#harrys so toxic ew

[shivstar]

why do u hate wolfstar lmao like u saying ur getting harassed is funny as hell it’s just a ship 😭😭

For me to explain you that, I have to explain a bit of psychology.

In psychology, reactance is an unpleasant motivational reaction to offers, persons, rules, or regulations that threaten or eliminate specific behavioral freedoms. Reactance occurs when an individual feels that an agent is attempting to limit one's choice of response and/or range of alternatives.

Reactance can occur when someone is heavily pressured into accepting a certain view or attitude. Reactance can encourage an individual to adopt or strengthen a view or attitude which is indeed contrary to that which was intended — which is to say, to a response of noncompliance — and can also increase resistance to persuasion. 

In crux, my hate for wolfstar stems from reactance.

Wolfstar works on the structure that it is a canonical ship because jkr was playing hide and seek and sprinkling around crumbs of clues that Remus and Sirius are boning each other. (Or should I say Sirius was getting f*cked by his moony, because that is what 90% of wolfstar is about. A top Remus and a bottom Sirius- add this to my reasons for dislike list)

But anyways whenever anyone says to (most) wolfstar side of people why the literal soulmate guys - James and Sirius are not much famous as a ship, the reply is 'ew, why would you want to downplay the importance of a friendship' ' I can never see James and Sirius in a romantic setting' 'but there is no chemistryyyy!!!!! '

But when the same reply is given that oh I see Sirius and remus as casual friends who dont know each other well because they distrusted each other, the fandom and it's defenders comes bearing weapons.

My point is I was pretty neutral towards the ship.

Then i went looking for Jegulus. Because I was interested in marauders side kf stories. I found jily to be bland. Wolfstar was downright signaling towards toxic relationship I was never interested in. (I believe that canon Sirius deserved so much better than canon Remus, who is such a rag tag kf a guy) ( you guys have found a cure to that too by innovation of fanon Remus. The macho man. The alpha leader. The casanova. The sex guru. But the problem is that his name is still Remus Lupin and I have read hp books with all devotion. I can only see him as a guy shirking away from his personal responsibilities. Not checking up on Harry. Running away from pregnant wife. Naming a 17 year old kid with the biggest target on his back as the godfather to his child. Hitting Harry when he was trying to explain to Remus that he is a coward. Not telling Dumbledore about Sirius's animagus status. {Please do not romanticize his reasoning, I beg you. It is about hundreds of students's life. Including James's son. Also do nit say that he thought that Sirius didn't do it. Then he should have done a better job in helping Sirius out of azkaban. Atleast found him in yr 3 and helped him than. CLUE - he is the co creator of marauders map, don't tell me he didnt know where Sirius was} You get it....

Still I was pretty neutral towards wolfstar. I never interacted with it because I was nit interested.

But reading Jegulus comes with the added bonus of free wolfstar. All the time.

I left the fandom not liking how the marauders I loved were never found in either jegulus nor wolfstar. Disappointed.

But then i entered the World of Prongsfoot. Found mostly writers doing justice to the James and Sirius and Peter and Remus I was initially intrigued as a kid.

Also I am not talking about following canon plot in the fics... I am saying the wibe is always off. Like my hc is Sirius and James as top dogs and then Remus and peter. While the basic given in wolfstar and jegulus is Sirius+James + Remus and then Peter, if they are feeling charitable. Otherwise it is Remus and then James and then Sirius and then Peter.

Then tumblr through - 'you may like this because you like this' and extra excited wolfstar and jegulus fans through wrong tagging decided that I should see these incorrect marauders era post . Where Sirius is always dramatic or stupid or idiot and a combination thereof. That was the day where this intense dislike begin.

Now this unnecessary shoving in my face something I am not interested in, made me hate wolfstar.... The reactance theory I explained earlier. I am just reacting to this incessant need to believe wolfstar is canon. That Sirius only belongs to his moony and no one else. That Remus and Sirius are soulmates. ...

PS - do not comment or message me etc to make me change my opinion or make me see things from your side. The truth is that i cannot suddenly make you like a ship say Prongsfoot in the Romantic light when all you see is two friends. Similarly I won't suddenly start liking wolfstar Or Remus Lupin. This is my post with proper tagging so that I am nit hurting sensible feelings of anyone. I have right to have my own views and opinion. And that in this case is that I despise wolfstar and Remus Lupin. I am not inviting people to make me see light. I am just answering to a simple ask.... 😊

[anthonysalazar]

rating the (canon) buffyverse ships based on how much i like them

angel + buffy (7/10) i think it's okay for what it is, but buffy clearly outgrows him in the end but omg that i will always remember you episode on ats is so tragic and made me appreciate them sm more

spike + buffy (9/10) OMG THE SCENE OF THEM IN SEASON 7 WHERE SPIKE SAYS HE LOVES HER NOT BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE DOES OR BECAUSE HE'S GETTING ANYTHING IN RETURN BUT BECAUSE OF WHO SHE IS AND WHAT SHE IS IS SO. i love them together omg.

riley + buffy (6/10) i don't like hate them? riley had sm potential as a character and as a boyfriend but good lord did they handle him badly. they could've made him a cute golden retriever boyfriend for buffy but instead they made him toxic masculinity TM. season 4 riley is enjoyable though, just once you get to season 5 he becomes annoying and pretty unbearable

willow + oz (8/10) SO CUTE!! i will always be mad that they wrote willow as a complete lesbian, as i know sexuality is fluid but her romance with both oz and tara read more as a bisexual woman rather than a lesbian. i wish oz had stayed on the show longer though as he was amazing, not just as willow's love interest. i love you forever oz

willow + tara (9/10)

i love them so so so so much my fav sapphic lovers. tara is my favorite buffyverse character besides buffy herself and seeing her character growth that came from willow's open support and friendship that blossomed into a romance was one of the greatest romance arcs on television i love them sm. willow's magic addiction is weird though in season 6 and weighs on their relationship a bit but in the end i love them

willow + kennedy (1/10) ew. i don't have to explain myself just ew.

