#friend!!!!!!!!

[jeyneofpoole]

if duncan and jenny of oldstones had kids they’d be so insanely fucked up and also the most normal out of any targaryen children to ever exist . and i just needed to put it out in the universe … and ive decided you were the target . friend <3

i think it might very much be a ‘not right now sweetie mommy and daddy are having special alone time’ situation but like for the kids’ entire lives. they’re fine parents conceptually ig but they’re too busy being weird but boring with each other to go to the park on sundays and play catch. kids grow up vaguely neglected but not evil come home politely for westerosi thanksgiving every year have biweekly therapy about some great undefinable sadness you know the drill.

[chaotic-french-fries]

Yk what I haven't talked to you for a while, how are you doing :3?

HIII YES SORRY. I haven't been on tumblr much bc I have so much stuff to do irl. School started, and I work from 2-7 Monday-thursday and 3-8 friday-sat. I've just been so busy either doing school, at job, or sleeping that I kinda forgot tumblr existed 😭😭😭

feel free to text literally any time, im still chronicly on my phone LMAO

[iamunabletothinkofablogname]

Hey :33

I just wanted to ask if you read the Skullgirls comic? And if yes, what you think about it? <:3 ((if you didn't read this or don't want to right now that's completely understandable, I just wanted to ask what you opinion on this is in case you read it :]])

Also don't feel pressured into reading it!! >:)

*don't have a liver rn, but one of the love-flavored cookies with chocolate sprinkles*

So far i'm up to episode 3, the robots my favorite :3 I like the pacing so far and the world is very interesting :O also the curiousity and cat joke had me rolling 😭😭 Dw i didn't feel pressured! I'm just a master procrastinator ^^'' but tysm for being patient lol <3 [[:OOO Thank you!!!!]]

[a-little-unsteddie]

🌸✨💓THIS IS A TUMBLR HUG! 🧚🏾‍♀️ PASS IT ON AND HAVE A LOVELY DAY! ~♡ (´｡• ᵕ •｡`) ♡

EEP <3 tysm ilysm

[lrndvs]

compliments from girls go hard

[sepiamestus]

You guys should read thepromised neverland

[lambergeier]

the real danger of spending too much time with friends is you stumble out of ten days of happiness and good food like oh my god THAT was real life. my job means NOTHING

[cheries837]

[chaotic-neutral-knitter]

I think one of the kindest things you can do for people with various mental health struggles is just... let people back into your life after they've been absent for a while.

Making friends as an adult is so fucking hard already and isolating yourself from other people is a very common symptom of depression, anxiety, burnout, ocd, trauma, grief, etc. Which means that someone will do the hard work of recovery/healing and resurface back into a world where their previous friends have written them off because they stopped showing up.

So if you know someone where you're like "yeah we could have been better friends but they fell off the map a bit" and that person suddenly reaches out, or starts showing up to events even though you kind of forgot they were still in the group chat... well they may have been Going Through It and you don't actually have to punish them for their absence you can just be glad that they're back.

[dredsina]

Ive said this before but swear the biggest skill to learn as an adult is how to resist high-pressure sales tactics. You do NOT have to answer questions with anything other than "Sorry I'm not interested." No matter how nice they are or no matter how many follow up questions they ask or even how agitated they get when you stand your ground. Just keep saying I'm not interested. Don't answer their questions. Don't give them an opening to try to push back on your reasons. Be a fucking brick wall of I'm not interested.

[great-and-small]

My grandfather and my godfather (a beloved neighbor and dear family friend) had a long standing bet- for one dollar- about who would die first. Both of them being slightly pessimistic (in the funny way), they both insisted that they themselves would be the first to die. Any time my grandfather had a health scare, he’d gleefully call up my godfather to boast that he’d be passing “any day now” and he was sure to win the bet. It was a big family joke and they were always amiably sparring and comparing notes about who was in worse shape, medically speaking.

When my grandfather was in hospice care dying of liver cancer, my godfather was quite ill also. It took him great effort to make the journey to see his dying friend. As he came into the room, supported by a family member, he shuffled to my grandpa’s bedside and silently handed him a dollar bill. He was ceding his loss of the bet, as they both knew who was going first. My grandpa had been in quite bad shape for a while and was no longer able to speak but let me tell you he snatched that dollar with unexpected strength and literally laughed aloud. He knew exactly what the gesture meant and he couldn’t help but find the humor within the grief. It was the last time any of us heard my grandpa laugh, as he passed shortly after.

When I talk about my appreciation for “dark humor” I’m not so much thinking about edgy jokes, but rather the human instinct to somehow, impossibly, both find and appreciate the absurdity that is so often folded into the profound grief of life and death. When I tell this story I think it kind of perturbs people sometimes, but it’s honestly one of my favorite memories about two men I really deeply admired. I could never hope for anything more than for my loved ones to remember me laughing until the very end, and taking joy in a little joke as one of my final acts.

[blessedwithyuriandyaoi]

[triangleguy]

[alucardsinep]

[justphilia]

Marcille x Male Reader headcanons!

She leaves you for a woman.

[mostly-funnytwittertweets]