is it me or does she seem huger than ever?"

"Lmao! Yeah... does she honestly think wearing bagger clothing is going to make her look slimmer?"

"C'mon now people! Why do y'all have to be so cruel?"

"Yeah! Leave her alone! She looks beautiful as always."

"If you say so, lol!"

"Maybe she's pregnant?"

"That would be wonderful! Then maybe the delusional haters will move on."

"Puta" Javi growls out, staring at his phone.

"What's wrong?" you frown at him in concern.

"Nothing" Javi responds, attempting to block you from seeing the phone screen.

"Javi" you arch a brow at him as he goes to place it in his pocket.

"It's noting, Querida."

"You're a bad lair" you state, tilting your head and reaching a hand out. "Give me your phone."

Letting out a sigh of defeat, Javi hands it over. Unlocking it, you immediately come across what he had been reading.

Exhaling heavily, you look up to find him sadly staring at you.

"You know that this doesn't bother me anymore."

"It bothers me though..." Javi voice trembles with emotion.

"It bothers me that people, complete strangers are treating my wife like shit. They don't even know you or me personally, yet believe they have the right to judge our relationship."

"I know baby, I know..." you attempt to sooth him by wrapping your arms around him.

"People are assholes and there will always be trolls lurking around to judge, it's one of the pains of being in the public eye."

"Still doesn't make it right" Javi grumbles into your neck.

"At least we have a few fans rooting for us..." you remark.

"They've been quite supportive, yes" Javi responds, straightening up to cup your face as you smiled at him.

"I love you..." he states, tipping down to kiss you then.

"I love you too" you smile when rests his forehead against yours.

You silently scanned yourself in the mirror whilst doing a final once over before leaving for the movie awards.

"You ready, Amor?" Javi enquires as he lovingly stared at you from the bedroom doorway.

"As ready as I can be" you remark, shrugging.

Walking toward you, Javi stares in complete awe as he takes in the figure-hugging dress that clearly revealed your pregnant status.

"You look beautiful, Querida..."

"Thank you, and you're looking extremely delectable" you smile, stepping into his open arms and pressing a kiss to his lips.

"Don't start something we can't finish right now, Cariño..." Javi groans against your lips in warning.

"I don't know what you're referring to, Javi..." you respond, batting your eyelashes at him in pretend ignorance.

"You know exactly what I'm speaking of..." Javi narrows his eyes at you. "And no. We are not going to be late or miss tonight's event, not when you've worked so hard on it. We can have all the fun you want once we get home after."

"Fine" you grumble sulkily.

Javi chuckles at your reaction, placing a kiss into your hair, "come hermosa, let's go shock the world with our good news."

"Alright, looks like the next car just pulled up. I wonder who it could be?" one of the interviewers announces over the microphone for the television audience.

"And... OMG! It's script writer and resident Heartthrob, Javi Gutierrez!" she announces when Javi steps out of the car.

"Along with his gorgeous bride, Y/N Gutierrez... Wow! OMG!" she then gasps out once you had gotten completely out of the car with Javi's assistance.

"Javi! Y/N! Over here!" she beckons for your attention. The two of you go walk towards her then.

"The both of you are looking breathtaking..." she eagerly greets.

"Thank you" you both respond, smiling.

"I'd like to start saying, congratulations on the marriage!"

"Thank you" you and Javi respond.

"We couldn't help but notice..." she remarks, staring at your middle suggestively.

"Yes. Yes, we're expecting" Javi states, proudly placing a hand over your belly.

"Very much so..." you remark chuckling.

"Congratulation you two! And when will Baby Gutierrez be gracing us with their presence?"

"There's still a month to go" you smile in answer.

"Wow, that's great! By the color scheme, I take it, it's a girl?" she comments, referring to your pink gown, and Javi's white suit, with a pink shirt.

"That obvious, I guess" Javi remarks as all three laughs.

"Thank you for your time. Hope you guys enjoy the evening. Congratulations once again" the interviewer states, wrapping things up and Javi and you walk toward the event entrance.

