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Anyone else relate or is this just a unique reason to put my head through drywall
#first time it was a christian girl I was doing research with#who shipped me and another guy in the lab despite fully knowing I'm gay#and suddenly today my mom was like 'it would be so cute if you dated [sister's boyfriend's brother]!'#like. love that you've ignored me coming out to you several times I'm having so much fun#tracking tag#rambling
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Had a conversation last night with someone about the two times I've ever dated and I realized that when it comes to the first guy in middle school who came out as gay after like two weeks, he was probably using me as a beard cuz at one point he called me with his mom and had me tell her we were dating but cuz of anxiety it took several minutes for me to actually say it but that was likely him trying to convince her like "Hey I've got a girlfriend, see I can't be gay!" and like, homophobia from his mom aside, that's really fucking funny that I was a beard without knowing it and like six years later I ended up being a gay guy myself.
#he ended up having to move schools cuz i guess his mom thought that would fix the whole gay thing but it obviously didnt and that like.#sucks that his moms a scumbag and idk what#kinda conversation they had going on between him breaking up with me and him moving schools but like. man i feel bad for him#i met him again years later and he smoked a cigarette in the creek then left the butt in the water DESPITE THAT VERY MUCH NOT BEING A COOL#THING TO DO. so like. turns out hes not a great guy actually. i at least hope his moms not in his life if she still sucks.#personal#btw no im not hurt at all if he really was JUST using me as a beard. which is highly likely. nobody feel bad for me please lmao#and looking back on it. my only date with him was at his church so that lines up too. idk what he was probably catholic or christian
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I'm definitely not the only queer person who's kinda wary of Christian ppl they encounter online right?
Like I see a profile that clearly states they're Christian and they post like Bible verses and shit and I'm just. Hoping they're not queerphobic. Or saying some dumbass shit like "hate the sin love the sinner" or whatever while pretending that's not queerphobic
If they're interacting with me first it's pretty safe to assume they're not gonna be like that bc I'm very obviously queer (🏳️🌈 + pronouns in bio) but if it's someone who hasn't interacted with me at all I kind of instinctively avoid interacting with them out of fear of them being that way. Y'know
#ramblings#i think it's bc even tho i've never been religious and my family isn't like a super uptight christian family#i have encountered a preacher who was homophobic and transphobic before#he's puerto rican too which just makes me disappointed in my people tbh#i grew up surrounded by a lot of accepting ppl both within and outside of the family#as well as a couple gay/trans ppl#i was always taught that that's just the way some ppl are and that we should respect that#even if we didn't fully understand everything and weren't up to date with the latest most accepted terminology and stuff#ppl were just respectful and let others be themselves#so it's extremely hard for me to understand why other ppl would be queerphobic#i mean. i kinda get it. it what they were taught growing up. just how i was taught to be accepting and respectful#but why ppl would continue to teach that to their kids and perpetuate queerphobia is really what i don't get#like. accepting that ppl different from you exist and that's ok isn't going to kill you#maybe learn abt the world from other sources besides the bible and try to see different perspectives#instead of shutting yourself off to just one way of thinking and hurting ppl in the process#anyways. i think it's also bc i've seen too many really religious ppl on the internet who are also queerphobic#and they have these big platforms of ppl who support them and share their views#and like. i shouldn't generalize. but they paint an ugly image of christians in general#also like. christians throughout history don't have the cleanest track record#but i know a lot of christians nowadays aren't like that. in fact i'm willing to say most aren't#but still it's like. better be safe than sorry y'know#idk man
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i would like. to love sometime. thanks
#my gay ass almost started crying in the bathtub last night.#because i was. thinking about a hypothetical wedding again#while listening to Days of Candy by beach house#if i got married it would be secular. and that song sounds like a hymn to me. but without the christianity part#anyway. i am 28 years old#i have had one long distance boyfriend. one awkward coffee date. and i have never held hands with another man#let alone kissed or be held by one#my only experience with physical intimacy has been SA from women#i hope that someday. someday i get to experience love like other people do#in the interim. i have my wistful daydreams.#could this be classified as trauma dumping. idk. i think its okay for men to be vulnerable sometimes#i am going to listen to beach house.