willow + xander (1/10) no. no no no no no.

xander + cordelia (3/10) ew no, i will forever hate xander harris and pairing my girl cordy with him will forever make me mad AND THEN HE CHEATS ON HER???? vile.

xander + anya (6/10) i actually don't hate them sometimes, but it infuriated how often he undermined her when she was one of the most knowledgeable characters in the buffyverse on history with magic and etc. their little arc during once more with feeling made me like them a lot more though

spike + anya (5/10) i don't take it seriously as a ship but it was so funny when it did happen and i love it for that

cordelia + angel (8/10) SUCH A BETTER PAIRING FOR THESE CHARACTERS THEY SHOULD'VE BEEN THE ENDGAME!

giles + jenny (9/10) SO CUTE. THE TRAGEDY OMG I SOBBED SO HARD WHEN JENNY DIED I MISS YOU SM. the pining, the difference in technology vs physical information, etc. their dynamic was adorable and i'll always miss her sm

buffy + robin (4/10) very short lived and fizzled out so fast that it barely counts, i like robin alot though and wish he was given more to do as i found him interesting

drusilla + spike (7/10) i kinda love their devotion to each other even if it was extremely unhealthy, aesthetically also a very sexy ship and i love them for that

angel + darla (8/10) darla is one of the most underrated buffyverse characters and her arc in ats made her so so so fascinating that i am partially giving it such a high score because of my fascination with darla

fred + gunn (9/10) so cute!! i love them so much and it was so wholesome

fred + wesley (6/10) good amount of pining i guess? i don't have much to say about it but it was enjoyable enough

doyle + cordelia (7/10) so cute also!! i wish doyle had stayed around longer as i loved him lots

wesley + cordelia (3/10) ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew. SHE WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL DUDE IDC SO GROSS

wesley + lilah (7/10) in terms of functionality, not the best, BUT in terms of my fascination, very very high up omg

harmony + spike (4/10) also kinda a crack ship but it was funny while it lasted, harm deserved better though

(i think i covered them all but if there's more i'll update this)

[s0lifuge]

to celebrate hitting over 100k words of hp fanfic* on my ao3 account i'm going to self indulgently reflect on my favourites of the fics i've written so far in this fandom!

i was having visions of sugared pastry (cooked up in clarified butter)

rating: mature pairing: draco/harry warnings: eating disorders, violence, homophobia word count: 33,867 thoughts: this is my favourite fic that i've (co)written, and its metrics seem to reflect that readers agree. depicting draco's ED in this fic is maybe the most care i've ever put into writing something in my life. trying to capture the lived experiences of myself and my loved ones with EDs in a way that felt true to life AND to draco (and narcissa as his almond mom) was a remarkable challenge. i made something i'm proud of out of it. i know ED fics can be tough, but if there's anything of mine you're wiling to try to read, please let it be this!

i wanna be so real, you can't see the difference

rating: mature pairing: draco/harry warnings: body image issues, sectumsempra fallout word count: 5,248 thoughts: by kudos this is my second most popular fic, and i think i agree with that - it's similar in themes to sugared pastry, but more focused on harry and draco's relationship post-war (EWE of course). i really love exploring narcissa & draco's sometimes-loving sometimes-toxic thing i imagine for them, and i thought this had her spectre hanging over it in a really good way as well.

series: you can only get so wet

rating: explicit pairings: snape/draco, draco/harry, lucius/draco warnings: dead dove, teacher/student relationship, father/son incest word count: 20,190 (for now) thoughts: i find the idea of snape and draco getting into an illicit relationship, and how that interacts with draco's other relationships, both consensual (with harry) and nonconsensual (with his father) really compelling. this series is like, objectively gross, but i think my handling of the topics reflects my own lived experience of grooming and incest in a way i am proud to have articulated.

series: water of the womb

rating: explicit pairings: lucius/draco, draco/harry warnings: dead dove, teen pregnancy, father/son incest word count: 3,363 (for now) thoughts: so series is currently just one narsty fic about lucius being a terrible human being and transmasc draco suffering for it, BUT it inspired a mature-rated long slow burn i'm currently cowriting with the same author as sugared pastry about draco's pregnancy & how harry reacts throughout the process... we're really working to make it as perfect as possible so it's taking a while, but please keep an eye out for it! if you liked sugared pastry you'll like this one, and reading the dead dove is not necessary for getting the content of the longfic

tell me

rating: explicit pairings: draco/harry, lucius/draco warnings: fetishization of past sexual trauma, edgeplay word count: 2,908 thoughts: i just recently wrote this one, and honestly the porn is alright but the bulk of the fic that i really care about is how they negotiate the edgeplay during and after... it's challenging stuff but imo it really reflects what edgeplay is like, and how to healthily move forward from a scene when that's a part of your relationship.

bonus: the god-kings of wiltshire

rating: general pairings: draco/harry warnings: none word count: 1,996 (lol) thoughts: this is my least popular fic by every metric which is fine because it's so fucking specific lol but basically after seeing this amazing neolithic unesco world heritage site i was like "what about this but pureblood" and i think the result is pretty neat. check it out if you're feeling disturbed by every other recommendation on this list lmao

thanks for tolerating my navel gazing, and thanks to everyone who reads, reblogs, comments, leaves kudos, bookmarks, subscribes, you make writing so fun and lovely!!

