#happened. which i do not care to repeat. who sends someone’s vaguepost to the person they were vaguing that’s such bad etiquette fr 🙄 | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

livvyofthelake · 3 months ago

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well basically like raise your hand if you’ve ever been blocked by a close mutual you though you were actually friends with and not just fandom-mates because you expressed an emotion they didn’t like because apparently they only want to interact with people who watch the same media as them and when you didn’t anymore they stopped talking to you and the media you DID have in common they gave up on once they found something more popular and seeing as that thing happened to be your favorite thing you graciously let them have because you believed you were friends and they would treat it with care and love but they didn’t and it made you feel like they didn’t respect you or like you or think of you as a person but rather as a faceless entity who sometimes could make Posts about tv shows you have in common. despite the fact they know what your face looks like because they’ve seen it because you’ve gotten together on zoom and watched movies together like friends do but that doesn’t mean anything i guess if you try to delicately have a conversation about how you feel because they just immediately dismiss you and start talking to you like you’re coworkers in a polite email chain because you said you didn’t like their tv show. which was a fact they already knew but didn’t take seriously because they were apparently never viewing you as a person! or has that only happened to me.

#and i’m not trying to make a callout post and start drama this is just my blog where i talk about my life #and i wouldn’t start drama because i’m not stupid enough to think anyone would take my side because no one likes me more than this other #person i’m pretty sure. due to the everything about me that kinda sucks i guess #but more so to do with the fact that there is a very small number of people on here i actually feel like. friends with. and everyone else #just follows the fandom posting they like best. which is fine and i do that as well #but i would probably be devastated if someone else i thought i was friends with didn’t pick me. so i’m not saying anything #i mean you could ask. but lately i’ve felt very fleabag season 2 episode 1 opening scene dinner. so #(‘no one’s asked me a question in 45 minutes’)#anyway. yeah. awesome. ok #um and it should go without saying that if there’s a traitor in my midst (dramatic way of saying that. i’m not actually like. beefing)#don’t like. send this post to who i’m talking about and make shit awkward. you’d think that’s common sense but it’s not #when i was ousted from stranger things fandom for committing the heinous crime of not liking steve there was a lot of insane shit that #happened. which i do not care to repeat. who sends someone’s vaguepost to the person they were vaguing that’s such bad etiquette fr 🙄#and i can’t believe how nice i was about it to those people i should have killed them that shit was so stupid #you had to be there #and also this isn’t fandom drama i’m just sad. so it’s completely different #because the fandom drama example i just gave was pure pettiness and bitchiness tbh. i was 20 what do you want from her

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