"We're almost the finish line Mrs. Gutierrez... just one more push and you'll have your little girl in your arms" the doctor instructs.

"God, it hurts...!" you cry out in discomfort.

"I know, amor..." Javi attempts to sooth you while brushing the hair off your damp forehead.

"Just a little bit more, then we'll have our princesa with us."

"It's easy for you to be so calm. You're not the one having their vagina ripped apart!" you screech out at him, giving one last push.

"Here she is!" the doctor loudly announces as an even louder sound of your infant daughter's wails rings out through the hospital room.

After Javi had cut the cord, and after being checked over and cleaned, your daughter was finally handed to you.

"She's beautiful, Javi..." you coo, teary eyed as you stared at your daughter while she slept in your arms.

"Querida..." Javi murmurs out, silent tears running down his face.

"Oh, Javi... come here" you beckon him to settle in next to you on the bed. Resting his head against yours, Javi reaches out to stroke your daughter's cheek.

"Thank you, Querida... thank you for our beautiful little girl."

"Well, it took the both of us to make her" you remind with a smirk.

Smiling back at you, Javi presses his lips against yours for a quick kiss.

"I love you, Y/N."

"I love you too, Javi."

"New update for Javi G fans! He and wife, Y/N recently welcomed a baby girl."

"OMG! I can only imagine what an adorable little girl those two's DNA created."

"They're both gorgeous, of course she'll be."

"See the trolls are quiet these days... victory for the Y/N fans!"

"Final, they've shut up! Can't wait for the first pics of Baby G to come out."

"Neither can I. So happy for both of them.

"See, told you things would get better" you remark after reading the new social media posts.

"You're right, as always..." Javi smirks in response, your daughter fast asleep in his arms.

Resting your head on his shoulder, you gently reach out to stroke her cheek, "they're right... she is adorable."

"That's because she's the best of both of us combined" Javi states proudly.

"We make a good combination, don't we?" you respond and Javi nods in agreement.

"We do... thank you for making me the happiest man alive."

Cupping your cheek, Javi pulls in for a deep kiss.

"I love you and our beautiful daughter so very much..."

"We love you too, Javi."

Tag: @thegreenkid2

[byuntrash101]

I just wanna say something about that toffee person if you have that person blocked koodles if not then i suggest you do that y’all waste your time and day with these people because they can’t get what they want y’all seriously need to start blocking these folks right away because you keep having your attention on them ain’t gonna make things better for you if they’re mad because they can’t get what they want then let them cry about it because you’re the one writing the stories not them at the end of the day that’s all i gotta say.

hi anon

I usually dont pay attention to the haters. maybe you're new to my blog but if you scroll you won't find any of the hate asks published because I simply delete them as they come.

I tried using the block option in the ask box directly. idk if it works. seems like it doesn't because I did it with the toffee user when they sent the first anon ask. but they were able to reach out to me still. I suppose the feature doesn't work or they used another account to contact me.

so yes usually i ignore the trolls but sometimes things get out of hands and need to be addressed.

so you know what, anon? the problem is not the people not blocking the haters/trolls. because the authors do that. trust me nobody goes through hate willingly when we put so much effort and time into writing for fun and for free.

the problem is the anon ask feature.

so anon, you convinced me! I'm taking it off.

now if peolple want to say something hateful they'll have to be bolder and do it with their username nice and visible so I can report and block. or they won't be able to say it at all.

[xingxueyue]

A shoutout post to non followers, non fandom people

You're welcome to block me or pretend no to see anything/swipe away from my blog if my blog post isn't right for you (which I normally do if the threads/posts/contents ain't my cup of tea), instead of leaving such comments behind.

I mean, come on, you have a brain, eyes and hands for reasons, right? Put them into good use and get out of my blog.

So yes, I'll help you three out this time round, on my end, to demonstrate the function of blocking.

Welcome to my block list, people~

Your comments are gone like magic~ hooray~

And to those who intend to create more accounts, be a total troll and haters, to leave unnecessary comments, just keep in mind, my block list welcome/await your stay~

As my saying goes, a blocked user per click keeps my tumblr clean and happy my way.