[dhr-ao3]

Atonement

Atonement https://ift.tt/5gsBnQj by ArfisraR She might not call him by his name when they’re together; she might not wear his clothes. But he’s the one she wants in her bed next to him. And he wants her so badly that he’ll take whatever she’ll give him, however small and meaningless. He’ll give all of himself to her if she wants it, as long as she wants it, wants him. [Co-workers AU - Enemies to Lovers] Words: 1862, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English Fandoms: Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Categories: F/M Characters: Draco Malfoy, Hermione Granger Relationships: Hermione Granger/Draco Malfoy Additional Tags: POV Draco Malfoy, Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence, Harry Potter Epilogue What Epilogue | EWE, Ministry of Magic Employee Draco Malfoy, Ministry of Magic Employee Hermione Granger, Co-workers, Enemies to Lovers, Love/Hate, Explicit Sexual Content, Porn with Feelings, Casual Sex, Dom/sub Undertones, Pining Draco Malfoy, Draco Malfoy is So Whipped, Touch-Starved, Spit As Lube, degradation kink, Obsessive Draco Malfoy, Toxic Hermione Granger, Unhealthy Relationships, Jealousy, Past Hermione Granger/Ron Weasley, toxic codependency, Angst and Porn via AO3 works tagged 'Hermione Granger/Draco Malfoy' https://ift.tt/mIRWX8U October 05, 2024 at 12:42AM

[caitiewantstobeavadakedavrad]

6, 7, 10, 16 and 24 for the ask game (i'm greedy)

Ask me something from the choose violence questions!

6. Which ship fans are the most annoying?

Oh god, so many. The first ones that come to mind are jegulus and dramione shippers. Obviously not all of them but the amount of times I see these shippers just show up and bring up their ship when the topic isn’t even related to said ship is insane. I once saw someone make this drarry edit on tiktok and so many of the comments were just “dramione is better!!!” “Ew this is toxic”. Which is incredible ironic.

7. What character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because of how the fandom acts about them?

Probably Remus and Hermione. I never really liked hermione in the first place but seeing the fandom treat her like she’s perfect and can do no wrong really aggravates me. And remus well….he is suffering from the ocification like the rest of the marauders characters. And the oc they’re making remus into is just incredibly boring and stereotypical yet they’re claiming he’s dimensional.

10. Worst part of fanon

Can I just say everything that came from marauderstok and marauders twitter? Because it’s all of that. The main one that stands out is Remus being the “Casanova of gryffindor tower”. This hc is so fucking stupid because it was literally a line that was said sarcastically yet people took it incredibly literal. Remus is a LOSER, I can guarantee he was not pulling everyone. I also don’t like the bimbofication, babygirlification, and teenager girlification of sirius but idk if that counts as fanon because it’s actually incredibly niche but the fans seem to think it’s a fact. But anyways, it makes sirius incredibly ooc and downright obnoxious.

16. You can’t understand why so many people like this thing (characterization, trope, headcanon, etc.)

Oh maybe this would be a better place to talk about what the marauders fandom is doing to sirius, but I already kinda talked about that (although I’m always up for complaining about it) so I’ll move on to something else. I don’t understand why Hermione is the fandom bicycle? Maybe it’s just because I don’t like her but she quite literally doesn’t mesh well with a majority of the characters she’s paired with. It feels like people are just using her as a self-insert. And it also would make more sense for Harry to be the bicycle but the people who like the Hermione bicycle thing just seem to want everything to be het. Which like, fine, but just write ‘x reader’ fics.

24. Topic that brings up the most rancid discourse

I actually don’t know? Maybe any snape discourse? I feel like that causes the most arguments and it can get kinda ugly because no one is listening to each other, they’re just calling the other side horrible people. This is coming from a snape anti/sometimes tolerater.

[redpool]

NEW MOON

oops, i thought eclipse was before new moon

new moon is my favourite of the 5

mainly because i prefer the wolves

AHFGHGDHFHGCHG

CHARLIE!!!!!

ANGELA MY LOVE

jesus christ

lol

why do you say rabbit like that?

fucking hell

they're not even quiet about it.

the parallels to the R&J scene and the bit with the Volturi

lol, i thought vampires were supposed to be beautiful

DEMETRI!!!!!

lol

ew, shut up

ROSE MY LOVE

shut up Emmett

god

fucking idiot

i never thought these words would ever leave my mouth but PUT IT IN YOUR MOUTH

when i cut my finger my first instinct is to press on the wound so more blood comes out because it fascinates me, yours should be to cover it because you are in a ROOM FULL OF VAMPIRES.

how does the hair changing work for this kind of vampire?

because Jasper and Alice seem to have a different haircut every movie

THE CHIN TAP

FUCK

HOLY BALLS

clearly not

jesus sorry, I'm ignoring what's happening and trying to remember how to spell, apparently i can't spell it so clearly will have to do.

shut up, look at her bro

gasp

seriously

YAY TIME FOR THE WOLVES

look at her you little coward

shut up

there's not a single thought behind those eyes.

oh lovely, lead her out to the middle of nowhere then adandon her

what the fuck

thats not creepy at all

SAM!!!!!

is a bit weird tbh

THERE'S A POSSIBILTY THERE'S A POSSIBILTY

MM, MM-MM, MM-MM, MM-MM, MM, MM-MM, MM-MM, MM-MM

what are these nightmares from? PTSD or from the codependency?

ANGELA MY LOVE

oh my fucking god

this is not going to help.

ffs

skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip

girl, just go to therapy, jesus christ

BELLA WHERE THE HELL YOU BEEN LOCA

SHOW ME THE BOY

GIVE HIM TO ME

ew, age is not just a number, you fucking pedophile

EMBRY, MY LOVE

AHSHDFVHGSDFV

good one, shithead

Charlie be my dad (NOT IN A SEXUAL WAY)

his voice irritates my brain

stop talking like that

skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip skip

idiot

that's not enough blood for a head wound

ANGELA MY LOVE

stop

secondhand embarrassment

aren't you with Jessica?

jesus christ

Jacob is supposed to be 16, oh my god

lol

dont start with that toxic masculinty shit

you gotta stop bro

oh my god

'And you think I'm sort of... beautiful..' shut all the way up

STOP

pfft

i'm gonna hurl

ooo

hes losing it

Harry <3

jfc

stop looking

oop

'everyone' then proceeds to only name one person

oh my fucking god

how is that a 16 year old?

