#fuzzgender

[daybreakthing]

Flexfuzz ⚓

a flexgender & fuzzgender combo term!

for anon!

etymology; flex, fuzz!

tagging @radiomogai!

[xenogender-culture-is]

Fuzzgender culture is saying “i can explain!” And then sitting there in silence

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[cubeflag]

Fuzzgender flag

(When you know that you're a certain gender, but can’t explain why you are that gender.)

[knightcoric-archived]

some more xenogender bi flags!

circgender bi - mythologender bi - abracagender bi werewolvio bi - fuzzgender bi - daimogender bi

pls credit me if you use- thnx!

[imoga-pride]

hi! this may be a really abstract question but how does one determine their gender? I THINK im not a boy, girl, or completely neutral, but besides that it's a blur and I don't know why. I've just been using queer/nb to describe myself but it doesn't feel complete enough. similar problem with my sexuality :( how can I figure out what I am? (sending to around 3 blogs so I get multiple advices)

Aporagender/Aingender: Umbrella term for genders separate from male, female, and anything in between while still having a very strong and specific gendered feeling.

Abinary: genders that are completely unrelated to the gender binary (such as agender, quoigender, maverique or most xenogenders).

Maverique: gender characterized by autonomy and inner conviction regarding a sense of self that is entirely independent of male/masculinity, female/femininity or anything which derives from the two while still being neither without gender nor of a neutral gender.

Atrinary/Aternary: genders that are completely unrelated to the gender trinary/ternary of male, female and third-gender/aliagender/neutrois. 

Genderblur or Genderfade: Where your gender changes constantly but fades away into something else rather than making a hard or abrupt transition (ex. feeling like a girl, then slowly feeling more stargender than girl, then feeling only stargender, etc.).

Genderfuzz or Blurgender: A polygender identity where one experiences multiple genders that blur together, making it difficult or impossible to identify what gender(s) one is experiencing at any given time.

Fuzzgender or Fuzzygender: When you know that you’re a certain gender, but can’t explain why you are that gender.

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

this isn't necessarily a request to create one if it doesn't exist already, but are you aware of any terms specifically for having a known, static gender that you're very sure of and may even have a name for, and you know *exactly* what it is, but you struggle to *describe* it in a way that can express it accurately to others for *their* understanding? i haven't the foggiest idea how to search this; everything i try just gets me stuff about fluid, questioning, and/or uncertain genders.

Perhaps something like this? I think a lot of charagender people use the word because they can't express their gender experience, making it unique to them as a person.

Egogender or Charagender: A gender identity that feels unique to the person who is experiencing it, based on their own identity as a person. Can be defined as being “me-gender,” a gender identity that is intensely personal and belongs solely to that person.

Or, perhaps some of these might be more accurate:

Fuzzgender or Fuzzygender: When you know that you’re a certain gender, but can’t explain why you are that gender.

Invisigender: A gender experience that is for some reason partially or fully invisible.

Genderblank: A sensation that one’s gender is indescribable, that there are no words to explain it.

- Ez

[shrimpmandan]

I’ve been reflecting some on my views lately.

I wanted to give my thoughts on the MOGAI community and my perspective on it as a neurodivergent trans person, and just kind of reflect on my stance on and understanding of it. This is really rambly because it's 3 AM and I'm tired, but this is just my own perspective on the MOGAI community and its relation to transmeds. I think the issue I have with MOGAI is mainly its conflation with being transgender, and how these terms are labeled with -gender at all.

To preface for anyone who doesn’t follow me and is just scrolling through tags, I'm autistic + ADHD, and to my knowledge a binary trans man. I consider myself a transmedicalist and anti-MOGAI, just on the basis that I don't think MOGAI genders can be, well, genders. From what I understand, gender is your neurological sex. I know there's been critiques of the brain sex theory, but it's the one that makes the most sense to me. In essence, your brain can't be pupgender because pupgender isn't a sex. I'm very science-oriented and I'm not inclined to support something as a label if it does not describe a real, proven occurrence. 