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#randys lived his whole life in the toxic christianity#the only guy hes ever actually loved goes and sleeps around with and dates about every girl he talks to#while making jokes abt randy being in love with him “or something”#and theyre literally hooking up but its js a stress reliever and it doesnt mean anything and hes not a faggot#randys convinced hes the worst sinner in the world hes gay and he “doesnt” believe in god anymore#god never fixed him right so why should he#and hes still taking care of that guy and getting close and staring and comforting him everytime he gets upset about whatever#hes getting called a faggot nearly everytime someone recognizes him bc god you can only come rescue a guy so many times before it gets weird#and henrik. who was never raised religiously with no base for any of his homophobia aside from “my dad doesnt like that”#calling maria a faggot when she came out and not talking to her for weeks#and hes not gay right because he likes girls and has had girlfriends#but theres everything with randy and hes calling girls randys name and hes bringing up randy about every chance he can get#faggot carved into his skin and almost being murdered by his father off a baseless claim of him being gay#and then showfall. grrrr
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legitimately confused about how the extended paternal side of my family hasn't realized i'm gay. i have blue hair, have never had a boyfriend, and wore a suit to prom, i doubt it's that hard to put two and two together to get raging homosexual.
#lgbtq#lgbtqia#oblivious family#is it because they're christian?#lesbian#i am the gay cousin#i know for a fact that if i came out to them theyd be so shocked#i didn't have a date to prom either#i explicitly tell my grandmother that any male friends i mention are not boyfriends#so confused
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SOOOOOO hard to go through everyday life trying to ignore the never-ending feeling that im just irreparably fucked up and therefore should just give up on everything
#this aint exactly s******* but it aint exactly not s******* either#anyways it gets even harder when i have to live under the same roof as my brother who is so much better than me in every single conceivable#and imaginable way possible like#and i knowwww a LOT of it comes down to us having relatively similar yet wildly different lives despite being 1.5y apart and having the sam#family our entire lives like he has gone through NOTHING and i mean not a single societal issue ive had to face and endure my entire life#he's a man im a woman. he's white im black. he's straight im gay. he's skinny ive always been 'overweight'. he's always been the good#christian kid ive always had issues w faith and religion. he's never been mentally ill i was clinically depressed for nearly 8yrs of my lif#we both lost the same parent and im the only one who got pathological grief and a personality disorder out of it. he's had a great job for#the last 7yrs that now pays him 20k+ every month ive only had 3 odd jobs my entire life and 2 of those my MOTHER had to give me so i would#have SOMETHING and ive never made over 1.6k monthly n my last job was minimum wage only#he's had like 4 relationships and is nearly engaged im so traumatized + emotionally unavailable ive only ever been on 1 date my entire life#he has a good relationship w every family member we have i have Issues w like half the family. he's always been an active member of our#church i can barely listen to like 4 traditional hymns before i start losing my mind and spiraling. i think the only two ways we're pretty#much equal like socially is that we're both able bodied cis and christians but still the cis and christian thing is debatable for previousl#stated reasons so like. do yall see how much better he is doing than me in every little last area in life and how he's always gotten the#long straw when it comes to Not having to deal w certain obstacles in life. n i know its like yea idk what it actually is like to be him an#he could not be doing all that well first of all shut up. second of all if it was 1 or 2 things i'd get it but it's literally EVERYTHING#and i know bc of said things n our v different lives it's unfair to me to compare the two of us but then it begs the question: WHY#WHY did i have to go through these things. WHY do i have to deal w this. WHY did i get the short straw literally every goddamn time#WHY did i have to get THIS life like WHYYYYY why ME GOD. why have I had to put up w all this bullshit for 24 fucking years!!!!!!!!! im TIRE#and this is not me hating or resenting him i know it's not his fault and he is so good to me#but still. why was i left with these things? to live like this?#so yes i guess i do envy him a little bit. who wouldn't#mari.txt#personal#tw negative#dl#btw i do NOT mean some identities are better than others. i mean he is better and is doing better than me in life partially bc he's never#had to deal w certain social issues and obstacles that come w oppressed identities.
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#dating#men#singles#dating apps#meme#lgbtq#gays#homosexuals#romance#christian mingle#evangelicals#memes
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in fairness I probably should have realized that I was a lesbian sooner because anytime a guy gets flirty or gets flustered around me I'm just like "please dont. Just, don't." meanwhile in one of my classes the professor introduced a totally different format for the next quiz where students can collaborate with each other, and the hot girl that sits next to me was like "man analyzing this poetry is so much more difficult than the previous quizzes" and I was like "I'm pretty good at analysis, we can work on the quiz together" and she looked so relieved and also I cannot emphasize how pretty she is and was 80% of my motivation for helping her just because I'm incredibly gay? possibly.