I hope that you all have a great day ahead~

XOXO

XingXueYue

[princessallura052]

Feminism is overrated

Hi guys! So this is not really a meta more of an opinion. Feminism is overrated and kind of toxic to be honest. So I originate from Pakistan and I watch Pakistani dramas too. One of them that is coming on is called Mannat Murad.

Whilst the whole relationship is problematic at best and toxic at worst, most of the audience is blaming the guy for being toxic. I don't know how much people in the West know about traditional Pakistani culture but in our culture, the bride gets married and goes to the groom's house.

Every marriage has problems - but in traditional days, the girl would understand her husband's problems and even with small arguments and bickerings, her empathy and understanding would keep things solved. Murad is the kind of guy who never raises his voice at her and she's literally asked him to fall to his feet and beg for her forgiveness because he made a bad decision under pressure. She constantly undermines him and screams at him. I will admit in the latest episodes Murad did slap her finally and that was wrong. I do not condone violence against women at all. But she did turn around and slap him back.

Yet, people still have the audacity to call Murad toxic due to feminism. Girls and boys are equal and if something is right for a guy, it should be right for a girl too. That is Mannat's viewpoint at least and then she had the galls to send him a divorce. Girl, go marry a doormat because that's the only way you will stay happy.

To girls out there, this is going to sound like tough love. Girls and boys are not equal. Boys are traditionally the king of the house and take care of the big decisions outside but come and sit besides their queen who is their wife because they trust the girl that they've married will take care of everything. Men are women's protectors and women are their caretakers. Not because women are weak and men are stronger but because women are meant to be mothers. A woman who teaches her daughter to mouth off to men, she will ruin her daughter's life. Girls, you are not equal to men. They are your king and you are their loyal queen. Respect goes both ways. Taking a stand against violence is not feminism - it's self-defence. A guy being abused by his wife should do the same. So please girls, especially my Pakistani sisters and any girls from a similar culture and even if not, please stop thinking you're better than or equal to men. You're not. A man who raises his hand against a woman is not a real man, he just has the biological parts and a woman who talks back to a man in the same of feminism and equality is not a real woman. She's a disgrace.

Any trolls or haters will be blocked as always.

[levok]

You know what the hurtful, childish thing is. Haters/trolls on twitter are making fake accounts just to talk shit with the intention for Omar to block the account. So, if before he maybe saw a small handful of these people, he is now being faced with more of them just for their own shits and giggles. This is the point that this whole this has reached, and yet people still don't understand the issue. People are publicly harassing him/them for fun and people don't want us to call them out? Keep ignoring? Omar is being the bigger person here by blocking them and try to go on with his life, but I think I need to remind some of y'all that he's a human being. A human being who had his fair share of bullying when he was younger already. People call us dramatic or overprotective just because we want to stick up for him and call bullies out. Well, they can stay silent, but I can't!

I choose to believe that Omar knows he is better than these people. That he is the one who is winning in life.

[alrightsnaps]

What part of your friend mass blocking people when at the beginning many of us wanted a simple explanation of her weird condescending behaviour towards Kate haters under her posts isn't clear for you? If you're such a women rights activist you should not deny this happened, fucking yikes. How are people supposed to give you receipts if they've been blocked for months?

anyway this is the last ask im going to answer from the troll that's been spamming me all day long to reiterate one thing: if you have receipts for what you're saying, feel free to post them and call out whoever you want to call out.

since you have enough time in your hands to flood my inbox with longass posts about what x and z edwina stans (who ive never interacted with in my life or have interest in interacting with) said or did or wrote in their fanfics, im sure you could use an incognito tab to look into selcouth’s blog and find all these posts where she supposedly insults kate and she mass blocked people over when she got called out.

mind you, one of those who blamed her for supposedly blocking them could interact with her just fine in the replies of one of the anons i answered, so you may want to revise the little story you made up.

cause so far it just looks like y'all are pressed she had the ~audacity~ to call out your immensely privileged male fave for his behaviour against kate and edwina, as she fucking should, and y'all are using kate as a proxy to pile on on anyone who insults your man.