what, you expect flowers to last that long? do you not how the seasons work?

that's Sam right?

oh, they're all here, never mind

jesus christ Bella

wait she's 18 at this point right? and he's 16...

put a shirt on

liar

jesus, they're both bad for her.

he's got a fucking 8 pack

PAUL!!!!

oop

jesus christ

i fucking hate this so much

oh my god

jesus christ

EMBRY!!!!! god i love him

EMILY!!!!!!!!!!!! BE MY MOTHER

awe

grumpy x sunshine

AHAHJHDSFVJHS

what the hell

are you a fucking idiot?

oh shit

i hate that Harry died but i get Seth and Leah out of it so, i'm conflicted.

idiot

what kind of cpr was that

yeah, while you were attention seeking, Harry was dying.

eyeroll

fucking hell, that's not how this works, you stupid bitch

oh my fucking god

this treaty has been around long before you were even a thought.

*eyeroll so hard i do a backflip*

why do i do this to myself?

just yell, you idiot

*eyeroll so hard my eyes get stuck*

DEMETRI!!!!

FELIX!!!!

JANE MY LOVE!!!!!!

I FUCKING LOVE HER SO FUCKING MUCH

has Demetri always sounded like that?

ALEC!!!!!!

oop

shut up, Jamie Campbell Bower

oh my god

Felix, did your hand get bigger?

creepy little pervert

i see why Michael is always cast as the creepy weirdo.

oh god, i just noticed the children

why are you acting like you literally didn't just try to kill yourself??

Jesus, with the number of times I've rolled my eyes I'm surprised they haven't gotten stuck.

I'm gonna barf

his arms are the size of my fucking head

awe

oh my fucking god

I'M GOING TO SLAM MY HEAD INTO THE FUCKING WALL UNTIL I FUCKING DIE

I HATE YOU

I HATE ALL THREE OF YOU

see what you did, you've fucked up both their lives.

you've been together for like 5 minutes

[oflights]

Ask game:

Healer draco and wandmaker harry! Also, fics with the kids included!

*i love your works!*

thank you, dear! that's super sweet.

for healer draco

A: Love it. Spend my time combing AO3 for it.

looove this, it's such a fun career path for him (and harry, for that matter!!). my toxic trait confession is that years ago i wrote a long healer draco series that i took down for various reasons, partially because i was like. 20ish and still figuring my writing shit out. it's still passed around online from time to time. ANYWAY, my point is that i had a lot of fun building a whole workplace world and cast of characters for st. mungo's and so i really enjoy reading healer draco fics where that world is well-developed!!

for wandmaker harry

A: Love it. Spend my time combing AO3 for it.

again, such a fun career path!! i'm pretty easy for virtually any fic where harry's not an auror and i love stories that center on him building a post-hogwarts life that still involves a fascination and wonder with magic, that allows him to keep learning too, so wandmaker always fits that nicely!

for kidfic

C: Neutral. A good author might be able to sell it, but a bad one will kill it deader than dead.

the only reason this isn't an A or B is because i tend not to love next-gen centric/epilogue compliant fics (or namely, fics where the epilogue setup is centered). which is not to say i never like those and absolutely do enjoy some of them, but they're not my preference.

however, kidfics that exist outside of the epilogue dependencies are my absolute jam. harry raising teddy is a personal fave, and i also really love a good draco + kid (EWE scorpius or otherwise) + stepdad-ish harry dynamic, that just hits me where i live every single time!! hjp as the dad who stepped up meme?? that's the stuff right there.

if there are any other tropes you're interested in, ask me to grade tropes! (especially big drarry ones)

[impishtubist]

i, in fact, a remus lover. a remus defender is you will. however all of my WIP fics that are my favourite (yes i have favourites of my own works shush) have just, shitty remus. which. is because shitty remus is the remus to love! i excuse his wrongs because well, i let the marauders commit any imaginable crimes. however i will admit.

remus lupin grovelling on his knees in order to get sirius to forgive him? perfection.

like yes. remus lupin was undoubtedly depressed for twelve years that his best friends were dead and the love of his life committed a heinous crime. is it reasonable for him to simply,,, not know where harry was for twelve years? also yes. for all he knew harry could’ve been in some random orphanage. however, he outta have known harry would’ve,,, ended up in hogwarts in ‘91. He could’ve written McGonagall or Dumbledore (ew) even and ask to set up a correspondence with harry during his time at hogwarts! or he could’ve done that fancy little trick where the owl finds the person the letter is addressed to! is it possible that vernon or petunia would’ve then burned those letters? yes! but at least then he tried. like actually tried. and side note, he definitely was concerned about raising someone as a werewolf (seen through him trying to abandon Tonks)

and third year! he got,,, fairly close to harry in POA, not like sirius and harry but in a fairly good manner. their relationship showed they were somewhat close! even if it wasn’t exactly. however to immediately cease contact with him? no excuse. he knew where harry was. he knew how to get in contact with him. he was in the OOTP where harry’s godfather was so he could get in contact through that. like yes is it weird for an ex professor to randomly get in touch with you despite not being attached to the hip? absolutely! however remus was sirius’s lover??? was his boyfriend for years? or at least best friends with sirius! he was harry’s uncle at some point! he was uncle moony at some point! it wouldn’t have been weird! harry would’ve loved it.

although the cherry on top of the cake is him, attacking harry. i say attacking loosely, it was a curse/jinx and he left, but still. he had abandoned his wife and child (or was tonks just pregnant at this point? i’m unsure!) due to his reasonable fear of hurting teddy with his lycanthropy (not reasonable enough to just abandon them imo, if he didn’t wanna be a dad he could’ve gotten condoms!) and tried to join harry’s horcrux hunt and his immediate response to being called a coward is to just,,, hex a seventeen year old??

so yes. remus lupin is allowed to commit sims and i love it! i love when the marauders r lowkey shitty and toxic. however he ought to grovel at least once.

yeah alright I'll allow this ask to come through 🤣 I don't believe Remus is allowed any sins but I DO agree he is toxic and he ought to grovel, and that like. 90% of his actions re: Sirius and Harry are inexcusable. Especially Harry. But you are a Remus enjoyer and I respect that. I hope you have a great time writing about him. And I will continue to call him a shitty, shitty person who needs to grovel and beg and work for Sirius and Harry to forgive him.