Though, I understand why people, particularly people with autism, use these labels. Some of them appeal to synesthesia, a complicated experience often comorbid with autism. I understand how an autistic person with synesthesia would 'feel' their gender. Hell, I know I do. I always described my gender as a feeling. Now, gender is more complicated than just 'a feeling', but my point stands. An autistic person may think their gender is foggy due to synesthesia, though I don't think there are any existing studies discussing such a correlation yet. Other labels, such as "autigender", are simply descriptors. It's not "my gender is autism", but rather "my gender is affected by my autism". This is where I have another issue. MOGAI labels are made for neurodivergent people, so why are they named in such a way that makes it really easy to misinterpret them literally? Even neurotypicals I've met see "autigender" and infer that it means "my gender is autism". Additionally, when getting into neopronouns, a lot of neurodivergent people have difficulties using or remembering neopronouns and how to conjugate them. I literally can't use nounself pronouns because it fucks with my language processing issues so much. But again, I can understand why they're used. Some neurodivergent people have difficulties using singular they/them. I read a post about someone having standard pronouns (he/she/they) be misophonia triggers, so they use neopronouns that don't trigger such a response. My only issue there is just how many there are. Thon/thons existed as a singular neutral pronoun at one point, and I think we should bring that pronoun back for folks who can't use standard pronouns comfortably, without having this laundry list of them.

In my opinion, MOGAI would be basically harmless if MOGAI genders weren't conflated with being transgender. Simply put, most transgender people can't relate to the MOGAI crowd. And by extension, what is MOGAI fighting for? How would their activism fit into ours? I know that many people who use MOGAI labels are also transgender, but some of 'em aren't. Some MOGAI users are cis neurodivergent people who have varying difficulties understanding or describing their gender. Now, I never experienced that, so I can't relate, but I can see it. I can see why a cis ND person would think "my gender feels kinda fuzzy" and then be like "fuck it, guess I'm fuzzgender." But, that doesn't make them trans. This weird conflation between MOGAI and being trans is extremely harmful and what a lot of people in transmed/anti-MOGAI circles take issue with. A lot of us don't relate to MOGAI and feel like our issues are being trivialized by this narrative that gender is just a fun way to express yourself, which is sadly not a reality for a lot of trans people, especially the teens who are pre-transition (the ones who are typically transmeds). It feels extremely invalidating for many. 

I think this is just down to the way MOGAI is presented. MOGAI was originally coined to be a more inclusive term for LGBT after all, and MOGAI genders are branded as, well, genders. I think that MOGAI should be rebranded and adjusted to be more cohesive (so that there aren’t a billion labels that are unused or just repeats of each other) as well as better described so that they don’t necessarily conflate with being trans. I've seen some people propose calling xenogenders "xenoidentities" instead, for example. "Xenodescriptors" could also work, possibly. I'm the type of person who tries to look for compromise. While I do put labels on my stances, my opinions on issues tend to be more complex than the label lets on. There's definitely a way to make both communities happy and healthy and fulfill their intended purposes. It's just difficult to get anything done when most of the online discourse is spent shitting on each other and harassing each other. I frequently see both transmeds and tucutes be doxxed, harassed, suicide baited, et cetera et cetera. That doesn't accomplish anything. That's just bullying. Name-calling and harassment is just bullying. If we could just facilitate a respectful, meaningful discussion and work together as communities to understand each other better and come to an agreement, then this discourse wouldn't need to go on any longer. Nothing is black and white. Both sides have their reasons for feeling the way they do. This applies to literally every other major LGBT discourse going on as well, from bi vs pan to acecourse to whatever the hell else. We need to make an effort to understand each other. This post is absolutely open for discussion if it doesn't get buried. I think I covered both sides pretty well but obviously the experiences of people who actually use MOGAI labels are much more important than my views from the outside. I’m cross-tagging this since I don’t want this to just be flooded with one side. I am actively welcoming interaction from either side on this post. Please just ignore this post/block me if you don’t wanna see it. This isn’t cross-tagged with malicious intent. I simply wish to gain more perspective on why people may use MOGAI labels, and also why other transmeds dislike them so. I obviously could be missing a few things.

[werewolviograpeking]

Disclaimer: not a cringe or flop profile. Be respectful or fuck off.

Names: Andy, Oleander, Sweetgum, Hydrangea, Killdeer, and Grim.