GOOD. FUCKING. RIDDANCE.

[jajna]

Activity UPDATE

So I been getting back from art block and putting my best foot forward on most sites, mainly art related sites i feel need a proper chance again. By that I mean 1, post more art and 2, interact with others. Which I found highly rewarding before and find I STILL love even when I don’t get likes/reblogs/replies on my posts. Curious~ More of journals and expressive outlets by this point for myself. Course, I love when my posts make friends and others happy or interested xD can’t lie about that! lol But can’t take that for granted or you be disappointed. -shrug- \-(owo)-/ now...... *what do people tend to connect in posts more* ~

- Colors choice are a big one. I am not the best with pigment choices and patience slip up. When you have good color harmony people’s flock! xD - Fanart. Course, they don’t know your OC’s, Relate more to their favorite movie/book/etc. This works out great for me tho, tend to put OC’s or sona to interact with fanart characters. its great! More fun for ME! - Comics/active images. Easier to comment on then say a posing character. - Personal art. I tend to like art more when I know the artist, or at least find them funny, kind or somewhat relate to them emotionally. This is why I think personal art are extremely important. They are putting themselfs out there, connecting with their family/friends/audience despite all trolls/haters/AI and art thiefs. And If I think this are important. Then I bet. Most art lovers are the same. --------- BUT OF COURSE!!

We can’t create for others. no! well, maybe, if it’s your work and you have no choice and need income. o_o; still STiiiiiiiiiiiiiILL To protect you from art blocks and burned out!!!! - it’s important to sometimes like the idea of what you draw! Get it out there and even if nobody interacts with it’s creation, you, are happy its out. create for yourself. /^ U^/ When in an art block I rather sketch faces of all my OC’s, it’s relaxing. no rules about having to look good, surprising how creative one become with the I draw whatever i want mood. - Write a creative list: of things you would want to create for a blue day when the head is empty(butyoufffffSTILLwanttodraw). this goes hand in hand with the first one, but are soooooo fucking handy. ---------------

hum... thinking about all that I started ponder whyyyyyy i post stuff on the internet. like.... For me personally, - It’s mainly friends and art community!!! - I also like using these sites as journals/blogging/outlet. - and some sites are handy portfolios. ;)) not particular important for ME. but you know... people (mainly family lol) get’s curious what you are drawing. ------------------------ and after all that I want to turn to the subject of problematic interactions on the internet.... the creativity killers, trolls/haters/AI art/art thieves................. =____= I know................ better be done with this one quick. Bleeeh.... - Block if they make you uncomfortable, it’s your room. - Delete comments freely. - You don’t own them anything. ----------------------------------------------------- NOW.

Having said all this I am highly aware folks are working/going to school, rather be with family when free and the world are in a stressful position. Becomes even harder if your disabled, easily stressed and got frail income (and so much more!!!!!) Art is not your main focus. Only reason I myself can art every day and be be active online Is I made it a daily activity, to make myself happier. ^^ Because I was retired at an early age of 30. Could not keep up with today’s pressure of society because of my ADHD. Working 8 times a day, doing shores like shower/do dishes/bills/wash clothes and still have energy after for family and friends was impossible. ^^; Was lucky to have a mom who work in the health field so she noticed my difficulties just as I entering my teen years. To not mention, Sweden are one of those countries who take mental health rather seriously. Which is how I can survive without working full time and instead have meetups and the like with others like me almost every day to at least get out from the house. Daily activities or schedules are encouraged. Like going to the gym, hanging with friends an family, working on your interest.

SO YOU MIGHT SEE WHY IT’S EASIER FOR ME!! don’t beat yourself up. I can only do this because of all the support I have and, well, my own urge still wanting to contribute to society. Would not get anything done if I didn’t find art/blogging/journaling interesting. xD I dono If I ever get a proper job. If I have one It have to fit me personally rather then I fitting in a tight mold. I was so frustrated and felt trapped for years. Nowadays I accepted reality but have not abandoned my dreams. Dreams are important. Make art to make yourself happy you guys!!! <3

[amnemonic-canid]

For the grumble ask game, how about 5, 3, and 9?