Remus on his knees for Sirius? Begging and pleading? Yes please give it to me. This was very entertaining to read, thank you for brightening my inbox tonight.

[your-everyday-theatre-kid]

Ima answer them on here MUAHAHHA 100 questions here we go, world...

Spotify, SoundCloud, or Pandora? Spotify 100%

is your room messy or clean? Messy...

what color are your eyes? Chocolate Brown

do you like your name? why? I do. I think its really pretty, and reminds me of a flower for some reason.

what is your relationship status? Talking. ;3

describe your personality in 3 words or less Gay, weird, sensitive/kind

what color hair do you have? Brown

what kind of car do you drive? color? I don't have a car

where do you shop? Idk?? Normal places?? LMAO

how would you describe your style? a lot of things, I'm a mix lmao. Emo-core, Kawaii-core, grunge-core, kid-core, weird-core, goth-core and more ig (a lil bit of cottage-core)

favorite social media account Mine on Tumblr

what size bed do you have? Twin SALDY *Dies*

any siblings? 1 sister

if you can live anywhere in the world where would it be? why? London! I love the culture, and the place and would THRIVE there.

favorite snapchat filter? I don' have Snap

favorite makeup brand(s) Idk what brands I use LMAOO-

how many times a week do you shower? 2-3

favorite tv show? Heartstopper, Ouran Highschool Host Club (Anime)

shoe size? 7 1/2 Womens

how tall are you? 5'5

sandals or sneakers?  SNEAKERS

do you go to the gym?  No

describe your dream date A soft picnic at a park, and heading to one of our homes to cuddle and watch movies :3

how much money do you have in your wallet at the moment? none-

what color socks are you wearing? White (Im basic :<)

how many pillows do you sleep with? 1 and a thousand plushies

do you have a job? what do you do? Nope

how many friends do you have? a lot, but only 5 CLOSE friends

whats the worst thing you have ever done? Idk. Dating toxic idiots before I was bisxual lmaoo

whats your favorite candle scent? Idk I don't use candles often. Strawberry smth

3 favorite boy names Luke/Luka, Nick/Nicholas, Adrian

3 favorite girl names Zoe, Veda, Holly (what? there PRETTY names!)

favorite actor? Idk Tom Felton? Daniel Radcliff? (I love HP lmao)

favorite actress? Emma Watson ig

who is your celebrity crush? Jenna Ortega, Billy Loomis (fictional but still), Most Ghibli guys, IDK?

favorite movie? Any studio Ghibli Anime, Harry Potter

do you read a lot? whats your favorite book? A little, idk Harry Potter probably

money or brains? Both ;)

do you have a nickname? what is it? Lola. (inside joke between a close friend.) Only 1 person may call me it tho :3

how many times have you been to the hospital? Once, when I was birthed ;)

top 10 favorite songs Don't make me choose. sorry.

do you take any medications daily? Rather not say

what is your skin type? (oily, dry, etc) Idk???

what is your biggest fear? Solitude/loneliness/being forgotten/erased from everyone

how many kids do you want? Idfk none right now cuz Im a minor

whats your go to hair style? Bangs, down

what type of house do you live in? (big, small, etc) tiny apartment

who is your role model? Idk

what was the last compliment you received? I was called Sweet <3

what was the last text you sent? I told someone they were really cool

how old were you when you found out santa wasn’t real? SANTA IS REAL! :333 <333 Teehee~

what is your dream car? Idfk something cool. Maybe really pride gayass looking car BAHAHA

opinion on smoking? BAD no ew. *GAGS*

do you go to college?  Norp

what is your dream job? Actor/Singer

would you rather live in rural areas or the suburbs? Inbetween

do you take shampoo and conditioner bottles from hotels? No

do you have freckles? No but I LOVE THEM AND WANT THEM SO BAD-

do you smile for pictures? Without teeth, yes!

how many pictures do you have on your phone? I use a laptop not a phone, but a lot

have you ever peed in the woods? Mhm camping

do you still watch cartoons? Yeaaaaaa :3

do you prefer chicken nuggets from Wendy’s or McDonalds? WENDYS

Favorite dipping sauce? Ketchup

what do you wear to bed? Shorts and a T-shirt if not, what I wore to school cuz I'm lazy

have you ever won a spelling bee? No, but I got top 5 in 5th grade lol

 what are your hobbies? SInging, Theatre, Writing, TV, TALKING WITH FRIENDSSS

can you draw? No. But I like it?

do you play an instrument? My vocal cords~

what was the last concert you saw? none expect for a Pentatonix one I don't remember cuz I was 4 and some Dirty Heads concerts when I was 4 BOOOOO I WANNA GO SEE CAVETOWN

tea or coffee? Neither, ew

Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts? Starbucks is yummyyy but I've never had Dunkin Donuts

do you want to get married? Sure!

what is your crush’s first and last initial? ZD 0///0

are you going to change your last name when you get married? Maybe depends on my spouse's last name

what color looks best on you? Idk?

do you miss anyone right now? Mhm my friends

do you sleep with your door open or closed? CLOSED.

do you believe in ghosts? Sorta idek? Not really?

what is your biggest pet peeve?  BEING IGNORED or pitchy singing (no offence)

last person you called` Best friend/Ex

favorite ice cream flavor? Chocolate or cookies and cream

regular oreos or golden oreos? Regular, also wtf are golden oreos-

chocolate or rainbow sprinkles? rainbowwww GAY

what shirt are you wearing? Retro Kirby shirt :D

what is your phone background? (laptop) is my crush (STFU IF YOU SEE THIS >///<)

are you outgoing or shy? In between?

