#fresbi

[1-su-un-milione]

GIORNO ZERO. Avevo sentito parlare di questo, ma non era ancora il mio giorno zero. Un mese fa la svolta. Ho trovato una nuova strada, in mezzo a questo caos. Lui è uscito di scena ancora una volta e onestamente ho perso il conto delle volte. Ad ottobre scorso, ha deciso di andarsene, in preda alla sua mania. Ho trovato tanti video che spiegavano i comportamenti narcisisti. Ho trovato così tante similitudini e ho finalmente compreso certe cose. Non che questo ferisca di meno, intendiamoci. Ma ho avuto risposte. Ho capito che la mania non avviene come conseguenza di qualcosa, tipo l estate, ma che lui vuole che accade, per vivere in una sorta di limbo, dove vaneggiare e sognare ciò che non può essere nella realtà. È un modo per sfuggire a tutto ciò che la realtà lo delude, si inventa opportunità che non avrà. Deluso dalla realtà della vita, ne inventa un altra, dove si sente importante, un re. Ecco, che alcune risposte le ho avute, hanno tutti un comportamento simile, simili modi di agire. Così son rimasta sola, ancora una volta, con i miei dolori. I miei tempi. A volte si è grati di essere riusciti a superare la giornata, e una vittoria. Si resta incollati a terra, poi arriva il passo successivo. E così che è sempre successo a me. Questa volta un po' diversa. Non lo cerco, non cerco un contatto, se deve ritornare non lo devo convincere più. Credevo che sarei stata persa senza di lui, invece mi sono scoperta più forte. A piccoli passi, a volte va meglio e altri giorni piango. E un processo necessario. Ho promesso a me stessa che se vuole tornare questa volta dovrà rispettare le mie idee. Non lo so se tornerà, non me lo chiedo, mi prendo il mio tempo, il resto si vedrà. Potrei non volerlo più, per ora è congelato. Non ho la forza per chiudere, lo amo o forse amo i ricordi, il passato che era buono, prima di tutto questo. Non prendo decisioni fino a che non lo sento. Ma ho deciso di pensare a me, ho ripreso a vestirmi con i colori, di essere più indulgente con me stessa, di prendermi cura di me. Ho sempre adorato i rossetti ad esempio, da bambina mi piaceva il sapore, e ancora adesso. Avevo smesso tutto, mi ero fatta condizionare dalle sue parole, mi aveva distrutto l autostima. Ogni tanto mi compro qualcosa, mi regalo qualcosa, me lo merito. Il lavoro va meglio, ho imparato a lottare per alcune cose, piccole grandi vittorie, ho ripreso a alzare la voce. Un giorno ho visto dei video di un ragazzo sulla dipendenza da zucchero e come uscirne. Ho avuto un illuminazione, ho capito quanto questo sia pericoloso per la salute. Mi ha fatto ragionare e ho visto purtroppo di quanto lo zucchero sia presente ovunque, perfino nel minestrone congelato. Ci stanno avvelenando, in modo silenzio o. Così, un mese fa ho deciso di eliminare ogni carboidrato. Niente pasta, pizza, xereali modificati e no, riso, farine, insomma tutto. Seguo un piano alimentare diverso, adesso non è più possibile, e sicuro. Sto vedendo i miglioramenti e questo incide anche nella mente oltre che nel corpo. Ho deciso di smettere quasi per sempre queste cose. Ci vorrà un anno per disintossicarmi e invertire tutti i danni, ma ho deciso di farlo, per la mia salute. Voglio provare a vivere il più lungo possibile e se questo metodo mi dà ragione, lo vedrò a lungo termine. Mi sono posta un obbiettivo e sono determinata. Sto ritrovando me stessa, e non importa quanto tempo occorre, un passo alla volta. Domenica son ansata con Andrea in un xampo All aperto, una bella passeggiata e giocato con il fresby, credo si chiami così. Mi son sentita bene, in forza. Ci saranno sempre alti e bassi, momenti in cui mi prenderà lo sconforto, ma ci provo. Ho trovato una frase bellissima che dice,, 'a volte quando siamo in un posto buio crediamo di essere sepolti, invece siamo stati piantati', e diventata mia questa frase. Quindi coraggio!!!!

[loft46]

Fresbi 850 suspension lamp, Achille Castiglioni for Flos 1978⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Direct, diffused and reflected light lamp. Diffuser plate in injection-molded opal polymethylmethacrylate (PMMA), attached to the body of the luminaire by three thin harmonic steel wires. Reflector in pressed, polished, nickel-plated, zapped sheet metal, painted in glossy white inside. Wall attachment and ceiling rose in injection-molded black ABS. #flos #floslighting #fresbi #vintagelovers #gooddesign #loft46 (presso Loft46) https://www.instagram.com/p/CM4iqGAnT8U/?igshid=1e9j8zil7esrf

[gayboober]

looking through these clips. god i picked up so many speech patterns from ranboo this is so funny

[cupets]

black and white dog running while looking to fresby

[anonymoushouseplantfan]

''I know! I think that will be final nail in the coffin. She probably has a cool $30k in clothes coming up''..Yep,that's the way I bet she'll use a Small-Ethnic Moroccan Brand to Spin the Bespoke $$$...And I have a theory,why she was 'quiet' for 2 days and not instantly leaked,because it was NYC Fashion Week,she used the two days to be out and about to meet the designers,see the collections,Merching/Fresbies and Set Up the Baby Shower,when she already had it all done she called the Press lol

That’s a good theory.