Note: these characters use multiple sets of pronouns, so for this post I will use one per character for clarity! Ikaros (he) Axel (she) and Wolfie (it).

5. If they could draw, how would they draw themselves? (Realistic, cartoony, etc)

I mean technically Ikaros has an art style because he's posted drawings to the blog before, but probably more chicken-scratchy and shaky! While originally more of a joke, this version would probably draw himself as Johnie Ghhost unironically.

I think Axel would draw geometrically.

Wolfie will try its best. Or draw itself like a wolf.

3. If given a grub, what would they do with it?

Technically this happened to Wolfie Axel would hand it off immediately. If she doesn't it's going to die because she forgot about it.

I don't think Wolfie could handle taking on another grub. The one it's taken on is. Surviving. But he also has a lusus.

Ikaros's lusus would probably either try to eat it or try to take care of it. Due to his age and blocked out memories, he wouldn't have the experience to take care of another troll properly. He would be encouraging and well-meaning, but ultimately would not have the ability to help a grub survive.

9. If they got fanonized/fandomized, how would they change?

Axel has an entire method of conceptualizing emotions and dealing with thoughts that running a social media blog does not show off too well. If I gave her their own blog she could probably add posting her thoughts online as an axis? I doubt this whole thing would end up sticking, and she'd get boiled down to either "funnygirl who says off the handle things sometimes", infantilized and defended like every time she's mean it's because she didn't realize what she was saying was bad, or just hated for being a dick. Axel is a hater with standards and I love her.

There is a Great Wolfie Schism where it is treated as either the mother character or it is treated as abusive. Neither group is right.

Would not be surprised if there was a little group that was like "Ikaros is a spiteful cunt". He's 10 years old (conceptually). He's light-hearted and childish even as he grows up and knows what he can get out of other trolls, which might land him in getting infantilized as well. IDK.

Ifever the Axel and Ikaros moirallegience works out, one of them is getting ignored and it is probably Axel even though Ikaros is the one pacifying her here.

[tpquill]

Beware of the trolls - part 2

We live in a world were many a cyber bully hides behind the alias of “guest” by logging into sites and posting their repugnant garbage free of anonymity. As I’ve stated previously, fansites have their fair share of phantom bloggers; hiding behind VPN’s so you can’t trace their IP - so sure they will never get caught. Too afraid of exposing their true identity because that would mean you know who they are and where they’re located. But are more than happy to trace where you have come from, right down to high school/middle school and the very street you once lived in.

Their insidious need to profess their hatred of anything you post, the vapid toxicity of their rants - their reasons behind the hatred they spew, simply because you have a corner of the webspace that belongs to you and your opinions, well how dare you have that right?

My advice…don’t feed them. Don’t give them what they so desperately need - attention. Block and report or simply just block. They hang on to your every word, your every reblog and post. They crave the attention you give them by replying to their bile and phlegm, they want to get a rise out of you, because then they feel vindicated. Those more vocal have more to loose. In every fandom there are trolls; cave dwelling haters. You expose them by replying back to them, it makes them feel somehow important, needy, desperate. The more attention you give them, the more they flourish under your misdirected guidance. Their mental behaviour is exposed quite quickly because of their needy grasp on fantasy - they have you in the corner, you vulnerable, you exposed. If they were so apt at being cyber sleuths “I know where you live” google is a wonderful thing and you know what else is - blocking and deleting their sorry ass. They use threats like this to make you feel vulnerable - they get under your skin by threatening your very existence - thus leaving themselves wide open. They dox and mine peoples information for what gain, to have the upper hand - and do exactly what with it?