do you like it when people play with your hair? YES OMG YES errrr

do you like your neighbors? No. There crackheads ngl Drug dealers/pedophiles and shit

do you wash your face? at night? in the morning? Night

have you ever been high?  Not that I know of lol

have you ever been drunk? No

last thing you ate? idk. Oreo Ice Cream cake from my b-day lolz

favorite lyrics right now anything Cavetown

summer or winter? Spring ;3

day or night? Mid day

dark, milk, or white chocolate?  WHITE mhmmmm <3

favorite month? May (birthday month too)

what is your zodiac sign Taurus

 who was the last person you cried in front of? Idk my friends probably or my crush

Yall should do this (if you want ofc :3): @bloodstonevs @killerdinosourusrex @averagesbgenjoyer @atlaspoetically @nu-get @small-giggle @i-need-coffee1573 @irisandthegayestpotatoes @fishdlc @selgrey07 @jasonsbricky @venusplanetoflove2

Unusual Asks

Spotify, SoundCloud, or Pandora? 

is your room messy or clean?

what color are your eyes?

do you like your name? why?

what is your relationship status? 

describe your personality in 3 words or less

what color hair do you have?

what kind of car do you drive? color?

where do you shop?

how would you describe your style?

favorite social media account

what size bed do you have? 

any siblings?

if you can live anywhere in the world where would it be? why?

favorite snapchat filter? 

favorite makeup brand(s)

how many times a week do you shower?

favorite tv show?

shoe size?

how tall are you?

sandals or sneakers? 

do you go to the gym? 

describe your dream date

how much money do you have in your wallet at the moment?

what color socks are you wearing? 

how many pillows do you sleep with?

do you have a job? what do you do? 

how many friends do you have? 

whats the worst thing you have ever done? 

whats your favorite candle scent? 

3 favorite boy names

3 favorite girl names

favorite actor? 

favorite actress? 

who is your celebrity crush?

favorite movie? 

do you read a lot? whats your favorite book? 

money or brains? 

do you have a nickname? what is it? 

how many times have you been to the hospital?

top 10 favorite songs

do you take any medications daily? 

what is your skin type? (oily, dry, etc)

what is your biggest fear? 

how many kids do you want? 

whats your go to hair style?

what type of house do you live in? (big, small, etc) 

who is your role model? 

what was the last compliment you received?

what was the last text you sent?

how old were you when you found out santa wasn’t real?

what is your dream car? 

opinion on smoking?

do you go to college? 

what is your dream job? 

would you rather live in rural areas or the suburbs? 

do you take shampoo and conditioner bottles from hotels? 

do you have freckles? 

do you smile for pictures?

how many pictures do you have on your phone? 

have you ever peed in the woods? 

do you still watch cartoons? 

do you prefer chicken nuggets from Wendy’s or McDonalds?

Favorite dipping sauce? 

what do you wear to bed? 

have you ever won a spelling bee?

 what are your hobbies?

can you draw? 

do you play an instrument?

what was the last concert you saw? 

tea or coffee?

Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts?

do you want to get married?

what is your crush’s first and last initial?

are you going to change your last name when you get married? 

what color looks best on you? 

do you miss anyone right now? 

do you sleep with your door open or closed?

do you believe in ghosts?

what is your biggest pet peeve? 

last person you called`

favorite ice cream flavor? 

regular oreos or golden oreos? 

chocolate or rainbow sprinkles? 

what shirt are you wearing? 

what is your phone background?

are you outgoing or shy?

do you like it when people play with your hair?

do you like your neighbors? 

do you wash your face? at night? in the morning?

have you ever been high? 

have you ever been drunk? 

last thing you ate? 

favorite lyrics right now

summer or winter? 

day or night? 

dark, milk, or white chocolate? 

favorite month? 

what is your zodiac sign

 who was the last person you cried in front of? 

[aibidil]

New fic! "again, for the first time"

Title: again, for the first time Pairing: Draco/Harry Length: 15k Rating: E Content/genre: post-war EWE, sobriety, recovery, addiction, alcoholism, no relapse, getting together, feeling the feels, living life, passive aggressive parents, past toxic relationship and friendships, trolling via coca cola, texting, invasive questions, alcohol culture, sober sex, lucius wants draco's opinion on lawrence v texas (2003), sober solidarity, past Draco/OC, tonic and lime, exploding kittens, settlers of catan, a lot of talking, character age: 20s Warnings: I can't imagine this fic wouldn't be triggering if you have a problematic relationship with alcohol. I know it would've been triggering for me. (Sometimes that's not a bad thing.) Details for safe reading: Both Draco and Harry are sober at the start of this fic and neither of them relapses or even considers it, though Harry mentions a past one-day break in his sobriety. There's also: a shitty ex, a parent commenting on a child's weight, peer pressure from others and the world to drink, people you love being shitty (not Harry or Draco) Summary: Five times Draco lied about why he wasn't drinking, and one time he gave an honest answer. Or, a love letter to sobriety. Link: https://archiveofourown.org/works/40803819 I think it will be obvious upon reading that I basically flayed myself open to write this. The muse demanded I do something with my experience of quitting alcohol, and Harry and Draco are apparently my artistic medium, lol. I've been sober just over three years now, so the feels in this fic aren't new for me, but it's maybe taken this long for me to get the perspective to see those feels in their wholeness. If you're also sober, I'm sending you major solidarity fist bump. If you're uncomfortable just seeing this post cross your dash, I'm sending you all the love and a promise that it gets better, if you let it. *Cheerses you with my Topo Chico*

Read it on ao3!

