#guilttrips

[xjulixred45x]

Calypso:"--bow down to the inmortal Calypso, here to entretain. But fear not, i bring no pain."

Also Calypso: ignores the desires of Odysseus of going Home (with His Wife and Son), keeps him captive in her island and harrass him for seven years straight to the point he tries to commit suicide**

And--look at His face.

He is grossed out, angered, scared of Calypso.

You can't Say that Calypso didn't know that Odysseus didn't wanted to stay.

Besides, can we talk that Calypso, even though want Odysseus to be her lover, dosen't really treat him like a person? The way she speaks to him(betitles him, shush him, etc) is more like it's talking to a PET.

Even her reaction when she successfully traps Odysseus! That's not a reaction of someone in love, it's the reaction of a kid when You give them a puppy, a "Oh! The thing i always wanted! I finnally got it!" And shows Even further the power inbalance between the two.

Idk, i Hate Calypso SO MUCH but i LOVED the Wisdom saga. Period.

[rpmemegraveyard]

Please un-learn guilt-tripping, not only in the RPC, but in online spaces as a whole.

This is a passive behavior that people may not even realize that they're even engaging with. I understand wanting asks, starters, replies, or any engagement with this collaborative hobby. However, a lot of people say things such as;

'I wish more people would interact with me...' 'My (canon muse) isn't as good as other (canon muses) in the rpc...' 'I should just delete... Nobody's writing with me...' '(reblogs open starter again) #some replies would be nice...'

I hate to be blunt, but ask yourself. When was the last time you sent your mutuals some asks, anonymous or not? When was the last time you replied to someone else's open starter? I understand being in a bad funk, but there are better ways to deal with those negative emotions that don't involve guilting your follower-base for not engaging with you constantly. You can't be possessive of your following and expect them to be happy to engage with you. Your writing partners are people, too.

Please stop guilting people, and recognize when you may be doing it when phrasing things in specific ways. Un-learn passive aggressive engagement with your following and partners as a whole. Put yourself out there if you think other people aren't. Be the writing partner that uplifts people, not make them feel 'obligated' to engage with you. Please.

[glittergroovy]

guilttripping - frnkiero andthe cellabration

[strawberrymars]

Adam and Michael have pictures of themselves hung up all over the house and no one can tell which is which except for them

[freakinator]

vagueing but i think certain ppl need to realize that you can be both manipulative And traumatized 😭

[saddest-girl-in-the-whole-world]

my headcanon for post canon happy griddlehark is that Gideon would say "One flesh, one end, Harrow!" every time they have the smallest disagreement or she's in trouble like she'll burn their food and when Harrow makes even the smallest comment about it Gideon immediately explodes like "What happened to one flesh one end???? Oh, undying devotion but one burnt cheese pizza and you cast me aside??? 10000 years of tradition, harrow! I died for you, you know?"

[blockcurio]

CURIO has been consistently defending a longtime abuser while hypocritically namedropping people all while claiming reblogging callouts is bad.

CURIO, you are either the most easily manipulated person on this dirtball of a planet or you are willingly and desperately scraping the bottom of the barrel for people to write with because "oh patch was never abusive to me so I'm good"

CRYBULLY behavior. YOU haven't changed despite what you told the older callout blog.

[nigesakis]

im not above begging pleading kneeling whimpering crying throwing up

[risoria]

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[andrrrgynous]

you feeling your unfiltered emotions openly will never ruin someones life !!!! its healthy to get angry and to cry and to be upset and if someone truly cares about you they will let you express these emotions freely and safely!!!!!!!

[your-dazzling-sun]

⚠️⚠️⚠️vent ahead⚠️⚠️⚠️

ONE OF MY ONLY FRIENDS LEFT IN SCHOOL IS MAD AT ME BECAUSE I'VE BEEN REACTING WITH ONLY ONE THING TO ALL THEIR CHANNEL POSTS AND THEY WERE GONNA ASK ME TO STOP SO WHILE THEY WERE TYPING TO ASK ME TO STOP I SAID "no im not going to stop reacting with it" AND OK MAYBE THAT WAS A BIT RUDE BUT THEN SHE STARTED TALKING ABOUT HOW "when you thought youve been really nice to them but then theyre just straight up rude to you" "i guess im too annoying😞" "maybe ill just leave them on read next time" ON THEIR STATUS. THIS SAME FRIEND GUILTTRIPS ME AND TENDS TO HURT MY FEELINGS ALOT, SAYING I SOUND SELFISH WHEN I RANT

IVE BEEN PUTTING UP WITH THEM AND SHOVING MY FEELINGS ASIDE FOR THEM, AND NOW THEYRE ACTING LIKE THIS BECAUSE I WAS TOO DIRECT

I EVEN APOLOGISED AND THEY JUST LEFT ME ON READ I CANT ANYMORE

[wilcze-kudly]

There is an argument to be made about Kuvira and Baatar Jr getting pardoned too quickly and not having to face the consequences of their actions properly.

But being house arrested in the same building your siblings who were on the other side of a full-blown war live in just sounds like the cruelest punishment.

We deserved to see more of Huan, Opal and the twins channelling their grandmother's spirit and being just the bitchiest to Baatar and Kuvira.

[peachshadows]

How would Sd!Wukong feel if he ever did find out about sd!bai he?

"You're... you're fostering a child- a mortal child no less."

Macaque scoffs, bringing the cup of immortal wine to his lips, "You have some nerve scolding me when you secretly sired your own."

"You know that is different-!"

"And why is that?! Is it because you're the emperor that you could merely do whatever you want? Laying with another because you lack loyalty-"

Wukong slams both of his hands on the table, practically shaking the earth from its force. "I have been nothing but faithful! You, out of everyone, know that my devotion to you is unwavering."

"You have the nerve to lie to me again." Macaque slams down his cup with such vigor that its contents spilled. He gets up without a word, walking up to the entrance.

"You- we are not done!"

"Frankly, my emperor. We are."

[glittergroovy]

guilttripping - frnkiero andthe cellabration

[mascflowers]

If you think a post just asking you to be a better ally is guilt-tripping, maybe there's a reason you're feeling guilt and it's not because I'm tripping it.

[ahsoka-in-a-hood]

I have this problem where I can be angry at someone and punish myself over it. I don't even mean that I feel guilty about being angry, or punishing myself for being angry. No, it's way way dumber than that. I mean I'll be angry at them and metaphorically stab myself in the leg in a fit of 'that'll show them!' but i'm not going to tell them that either, so my anger just manifests as (not literally) hitting myself alone in my room while they go on with their life none the wiser.