[shinydixon]

i'm sorry, you seem sane and i need to vent. i need to. so this is part 1, ok. please don't kill me. i think those toxic anons that read too much into every little thing and over analyze every detail or come up with crazy theories about joe or his co-stars or his friends or the girls he's been seeing throughout the year...i think those anons need to learn about a thing called occam's razor which means that when a certain thing generates too many explanations and theories and whatnot, the simpler one, most often than not, is the right one. and when you step away from the drama you see that everything has a simple explanation: joe and g*r*c* are friends, she has a boyfriend, he's enjoying his newfound fame.did she let things get out of control with her tumblr and twitter and all the trolling? yes, yes she did. probably out of spite, probably to prove she had the upper hand. it's easy to hate her when you think about how much she fed the v*nnquinn delusions but at the same time, she's never received this kind of attention before. she's an actress and a streamer, she's gonna milk the shit out of these cons and fans theories and she's gonna keep liking h*llcheer and v*nquinn posts because they keep her relevant. her father's been on this for a long time, he's probably the one encouraging her to do the things she does. and let's not even mention that he's on it too but him i can kinda let i slide because, hey, he's just proud of his kid and he's being embarassing on social media like all dads are. so until this hype dies down entirely, there's no escaping her or her fans. and i think joe has no idea she does this. notice she only goes wild on her tumblr and twitter. she makes posts about haters, deletes them a second later, posts them again, deletes it again, says joe's fans are bullying her, pretends nothing ever happened. on twitter she likes a lot of posts that seem harmless but when you check their account, it's full of people shipping her with joe and fucking tagging her on posts like 'stop fucking each other and feed us!!!'. there's no way she doesn't see this shit. but she plays dumb. and joe, who didn't even know we already knew he was cast in a quiet place because he genuinely doesn't enjoy being online, has no clue because the only social media he's active is insta. so basically, yeah, this isn't gonna stop any time soon unless something really drastic happens and the best way to avoid it is to filter the tags, block the accounts that you don't want to see. joe and alana are also just friends. maybe friends with benefits? who knows, she tours all the time and he hasn't been able to stay still for longer than a week because of his work, doesn't seem like a good time to date anyone seriously. the girls he's been seen with? he's going on dates and having fun. he's a grown man, if he wants to get laid, he'll get laid. he doesn't hate eddie now because of his 'fans', he's genuinely thankful for the role and he cares a lot about his fans. the ones that don't stalk him, that is. joe's not a little babydoll who needs to be protected at all costs, he's not a sims character for so called 'fans' to dictate his every move.

Part 1/2

[lexidius]

Hey, anon? Fun story. I used to be a radferm lesbian terf and a huge man-hater during high school back in the early 2010s. I would make fun of fictionkin and troll through various tags, going out of my way to invalidate anyone with a fiction-based kintype. Now I'm a nonbinary, pansexual transmasc trying to get on T and even briefly was the webmaster for fictionkin dot info after I staged a munity against the nazi zoophile who was camping on fictionkin dot com's url (also now defunct, afaik). My strongest selfhood is from a fictional media source.

Do you wanna know why and how that change happened? I'll tell you why. I had open dialogue with "anyone can interact" spaces, asked questions, looked for spaces where people were willing to take the time to actually sit down and educate me. Because had I been isolated to only talking to other radfem man-haters and flop accounts, I could have ended up on a slippery slope towards the Far Right simply because people weren't willing to pull up a chair for me, sit me down and have the patience to tell me - calmly and gently but also boldly and firmly - how my views were harming not only others, but my own trans alterhuman journey.

Of course, not every terf, flop account and exclusionist will bother to respect those spaces or the wishes of people who don't want to interact. This is a sad truth, unfortunately, and is why I quickly moved away from those spaces and have my own "terfs dni" disclaimers on my blog. I also block people who aren't willing to listen or learn.

But those who are simply misguided, and do have it in them to change if someone just took their hand and showed them something better? Don't kick them out. That's how the cycle of bad-faith identities continues, because if we don't take them in, the fascists who want us dead will swoop in and lure them further into bigotry. I speak from experience as someone who was nearly pulled into those cults. And yes, they do count as cults. Not every cult is religious - some are political. But I digress.