[dhr-ao3]

The Everlasting Kind

The Everlasting Kind https://ift.tt/qyNdDK1 by megiswritingsomething “Vow yourself to me.” “What?” she questions, her brain too rattled to take seriously the severity in Malfoy's tone. “What occurs beyond those doors may be a vow forced upon us to take, but let this one be of our own making.” Hermione opens her mouth but nothing dares come out. “Vow your mind and body to me as I vow mine to you, to let you hate it and fuck it and ruin it for the rest of our lives.” ---OR--- The one where Hermione and Draco hate each other so much that they decide to fuck it out. Mere moments before their wedding. Words: 4497, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English Fandoms: Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling Rating: Explicit Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Categories: F/M Characters: Hermione Granger, Draco Malfoy Relationships: Hermione Granger/Draco Malfoy Additional Tags: Harry Potter Epilogue What Epilogue | EWE, marriage law, Arranged Marriage, Inappropriate Use of Malfoy Signet Ring (Harry Potter), but with a twist, Possessive Draco Malfoy, Toxic Draco Malfoy, Blood, Blood Play, Vaginal Sex, Confessions of Hatred (but make it sexy), Banter as Foreplay, No Really They Seriously Hate Each Other, POV Hermione Granger, BAMF Hermione Granger, Hate Sex, Hate fucking, Biting, explicit - Freeform, Explicit Language, Explicit Sexual Content, Death Threats (but make it sexy), HEA, Vaginal Fingering, Orgasm Denial, Draco Is Submissive but Only for Hermione, in the sense that they are both alive and together by the end via AO3 works tagged 'Hermione Granger/Draco Malfoy' https://ift.tt/YL0Zm6z June 03, 2024 at 01:17AM

[thismaydestroyme]

Y/N and Harry are the most desired couple in our town. According to their friends they knew they would be destined for each other forever. What could they say? They are the hottest couple known to man. 

“Babe! Let’s dance. I want you close.” Harry said tugging you away from your friend group. 

“Get a room.” They all shouted out. “Harry let us have Y/N. We envy her and both of you make me sick.” Amber said. You’ve known her since you two were in elementary school. All of your friends seem to agree with her because they all decide to nod their heads in agreement. 

“No! She’s mine and I want my baby close to me.” Which is ironic because Harry is behind you with his arms wrapped around you and you can feel his mouth on your neck leaving love bites behind. 

“I- Harry.” You moaned because Harry knows where to leave those heinous bites on your neck to have you begging him to do more than these love bites.

 “Ew, gross. Take her please. I don’t want to hear any of those moaning from you.” Alex said turning his back from you guys. You couldn’t help but to laugh and take Harry's hands to the dance floor.

Harry wrapped his hands around your waist while yours was wrapped around his neck. You guys couldn’t stand the thought of not being able to touch each other. Touching is one of your guys love language and without that you two would suffocate to death. 

“I’m in love with you Y/N L/N.” Harry said without taking his eyes off from you. 

“I’m in love with you too, Harry Styles.” You said admiring how lucky you are to have him. Your relationship with him isn’t always rainbow and sunshine but it’s all worth it if that means you’re able to have him like this. In these moments. These are the moments you realize Harry is your breath of fresh air. Harry is the only one who can bring you the most happiness but at the same time he’s the only one who could bring you the most pain. 

That’s you and Harry's love story. You two are so toxic for each other but he’s also the love of your life. 

You guys were too into the moment that you didn’t realize your friends captured a picture of you too deeply in love.

[twopoppies]

I'm a larrie. And I have a lot to unpack so if you don't want to answer this I get it but Buckle uppp

So I saw dwd teaser and I was weirdly aroused by that aggressive kissing scene. I was like ew (not because Harry and Florence aren't attractive persons but the context..) Unfortunately these types of toxic traits are romanticised so wildly. I got out of an abusive relationship and during the relationship i always thought giving your partner whatever they want is what love is and roughhousing around is what desire is and all that horrible things because that's what has been in the books I read and movies I watch throughout my childhood (not blaming anyone obv but just saying). If twilight is creepy then 50 shades of grey is a mindfuck. I know that it isn't healthy to base your love life on those now, but once upon a time it was the craze. The idea of innocence and corruption was idealized too much. I hated bdsm and I thought it was demeaning for a long time untill I stumbled upon a Tumblr post passionately dragging 50 shades through the mud and listing resources upon resources for safe bdsm practicing and crying about how there isn't a contract because nobody is selling their soul to anybody and it is a mutually beneficial relationship based on trust. So I kinda get why het harries are eating that up(not saying it's good. It's very very bad. I beleive our media consumption plays a role in our life and if this is what they idealize then I feel sad to think about their relationship) . That wasn't even a kiss !! That was aggressive and I'm pretty sure Alex (that's what Harry's character is rit?) was holding on to Florence's upper arms hard and was kinda hard to watch for me. I will obviously not be watching the movie cause it deals with many of my triggers and Harry is one of my comfort persons and I don't wanna see him act that way (eventhough I know it's a movie.. the subconscious mind is a mess) So if you're one of the kids who frequent Gina's blog solely to annoy her or us larries with horrible opinions of Harry (or Louis) .. keep in mind that this is not real life. I've been there and it was hard to get out of the relationship and I'm still facing the consequences and building yourself up after been torn down is not easy.

I feel kinda sad because you have mountains of instances and moments of Harry and Louis' loving, healthy relationship - supporting eachother, loving and writing songs about adoring eachother and having an incredible dynamic and beautiful personalities. And instead they focus on those superficial beards and their hand-hovering-on-waist-pictures. It's so not worth it and I don't know how they'll react to the real world. I will never sympathize with someone who are homophobic (or whatever reasons they give to not believe Larry) but I pity them.

Anyway it's not our job to make them understand anything but I just wanted to rant. Hope I haven't clogged up your anons too much!!

Hi darling. You haven’t clogged anything up at all. It’s actually a subject I’m really passionate about. Media (film/tv/books/advertising etc) has created a world where so many young (and not so young) people think the way you did. The idea of the “bad boy” tamed by the love of a “good woman” is so ingrained in our culture, that people fall into incredibly unhealthy relationships and confuse abuse with love and affection.

