#for reference i use the combined term bigenderfluid | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

candy8448 · 1 year ago

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Glad to help :)))

If you want, there are more terms that possible you could explore? I dont identify as most of these so i may get something wrong but it is something to look into

Demigirl is feeling between fem genders and nonbinary genders. As far as im aware it is one feeling that is blended together, when in my experience bigender feels like two very different gendered feelings. Obviously you can still be bigender if you do feel maybe they are one blended gender if it feels right. Also i might be wrong in saying that it is one blended gendered feeling, as i said, im not fully sure on this but you can search it if you would like.

Genderfluid can fluctuate between many genders. I identify as genderfluid to represent how my genders might feel more strongly one day and the other another day (however that might be more genderflux but i personally prefer genderfluid)

Genderfae is like genderfluid but only between fem and non binary genders and not masc genders. Again, im not sure if this and genderfluid are one gendered feeling that changes but again, if you want you can use them two in the way i use them

If you feel that perhaps you have more than one or two genders, there are more multigender identities.

For example trigender (three), pangender (many), onmigender (all) and there are probably way more multigender terms that i haven't heared of. Again im not sure if those definitions are correct but you can search them up if you want

And i say the way i experience bigender are two distinct feelings, but in truth, some days i feel like they are really blended or that i am only one of them. Everyone's experience is different and if you think a term fits even though you dint fit into exactly what the definition means, you can use it! My bigender experience might be completely different to someone else's even if they also identify as female and male the same way i do

I hope i haven't overwhelmed you, i just thought i could give another nudge in some other things to explore (there may be other genders ive never heared of that fits you so perhaps just searching "gender identities" can help if those ones dont work for you)

Also i get the unsupportive parents thing, my parents are highly transphobic. You will probably have to keep things like this in hiding if you sre scared about them finding out and it probably will suck so im sorry about that, but if you have friends you can tell them to call you by that during times where you're not around people you dont want to know and ask them to just keep it a secret from these people. Ive also made pronoun braclets that are subtle by just being the colour and telling my friends which one is which, so if you want you can try and make more discreet things

Anyway stay safe and have fun exploring your gender Fia and if you do find that you are bigender, i welcome you fully into the community!

I want to be girlboy. I want to be boygirl. I want to be Mrs. boy and Mr. girl. I want to be dude in a skirt and that bitch in big pants. I want to be, 'oh she's my husband' and 'oh, he's my wife.' I want to be a masc girl and a femme boy. I want to be both, at the same time. You know?

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