Pronouns: He/Him/His, It/Its, Vae/Vaem/Vaer, Vey/Vem/Vir, Rot/Rots, Ai/Aine/Aire, Ae/Aem/Aer, Gore/Gores, Bey/Ber/Berryself, Bone/Bones, Shriek/Shrieks, Blood/Bloods, Fright/Frights, Scream/Screams, Grim/Grims, Tooth/Teeth, Fle/Flesh, Horror/Horrors,  Eer/Eerie, Ni/Night/Nights/Nightself, Dark/Darks/Darkself, Deep/Deeps/Deepself, Moon/Moons/Moonself, Mid/Midnight/Midnights/Midnightself, Bee/Ee/Bees/Beeself, Hon/Hons/Honeys/Honeyself (alternatively Hon/Ney/Neys/Honeyself), In/Sect/Insects/Insectself, Sting/Stings/Stingself, Hi/Hive/Hives/Hiveself, Nect/Nects/Nector/Nectorself, Wasp/Wasps, Buzz/Buzz, Swarm/Swarms, Crow/Crows, Mush/Mushroom/Mushrooms/Mushroomself, Fungi/Fungis/Fungiself, Weird/Weirds/Weirdself, Creepy/Creepys/Creepyself, Creep/Creeps/Creepself, Soil/Soils/Soilself, Fog/Fogs, Rain/Rains, Wolf/Wolves, Howl/Howls, Lycan/Lycans, Snarl/Snarls, Decay/Decays, Twi/Twilight/Twilights/Twilightself, Dusk/Dusks/Duskself, Sea/seagrasses/seagrasself,Sea/seas/seaself, Aqua/aquatics/aquaticself, Eco/ecos/ecoself, Mea/meadows/meadowself, Swim/Swimself, Wave/Waveself, Splash/Splashself, Murky/Murkyself, Plush/Plushies, Shroom/shroom/shrooms/shroomself, Toad/stool/toads/toadstoolself, Sprout/sprout/sprouts/sproutself, Poi/son/sons/poisonself, Hyph/ae/hyphs/hyphaeself, Bio/lumine/scents/lumineself, Spore/spore/spores/sporeself, Ber/serk/bers/berserkself,  Rapt/Raptor/Rapts/Rapts/Raptorself, Wer/Wol/Weres/Werewelf

Genders: Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Nonbinary, Transgender, Transmasc, Werewolvio, Werefoxio, Noxvir, Monstergender, Drestalitraurre, Cinthecampic, Canfelisfluid, Arcadeavir, Hadalic, Viricryptian, Vauturum, Herbmasc, Bugcatgender, Buggender, Hydranfleuric, Luvric, Gendernoctis, Canisgender, Feralcanisgender, Wolfgender, Timbergender, Leatuslupis, Somnolentuslupis, Lycadhgender, Virwolfin, Weywolfin, Wixwolfin, Fuzzgender, Wildmasculine, Facelessnuetral, Crowmoongender, Moongender, Crowgender, Weirdmushgender, Foggyraingender, Weresciencegender, Decaywolfgender, Noxmusaesic, Leuboy, Boyfuck, Alderavayn, Noctofloric, Bodyhorroric. Duskcatboy, Moonlexic, MaDDallion, Phosmarial, Initialuni, Phosluneclipsial, Phosdimial, Wildlexic, Deadboy/Boydead, Phosmunsetial, Bluehouraestic, Shapeshiftergender, Florescet, Lunamothaestic, Queeraestic, Moonaestic, Gorenaturic, Phosnightial, Biolumien, Comfinoctic, Creaturething, Seagrassmeadowian, Horroric, Wrongsomian, Phostarrial, Sharkgender, Murkyswimmic, Clearswimmic, Moonjelliegender, Astrobyssian, Mulaayamic, Eerilen, Genderyna, Phoslunial, Phosfullmoonial, Mycologic, Botanyologic, Zoologic, Mushcatgender, Mushpupgender, Pluvicathoodic, Foggyqueer, Darkwelestic, Frobloomgender, Cannibagorix, Hyenagender, Hysolgender, Pupgender, Catgender, Anacondic, Cephalogender, Tsukamina, Nightmarenonatic, Alderdragolos, Vicicanis, Wolfboygender

Sexualities: Demiromantic Grayromantic Omniromantic Asexual

Mental stuffs: MaDD, ADHD, PTSD

Comfort Characters: Vitani (Lion King 2), Kovu (Lion King 2), Needle Man, Snake Man, Garry (Ib), Sarabi, Mousefur, Goldenflower, Tawnypelt, Io, Cobra Lily, Whiteout, Scarecrow (Batman), Basil (Omori),

Genders I’m looking for: Dragon and reptile genders, more monster/horror genders, genders with mushrooms or fungi, genders with bugs, plant genders, shark and ray genders, deep sea animal genders, mixed genders of any of these, night genders, dark genders, hyena gender, guard dog like gender, and hoarding genders or collecting genders, nightmare genders, jaguar gender, several gender, wild cat genders, ugly or otherwise scary animal genders, and dinosaur genders, eel genders, horseshoe crab genders, 

[genderheaven]

[URL removed] asked: Hi this my first time asking anything ive been lurking for a while 😅 But do you know of any xenogenders that are kind of like not wanting people to know your gender and like mentioning it is uncomfortable?I was thinking of making one up because I haven't found one that fits me yet. almightly ez pls offer your insight 🙏 pls cover url 🙂

Hi, sorry this took me a while to answer! I found a couple of similar terms, so maybe some combination of these might work?

Anongender: A gender that is unknown to both yourself and others.