I know that clip in the teaser is barely seconds long, but people are very focused on it. Harry’s character, Jack, is a horribly abusive sociopath in this film. He might be attractive, but his behavior shouldn’t be romanticized. And yes, Jack looks like Harry, but we shouldn’t confuse the real Harry with a character he plays.

[meetmymouth]

could you write something about the reader not having a family because they don’t get along (toxic shit) and she doesn’t have contact with them but harry’s family is basically hers now?? 🥺

this is so sweet :( hope u like this!!!

masterlist + concepts + smutty concepts

nb: not proofread!

You’re wrapping the last present when you hear the front door close, and it makes you smile knowing Harry’s finally home. You hear him call your name and a jiggling of keys, and he comes in with his beanie in hand and nose all red. 

“Hi beautiful girl,” he throws the beanie on the sofa and kneels next to you on the floor.

“Hi, baby. Missed you.”

“Mmm, missed you too,” he presses his head close to you and you turn, pressing your mouth to his and he meets you in a sweet, slow kiss. “What’s all this then, hm?”

“Oh!” you beam and look at the variations of presents on the floor between your legs, all wrapped in red, shiny wrapping paper. “Presents! I wrapped them meself,” your eyes close and a proud grin appears on your face, “This one’s a bit... wonky, but... ‘s fine. I don’t think Gems would mind.”

Harry’s face brightens with a smile, dimples on full display, and he reaches to stroke your cheek. “I thought I told you to wait for me to buy any presents.”

“We can still do that! I ordered these long time ago.”

“My sweet girl,” he looks down and you meet his gaze, and he presses a kiss to your nose, “You didn’t have to do that. Y’know my mum will get all emotional again.”

“I know but I love Christmas ‘n I love your family... I love giving presents. Want me to show you what I got Gems? She’ll love it.”

It’s now Christmas, and you’re all sitting in Anne’s living room, a wine glass in everyone’s hands, and Harry cuddles into you when you reach to brush his hair off his face.

“Let’s open the presents!” Gemma shouts as she walks out of the kitchen, a bowl of peanuts in hand and everyone agrees.

There’s only a few people since everyone in the family loved quiet Christmases, meaning this year it’s only you and Harry, Gemma, her boyfriend, and Anne. It’s perfect, it’s family.

Your family.

“I wanna go first,” you hear Harry yell from his place in your arms and you help him stand up since he seems to be tipsy. 

Gemma rolls her eyes, “Why? You always go first,” she takes another sip of her wine. 

“Because everyone knows I give the best gifts.” 

“Sure. Whatever helps you sleep at night, hun.”

“Mum, can you tell your daughter to stop arguing with me-”

Anne clears her throat, “I’m not getting involved.”

“I’ll go first,” you chime in and giggle when Gemma sends you a wink. 

Everyone agrees, Harry does too with a huff, and you bring your presents to the centre of the room.

“Okay so...” you decide to start with Michal, Gemma’s boyfriend, “This one’s for you, Mish.”

“Thanks babe,” 

After a hug, you take another from your pile, “Gemma.”

She gives you a hug and a kiss on the cheek. When she sees the stickers you put on hers, frog ones, she lets out a laugh and you grin proudly, turning back to the pile for another one.

“I already gave Harry his present-”

Gemma interrupts you as she unwraps her present, “Ew!” 

“Shut up, that’s not what I meant. Anyway... so, Anne. Here’s yours. Hope you like it,” you look up at her and she’s already in your space, arms open as she waits for you to give her a hug.

“Happy Christmas, Anne,” you squeeze her and she kisses your forehead before taking her present from your hand.

You had put tags on everyone’s present and Anne’s also had one. She squints to read it and you see her bottom lip tremble.

It’s not just you who sees it though, “Oh bloody hell, she’s cryin’ again,” Harry says from the sofa.

“Oh shut it! Oh gosh, darling...” she looks up at you with teary eyes.

“What’s it say? Why’s she cryin’?”

When Anne looks down at the tag once again, she doesn’t even bother wiping the tears off. She sniffs and a tiny smile appears on her face, and it makes you smile too. 

She sniffs again and brings you into another hug, “It says ‘for Mum’.”

[awesomefringey]

I made the incredibly stupid mistake to go on a rad blog today because my curiosity got the best of me. I immediately saw posts of Harry, so I went and searched his name on their blog. Oh my god. These people are rotting. How do they not feel the mental effects of being that bitter 24/7? Spreading ideas of Harry being an evil, money obsessed narcissist, spreading loads of bullshit rumors about him and women, constantly bringing up his numbers and comparing them to Louis....I knew it was bad from how it was described on my dash. But I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt, I wanted to believe that surely you guys were exaggerating what they're like. But no. No, no, no. 😱

Ew, oh no, that sounds awful.

I never dared to look up rads blogs myself, only to block them… LOL. But Gina told me plenty of their mind set, like how to them Larry was real, but their relationship was always toxic and Louis eventually broke it off and now Harry is obsessed with him.

Not sure what their latest take on it is. But from what you’re saying it doesn’t matter, they just love to hate Harry.

[sassyfrassboss]

I actually want someone that Harry actually respect to talk him down this craziness. But so far I don’t think he respects anyone that doesn’t give him what he wants. If he can do it to his own grandmother…. Just like how Meghan can do it to her own father. Yikes. They’re the one that’s toxic. Imagine cutting both sides of the family and your friends then claim you’re so innocent and cry about it on TV. Ew. No wonder Obama and non desperate HW didn’t want to associate with them anymore. Good luck to Netflix and Spotify though lol.

Harry and Meghan were never told "NO" or if they were, they threw fits until they got their way. That's what this is, a fit. Like my son does when I tell him he can't have another toy.

It's a full on childish tantrum because Harry doesn't like being told he can't have something.

At this point I don't think Harry has anyone in his life who can talk some sense into him. Meghan poisoned his mind and brought out all of the hidden issues he has, so we get the Harry we see today.