Anyway, my point is, anon, shut the fuck up and eat a fucking dick. The world isn't so black and white that you can just make broad sweeping generalizations like that. Fuck off. I can try to educate you, anon, like others tried to educate me, but if you want to be a little bitch about it then you can go back to your echo chamber of cotton wool where nothing can ever hurt you and you'll never learn how to coexist with people outside that bubble. I had my bubble popped, and thank fuck I did, otherwise I'd currently be calling you a hypersensitive trigglet who needs to get away from uwu safety land and pastel mogai stimboards to go and touch grass before your nasty-ass trans agenda diddles another kid. Or some toxic, backwards shit like that.

tl;dr "anyone can interact" blogs with shorter dnis were what talked me out of that mindset. if you don't like that? fuck off. stay mad.

Personally I just don't want to interact with anyone who's like. Buddy-buddy with terfs, for example, and I'm fairly certain that "anyone can interact" means "I don't block terfs"

Well, I often see that "anyone can interact" blog stance as a response to people having dnis over extremely online and niche discourse takes. I'm not trying to invalidate your experiences in any way, im just surprised to see a take like this because it's not my experience at all.

I wouldn't assume someone who has "anyone can interact" is a terf, id just assume they don't like internet discourse, and i think thats a lot more common of a reason than what you're mentioning. I'm sure it does happen though 🤷‍♂️

[qqueenofhades]

Okay, y'all. Time to do this one more time. Let the fact that there are so many of these posts right now reinforce the point. Many of you already know this, and I see and love you, but for anyone still ~undecided about their choice, should they be an American citizen of voting age on November 3, 2020:

Time to not be. It was time a long, long while ago, but I am going to have to say it again.

Primary season is over. The endless fine-tooth combing of candidates' policies and positions is over. We are all deeply well aware that the candidates on the Democratic ticket, being human beings and establishment politicians, are flawed. "BUT WHAT ABOUT THIS POSITION FROM 19/ 20-WHENEVER AS JUSTIFICATION FOR WHY IT'S TERRIBLE TO VOTE FOR -- "

No. Stop. Just stop. Stop threatening to hold the rest of us hostage, in the middle of a pandemic, the Great Depression, and racial inequality and protests on a scale not seen from the 1960s, because you did not get Barbie Dream Candidate. That is the behavior of terrorists and toddlers. If your supposedly enlightened morally pure ideology does not involve any action to mitigate the harm that is directly in front of you, it isn't worth a shit as an ideology actually devoted to helping people. If your approach to politics is to shout about how Pure your ideas are on twitter and tear down anyone working within a system of flawed choices to do the good that they can: you're not helping, and frankly, your constant threats to withhold your suffrage as a punishment to us aren't convincing the rest of us that we really need to listen to you or that you have anyone's best interests at heart. The Online Left TM is as much a vacuous, self-reinforcing noise chamber as the Online Right TM, and can sometimes tend to be even more dangerous.

I was saying this in 2016. A lot of us were saying this in 2016. I am just about to turn 32 years old and have been voting in federal elections for almost 15 years. For what it's worth.

This is not an ordinary election. This is not a contest between two flawed candidates who respect the system and want to work to enact their policies in the ordinary way. One is a flawed 90s era Democrat who nonetheless has already been pushed CONSIDERABLY left in his policies and platforms since the end of the primaries (and his existing platform would already make him the most left president elected, even more than Obama). The other is a fascist dictator who has openly spoken about refusing to accept the election results, his desire to abolish term limits and serve for life, and complete the pillaging of any remaining fragile American public funds for him and his cult of cronies. He does not respect the system. He does not want to do anything for anyone that is not himself. 160,000 and counting needless deaths of American citizens have already happened. Will keep happening.

This is the last time Trump has to face voters. This is the last chance the country has to repudiate his entire poisonous ideology and its marching Nazi minions. IF he steps aside, which is already far from guaranteed, he can ride off into the sunset as a vindicated two term president and probably be rehabilitated like George W. Bush was within a few years of leaving office. American political memory is very short. It will happen. Again, if he even leaves.