Fuzzgender or Fuzzygender: When you know that you’re a certain gender, but can’t explain why you are that gender.

Comgender: Polar opposite of Agender. To have/experience gender. A gender label to use if you do not wish to narrow your gender down any further than simply having gender.

Coigender: A gender that feels like it “is on mute” rather than being fully expressed.

Cassgender: A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender.

Genderweird: A term used to describe those whose gender cannot be described by any existing label, or cannot be pinned down as such.

Invisigender: A gender experience that is for some reason partially or fully invisible.

Genderblank: A sensation that one’s gender is indescribable, that there are no words to explain it.

Hmm, I thought I knew of more terms closer to what you described but can't seem to find them on this search. If anyone knows of one, feel free to reply!

[does-existance-exist]

name, pronouns, and identity masterpost

names

kellin - red - socks - nii - vil - sand - peanut - fi - gee - vay - remerson - kell

pronouns

- collective they/them - collective it/its - nyx/nyr - it/its - xe/xem - vam/vamp - che/chem - fang/fangs - ger/ger/gers - par/part - royale/royale/royales - horror/horror/horrors - bat/bats - te/te/tes

identities/labels

attraction labels - demiromantic - quoiromantic - asexual - lesbian - queer gender labels - agender - fem/non aligned - chaosgender - fuzzgender - queer - trans - transmasc

[daybreakthing]

Fuzzgender + flexgender term?

queued!

[xenogender-culture-is]

Fuzzgender culture is being like “yes this is my gender, or is it? I don’t know, it is right now... I think????”

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[1112lw]

lmao why tf is there a gender for someone affected by anxiety??? 

y’all ur making agender people look bad pls

[knightcoric-archived]

And some for fun Bigby icons using lycadhgender, fuzzgender, and werewolvio!

[imoga-pride]

Shinychu Flags

Shinychugender (chushinygender/shinygenderchu): the mix of chugender & shinygender. It could be xenogender/exemgender or fuzzgender.

Shinygender: A gender that is essentially the same as a particular gender, but it feels like your experience with that gender is “colored differently” from the majority of others who share your gender- you experience a gender very differently from others with that gender. [source]

Chugender/Genderchu: an umbrella term for pichugenders (pigenderchu), pikagenders (pikachugender/pikagenderchu) & raigenders (raigenderchu/raichugender). [source] 

Pishinychu Flag

Pishinychugender: A small shinygender that feels fuzzy with a small electric charge, related to Shiny Pichu. Also known as pichushinygender, shinypichugender, shinypigender(chu) & pishinygender(chu).

Pikashinychu Flag

Pikashinygenderchu: A shinygender that feels fuzzy with an electric charge, related to Shiny Pikachu. Also known as pikashinychugender, pikachushinygender, shinypikagenderchu, shinypikagender & shinypikachugender.

Raishinychu Flag

Raishinygenderchu: A larger shinygender that feels fuzzy with a larger electric charge, related to Shiny Raichu. Also called shinyraigenderchu, shinyraigender, raishinychugender, raichushinygender & shinyraichugender.

[transfagisms]

you can coin a gender related to any of these terms yourself if one does not already exist. but ive found a few related to these topics for you! a place i like to go to find lots of mogai terms and genders is mogaipedia.org. it is nice because it has a wide variety of organized genders but it is run by a transmed so it may be upsetting for some.

Canilupine is a faunagender defined as "a gender related to wolfdogs, feels either very tame or very feral, and unpredictable"

Caninarian is a faunagender defined as "Faunarian aligned with canines or canidae."

Huntigender is a faunagender defined as "a hunting doglike gender, or a gender influenced by or compared to hunting dogs in some way. can be used as a kin gender as well.

Genderlune is a naturogender defined as "a gender related to the moon itself, not dependent on phases or time of day."

Moongender is a naturogender defined as "a nonbinary gender connected to the moon and various aspects of it (the goddess Artemis, werewolves, etc.)"

Chessgender exists but it isnt specifically just “a gender related to chess”, it is defined as a gender that is "a nonbinary/genderfluid identity for when your gender fluctuates in certain patterns.” but as i said you can create your own terms if that doesnt fit for you. 

Lycadh / Lycadhgender is a gender relating to or influenced by lycanthropes in some way. it may be a kin gender as well.

Fuzzgender is a mythologender defined as "a gender that is related to being a werewolf. for when youre fluffy and go awoo"

Sonnegender is a gender related to or influenced by the sun, or a gender related to or influenced by the god Apollo. 

Apollogender exists, but its definition is a gender that has “nine parts making up its whole.”

hey could someone link me to any genders related to werewolves/wolves, the moon (full moon specifically), apollo, or chess??