[cdarmanin83]

On n’oublie pas notre mascotte Fresby qui nous accompagne sur nos chantiers 😉 #fresby #shibainu #mascotte #cdarmanin

[arayabeautiful]

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[puzzler38]

Ultimo fresbie antes do Natal. Boas festas para todos! (em Esplanada Dos Ministerios)

[lety4ent]

Very important questions

These are usually asked by Tim Ferriss to his podcast guests and I thought it was a good time to share a few things with you guys. Copy-paste them in the comments and type your answers!

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1.- What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift, and why?

"Sapiens", by Yuval Noah Harari. It was mind-blowing to me. I think it has the power to set a high-level conversation on humankind.

"Tools of Titans", by Tim Ferriss. I think this book has all the necessary wisdom to have a wonderful life.

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2.- What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months (or in recent memory)?

Toy fresbi-rackets. My wife, kids and I play with them all the time. We love them. We talk while we play. You can invent new games all the time. We play indoors and outdoors.

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3.- How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a “favorite failure” of yours?

My failed romantic relationships are my favorite failures. They taught me - unintentionally - how drama would take me nowhere.

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4.- If you could have a gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it — metaphorically speaking, getting a message out to millions or billions — what would it say and why? It could be a few words or a paragraph. (If helpful, it can be someone else’s quote: Are there any quotes you think of often or live your life by?)

"Be bold now". People need to understand we are rarely at risk. We need more constant societal micro-experiments and more people to push them to have a better world. I live by this.

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5.- What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made? (Could be an investment of money, time, energy, etc.)

The best: starting a family. My time is limited now, so I am more focused. I feel I have become a more feeling-oriented person now that I have kids.

The worst: TBD.

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6.- What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?

I read magazines from the end to the beginning. I push all the "phone" conversations people want to have with me to WhatsApp-voice note level. I love to spend a lot of money on books I barely understand.

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7.- In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?

Running. I am a more focused and patient person thanks to it.

Building companies. It makes me feel I can achieve anything if I master the principles and resources around it.

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8.- What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the “real world”? What advice should they ignore?

Don't listen to people. Observe what they do. There's a huge gap between what people preach and what people do.

They should not pay attention to what their parents are telling them to do. They should love them and respect them, but this is a whole different world and nobody knows what's the right thing to do, so the experimental mindset should be the one to nurture.

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9.- What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?

"Follow your passion". "If you're good at something, do more of that".

People don't have to follow their passion. Passion is overrated. And if you are good at something, it doesn't mean you have to do that. You can and should try new things all the time.

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10.- In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to (distractions, invitations, etc.)? What new realizations and/or approaches helped? Any other tips?

I've learned to deal with difficult people by addressing problems right straight ahead and mastering the art of uncomfortable conversations. The more I do it, the easier they become. I say no to a lot of things, to the point that I have a lot of "free" time to use it in things worth pursuing, like my companies and family.

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11.- When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, or have lost your focus temporarily, what do you do? (If helpful: What questions do you ask yourself?)

"Do I really need to (buy/do) this?" (being it a car, a new house) or "Do I really need to work with/hire/spend time with these people (or person)?"

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[steve-chandra-blog]

[2-8-2017] Sunset makes every photo better. . . . . . So much fun playing fresbie and cycling with these guys 😊 📷 : @joelsiao P.S ada org lagi foto di sebelah kiri (at Chinese and Japanese Garden, Singapore)

[boxunderneathmybed]

Fresbie

I thought I had you, I still felt your warm palm holding mine while you slipped away. I thought I had you for the 1000th time since I first looked at you, and my heart pumped a little extra blood and my brain felt utterly excited and you shut the door and I had to walk away. I had to look at you and walk away again, and again and again and when I tell myself it's time to stop you smile and offer your hand and all of sudden I'm right there holding it so tight so for a second I feel that you're here and that you belong with me. See everytime you leave you take something with you and you started out with something simple as a morning thought or a sweet smile in the afternoon, and slowly it grew to taking my memories and now you half my entire heart on your hands and you like to throw it away like a freesbie and guess if it will ever come back to you. And I hate myself because I always do.

[cupets]

black and white dog running while looking to fresby

[versosviciados]

Lá pode ter um novo amor pra eu viver Quem sabe uma nova dor pra eu sentir A droga certa pra fazer te esquecer E apagar a tua marca de mim [...]

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