#melon rambles#anyways. this is why you romance your local gay nerds in college (<- said by someone who has yet to figure out who the other gay nerds are#but would love to be romanced)#genuinely my game plan is to continue being the 'friendly neighborhood lesbian' that I joked about being with my friend#dating girls at a christian college is difficult but surely I can pull someone by being a friendly nerdy weirdly strong 5'10 butch lesbian#like. that's gotta be someone here's type
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(small rant)
#looool not my dad going on a homophobic rant so randomly yesterday night…. he was talking to my lil brother on how to act properly when he#goes to uni saying to be careful and look after your drink cause people be spiking then he was explaining how some boy in uni got his drink#spiked by someone (maybe his friends) and apparently he got m*lested then my dad went on his homophobic rant cause apparently was men who#done it???? but why u bringing up gay people when a man got m*lested?? that doesn’t make sense like how far did u have to reach?? anyways i#clapped back at him and said that those two doors not correlate with each other and people can love who they want to love it isn’t your#business. but anyways yeah he realised showed himself to be a homophobic ass loser my mum wanted to hype up and defend him like gurl you#know damn well that i got to gay pride events and i know you’re just talking cause u wanna impress him (loser ass pick me) but yeah my#parents will never have that access to me when it comes to who i’m dating romantically because of the face i’m a lesbian they will never#know they hardly know who i am anyways ESPECIALLY MY DAD loser ass#like how embarrassing is it you’re a hating ads loser allowing that colonising christianity to hate on innocent people trying to live their#life like your high blood pressure is raising up for no reason other than your pressed#like how do you understand racism so damn well but you cannot put 1 + 1 together and see that christianity has done a number on us and our#igbo culture africian queer people have always existed it was not a western 🙄 thing ffs
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at 12/13 years old, i was introduced to the term "masterbation" for the first time in my life (I'm aroace so maybe that's why i didnt care/know about it before then) and it was from the mega church i went to.
all they taught us about it was that it was a sinful urge and that people spoke to our pastor from all over the world to "cure" them of it and one dude even wrote in a testimony to say he'd been praying to be "free" from that sin and was now "cured" from masterbation for x number of years.
i remember 12/13 year old me turning to my youth leader and asking what masterbation was cause the pastor wouldn't actually tell is what it was, just that it was bad. i dont remember what her expression was but she didn't exactly answer my question and i kept been confused for a few years before finding out on my own and thinking i was going to hell for sinning by accident.
kids who werent raised christian being like "lol baptising children is whack if they tried to do that to me i would start doing things to make it look like i was possessed" no you would not. you would bask in the pride and approval coming from the adults around you and you would quietly wait your turn because you were told from birth that sinning sends you to hell and baptism is The Promise that youre dedicating your life to jesus that youve had hyped up for years and watched other people be fawned over as they cry happy tears about it and you do NOT want to fuck up your One Big True Promise To Love Jesus Forever So You Don't Get Tortured For Eternity when you are literally 8 years old. im begging yall to remember its a thousand times easier to see the church's bullshit for what it is when you're not actively in the church. eight year old you is not thinking about trying to fight back against an oppressive religious group indoctrinating children because You Are The Children Being Indoctrinated. stop acting like you would've magically known better if it were you.
#tw christianity#tw christians#tw church#another incident i clearly rmb is this one dancer from our church suddenly not performing anymore during praise and worship#i found out from a friend that the dancer had be kicked out of the group cause they found out she was gay#can you imagine that... kicking a Christian child that YOU raised out of your church dance group for being gay#it doesn't even matter that she could still attend the church... they kicked “their own” out for something she couldn't help#when I was younger i scoffed at people saying my church was a cult and thought nothing of our leaders encouraging us to date within the#church cause we were all familiar with each other and wouldnt it be better to date someone who loved the lord as i did?#then when i grew up and lost faith in the people in the church (and consequently god himself) i could see all the cracks in the facade#how when you were kids they'd chastise you for dating a friend in church and boy/girl relationships#but as soon as you started uni they would start “setting you up” with the same Christians in the church who they forbade you from dating#and you see all your peers or youth leaders finding partners within the church and marrying after a couple years#it's scary when you're in it cause you're just a kid who knows nth of the world and wants to be accepted by your peers/family#you have NO outside insight or help cause all anyone says is that “it's a cult” but those people aren't your family who raised you Christia#so what do they know? they might just be jealous of your faith and want to sway you
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ALRIGHT I’m home now and I also called my mom and my dad was listening in too. Anyway my dad says that that line about going from there is him being like. Into the idea and not just agreeing to hanging out because I’m asking. And my friends were like WOOOHOOOOO but idk man I am so stressed out I don’t want to fuck this up 😭