RBG is 87 and has cancer again. She will NOT survive another four years. Stephen Breyer is 81. Their seats could both come up in the next four years. The Supreme Court could be a right wing rubber stamp for whatever time we all have left before climate change and coronavirus kill us all.

"But if people just thought for themselves and did their homework and didn't vote the party line like sheep, we could support a third party/write in -- " Stop. Just stop. Attend a ninth grade civics class and learn about how politics work in America. Yes, the two-party system sucks. Yes, the Electoral College is a hot steaming pile of absolute bullshit. Magical unicorn fairy dust fantasies WILL NOT change that.

Do not vote for Kanye (who has pretty much openly admitted he is trying to play spoiler to Biden on behalf of his buddy Trump). Do not vote for godforsaken fucking Gary Johnson or Jill Stein who appear on ballots just to give sanctimonious leftists the illusion of virtue-signaling. If you want any chance of fixing the mess that 2020 has left America and the world in, you need to vote for Joe Biden and Kamala Harris. The end.

Biden is a flawed old man who was our last choice, sure. He is also a distinguished public servant who has already been in the White House for eight years under Obama and thus we KNOW what to expect. He is an empathetic man who connects with people's personal tragedy and picked as his running mate a younger Black/biracial woman who directly confronted and called him out on past behavior. While the pundit class was simpering and whining about how it was Disrespectful and how could he consider her, Biden did so, and that speaks well to me of the fact that he is willing to learn, to take criticism, and not just accept it from a former Black female rival, but make her his second in command and the potential first female president of the United States.

Can you EVER picture Trump doing that? Not in eight thousand million years.

As for Kamala, we are all aware of her previous checkered history as a prosecutor (and even then, she did plenty of good things as well!). Since joining the Senate, however, she has consistently become one of its most progressive members. She is the co-sponsor of an economic aid package designed to give every American $2,000/month, backdated to March (the start of the coronavirus pandemic) and continuing at least a few months after its end. A Biden-Harris White House could make that happen. Especially if they are put into office with a Democratic House and Senate (for the love of God, Kentucky, kill Mitch McConnell with fire). That is just one example.

Harris's nomination is obviously historic. And Biden didn't choose another Biden (or another Tim Kaine, the blandest white man imaginable). He chose another Obama: a younger rising star of an immigrant background, a person of color, a former lawyer and someone who represents the diversity of the country that the white supremacists and the Cheeto in Chief have tried to paint as its worst and most degenerate evil.

A vote for Biden and Harris means getting rid not just of Trump, but Mike Pence, Vladimir Putin, Jared Kushner, Betsy Devos, the Trump crony destroying the Postal Service, the rampant coronavirus misinformation and bullshit, the destruction of Social Security and Medicare, the spread of Nazi propaganda from the President's twitter account, the likely two Supreme Court picks that would be as bad as Brett Kavanaugh or worse... on and on. Biden and Harris would be elected by progressive voters and thus answerable to them in 2022 midterms and 2024 general. They can both be, and already have been, pushed further left. They are reasonable and competent adults who have demonstrated experience and compassion. I KNOW about their flaws and past actions I don't agree with. But I'm frankly done with any more counterproductive straw man bitching about This One Bad Thing They Did and how it makes it a terribad awful choice to vote for them. Open your eyes. Look at the alternative. LOOK AT WHAT HAS ALREADY HAPPENED AND THE FACT THAT THIS IS NOT EVEN AS BAD AS IT COULD STILL GET.

Check your registration or register at vote.gov.

DO NOT LOOK AT POLLS AND DECIDE "EH BIDEN IS CLEARLY GOING TO WIN, I DON'T NEED TO VOTE." THAT IS HOW WE LOST LAST TIME.

Unseating incumbents is HARD. It is even harder when the other side has openly laid out their plan to cheat in great detail, and there is nothing really stopping them from doing it. The only thing, in fact, is massive, unfalsifiable results on an undeniable scale.

So:

Vote.

Vote for Joe Biden and Kamala Harris.

Thanks a lot.