edited to add (so i dont spam posts tonight) i think on saturday i'll wear my normal clothes and hat but i'll keep my hair down. hes seen me without a hat on briefly (via fieldtrips and wearing hardhats, and at work, but that's with my hair in a bun and a hairnet on) but hes never seen my hair like. Down. and i want saturday to be like subtly special. not like knock his socks off special but yknow. a little more vulnerable than jeans and a sweatshirt
#I mean you guys have literally been here since I was first like ohhhh#man idk. I like him and I want to see what happens#and I think I’ll stay in SD a little longer anyway because I really cannot go home. it’s so fucking noisy and smelly all the time#argghhhhhh. okay I’m going to eat dinner now#I love you tumblrinas#alright im back from dinner. anyway that thing about staying in SD is like if I DO end up in a relationship i dont want it to just end#and hes staying in SD. but unless i got a job at His Job we'd be commuting anyway#but 2 hours or whatever is better than 14#anyway. im getting ahead of myself. but i just need a good reason to not go home#i just cant do it. i cant go home.#for one thing. its easier to deal with the grief if im not Right There looking at his food dishes every day#oogh also.... hes gonna have to hear about sam eventually. especially if we start dating. which will coincide with March pretty well#i dont know about that....#i mean i told my friends tonight i was like 'i have so many secrets' and they were like you dont have to tell him EVERYTHING.#but idk i do feel like if im gonna trust someone enough to date them they should know my secrets#im so scared lol idk how people just do this shit#also what if hes a good little christian boy and hates gay people. IM a gay people.#okay anyway i NEED to study for repro like this is life or death. i need to pass repro#(life or death bc either me or dad will end me if i fail lmaooooo)#boy post
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as someone who went to a private christian high school this perfectly describes multiple kids I went to school with all I'm saying is private christian high school is the perfect modern au setting if you're looking for a setting that captures systemic abuses of power like westeros
i am pretty anti asoiaf modern aus bc they seem to exist to remove any problematic content. this is why my modern au where larys is a school shooter and alicent is a pro life bible thumper is way better and different. plus american high schools love to reward homophobic and misogynistic repressed hot guy cops so it’s an au where criston always comes out on top
#alicent is the girls chaplain has been since she got elected sophomore year 4.0 gpa top of her class golden girl#she helps organize a school trip to the march for life and is just. aggressively a white evangelical christian#she comes across as mature and grounded to like. the adults in her life and most* of her classmates#that's mostly a front to compensate for immense self-loathing and guilt (purity culture)#most* meaning there are kids she Does Not Like and she makes sure to make their lives marginally worse#she's not super overt about it bc she has an image to uphold so its mostly her being a snitch to her dad otto the ap gov teacher#definitely homophobic but thats mostly a cope to compensate for her occasional gay thought#naturally she feels a lot of frustration and resentment for her environment/the people around her but#bc shes in a repressive conservative religious space where perfection is expected of everyone but her specifically#she has no real way of working through her emotions and takes everything out on people she perceives to be lesser than her#shes definitely the kind of christian girl who is super nice to your face but talks mad shit behind your back and then denies it#she is a product of her environment and will probably get better when she gets to deconstruct+go no contact w otto+come out in college#criston on the other hand is the captain of the football team boys chaplain popular guy he is king of the school. he is thriving#is this his peak? yes. does he realize this? no.#he does not know these are his glory days because#he dated rhaenyra (headmasters daughter) for like two weeks freshman year and she dumped him right b4 homecoming#mostly so she could go with harwin the new transfer from the local all boys catholic school#criston never lets this go and as a result never has a normal relationship bc all the girls in their grade know hes hung up on rhaenyra#he and alicent wind up dating junior/senior year but that's mostly a political maneuver so they can win prom king/queen#under normal circumstances theyd probably be great friends but once again. theyre in a such a toxic environment#that their relationship is 100% superficial. just a means to and ends socially. for alicent at least#criston on the other hand is convinced hes found his high school sweetheart future tradwife#they break up like 3 days after graduation and criston immediately joins the military#and larys? larys is the nerdy kid who snitches to the principal in exchange for special privileges (tormenting his peers)#he gets expelled when he gets too cocky and the art teacher overhears him telling his classmates hes gonna bring a gun to school#(<- based off something that happened at my hs)#I am so sorry about the wall of tags but I started thinking and could not stop.#hotd au#<- so I can come back and maybe draw this..
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Ma foi est pièce centrale dans ma vie et je suis confronté à certains dilemmes en tant que homosexuel Je suis espagnole de naissance mais bougé en France avec la famille alors que j'avais 7 ans. J'adore la culture ici et je suis bien ! Je vis en banlieue de Toulouse sur Plaisance-du-Touch 31830. Je recherche un bel homme pour amour et mariage, je suis chrétien et c'est important pour moi... Discuter avec Diego
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